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For more on how to read him: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook 24 Signs He's Secretly In Love With You Wouldn't it be great if there were secret signals that a guy likes you? Are there signs he's secretly in love with you? Well, the answer to that question is yes. No secret there. And I'm going to cover some of those secret signs here for you. The guy you're curious about might be working with you, or you're friends, or even the barista at your favorite coffee shop. Whatever the situation is, there are signs that guys give off that they are in love with you. All you have to do is know what to look for. And the truth of the matter is that it's always so easy for us to tell if someone we know is in love with a friend. But when it comes to us figuring out if someone loves us, it's always difficult. Or we just have our doubts... One of the best ways to figure this out is of course body language signals. The reason that body language is so reliable is that it's how we express our emotions without even knowing it. For example, do you know that you store your emotions in your body? In the actual cells of your body? Scientists have known this for many many years, and it's been proven by science. You may have even known someone with extreme emotional problems who was always suffering from some kind of disease or chronic ailment. The reason that disease shows up like this is because of the emotional issues they're struggling with. This relationship between emotions and wellness is documented and proven by science. So it only stands to reason that his interest in you will appear in his body language. We'll look at both the body signals he gives you that he's in love with you as well as the BEHAVIOR signals that he's falling in love. Before You Go Looking For Signs He's In Love With You... However, before you go looking for signs that he is in love with you, ask yourself this important question: Why are you looking for signs from him? The truth of the matter is that, YES - you should look for some signs of interest from him. And don't give up too much of your game early on by showing him how much YOU are into him. But very often what I see out there is women who are really trying to avoid being vulnerable. The whole reason she's looking for signs is because she's deathly afraid of being rejected. She wants to be absolutely sure before she shows any hint that she might like him. Which is really a self-protecting stance. Most of us have been taught from an early age to play it safe. Maybe it was our parents, maybe it was our childhood, but somehow we let this idea fester in our brain that if we take a risk, we could "lose it all." And that's one of the most dangerous lies we tell ourselves. Now of course, the idea that we could lose it all is extreme. But that's how our mind and our anxieties ramp up the hidden meaning behind rejection. We blow it completely out of proportion. Ask yourself: Are you afraid to start conversations? Are you afraid to reveal your true thoughts? Are you afraid people will reject you? Are you afraid you're not enough? All of these are normal fears for most people. But they don't have to be there at all! "No one can reject you without your permission..." - Carlos Cavallo When you realize you cannot be truly "rejected" without your permission - you will stop fearing this irrational outcome. In fact, the fear of rejection actually traces its way back through evolutionary psychology. People feared rejection because it usually meant they were cast out of the tribe. So just keep in mind that when you hold yourself back into a position of looking for signs and signals rather than acting, you are embracing your fearful state. Be willing to step up and be vulnerable. You don't have to lose yourself or compromise yourself. But if you want to connect with a man in this day and age you're going to have to do better than women in the past. Now let's take a look at Signs He's Secretly In Love With You: SIGN #1: He's Johnny on the spot... When a guy shows up when he says he will and where he says he will, there's a good chance he's really interested in you. It all comes down to consideration and motivation. You can read somebody's level of respect for you in how they treat you. It's not in their words, because anybody can say any words. (and most will...) For the rest - Be sure to watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Signs he's secretly in love with you - https://youtu.be/mkaHFXmUxuM

For your book & VIP newsletter: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook How To Start A Conversation Over Text (For Grownups!) By: Carlos Cavallo | When you meet a guy or just want to start up a relationship with a man these days, you need to know how to start a conversation over text. Luckily, this isn't hard to do if you know what he is looking for. Sometimes it's hard to come up with the right thing to say, especially if you're trying to make a good impression. And if you're over the age of 25, you may have a different focus. These days our phones are our primary communication tool. Ironically, we mostly use them for everything else but calling friends and other people. Most of the time, we use our phones for texting only. And, depending if you're an introvert or extrovert, you may find it difficult to think of what to say for that all-important first message. Some people might send a text without a thought but if you're like me you probably agonize over what to send in that text. You don't want to come across as if you're needy or insecure. And you also don't want to embarrass yourself in the process. You also don't want to appear as if you're not interested... You also don't want to appear too interested... It's no wonder that people go crazy thinking about this stuff. IMPORTANT: What You Should Think About BEFORE Texting Him! Consider that before you text the guy you should think about who it is you're really texting here. Who Is he? Is he a friend? Is he a romantic interest? Is he an acquaintance that you would like to turn into something more? When you know these answers in advance, you will know what to do and what not to do much better. Another question to ask is: How Long Have You Known Each Other? If you barely know the guy, you want to get as much information as you can to work with. This doesn't mean you want to flood him with a thousand text messages. But you do want to give up some information from yourself first. Guys find it hard enough to text women in the first place, so you want to help them as much as possible. Chances are he is wondering exactly the same thing you are: What to text you, and what not to text you. And if he doesn't have an answer, he will just not text you at all. Which means you have the responsibility for getting this thing off the ground. If you've known him for a while, they should have some familiarity. Which means you can be more playful with your messages. But even then, it helps him if you offer up some effort into a thoughtful question for him. What's Your Connection Level? Another good question is how well-connected are you? Assuming that this is a guy that you want to date, you should be thinking about how much connection you have with him. Remember that every communication you have with a man is an opportunity to connect deeper with him. If you want him to invest himself in you, he needs your help in finding that emotional hook. TIP: DON'T Start Texting Him With This... There are a few things you definitely don't want to start with. Here are a few of them: "Hey" This is kind of the default for a lot of our text conversations. It's a simple, no-frills way to start a conversation with very little risk, but the problem is that it gives the other person nothing to work with to keep the text conversation going. It's not easy to start a conversation with just a one word prompt. And it usually feels like the person who said "hey" is just trying to avoid a little vulnerability. "Hello" This one is right up there with "Hey." Again it's just too little for the other person to work with. Instead say something that gives them something. "Hey You" Yup, this is just another variation of "Hey." "What's up? This one isn't terrible, but it starts right out with an expectation that the other person needs to put the effort in first. Which is a little unfair considering you're starting the conversation. Instead, why not tell them what's up with you, then ask what's up with them. Random Emoji Some women like to send an emoji to a guy as a playful way to start a conversation. But again if you're not giving him any information, he's left thinking "WTF? What does she want?" If you're confusing him, you're losing him. One of my top bits of advice is to cut down on the amount of emojis you use with men. Guys simply don't use emojis in text all that much, and we sometimes have a hard time understanding what you're trying to communicate with them. The easiest way to think about this is, if you - Watch the video for the rest! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How to start a conversation over text https://youtu.be/LULjTAM_CyM

For your free copy of the book: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook Is He Seeing Someone Else? 19 Signs You Need To Know Have you ever found some evidence - a text or a note or something - and thought - Is he seeing someone else? You might wonder if you're just being paranoid or "overthinking" things. But you can't deny, the evidence is there. This situation is related to an email I got recently from someone: ______________________ QUESTION FROM A READER: "Is He Seeing Someone Else?" Hi Carlos, I have a suggestion for a topic for you to discuss ... and I am sure many woman including myself will benefit from it or have experienced this situation and fall short on what to do... What if your guy suddenly has a friend of the opposite sex and they start hanging out frequently? I would say at least once a week and could chalk up to twice a week. You don't know the background of this person, or how they met, who she is, what she looks like. He only provides very vague details of how they met just to shut you up. There's no evidence of cheating yet but the fact that her background remains a mystery and the increased frequency they have been hanging out warrants for worry. Should woman be worried and possibly try to restrict this in a nice way without him feeling like his freedom is lost? Or what is your best advice to tackle this sticky situation? Thanks - Carrie ______________________ CARLOS ANSWERS: Well, Carrie, in short, your instincts are right. It sounds like he is getting very interested in this woman. I have to say that you actually do have evidence that he may be entertaining the idea of seeing this woman. The mere fact that he's giving you "very vague details" tells you he doesn't want you to know too much. Which means there's something afoot. Why wouldn't he say more unless he was trying to hide something? Besides the fact that I'm a man, and I've done this exact same thing before. (And don't think that women don't do the exact same thing to men!) If this was really just a friendship, he should be aboveboard enough to have you meet his new "friend." And if you and him had a close-knit relationship, he should be eager to share details of this friendship to quell any anxiety you might have. But obviously he's not that concerned about your feelings in the matter - or isn't thinking about them. Of course there are two situations where this kind of "other woman" situation comes up: You already have a relationship and a new woman shows up You just started seeing a guy, and you suspect there's another woman in the picture (or maybe you are the other woman) First off, let's talk about some of the signals you'll see if a guy you're dating is seeing another woman. This could be a new relationship or an old relationship. Then at the end of this article I will tell you what you should do if you find out he's seeing someone else. Let's go through some of the signs and signals here that he might be looking to see other women - OR already is: Sign #1: "She" Isn't Respecting Your Relationship Most women recognize what you did - that a female "friend" to a man is cause for concern. There's been a lot of debate about this point, whether or not men and women can "just be friends." In my experience, and in almost every single situation I have ever seen, the truth is that straight men and women always have sexual tension between them. Even if there isn't natural attraction present. What this means is that any woman that your boyfriend hangs out with is a potential threat. And you should keep your eye on that situation. Not only this, if she's being a female "friend" and not respecting your relationship and that you would have a concern about her, that's a problem. Let's face it, if she knows his situation and is choosing to hang out with him, she's got plans. Even if your boyfriend is not interested in her, it would appear that she must be interested in him. Now of course there's a good chance that this "friend" doesn't know about you. Which means it might not be her fault at all. Most women respect the boundaries of a relationship unless they've been led to think otherwise. But you should figure out what the story REALLY is! Sign #2: He's keeping you a - For the rest - watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Is He Seeing Someone Else https://youtu.be/1l0cZ9rdhRU

For your free copy of the book: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook Is He Seeing Someone Else? 19 Signs You Need To Know Have you ever found some evidence - a text or a note or something - and thought - Is he seeing someone else? You might wonder if you're just being paranoid or "overthinking" things. But you can't deny, the evidence is there. This situation is related to an email I got recently from someone: ______________________ QUESTION FROM A READER: "Is He Seeing Someone Else?" Hi Carlos, I have a suggestion for a topic for you to discuss ... and I am sure many woman including myself will benefit from it or have experienced this situation and fall short on what to do... What if your guy suddenly has a friend of the opposite sex and they start hanging out frequently? I would say at least once a week and could chalk up to twice a week. You don't know the background of this person, or how they met, who she is, what she looks like. He only provides very vague details of how they met just to shut you up. There's no evidence of cheating yet but the fact that her background remains a mystery and the increased frequency they have been hanging out warrants for worry. Should woman be worried and possibly try to restrict this in a nice way without him feeling like his freedom is lost? Or what is your best advice to tackle this sticky situation? Thanks - Carrie ______________________ CARLOS ANSWERS: Well, Carrie, in short, your instincts are right. It sounds like he is getting very interested in this woman. I have to say that you actually do have evidence that he may be entertaining the idea of seeing this woman. The mere fact that he's giving you "very vague details" tells you he doesn't want you to know too much. Which means there's something afoot. Why wouldn't he say more unless he was trying to hide something? Besides the fact that I'm a man, and I've done this exact same thing before. (And don't think that women don't do the exact same thing to men!) If this was really just a friendship, he should be aboveboard enough to have you meet his new "friend." And if you and him had a close-knit relationship, he should be eager to share details of this friendship to quell any anxiety you might have. But obviously he's not that concerned about your feelings in the matter - or isn't thinking about them. Of course there are two situations where this kind of "other woman" situation comes up: You already have a relationship and a new woman shows up You just started seeing a guy, and you suspect there's another woman in the picture (or maybe you are the other woman) First off, let's talk about some of the signals you'll see if a guy you're dating is seeing another woman. This could be a new relationship or an old relationship. Then at the end of this article I will tell you what you should do if you find out he's seeing someone else. Let's go through some of the signs and signals here that he might be looking to see other women - OR already is: Sign #1: "She" Isn't Respecting Your Relationship Most women recognize what you did - that a female "friend" to a man is cause for concern. There's been a lot of debate about this point, whether or not men and women can "just be friends." In my experience, and in almost every single situation I have ever seen, the truth is that straight men and women always have sexual tension between them. Even if there isn't natural attraction present. What this means is that any woman that your boyfriend hangs out with is a potential threat. And you should keep your eye on that situation. Not only this, if she's being a female "friend" and not respecting your relationship and that you would have a concern about her, that's a problem. Let's face it, if she knows his situation and is choosing to hang out with him, she's got plans. Even if your boyfriend is not interested in her, it would appear that she must be interested in him. Now of course there's a good chance that this "friend" doesn't know about you. Which means it might not be her fault at all. Most women respect the boundaries of a relationship unless they've been led to think otherwise. But you should figure out what the story REALLY is! Sign #2: He's keeping you a - For the rest - watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Is He Seeing Someone Else https://youtu.be/1l0cZ9rdhRU

For more on how to read men: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook When You're Texting A Guy And He Stops Replying Nothing is more frustrating - and more common, it seems - than the experience of texting a guy and he stops replying to you. You get GHOSTED. It sounds like some kind of supernatural disease - GHOSTING... but it's one of the most common dating experiences these days. In fact, it's become pretty common for guys to stop texting women without much of a warning or any explanation for why. Now, to be fair, women do the same thing to guys. But since this is a report for women, we're only going to talk about the reasons guys do it. And how you can - hopefully - fix it. "Why do guys text me and then disappear?" "Was it something I said that made him stop responding?" "I thought we were doing so good - What the heck happened?" You may have asked yourself these questions, too. I'm here to help you out - and show you the reasons why guys stop replying to your texts - and help you get past this obstacle to finding a quality boyfriend. Why Did He Stop Communicating? First off, you have to realize that men don't think about texting the way women do. This is really important because most women assume that men take texting really seriously. The reality is that men don't really like to text all that much. Oh sure, he will say that he likes to text his friends and his family. But the truth is that most guys only text when they absolutely have to. Or just to touch base and pass along some logistical information. Texting is a fun little playground for a guy who has just met a woman. He will text you to gauge whether or not you're actually interested in him. But the game can get tiring really quick for guys. Which is why we tend to ignore our phones to get a little bit of a break. There are a lot of reasons that a guy might stop texting you. Reason 1: He's involved with someone else... Well, the truth is that this is a possible reality. A lot of people go out and date a lot of other people. Which means that if you weren't able to stay in his " favorite zone" then he may have moved on. Of course there's also the possibility that he was never free in the first place. Meaning, yes, he was married. Or in another relationship. Or somehow otherwise attached. Now, don't get judgy. Studies say that at least one third of all women online dating are actually just looking for some attention they're not getting in their current relationship. That's right, they're just in need of validation. Some may be shopping to see if they really want to end their current relationship for something new. So it's not something that just guys do. Sometimes the person we meet isn't the one for us. No matter how much we might like them to be, we realize on some level that they weren't a good fit. I've had plenty of first dates where I was so sure that it would have been a great connection, but the woman inevitably ghosted me. Yes, it happens on both sides of the fence. Reason 2: He lost interest... Yes, this is certainly a possibility. It does happen quite frequently. And depending on how you met this guy, that could happen a lot. Let's face it: In the absence of reminders about how much chemistry we felt, we will just assume that there was none. Men are very visual. Which means that if he doesn't have something to remind him of you, it can be difficult for him to remember a good reason to chase you. And this could have nothing to do with how attractive you are. The simple fact of the matter is that if he doesn't have a potent reminder of his experience with you, there's a good chance he will just lose his interest. You will fade out of his awareness. This is actually pretty easy to fix. You just have to know some strategies for how to text the guy to remind him. And it also helps to know what to do on those important first dates. We'll come back to this in a bit... Reason 3: It's HIS problem! The fact is that whatever the problem is that makes him stop texting and connecting with you, it's his problem - Not yours. There are a billion-and-one different reasons why a guy might not be able to stay in contact and keep texting you. For example: He's focusing on his job... He's got family issues pulling on him... He had an emergency... He lost his phone - or it broke... He got back together with an ex... He lost his job... He started a new job... or a new business... He had a change of heart about dating... The real lesson here is to - For the rest of the info - watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== When You're Texting A Guy And He Stops Replying https://youtu.be/6teHTGO75L8

For Your Free Ebook: How To Make Him Regret Leaving You - Or Losing You! (Or Dumping You!) By: Carlos Cavallo Breakups are heart-wrenching - and most women would love to know how to make him regret leaving you - or just make him regret dumping you in the first place. And sometimes you just want him to know what he's missing out on. How stupid he was for letting go of you... Yeah, it may be a little bit of revenge, but it does feel good to at least know he screwed up. And there is a chance he will come back if he realizes he messed it up by losing you. So how do you get him to regret leaving you or dumping you? First of all, going through a breakup with a man you are in love with can be extremely difficult. A huge mix of emotions can hit you at once: Loneliness Fear Sadness Panic Uncertainty Worry It might even be difficult to imagine your future without him in it. Whether or not you want this guy back, you know you have some unfinished business. If you're really sure this is the guy for you, then you may want to think about how to get him back by making him realize what he's lost. You need to make him regret losing you before he moves on to someone new. Time is short, so let's dig in... The Big "R" - REJECTION One of the most important parts of this process is understanding what you're going through right now. You're experiencing one of the most difficult emotional responses called rejection. Rejection is extremely hard for the person who got rejected because they had no control. They had no say in the matter. And that feeling of powerlessness makes the experience of getting dumped all that much more horrible. Frequently, getting rejected may push you to get that person back even if they are not good for you. Simply because your system was put into shock when they rejected you. Which means your first response will be an urge to get him back. That feeling of rejection hijacks your system and erases all the bad memories. It's literally like having the rug pulled out from underneath you, leaving you dangling in space about to fall. There is an old saying: "The one who loves the least controls the relationship." Unfortunately, most psychologists agree that this is true. The person who has the least amount of emotional leverage in the relationship tends to be the one most infatuated and subject to crazy love. Want To Get Back At Him For Leaving You? First of all, don't let it be about revenge. Yeah, yeah, I get it- that irritation and anger you feel sure would be better if you knew he was miserable too. You'd love it if he was worried about missing out on a relationship with you. But you don't want this to be only about vengeance. Deep inside I think most people realize that's the wrong motivation for anything. The feeling of satisfaction won't last long - if you feel it at all It won't have the effect you hope it will You will probably regret it afterwards The best thing you can do is to let compassion guide you, not a need to hurt somebody back just because you feel hurt. STEP ZERO: What They Never Tell You... The one thing nobody ever tells you about winning him back, or just making him wish he had you back, is that you need one thing above all else to make it work. Patience If you are easily undone with your own impatience, or your insecurities get the better of you - and you act impulsively regularly, there's a good chance this will not work for you. In a way, this is good. Because it allows you to separate yourself from 90% of all other women simply by having better self-control. Even if he is dating another woman, chances are she doesn't have any self-control. And right now, she probably doesn't think she needs any. This is your advantage. Use it while you got it! NOW let's jump into the steps you can take to get him to regret losing you instead of you feeling this way... And stick around with me to the end because I have to warn you about some mistakes you might make. STEP 1: Make Him Realize ... For the rest - watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How to make him regret losing you https://youtu.be/U5U3KTq-jwc

To Get More - go to https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook When A Guy Ignores You After An Argument - What To Do! By: Carlos Cavallo Have you ever had a guy stop talking to you after you get into a disagreement? What do you do when a guy ignores you after an argument? There's nothing more frustrating than getting the silent treatment. You feel ignored, minimized, and very small. It also feels like you're abandoned. I'm pretty sure each of us has experienced it at some point. You might have even given somebody else the silent treatment. We sometimes even use this on our family. Somehow we feel that going quiet is an appropriate punishment for the other person. Or an appropriate way to demonstrate our feelings. But in the end it usually causes more damage than anything else. Let's talk about the different reasons that a guy would ignore you after you fight. And then let's talk about what to do when he ignores you like this. Why He Ignores You - 1: You're right and he's wrong I think everyone who gets into a fight likes to assume that they are right. Inevitably we always figure out that even if we are "right," the victory lap we take doesn't feel very good. It feels hollow. Like the old saying goes, would you rather be right or would you rather be happy? When we let our egos get us into the situations, sometimes we can't figure a way out. And sometimes we get so dug in that we can't let go. Ultimately, if you need to be right, you probably shouldn't be in a relationship. That's pretty strong talk, huh? But if you've been in any long-term relationships, especially marriage, you know that being right always comes at the cost of the goodwill in the relationship. In the truth of the matter is it's not really about who's right and who's wrong in the end. It's really about being heard. Yes, sometimes his ego will get in the way of admitting that you were right. And yes, he may use the silent treatment to sulk a little bit. But give him time and he will come back around. One thing you definitely don't want to do is to rub it in his face. You won't get the satisfaction you might hope from this. And why would you want to? Why He's Not Talking - 2: He's otherwise occupied One of the more realistic reasons a man isn't getting back to you after a fight is that the rest of his life gives him the excuse he needs to step away for a while. Sometimes the timing really isn't good. Men are notorious for not talking about every little thing that's going on in their life. Whereas women are often characterized as doing the opposite. Meaning that it's much more likely that he hasn't told you about everything he's got going on. He's just juggling his busy-ness as best he can. And if your conflict happened right when he was busy with a lot of other things, or just about to be, there's a good chance he's just preoccupied with everything else. While you may feel this is personal, it's not. Well, it's mostly not. When He Won't Reply - 3: He's flooded One of the things that will trigger a man is too much emotional conversation. Guys simply do not engage in a lot of talk about emotions. It's not the way we are built. Many women look at this as being a fault in men. Just as many men see women's preoccupation with emotions as a fault in them. The truth is somewhere in between. But when you have a very emotional discussion, sometimes known as an argument, a guy will rapidly tire from the conflict. He doesn't want to be angry at you, and yet the only way he can stay in the argument is to bring up negative feelings. For a woman, it's very likely that you will tap into sadness as the fuel for your side of the argument - along with your own anger. Keep in mind that this emotional content will flood his brain. A guy simply can't stay in emotional conversation for as long as a woman can. And when he's hit his ceiling, he will shut down. Just like a computer that has crashed. The best thing you can do is to let him back off and recharge. Unfortunately, most of the men I have talked to about the experience of arguing with their girlfriend or wife say that they often are pressed to keep going. Which is understandable, when you want to resolve this very emotional feeling that's going on. However you have to give men a break from the argument so that he can regroup and recharge. And that may take some time. When a man becomes flooded and is pressed to continue talking about something emotional, you may find that ... For the rest, watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== https://youtu.be/hnpbhZJhUu0 When A Guy Ignores You After An Argument

For your ebook go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook "I Miss My Ex Boyfriend - And I Want Him Back!" What To Do - 17 Tips... It's probably every woman's worst fear: the breakup. And then you find yourself texting your friends: "I Miss My Ex Boyfriend - And I Want Him Back!" Everything probably started out fantastic between you. You had great dates, great fun, great bedroom action... And then things started to cool off. He didn't text you as much. He didn't call you as much. And then you split up... It might seem like your entire world is flipped upside down. Breakups are brutal, there's no doubt about it. Your whole world got turned upside down. Especially if you had a lot of hopes of a future with him, maybe even getting married to him. And this might have happened last week, or years ago. Sometimes it stays with you. For a long long time. And there are a lot of thoughts running through your mind right now probably too: "What should I say to my ex? Because I miss him so much..." "What can I do to forget my ex-boyfriend? It's so hard to move on..." "I really miss my ex boyfriend - should I call him? Should I text him?" "I can't forget my ex - but I also can't move on without him. What should I do?" "I Miss My Ex Boyfriend - And I Want Him Back!" So what can you do...? I'm going to give you 17 steps for handling the situation. By the time you're done here today, you will have learned how to handle your messy feelings, and the loss of this man. TIP #1: Stay Patient - Don't Panic! This is probably the most important part of the process. If you're missing your ex, the last thing you want to do is to rush things or lose your cool. There are a ton of different emotions you will experience when you're cut off from the love of your boyfriend. Or even your husband. Anger, confusion, sadness, shock... Your nervous system goes through a big shakeup when there is a breakup. Of course you'll go through a lot of pain, and at the same time will probably be overwhelmed with feelings of wanting to be with him and connect with him again. He may even be considering coming back to you during this time period. The big risk is that you will say something or do something that might freak him out during this time and push him away by mistake. So you have to exercise your self-control during this time. Stay patient and don't let your emotions get the better of you. One of the best things you can do is to have a friend you can call and talk to when things become overwhelming. TIP #2: Opportunity Might Show Up And while this is happening, if you notice any of your guy friends show up to console you, there's a good chance he's been interested in you for a while and is taking his opportunity. A lot of guys watch and wait in the wings for a woman they desire, especially while she is in another relationship. So don't ignore the fact that you may find some of your male friends suddenly showing more interest in you. He is seizing the opportunity. Why not take a chance and see what might be there? TIP #3: Everything Is Biological The reality of love is that there are a lot of hormones in your body that distort your thinking. Most people aren't aware just how much the reality is twisted when they're under the influence of love and infatuation. Your biology is set up so that when you find someone you are physically compatible with, your brain floods you with tons of chemicals to get you to mate with them. I know in our current age of reason we don't like to think we are subject to these primitive forces, but we are. And we have to recognize them. You know that tingly, rushing euphoric feeling you get when you meet someone you're really attracted to? Well, that powerful magnetism isn't a magical mystical force of the universe. It's those hormones - and that's how powerful they are. So when this guy left, he put you into withdrawal. That's right, you're suffering from going cold turkey in your love addiction. Essentially, he was a habit. And love is a habit that's hard to break. So go easy on yourself. Recognize that it's perfectly normal for you to feel this way. If you fight these feelings, you'll probably only have a harder time. When you're able to sit in the same room with your discomfort, you will have achieved the highest level of human maturity. It's something that most people simply cannot do. When you got together with this guy, and you probably ... For the rest, watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== I Miss My Ex Boyfriend So Much https://youtu.be/h-hHUpBvUZQ

For your free ebook- go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook Are You Giving Up On Love? Read This First... There's no doubt that Love can be frustrating... For some people, it drives them crazy. Maybe that's you - are you giving up on love? Well don't do it until you read this article! This isn't going to be some empty cheerleading, or some rah-rah speech. Sometimes the one thing we need most when we feel like quitting is a swift kick in the backside. Every day I coach women who are at their wits end. They're burned out on dating. I typically advise women who are middle-aged and older who are trying to find love. Typically in their late 30s and all the way into their 70s. And the older you get, the harder it seems to start relationships... They've tried just about everything: Online dating Blind dates Dating people from work Matchmaking services Personal ads You name it! If you've been searching and dating and trying to make it work, but each relationship seems to come to an end, you might feel like giving up. But there's a lot you probably don't know about why you feel this way. And how you can keep going - until you find the one you truly love. You have an unlimited reserve of love energy within you. You just have to know how to tap into it. What happens is that you're cut off from that flow of energy when you feel like it's time to throw in the towel and give up. No matter how down on yourself you may feel, you must always question your thoughts if you believe that you are: "Going to be alone for the rest of your life..." "Not destined for love..." "Unlucky in love..." "Going to die alone..." A lot of these things we say to ourselves when we are frustrated and can't seem to find our way out. Funny enough, hearing these words from other people always makes us think differently. There's no point in catastrophizing - or making things seem like the end of the world. As a trained therapist and coach, I can say with certainty that everyone has the ability to find their love. As Steve Martin said in the movie LA story: "“There's someone out there for everyone. Even if you need a pickaxe, a compass, and night goggles to find them.” STEVE MARTIN - Harris K. Telemacher LOVE WISDOM: Protect your attitude at all costs... The key to overcoming this is keeping your mindset and attitude as your priority. I see a lot of people who overextend themselves when they're dating. Many women sacrifice their happiness and peace of mind in the process of being who they think they should just be to be desirable. As the saying goes, Never change yourself to meet someone else's opinion of who you should be. So the first thing you have to do is to keep your happiness as your priority. Under no circumstances do you ever have to sacrifice this in order to find a man and a relationship that will make you happy. The problem with putting your own needs on the back burner is that it becomes a habit way too easily. Once you start forgetting your own needs, it's hard to stop. And one day you'll find yourself in a relationship that you settled for just because good enough became good enough. You have to set a commitment to your own need for a fulfilling relationship. Otherwise, why bother at all? Which is probably what you are thinking. When you reach that point, you got there by putting aside your own needs. LOVE WISDOM: It really is a Journey It's become something of a cliché, but all relationships are a journey of sorts. If you get too focused on making one of them turn into your fairytale ideal, you'll miss what's happening right now. In THIS moment... “Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.” MATTHEW BRODERICK - Ferris Bueller's Day Off Every single person teaches you something new about yourself. Even the worst dates can be the best stories for your friends. I remember having many unbelievably bad dates, and they were so fun to share with my friends later on. It was like trading war stories. Sometimes it can be hard to pay attention to the now. But the present is all we have. If you forget this in your search for an imaginary tomorrow, you will miss out on all the good things today. "Whether life is worth living depends on whether there is love in life..." LOVE WISDOM: Why So Serious? It's also possible you've been caught up in ... ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Are you giving up on love https://youtu.be/2rcpjli6xhM

For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook 21 CRITICAL Questions To Ask A Guy By: Carlos Cavallo It can be tricky talking to men when you don't know what to say. You might find yourself stuck in silence wondering what to talk about. The best solution is to have questions to ask a guy that get him interested in you. If you know what questions to ask, you can make him feel whatever you want. Including attraction for you. You don't need "1000 questions for every possible situation..." You only need a few questions that do the job right! Questions can be conversational magic if you know what you're doing. And if you're a woman dating a man, you better know some of these if you want him to see you as different, and to get his attraction. First of all - let's review - Why it's so important to use questions with guys: Men respond to questions - especially from women Men have a primitive program that makes them almost compelled to answer questions from a woman. So you never really need to worry about him going silent on you or not responding when you know how to ask questions correctly. Questions awaken his emotions Many women wonder how to reach a man's emotions so you stir his feelings for you. The easiest way to do this is to ask questions of him. Questions can arouse his feelings in a way that no other words can. Questions get him to pay attention to you They engage his attention and keep him focused on YOU. Guys think and communicate linearly, so they will be entranced - IF you know how to ask the right questions. Questions get you secret info... A good question is like Truth Serum to men. When you ask the right questions, you can find out ANYTHING you ever wanted to know about him. And the best part is he won't ever feel like you're interrogating him or interviewing him. If you know how to ask him questions right - And ask the right questions. As you might imagine, questions are the magic bullet when it comes to getting a man to respond to you. Questions can also be a magic remote control for a man as well. As we go through this list, keep in mind that having more questions just means more things you want to memorize. And let's be real - NOBODY wants to memorize a bunch of stuff! We did that in public school, but it's not fun anymore. So I'm going to give you a few questions that you can choose from. Use them to inspire him to open his heart up to you. You don't want to just be a parrot, either. You want to be able to know WHY these questions work with men so that you can come with your own anytime. One question you should never ask a man: Anything dealing with relationships before the 16th date... Okay I might be exaggerating a little bit by the 16th date but honestly that's a good limit. And the reason that I say that is because if you're the one bringing up the relationship, one of two things is probably true: You're bringing this talk up too early... You're asking about your relationship because you're not getting anywhere with him, and it's likely he's just not interested in a relationship If a man is ready for a relationship, he will tend to move forward with you. All by himself! Men don't resist the thing they want in life, any more than you do. If he's not interested in a relationship with you he will drag his feet and stall in the way that you may hear many women complain about. And there's very little if anything you can do about it. If you have to push a man into a relationship, then you probably made a mistake much earlier that made him decide you are not the one. (If you want to know why this happened, go read this special report on commitment...) Let's jump in and review - 21 ESSENTIAL Questions To Ask A Man I'm going to Run-through some really important questions you need to ask a man. Each one has a purpose, and I'll explain how to use it as well. Of course most of these can be used as phone texts or topics of conversation for when you're in person. Question #1: Take him back to being a kid... When you ask a man a question, you should know what state you want him to feel from the question. In other words, you want to elicit a certain emotional reaction. And maybe even awaken some memories. Here are a few ways of doing that: What is your favorite guilty pleasure? OR What is your favorite childish fun thing to do? This question gets him to ... Watch the video for the rest! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Questions To Ask A Guy https://youtu.be/7ubUCiMujxg

Ask Carlos A Question: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos Dating An Older Man - 17 Secrets You Should Know By: Carlos Cavallo If you're thinking of dating an older man, you probably want to know what to expect. There are a lot of things you need to know in order to date older men. Both positive things - and some challenges you should be aware of. You may have a lot of questions, such as: What is dating an older man like? Is it ethical to date an older man? Is it okay to date someone 10 years older? How old is too old? If you're in your 30s, 40s, 50s - you need to know how to handle the age difference, no matter how big or small it is. And if you seen Catherine Zeta Jones and Michael Douglas, you know that it can not only work but look fantastic. As it does with Jay-Z and Beyonce, or Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively... And many others. First of all - REALITY CHECK-IN: Why him...? Make sure you understand why you're choosing this guy in the first place. It's always important to ask yourself why the person you're attracted to is so attractive to you. What you might find is that there is a trigger being pulled. An emotional one. Very often spontaneous romance happens because your weak spot matches something about him. When it's an age difference of more than a few years, make sure you're not projecting on him. Yes, there is the old cliché of the " daddy's girl" and all of the psychological issues that brings with it. But it's a cliché for a reason. Many women who get involved with older men are looking to connect with something they feel they are missing. As long as you understand why you made the choice, you can go in with your eyes wide open. REALITY CHECK-IN: Are there others...? When you date an older man, there's a very distinct possibility that he's been married before. And maybe even has children with another woman. You're going to have to know for yourself whether or not you want to become an instant mom. And you have to be aware of all the complications of a relationship with another family. His first obligation will obviously be to his children. You'll also have to make some kind of relationship with the ex-wife if things go the distance. And you have to understand your priority in that mix. REALITY CHECK-IN: There's also the money... Keep in mind that your financial pictures might be distinctly different. One of the most likely places that you will argue is over money. And yes money can also break up your relationship. Many women do marry for the benefits of extra financial security. If you really do feel an emotional connection and love with him, there's nothing wrong with money as a side benefit. Just be aware that you may have to have some serious discussions around your contribution possibly not matching his. And even if he says that's not an issue, he does have to approve of your spending and money habits. On the other hand, if you're the wealthy one, you need to watch out that his intentions are pure as well. Now, here are a few things you definitely need to know in order to date an older man... Tip #1: The cool part is, you are always HER... Have you ever seen a couple where he is the distinguished older guy, and she is the younger woman on his arm? Let's be perfectly honest here- I'm sure you said some pretty catty things about it. And let's be extra honest and admit you were probably a little bit jealous. The cool part about dating an older man is that you are always going to look young for his age. And that does wonders for your vanity as well as your feelings about how you look. It's a great side benefit of being the 'younger woman.' Live it up! Tip #2: Beware making him feel like a fossil... To be sure, one of the things you don't want to do is make this guy feel older than he already is. Some women make the mistake of trying to make him look older so that she seems younger. This won't go over very well for him. What he wants to feel is more virile, not like your grandpa. The best thing you can do is to point out all of his traits that make him seem: established wise capable virile desirable Hey, if he landed you then he must be doing something right, right? Tip #3: Give him time to ... For the rest - Watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Dating an Older Man https://youtu.be/VKZvt8j5X38

For your free ebook: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook Dating A Divorced Man? 7 Tips You MUST Know... By: Carlos Cavallo Dating a divorced man? Before you get too far in the relationship, there are things you must know. Divorced dating is challenging, there's no doubt about that. But if you have the right information, you can date a guy after divorce and make it work. Dating today is definitely different than it used to be. There are so many more challenges. And the one thing you don't want to be is his next divorce. You may be wondering: Is he ready for another relationship? Why did he get divorced before? Is he damaged goods? How do I know if he will make a commitment again? And if you take into consideration that divorce rates are only climbing, and only one out of two marriages stays together, you need to be very sure you know what you're getting into when you date a divorced guy. As matter of fact it doesn't matter if this guy was married or just in a long-term relationship. These tips apply to any relationship where you want to be smart and make it work. Let's just jump right in with - Tip #1: Know how deep the pool is…! Would you ever jump into a swimming pool without knowing how deep the water is? Then you definitely would never jump into a relationship where you didn't know what was going on with him and why it ended. You owe it to yourself to find out what his history is. If you don't know what you're getting into, you are very likely to step on a landmine at some point. Every man has history. And the more you know about it, the better off you are. Think about it: Would you buy a car without at least finding out what the reviews said? Would you buy a house without having an inspector check it out? Of course not. Knowing everything you can about him is absolutely essential if you want to make the relationship work. One thing you should not do is try to learn everything about him on the first couple dates. Take your time and collect your data. On date number one and date number two, you should focus on listening in between the lines with him. Don't let your fantasies start to pull you into dreaming about your wedding dress quite yet. That might sound a little bit funny, but you'd be surprised how many women make a decision about a man based on initial chemistry. (And men do the exact same thing…) As the relationship progresses, you should know about why he got divorced. You should also ask him one very important question: "What do you think the biggest thing that caused your marriage to fail was?" And then listen very carefully to what he says next. Take mental note of where he places the blame. If he blames both him and her, that's an excellent sign. It means he knows he had a part in it. Red flag: if he says that it was all her fault, that's a man you should probably run away from. Don't forget to share a little bit of your history too. If you were married before, let him know about your relationship. And especially let him know what you learned from it. And let him know what your standards are now. Tip #2: Divorced Dating - Be a smart turtle… A smart turtle knows that slow and steady wins the race. Keep in mind the man who has come out of a divorce takes much longer to get over the loss of his marriage. Divorce hits a man much harder than it does a woman. I know this may feel oddly contrary, but it's true. Men do not have the same emotional resiliency to bounce back that women do. Men who get divorced are depressed more often, and very often commit suicide much more frequently as well. It's not a pretty picture, but it's true. "Men were more vulnerable to the adverse effects of divorce, including larger health declines and lower subjective well-being after separation, higher risk of adopting bad health habits, elevated mortality, disproportionate declines in satisfaction with family life, higher dissatisfaction with custodial arrangements, and greater feelings of loneliness and social isolation..." Now that you understand this, you may also understand why men are very cautious after a divorce or separation. In order for him to think about a new relationship, he has to feel safe in your relationship. Which means you need to - Watch the video for the rest! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Dating A Divorced Man https://youtu.be/Q2sEkbi63FY

For your free ebook go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook Playing Hard To Get – 7 Secrets You Never Learned… BY CARLOS CAVALLO Let’s start right off by saying that there is a big difference between playing hard to get and being hard to get. Most women play at it but don’t understand how to really BE the prize. Because that’s what it’s really all about: You have to make yourself the prize to your man for him to chase you, pursue you, and desire you. And of course you don’t want to play games with him. But prepare to be surprised. “Hard to get” does NOT mean you’re being manipulative! We’re going to take a close look at the strategy of playing hard to get. I will show you secrets that you never learned, and why playing hard to get is the most important thing you can do to make an honest and committed relationship work. First of all let’s talk about PLAYING hard to get versus BEING hard to get… When you play hard to get, you’re playing games with a guy. Yes you are playing head games and that’s why you feel guilty and weird when you do it. Being hard to get is what most women are playing at. Every woman wants to be hard for him to win. The problem is when you make yourself too darn easy! And let’s face it, most women make it too darn easy. I’m going to tell you what the reason is for that in a bit… Playing hard to get is faking it and living from a scarcity mindset… What is a scarcity mindset? Scarcity is the belief that everything in your life is hard to get already. All the stuff you really want is scarce. It’s like the constant feeling of starvation. You’re always hungry because you can never be satisfied. You never get what you want. And at the very least you definitely don’t believe you can get what you want. It somehow feels unattainable, just outside of your grasp. When you play hard to get, it feels weird because most women are faking the attitude. They don’t really believe they have the value to BE hard to get. She won’t allow herself to be truly scarce for fear of losing him…! BEING hard to get, on the other hand, is being authentic. What is authentic? It’s when you’re acting from you. From your essential personality instead of from manipulative games. So when you are actually hard to reach on the phone, hard to schedule for a date, hard to find time to get together with, you are genuinely authentically hard to get. Why do we play “hard to get?” Typically people play hard to get for one of two reasons: Increase attraction – make someone want us more… To test the other person – see how interested they really are… And these strategies are typically done because the other person was viewed as a prize – a real catch. In most studies, it’s shown that women use hard to get strategies much more often than men. Frankly, most guys don’t go “scarce” intentionally. I’ll tell you why shortly… The goal of playing hard to get is this: Making him value YOU as a rare precious gift in his life. Most women are doing the exact opposite. I’ll explain how in a moment… What are some of the things people do to play “hard to get?” Here’s a short list of some of the strategies that people use to manipulate their availability: Acting confidently – trying to appear like a valuable commodity… Flirting but then stopping; giving attention but then disappearing – i.e., running hot and cold… Limiting self-disclosure – holding back information to stay a mystery… Talking to other people, flirting, and even dating other people… Making accidental physical contact, but holding back physical affection… Withholding sex… Teasing, playing games… Offering challenge – Making others work to get them and chase them… Acting busy, staying busy, and lowering the other person’s priority… Acting as if not attracted, sometimes disinterested… Taking a long time to respond to calls and texts, or not responding at all… To sum it up, the general strategies of “hard to get” are: Having limited availability… Sounding busy… Being hard to reach… Seeking attention but then ignoring it… Showing initial interest, and then switching to disinterest… Now all of these tactics do work. If they’re done naturally – meaning that they happened because the circumstances of your life make them true – then it’s considered okay. But if these things are done on purpose, they are seen as being manipulative and game playing. And it’s unlikely ... For the rest - Watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru ===========================================

Get your free ebook here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook What Are The Stages Of A Relationship? Find Out… BY CARLOS CAVALLO If you’re in a relationship with a man, you may be wondering what are the stages of a relationship? After all, you want to know where you stand with this guy. There are four stages that you go through in every relationship that gets serious. And you definitely want to recognize each of the stages as you go through them. The reason you need to know what those stages are is because: You need to know what stage you’re in so you can plan accordingly… You don’t want to make the mistake of thinking you are in a more advanced stage and possibly screw it up… Because the biggest mistake you can make is to think you are further along than you actually are. Many women do this and end up ruining the relationship because they assumed the relationship was more serious than it actually was. I’m going to help you avoid that mistake here right now. Keep in mind that different couples will spend more or less time in each of the stages. There is no right or wrong, there is only your experience. But generally speaking, you should never rush any of the stages. The more you take your time with each of them, the more likely you will make it to the next one. Don’t try to map these to the zodiac, what your fortune teller told you, or any other method. You should always be using your rational mind as much as you can during the process of romance. Relationships already have far too much emotion in them, and you have to balance that with smarts. Something else to remember is that even if you don’t recognize all of the stages, you still go through them. Even if they don’t seem to have a hard boundary that tells you you’ve entered one and left another. What Are The Stages Of A Relationship? Find Out... Let’s start right off with – STAGE 1: Hearts & Romance This is the romance stage of the relationship. Every single relationship goes through this phase. Some even call this the honeymoon stage. Because it’s that early part where everything is just amazing between you and him. And somewhere inside we recognize that it can’t last. It can still be fresh and fun, but it can’t be quite this passionate forever. It starts out a bit awkward, and then gets pretty hot and heavy. This is also the highest energy part of the relationship. Things are dialed up to “11” in every way. Your emotions run high… Your excitement runs high… You feel like you’re floating on clouds… Everything in life seems brighter and more vivid… Your emotions are also more volatile… It feels like you’re on some kind of drug, and you actually are… You’re high on love – 24/7! This is the stage where love hormones start to cement the feelings of bonding between you and your loved one. And there are a bunch of these love chemicals in your system… Oxytocin Adrenaline Vasopressin Testosterone Estrogen Serotonin Dopamine Yeah – it’s quite busy in that brain of yours when you’re in the throes of romance. The reason for all those chemicals in your brain is so that you will form a lasting bond with him- lasting long enough for you to to mate and have children. Of course this is the biological response, not the intellectual response you might have thought was going on. The biggest mistake that couples make is to think that they have conscious control over the beginning stages of romance. Nothing could be further from the truth. Love is mostly an emotional/physiological process – NOT a thinking process! In fact, we are really only paying attention to warning signs when they come up. It’s very rare either the man or woman are looking at the red flags or evaluating the relationship based on what they really want. Most of the start of a relationship is on autopilot. And that’s why this stage is so very dangerous. If you don’t take a conscious step to really think about what’s going on in the relationship, it’s very likely that you will find yourself in love with somebody that may not be a very good fit. Here are some of the other characteristics of this stage: You almost always want to see them or be around them The first order of business is always ... For the rest, watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== What are the stages of a relationship https://youtu.be/AF2rk4ie1eU

For more - go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos 17 Signs He Loves You Deeply BY CARLOS CAVALLO The truth is you’re probably here reading this right now because you’re not sure if your man loves you. You’re looking for signs he loves you deeply. One of the skills I teach women is how to read a man signs. Because you want to be able to interpret how he’s acting – and understand what he’s feeling. Why doesn’t he tell you he deeply loves you? First off, you probably wonder why don’t men tell you they love you more. The fact is that men simply don’t express their emotions as often as women do. Now, that should be enough of an answer. It’s a fact. Men don’t express the same way women do. But almost every single woman wishes he would. And probably wants to change a guy so that he will. If you cling to this desire for men to behave like you – or other women – you will always be unhappy. The key to finding happiness with a man is to understand that he will never do everything the way you want him to. If you try to change him, he will probably leave eventually. Does he feel safe talking to you? Most men would talk more about their feelings if they felt safe doing so. I’m going to come back to this in a bit because it’s such an important point that you don’t want to miss it. A lot of men are nervous about revealing their emotions because they are afraid of saying them wrong. He does want to express love, he just never wants to look like a fool for doing so. And if you think about it, what would him saying he loves you really prove? Can you believe every word a man says? You know that you can’t. Not because “every man is a liar,” but because he won’t always express every emotion he feels. So ultimately the best way to figure out if he loves you – deeply loves you – is to know how to read him better than he knows himself. Let’s get into the signs right now… Sign 1: He goes for PDA more than you do… One of the best signs a man is deeply in love with you and into you is when he is the one seeking more physical contact. (PDA is “public displays of affection”) When a man is affectionate physically, that means he is also emotionally connected to you. A man equates love with physical intimacy. Which means that if he doesn’t feel physically connected to you, he’s going to feel unsafe and disconnected. And he’s going to put up walls between you. And yes this also means sexually. This is where many women make a huge mistake. When you withhold any kind of sexual intimacy from your man, he will interpret it to mean that you do not love him. He gets this message right away, even if it’s not the message you’re intending to send. There’s a great scene in a movie where a man and a woman are shown in their therapy sessions. Each is talking to their therapist separately. MAN: “We hardly have sex at all. Like three times a week.” WOMAN: “We have sex all the time. Like three times a week.” It’s a perfect example of how men and women think differently about sex. Our appetites are different, and our interpretations are different. So when a man is trying to get more physical affection than you, you can bet that he is deeply in love and wants that connection. Sign 2: You catch him with the googly eyes… One of the things a man has a hard time controlling is his gaze. You’ve probably experienced this when he looks at other women, sure. But you should also be on alert for when he’s looking at you that way. You’d be surprised, he’s probably doing it more often than you think. If you’re not tuned in and watching for it, you could miss it. If you catch him staring at you for no reason, that’s a sign he’s feeling drawn to you, and attracted to you. That deep love is still there. Sign 3: When he goes out of his way for your ... For the rest - watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Signs He Loves You Deeply https://youtu.be/7A7G9M2eGR0

To learn more about flipping his obsession switch: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/obsession How To Talk Dirty Text – Texting A Guy To Turn Him On There is a certain fascination with knowing how to text a guy to get him turned on. If you want to know how to talk dirty text, or just knowing how to text him so that he pays attention to you and desires you, that’s what I’m going to cover here in this article. But first we have to lay some ground rules… In order to text a guy and get him to pay attention, you have to be careful about not being too vulgar. When a woman is too dirty, she risks turning him off just as easily as turning him on. There is a fine line between dirty and gross when it comes to texting guys. Let’s talk about it… How to talk dirty in text without turning him off… Let’s be honest: if it were up to you, you probably wouldn’t be sexting a guy. You’d much rather have him telling you how he feels about you and how much he wants you. Doesn’t that sound much more interesting? Much more interesting than playing some kind of teenager game of “look at me!”? The truth is you know that men need sexual attention to really pay attention. Which kind of goes against what you’re trying to do. As much as you hear the women’s magazines tell you to be really explicit with a guy in text, if you do you’re going to wear out your welcome quickly. Here’s why: Men love the chase. You already know this. But chances are you don’t know how to use it effectively in this day and age. Most women have been trained to be a little bit easy when it comes to showing sexual interest. But what a man really wants is to be teased effectively with your texts. The less he gets the more he wants… And if you keep putting sexual conversation out there, that’s all he’s going to think of you for. His booty call. I’m pretty sure that’s not how you want him to think about you. Well, not the only way for him to think about you. Rest assured I’m going to give you some examples here. But they’re not going to be crass or vulgar. They’re going to be texts you can send to almost any guy and not risk scaring him off. Because one of the things that men find a turnoff is when a woman changes her personality in different situations. And many women act sexy and flirty and aggressive when he’s not around, but when he’s with her she acts like a completely different person. Guys hate this when they’re dating. And guys also feel betrayed when he marries a woman and she changes from the woman he knew when they were dating. So take a second to really think about what your motives are for learning how to talk dirty in texts with him… Is it to get attention? Is it to get him to pay a lot more attention to you? Is it to win him back? Is it just to get him to respond to your texts? Is it just to get him to talk to you – period? Any of these reasons is fine. If it’s done to win-win the man. What is “Win-Win the man”? There are 3 ways any situation can turn out: Lose/Lose: This is when both of you come out worse at the end than when you started. I’m pretty sure you don’t want this, and neither does he. Win/Lose: This is when one of you wins and one of you loses. Usually the one who wins did so because the other one lost. Unfortunately this is how a lot of people handle their relationships these days. Win/Win: This is the ideal way it should work out. Both sides need to win – or nobody really won. The only option you can choose is a win-win. No one wants to lose-lose, and win-lose is shortsighted and dumb. So let’s start talking about how to talk dirty in texts to guys… Dirty Text #1: Let’s tell him about the girls… One of the best text you can send is this one: “Did I tell you what I named my boobs?” It’s very funny, playful. And there isn’t a guy on the planet who wouldn’t want to know. Plus – you got him thinking about your boobs! Which is always a good thing. HINT: Guys love boobs. Dirty Text #2: Dreamer… One of the most important things you can do with a dirty text is to ... Discover the rest in the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Talk Dirty Texts https://youtu.be/znQ4FZusCqg

For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/free Communication In A Relationship – How To Get Him To Talk BY CARLOS CAVALLO · APRIL 7, 2020 If there’s one topic that will make all the difference in the world to your relationship, it’s communication in a relationship. If you want a man to talk to you, you have to understand how he communicates. Guys don’t communicate the same way women do. This may sound like the most obvious thing you’ve ever heard, but most of the women that I coach and teach don’t seem to realize this. They talk to men like they talk to their girlfriends. And it has catastrophic effects on the relationship. Not only is communication in a relationship important, it’s also important to recognize when there’s a lack of communication. We are going to explore good communication, bad communication, and ways to improve your communication with men. This may be the most important article you read this year. You probably even heard the word communication used to describe relationships themselves. The fact is that a relationship is nothing more than communication. Communicating love… Communicating needs… Communicating feelings… Communicating problems… Communicating about life… The simple fact is that you can’t have communication without a relationship. And you can’t have a relationship without communication. If we don’t choose our words carefully, the relationship will always suffer. We have to be careful about how we talk to our partner. Let’s talk about some of the negative communication patterns we get into so that you can recognize them. I’m going to start with John Gottman’s “four horsemen of the relationship apocalypse.” It’s probably one of the most common models of bad communication. And I feel it’s super important for you to review here. Keep in mind that this pattern is progressive. Number one typically comes first, then the rest follow after in order. .. Negative Communication Pattern Number 1: Criticism Criticizing a man is putting him down. It’s the fastest way to alienate your man, and poison your relationship. Let’s face it, we know that criticism is a relationship killer. But we can’t seem to stop ourselves from doing it. Everyone seems to think that criticism will get a person to do what you want them to do. And it may actually do that – sometimes – but only for short time. Criticism creates resentment so fast. It’s like putting a few drops of bleach in a glass of water. In moments the water is poisoned. The best thing you can do is to communicate what you would like within your relationship. If you’re pointing out how your partner is not giving you what you need, you’ve skipped a step. Especially if you have never really explained your needs to him. Or why this situation bothers you the way it does. Make sure you communicate your needs first. And also remember that criticism is very often just another way to keep your distance from another person. It’s avoiding intimacy. Yes, women do this too. Very frequently. Negative Communication Pattern Number 2: Defensiveness Being defensive is self protection. Remember that being defensive is just a sneaky way of trying to blame the situation on the other person. If you feel attacked, look at that first. Chances are you may be either misunderstanding that he’s blaming you, or taking it too personally. The best way to avoid defensiveness is to take responsibility for your part of the situation. One of the ways I can tell how healthy a person is when they get divorced is by asking them what their part of the relationship breaking up is. Most of the time both people typically blame each other and take no responsibility. Negative Communication Pattern Number 3: Stonewalling Have you ever caught yourself saying “never mind” to him? Or maybe he asks you what’s wrong and you say “Nothing.” Maybe he’s said it to you? Stonewalling is simply the shut-down of communications. It’s when you withdraw from ... For the rest - WATCH THE VIDEO! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Communication In A Relationship https://youtu.be/aJn-4GrdaRI

https://www.datingadviceguru.com/signals What is a Healthy Relationship? 8 Signs Of A Strong, Healthy Relationship To keep our relationship healthy, you first have to know what is a healthy relationship. Because you need to know when something is not right with your man and your connection. You have to be able to see the problems before they sabotage your relationship. Are you in a healthy relationship? In order to know that, we first have to ask – What are the parts of a healthy relationship? A healthy relationship is when two people create a connection based on: Respect for each other Rock solid communication Trust & Honesty Supportiveness Separate identities that come together Playful & fun shared experiences Now, these are very important – and we’ll explore these in a moment – But – do you think you’d know if you were in an unhealthy relationship? It’s easy to ignore certain warning signs and even get caught up in unhealthy dynamics in a relationship. Signs of an UN-healthy relationship Just as important as knowing what a healthy relationship is, you also need to know what is unhealthy. Let’s go through a few of those right now: Absolutely – Get Outa There Sign #1: Abuse – of any kind… Now, this can be tricky because we have to define what ‘abuse’ actually is. The dictionary definition: ABUSE – to misuse. The improper use of something. Use something for a bad effect or bad purpose. Carlos Cavallo, Dating and Attraction Adviser carlos face1 What is a Healthy Relationship? 8 Signs Of A Strong, Healthy Relationship 7 Fatal Mistakes Ebook What is a Healthy Relationship? 8 Signs Of A Strong, Healthy RelationshipGet Your Free Cheatsheet The REAL Reason Men Run From Relationships... How To Know If He's Still Interested... Is He Afraid To Commit? Find out... Enter Your Email And Get The 7 Mistakes Women Make That Make Him Pull Away... GET INSTANT ACCESS... So ultimately it comes down to you being able to figure this out for yourself. Abuse is always about the misuse of your relationship connection. If he ever hits you, it’s abuse. No matter what. If he uses words to hurt you in a mean or hateful way, then that’s also abuse. Really, the bottom line is, if you’re wondering if it is abuse – it probably is. And you should probably check with somebody who you know has experience with that sort of thing. Someone you can confide in. And then ask them what they think. But always trust yourself first. If you suspect you’re in an abusive relationship – Get out. Sign #2: He’s controlling in some way… If your partner tries to tell you what to wear, who to hang out with, or how to live your life, in a way that is commanding or dominating, you need to consider this is him being controlling. I could probably cover every one of these signs, but let’s just skip to the chase and let me give you a quick batch of unhealthy signs to look out for – Here are some signs to help you recognize a toxic and unhealthy relationship: All take, no give. … A relationship requires generosity Feeling drained. … if you’re constantly losing energy in the relationship, where is it all going? Lack of trust… (i.e., dishonest) You have to have truth between you to succeed Hostile atmosphere. … when all you have is anger, the love can’t thrive An imbalanced and unfair relationship… there needs to be justice and equity within your relationship Constant judgment of you … judging is just another way to keep the distance Reliably unreliable… when a person can’t be counted on, it undermines your trust Brings out the worst in you… Obviously you need someone who can bring out the best not the worst Constantly criticizing… when a person tears you down all the time, it erodes your self-worth Growth and learning are not there… A relationship should be a place for growth (MORE in the video) But be aware if you are rationalizing your relationship or are you enjoying it. That’s one of the best ways to figure out if you’re in a healthy relationship. Okay enough of the negativity. Let’s get into what is a healthy relationship – the good signs to look for. Here are the signs that you’re in a healthy relationship. Remember to think of these as a general map. Your relationship may vary in some small ways, but these elements should be there. Sign #1: You’ve got a smile on your face… One of the biggest signs of a healthy relationship is simply ... For the rest - watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== What is a healthy relationship? https://youtu.be/nN6Zhw87c20

For more on how to connect with any man: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/connection When You Find The One – Secret Signs You’ve Found Your Soulmate What do you do when you find The One? After all, you don’t want to risk losing him. And you sure don’t want to miss your chance… Even if you don’t really believe in just one person for you, this article will help you understand how to keep this special person in your relationship. Because we all realize that some people are easier to stay with than others. And we know it’ll just be easier for us to stay with them in the long run. Many people panic when they meet somebody that could be a soulmate to them. Very often we feel that love is scarce. And even more scarce is finding the person you are meant to be with. You want to make sure that you don’t lose your head when your magical soulmate relationship (The One) finally shows up for you! One of the first things you want to do is make sure you’re seeing the signs correctly. After all, you want to make sure that this guy really is The One for you. I’m going to cover the signs you’ve met the one first. And then I’ll tell you a little bit more about what to do after you find the one. Some things you’ll figure out on your own just by tuning into your instincts. But of course it’s always a little bit difficult to trust our gut for relationships. So I will be giving you specifics about what to look for as well. Hopefully this will give you the insurance you need to keep your relationship strong and not lose him! Sign # 1: Everything falls into place with him… One of the best indicators that you’ve met the man that’s meant to be with you is that you notice all of your usual obstacles seem to disappear. This guy seems to be on the same page with you. What were once difficult parts of a relationship for you, are now no longer so difficult. You don’t fight about the same things, if you fight at all. Those little deal breakers that you ran into with other guys don’t come up. And if they do they are nowhere near as difficult to overcome. It’s a lot like when you do a puzzle and all the blanks just start filling in for you. It almost seems effortless. Sign # 2: It’s so easy to just be you… One of the trickiest things in a relationship is knowing how much of yourself to show your partner. Early on in the relationship, we often hide so much about ourselves for fear of being rejected. In fact it’s so easy just to keep hiding those things later on. Especially if you want the relationship to work out and end up in marriage. The cool thing about a soulmate relationship with The One is that you can just be you. you can say the things you’re thinking about and it doesn’t faze him… you can go a day without makeup and it doesn’t bother him… you can show him your flaws and it won’t freak him out… It’s so important to be able to be authentic with someone in a relationship. And it’s very likely that your soulmate is wondering this about you too. If you’re both genuine, then it’s much more likely you’re going to work to keep this together. Sign # 3: You can also let him see the dings… When you find The One, not only can you just be yourself, but you can also let him see the dings, dents, and scratches in you. You’re not advertising your flaws, but you’re also not needing to hide them to make sure he won’t leave you. One of the best ways to be authentic with a person is to let them see your flaws. In fact, this will also let you work through arguments and disagreements much faster. You won’t be protecting yourself as much as the relationship itself. You’ll always be working towards the same common goal. And when we see the other person as a normal human being, we lose the intimidation factor – and we start to gain the admiration of our partner. Sign # 4: They’ve got your... For the rest - watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== When You Find The One https://youtu.be/3INroOtJmto

Ask Carlos a Question - or just get the free stuff! https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos When it comes right down to it, we all want to know how to be more attractive to the opposite sex. Men want to be more attractive to women - and Women want to know how to be more attractive to MEN. Are there secrets left for being more attractive to guys? Is there really anything left to show you about how to make men find you irresistible? As it happens, YES! There are a lot of things women do not understand about what makes a man desire you. Attraction may be subjective, but there are rules for making it happen. First, let's start with this: ATTRACTION SECRET #1: There ARE Ways To Boost A Man's Desire For You... Ever since I was a kid, I've been fascinated by how emotions work. And one area that was probably the most important to me (and probably to everyone) was how LOVE and attraction worked. I knew from experience that I found certain women attractive, and certain other women NOT attractive. I noticed the same thing when I talked to women as I studied this. And the most interesting part was that it was almost never about the looks of the person. Instead, it seemed to have much more to do with their BEHAVIOR. And that put me in contact with what would become my lifelong passion! Studying the ins and outs of romantic passion. There are ways for a woman to boost a man's desire for her. And the brutal truth is that not many women understand what these ways are! Now before we get into a few of them, I want to point something out first: Influencing how a person feels about you is not: NOT immoral... NOT unethical... NOT game playing! ATTRACTION SECRET #2: The Psychology of Love Is Reliable! You may wonder if the factors that make us feel attraction are like rolling dice each time. It might seem that way if you found a guy attractive and then you go out on a date only to discover there's no chemistry. Ultimately, no one can COMPLETELY predict (or control) love. If you could, there'd be no challenge or fun in it! Now, some people might say, "I'd rather having that than having my hear broken every time, Carlos!" Which is exactly why I teach these strategies to women. I want to give you the unfair advantage over other women out there, so you can have the man you truly desire. These tips and tricks I show you WORK. They're reliable, and consistent. This is assuming: You follow my advice from the start. I can't promise you the same results if you make a bunch of mistakes for the first month and then try to do a U-turn with your relationship. But assuming he has feelings for you, he will probably respond. YOU are consistent. If you waffle back and forth between insecurity and confident stance, he'll feel unsafe with you. You learn the RIGHT strategies. I spent years putting these things together in a way that is not only heart-centered, it's compassionate and effective at creating a loving connection. ATTRACTION SECRET #3: Attraction Is Not A Choice... Many of us never stop to consider this fact. But it's true. We do not CHOOSE the person we're attracted to - or who we fall in love with. It just happens to us. However! We can influence this process, and pace ourselves so that we are not VICTIMS of love. Have you ever stopped to really THINK about why a certain person was attractive to you? In hindsight, there IS a reason for those feelings, if you look closely enough. I'll use the example of a girlfriend I had right out of high school - let's call her "B." I was attracted to B. because: She was cute (not gorgeous, but an average attractive girl) She had a weird, somewhat dark sense of humor... She liked a lot of the things I did at the time - Hard rock music, Lamborghinis, and scary movies... She was easygoing and fit into my lifestyle easily... I knew this looking back on that relationship, but I would have found it near impossible to come up with much more than the superficial compatibilities. (Combined with a teenage boy's sex drive.) I still had to pursue B., mind you. She had been seeing some other guy and was broken up for a few months. But in the end, I realize the relationship was possible because we both shared the attraction, and we were just enough alike to both want it. We chose each other. ATTRACTION SECRET #4: If You Know How Men Think - You Can Make Him Fall For You... Here's the other side of attraction: It can also be ... Watch the Video for the rest! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How to be more attractive to men https://youtu.be/qw4C_j6dpVc

To Get Your Free Ebook On Dating Mistakes Women Make - Go HERE: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/free Is He Waiting For Me To Text Him? 9 Smart Texting Tips Texting seems to be the new battleground of dating these days. And if you’ve been waiting for a guy to text you back, chances are you’re also wondering “Is he waiting for me to text him?” Even if you’re over 30 (as most of the women I coach are) – and you’re looking to get married, or just have a passionate love affair – you’re probably using text messages to communicate with him. And let’s face it, 20 year olds don’t need dating advice. (Those young women only really need experience.) I’m here for the woman who has reached an age where she’s serious about her relationships and is ready for her “forever man.” And I’m betting that’s probably what you want. What you need to win him is – A few good texting strategies to understand how to text a guy in a way that gets him to text you back… And so you don’t wait around on him wondering if you should make the first move. You need some straight facts about how to text men – from a guy. Sound interesting to you? Okay, then let’s get started! First – you’re probably wondering this: Are There Rules For Texting Guys? The short answer is, YES – there definitely are rules for texting men. (And when NOT to text men.) RULE 1 FOR TEXTING A GUY: Don’t text any emotions to him… He won’t know what to do with that, even if they’re positive loving emotions. Some guys just freeze up like a deer-in-the-headlights when emotions are put in front of them like this. And to be honest, if you’re using texts to say emotions instead of speaking them, that could be a sign of too much fear in your new relationship. That fear will just sabotage the connection you want. RULE 2 FOR TEXTING A GUY: Stop using so many emojis and punctuation marks… Guys – MATURE guys – will think this is immature and the mark of an unintelligent woman. Also, if you feel that you need to put emojis or a lot of punctuation in your text message, that probably means you didn’t spend a lot of time thinking about how to say what you’re trying to say. As a famous author once said, “Pardon how long this letter is – if I’d had more time, it would have been shorter.” And a related rule is also: Spell out your words, and spell them right! You still want to look smart – even when texting. A guy is still evaluating you, the same way you’re evaluating him. Show him the best possible version of you by putting effort into all your communications. Yeah, even texts! RULE 3 FOR TEXTING A GUY: Never text him more than 2 times to “get his attention…” Women are notorious for wondering if the guy got her text – and then proceeding to keep sending 17 more text messages to him to “make sure.” (Yeah, guys do this one occasionally, too.) Here’s a fact: Guys see through the “just wanted to make sure my text got through!” excuse. Or that extra lame: “Just wanted to say hey!” Mmm hmmm. Sure. Here’s another fact: Text messages almost NEVER get lost. Trust that he saw your text, and he’ll respond when/if he wants to. If you’re still in doubt about him, you really should be calling him at some point. Because if he doesn’t respond to a phone call or message, you know immediately how he feels about you. (Which is probably why so few people do this…) RULE 4 FOR TEXTING A GUY: Don’t use texting because you’re chickens**t… Let’s be real for a moment here… A lot of people use texting as a way to avoid confrontation and to take the easy route in communication. A LOT. Sure, texting is fast and easy, which means you can send more little itty bitty messages over the course of the day. Texting FREQUENCY does not ... To Find Out The Secrets - Watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Is He Waiting For Me To Text Him https://youtu.be/S0nVo0DSQSk

For more - https://www.datingadviceguru.com/connectwithhim How To Know That You Love Someone BY CARLOS CAVALLO · Love is the most tricky area of emotions for us to understand. It can be even harder if you’re wondering how to know that you love someone. Is it really love? Or is it just infatuation? How can you know for sure that you’re in love with this person? Well, before I tell you the signs of falling in love, I want to ask a couple questions – Do You Feel In Love With HIM? Or do you just love the feeling of being WITH him? It might seem like that’s just playing with words, but it’s actually important. If you feel love for the PERSON – that’s an important part of being in love. But if you just love the feeling you’re experiencing when you’re near this guy, you could also just be infatuated. Infatuation is not really love, by the way. It’s often mistaken for love, but it’s not. It’s a highly charged state of being that really equates to lust more than love. Those initial chemicals that get dumped into your bloodstream when you meet someone that you feel a strong sexual desire for will create a perfect storm of desire in both of you. But the reality is that it’s not “love” at all. It’s simply a pure physical response to someone who might make some fast babies with you. Hey, that’s how Mother Nature works. Let’s jump into the signs of love, and then we’ll see how it applies to you… How To Know That You Love Someone – 17 Signs Sign #1: You’re Doped Up… Falling in love means that your body is going to have a hormonal reaction. I know, not sexy when I say it like that. But it goes back to what I explained about infatuation… You’re going to feel a ton of drug-like effects ranging from: Racing pulse Sweaty skin Heightened energy Distracted thoughts The list goes on and on. You are literally under the effect of a half dozen or more chemicals in your bloodstream and brain that affect the way you think and feel, including hormones like: Vasopressin Oxytocin Serotonin Adrenaline Phenylethylamine Dopamine Estrogen And we all know about Testosterone in the guys… So you can be sure that you’re going to feel a wee bit dopey when the first part of “love” starts to show up in your system. It’s literally like being under the influence. Sign #2: Can’t … Stop … Looking … One of the most dramatically obvious signs of love as it starts in your system is that you just can’t stop staring at the person you’re in love with. You’ll look at their face, their eyes, their body, their hair… And it seems so darn irresistible in the moment that you’re near them. I’m sure you’ve experienced this at some point. It was usually back in our teens that we found that certain people we were attracted to – or dating – had this magical magnetism that keeps us looking at them as much as possible. You almost wish you could just sit there watching them for hours… but that would get kinda creepy. This is one that is more obvious for women than men, mostly because women are much better at controlling their physical responses in social situations. Guys, on the other hand, have no problem staring in creepy ways, as you may have experienced. Sign #3: Can’t … Stop … THINKING … Another compulsive behavior is when we can’t stop thinking about the person we’re in love with. This is heavily influenced by those love hormones I mentioned earlier. Those hormones are actually rewiring your brain to desire and bond with that person you’re in love with! Which seems a bit unfair, but hey… the reality of love is that you don’t get to choose the people you fall in love with. So if you find yourself preoccupied with thoughts about your love interest, or you can’t help fantasizing and imagining them… or you just replay moments from the past with them like rewinding a movie you’re constantly streaming in your head… You’re probably falling in love. But I would encourage you to distract yourself as much as you can and not let yourself think too much about them. Constantly fantasizing about a person could put you in a position where you are the one that loves the most in the relationship. And that means you could find yourself riding a crazy emotional roller coaster with him… Sign #4: Giving and giving and giving … One of the crazy signs of love is the one that makes us affirm our belief in why love is so good, even if it doesn’t always work out. We tend to become very... FOR THE REST OF THE TIPS - Watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Know That You Love Someone https://youtu.be/GHa8YDKCA_A

For more - Go to https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos What Is A Twin Flame Love? – And Is He Yours? BY CARLOS CAVALLO · You may have met a man and are wondering if he’s your Twin Flame. Heck, you might be wondering What IS a Twin Flame Love? And do I have one? The definition of a Twin Flame is: Twin flames are two people who were split into different bodies but share the same soul. Which… yeah, kinda means that you might even run into a twin flame that is the same sex as you. Which may or may not change the idea of romance with them. Twin flames make “soul mates” look and feel kind of lame in comparison, since Twin Flames are like soul mates – with a TURBO charge… But keep in mind that there is a possibility that your Twin Flame is not a romantic love. They may just be a deep and significant relationship in your life that you are forever connected to. Some examples of movies with Twin Flame love stories are: Ghost Titanic Romeo & Juliet The Fountain City of Angels In each of these movies, the love connection was fierce and driven by forces outside of the usual “romantic connection.” Often, these Twin Flame love stories have an element of tragedy in them. Sometimes it might even mean the death of one of them. But the passionate connection of love between them creates a powerful story. How You Feel When You’re With Your Twin Flame Love… When you’re with your Twin Flame, you feel like you’re “whole” again. A higher state that feels more true and grounded. It’s kind of like those necklaces you can buy that you break in two and give one half to the other person. When you’re with your Twin Flame connection, it’s like you’ve put those halves back together. Do you believe in twin flames? Let’s dig into this a little more… First of all, are there different kinds of connections we share? As it happens, yes. Here are a few of them: Soulmates Kindred spirit Karmic Soulmate Life Partner Twin Flame You can think of these terms as describing where you are on a scale of “meant to be together.” On the far left, is “tragic romance,” like Romeo and Juliet. On the far right is “Twin Flame.” These are the people that NEED to find each other to be complete. You might think of Jack Dawson and Rose from “Titanic.” And somewhere in the middle are most average relationships that can experience a few years – or even a lifetime connection that grows. Are Twin Flame Connections REAL? We have to recognize that people want to believe in magical forms of love. I call this the “Destiny Desire” in us. We want to believe in a person out there that we are destined to be with. Humans enter this world with a feeling of this huge higher spiritual being that we are connected to. We feel our souls are connected to it, but we also know that there are others we could also be connected with. And, honestly, we don’t want to waste our time on people with whom we feel no connection. In fact, you might even view the search for a Twin Flame love or connection as a bit of a curse. It can be much easier to just “settle” for a relationship with someone that you feel compatible and simply in love with. No hassle of finding that one-in-a-million person. What Is A Twin Flame Love – Signs Of A Twin Flame Connection Let’s jump right in with: Twin Flame – Sign 1: Synchronicity and Coincidence Do you seem to encounter a certain person no matter where you go? If it feels like this person is connected to you and that you share a kind of spiritual familiarity, this person could be a Twin Flame love. Synchronicity is a concept defined by the great psychologist Carl Jung. It means: “the simultaneous occurrence of events which appear significantly related but have no discernible causal connection…” If you find that you encounter small events that put you together with a person, maybe even overlapping your lives in strangely coincidental ways, this could be a sign of twin flame connection. Some people believe there are no coincidences. If you notice two events that seem to overlap or coincide, it’s an indication of intention from the universe. Many people believe that if you’re destined to be with someone, you’ll know it… Twin Flame – Sign 2: “Have we met before…?” There are many people I encounter that I know I’ve met before – and I’m not talking about a past life – although it might have been another time. There is a spiritual energy that we pick up on, whether we know it or not. The flames of our desire are - For the rest - WATCH THE VIDEO! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== What is a twin flame love? https://youtu.be/XXBHHhVuoo4

If you want to know more about love, dating, & men: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/free Why Do I Fall In Love So Easily – 7 Reasons – And How To Stop! If you’ve ever wondered “Why do I fall in love so easily?” then you may have experienced more than your fair share of heartbreak. Love is a magical, mystical force of the universe – and probably the most important thing to understand. Sometimes we fall in love with someone too fast, though, and that can lead to a lot of pain. You may be dating someone that you have a lot in common with… Sometimes the sex (aka, lust) is awesome… Sometimes they just seem like just the person (and relationship) you’ve been waiting for… But that doesn’t mean that they are your soulmate, or that this is a magical connection. And sometimes it is just lust, not love. Here are some warning signs you should look for in my: Why Do I Fall In Love So Quickly Quiz: Do you occasionally find yourself feeling a deep emotional stirring for someone on the first date? Are you easily charmed by warm people? Do you frequently start thinking of a future with someone you’ve just met or been on one date with? Do you have one night stands because you believe there’s a special “connection” with someone? Do you really struggle with men who frequently disappear from your life after only one or two dates? Do you really *REALLY* want a relationship and a family…? Do you often describe yourself as a “hopeless romantic”? Are you a “Love Quote” addict? Do you read a lot of love poetry? Do you passionately believe in “love at first sight”? If you notice that you fit one or more of those signs, then this article is definitely for you. What we’re going to do is break down the major reasons and causes of falling in love quickly so you can get your heart steady for The One who’s the RIGHT one for you! Reason 1: Your heart is starving – for love… When I was dating in my 20s, I had a hungry heart. Which meant I was really aching for love in a big way. I wanted a girlfriend, as well as a deep, fulfilling dating relationship with someone. You might feel like this. And when your heart is this love-starved, you start to make some dating relationships look promising, even when they’re not. You really just want to be in a relationship so bad that most guys you date look hopeful – even if they’re not. Another part of a starving heart is that you may also have a slight addiction to the process of falling in love because of all the lust brain hormones that get released. Who doesn’t love that juicy feeling of falling in love? It’s thrilling and euphoric! The feelings of lust versus love also very distorted – and unrealistic to maintain. But still, some people get addicted to that lust sensation. If you know your heart is particularly sensitive and looking to be filled, you should try to find a good balance of all areas of your life to help keep you from falling in love too easily while you’re dating. Focus on your own mind, body, and spirit – while working to keep your community of friendships alive and vibrant. Reason 2: You Need Balance… Just like when our hearts are hungry, we often look to relationships to fulfill the emptiness inside ourselves. Sometimes this is just to get a sense of calm and peace that we haven’t been able to find in life. If you find yourself frequently trying to soothe your anxiety with relationships, you may have some things that need to get worked out. Remember when I told you that I was love-starved in my 20s? Well, that was only half of it. I was seeking a deep romantic relationships with someone as a cure for the damaged parts of me. What I didn’t know then was that I would never have a truly fulfilling relationship until I took care of those parts of me in need of repair. This is true for everyone! I’ve never seen a dating relationship truly establish a solid foundation of true love until both of the people in it start to work on their unresolved junk. (i.e., “issues”) You have to find a sense of internal balance to ground yourself, or you will keep falling in love quickly with men. And sometimes – with the wrong men! Reason 3: You’ve Got Disney-phrenia… Look, we all love a good fairy tale. They formed some of our most idealistic and hopeful visions of love as kids. They also gave us an understanding of the power of healthy love vs lust. For the rest - watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Why do I fall in love so easily https://youtu.be/fUphFsXivPU

For more - go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/connection Narcissistic Men In Relationships – 10 Signs He’s A Narcissist The topic of narcissists has come up a lot in the news these days, and especially narcissistic men in relationships. Having a relationship with a narcissist is a frustrating and downright painful experience that you might not recognize at first – especially if your emotions have been manipulated by them. The first and most important thing to know is what a real “narcissist” actually IS – especially as it relates to narcissistic relationships. Narcissistic personality disorder — is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. There are three kinds of narcissists: Exhibitionist Narcissist – this is the one that is the classic example you’ve seen in movies and TV. They’re extremely confident, and they are very difficult in relationships… Closet Narcissist – this type points to something or someone else as being special – like a person, a religion, a brand label, a philosophy. They’re very insecure and passive-aggressive in relationships… Toxic Narcissist – this is the type of narcissist that is most dangerous – and thankfully pretty rare. This is the person that enjoys stirring up chaos and hurting others. Like “The Joker” in Batman movies, or the evil queens in fairy tales. You won’t likely run into many in your relationships… There are 9 criteria for narcissism as defined by the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM V) – and you need at least 5 of these symptoms to be a candidate. (Note: Unless you’re a trained professional, it’s best to use these criteria for your own knowledge. Declaring someone a narcissist on your own – especially in a romantic relationship – could really stir up some anger.) Here they are: 9 Symptoms Of Narcissistic Personality Disorder grandiose sense of self-importance preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love belief they’re special and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people or institutions need for excessive admiration sense of entitlement (they deserve it ‘just because’) interpersonally exploitative behavior lack of empathy envy of others or a belief that others are envious of them demonstration of arrogant and haughty behaviors or attitudes The narcissistic disorder itself is actually relatively rare. The estimate is that only about 200,000 US cases of narcissism are formally diagnosed each year – which is .05% of the population. And as a whole there are less than 2% of the US population with some form of narcissism. However, it’s also easy to mistake someone who posts a few too many duck-face selfies – or mirror shots of their abs – as having narcissism. Narcissistic personality disorder is actually much deeper and complicated than the occasional over-posting on Facebook. (Though this can be a cry for help…) For a great many people, these desperate bids for attention are really just insecure personality issues… They act the way they do because they’re not getting what they need from their relationships, and they feel deprived. And while some people can be very selfish, it’s actually unlikely that they are a narcissist based on this behavior alone. Sometimes, (to be completely blunt) you might just be dating a real jerk. The actual disorder of narcissism has come up as being a growing problem in the United States. Some people blame Facebook… Some blame the “self esteem” movement… Some blame Mr. Rogers… (I’m not kidding, they really do!) Some people blame the President… In reality, none of those factors are really to blame. Or maybe it’s ALL of them as a whole. It’s really a complicated recipe of ingredients that creates the narcissist disorder. The part that should concern you most in relationships is that 75% of all narcissists are men… Which means you want to be able to spot this condition if you want to avoid some nasty relationship problems later on. Personally, I’ve also encountered some of the 25% of female narcissists back in some of my past relationships. And I’ll tell you that it’s not very fun, either. You may be aware that one of the most famous narcissists was ... For the rest, watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Narcissistic Men In Relationships https://youtu.be/RmSKtHZw4yo