Why Do I Fall In Love So Easily? - The Secret Reasons

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Why Do I Fall In Love So Easily – 7 Reasons – And How To Stop!

If you’ve ever wondered “Why do I fall in love so easily?” then you may have experienced more than your fair share of heartbreak.

Love is a magical, mystical force of the universe – and probably the most important thing to understand. Sometimes we fall in love with someone too fast, though, and that can lead to a lot of pain.

You may be dating someone that you have a lot in common with…

Sometimes the sex (aka, lust) is awesome…

Sometimes they just seem like just the person (and relationship) you’ve been waiting for…

But that doesn’t mean that they are your soulmate, or that this is a magical connection. And sometimes it is just lust, not love.

Here are some warning signs you should look for in my:

Why Do I Fall In Love So Quickly Quiz:

Do you occasionally find yourself feeling a deep emotional stirring for someone on the first date?

Are you easily charmed by warm people?

Do you frequently start thinking of a future with someone you’ve just met or been on one date with?

Do you have one night stands because you believe there’s a special “connection” with someone?

Do you really struggle with men who frequently disappear from your life after only one or two dates?

Do you really *REALLY* want a relationship and a family…?

Do you often describe yourself as a “hopeless romantic”?

Are you a “Love Quote” addict? Do you read a lot of love poetry?

Do you passionately believe in “love at first sight”?

If you notice that you fit one or more of those signs, then this article is definitely for you.

What we’re going to do is break down the major reasons and causes of falling in love quickly so you can get your heart steady for The One who’s the RIGHT one for you!

Reason 1: Your heart is starving – for love…
When I was dating in my 20s, I had a hungry heart.

Which meant I was really aching for love in a big way. I wanted a girlfriend, as well as a deep, fulfilling dating relationship with someone.

You might feel like this. And when your heart is this love-starved, you start to make some dating relationships look promising, even when they’re not.
You really just want to be in a relationship so bad that most guys you date look hopeful – even if they’re not.
Another part of a starving heart is that you may also have a slight addiction to the process of falling in love because of all the lust brain hormones that get released. Who doesn’t love that juicy feeling of falling in love? It’s thrilling and euphoric!

The feelings of lust versus love also very distorted – and unrealistic to maintain.
But still, some people get addicted to that lust sensation.

If you know your heart is particularly sensitive and looking to be filled, you should try to find a good balance of all areas of your life to help keep you from falling in love too easily while you’re dating.

Focus on your own mind, body, and spirit – while working to keep your community of friendships alive and vibrant.

Reason 2: You Need Balance…
Just like when our hearts are hungry, we often look to relationships to fulfill the emptiness inside ourselves. Sometimes this is just to get a sense of calm and peace that we haven’t been able to find in life.

If you find yourself frequently trying to soothe your anxiety with relationships, you may have some things that need to get worked out.

Remember when I told you that I was love-starved in my 20s? Well, that was only half of it. I was seeking a deep romantic relationships with someone as a cure for the damaged parts of me.

What I didn’t know then was that I would never have a truly fulfilling relationship until I took care of those parts of me in need of repair.

This is true for everyone!

I’ve never seen a dating relationship truly establish a solid foundation of true love until both of the people in it start to work on their unresolved junk. (i.e., “issues”)

You have to find a sense of internal balance to ground yourself, or you will keep falling in love quickly with men. And sometimes – with the wrong men!

Reason 3: You’ve Got Disney-phrenia…
Look, we all love a good fairy tale. They formed some of our most idealistic and hopeful visions of love as kids. They also gave us an understanding of the power of healthy love vs lust.

For the rest - watch the video!

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