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FOR MORE: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/readhissignals 4 Attitudes Men Love About Women - Do YOU Have Them? By: Carlos Cavallo (IF YOU WANT MORE, ASK FOR A PART 2 IN THE COMMENTS!) Let's talk about the attitudes men love about women. A lot of people get this wrong, so it's really important for you to get it right. If you do, he'll find you irresistible - If you don't, you'll struggle. Let's look into the most irresistible attitudes for women - the ones men can't resist. And probably the best thing about your attitude is that it's something you can completely control. Unlike your appearance and other qualities which you were born with. So this means you can do something about this and almost instantly make yourself irresistible to men. The more you can bring these qualities out in yourself, the more you're going to stand apart from the pack. The women that men can't stop chasing all have these attitudes. IRRESISTIBLE ATTITUDE #1: You make him feel needed and desired Funny how this one works, because it's one of the most important attitudes a woman wants in a man, too. A man needs to feel like you need him in your life. He has to feel like he has a role and a place for you. This can be as simple as you inviting him to help fix something. or painting some part of your house. Or even driving you home from your doctors appointment. As long as you don't make these requests too frequently so as to seem high maintenance, he will gladly help you out. It's part of his natural program for relationships. And if you don't make him useful, he'll become depressed, lazy, and start to look elsewhere for happiness. Another part of this attitude is ... FOR MORE: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/helpmecarlos ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: https://rumble.com/c/datingadviceguru =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru ===========================================

For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/doesheloveme So you're texting a guy, and you're Wondering how to tell if he likes you by his texts. How do you really know what he thinks about you? It's hard to NOT read into whatever words he sends to you, after all. But somehow you gotta figure out if this guy likes you or not Do you keep working on this romance? Or do you just let them go and try the next guy? Well that's what in the tell you about today As a guy I can tell you if he's really interested or if you're wasting your time Ultimately that's what this is really all about. You want to be able to figure out what he's thinking and what he's feeling by what he sends to you in texts. In fact, it's one of the most common questions I do get. Not just from women but from men. Guys want to know if she's interested based on what she sending him in texts. I got some good news and bad news: The bad news is that this is not an exact science. The good news is that you can interpret a few things based on what he sends you. And how he sends it to you. The trick of texting is that you have to do your interpreting without seeing his body language or hearing his tone of voice. Which is a huge obstacle to overcome. First let's cover a few of the texting myths that you will encounter. If you listen to other people's advice, you could make a serious mistake. MYTH 1: He likes you if he… For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/obsession ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: https://rumble.com/c/datingadviceguru =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru ===========================================

For More: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/helpmecarlos Hey, this is Carlos Cavallo TOday we're going to reveal some of the top traits of HIGH value women. And yes - it's a part ONE of what I hope to be an ongoing series! Leave me a comment below if you want a part 2 - or what other videos you'd like to see! We need to explore what the qualities are of these women. But first let's figure out what a high-value woman IS. And by the way, if you find this interesting, why not subscribe and turn on the notifications? Get this stuff every week and support the channel. There are a lot of qualities of the high-value woman. You can look at this as a kind of self-improvement laundry list. Pick the things that you feel are most important to you and work on them - Leave the others for some other time. This list can sound kind of intimidating given all the qualities of the high-value woman. But don't let it freak you out. Chances are you probably already got a lot of these qualities, you just need to learn how to demonstrate them. For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/irresistible ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: https://rumble.com/c/datingadviceguru =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru ===========================================

For MORE: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/helpmecarlos What Men don't want you to know - PART 2 There are a LOT of things guys don't really want you to know. Not that there is a scandal here or anything that he's hiding. There are things that a guy wants to keep you from seeing. - Sometimes because of pride and ego. - Sometimes because he just doesn't want you to know what's going on inside. The inner life of a man is kept a secret from most women Would you like to know what he's thinking and feeling? Wouldn't you like to understand them a little better? Hey, this is Carlos Cavallo from https://www.datingfire.com https://www.datingadviceguru.com Today we're going to reveal more things men don't want you to know. Guys can be secretive and quiet. As you're probably already aware! So with my expertise of being a dating advisor - And a guy! TIP 1: Men hate rejection more than anything I mentioned this in the other video in this series, one of the worst experiences a guy can have is to be rejected by a woman. We do anything to avoid that! That's why you see so many guys struggling to approach a woman and talk to her. To not be accepted by a woman strikes at the very heart of a man's ego. Which is why you will see... For more - go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/connection ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: https://rumble.com/c/datingadviceguru =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru ===========================================

For the free quiz: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/datingage ______________________ HOW TO MAKE HIM WANT TO BE WITH YOU Does he want to be with you right now? Are you seeing behaviors that tell you he's not as interested as you want him to be? Not returning texts quickly? Not returning them at all? Is he pulling away? Is he growing distant? Does it seem like he's not really into you? There are ways to make a man want to be with you. And of course there are ways to make him want to sit home and play video games Or hang out with his friends more than you. So let's explore some male psychology in today's video. Hey, this is Carlos Cavallo from https://www.datingadviceguru.com Today we're going to explore what makes men tick What makes a man want to be with you? - Do you want him to be with you as boyfriend & girlfriend and you're only friends right now? - Maybe you're already dating and you want him to be more committed? There's lots of ways for him to be with you. But it's obvious you probably want him to devote himself to you in a relationship. By the way If this dating and relationship stuff is interesting to you, go ahead and subscribe and turn on notifications to get more every week. And I've got a lot for you here! Were going to dig into how men think and pick apart his romantic interest in you in this video. Stay with me! And if you want more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/irresistible ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: https://rumble.com/c/datingadviceguru =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru ===========================================

For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/winhimback #1 Way To Get Him Back - Or Just Get Over Him! I am talking to any woman who has just lost the man they love - Or is afraid of losing him. Maybe there's some new space or distance between you. Maybe there is a cold vibe where he is withdrawing. Maybe he has even said that he wants some space. you might sense that he has 1 foot in and 1 foot out of your relationship. Today I'm going to give you a direction to go in. You're finally going to know what to do next! THIS IS SUPER PAINFUL: Single most painful experience next to physical pain And a breakup actually HAS physical pain, too! It can be horrible. You want to do anything to make it stop. But part of you is also fighting yourself. you know that you can't control whether or not he comes back to you. So you might wonder if you should just move on. But you also don't want to move on too soon. What if he was the one for you? What if he was the one? The one you are supposed to be with? Maybe the one you are supposed to marry? FIRST: The first part is you have to know what it is you're experiencing right now If you watched any of my videos you know about this cocktail of love hormones that you go through when you fall in love. Your brain literally becomes addicted to the other person. Each time you see them a little dose of one of these chemicals gets injected into your brain: Oxytocin Dopamine Serotonin Adrenaline And more... This came from way back when we were primates - When we really didn't have a real understanding of what love and sex was for. These chemicals make sure that men and women got together and made new little babies. But if you don't know what they're doing you could get tricked. Now that your relationship is threatened, your addiction is starting to show up even more. You're addicted to his presence in your life! So how do we solve this problem when you're about to break up? Or maybe you already have broken up? The first part is knowing which direction to go You know that you either have to make this thing work or let him go And move on with your life. You'd probably rather make it work and keep them instead of letting the relationship go. For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/winhimback ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: https://rumble.com/c/datingadviceguru =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru ===========================================

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For more - Go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/textingquiz 5 Texting Secrets Men Can't Resist - Try This! There are good texts, and bad texts, and there are sexy texts men can't resist. When he gets one of these, he will reply to your text in record time! I'm going to show you a few of these today. Obviously texting is here to stay... And now, more than ever, people are using texting for everything from ordering food to emergency therapy sessions. (No, I'm not kidding about that last one.) And if there's one topic I get questions about, it's about how to text men to get them to respond to you. There are so many worries women have about their relationships - - Is he getting bored of me? - Is he in contact with other women? - How do I get his interest/attention? - Does he think I'm too easy? Too available? And of course all of these worries can be related right back to texting, too. Watch the video for more... And go take the What's Your Texting Type Quiz HERE: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/textingquiz ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: https://rumble.com/c/datingadviceguru =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru ===========================================

For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/helpmecarlos Ever had a guy start to show you signs that he's going to break up with you? What if he Says Hes Confused? If you're feeling that fear, embrace it - but don't let it run you over... The first thing that happens to you when you hear a guy talk about feeling this way is: - You Panic! Big time... Because you feel like the rug has been pulled out from under you. And the one thing you thought was safe and sound - your relationship - has just turned into a very scary situation. Especially if you thought you two were a hot item and the romance was just getting better. You now worry that: Maybe he doesn't love you the way you thought... Maybe he's about to break up with you... Maybe he's seeing someone else! It's easy to descend into madness as a result of this shakeup, so I'm going to give you 3 steps to handle the situation - and not lose control. The first step is: STEP 1: Stay Calm! Have a friend who can "talk you down from the ledge." You need to make sure you don't freak out and text him or put pressure on. It's easy to do when your emotions are in this frantic state. It's a lot like being a junky and finding that you're no longer able to get your "drug". If you give in to your panic and decide to text him right now, it's guaranteed it will ... Find out more here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/helpmecarlos ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: https://rumble.com/c/datingadviceguru =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Stop Him From Breaking Up With You

For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/theonequiz Is he using you? Find Out! 14 Signs To Look For! You might like the guy you're dating right now, and you want this relationship to grow. But something inside you has you on alert: "Is He Using Me?" you wonder. Maybe something feels off about him. Or maybe you're wondering if he's a player... Or you could be wondering if you're just being too paranoid about the whole thing. And the last thing you want to do is ruin love by being too suspicious, right? Well, let's talk about some of the warning signs that a guy is using you. These will help you spot the guys who try to take advantage of you so you can avoid them. First of all, let me help you take a huge breath and relax: Most men are not users, players, or jerks. Most guys are really decent, heartfelt men. However, if you experience a lot of losers & users in your life, you may want to take a look at your dating style a bit. Because you may be doing something that attracts this kind of guy to you. Let me be clear: I'm not saying it's your fault. The unfortunate reality is that a certain kind of guy is going to look for certain signals. Certain behaviors will wake up his predatory instincts. And if you happen to accidentally show these signals to him, he may focus on you as his prey. Let me be clear again: This kind of behavior from a guy is UNACCEPTABLE, in my opinion. And staying with a guy like this is also equally unacceptable. For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/theonequiz ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you.

For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/doesheloveme "Is He Thinking About Me?" - The Signs That Say YES! By: Carlos Cavallo It's kind of a cliché, but one of the questions every woman wants to ask is "Is he thinking about me?" And sometimes "What is he THINKING?" Because if you can just get this guy to think good stuff about you, you know you've got him good and HOOKED on you! You know YOU are thinking about him, but that's the part that's got you obsessing, right? You want to flip the tables and make him as obsessed about you as you are with him. how do i know if boyfriend thinks about me Is He Thinking About Me? The Signs That Say YES! You might be interested in him, thinking about him - and wondering if he's interested in you... You might be dating him and wondering if he's feeling and thinking the same thing you are... You might have broken up and now you want your ex back... Whatever the situation, it's important to know where his head's at and what he's thinking when you're dating! But how do you know if he's thinking about you? Let's jump into it and talk about the signs that say YES - he is thinking about you...! "Is He Thinking About Me?" Sign #1: He's A Social Media Stud... If this guy is thinking about you, he's going to find reasons to contact you and find out what's going on with you. Which means he's probably going to stalk you a little bit on social media. And it doesn't matter if you're 21 or 101 years old - everyone's online these days. Even if he's not on Pinterest or Snapchat (or whatever comes next) - you can bet he'll be out there making contact on at least Facebook. (One of my distant aunts is 80-something and she's crazy-posting all the time on Facebook.) Dating tips: You're going to see this guy being much more visible. It will start out with friend and connection requests. how do I know if he is thinking about me Is He Thinking About Me? The Signs That Say YES! It might even start out innocently enough through some kind of professional connection, where he makes it a point to connect with you on Linked In about 2 minutes after you meet. (HINT: If he connects with you from his phone while you are together, that's a HUGE sign!) But you'll see him make a big deal out of (sorta) cyber-stalking you on social media. This is part of his thinking about you and turning it into curiosity that makes him stay in contact. And even if he's your recent ex, you will still see him keeping up on you this way. Sign #2: Likes Likes Everywhere... You're also going to notice the activity on social networks start to pick up once you connect with him. He's going to be tagging, liking, and commenting quite a bit on posts and stuff related to you while he thinks about you. When you wonder 'is he thinking about me,' one side is him wanting you to notice him. Another part will be him wanting to "stake a claim" with you as early as possible. Yeah, guys start getting territorial and possessive the second there's any interest on his part. He won't want to risk losing you the more thinks about you. Sign #3: He's Foaming at the FOMO... You might have heard of the term "FOMO." It's an acronym for: Fear Of Missing Out It was coined to describe how people behave these days with their smart phones. Now that we are all so darn connected online, we live in this weird state of being afraid of missing out on what's going on with other people. I used to feel this way back in my 30s, when I got my first cell phone with chat and voice mail. I was always checking to see if I was missing out on messages about going out and hanging with my friends. I'd think "Oh no, I better not miss anything..." This was especially true when dating. Guys get this way when it comes to a woman they're interested in dating. In the beginning, you'll see him viewing, checking things, and even being REALLY responsive on texts that you send. Which, unfortunately, sets you up for a false expectation later that he'll keep this texting frequency up. (He won't, sorry to tell you.) But enjoy it while it lasts! FIND OUT NOW: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/doesheloveme ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Signs He Thinks About You A LOT https://youtu.be/3N4soQ_2I_0

For more on getting him back: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/exback Get Your Ex Back - Even if he doesn't love you anymore By: Carlos Cavallo Look, one of the most hotly discussed topics is how to get your ex back. It's probably the most highly charged emotional event in a relationship, and it's something everyone encounters at some point. First of all, I want to talk about getting perspective, this is one of the most important things I think you can do in your life. One good anecdote was from a friend of mine who was doing some work outside with a friend of his and got bit by a mosquito. He got bit on his upper lip, and it was starting to grow. It was itchy and he’s trying to sit down and relax and eat his lunch. But he’s like, “God, this thing on my lip is driving me crazy.” His friend just looked over at him and said, “Well, you know what, dude, if a mosquito bite on your upper lip is the worst thing you got going on right now, that’s not bad.” He kind of looked up and said, “Yeah, yeah, I hear you. I guess it’s not that bad.” Think of all the things that can happen to you in life, all the tragedies that can befall us, all the difficult situations we can run into, and some of them can be pretty horrific. So everything from dealing with illness to losing family members, just so many bad things can happen to us on this life and probably will at some point or another. The little things often seem to be a big deal, but they never are. So perspective is where you go to discover that all-important lesson that, “You know what? whatever you think you’ve got bad in your life, somebody else has got it worse.” And yeah, sure, there’s somebody that’s got it better, but it’s only for a short time. Eventually, it balances out. There’s nobody that leads a charmed life in this world. There’s nobody that just skates right through it, no harm, no difficulty, no problems. Even if it seems like nothing's wrong with them, on the inside you’d be amazed how insecure, how unhappy, and just generally how not-with-it some people are. We often take it for granted because we believe that we are the only people experiencing our personal pain. As a matter of fact, we often NEED it to be that way. We need that pain to be ours and uniquely ours because it gives us kind of a badge of honor that we can celebrate. “Look, my pain is deeper than yours. My struggle is worse than yours. My agony inside is worse than yours!” During a breakup, that's something we need to believe in order to feel like we still have value. Believe it or not, that’s what we do in our heads, so you’ve got to get perspective. Step back and get perspective in any way you can, any possible way you can, and that will often give you a very big aha moment, an epiphany if you will. I remember watching the last episode of Mad Men, where at the end of the show, Don Draper has basically gotten his perspective. A lot of people debated about the ending of the show and how it ended. I’m not going to talk about the exact ending here, but you could see that he got perspective in a way that served his needs. Because, of course, he’s Don Draper! He does what he does, and the rest of the people in the show reflect him and how he moves through the world. You can see this in many shows and movies where somebody has gotten to this unique perspective. And it happens pretty much in every movie because it’s part of the character development and their story. To Get Your Ex Back - you need to get that perspective you need Now, all of this relates to another subject which I really wanted to touch on today. The topic of getting your ex back. Everybody has, at some point or another, had a breakup, possibly gone through that pain of losing a special person, of seeing that person walk out of their lives. And then what do we want? Well, we want them back, because we don’t want to lose that connection. It happens enough in our lives where we don’t see the complete pattern of what’s actually happening during a breakup. I want to re-explain this process a bit because it’s very important you understand what’s going on behind the scenes - the weird battle in your head. Because if you’re not prepared the next time a relationship is in trouble, or there’s an impending breakup on the horizon, you might be fooled. You might be thrown madly into a tailspin because you weren’t ready. And you’ll panic and you’ll do the things that will not serve you in the relationship. And it definitely won’t get you ... For the rest - https://www.datingadviceguru.com/exback ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Get Your Ex Back https://youtu.be/Nfgr1Jjbomk

For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos If you love a man, you want to know that he's not only in love with you, but that he WANTS you. You've probably found yourself wondering how to make him desire you at some point. Usually, this means that you want him to chase you... It's the most powerful way to feel desired by a man, after all. And of course, the most powerful way to be desired is to feel sexual desire. You don't need a sex expert to tell you that. Knowing you've got him under your spell means you know he needs you. Men love to chase women, and this has been true for tens of thousands of years. And if a guy is chasing you, you know that he's NOT pulling away from you! The key to making a guy obsessed with you lies in sexual tension - as you're going to learn in these tips... One quick warning before we get started here: If you're using a lot of manipulative "tricks" to make a guy desire you or like you, you're going in the wrong direction. Men have a very keen nose for the scent of bullsh*t in a woman. If he senses that she's playing games with him, you'll know why he never calls her again. Sexual tension has to be created with sincerity! Now, let's get started with - TIP 1: If You Want Him To Want You - DO THIS - Say it, soft and sweet... For years, advertisers have used the trick of putting your name at the top of a form letter, or you might get an email that has your name in it. Whether you want to admit it or not, seeing your name (and hearing it) grabs your attention like nothing else. You may have heard that the most important word in the whole world is your name. Just think for a second about how you feel when a person says your name: You're instantly on alert... Your attention is focused on that person... You know that they're talking right to you... It's the ultimate personalization... Find a moment that you can slip his name into the conversation, if only to watch him respond. TIP 2: Get Him To Pursue You - NO, Really! You better have one of THESE... Have what, you ask? Have a f@#$ing life, dude! Sorry, that might sound harsh. But saying "have your own life" has reached epic cliché proportions. Just mentioning that about relationships typically gets an eye-roll and a "Yeah, got that, what else?" But you have to really have to fight back that urge to start running after him and picking out your wedding dress. The first thing you must have is your own interests and hobbies! Why? Because guys are intuitive about one thing above all else: If you're going to be a "stage 3 clinger" or not. What do men find attractive? Independence... In a guy's eyes, needy chicks are the worst! They're an emotional drag - because there's usually a lot of drama attached... He won't feel challenged if you're all set to start chasing him... A man has a very limited amount of emotional energy to go around, and he knows that a clingy woman is going to take 1000% of it... He'll immediately think that all you're dating him for is for free food, or you just can't stand to be alone. NEWS FLASH: Neither of those is good... You don't have to be immersed in meetings every night of the week to show that you've got your own life. But you DO have to have other demands on you that occasionally make him have to wait on you. The easy test of your neediness is this: If you have at least one activity (and I'm not talking about going to the gym or grocery shopping) that could conflict with a date, that's perfect. If you find that you've got less than 3 nights per week that you can go out on a date, then you might be TOO busy. But in my experience, it's rarely ever the case. TIP 3: Stick To Your Guns... I've been on a LOT of dates with women, and there's one thing I can tell you that will NOT make a man sexually desire you: When you change your stance on something to avoid him disapproving of you. Major turn-off! Men almost NEVER disqualify a woman based on her opinion about something. What a man needs to feel that compelling need to chase you is a sense that you've got a backbone. I've been on dates where my date said she felt this way about something, and then I express a different viewpoint... and she backpedals and changes her mind. 12 How To Make Him Desire You & Chase You 9 Tips Look, I get it. You don't want to ... For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Make Him Miss You https://youtu.be/IxespUv1Lds

For More: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos "Is He Serious About Me?" - 7 Signs He's A Keeper By: Carlos Cavallo The question comes up in almost EVERY single relationship: "Is He Serious About Me? Or Is He Just Playing Games?" You need to know what his intentions are. Dating in your 40s is tough enough. You don't want to waste years of your life waiting to find out if he's serious about you and the relationship. 7 Signs Hes A Keeper After a while you have to stop engaging in the fairy tale part of romance and get realistic with yourself - and him. You just can't waste your time on a relationship that is going nowhere. And let's face facts - a lot of guys will seem like they're leading you on and wasting your time. But - as I'm about to explain to you - you can practically guarantee his interest in you - if you know what to look for. First, let's clear up some things you might be thinking about men that are not entirely accurate... MYTH ABOUT MEN'S INTEREST: He's easily scared of his feelings... This one is a great excuse for why guys do things, but it's almost never real. Men don't run around in sheer terror about their feelings as some people might tell you. No, we don't run away the second we start having feelings for a woman... No, we don't scream in sheer terror the moment we notice ourselves falling in love... These stereotypes of men are created mostly because they accomplish a few things: The stereotype lines up with the accepted wisdom about men, so we buy into them quickly and easily... The stereotype sounds true - after all, guys are painted as the emotionally unavailable commitment-phobes... The stereotype lets you off the hook... #3 is the most important one to consider - that these excuses about men seem true. It will always sound better to accept a thin excuse like "men are emotionally unavailable" than believing there's a reason he decided to back off, right? Beware the urge you might have to paint men as emotionally incompetent scaredy-cats. This is a Hollywood myth that you've been fed in movies and television. And they keep giving you more of it because most women have been unknowingly tricked into believing it. I'll be up-front and honest and tell you that it's also true that a man will use these excuses himself - if it's convenient. If a guy is looking to get out of a relationship, he'll probably pull the "it's not you, it's me" excuse - which makes it easier on you. He'll tell you he's "scared" - or "not ready." But the truth is that he just doesn't want to admit that he's not all that into you. When it comes to a breakup, both people in a relationship have a part in how it plays out. In fact, you can tell everything you need to know about a guy by asking him one simple question: "Why did your last relationship end?" If he comes up with a bunch of "it was her fault" excuses, move on. He's blind to his own flaws. Or his ego is too big. Either way, it's not going to work out well for you to start a relationship with him. MYTH ABOUT MEN'S INTEREST: He Will Run From Happiness... Similar to the previous myth, this myth confuses you into thinking: "He's so afraid of how much he loves me that he pulls away!" NOPE. Never happens. If he's into you, he will chase you, hunt you down, and make you his girlfriend and eventually his wife. Guys don't run around denying themselves love. We want it just as badly as you do. So don't ever confuse yourself with this myth - men don't avoid their own happiness by running away from loving relationships - or from you. He only pulls away when he realizes this relationship might not be what he thought it was. MYTH ABOUT MEN'S INTEREST: Men are always keeping you in the Friend-with-Benefits zone... Again, not true. Most men do not have meaningless sex to avoid intimacy. And even more astonishing is that most guys don't really want to have sex with every woman they possibly can. Well, okay, maybe a little of this happens when he's in his late teens and early 20s. But let's face it, most women aren't looking to settle down when they're that young, either. Yes, there are a few guys who are wired to be "players" in the old school traditional sense. These guys make up about 5% or less of the population. And they do this because - Go here to get more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Never Let Him Go - Is he a keeper? https://youtu.be/E6Ce3bWG4bw

Get Your Free Course HERE: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook Signs He's Just Not That Into You By: Carlos Cavallo So the movie He’s Just Not That Into You is based on the 2004 book of the same name by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. Which - of course - has some ties to the show "Sex & The City" starring Carrie Bradshaw... er, I mean Sarah Jessica Parker. (It's so easy to forget which is her real name!) Have you ever wondered if the guy you are dating is "just not that into you"? It's a common question - with some unexpected answers. So let's take a look at some of the ways you can tell if your guy is really into your relationship. AND you! The reality is that dating is more complicated than it used to be. AND it's actually EASIER than it used to be. Hey - Which is it? Easier? More complicated? Actually, it's both. It's easier than ever to meet people... which makes it much more complicated to find someone that will stick it out and love you. We've all got "fast-food" syndrome when it comes to dating. Don't like this guy? Go fire up an app on your phone and find a replacement in the next 10 minutes! What? You think this person might have some small trait that you don't want to deal with? Go online and get a date or a hookup TONIGHT! What? Your husband is boring you and you want a sugar daddy? Sure - I'm being a little sarcastic here, but not as much as you might think. It's true that with all the new apps and ways of meeting people that we tend to not invest ourselves in a relationship anymore. It's too easy to "trade him in" and get a fresh new relationship - that will have its own problems and challenges. We are bypassing all these wonderful opportunities to grow just because we think there's always someone else waiting on the Internet to be found. As someone once said, too many choices make you change your mind. All that choice leads us to believe that the answer to our problems is simply MORE choice. And the unfortunate side-effect of today's "look at me" culture is that most people want attention and validation more than they want emotional, heartfelt connection. The real problem is the number of articles and columns that are misleading you out there. Let me share a few of the most dangerous articles you can read: Want to know why those articles are complete B.S.? Stick with me as we dive in - 7 Signs He's Just Not That Into You Sign #1 He Doesn't Like You As Much As You Like Him: He's not chasing you... I'm going to say this in the clearest way possible. If you read this and GET IT - you are way ahead of 90% of the population: CARLOS' RULE OF DESIRE: If a guy likes you, he will chase you and pursue you. That's it, my dear. There's no other way to speak the truth so clearly. If he likes you, he WILL chase you. There are no exceptions to this rule. signs your boyfriend is not into you 7 Signs Hes Just Not That Into You Do you remember...? But I get it, there's a part of you that doesn't WANT to believe this could be true. I've been there, too. You meet someone really cool and sexy - and they show a little interest. The last thing you want to believe is that this was a lie of some kind. How could anyone change their mind about being into you? Right? Well I'll explain how this happens in a bit. But for now, recognize that you're partially right - they can't just "change their mind" about you. Sign #2 You're Better Than Nothing: His Ex Is Still Around... Yeah. His ex. She's there in his life when you know she shouldn't be. He talks about her all the time, even if they got divorced 5 years ago... When a guy's ex is TOO much in the picture, you've got problems. And the reality is that he's just not over her. how do I know boyfriend is into me 7 Signs Hes Just Not That Into You Dating history? Don't be afraid to ask. Let me ask you a question: If your grocery store were giving away a giant basket of juicy strawberries for free at your grocery, would you eat them? Sure you probably would - if you like strawberries. Okay - Now what if someone walked up to you on the street with a nice basket of juicy strawberries and gave it to you for free ... would you eat them? You'd probably think twice, wouldn't you? You'd probably want to know where those strawberries came from. Never mind if they were sealed in plastic or what. If you didn't know what the background of those strawberries were, you'd be really concerned. But you'd be surprised how many women don't... FOR MORE: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Signs he's not interested in you https://youtu.be/e8VUKVDzBNU

How To Get Men To Commit: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/cupid If You're A Woman Over The Age Of 30, This Could Be The Most Important Information You Ever See... And in the next 2 minutes, I'm going to reveal recent discovery about men's emotions... It's a POWERFUL command hidden in every man's DNA that he must obey. It's a Trigger for Desire that he's powerless to resist... This Strange Command Over His Thoughts And Feelings Will Let You Erase All His Defenses And Reluctance It's called - The Cupid Effect And it makes him do crazy, impulsive things - The kind of stuff that poets and authors have written about for thousands of years... It's the reason that men throw caution to the wind - and become spontaneous romantic. The Cupid Effect makes him come back to a woman he's left - AND It makes him see you in a completely new way. This Cupid Effect is the secret to getting him to stop holding back and dragging his feet. The Cupid Effect Makes Him Obey His Inner Desire To Reach Out And Love You Deeply And Intimately It's THE trigger for complete love, commitment to you - and your relationship His heart will feel connected to yours - glowing with feverish desire and obsessive, passionate devotion. You see - The Cupid Effect is the unfair advantage for you. It's how you can turn the tide - make him adore you and love you the way you want. You'll see his eyes soften as he feels this arrow of love hit him... He'll even feel it in his body deep in his chest like a warm wave flooding his heart with desire for you. You'll be able to take an FWB - "friends with benefits" - and turn it into blind desire and a committed relationship. Without having "The Talk" with him... Without having to play head games... Without having to pressure him... Even if you think you might have slept with him too soon... Even if you've given up on getting him to commit to you... Even if he's completely ignoring you - your calls and texts... No matter how hopeless it might seem right at this very moment - once he feels The Cupid Effect take hold on his mind, body, and soul - Nothing will matter to him more than you! And he won't even know why he's fallen so hard for you - Because This Secret Love Law Works Completely Beneath His Awareness... Before I show you how this Cupid Effect works - And before I tell you the real-life story of how women like you use this desire trigger every day to create the most romantic and deeply committed relationships of their lives - Tell me if Maggie's situation sounds familiar to you... Every time she would go out with a guy, he seemed really into her... Maggie did her best to be careful and not rush things, trying to say the right thing at the right time - and avoid freaking him out or scaring him away... And he would start out calling her, texting her all the time. He would bring her cute gifts, leave notes around her apartment, and drop hints about their future together... And Then They Got Intimate With Each Other... And Literally Everything Changed Overnight He grew distant, stopped calling Maggie... He responded to her texts hours later - instead of seconds - and usually with just a one-word response: "ok" The fun romantic gestures disappeared... And then HE disappeared. Every so often - when Maggie reached her limit - she would have a small "freak out" that she immediately regretted. And then she wished she could take back the panic texts and voicemails she sent in a heated moment. Why Do So Many Relationships Seem To Follow This Pattern? Why does it start out so wonderful, and then he inevitably pulls away and grows cold? Like he hits a wall and stops caring... Why do men withdraw just when you're starting to create something special? Well, I'm going to reveal the REAL reason men pull this "ghost" routine on you, and how to avoid it ever happening again. I'm going to show you how to keep his heart open to you forever... Go here now: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/cupid ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== What Men Don't Want You To Know https://youtu.be/lMFUt-8FvR4

For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/obsession There are plenty of other places a man will lie to retain his feeling of masculinity, such as stories that brag or embellish his accomplishments. These little deceptions are best left alone. Pointing them out to him - or others - will only push him away. Lie: The "Last Resort" Lie In a relationship, there will be times when a guy feels as though he is "damned if he does, and damned if he doesn't." Meaning that he won't win no matter what he does. He feels cornered... And very often, a woman puts him in this predicament. For example, maybe you ask him if he's going to "play that video game all night long?" Which is a sarcastic way of actually saying: "Can you pay some attention to me?" If a guy hears underhanded requests enough, he's going to start resenting the indirect, passive-aggressive way in which she asked him. Women are much more indirect with their communication style. Most women want to avoid direct accusations, and avoid confrontations. This behavior is rewarded from interacting with other women. But it's not rewarded when communicating with men. And that's where a lot of men don't understand what to do. He feels caught between the proverbial rock and a hard place. If he just wants to get in a little "me" time, he now feels guilty for doing it... If he then gives in to make you happy, he will feel a bit resentful... The "Last Resort" Lie isn't always a 'lie.' You only think he's lying simply because you never heard the real truth of what he was saying. When a man doesn't feel like you're really listening or believing him, he'll just conclude that he's not going to be heard and should just save himself the effort by avoiding the conversation. For example: If a guy says he's not ready to make a commitment, and you keep acting as if he will commit if you just keep showing him how awesome you are. This is a case of "not hearing him." And it pushes him to do what he must to be true to himself. It doesn't really matter how much you feel you have riding on the relationship. You have to hear what he's saying and really take in his words as his Truth. Now, even if you can identify his deception, there's still something you want to know: Why Men Lie... Men's lies are rarely ever to hurt or cause pain. In fact, almost nobody ever lies to deliberately hurt another person. It's not even on their radar in that moment of telling the lie. It's all about self-preservation! What he's thinking about is simply this: "How can I avoid being embarrassed - or causing her pain?" And that right there is the reason that men lie: To avoid embarrassment or humiliation To avoid hurting you - or someone else they care about Sure, there are guys that lie about their affairs, but truthfully so do women. Who wouldn't? But in the end, our primary reasons for lying are usually to keep a painful truth away from someone we love. How Do You Know If He's Lying? I'm not going to go into huge detail on this, as I've written a great article for you about it Here... But suffice to say there are just a few of the warning signals that a guy is lying: He changes details - you just can't seem to pin him down to what actually happened, or what he was doing... He's nervous - guys suck at lying, for the most part... Won't give you details - because if he doesn't get very specific about his story, he's probably trying to avoid getting caught... He's got a "tell" - we all give off subtle indicators that we're lying. His might be clearing his throat, or playing with his keys. Basically look for ANY behavior that stands out... I've got many more of these explained in detail in the other article. But the most important one is - of course - to trust your gut. Because the biggest sign he's lying to you is that you just KNOW something isn't right about what he's saying. Women have a VERY accurate B.S. detector when it comes to this stuff, because you've been practicing your whole life on your friends and family. And you've probably polished your own ability to cover up those things you'd like to hide yourself. Trust your instincts! But the real question is: What Do You Do If You Think He's Lying? Watch the video to find out ... And go here for more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/obsession ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Why Do Men Lie? https://youtu.be/3SaVkcVn31M

For More: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook 5 Mistakes Women Make That Make Men Pull Away By: Carlos Cavallo As someone who's been in plenty of relationships, I know what it's like to experience the special kind of rush when a new person comes along. Back then, working up the nerve to talk to a woman was already enough of a hurdle for me. So imagine how pumped I was from actually hitting it off with her and making a solid connection. To be honest, it felt like winning the lottery and I'd tell my buddies all about it over a round of high-fives and a few drinks. Yeah, I was a bit naive and inexperienced at the time. But the intense joy I felt was only matched by the incredible lows I sunk to when it didn't work out. I'd get all emotional about it and take it personally, as if the girl pulled away because I was completely repulsive or some other crazy reason in my head. But as I got a bit older (I use that term very loosely) and gained a better perspective on things, I realized it wasn't entirely my fault. We BOTH played a part in what happened. I stopped taking it so hard and learned from the experience instead. On the other side of the dating equation, I know that women have the same kind of excitement over a new relationship. But what I've observed is that females generally DON’T go through the experience in quite the same way that guys do. One thing in particular is the tendency for many w omen to look too far ahead into the future and create self-fulfilling prophecies that endanger their connection with a guy. From a guy's point of view, this kind of behavior comes off as desperate and immature. In the end, it pushes men away, leaving you wondering what you said or did. Well, I'm going to let you know exactly what a lot of women say AND do that drive men away faster than kryptonite does to Superman. Let's start with... Man Repellent #1: Crystal Ball Syndrome Here's the situation my female clients often get into: Things start off with their guy perfectly - so perfectly in fact, that even a Romantic comedy scriptwriter couldn't have come up with something better. After the first few picture-perfect dates, the wheels in her head start turning. She creates a bunch of movie-worthy scenarios – the sky’s the limit with one's imagination. And when they get on this thought-train, it quickly derails them out of the real world and straight into the clouds. Now, I'm not saying it's bad to feel optimistic about your evolving relationship, but you'll have to draw the line somewhere. "Ok Carlos," you might ask, "where do I find this so-called line?" Consider this... There’s a difference between having happy thoughts like "Where could this be going", "Boy, I can't wait to meet his folks" or "When is he going to ask me to move in?"... ...and having prophetic visions of your wedding theme, what your bridal dress will look like, and pretty much anything too far in the future to be considered in the PRESENT moment. So all I'm asking is that while you're visualizing the wonderful things that have yet to happen, don't stray too far from the present time and leave your guy behind. Man Repellent #2: Constant Need For Validation There's always an element of uncertainty in a new relationship. Sometimes, a guy can give off mixed signals and make you wonder if he's really as into you as you are into him. That thought alone can drive anyone up the wall, and it's obviously not a good feeling to have. Trust me - I get it that you just want to relieve yourself of the torment of wondering if this guy is wasting your time. Having said that however, it's still not a good idea to keep asking him about the future of your relationship. Where's it going... What's next... etc. For the average guy, having one of those 'State of the Union' type of talks is about as fun as... well, an actual State of the Union address. Not only is it un-fun, but the fear and uncertainty that some women unintentionally give off can create a lot of tension. And I don't have to tell you that this desperation is palpable to men. We can feel it. There's nothing wrong with feeling that anxiety. Chances are he's feeling it too. The best way you can help both of you is by not running away from the fear while going through this process. More importantly, don't... For the rest: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Mistakes Women Make When A Man Pulls Away https://youtu.be/xi08bU4y2bg

For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook The ONE Secret To Keeping A Guy Interested In You By: Carlos Cavallo Have you ever found yourself thinking: "I really like him!" And then, right after that: "Don't screw this up!" Talk about a recipe for stage fright. But when you meet a great guy, you don't want him to slip through your fingers - and into some other woman's arms. You can do a lot of small things to attract a man, and you can do a TON of things to try and keep him interested in you... But all of those methods just feel empty and kind of forced most of the time, right? Look, it's not hard to keep a man's interest. What? You don't believe me? Think about when a guy is watching his favorite sports team play. How involved is he? How interested in that game...? A lot, am I right? Or any hobby he's into, or television show, or whatever it is that keeps him rapt. You don't have to match the production value of "Game of Thrones" or anything, but you should think about what makes his game or show so compelling and eye-grabbing. These are the clues to the switches you can flip in a man's mind - to get and KEEP his attention glued to you. Let's go through a few tricks: TRICK #1: Don't try to outshine him... It doesn't matter if you're the CEO of your company, or the #1 pinned image that month on Pinterest. Or you're so smart that you can speak ten languages and do differential calculus in your head. A man doesn't fall in love with you because of the superficial reasons you might think attract him. (This is also a mistake a lot of guys make.) He'll fall in love with your HEART - not your brain (nor your bank account). woman heart The ONE Secret To Keeping A Guy Interested In You Your secret weapon... Yet, time and again I see women thinking that the best way to snag a guy is to wow him with your fact sheet. He needs to know you've got the biggest heart around before he will care about the rest. You see, he's looking for a woman whose heart is so big that it has room for you AND him in there. And your mom, dad, siblings, cousins, etc. A man can live his whole life without the kind of nurturing love they crave. They hide this need under a stoic exterior that might fool you. You might fall for that belief because you're looking for the security of his embrace. But if you've seen those pictures of a guy hugging a woman from behind her, you should know that he'd MUCH rather you be facing him and making that embrace mutual. TRICK #2: Give him just a little uncertainty.... A man needs something to challenge him. Every step of the way, really. The pattern goes like this: Two steps forward, one step back... Two steps forward, one step back... You'll notice that this pattern is still moving forward on the whole. But the rhythm gives a little space in there for him to wonder: "Is she really into me? Could I (gasp) lose her?" Human beings respond to uncertainty even more than certainty. What this means is that as soon as we get the security we seek - When we get the affirmation of "this relationship is real" that we want, we immediately start taking that relationship for granted. We don't like to think we do this, but we do. It's human nature. So don't make the big mistake of overwhelming a man with your desire for him. It's the fastest way to kill his desire for you. He needs uncertainty to pull him into working for you... CHASING you. When you pull back a little, it CHALLENGES him. And a man needs this challenge to spur him on. It's in our DNA... It tells him you're worthy of his interest. So don't run him over with love, let him come to your open heart and experience it by winning your heart. TRICK #3: Engage his senses... Men also live in a self-imposed sensory deprivation tank... - We don't get a lot of physical affection on a regular basis the way many women do - We don't get much in the way of taste and smell stimulation - beyond the nasty odors of the rooms guys avoid in their house. One of the best ways you can get him interested in you is to... For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Keep Him Interested In You https://youtu.be/Y5oRc8oKkrM

For Your Free Stuff: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/connect 3 Simple Steps To Make Him Want You And Addict Him To You By: Carlos Cavallo One of the prime desires of almost every person on the planet is to be loved and desired. Women want it. Men want it. It’s part of our genetic code, if you will. Sure, we might have mood swings that push us up or down, but it’s hard to go for a whole day without feeling some kind of connection to someone special. If you’ve ever spent time away from home, you’ve experienced not just homesickness, but love-sickness. In scientific studies, they’ve even proven that people become chemically ADDICTED to love. Our brain chemistry uses dopamine, serotonin, and adrenaline to get you eager for that fix of love. Dopamine affects your entire body, including your genitals, sweat glands, and also the senses. Have you ever noticed that when you are in the early stages of lust or love, you sweat more? Or that the sky seems bluer? Dopamine is partly responsible. As a consequence of dopamine shooting into your brain, your mood and emotions are also influenced. You’ll experience more feelings of excitement and joy. If you close your eyes for a second and just imagine someone you deeply care about, you’ll even notice a difference in your body. The temperature, the tingling ache for him - or her... So how do you get that love fix when you’re not sure if he’s even thinking about you? Today, I’m going to show you 3 steps to trigger that delicious cocktail of desire in your man’s mind. After all, you’ve already got that feeling. This is what you can do to get HIM thinking and dreaming of you. This is a scientifically proven formula that pulls a man into desire for you. And it all starts with: MAKE HIM WANT YOU - STEP 1: Be his “Puller...” Let me start right away by explaining that I think there are good addictions in life. Yeah, we already know about the bad ones, but there are things we can allow ourselves get a little attached to. Love is a good addiction. Some people say that you shouldn't let anything get out of control. But I think that the nature of falling in love is that it NEEDS to get wild and out of control. That being said, I believe we owe it to the person we love to be the best kind of "drug" they can get. So you need to be his "Puller." Remember, back in the day - 1970s? It was common to hear a drug dealer referred to as a "pusher." It's not a desirable term, I get it. And it might seem like a bit of an odd term to use here talking about love... But - ass you're going to see - the three steps I'm outlining here are similar to the ways that a "pusher" might try to get you addicted to his "product." Even though it's not "pushing" at all. So let's call it being a "Puller." That's more of the power you'll have - of attraction that pulls him into your spell. The difference is that we'll be doing it in a way that is a WIN-WIN! And that means you've got nothing to fear about using this approach. It's the same way that people get addicted to their morning coffee, or their video games, or even texting on your cell phone. Same principle. So if you want to be his "Puller" - the first step is all about making him know that you're his "good time girl." And no, I don't mean that in a sexual way. You want your man to feel like being with you is an incredibly fun event that he doesn't want to miss. So you have to make yourself focus on one feeling in him: FUN! Whenever you get the chance, you have to... For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/connect ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Make Him Addicted To You https://youtu.be/wu0osk0pkKg

Take the RoadBlock Quiz Now! https://www.datingadviceguru.com/roadblock Unhappy In a Relationship? - How To Fix It By: Carlos Cavallo When you're unhappy in a relationship it's one of the most difficult situations. When you've got relationship problems, everything else just seems to fade into the background. Where is the love...? You wish you had a Magic Pill that would turn your unhappy relationship into a healthy relationship. Whatever the state of your current relationship is, you can fix it. You can have a loving partner again and enjoy the good times. Anyone and everyone can bring the happiness back into their love. You might even wonder if your partner is unhappy with you. And this will certainly reflect back and make you unhappy in your relationship Believe it or not, 1 in 5 relationships are unhappy. This might seem like a high number, after all that's 20%! But you also have to realize that for you to get into a happy relationship you might have to have THIS relationship be unhappy. Just so you can learn and find the good one. It's simply a necessary step in the evolution of your skills. (You're not going to find Mr. Right on the first try, trust me.) You probably have a lot of questions about your romantic relationship: When is the time to give up? What does a healthy relationship feel like? Would he be better as a friend than a boyfriend? How do you know if you're in an unhappy relationship? And I trapped in this relationship? Why do I stay in unhappy relationship? Is this relationship toxic? Am I too old to start over? I'm a sensitive woman-why am I always unhappy in my relationships? Even when I'm in love? Can I fix being unhappy? Let's start with a few signs that you might be in an unhappy relationship. Then we will talk about what to do about it. Are you in an unhappy relationship? Here are the warning signs: SIGN 1: You're not getting enough quality time One of the obvious indications that you are feeling unhappy is when you're not getting enough quality time with your love. A happy relationship nourishes you with time and attention. If you're not getting enough time, you're going to feel underappreciated. SIGN 2: Your sex life is lacking This is one of the most obvious indicators. When your romantic life in the bedroom is sparse or nonexistent, and the sex has dried up, you're probably unhappy in your relationship. It could just be a rough patch, but this romance is not fulfilling you. SIGN 3: Your personal life is impacted If you start feeling unhappy with your friendships and possibly your career because the relationship is suffering, it's probably an unhappy relationship. Unhappy relationships always spill over to the rest of your life. SIGN 4: There is a lack of communication Communication is one of the most critical elements of a happy marriage and a happy relationship. Without it, the result is you will feel unhappy and unfulfilled. It's critical that you're able to talk with your partner and communicate feelings, as well as be vulnerable. SIGN 5: You think you might be in a codependent relationship Frequently, one of the most obvious unhappy relationship signs is when your emotional state depends on the happiness of your partner. This is sometimes known as a codependent relationship. In a healthy relationship you will want to make your partner happy, but you don't take on 100% of the responsibility for their happiness. Co-dependent relationships are where we become too enmeshed in our partners emotions. Boundaries become unhealthy. SIGN 6: You have trust issues If there are issues with trust in your relationship, this will trickle down into your happiness. Trust and reliability are central in a partner. If you don't feel you can trust him, or his trust issues are getting in the way, it's time to seek help. SIGN 7: You're in an abusive relationship This goes without saying, but if there is any kind of verbal or physical abuse in your relationship, you will be unhappy. And you should immediately separate yourself from the environment. This kind of toxic relationship could have severe safety issues as well. SIGN 8: You believe you will be happier without your partner If you entertain notions of being happier outside of your relationship for any reason, you're probably in an unhappy relationship. After all, a healthy relationship means you want to share your dreams and destiny with him. Perhaps marriage someday. If you're not seeing ... For more - Go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/roadblock ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Unhappy in Relationship https://youtu.be/q7gx4H9Lkvo

FOR MORE: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/helpmecarlos How To Know If He’s Into You By: Carlos Cavallo You met a guy and you’ve been wondering if he likes you or not. It seems like he does, but, you’re not that sure. You don’t quite know what to do. Will you flirt back? Or is he just being friendly? Before you start analyzing and have that endless conversation about what he did or didn't do, and if it took 3 or 4.5 seconds for him to respond to that text... Here are some REAL signs that he is indeed INTO YOU: He’s Into You If He…#1: Looks you in the eyes They say, “eyes are the window to your soul” and that’s true. So, the next time you’re with him, pay attention to his eyes. Watch him when you’re together. Check if his gaze wanders towards you regularly. Especially watch for moments when he's checking you out when he thinks you don't notice. When he does make eye contact, match it with him - like having an instant excitement in his eyes … When you see that he keeps the connection, it's very likely he's into you. He’s Into You If He…#2: Pays more attention to you. Notice how he seems to be extra attentive to your needs? Like, filling up your glass with water when it’s empty. Or taking your arm you when you walk, making sure you don’t slip and fall… Or even just pulling out your chair and being chivalrous all around. If you catch him doing these things, then there are definite indications of interest on his part. Remember to just pay attention to what he is actually DOING, and NOT what he ISN’T saying. If he's intently LISTENING to what you have to say, that's a pretty strong indication. And asking questions to get to the bottom of who you are and what you like? That’s his way of relating to you. And if he shares his experiences, his thoughts, especially his feelings - he's definitely into you. You see, it’s not easy for men to show their emotions. So, if he does with you, then he sees you as an extra special person and he TRUSTS YOU. He’s Into You If He…#4: Finds ways to touch you. Subtle touches is what you should look for. You’ll find him constantly putting himself in a position to touch you, like touching your ear to compliment your earrings. Or putting his arm around you to protect you from getting cold. Little “necessary” ways that he subtly finds an excuse to touch you. He’s Into You If He…#5: Is always willing to help you out. Car trouble? He’s there to fix it up. You need some help in your house? He’s your on-call handy man. Whatever you need, he’s always there to assist. He’s like your knight in shining armor, ready to save you from any distress. If he’s doing these things to you, he's doing what men do to show their interest and devotion. Unfortunately, many women don't recognize this peculiar "language of love" that men have, and often misunderstand it. Guys are really simple human beings. They’re easy to understand. Remember that the way to see through to who a person really is, is often about seeing what they're unable to say. Men rarely verbalize love and affection, for the simple reason that he's A) not good at it, and B) his nature is to SHOW his affections rather than describe them. So always be willing to understand that just because it's expressed in a way that is not your own style, it doesn't mean that the proof you want is not there. Find Out If He's Really Into You: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/doesheloveme ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Signs He's Into You https://youtu.be/MF2wmDwTygU

For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos This Video is for any woman who wonders what men like in bed - because you want to please him, right? I recently received this email from a student of mine: Carlos, I've been dating this guy for a few weeks (we're on official date number 3 this weekend...) Since I'm expecting that we're probably going to sleep together, what I want to know is what he expects from me. I don't want to disappoint him... Thanks, Tina L., Sarasota Florida CARLOS ANSWERS: Well, Tina - if you're looking for a super wild sex tip that will rock his world... Hang on. There's something you should know first: If you are on date number 3 - that does NOT mean you need to sleep with him. A lot of women (and men) think that there's this unwritten contract out there that if you make it to Date #3 you have to give it up. And that seems to me more like a negotiated settlement than a natural way to handle your relationship. When I was actively dating, I made it a point to let the woman know that I don't adhere to timelines or expectations. In fact, she might just have to wait a few MORE dates to jump in the sack, because I'm not in a rush. Most of the time, this only made them want to seduce ME even sooner. But it was a boundary I stuck to for a reason. (And this was coming from a guy...) One woman I dated for about 6 months told me after the "magical" date that she had worn her black knee-high boots because she wanted to "seal the deal." Look, if it takes 5 dates to get comfortable, then you need to hold to your own limit. If it's for real, he will have no trouble waiting. Again, I get a lot of emails from women that feel that if they don't give it up quick, some other woman will move in and steal him away. If he's so easily swayed by the scent of "eau de bedroom" - by that other girl's easy sex - then your relationship would not have lasted anyway. Sure, go ahead and try to make yourself think that your hoo-hoo is magical, but I'll tell you right now, it ain't. (And neither is hers... or hers... or hers...) Yes, eventually sex will have to happen. But it's what you bring to the relationship in your attitude and your heart that makes him stay. Okay, so let's jump in and reveal the 7 secret tips to what men like in bed: Secret Tip 1: He likes it when you laugh... Look, everyone's so weird on that first sleepover that I'm amazed that anyone makes it to the next date sometimes. You have to have some fun with your sexy time. Giggling is a great way to let a guy know you're enjoying yourself. Which is OUR biggest fear in bed - that we're not making you happy. Show him a smile and have some fun and you'll both breathe a huge sigh of relief - AND have a lot more fun in the sack. Secret Tip 2: He likes it when you're enthusiastic... I've had a few partners in the past that were so quiet and unemotional in the sack that I thought I was doing something wrong. Sorry, but "she just laid there" will never be followed by "she was great in bed!" The more excited and enthusiastic you are with us during the horizontal bop, the more we feel virile and manly. what men want in the bedroom What Do Men Like In Bed? 7 Secret Tips Take the lead... If you want a great example of what men like to see in attitude, look no further than adult movies and videos. It's not always LITERALLY what you're seeing there on the screen. It's more about the ATTITUDE of the women in the scenes. You'll see that the women are not afraid to let the guy know how much they want HIM. That's every man's secret fantasy - just like yours: He wants to be desired by you completely in that moment. For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== https://youtu.be/UIs8QnT05Xw How To Drive Him Crazy In Bed

FOR MORE: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos Don't let things get TOO easy in your relationship. Make your man worry about losing you for once - TIP : Make him wonder... Our imaginations are a fertile playground... It's easy to make someone wonder what you're up to. Sometimes we do this by mistake... We forget an important date or event - or the time of some friend's party. And our absence is noted. So right now I'm telling you that you need to intentionally forget your man a little bit. And make him wonder what's going on with you. It reminds him that he's not the be all, end all of your life. For example, texting. Yeah, you know you do it. But why? Because texting is to a woman what ESPN is to a guy... A way to feel connected. In touch with the "score" - if you will - of your priorities. For men, that might be his pro football or basketball team. For women, it's your relationships. And the score is ESSENTIAL. If he sends you a text, don’t answer him right away… or at all. If you don’t answer him, you will be amazed at how fast he'll be calling you and pestering you - wondering what's going on - what changed? He'll freak out that your feelings for him might be changing. Make yourself a challenge again by not being so clingy and responsive. (Remember the coy game you played when you first met him? How you played it extra cool when you first started seeing him? Yeah. THAT stuff.) Another example: Buy yourself flowers and put them right out there on the table. If he asks who got them for you, you can just avoid answering. Or play with him a little and say it was some hot actor that keeps calling on you. The less you say, the more attention you'll get from him. Make your man worry about losing you for once - TIP: Keep your boundaries... What are your boundaries? Women are much more flexible with their personal boundaries. I believe this is because a woman's identity typically includes her many relationships. So having more fluid and relaxed boundaries makes it easier to feel the quality of your relationships. Men are a bit different. We are more protective of our personal boundaries. We are quick to get angry if a friend tries to inconvenience us or take advantage of us. So what you should do is to shake up the status quo by putting up some personal boundaries that remind him that you won't be walked on, you won't be taken advantage of, and you won't let him run your life. Here are a few ways to do this: Lock your phone... With a code he does not get to have. Yeah, you might think that it's good to show that you "have no secrets," but not with your phone. Let his imagination run wild with the reasons why. (If he thinks some guy is chasing you, that only works to help you, by the way.) Are you hard to get? DON'T DO IT! Keep some private times in your life. Turn your phone off at night. Look, we're big folks here, right? The fact is that about 8 out of 10 people now sleep with their phones. Some keep it under their pillow! What the...? Are you hoping he will booty call you at 3:14 AM? The cold harsh truth is that women who understand men - and attract men - don't pay that close attention to their phones. Why? Because they're too busy going out with guys! Turn your phone off - get at least 6 to 8 good hours of sleep, and you'll be right as rain in the morning. And a whole lot less edgy. Make your man worry about losing you for once - TIP: Get Him To Fantasize About You... The single best way you can make a man focus on you is to - Find out in the video - or here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Make Him Worry About Losing You https://youtu.be/gSiDZ8xhM2c

For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/passion 5 Flirty Text Messages Reveal His Feelings By: Carlos Cavallo When you realize just how often you use your phone each day, you probably also realize that you need flirty text messages that will make a guy pay attention to you - in any conversation. It's become an unavoidable fact of life these days that everybody and their grandma has a mobile phone. And Grandpa, too! Whether it's checking your Facebook feed or liking your friend's perfectly Instagrammed breakfast, most of us have our faces glued to our shiny mobile phone throughout the day. Oh, and let’s not forget texting. Even before touchscreen smartphones became all the rage, texting was already one of the easiest ways to send off a quick flirty message to someone, like a guy you're hoping to get a conversation and a date with. Like other forms of modern communication, texting is a GREAT tool for flirting - IF you know how to use it. It's so effective, in fact, that I’ve used it to start more than a few relationships in the past. That said, I'm going to give you a handful of super-sweet, flirty text messages that will get any guy to pay attention to you. (And yes, a few "good morning" texts") Now, before we get started with that, I wanted to lay down some do's and dont's of texting a guy. You can send him as many flirty texts as you want. BUT a guy still won't feel attracted to you - and even possibly turned off - if you don't know the basic conversation guidelines: Texting Power Tip #1: DO be playful EVEN IF he's blowing you off Remember that there's always the possibility that a guy might not be interested. It's a fact of life, and we're grownups here. So if his replies are limited to a couple of syllables, like the dreaded "ok" (and its equally hated cousin,"K"), it could be any of the following reasons: - A serious relationship isn't at the top of his priorities right now... - He met someone else... - He has issues that has nothing do with you... (highly probable, in fact) - He's a flaky kind of guy... (regrettably, also probable) So, you shouldn't take any of it personally. Women always ask me about their man's "mixed signals", and most of the time there's really nothing "mixed" about it - he's probably just not the right guy for them. Or he's just not that into a relationship at that point, so his disinterest is just that. Even if he's not up for a round of flirting, don't let it crush your spirits. If anything, just look at it as an opportunity to respond in a playful and classy way. You might be tempted to fire off a needy response - like "K? That's it?" or "Why are you so cold all of a sudden?" Trust me, it’s better to resist the urge and reply with something like: "LOL, looks like someone's got a case of the one-liners today :)" "Cat got your tongue huh? Lemme know when you get it back ;)" "I shocked him into silence! I'm so naughty..." Don't forget to thrown in those lighthearted emojis to set the right tone and not sound sarcastic or like you're confronting him. Who knows, he could just be having a crappy day. Show him you're not rattled about it and he might even open up and tell you what's going on with him. He just needs to feel ACCEPTED. And keep this in mind: Sometimes guys just don't check their phones for hours. Seriously, we're not as into our phones as women are. I've been known to miss a text for up to 12 hours. Texting Power Tip #2: DO avoid "just friends"-sounding texts The last thing your dream guy wants to hear from a Potential Girlfriend (i.e. you) that he’s “just friends” with her. It’s basically pouring a cold bucket of water over the sparks of attraction before they’ve had a chance to burn hot. You might be thinking, “WHY would I want a guy I like to feel that there’s no chance for us to become MORE than friends? I’m not crazy!” Well, most women don’t realize they’re unintentionally sending the wrong message, but it does happen. A lot. For instance, you might text him, “Dude, did you ..." For the rest - watch the video! And go here for the Passion Phrases: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/passion ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Flirty Text Messages For Him https://youtu.be/1_oY6Fr7afk