How To Talk Dirty Texts - Secrets For Texting Guys

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How To Talk Dirty Text – Texting A Guy To Turn Him On

There is a certain fascination with knowing how to text a guy to get him turned on. If you want to know how to talk dirty text, or just knowing how to text him so that he pays attention to you and desires you, that’s what I’m going to cover here in this article.

But first we have to lay some ground rules…

In order to text a guy and get him to pay attention, you have to be careful about not being too vulgar. When a woman is too dirty, she risks turning him off just as easily as turning him on.

There is a fine line between dirty and gross when it comes to texting guys. Let’s talk about it…

How to talk dirty in text without turning him off…

Let’s be honest: if it were up to you, you probably wouldn’t be sexting a guy. You’d much rather have him telling you how he feels about you and how much he wants you.

Doesn’t that sound much more interesting? Much more interesting than playing some kind of teenager game of “look at me!”?

The truth is you know that men need sexual attention to really pay attention. Which kind of goes against what you’re trying to do.

As much as you hear the women’s magazines tell you to be really explicit with a guy in text, if you do you’re going to wear out your welcome quickly.

Here’s why:

Men love the chase.

You already know this. But chances are you don’t know how to use it effectively in this day and age.

Most women have been trained to be a little bit easy when it comes to showing sexual interest. But what a man really wants is to be teased effectively with your texts.

The less he gets the more he wants…

And if you keep putting sexual conversation out there, that’s all he’s going to think of you for. His booty call.

I’m pretty sure that’s not how you want him to think about you. Well, not the only way for him to think about you.

Rest assured I’m going to give you some examples here. But they’re not going to be crass or vulgar. They’re going to be texts you can send to almost any guy and not risk scaring him off.

Because one of the things that men find a turnoff is when a woman changes her personality in different situations. And many women act sexy and flirty and aggressive when he’s not around, but when he’s with her she acts like a completely different person.

Guys hate this when they’re dating. And guys also feel betrayed when he marries a woman and she changes from the woman he knew when they were dating.

So take a second to really think about what your motives are for learning how to talk dirty in texts with him…

Is it to get attention?
Is it to get him to pay a lot more attention to you?
Is it to win him back?
Is it just to get him to respond to your texts?
Is it just to get him to talk to you – period?
Any of these reasons is fine.

If it’s done to win-win the man.

What is “Win-Win the man”?

There are 3 ways any situation can turn out:

Lose/Lose: This is when both of you come out worse at the end than when you started. I’m pretty sure you don’t want this, and neither does he.
Win/Lose: This is when one of you wins and one of you loses. Usually the one who wins did so because the other one lost. Unfortunately this is how a lot of people handle their relationships these days.
Win/Win: This is the ideal way it should work out. Both sides need to win – or nobody really won.
The only option you can choose is a win-win. No one wants to lose-lose, and win-lose is shortsighted and dumb.

So let’s start talking about how to talk dirty in texts to guys…

Dirty Text #1: Let’s tell him about the girls…

One of the best text you can send is this one: “Did I tell you what I named my boobs?”

It’s very funny, playful. And there isn’t a guy on the planet who wouldn’t want to know.

Plus – you got him thinking about your boobs! Which is always a good thing.

HINT: Guys love boobs.

Dirty Text #2: Dreamer…

One of the most important things you can do with a dirty text is to ...

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