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For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/datingquiz Texts To Make a Man Feel Jealous - Make Him BEG For Your Attention! Jealousy Tip: Be a little extra flirty If a woman wants to be constantly in demand, she must always play the role of the Coquette. In fact, Coquette actually means “a woman who flirts.” ALL of the most desirable women flirt a little bit. Never disrespectful to their partners, but just enough to remind him that you’ve got options. For example, the next time you meet up with some friends, make sure you give the guy friends a little extra hug. Maybe even a peck on the cheek. In fact, at this point I want to make sure you're aware of something: No matter how innocently or casually you flirt, a man will always use anger to demonstrate his jealousy. Yes, this means he might get a little bit mad. (If he gets really mad, that means he has some anger issues or you just went too far.) When a guy gets mad, most women seek to pacify him. High demand women don't coddle his reaction. Let him be a little mad. He's not really mad at you, he's mad that he feels threatened. Guess when a man will put in the most effort? When will he work the hardest to keep you? Exactly - when he's threatened. That's when he gets his butt in gear and gets moving. Isn't that what you wanted? If so then don't let your fear of his emotional reaction (anger) stop you. As the saying goes, if you want to make an omelette you have to break a few eggs. Don't wuss out! Jealousy Tip: Pause the flow Chances are he's gotten very used to you responding to his texts right away. You probably do this thinking that it is respectful and how you would want him to treat you. The problem is that we don't treat people the way we are treated. We treat people the way they treat themselves. So my next suggestion for you is that you Pause The Flow - slow down on texting him. If you usually text him every single day in the morning, stop. Increase the time in between your texts. If he usually texts you back on his lunch break, wait a little extra longer before you text him back. The more he waits on you, the more he's thinking about you. It's a simple rule. If a guy feels like he's got you wrapped around his finger, he's going to get lazy with his attention and his affection for you. He'll take his sweet time to respond to you figuring that he's got you all locked up, nice and neat. It's your goal to break this assumption in his head. Shake up his world. The more you can make him doubt his hold on you, the better. Then he goes back to trying to win you over again. The way he should have from the very start. Remember, a man isn't yours until he begs you to marry him. Most women give up the game way too early. And as a result they end up chasing their man for the rest of their lives, instead of him chasing you. Which one would you rather have? Jealousy Tip: Touch Tactic Every so often it's a good idea to casually touch another guy in your man's presence. What I mean by this is, just a momentary hand on the arm of some other guy while you're with your man is a good idea. It's innocent enough that he can't really make a big deal out of it. (But don't you worry, he will. And he may even try to make it sound like it's your fault.) Don't fall for his games! You know that you're just innocently flirting. If he can't handle it, he's now just realizing that he doesn't have the hold on you he thought he did. Time for him to wake up and smell the coffee! Jealousy Tip: Go Out Somewhere Fun & Social - with the girls! If you're not already spending time with your friends, you may have fallen victim to one of the biggest traps of dating and relationships: the Trap of forgetting your friends. A lot of women fall into a pattern of giving all of their time to their boyfriend. This is one of the ways you can really sabotage your relationship. You should be going out with your girlfriends at least once a month if you can. Definitely no less than once every two months. And of course going to lunch here and there as well. But you should definitely get out to have a dinner and drinks with some of your friends. No men allowed. (Except the ones that hit on you, of course!) You should text him a picture of you looking all dressed up and ready to go out. You get extra points if you can make sure there's at least one single girl in your group. This will give him a little apprehension that will keep you on his mind. For more - https://www.datingadviceguru.com/datingquiz ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Texts To Make a Man Feel Jealous https://youtu.be/pVSpmqhx9r0

Get Your Questions Answered: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos Women are always in search of the ultimate kiss technique. And I'm here to show you how to plant your lips on him so well that he won't be able to stop thinking about you - until he can get you on another date and pull you into his arms again. These are secrets about kissing that most women never learn from guys, and sometimes never learn that they’re actually turning him off with their kissing. Let's start with the first step... 1) Make your lips so juicy he'll want to literally bite them (but won’t) Men literally respond on pure impulse when it comes to what we see. Those fruit advertisements where the strawberries are soaked with water, or those plump oranges that practically squirt their juice when peeled... All those images provoke us all to salivate a little. kissing lips 3B Make Him Want you Make Him Fall In Love With A Kiss And guys are just as completely hypnotized by that bit of visual marketing. You should market yourself with the same idea in mind: Make yourself look literally good enough to eat. Use a color of lipstick that not only looks good on you, but suggests a fruity color. Plum works well for this, with a healthy dose of gloss to make your smackers look like they are literally the ripest fruit he can taste. Don't be afraid to hyper-gloss them, too. Men don't see this as excessive in any way. Next you should... 2) Relax A good French kiss engages 34 muscles in your face, and actually burns calories in the process. So you can't afford to go into a kiss with a stiff face. A good kiss is meant to be a luxury, and not a workout. kissing 5D Make Him Want you Make Him Fall In Love With A Kiss The biggest mistake men experience with women is that we assume a woman will know how to kiss well, but this isn't always true. It's just that fewer men know how to kiss at all. A few times I've gone in for the kiss and come away with the feeling that she wasn't kissing me as much as gnawing on my head - which is neither romantic nor arousing. So relax into it, making sure to let him press in on you more than the other way around. And if you need to put a little control on his "mad tongue" affliction, it's easy enough to train him by pressing your lips closed and pushing him out when he gets too aggressive. Most guys will respond when they get the hint. Next, you should be willing to: 3) Receive like a lady Men want to chase women, both literally and figuratively. The game is simple: you run, we chase, you let us catch you, then you run away again. So when you're kissing him, you need to play the same game... whether it's with your lips or your tongue. And you should also make it a point to break off the kiss frequently. This drives men wild with desire, and for a good reason: It's like being denied an addictive drug. Kissing is one of those semi-intimate acts that engages your hormones and brain chemicals in the same way that sex does. Oxytocin is released, along with dopamine, among many other addictive "dope" in your brain. When you pull away from a kiss, you might as well be denying this Love Junkie his "fix." (Please forgive the crude - but accurate - metaphor.) Also, you want to be coy and let him come to you as much as possible. Let him enjoy the delicious joy of the chase, and the elusive prey... And then you want to... For more: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Make a Guy Fall For You https://youtu.be/4oYHkpD_8Ms

To get your free book & video: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook How To Get Over Someone You Love By: Carlos Cavallo According to relationship experts, the best way to get over someone is to just "get over them." Which is actually the worst advice ever for how to get over someone. Breaking up hurts. But it doesn't need to be constant suffering. If you want to know how to get through a breakup, that's what I'm talking about here today. How long does it take to get over someone? I'm sure science could try to give you an exact answer here. But the reality is that when you've lost someone you love due to a break up, it really depends on your situation - and how much you want to get over him. Sure, your heart might be broken. But the situation you're in with your relationship and your partner means that your feelings could be really strong, or maybe not. You might have a lot of memories with him. You might have shared space, living together. The process of getting over him could take a few days, or a few months. For some people it can even take years. Especially if there was a divorce, where you feel like the relationship failed or there's leftover guilt. But it doesn't have to take years. If it takes a long time, that's only because that person made it take years to get over someone. Just remember that it gets better every single day. That should give you the faith to keep moving forward. One day, you will wake up and the emotional pain will be gone. But in the here and now, you might need a little help. How do you get over someone you never dated? If you're wondering how to get over someone you never dated, the answer is pretty simple: Your hopes and fantasies may have made an imaginary relationship. But the reality is he will fade quickly from your mind and heart. You can use the same strategies that I'm going to show you here. Why Breaking Up Hurts So Much You might not be aware of this, but your brain got used to your relationship. When you're in love with somebody over the long-term, your brain releases lots of love hormones. And you become addicted to them. When you go through a breakup, the loss and the emotions, it's because your brain is cut off from all those delicious love hormones. Breaking up can be hard to do... Technically, you are still in love with him. It's hard to stop thinking about him. Of course you want to move on, but these withdrawal symptoms are going to make it difficult. Not to mention, but you have to go through the steps of grief as well. Now, you may not go through all of these steps. But it's very likely that if your relationship breakup is painful, and you're feeling a lot of emotions, you may have to spend some time grieving the loss. And if you have trouble managing your emotions, you may find yourself getting stuck. There's no harm in seeking out professional help if that's the case. You might not be able to accept what is happened to your relationship. You might be stuck in your anger, or depression. But in order to make it to acceptance, you gotta go through the process of accepting your new single identity again. Why does it take so long to get over someone? When you're in a romantic relationship with someone, the memories pile up. Anything you did with your partner get stored away in your emotions. Your heart fills up with memories of experiences you shared. When the breakup comes along, part of you is caught off guard. You didn't expect this, so it's a shock to your system. Some of the factors that affect how long it takes to get over someone are: How much did you actually love each other? How strong are your feelings? If there's a lot of pain, it could be because your mind is stuck on him. If the breakup happened suddenly, you were caught off guard. It will take time to accept the reality of your relationship breakup. How to actually get over a broken heart Some relationships fade away quickly. Some take a lot longer. The first step is you have to figure out: What was your relationship like? Were you and your partner close? There are some simple steps you can take to get over someone. But keep in mind that you need to put an end to this relationship in your own feelings and mind. If you're getting stuck in your feelings, wanting to relive the memories, or look for his actions that might signal getting back together, you will make this process take a long time. TIP 1: No Time Limit Needed The first thing you need to throw out is - For the tips - watch the video - or go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Get Over Someone You Love https://youtu.be/bCdSM8kba58

Want to get a Question answered? https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos Get your free ebook: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook How To Get His Attention Back Fast - Without Looking Desperate! By: Carlos Cavallo You can be in a real panic when a guy stops paying attention to you or ignores you. When you feel them slipping away, you can think about is how to get his attention back fast - and without looking desperate. Is he slipping away...? If he sends he has lost enthusiasm for you, you don't want to be pushy to get them back. Unfortunately this is a pretty common situation for many women. You may have even experienced this yourself when you liked somebody and then suddenly you felt your feelings fade away. He sensed it and did his own panic. If you've had this happen to you, you can probably relate to this guy's feelings. It doesn't mean that he isn't interested. Or that you even said something or did something that turned them off or angered him. His feelings could just be waning all on their own. The early stages of a relationship is an unstable place to be. Of course there are no guarantees, but there are some ways that you can make him start to come back to your relationship in some way. You may have even found yourself asking: - How do you get his attention when he ignores you? - Is he withdrawing or losing interest? - He might have been interested in you but suddenly he seems to have lost interest in your relationship. Anytime a man pulls away from a relationship, it starts creating panic in you, and you want to relieve that anxiety by fixing this - FAST. A guy can withdraw from a relationship for variety of reasons. Including absolutely no reason at all. And if you don't realize it in time, you might turn around and start chasing him simply because he pulled away for a day or two. Which, ironically, makes him run away faster. Why do men pull away from relationships and appear disinterested? Keep in mind that men are dealing with the facts of a slightly different world experience. What I mean by this is, he doesn't experience the world quite like you. In fact, the biggest way that he experiences life differently is that a man deals with his priorities one at a time. A man is usually single-mindedly focused on solving the most important problem in front of him. And if you're not a problem, which you probably aren't if you're his girlfriend (or more), that means he will occasionally shift his attention to his most important problem. Men are focused on one thing at a time. We do not multitask. A man can really only pay attention to one thing at a time. And if he has a problem to solve, he will focus his attention there. So you see, his not paying attention to you is actually a kind of compliment! It means that he doesn't see your relationship as something temporary or falling apart. He trusts in your connection. In other words, he doesn't feel like he has anything to worry about with you. There's no problem.. This is probably the highest compliment a man can give to your relationship. Men simply don't need to constantly ping you to feel like you're there. Don't forget that men need space to start feelings of love Men need a lot of alone time to do things that make them feel more masculine. They need to be able to relieve the stress in their lives and process their own thoughts and feelings. He doesn't typically do this with other men or other women. He simply does this alone. This can feel very scary to you. One of the most common reasons that men pull away from relationships is when he feels that you are needy. It may sound like a bit of a cliché but you have to avoid letting your perception of his interest in you define your confidence. It's the oldest message in the book, but is absolutely critical for your relationship. Always look at yourself in contrast to the feminine ideal: The Confident, High-Value Woman. A high-value woman is... For the rest - Watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Get His Attention Back Fast https://youtu.be/pX7BzVTuBXA

Get your gift here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook There are a log of reasons why he acts hot and cold with you... And almost NONE of those reasons are because he's INTENTIONALLY playing head games with you. REASON: You Reversed The Chase Imagine you're a lion on the African plains. You're stalking your prey, and you're dreaming of a nice afternoon of munching on antelope... You crouch through the weeds and get closer... Just as you're about to sprint after your prey - The antelope turns to you and sees you! It smiles manically, then sprints after... YOU! "Hey!" the antelope yells at you. "I've been waiting for you to show up!" She's now running at you full speed. "Want to have lunch with me? I'm TASTY! Wait til your cubs meet me, too, this is going to be SO MUCH FUN!!!" The lion pulls back and thinks, "Hey... WHOAH... wait a second here. This is really weird, dude." how to attract men The 3 Reasons Men Lose Interest "No thanks, I'm actually vegan...yeah, that's it..." "I wanted lunch, but now this suddenly doesn't seem right. Uh, maybe I'm not so hungry after all." His confusion turns to downright fear as he sees this crazed buffet wildly coming at him with Charlie Manson eyes. In moments, the normal order of things has been flipped. Kinda crazy, huh? But that's what happens to a guy when the woman he was once keenly interested in courting is now running after him. Full bore, no stops. Men chase... Women let him chase her. That's been the order of things for eons. Men have the demand. We desire what women have - the sex, the soft lovely curves, the warm nurturing we can't get from anywhere else. And women have the supply. We know it, and we actually like it this way. We LIKE being told "No, not now" when we're trying to get you into bed. You can say: "Wait for a few more dates." You're not saying "no way" - just not now. A man's run away instinct is primal and automatic when women reverse the chase. When women started flipping the script on me, I would run for the hills. It was unconscious. how to please your man The 3 Reasons Men Lose Interest That's biology for ya... I just knew it didn't feel right. After all, if she is chasing me, how could she have the goods I wanted? Yous see - most men will not intentionally lead you on or use you for sex. Really! It just so happens that when a man becomes even slightly ambivalent, most women will freak out and panic. She then starts the reversal that inevitably seals the relationship's doom. Don't let the natural dynamic get messed up like this! No matter what you hear about in opinionated articles, men don't want you to chase them. That's not what "equality" and empowerment is about. We're not "threatened" by women's equality in any way. We just know it's not right when a woman is doing the chasing. It's never attractive for a woman to take up the man's role in the natural dynamic of love. It's your guy's job to reach out and connect with you - then you can reciprocate. Fore more ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru ===========================================

Get More Here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos Can Your Relationship Survive After Cheating? By: Carlos Cavallo When a partner strays and betrays your trust, it can be a crippling blow to your relationship - and one you may never recover from. You’ll be distant and distrustful, and with everything else going on...the respect you have for him could completely go out the window. Can Your Relationship Survive After Cheating? If you’re trying to decide if you should stay or go, and wondering if it’s possible to still rebuild the relationship, take a second to watch this video. It is possible to save your relationship or marriage. How important is your relationship to you? Did you know that 99% of men cheat in America — and the other 1% cheat overseas? That is a joke, of course, which highly overestimates the percentage of men that cheat. "It is estimated that roughly 30% to 60% of all married individuals (in the United States) will engage in infidelity at some point during their marriage… Men are more likely than women to cheat. But, as women become more financially independent, women are starting to act more like men with respect to infidelity." We have probably all heard the statement that men tend to cheat just for sex and women cheat for emotional connection. I believe that both men and women cheat for similar reasons. Many men, and now almost as many women... For more - go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Why Do Men Cheat https://youtu.be/M9dZ2rUiZJQ

Get your free book here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook MAKE HIM WANT YOU - STEP 1: Be his “Puller...” Let me start right away by explaining that I think there are good addictions in life. Yeah, we already know about the bad ones, but there are things we can allow ourselves get a little attached to. Love is a good addiction. Some people say that you shouldn't let anything get out of control. But I think that the nature of falling in love is that it NEEDS to get wild and out of control. That being said, I believe we owe it to the person we love to be the best kind of "drug" they can get. So you need to be his "Puller." Remember, back in the day - 1970s? It was common to hear a drug dealer referred to as a "pusher." It's not a desirable term, I get it. slater dude 3 Simple Steps To Make Him Want You And Addict Him To You And it might seem like a bit of an odd term to use here talking about love... But - ass you're going to see - the three steps I'm outlining here are similar to the ways that a "pusher" might try to get you addicted to his "product." Even though it's not "pushing" at all. So let's call it being a "Puller." That's more of the power you'll have - of attraction that pulls him into your spell. The difference is that we'll be doing it in a way that is a WIN-WIN! And that means you've got nothing to fear about using this approach. It's the same way that people get addicted to their morning coffee, or their video games, or even texting on your cell phone. Same principle. So if you want to be his "Puller" - the first step is all about making him know that you're his "good time girl." And no, I don't mean that in a sexual way. You want your man to feel like being with you is an incredibly fun event that he doesn't want to miss. So you have to make yourself focus on one feeling in him: FUN! Whenever you get the chance, you have to fill up his Fun-Meter. Some ways you can show him fun are to dig into his life and find out what he likes and what he's interested in. It's easy to get him to cough up information - if you know how he thinks. (This is something I explain completely in my program: The Connection Code) Here's the easiest way: When you first meet a guy, you just tell him about your likes and your dislikes. Be a bit coy, but be vulnerable. Tell him what works for you and what doesn't. This will evoke a similar reaction from him. Humans are compelled to give back to avoid creating a kind of "debt" to the other person. reciprocity 3 Simple Steps To Make Him Want You And Addict Him To You He will want to tell you about himself - in detail. And you can make a few mental notes and stow them away for when you need them. Another way to be fun is to spike his adrenaline. Adrenaline is another of the "love chemicals" in your brain that gets activated when you fall in love. So there's nothing better than getting him excited and turning on the love. And attraction comes down to the fact that interesting people are interesting to be with. Instead of spending your time trying to lure him in, remember this: People who are comfortable with themselves are interesting because they’re doing things that make them happy. And that’s always very attractive. Now, the next step is the one that ensures that you're the only girl he's thinking about every day... MAKE HIM WANT YOU - STEP 2: First one’s free... One of the tricks of a "pusher" is that they would give you the first sample of their product for free. "Hey, we're all friends here! Go on! Give it a try - on the house..." But there are two principles at work: Principle 1) He will feel obligated to "repay" you later... Remember that principle I mentioned about how we're compelled to avoid getting into "debt" to another person? It comes from a persuasion principle known as "reciprocity." Reciprocity simply states that you feel the need to avoid debt to someone. No matter if they asked for repayment or not. Jen, my wife runs into this when she does her "random acts of kindness." She likes to buy someone's coffee at Starbucks on occasion. starbs 3 Simple Steps To Make Him Want You And Addict Him To You You'd be surprised at how many people try to forcibly repay her - solely because of that subconscious debt. He'll want to repay you - but in a way that will only deepen your relationship with each other. It's not obligation; it's opening the door to his genuine feelings of openness and desire for you. Principle 2) He's going to... Get the rest in the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Make Him Sexually Addicted To You https://youtu.be/mOssKyOb7yA

For more - take the quiz: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/doesheloveme What Is True Love? Love is a strong feeling of attraction and connection with a person. But beyond this thin definition, there's a lot more going on. what are the stages of true love What Is True Love? 7 Signs of True Love... Have you found "The One"... If you're a romantic, you might define love as a mystical union of souls - or that it's written in the stars... If you're a little bit more of a "realist" - you might define love as a biochemical hormone cocktail that hypnotizes you into making babies. And both would be at least a little bit right. So before we describe what True Love is, let’s go through the stages of True Love. This will help you understand what both of you experience on the path to a relationship... True Love - Phase 1: Attraction The first stage is when we realize there’s a spark of some feeling between us. This could happen in the first few seconds of making eye contact across a dance floor... Or it might happen years later in a relationship, when you suddenly see your friend in a different light. Maybe his personality grows on you and you realize you’ve got some really deep feelings. true love what is it What Is True Love? 7 Signs of True Love... Are we more than friends? I will caution you that it’s pretty rare that friendships evolve into passionate romances. Most often, a woman will make a decision in the first few minutes of being around a guy as to whether or not she would hook up or even consider dating him. But, it can happen. For the most part, you’re going to feel attraction right away. It’s that sexual tension that lights you up with excitement. This phase is also called “Lust” because you feel the initial stirrings of infatuation that will obsess you for weeks to come. And this is assisted by some very important hormones that are released into your brain to ensure that you bond with him long enough for the next phase of love. All of these hormones help you focus on the other person and develop this initial fascination that will turn into sexual attraction later. These hormones are: – Serotonin: This hormone boosts your mood; in fact, if you take drugs such as MDMA, you create a huge surge in serotonin... – Oxytocin: This has been referred to as the "hug drug" - and the biological foundation for love. This hormone is released during cuddling and sex. Oxytocin assists in creating the bio-physical attachment to him... – Vasopressin: Along with oxytocin, most experts believe that this hormone is also responsible for creating deep attachment to him... – Dopamine: This hormone is responsible for the "desire and reward" loop, which means you feel a huge amount of pleasure when you receive loving actions, such as kindness, touch, gifts, or whatever makes you feel fulfilled and happy in the relationship... – Norepinephrine: This is basically adrenaline. It's released when you are falling in love. It gives you the physical rush you feel while falling in love, such as sweaty palms or a hammering heartbeat... This is the potent "love cocktail" that kicks in when you feel attraction for someone. It's there to start the process of connection that is meant to end in wild monkey love in bed later on. True Love - Phase 2: Love After the first few months of dating has come and gone, you’re probably now in the next stage. You’re in love! Congratulations. But don't get TOO excited. This doesn't mean you've locked him down - yet. You still need to do a few more things. The Love Phase is the place in your relationship where you know you have a solid connection with him, and your emotions are growing stronger every day. You now have a connection that feels more stable between you. One of the most common blocks to making True Love happen is when a woman doesn't know how to get a man who is obviously "in lust" with her to fall in LOVE with her. Still, there's something not quite there to balance the relationship out and give you that feeling of complete security. That comes in the next phase - ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Signs of True Love https://youtu.be/U3rxKV3MqLY

For More: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/doesheloveme How to make him worry about losing you By: Carlos Cavallo If there's one thing that would you happy, it's knowing how to make him worry about losing you... Have you ever felt like you could "forget" to call your man - and he wouldn't even notice? Do you feel like he's taking you for granted? Wouldn't it be nice to make him worry for once about the relationship? And even better - make him worry that he might be losing YOU? I'm pretty sure every woman has asked herself these questions at one time or another. afraid to lose you How to make him worry about losing you 5 Ways... Will he miss you? Knowing that someone misses you and is afraid of losing you is the ultimate power in relationships. And it's also a power you should be very careful of manipulating. Look, I won't kid you - we all fantasize about this from time to time. Even guys. It's easy to assume that the other person is always going to be there for you. Once a relationship starts, we all hope this means we don't have to worry about losing them, right? I mean, we all want the peace and security of being in a stable relationship. The problem is when the guy doesn't tell you where he is, what he's doing, or who he's doing it with. Leaving you feeling unsure, and insecure. Wouldn't it be great if you could make HIM worry about you for once...? games How to make him worry about losing you 5 Ways... Games can be fun... Well you can... And I'm going to show you 5 ways to make him worry about losing you... And let me insert my little "Game Disclaimer" here: I don't approve of game playing... but let's face it - ALL social interactions are a form of game playing. I show you how to do these things not to manipulate, but to leverage the power of healthy interactions to get the romantic results you want... 'Nuff said? Good, let's get on with: Make your man worry about losing you for once - TIP 1: Remind him of life without you... A man will quickly forget how crappy it was without you. He'll forget in just a few days just how alone and sex-free his life was before you came into the picture. So you should remind him on occasion. (Gratitude is forgotten quickly - but loss is felt right down the the bones.) girls night out 2 How to make him worry about losing you 5 Ways... Girl's Night Out! There are a ton of ways you can do this one: Make plans with your girlfriends on a night you usually spend with him. Be prepared for his best "sad little boy face." Let him pout it out. He needs a little incentive to remember what he's got. Be vague about plans you've got that don't include him. Let him wonder about where YOU are and what YOU are up to for once. Stop being so accountable for him. Stop answering his texts so quickly. Yeah, I know - he complains when YOU don't answer quickly, but when HE doesn't you get crickets. Flirt with other guys. No, this does not constitute cheating on your part. We all know women flirt. Flirting does not imply that you're a tramp, either. What it does is remind him that you're not a possession - you're a subscription that is always up for renewal. men worried to lose you How to make him worry about losing you 5 Ways... Level the playing field... Oh, and if you feel weird about this, like you are the mean, naughty, bad girl... go splash some water on your face and get a grip. Women who make themselves TOO available and work too hard to make HIM happy wind up as doormats. I won't let that happen to you... Make your man worry about losing you for once - TIP 2: Stand up to him... Here's something about guys you might not know: The reason you don't get what you want from a man is usually because you're offering the OPTION to him. Chances are, you've gotten used to communicating with women - where being firm and telling it like it is will get you thrown out of the group. But this isn't how men work. If you give a man an option, he'll take the one that works best for him. It's not selfishness, really. (Well, okay, it's a little bit selfish.) It's mostly about his convenience. For more - watch the video! Or GO HERE: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/doesheloveme ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Make him worry about losing you https://youtu.be/0Gi7ZO4CGNQ

For your free question and ebook: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos After coaching thousands of clients, I'll tell you one big mistake that women typically make with texting men: They are way too predictable. Men are like dolphins... happy dolphin How To Text A Man Into Marrying You 3 Psychological Tricks Let me explain that last statement - because this one tip is something you can use on a man no matter what you're doing with him. The way that those trainers get a dolphin to do tricks in all those aquatic shows is that they use something called "variable reinforcement." That means that when the dolphins are being trained to learn a trick, they don't get a fish every time they do the trick - like you see them getting during the show. No, the dolphins start out by getting a fish all the time. And very soon they only get a fish every so often. At a variable interval that is unpredictable. Why? Because all living things respond better to uncertain schedules of reward. What does that odd scientific phrase mean? It means: People respond better when we DON’T know when - or IF - we’re going to get a treat. If you KNOW you're getting a treat at the same time, you start to take it for granted. And then you stop trying or working for it. This is basic motivational psychology. Sure, we'd like to THINK that a person will keep working for it. But the truth is that they won't. And this is especially true of MEN. The second you start texting him - or calling or emailing or whatever - regularly, that's when his little lizard brain will start yelling: BO-O-ORING! And he's going to look elsewhere for fun. It's not that he's trying to be a dick, he's just motivated by challenge. Let me say that again for the cheap seats: A man is motivated by CHALLENGE! If you're working hard to make it easy for him, you're missing a big opportunity without realizing it. YOU think if you make yourself convenient, he'll just default to calling you, or boinking you, or dating you. Nope. He needs you to demonstrate higher value (DHV) by showing him you're in demand and can't be pinned down. The human mind focuses on things that are rare and hard-to-get - for a reason. Too easy = too common. Which also = not valuable. You need to have him on his toes more than a running back in the 4th quarter of the Super Bowl, ya dig? running back How To Text A Man Into Marrying You 3 Psychological Tricks You also have to keep him focused ON YOU - not on his own lame little concerns. A man works best when he's providing and helping make YOUR life happy - because that's a built in drive for him. Remember this one, because it's the secret key that will get you into his heart... For more - Watch the video! And go here for your book: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Text A Man https://youtu.be/vzle5WAgE5A

For your free tips - go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos Does love have to fade? Can't it always be like it was when you two first met? Well, we all know in our hearts that love can never be as powerful and magical as it is when it first starts - BUT... We also know we WANT it to be, don't we? Just to feel that inexorable pull of chemistry and attraction that makes the world a whirlwind of excitment. Where all the colors are brighter, and the smells so much sweeter... Sure, some people may accuse you wanting a fairy tale romance. They shake their head and tell you it's a dream, and you need to "get real..." But that's okay. There is no reason you can't have some of that romantic fantasy become REAL for you. I want to share with you 3 ways you can get your man to adore you. But beware! If you use these "spells" with men, don't be surprised if he becomes truly enchanted with you. How To Get Him To Adore You - Secret Tip 1: Let him catch you... Look, I won't insult your intelligence by telling you for the umpteenth time that men like sex. (Okay, they LOVE it - and everything about it.) But the truth is that YOU do, too! Just in a slightly different recipe. As in, not as fast... Sometimes in the relationship, his mojo level drops - and he doesn't seem as into sex. The roles seem to reverse a bit. And that leaves you feeling unattractive. Undesirable. BUT there's something here you can use to your advantage... I propose that you let him catch you. You know - doing IT. Pleasuring yourself. C'mon - as the old joke goes: 80% of women masturbate... And the other 20% are lying. Just let him walk in on you sometime... or maybe invite him just to watch. If you're shy, you can just tell him that when he revs the engine in his car, you feel the vibrations and get a delicious jolt of "mmmm." Squirm and smile to make the point... You see, flashing this kind of sexual side to yourself is something that most men never get to see. Seriously, most men don't really think women enjoy sex all that much - because of the difference between how men and women prioritize and handle it. It's old, lame programming that most men still fall for. You'd be astonished at the kind of wide-eyed fascination this will create in him. Which leads me to the next tip... How To Get Him To Adore You - Secret Tip 2: Keep Things Light And Fun Here's a tricky one... You see, men bond by sharing time with someone. NOT by talking. NOT by sharing emotions and experiences verbally. Which - by the way - is completely opposite to how most women bond with each other - through communicating. The one thing that will sneak under a man's radar is having a woman around that FEELS like she's a buddy of his. (With an edge, of course.) For more - Go Here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Make Him Adore You https://youtu.be/e1b9SNyLPoc

For your free book - or ask a question: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos Dating & Relationship Advice For Women By: Carlos Cavallo Relationships can seem difficult at times. Dating often feels very confusing and complicated. In reality, it's the people that are confusing and difficult. And truth is that it's just a simple skill. I'm going to show you simple dating and relationship advice for women you can use right now. Number one problem of most relationships is simply this: both the man and the woman were just a little bit too lazy when they were dating. Neither one really followed a smart plan to make sure the relationship would be a success after those first critical weeks. I've been coaching men and women for nearly 20 years. The one consistent problem has always been that neither gender was willing to step up and hold each other accountable for the relationship. After all, no one wants to hear that it's going to take effort and work to make a relationship successful. Human beings are lazy by nature. Would you like to attract a man and get him to fall in love with you, respect you, with the least amount of effort? You can do it, and it doesn't have to be a struggle. And there are some "magic bullets" you can use to radically increase your chances of relationship success and becoming a loving couple. Here is some dating and relationship advice for women - something that any couple use right now: TIP #1: There Is No “Autopilot” For Relationships It can be tempting to just coast in a relationship, but relationships require work. People get lazy when it comes to relationships. If you think that you can just put things on autopilot, you’ll find out (too late) that you’ll grow distant and eventually you'll break up. Sure, it might be a little work, but is there anything more worth putting that effort into than your love? TIP #2: Stop Chasing Guys! If you’re chasing men - trying to get them interested in you and approving of you - you’re probably scaring him away. Men are hunters, by nature. He needs to have that satisfaction of pursuing and capturing your love. Unfortunately, most women make themselves way too easy. Or - worse - they fall for the popular idea that it’s okay for women to play the traditional male role and approach guys and ask them out - or invite them to bed. This is the worst thing you can do. First of all, if you put all the work in to get him interested, how do you know he’s really into you? How do you know he didn’t just go along because he had nothing else? Second, if you chase him up front, he’ll never feel the thrill of wondering if you’re into him. And he’ll just take you for granted when you're a couple. You need a man to show you interest. You want him to let you know you’re desirable! TIP #3: Pamper yourself - the right way! Men are attracted to the women who know how to treat themselves right. These are the women that look good and feel good about themselves. Guys are attracted to women who are more “girly girl” than “manly man” - for obvious reasons. It’s the women who know how to demonstrate their feminine value that can attract almost any man. TIP #4: Talk It Through It can be really hard talking about intimacy with men, as you know. The women who tend to lose their men are the ones that try to avoid talking about the “tough stuff.” When you’ve got an emotional obstacle, you have to know what to say to men to open them up. If you talk to him like a girlfriend, you’ll lose him. You need to know what words to use with men and how to keep his attention. TIP #5: Split It Two Ways No, I’m not talking about the dinner bill. (Guys should pay for the dinner, by the way!) When I say you should split it two ways, I’m talking about the EFFORT. You need to split up the chores and the responsibilities 50/50 in your partnership. Otherwise, one person will grow complacent and lazy, and the other one will grow resentful. Make sure you talk through your expectations in the relationship. If you don’t, you’re very likely to run into more misunderstandings, arguments, and conflict. For the rest - Go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Dating Relationship Advice For Women https://youtu.be/sJn03c3RVmo

For more go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos How To Get The Spark Back In A Relationship - 8 Must-Read Tips By: Carlos Cavallo Every relationship is awesome at the beginning. But it's also perfectly natural to have slow periods in your relationship. You may be wondering right now how to get the spark back in your relationship. Falling in love is easy when the feelings of passion and desire run high. Staying in love is a little trickier. All couples run into a slow spell every so often. You might need a little extra energy to get close to your partner again and awaken that love connection. Desire may have faded. You might even be wondering if your relationship or your marriage is on the rocks. There's lots of different reasons your relationship might be feeling sluggish. You may have just had a new baby The "honeymoon period" might be ending and you're wondering what's happening between you The intimacy may have plateaued between you and your partner You don't touch each other as much as you used to You might not have as much sex as you used to You might find yourself arguing over money a little bit more If you want to reignite the passion between you and your partner, you need some strategies to help you move forward. First off, it's totally natural for the fire of excitement to cool off. This can happen early on for some couples, or many years down the road. The signature of a strong relationship is that you don't interpret this to mean that the love has gone away. Again, this feeling is totally natural. The idea that every relationship burns passionately at a thousand degrees - or it isn't "love" - is a myth. Here are a few tips for how to get the spark back in your relationship... and revive your love. Tip 1: Get The Spark Back In Your Relationship: Rewind It! Remember at the beginning? When you first met and got all crazy for each other? You guys were like teenagers. Holding hands, smooching whenever you had a chance. Whispering in each others' ears... I know, kind of embarrassing to see it like that, right? But you do want to get back to the things that created your connection in the first place. Rewinding your relationship and restarting your old habits that made you fall in love is essential. Start going out on dates again. Concentrated time together is what ultimately creates that connection. Go back to restaurants you used to eat at. Go out for some dancing, or even a movie. Go back to being one of those couples you probably roll your eyes at now, and realize you don't want to let that habit go. Reignite Your Desire - Tip 2: Reconnect Physically You might think that I'm talking about sex. While you should try to reignite your sex drive and bedroom action, I'm really talking about your everyday physical connection. Your touch intimacy is a very important component of your relationship. How you touch each other's bodies is another level of communication between you and him. Give him a back massage or rub, and vice versa Hold hands when you walk together When you watch TV, get back to closeness on the couch together Your physical touch and patterns of physical intimacy are important to keep you both affectionate and loving. Revive The Desire & Intimacy - Tip 3: Get your love drugs Back in the early stages of your relationship, you may not have realized it but the hormones being pumped into your brain were -- For the rest: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Get The Spark Back In Your Relationship https://youtu.be/k3NKMTqUvE0

For more on how to be his priority: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook "My Boyfriend Won't Make Time For Me!" - What You Should Do... By: Carlos Cavallo If you've ever been in a relationship where you want to get any attention you deserved, you might have found yourself feeling neglected and unwanted. You may have even told your friends "My boyfriend won't make time for me! What the heck should I do?" Let's tackle this tricky situation and give you the tips you need. You don't want to feel lonely, and you definitely don't want to feel neglected. You probably also don't want to break up. But you also know that you just don't feel like a priority in his eyes. And you probably know that you deserve better. One strategy that definitely will not work is complaining and nagging. Very often we feel that the only way we can get our needs met is to pressure someone to give us what we need. But this is a strategy that will backfire most of the time. Even if you get what you want by pressuring him you will create resentment and friction between you and him. No one wants to be beaten into submission. And this is true 10 times over when it comes to men. No man ever wants to be pushed into anything in a relationship. And you definitely don't want to threaten the relationship. Or threaten him. When a guy hears complaining, all he hears is that he is not adequate. A man is focused on solutions and fixing problems. So by complaining you're saying that you are dissatisfied with him, but there's also no solution for the problem. And contrary to what you might think, you can't just tell him to "make more time." He needs specifics. Not to mention, you will begin to wonder if he is still interested in you anymore. Being a priority is a significant signal in a relationship. And you're right to want to be a priority. You need to know that if you were to marry him or live with him, he would be there for you. Because that's what it comes down to in the end - will he be there for you? You need a man you can rely on and depend upon. And who can keep you safe. So how do you get him to make you a priority? How do you get him to make more time for you? It feels like you're at an impasse. Why is he not making time for you? Reason 1: He is genuinely busy This one is tricky. He will probably give you this excuse - even if it's not the real reason. In fact is probably the most common stall tactic a man uses on a woman. The fact is that no matter what, IF we love and appreciate someone, we want to be with them. We will make it happen. We won't make excuses and we definitely won't let time get in the way. Sure, there is a chance that he is overwhelmed with things to do in his life. (A lot of men get busy building their careers, depending on where he is in his life. This is something I talk about in my Connection Code program.) It's vitally important that you understand what stage of life he's in so that you can understand his behavior as well. Some women get involved with a man who is in a stage of his life that she doesn't understand, and this leads to problems in the relationship. Problems that could easily be solved if she knew more about how men think and feel. Reason 2: Because he's not that into you Unfortunately, the truth is that sometimes he isn't making you a priority because he really isn't that into the relationship. Not every man is going to take a relationship and want to run to the goal with it. Whether that's marriage or moving in together, sometimes he is only in the relationship out of convenience. This can also be true for you, too, of course. But you wouldn't have come to my article about "he's not making time for me" unless you wanted more from this guy, right? Just make sure you don't want more from him only because he's giving you less. Scarcity can trick you into relationships that aren't right for you. Reason 3: Bad Timing Sometimes you just catch a guy at the wrong time. Maybe he's fresh out of an old relationship Maybe he's just started a new job Maybe he is in the process of trying to align his priorities Maybe he's dealing with a difficult situation If you find yourself in bad timing, the best thing you can do is to wait it out a little longer. See if you can get back in sync. And make sure you understand ... For more - https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== My Boyfriend Won't Make Time For Me https://youtu.be/LP8oOESCY1A

For more on the Secret of Long Distance Romance: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/ldr How To Make A Long Distance Relationship Work - Secrets To Success By: Carlos Cavallo A long-distance relationship can be one of the most challenging situations for dating. If you want to know how to make a long distance relationship work you gotta know what most women don't know! There are a lot of barriers to keeping a long distance relationship healthy. A lot of people don't believe that long-distance relationships can work. The truth is that long-distance relationships can work just as well is a regular relationship. And with so many people working from home and from far away, it's more likely that your next relationship will be a long distance relationship. As I like to say, any relationship can work - IF you MAKE it work. One of the best rewards of a long-distance relationship is that you really can't take your partner for granted. You wait so long just to see them and hold them, that you appreciate them much more. I recently put together a master class program to help any woman make a long-distance relationship work with a man. In celebration, I want to share a few tips with you that can help you make your relationship with him work no matter how far away from him you are. First of all what is a long-distance relationship? It's really any relationship where you are more than a couple hours from your partner. Where you have a significant time or distance barrier to getting together. When I lived in the San Francisco Bay Area, I dated a few women who were close to San Jose. While those two cities are not terribly far apart, Bay Area traffic made the distance pretty huge. Sometimes it would take a couple hours to get there. So take a look at your situation and consider that if it is inconvenient to get together, or you are unable to get together more than once per week, you may have a long distance relationship. Let's share some secrets about making a long-distance relationship work... Secret #1: Believe It Can Work It may be hard to believe your relationship can work. You may have tried a long-distance relationship in the past and had it fail. On the other hand, you may have tried and come close to succeeding. The very first step has to be to generate your faith in this relationship. Of course your belief won't guarantee it will succeed. But if you don't have faith in the relationship it will be very hard to make things work. If you have reasons that you're scared or insecure about the relationship, you should take some time to write those reasons down. Journaling is an excellent way to exorcise your fears. And also check in with him. Make sure he has faith in the relationship as well. If you have the right tools and the right skills, it's actually not difficult to make a long-distance relationship work. Secret #2: Don't Go Overboard What I mean by overboard is that you don't want to focus too much on this relationship just because you're far away from each other. Sometimes we over-work and pay too much attention to a long-distance relationship. You really don't need to spend any more time on it than you would if you were dating somebody just across town. Be aware when your insecurities show up and complicate things, as well. (I'll talk about this more in the next secret.) For now, check in with yourself and with him to make sure that you aren't being too focused on this relationship. Secret #3: Tame Your Crazy Insecurities can drive you nuts when you're in a long distance relationship. When all you have is time to think and ruminate, sometimes we let our imaginations run wild. We imagine scenarios of infidelity or losing the connection and our attachment. It stirs up a lot of childhood wounds and fears. This is why it's a good idea to make sure you - For the rest, watch the video! And get your special report on Long distance romance: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/ldr ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru ===========================================

Got a dating or relationship question? https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos Is He Just A Friend - Or Is He Interested In You? - 16 Tips! By: Carlos Cavallo If you've ever been in love with a guy and wondered: Is he just a friend or is he interested? - you're not alone. When a man and a woman hang out, even if they're only friends, there's always going to be a little bit of sexual tension. Many studies have shown that the number one problem between male and female friends is the level of attraction they start to feel for each other. And usually it can be unbalanced. Something else they find is that men are more likely to be attracted to their female friends than the other way around. And he is also much more likely to misunderstand how much his female friend likes him back. The reason is that men will often keep the chance for romance open far longer than a woman would. Many women can decide in just a few minutes whether a man is a good prospect for a relationship or not. And once he's in the friends bucket he doesn't usually get out. If you add to this the fact that men are usually the initiators when it comes to romance, you start to see how the gender roles can sometimes get confusing! But you want to know whether or not your guy friend could be interested in you. There are some easy signs you can look for that will help you figure this out. Let's talk about which signs are friendships and which signs and which are romance as you figure out is he just a friend or is he interested. Just friends - Tip #1: It's always a posse One of the biggest signs that your guy friend is not interested in romance is if he only hangs out with you in a group of friends or coworkers. He might suggest group activities, or parties where there's not a whole lot of chance for you to being alone with each other. If a guy is into you, he wants to be ONLY with you. He will want you all to himself. If he's interested in you for romance, it's more likely that he will try to make a group get together turn into a solo get together with you. But if he avoids any situation alone with you, that's a sign that he's keeping it "just friends." Just a friend? - Tip #2: He won't touch like YOU touch When it comes to physical contact, guys have a tough time holding back when it comes to women. You may have experienced this with guys who are a little too handsy with you. It's not that he is trying to be a lewd pervert, it's just that guys see beauty and they want to touch it. When a man is attracted to a woman he wants to touch her. So if you have touched him affectionately, and he has not reciprocated back after that, there's a good chance he's not that interested. Or he's just incredibly shy and afraid of rejection. But the fact of the matter is if he isn't willing to overcome his shyness or fear to make a move and initiate, you would not be happy in a relationship with him. Try to imagine a marriage of 30 years where you have to do everything. Yeah, like that. You might not want to risk the rejection yourself, in which case now you know what it's like being a guy and having to risk your self-esteem every time you make a move. Sometimes though, this is the only way to figure it out. You may have to "test the waters." If he is interested, he will take your approach as being an invitation for him to move forward. So all you have to do is put it out there once. Is he a friend or more than that - Tip #3: Are you just a dude to him? Watch how he treats you when you're together with him. If a guy acts like you're just one of the guys when you're around, that's usually showing that he thinks of you as a female friend. If he burps, farts, cusses like a sailor, jokes with you like you're one of his male friends, that's usually an indication he thinks of you as "one of the guys." Another important tip is if he doesn't seem to notice that you are a woman, or he makes a lot of flubs that tell you he doesn't see you as being a female, that's a surefire indication he isn't attracted to you or romantically interested in you. What's Going On? Tip #4: How much you hear about his romantic life One of the easiest ways to figure out whether or not he's just a friend or interested in you for more is simply listening to what he talks about. Does he talk about his ex-girlfriends? Does he talk about a specific ex-girlfriend all the time? Does he avoid talking about his romantic life? Does he avoid - For the rest - watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Is He Just A Friend https://youtu.be/2_ffnw6oITE

Are you making these mistakes with men? https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook Dating A Younger Man? 25 Things You Better Know By: Carlos Cavallo One of the most controversial parts of dating and relationships is the age of your partner. Is it okay to date someone younger, older? If you're dating a younger man, you better know what to do. We often think about older women dating younger men as “cougars.” But that label is just not fair. dos donts dating younger men Dating A Younger Man? 25 Things You Better Know You might be a 40 or 50-something woman dating a guy in his 20s or 30s. Or you might be in your 60s or 70s dating a younger guy. The important factors are where you are in life, and where he is in life. Age is just a state of mind right? Well, not really. Age is much more important than you might realize. I've already talked about dating an older man. But what about dating a younger man? Is it okay to date a younger guy? How young is too young? Can dating a younger man work out? Well the good news is that ANY relationship can work. The bad news is that you have to MAKE it work. Relationships don't run on autopilot. If you've ever tried this, you probably know what I mean. "It doesn't matter who you date if you don't put the effort in to make a relationship work." - Carlos Cavallo Why do guys get into relationships with older women? Guys know that women over 30 are more focused and probably a little bit more emotionally stable. (Probably.) A lot of the women he meets in the early 20s don't really appeal to him other than sexually He may not be ready for a family, and he's looking for a woman who's already had hers She probably already knows who she is There are probably as many reasons for this as there are men. 20 Dating A Younger Man? 25 Things You Better Know Before you date a younger man - Here are some secrets you MUST know: SECRET TIP #1: Good thing - He doesn't have as much history One of the best things about dating a younger guy is that he hasn't had time to cultivate a long string of past romances. He may have a few relationships under his belt, and that would be a good thing. You don't want a guy that doesn't have any relationship experience. SECRET TIP #2: BAD Thing - He doesn't have as much history! The problem with a younger guy is that he doesn't have a lot of relationship experience, either. Some of the relationship skills that you take for granted may be foreign to him. Be prepared to educate him on a lot of the subtle nuances of a relationship. This is why it's a good idea to choose a younger guy who is willing to learn - AND knows that he doesn't know everything. SECRET TIP #3: You better know his priorities It should be obvious, but a younger guy is going to have different priorities in life than an older guy would. Sometimes a younger guy is going to be more into his adventure sports than he is into building a career. Or maybe his focus is on his career and he's not ready to really settle down. It's up to you to figure out where his head is at and whether he's ready for the kind of relationship you want. SECRET TIP #4: Be careful you're not trading age for excitement It's no secret that older guys can be pretty boring. Like, really really boring. older woman younger man dating dos donts Dating A Younger Man? 25 Things You Better Know But you also want to make sure that you don't choose a younger guy just because you think he's more exciting. He may be exciting, but he may also be completely untethered and lacking a stable foundation. You might need a guy that can keep up with you. You might be energetic and full of life. And if you can't seem to find the guys that are willing to keep up, you may have to go younger in the dating pool. Just be careful that you're not seeking these guys because you need a few thrills. Ultimately, you're probably going to want a man who is willing to slow down enough to be with you. (Or speed up!) SECRET TIP #5: Younger guys are easier to sculpt and change The truth is that if he's younger that means he hasn't had time to build up resistance to change. This can be a good thing if he is malleable. You might need a little project to work on. Just remember that no matter how old he is, a man doesn't want to feel like you have to change him. A man's number one need from a woman is her acceptance. If you're more interested in shaping him then accepting him, he will notice. But the good news is that if he's younger, he - For the rest - Watch the video, or go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Dating a younger man https://youtu.be/bqwTcv3cM8c

For your free gift: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/freebook Will a Man Change For The Right Woman? Will He Change For YOU? By: Carlos Cavallo One of the most common Romance novel plots is the rich, womanizing playboy that finds an amazing woman, realizes the error of his ways, and settles down to be tamed by this amazing woman. But is this realistic? Will a man change for the right woman? Well, we all change over the course of our lives. The truth is that most of us change in ways that are UNPLANNED. We just wake up one day and find we’re 20 pounds heavier… Or 20 years older… Or we get divorced and we need to learn more about how to date and make a relationship work again. Let’s face it, most of us get married way too young. Because when you’re in your 20s, you can meet people all the time. It’s easy! And if you breakup, no big deal! Cry for a week or two, then go out and find a replacement. But after your 30s and 40s, things don’t work like that anymore. Finding the right man or the right woman isn’t as easy. So you realize that you may have to find Mr. Good Enough, and hope you can shape him into something that will work for a relationship. And you also start to realize that most real life relationships don’t work ANYTHING like a Harlequin romance novel. And sometimes it’s not so easy to get a guy to change into your Prince Charming. So here are a few tips (and secrets) about making your man change for you. First of all - Will a man change for the right woman? Will he change for the woman he loves? Well, it all depends on how you imagine your relationship. If you're picking a man who’s not quite right at the moment, and you’re hoping you can shape him up - sculpt him - into a guy you can be happy with, you might be disappointed. Let me share a few tips about making a guy change for love... Change A Guy Tip #1: HOW Does He Need To Change For You? It’s perfectly understandable to want a man to settle down and be monogamous with you. That’s a healthy change in a relationship that signifies going from just dating to a more committed relationship. So you have to understand what are the ways you need him to change? If it's just to be more committed and monogamous and stop dating other people, that's perfectly understandable. Of course you would want that. And if he's a normal healthy guy, and he is attracted to you, that should come naturally. If it doesn't come naturally, that's where you need to step in and figure it out. But if you're also needing your man to change in specific ways, I might ask you why you aren't choosing these guys in the first place. Why not simply have a good list of qualities that you're looking for, and then find a man with them? It's far easier to choose the kind of guy you want right off the bat then it is to have to modify him down the road. That would seem more like laziness to me. Change Tip #2: WHY Do You Need Him To Change? This is one of those questions you have to ask yourself. WHY do you need him to change? Do you have a history of needing men to “change” for you? Again, if you're not choosing the man you want to begin with, and you're just choosing a guy who conveniently will get into a relationship with you, you're probably reverse engineering your relationship. Meaning that you're choosing the guy first, and then shoe-horning him into what you want him to be later on. Change Your Man - Tip #3: He’ll Change A Little - But Not A Lot You have to understand that we all change. Bit by bit, day by day, we’re all changing. Unfortunately, this kind of change is usually the UNCONSCIOUS kind. Meaning that we don’t really notice the change that’s going on until we see it in the mirror. The other part is that no one really wants to change drastically. It feels like we would be sacrificing our identity in some way. Men are no different about this. You need to manage your expectations with him. He’s not going to change significantly. Can He Be Changed? - Tip #4: Don’t make him a project The fact is that men have a primary need in relationships. And it’s one that most women aren’t aware of. A man needs - Find out what he needs in the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Will a man change for the right woman https://youtu.be/BMwy7FP2F6s

For More on getting him to go exclusive: /https://www.datingadviceguru.com/cupid When To Date Exclusively - When does a relationship become exclusive? By: Carlos Cavallo One of the most important milestones in a relationship is when you become exclusive. It's also one of the most anxious times for women because she's waiting for weeks or even months to figure out “Where is this going?" So let's talk about exclusive relationships, and when does a relationship become exclusive? In many surveys, when American couples are asked about when they think you should become exclusive, they typically say around the 3-month mark. Are they right? or is that too soon to be exclusive? Maybe too late? If you see each other once a week, that would be around 12 dates. Maybe as many as 24 or if you see each other a lot. But if you're seeing each other a lot, that kind of implies that you are exclusive already. The truth is, each person is going to have their own particular time frame and deadline. And there are a lot of variables to this equation. There is no perfect formula for figuring this out. You might run into your soulmate, and want to to speed things up. Or you might run into a guy you’re just not sure about and you want to take a little extra time with him. Let's talk about the different factors that might come up that make you think about going exclusive earlier vs later. Making Things Exclusive Tip 1: You may never know… Some couples never really officially make things exclusive. They don't always have The Talk to establish the formal start of The Relationship. Sometimes things seem to just go in the right direction with autopilot, and you don't need to push it. This can be a really good sign when neither of you really thinks about it much. That means you are just spending your time enjoying the relationship instead of worrying about the formalizing and going exclusive. Tip 2: It's usually your radar Your inner feelings about the relationship typically make this an issue or not. Let's be honest: Making your dating exclusive is really a factor of of how anxious you feel about losing him. If you've been dating him for a few weeks and he seems like a really good catch, but seems a bit aloof, you're going to be worrying about losing him. You could wind up pretty agitated until you can nail things down. On the other hand, if he just plows forward, you won't really think about the "exclusive" part. Tip 3 : Does anything really change? If you think about it, what is supposed to change when your relationship becomes exclusive? For most people this means you stop dating other people. Yes, hopefully this means you no longer have to lie awake wondering if he's out on a date with another woman. It's not like anything formal actually changes between you. After all, there are no written contracts. You're just trying to get to a place where you can relax in the relationship. If you're trying to get exclusive with your man, think about whether or not you need to press the subject. Do you really need to corner him and make him sign a document? Maybe take a test and and pledge his undying loyalty? Be careful about formalizing the arrangement at the expense of the natural flow. Sometimes it's better to wait a little longer and let things run their course naturally. Tip 4 : You could spook him Guys are notoriously skittish when it comes to having a talk about your relationship status. If you try to get him to go exclusive before he is ready, you might send him running to the Hills. However, if a guy is really into you, he's going to naturally stop seeing other women. Guys don't want to date multiple women unless he doesn't see potential - or he's is just a player. And the truth is that "players" only make up less than 10% of all men. Those guys that gave you a vibe of being “pickup artists” were simply trying to get out of the relationship. Guys are much more relaxed about making things exclusive. So that does mean you could potentially frighten him by bringing it up too early. Tip 5 : Most men don't ... For the rest - Watch the video - or go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/cupid ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== When To Date Exclusively - Get Commitment From Him https://youtu.be/XuA9iQlmFGA

For more - go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos Men are hard to read - and even harder is knowing what he’s thinking about your relationship. If you’ve ever asked him what he’s thinking, you know what I’m talking about. You are probably desperate to know: What do men look for in a woman? Maybe you want to get married, settle down and start a family. But it’s getting harder and harder to win a man’s heart. Especially if you want him to propose to you. Ultimately, it comes down to just ONE important thing - and the answer might surprise you. However, before I get to that here in this article, there are a bunch of traits and behaviors that he’s looking for. These are all the different facets of the gem of YOU that he’s looking for. I'm going to talk about a bunch of different traits. But just because there are a lot of them doesn't mean you should feel intimidated. Don't freak out! If you are a good woman inside, it shouldn't be difficult for him to see each of these qualities in you. This list of traits is what you want to accentuate when you're around him! They're like love signals. But it also never hurts to make sure you show them to him. Each time you do you will be cementing yourself inside his heart. Let’s talk about each of the things a man looks for in a woman. 1. A Good Heart And by heart, I mean she has compassion and a loving nature. This is essential for a guy. Men know that a woman with a good heart will be a perfect companion for him. Not because HE doesn't have a good heart but that hers will help bring out his good nature along the way. These days, a lot of women appear very selfish. And when they are on a bad day, they are completely disconnected from their heart. And a man knows this so well that it's one of the most important things you should be showing him right off the bat. 2. She's Confident Confidence is one of the most misunderstood traits in women. Most women misunderstand what confidence is, and how to show it. Confidence is simply your ability to hold up your boundaries when you need to. And refusing to let other people manipulate you or use you. And, honestly, a man looks for this in a woman because he needs to know you're going to be able to stand up to him and hold your ground. He WANTS you to be strong. He doesn't want to be able to steamroll you or manipulate you. 3. She’s Smart Intelligence is both highly overrated and underrated today. The truth is that a man wants a woman who is smart. Smart enough to give him feedback and help him see things that he doesn't see. And smart enough to navigate her own life effectively and successfully. He doesn't just want a woman who reads a lot of books, he wants a woman who can put that knowledge to work. Your feminine wisdom is something he will never have. And that's why he's looking for it in a relationship with you. 4. Honesty, honesty, honesty. In the same way that you want your man to be honest with you, he knows you have to be truthful to him. And that means being very truthful about your emotions and what's going on inside you. Men frequently feel manipulated by women. We know that women are more sophisticated at social games than we are. So he has to believe that you have his best interests in mind. That you won't manipulate him just to get your way. And that requires your honesty. It all comes down to... For the rest- watch the video or go to: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/askcarlos ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== What do men look for in a woman https://youtu.be/pPukAYMUTrw

Go get your free gift here: https://www.datingfire.com/7mistakes Chemistry In A Relationship - Do you have it? Find out… By: Carlos Cavallo Chemistry is one of those things that almost seems mystical. And if you don't know what you're looking for, you might not know if you have chemistry in relationship. Everybody talks about chemistry. And it is really important. If you don't have chemistry in your relationship, chances are your passion will just flicker and die out. You need that special spark between you two keep the flame alive. It's a bit of an overused metaphor, but it's really true. Without passion, your relationship will feel like buddies or friends, not lovers. What IS Chemistry? First, let's talk about what chemistry is. Because the more it's a mystery to you, the more likely you're going to make a mistake. The simplest definition of chemistry is that it’s physical attraction to another person. It's a definite sexual connection that happens early in the relationship. There are two different kinds of chemistry: REAL and temporary. REAL chemistry is the kind of chemistry where you have a genuine click between you. It's when you feel a certain special something that you can't put into words. And even though this means you have a connection, it doesn't mean you're soulmates or you are meant to be together. In fact, a lot of the time this chemistry can cover up a lot of severe incompatibilities between you. But REAL chemistry lasts! It won't fade away (at least not for quite some time.) And it's a very necessary part of your long term relationship. The other kind of chemistry is temporary. This is where you may have been under the influence, or one or both of you was emotionally compromised. The end result being that you wind up in bed or intimate with each other, and then later on down the road you discover it was just a momentary thing between you. Not real. This kind of chemistry is only a problem if you try to build a relationship on top of it. This Foundation won't hold up unless you find stronger stuff for the base. The Dangers of Having TOO MUCH Chemistry Look, let's be real. Sometimes chemistry pushes you into a decision you didn't mean to make. If you've ever had a one-night stand, you know what I mean. This can be just as lethal as the temporary kind of chemistry where you are under the influence. You can be under the influence of a passionate connection. But again, it doesn't mean that your relationship is going to stand the test of time. Sometimes the chemistry can cover up a lot of broken parts. Another piece of the puzzle is that you need to have emotional chemistry. This is the kind of chemistry that makes you attracted to him not just for the physical part, but for the real spiritual connection between you. Do you have chemistry in your relationship? There are definite signs you can look for that tell you if you have chemistry. I will outline them for you here, and you can see if your relationship has any of them. Just keep in mind that - just because you have a sign of chemistry - this doesn't mean that your relationship is guaranteed to succeed. Or that you should force it to succeed. Not every relationship should survive. It can be difficult to deal with if you don't know how to handle the emotional hurt of a breakup. But clinging to a relationship that isn't meant to be is a far worse mistake. As you might be aware, chemistry is not the same thing as compatibility. Let's talk about some love and chemistry tips that will help you understand this better: Love & Chemistry Tip #1: Love Is Not Chemistry And chemistry is not love. Getting these two confused is a source of problems for many people. Love is a connection that forges between two people over time. Chemistry is something you feel pretty quickly. The problem arises when we mistake chemistry as love. I will talk more about this in a bit. Love & Chemistry Tip #2: Chemistry Is Sometimes Lust I have to put this out there. Sometimes physical chemistry is just a great excuse to get physical with someone. It can be hard to resist. But if you have physical chemistry, you also need to cultivate a certain amount of self-control and self-discipline. Because if you start with physical chemistry, you can very easily turn that into a relationship if you find that you're compatible. I've had plenty of experiences with physical chemistry turning into very temporary relationships. Mostly because I didn't For the rest of the info - watch the video! ______________________ Chemistry In A Relationship https://youtu.be/4dubkO8g4S4

For more on the Password to a guy's heart - go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/forever Communication In A Relationship - 9 Tips To Reach Your Man By: Carlos Cavallo | Any woman who has been in a relationship knows that communication is one of the most important things. In fact, if you don't have communication in a relationship, you don't really have a relationship. But how do you communicate with guys? Men can seem so difficult to talk to. The funny thing is, to men, women seem difficult to communicate with. Each gender sees the other as hard to talk to. How do you communicate and get him to understand you? How do you get your needs met? When you know how to communicate with a guy, you will not only be able to make your relationship as strong and loving as you want, you will also find that you can get all your needs met. And then some. Remember: Miscommunication creates distrust and disconnection. Which is why it is so important to work on your communication as much as possible with your partner. It's not just a cliché, it's the most important truth of relationships. Why is communication in a relationship so important? This may qualify as one of the most obvious questions, but you still might not know the answer to it. Just a short list of some of the problems you can have if you don't have good communication: More fights and arguments Less physical intimacy More feelings of separation and anxiety More feelings of emotional disconnection More heartache and insecurity More cheating More breakups and short relationships In fact, if your communication is not where it needs to be with your peers, you could also experience a lot of health issues. Communication is so important to your success in life that you should probably be working on it almost every single day of your life. What is Communication In A Relationship? Well, my definition of communication is: COMMUNICATION: The simple skill of expressing your ideas to another person, and having that person understand your message - and you. Mind you, "simple" does not mean easy. In fact many people find communication one of the most challenging things in a relationship. Let's talk about a few of the - Common Communication Problems As you may have realized, no one ever sat you down and taught you how to be an amazing communicator. You have to want to learn this skill. But when you do gain the skill of communicating with a guy on his level, there's nothing else like it in the world. Your relationship will run on autopilot. (Well, mostly.) COMMUNICATION PROBLEM 1: Not communicating This may sound like an obvious observation, but in truth most people tend to avoid communicating as much as they can. Especially around difficult or uncomfortable topics. Unfortunately, most relationships need to have a lot of conversation about uncomfortable topics. There's no escaping it. And if you happen to have a relationship with a guy who is already closed off with regard to his emotions, you may find it even more difficult. One word of warning here: Be careful about expecting your man to be as emotionally communicative as you. It's just not going to happen. And if it did, you would probably get tired of it really quick. Just because men don't communicate as frequently about their emotions doesn't mean they are “emotionally shut down.” Or emotionally broken. Yes, some men don't have any real connection to their emotional intelligence. But these days, many do. Men and women have different brains. Contrary to what the media would like to have us believe sometimes, men and women are simply different in many respects. So, compared to a woman, a man is always going to seem emotionally shut down. Even if he's perfectly fine. Beware using female standards to evaluate men. It will never help you. And very often, it will mislead you. COMMUNICATION PROBLEM 2: Expecting him to read your mind This one is very specific to relationships. But it's a well-known joke that women often expect a man to pick up on her emotional state - without her explaining it. Here's where the conflict gets really juicy. If you expect a man to read your mind, you know what you're going to get. Disappointed. He doesn't want to - For the rest - watch the video! Or go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/recent-articles/ ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Communication in a Relationship https://youtu.be/mgRuPzuj7nM

Does he love you? Find out: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/doesheloveme How To Be Mysterious - And Make Any Man Desire You By: Carlos Cavallo If you ever watched a movie where a woman seduced a man, you may have wondered how to be mysterious like that. How do you make yourself attractive and alluring by being mysterious? Unfortunately, most women don't learn the ancient art of how to use their Feminine Mystique anymore. It's very rare that girls are taught how to be coy with boys. And when you grow up, if you haven't learned this, it's very easy to fall into bad habits with guys. You find that you don't have the same kind of seductive power that the glamorous actresses have in the movies. Well, it's time to change that. In this article we're going to explore how to be mysterious with men. And how to use this mystery to make him desire you - and fall in love with you. The principles for being mysterious are based in psychology. We are curious about things naturally. And people are some of the most curious things on the planet. Here are a few things you should definitely NOT do: DESTROY THE MYSTERY - Don’t Do This #1: Don't drop too many hints In fact, hints are okay if you aren't hinting too much about your interest in him. For a while there when I was dating, it was pretty often that the girl I was on a date with would blurt out how interested she was in me. Right after that happened, I felt like the wind had been taken out of my sails. There was no suspense. And it took all the fun out of my efforts to win her over. I just didn't feel any challenge. I was bored before I began. So keep your intentions and interests TO YOURSELF. It's what he doesn't know that makes him interested. Don’t Do This #2: Don't talk about the future It's disappointing to have your desires confirmed too early. For the same reason that when a football team is doing really well at the start of a game, that can make the game boring after a while. You want the game to be close to make it interesting. The same thing is true about relationships. That early time, where things are still up in the air, where you don't really know if the other person is interested in you, is the most exciting part of a developing relationship. This is where being mysterious comes into your playbook... Don't confirm his curiosity too early. Keep the possible future a mystery to him where you're concerned. Don’t Do This #3: Don't Tell Too Much Sometimes it's very tempting to open your heart and tell him everything about you when you feel a click with him. Bad idea. It's impulsive and it can really get you into trouble. And the fact of the matter is that if you have interesting things to share with him, they are best offered at a drip not a pour. This is essential to your mystery. We are conditioned to get to know someone slowly. That's how we develop a connection. If you tell him too much too soon, you run the risk of him making decisions about you without fully investing his heart yet. But you also have to give him something to entice his curiosity. (We'll talk about that in the next section.) Curiosity from him = Mystery from you What Is A Mysterious Woman? First of all let's take a moment to discuss what mystery really is. It's simply the ability to entice a man's imagination into thinking about you. Nonstop. Correct me if I'm wrong, but that's something I'm sure you're interested in. Every woman intuitively knows that if a guy is thinking about her, he must be interested in her. And if he keeps thinking about her, he will fall in love with her. It's guaranteed. You may want to argue for all kinds of flowering notions, such as “letting everyone in your heart and being wide open to everybody.” This is a surefire recipe for disaster. Not everyone deserves ALL of you. The people that are most in demand, that are most loved, limit how much of themselves they give away to other people. They are generous and compassionate, but they are not frivolous with their life force. Being mysterious is knowing how to tantalize people with their own imaginations. Starting today, adopt a philosophy of valuing your time and energy above other people's. This will make you happier and healthier and better able to connect and give to others when the time is right. "Not everyone deserves to have you. It's time to start acting like it." - Carlos Cavallo Let’s start with the first strategy: Be Mysterious - Tip 1: The Eyes Have It There are very few people who aren't aware that ... ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== How To Be Mysterious https://youtu.be/JQSa3Gpfimc

Go Here For More: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/doesheloveme Amazing Questions To Ask A Guy Over Text - The Ones You MUST Ask! By: Carlos Cavallo If you've ever found yourself wanting to flirt or just reconnect with a guy, you probably wish you knew some questions to ask a guy over text. This article is going to be different, though. Instead of giving you a bunch of careless questions, I'm going to give you the kinds of questions you MUST ask him - along with some examples. Don't mistake Quantity for Quality. If you don't ask him the right questions, you could push him away and totally ruin the vibe between you and him. You don't need 100 questions - you need just a few that you can remember and USE! Remember, the most important thing your man needs to feel for you is that you GET him. That you understand him like no other woman does - or could. And the only way you can make him feel that way is to ask him the questions that have power. This is how you get him to fall in love with you. Through the power of text questions. Using text messages is one of the best ways to get a man thinking about you, too. You can delight his imagination and infatuate him all at the same time. It's kind of like remote control that way! Really quick, let's cover a few of the questions you should never ask first: NEVER #1: Never ask him about your relationship directly This one is tempting for many women. If you haven't seen him in a while or you're in a long distance relationship, you may find yourself panicking and wanting to talk about your relationship through texts. Don't do it! If there's one thing a man doesn't want to do it's discuss your relationship through text messages. Why? He won't be in an emotional state where he feels the same love for you that he would if you were together - in person It's too easy for him to draw the wrong conclusion about your relationship if you're not there - present with him His emotions will not be properly focused on you. He could be doing anything when you text, and thinking about your relationship feels like a really bad advertisement shoved in the middle of a television program. It just doesn't feel like it belongs there. And you won't get an accurate response. There are a bunch more reasons, but these should be enough to caution you. NEVER #2: Never Ask A Guy 'Blue Sky' Text Questions Blue Sky questions are the ones that are wide open for answers. Here are a few examples: "What are you thinking?" "What should we do this weekend?" "How do you feel about me?" These questions are too wide open for him to answer accurately. Guys panic when we hear a question like this because it doesn't give us anything to hold onto. No good starting place to even begin answering it “correctly.” And keep in mind, that's what he is thinking about when you ask him a question. “How do I answer this correctly so that I can keep sleeping with her? And I won't make her mad?” A man never wants to feel like he's guessing. He wants to have the right answer to avoid any hassles and keep the peace. So even if you're not texting, you should never ask a guy a question that is this wide open. You have to know how to steer him for the answer you want. I'll show you more about this in a little bit. NEVER #3: Never Ask Him About His Ex Trust me on this one: You probably don't really want to know, and he really doesn't want to talk about her. If there is anything to learn about his ex it's that she's not around anymore. If you're feeling adventurous you may want to ask him why they broke up. That's about the best info you can get about her. Trust me that you want to avoid going there. You probably already know this. NEVER #4: Never ask him about his salary If you are just getting to know him, you should wait to discuss anything related to money. If you need to know, just take a look at his lifestyle. And then maybe peek at one of his credit card statements later on if you really need to know if he's pulling down the wampum. Guys are very sensitive to women looking at him as a source of support - or that she might be a "gold digger." So you want to avoid questions that look like you're interviewing him for your next "sugar daddy." Besides, the truth is... For the rest - watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== Questions To Ask A Guy Over Text https://youtu.be/eisDUU8L7FE

Go Check This Out: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/desire What To Do When He Is Pulling Away From You By: Carlos Cavallo | Nothing sends a chill down your spine faster than knowing that your man is growing cold and distant. And when you feel that happening, you need to know what to do when he is pulling away from you. Distance is the one thing that panics men and women. The problem with guys is that they don't notice it until it's way too late. As a woman with heightened instincts, you probably sense it the very second it starts to happen. The fact is that when you lose a relationship it feels like you're losing a part of you. And that's why your emotions go into overdrive when you notice him starting to pull away. DON'T PANIC! The good news is that your relationship may not be ending. It just might be going through a phase. All relationships go through ups and downs. As it happens, these ups and downs are necessary if you want him to make a commitment to you. But how do you know? How do you know if he's actually going to come back? That's the real source of your panic. And that's why you immediately jump into action. There are a lot of reasons a man might be growing cold or distant. So what I'm going to explain to you today are some of the other reasons that he may want to pull away, and how to get him to stop, turn around, and love you again. Look, I'm not trying to blame you for his reluctance. It may seem like I'm saying this is all your fault. It’s probably not. But… you should be aware that men are MUCH more slow to commit to a relationship than women are. And easier to scare! And even if you know this, chances are you will still make this mistake a few times in your life. Not every man is commitment-phobic. Not every man is emotionally immature. BUT if you compare a man to a woman, he will always seem like he is an emotionally immature commitment-phobic. Women commit fast, men commit slow. I aim to show you the places where you may have gone a little faster than he was ready. And hopefully you will be able to see how to change this in the future. And you'll be able to detect the signs that he's starting to pull away before it happens. That's how you stop him from disappearing. Why He’s Pulling Away From You - REASON 1: You lost it Look, I get it. Every woman has a moment where she's tired of trying to be patient and she loses it. She has “the talk” with him and she doesn't realize she's just scared the living bejesus out of him. Almost every woman has done this at some point or another, and regretted it. But that doesn't stop her from doing it again in the future. Why does this happen? Well, usually it happens because in a moment of weakness - or possibly a little too much red wine - you just get fed up. You're tired of waiting, and it doesn't seem like this guy is moving one inch towards a long-term relationship. It's the same impatience that a guy feels when he's waiting to sleep with you. Almost every guy has been forced to wait a little too long and probably made it seem like all he wanted from you was sex. In fact, he was just pushed by his own physiological needs. I'll tell you more about what to do about this in a minute. REASON 2: He thought you might be a little clingy or needy Please note: This doesn't mean that you ARE clingy or needy, he just thinks that's the case. It's up to you to look at your past behavior and decide if you are typically an insecure person. Everyone is capable of slipping into needy behaviors. (Yes, even men.) Be honest with yourself about what might have triggered your panic. You should also share this observation with him, because this will soothe him and pull him back. REASON 3: You went too far too fast Sometimes you just get comfortable and you start moving forward figuring that he's on the same schedule that you are. He might have even given off signals that he's pretty comfortable and this is a relationship he's invested in. Almost every woman has ... For the rest - watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== What To Do When He Is Pulling Away From You https://youtu.be/SA1O1eSW45c