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STB109 | Coping & Resolving Loss + Sarah Frerking EP2 | Cultivate Relationships
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STB109 | Coping & Resolving Loss + Sarah Frerking EP2 | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan continues his conversation with his friend, Sarah Frerking, where she vulnerably shares her journey through the devastating experiences of miscarriages and the loss of their firstborn son, Josiah. In this powerful discussion, Sarah reflects on how she processed her grief, initially in unhealthy ways, but eventually discovering a path to healing. She speaks openly about how her grief journey transformed, ultimately leading her to a place of unexpected gratitude for Josiah's death. This conversation offers profound insights into the complexities of grief, healing, and the hope that can emerge from even the deepest loss. *Please note, this discussion takes place in two parts. This is part two.* SHOW LINKS • Website & Resources:
https://cultivaterelationships.com
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STB108 | Coping & Resolving Loss + Sarah Frerking EP1 | Cultivate Relationships
52:06

STB108 | Coping & Resolving Loss + Sarah Frerking EP1 | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan continues his conversation with his friend, Sarah Frerking, where she vulnerably shares her journey through the devastating experiences of miscarriages and the loss of their firstborn son, Josiah. In this powerful discussion, Sarah reflects on how she processed her grief, initially in unhealthy ways, but eventually discovering a path to healing. She speaks openly about how her grief journey transformed, ultimately leading her to a place of unexpected gratitude for Josiah's death. This conversation offers profound insights into the complexities of grief, healing, and the hope that can emerge from even the deepest loss. *Please note, this discussion takes place in two parts. This is part one.* SHOW LINKS • Website & Resources:
https://cultivaterelationships.com
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STB107 | Grieving the Loss of a Child + Sarah Frerking | Cultivate Relationships
1:21:45

STB107 | Grieving the Loss of a Child + Sarah Frerking | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan talks with Sarah Frerking about the heartbreak of her miscarriages and losing her firstborn, Josiah. She opens up about the raw, overwhelming emotions of grief and the difficult, messy process of navigating devastating loss. She shares how she and her husband, Scott Frerking, held tightly to a hope-filled but painful faith, even in the face of unanswered prayers and shattered expectations. Their journey reveals both the depths of their sorrow and the resilience of their trust in God amid profound heartbreak. SHOW LINKS • Website & Resources:
https://cultivaterelationships.com
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STB106 | BSE | Christmas | Cultivate Relationships
1:30:23

STB106 | BSE | Christmas | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Christmas and its origins. They also discuss several Christmas traditions and why traditions are important to communities. CHAPTERS (Scripture passages, application questions, and activation steps in comments) Chapter 1 (00:00) Dad Jokes & Introduction Chapter 2 (4:58) Krumpus and Cultural Reflections of Truth Chapter 3 (23:15) X-Mas, December 25, & Christmas Trees Chapter 4 (44:17) Purpose of Traditions and Festivals Chapter 5 (59.26) Celebrating Christmas and Engaging Culture Chapter 6 (1:14:59) Mistletoe, Yule Logs, & Romans 14 SHOW LINKS • Top 10 Christmas Traditions (& their Origin Stories): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UlEQW-NPqWI • Wikipedia - Christmas Traditions: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christmas_traditions • Britannica - Christmas: https://www.britannica.com/topic/Christmas • History/Sky - The Pagan Roots of Christmas: https://www.history.co.uk/article/the-pagan-roots-of-christmas • The Star of Bethlehem: https://bethlehemstar.com/ • STB047 | Hell + Pastor Michael: https://rumble.com/v2iz8j4 • Folk Angel - O Holy Night: https://open.spotify.com/track/1dB4ImgHIrYUPIfbMZioyJ?si=a6bbce4424ca4752 • David Crowder Band - After All (Holy): https://open.spotify.com/track/3daAYqNEt5hzPtHycscQoM?si=6fd769cbe3bc4966 • Cultivate Relationships Christmas Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6YMfb0jLSoEOx1P5StIkmR?si=e0b6f46984cf4374 • Bible Study Tools: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com
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STB105 | BSE | Incarnation EP2 | Cultivate Relationships
2:01:51

STB105 | BSE | Incarnation EP2 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about the incarnation of Jesus — God becoming real humanity. They discuss how the New Testament reveals the fulfilled Hebrew prophesies of a real flesh-and-blood human messiah. CHAPTERS (Scripture passages, application questions, and activation steps in comments) Chapter 1 (00:00) Dad Jokes & Introduction Chapter 2 (30:27) Jesus is Flesh & Blood Chapter 3 (1:08:53) Jesus Reveals Our Design (Flesh + Spirit) Chapter 4 (1:53:20) Activation Steps SHOW LINKS • The Bible Jesus Read (and How to Study the Bible) https://rumble.com/playlists/KQK4Atd6U-M • Revelation BSE Podcast Series: https://rumble.com/playlists/GJwogbVfYy0 • 1-3 John BSE Podcast Series: https://rumble.com/playlists/bzgsj_8mLHc • Bible Study Tools: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com
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STB104 | Fathers + Phil | Cultivate Relationships
2:23:05

STB104 | Fathers + Phil | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan shoots the breeze with Phil Reeves about the importance of our fathers and our need to resolve deficiencies and offenses that our fathers demonstrate toward us in our growing-up years. He also shares his journey with God the Father and how he resolved his distorted perceptions of Him. SHOW LINKS • Website & Resources:
https://cultivaterelationships.com (00:00) Microphone etiquette and 007 microphones (01:12) Texas geography, woodworking, and Phil's dad has a stroke (30:11) Issues with communicating with our dads (1:00:17) Phil's love of the law and men's aversion to counseling (1:26:25) Phil's journey of discipleship and the Biblical process of forgiveness (1:54:12) Prayer and our mutual love of bio-pics
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STB103 | Meditation | Romans 11:33-36 | Cultivate Relationships
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STB103 | Meditation | Romans 11:33-36 | Cultivate Relationships

MEDITATION — Nathan shoots the breeze about Romans 11:33–36, emphasizing the importance of recognizing God’s infinite nature and our human limits as the starting point for studying or understanding Him. He also highlights how God’s greatness brings comfort, reminding us of His trustworthy and unchanging character. SHOW LINKS • Bible Study Tools:
https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • Website & Resources:
https://cultivaterelationships.com
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STB102 | BSE | Incarnation EP1 | Cultivate Relationships
1:36:03

STB102 | BSE | Incarnation EP1 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about the incarnation of Jesus — God becoming real humanity. They discuss how the Hebrew Scriptures prophesy a real flesh-and-blood human messiah and their future fulfillment revealed in Jesus. CHAPTERS (Scripture passages, application questions, and activation steps in comments) Chapter 1 (00:00) Dad Jokes & Introduction Chapter 2 (15:02) Who's Your Father? Chapter 3 (45:11) Who's Kingdom Are You Living In? Chapter 4 (1:00:58) Who's Your Redeemer? Chapter 5 (1:31:36) Activation Steps SHOW LINKS • Matthew Mini-Series: https://youtu.be/yf9jWonGL74?si=RpQ_oYjqY4hn8nQo • The Chosen: Little James - “Why haven’t you healed me?”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KZDvcEkjthA • Bible Study Tools: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com
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STB101 | Meditation | Romans 8:12-17 | Cultivate Relationships
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STB101 | Meditation | Romans 8:12-17 | Cultivate Relationships

MEDITATION — Nathan shoots the breeze about Romans 8.12-17. He also discusses Galatians 4.1-7 and how our experience with our earthly dads impacts our relationship with our Heavenly Dad. SHOW LINKS • Bible Study Tools:
https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • Website & Resources:
https://cultivaterelationships.com
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STB100 | Perseverance | Cultivate Relationships
1:03:47

STB100 | Perseverance | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about their 100th episode and what it means to persevere. They discuss how Christians have misdefined success due to false portrayals of people’s lives in the Scriptures. SHOW LINKS • Website & Resources:
https://cultivaterelationships.com (00:00) Guess who’s back? (00:49)Lacey defines consistency (14:19) Defining your personal success (27:28) Examples of highlights in the Scriptures (37:07) Success is asking God what He wants (50:15) Nathan explains Christianity… using football highlight reels
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STB099 | BSE | Messy EP3 | Cultivate Relationships
1:33:22

STB099 | BSE | Messy EP3 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about the messiness of perfection. They discuss the Scriptural word for perfection and how it also means completeness or maturity. They also reveal that we are ever becoming perfect while God is perfect. APPLICATION QUESTIONS What might tiny choices (toward maturity, completeness, or perfection) look like in the following areas (not an exhaustive list): • Finances (e.g., savings, generous giving, etc.) • Ministry (e.g., volunteering, serving, etc.) • Relationships (e.g., friendships, marriage, parenting, etc.) • Employment/Career (e.g., boss, employee, employers, co-workers, etc.) • Education (e.g., future career, qualifications, degrees, location, etc.) • Reading Scripture (e.g., study, devotions, etc.) • Prayer (e.g., by yourself, with others, etc.) • Health (e.g., mental, physical, emotional, etc.) • … ACTIVATION STEPS Pray and ask the Holy Spirit: 1. “What is ONE area from the list above You want me to make a tiny change?” 2. What tiny change do You want me to make in this area? SHOW LINKS • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com CHAPTERS (00:00) Dad Jokes / Introduction (27:09) Matthew 5.48 / Perfect, Complete, Mature (41:51) Exodus 23.30 / Israel's Process of Taking the Promised Land (59:35) 2 Corinthians 7.1 / Perfection is One Degree at a Time (1:14:31) Application Questions, & Activation Steps
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STB098 | BSE | Revelation 19-22 | Cultivate Relationships
3:09:32

STB098 | BSE | Revelation 19-22 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION: Nathan shoots the breeze with Phil Reeves about Revelation chapters 19-22. They also discuss Matthew 23-25 and what the Red Sea Beast and the Land Lamb Beast represent. SHOW LINKS • Cultivate Relationships: Revelation Study Booklet https://cultivaterelationships.com/resource-media/class-booklets/CultivateRelationshipsLLC-Class-Revelation-20230517-1319.pdf • Misreading Scripture with Western Eyes https://a.co/d/eVZUa9Z • Hans Rosling's 200 Countries, 200 Years, 4 Minutes https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jbkSRLYSojo • Wild At Heart https://a.co/d/gp5GXOI • Cultivate Relationships Bible Tools https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com CHAPTERS (00:00) Introduction / Matthew 23-25 / Meanings of the Beasts (13:53) Revelation 19 - The Wedding of the Lamb & Bride (1:08:10) Revelation 20 - "1000 Year" Reign (the Millennial Reign) / Judgement of Satan / Final Judgement ("Hell") (2:08:34) Revelation 21 - New Jerusalem / New Heaven / New Earth (2:47:37) Revelation 22 - The Re-Created Garden Paradise / Epilogue
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STB097 | BSE | Revelation 15-18 | Cultivate Relationships
2:24:13

STB097 | BSE | Revelation 15-18 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION: Nathan shoots the breeze with Phil Reeves about Revelation chapters 15-18. They also discuss the "rapture", Jesus' second coming, the antichrist(s), the abomination of desolation, and Daniel's 70 weeks. SHOW LINKS • Cultivate Relationships: Revelation Study Booklet https://cultivaterelationships.com/resource-media/class-booklets/CultivateRelationshipsLLC-Class-Revelation-20230517-1319.pdf • Cultivate Relationships Bible Tools https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com CHAPTERS (00:00) Introduction / The "Rapture" / Jesus' Second Coming / AntiChrist / Abomination of Desolation / Daniel's 70 weeks. (58:36) Revelation 15 - The Preamble to the 7 Bowls (1:12:33) Revelation 16 - The 7 Bowls of Wrath (1:36:03) Revelation 17 - The Adulterer & The Red Sea Beast (2:08:02) Revelation 18 - The World Mourns the Fall of Jerusalem
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STB096 | BSE | Revelation 12-14 | Cultivate Relationships
2:09:43

STB096 | BSE | Revelation 12-14 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION: Nathan shoots the breeze with Phil Reeves about Revelation chapters 12-14. They also discuss how John laid out his visions in Revelation, either in linear movements through the destruction of Jerusalem or cyclical movements that reveal different perspectives of Jerusalem's destruction. SHOW LINKS • Cultivate Relationships: Revelation Study Booklet https://cultivaterelationships.com/resource-media/class-booklets/CultivateRelationshipsLLC-Class-Revelation-20230517-1319.pdf • The Star of Bethlehem Documentary https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b9exnD6MiCg • Righteous Anger https://rumble.com/v2jopm8 • Cultivate Relationships Bible Tools https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com CHAPTERS (00:00) Introduction / Matthew 23-24 / Spiritual Reality of Revelation (10:07) Revelation 12 - The Woman & The Dragon (1:10:54) Revelation 13 - The Red Sea Beast & The Land Beast (1:44:16) Revelation 14 - The Kingdom of Heaven & God's People
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STB095 | BSE | Revelation 8-11 | Cultivate Relationships
1:57:50

STB095 | BSE | Revelation 8-11 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION: Nathan shoots the breeze with Phil Reeves about Revelation chapters 8-11. They also discuss how some modern authors and teachers have created empires around selling fear-based modern geopolitical content of Revelation. SHOW LINKS • Cultivate Relationships: Revelation Study Booklet https://cultivaterelationships.com/resource-media/class-booklets/CultivateRelationshipsLLC-Class-Revelation-20230517-1319.pdf • Siege of Jerusalem 70 AD - Great Jewish Revolt by Kings and Generals https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KE4hmrvZLIQ • The Siege of Jerusalem (70 AD) - Great Jewish Revolt by Invicta https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y741QbT1YEo • Cultivate Relationships Bible Tools https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com CHAPTERS (00:00) Introduction / Matthew 23-24 / Spiritual Reality of Revelation (10:37) Revelation 8 - The 7th Seal and the 1st Four Trumpets (47:16) Revelation 9 - The 5th and 6th Trumpet (1:25:20) Revelation 10 - The Angel & Little Scroll (1:33:52) Revelation 11 - The Two Witnesses
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STB094 | BSE | Revelation 4-7 | Cultivate Relationships
2:06:59

STB094 | BSE | Revelation 4-7 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Phil Reeves about Revelation chapters 4-7. They also discuss the implications of Jesus fulfilling the entire Hebrew Scriptures and its implications on Revelations. Furthermore, John uses "hear" and "see" language to show when he is revealing the meaning behind what he is writing. John defines most symbols he "sees" in his vision in the immediate context or through Hebrew Scripture cross references. SHOW LINKS • Cultivate Relationships: Revelation Study Booklet https://cultivaterelationships.com/resource-media/class-booklets/CultivateRelationshipsLLC-Class-Revelation-20230517-1319.pdf • Cultivate Relationships Bible Tools https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools • Bible.com - Multiple Translations https://www.bible.com/ • Step Bible - Translations and Word Study https://www.stepbible.org/ • Blue Letter Bible - Translations and Word Study https://www.blueletterbible.org/ • Logos Bible Software - Exhaustive Bible Study Software https://www.logos.com/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com CHAPTERS (00:00) Introduction / Online Study Tools (20:18) Revelation 4 - The Heavenly Temple (53:36) Revelation 5 - The Scroll and the Slain Lamb (1:18:56) Revelation 6 - The Seven Seals (1:49:59) Revelation 7 - 144,000
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STB093 | BSE | Revelation 1-3 | Cultivate Relationships
2:23:46

STB093 | BSE | Revelation 1-3 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Phil Reeves about Revelation chapters 1-3. They also discuss false, fear-based views of Revelation, hermeneutics (principles in Bible Study), and how to read prophetic and apocalyptic Scriptures. SHOW LINKS • Cultivate Relationships: Revelation Study Booklet https://cultivaterelationships.com/resource-media/class-booklets/CultivateRelationshipsLLC-Class-Revelation-20230517-1319.pdf • Cultivate Relationships Bible Tools https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/new-testament/ • The IVP Bible Background Commentary: New Testament https://a.co/d/45xhORN • How (Not) To Read the Bible by Dan Kimball https://a.co/d/3X10K97 • Playlist on Gnosticism https://rumble.com/playlists/HLAl-b9iwDQ • Playlist on Galatians https://rumble.com/playlists/LQ6jwwUgzjw • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com CHAPTERS (00:00) Introduction / Views of Revelation / Study Tools (27:24) Hermeneutics and How to Study the Scriptures (1:12:15) Revelation 1 - John's prologue (1:55:51) Revelation 2 - Ephesus, Smyrna, Pergamum, Thyatira (2:11:41) Revelation 3 - Sardis, Philadelphia, Laodicea
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STB092 | BSE | Messy EP2 | Cultivate Relationships
1:57:45

STB092 | BSE | Messy EP2 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about the messiness of rejection. They discuss how feelings of being rejected can lead to either rebellions or religious mindsets and behaviors. Additionally, they share how it is only through the power of the Holy Spirit that one can truly live free from rejection. APPLICATION QUESTIONS We live either "from" (intrinsic acceptance and love or "for" (earned) acceptance and love. In light of that, answer these questions: What has "for" looked like in your life? What was the result? What has "from" looked like in your life? What was the result? How do you encourage "from" in the lives of those with whom you are in relationship? ACTIVATION STEPS Read through The Identity Guide. 1. Highlight one characteristic you resonate with and find easy for you to accept. 2. Highlight one characteristic difficult for you to believe and accept. a. Ask the Holy Spirit, what lie you believe instead of this truth. b. Ask the Holy Spirit, when you first felt that lie. c. Work through The Freedom Booklet to resolve that lie and receive the truth that Jesus has for you. SHOW LINKS • Rejection Meets Its Match by Pastor Michael Barnard (HCFBurnet) https://www.youtube.com/live/8WMBlfjq5JE?si=o5lutK5GacCd1AaY&t=2776 • Ephesians 3.1-21 - Making Jesus Comfortable In Your Heart (Sterile vs Cluttered Heart) https://rumble.com/v3p0x7m • The Identity Guide: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-identity-guide/ • The Freedom Booklet: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com CHAPTERS (00:00) Dad Jokes / Introduction (10:49) John 4.1-42 / Evangelism = Telling Our Messy Jesus Story (55:21) Matthew 9.9-17 / 2 Sides of the Messy Spectrum: Rebellious & Religious (1:15:35) Romans 8.1-11 / Flesh + Spirit or Flesh - Spirit (1:41:09) Application Questions, & Activation Steps DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want
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STB091 | BSE | Messy EP1 | Cultivate Relationships
1:26:56

STB091 | BSE | Messy EP1 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about messy Christianity. They discuss their journeys of how Jesus pursued them amidst messy doubt and how, as believers, we pursue others amidst their messy doubt; along with how to resolve doubt. APPLICATION QUESTIONS When have you felt most “spiritual” (closest to Jesus)? Do you ever feel like you lose your “spirituality” (closeness to Jesus) in the messiness and busyness of life? Explain. ACTIVATION STEPS Develop (or define) an encouragement partner – someone who will primarily encourage you by celebrating “wins” in your life. Secondarily, they will pray with you and partner with you to develop practical steps toward building healthy attitudes, beliefs, mindsets, and habits. The health and effectiveness of these encouragement partner relationships directly correlate to the depth and vulnerability of the conversations. Who is it? What are your conversations primarily based upon: successes or failures? Explain. How does this person intentionally partner with you to develop healthy attitudes, beliefs, mindsets, and habits? SHOW LINKS • Culture of Honor by Danny Silk https://a.co/d/2BWmBBP • The Freedom Booklet: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com CHAPTERS (00:00) Dad Jokes / Introduction (19:06) Matthew 28.16-17 / Disciples Doubt (59:20) Isaiah 61.1-4 / Your Responsibility in Redemption (1:10:48) James 5.14-18 / Confession of Sins (+ Forgiveness) Brings Healing (1:19:47) Application Questions, & Activation Steps DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want
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STB090 | BSE | Faith | Cultivate Relationships
1:44:42

STB090 | BSE | Faith | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about how our ability to approach God, our Heavenly Dad, directly affects our outlook and behavior within a circumstance or relationship. They discuss their journeys toward seeing God as a good Dad who does good things. APPLICATION QUESTIONS Ask the Holy Spirit: What issue in my life currently feels overwhelming? What would it look like for you to come to the Lord with that issue like a child? ACTIVATION STEPS Close your eyes: What is your first thought when you think of resting in the arms of your dad? (Who did you see first: Heavenly Dad? Earthly dad? What did you feel?) If James 1.17, Psalm 119.68, and Hebrews 1.1-3 have not been your experience with God, He wants to heal your heart and show you what it means to be protected, loved, and cared for by a good dad. Use The Freedom Booklet to help you resolve those areas of your heart. SHOW LINKS • Kalena Cotton (Orr) Podcast Episodes: (STB044) https://rumble.com/v2ivku6 (STB046) https://rumble.com/v2iyk3o (STB048) https://rumble.com/v2j0cz4 • The Freedom Booklet: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com CHAPTERS (00:00) Dad Jokes / Introduction (02:54) Matthew 18.1-5 / We must relate to God as a child (15:39) What does "being a child" mean (40:50) How we lose child-likeness (59:52) Application Questions, & Activation Steps DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want
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STB089 | BSE | Serving | Cultivate Relationships
1:24:53

STB089 | BSE | Serving | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about how Christianity is the ongoing process of leading and being led. They discuss how Jesus was our ultimate example and that serving others doesn't mean we are slaves to them. APPLICATION QUESTIONS Who is God asking you to lead (serve)? ACTIVATION STEPS In what specific ways is the Holy Spirit encouraging you to intentionally serve (lead) this person in a way that will be empowering and beneficial to them? SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com CHAPTERS (00:00) Dad Jokes / Introduction (09:53) Matthew 28.19 / Servant Leadership = Christianity ≠ Pastoral Ministry Philosophy (35:21) Philippians 2.1-11 / Jesus led by humbly serving and releasing (54:37) Matthew 20.24-28 / Servant leadership is discerning the needs of others and partnering with them in the most empowering and beneficial way. (1:13:13) Application Questions, & Activation Steps DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want
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STB088 | BSE | Humility | Cultivate Relationships
2:06:16

STB088 | BSE | Humility | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about humility and agreeing with God. They discuss how agreeing with God empowers Christians to defeat the enemy, spread Jesus' Kingdom, and live sin-free. APPLICATION QUESTIONS What, in who you are (e.g., personality, passions, emotions, abilities, how you think, etc.), best reflects God’s image and likeness in you? What practical Spirit-led habits have helped empower you to be victorious over the enemy’s “roaring” (lies and temptations)? ACTIVATION STEPS The by-product of a Spirit-filled life is the fruit of the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5.22-26). Take an assessment of your life: What by-products of the Spirit-filled life seem to be lacking most and when? In these areas of lack, prayerfully humble yourself: 1) take a moment to acknowledge your deficiency without the Holy Spirit and your need to depend upon Him; 2) then, lean into Him in those areas of lack to empower you to produce those qualities. SHOW LINKS • 1 Peter 5.1-14 - Your Enemy Is Powerless https://rumble.com/v3p0qzq • Genesis 4.1-4 - You Are Important https://rumble.com/v3oxm2p • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com CHAPTERS (00:00) Dad Jokes / Introduction / 1 Peter 5.1-5 / Humility Defined (22:29) Pride Defined / The Process of Humility (39:05) 1 Peter 5.6-14 / Powerless Enemy (1:01:45) John 8.31-38 / You Are Who Jesus Says You Are / You Can Do What Jesus Says You Can Do (1:45:11) Application Questions, & Activation Steps DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want
STB087 | BSE | Kingdom | Cultivate Relationships
1:55:14

STB087 | BSE | Kingdom | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about the Kingdom of Heaven and its present reality in a Christian's life. They also reveal how the Hebrew Scriptures point to Jesus as the prophetic fulfillment of the Davidic Messianic King. *FACT CHECK* 40:25 - Psalm 38.6 not Psalm 89 - The Hebrew word translated "bent over" in Psalm 38.6 is the same word in 2 Samuel 38.18 translated "iniquity". However, the word in Psalm 38.18 translated as "iniquity" is a completely different Hebrew word than 2 Samuel 38.18 and means guilty of sin. Psalm 89 deals with the Messianic Davidic Kingdom and has no bearing on the word "iniquity" from 2 Samuel 7.14. However, is a worthwhile read regarding this study on Jesus and his Kingdom. APPLICATION QUESTIONS When is it most difficult for you to see God’s Kingdom as a current reality in your life? When is it most difficult for you to believe the enemy is disarmed? ACTIVATION STEPS Think of a family member, friend, or loved one going through a difficult circumstance. Ask the Holy Spirit: “In what way do You want me to bring Your Kingdom into this circumstance?” Then, over the next week, look for opportunities to do what the Holy Spirit is leading you to do. DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • The Identity Guide: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-identity-guide/ • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • Genesis 3 Teachings: 1) You Are God's Image & Likeness: https://rumble.com/v2jjhlm 2) Walking In Step with the Holy Spirit: https://rumble.com/v2jjm6i 3) You Are Important: https://rumble.com/v3oxm2p • Bible Oddities: https://rumble.com/v4itbb8 • Galatians Playlist: https://rumble.com/playlists/LQ6jwwUgzjw • Forgiveness Playlist: https://rumble.com/playlists/fRimChMNK1M • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Dad Jokes, Introduction, the Human's Design 16:56 Messianic Promises in Genesis 36:53 King & Kingdom Promises and The 5 Kingdoms of Daniel Explained 40:25 *FACT CHECK* 1:01:15 Matthew 13 Kingdom Parables Explained 1:34:13 Diminishing Darkness, Application Questions, & Activation
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STB086 | Forgiveness EP4 | Cultivate Relationships
56:31

STB086 | Forgiveness EP4 | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze by finishing their series on forgiveness. They discuss why forgiving yourself doesn't actually help (but what you can do instead that will set you free) along with how to resolve shame and condemnation. APPLICATION QUESTIONS Where in your life do you struggle with shame or regret? With whom do you have in your life to walk difficult things through? SHOW LINKS • UnLove Book https://cultivaterelationships.com/unlove • The Freedom Booklet https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • The Identity Guide https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-identity-guide/ • Teachings on Forgiveness https://rumble.com/playlists/fRimChMNK1M • Sarah Frerking Teaching: Great Faithfulness https://www.youtube.com/live/3lJGQPvT-G8?si=m7OzJa7RguisMfpY&t=1980 • Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero https://a.co/d/9yRq0Iv • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com • Comment/Email Us Your Questions & Thoughts About This Episode https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact 00:00 "The Most Important Episode" 01:30 Lies We Believe About Forgiveness #5-7 10:06 The Lie of Forgiving Yourself 25:30 Resolving Shame, Regret, and Condemnation 34:08 Life-Giving Conviction — Living Convinced by the Holy Spirit 46:30 The Identity Guide — Receiving God's Truth
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STB085 | Forgiveness EP3 | Cultivate Relationships
1:07:36

STB085 | Forgiveness EP3 | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about forgiveness... again and the various excuses often used when someone does not want to forgive. They also discuss common lies that are believed about forgiveness. APPLICATION QUESTIONS Which one of these excuses have you used? What was the outcome of using this excuse? Which lie about forgiveness have you believed? How did this lie affect you when you have been offended? SHOW LINKS • UnLove Book https://cultivaterelationships.com/unlove • The Freedom Booklet https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • Teachings on Forgiveness https://rumble.com/playlists/fRimChMNK1M • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com • Comment/Email Us Your Questions & Thoughts About This Episode https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact 00:00 Unlove Book 01:33 Excuses to Forgiveness #1 15:46 Excuses to Forgiveness #2 27:37 Excuses to Forgiveness #3-#6 35:00 Lies We Believe About Forgiveness #1-#2 55:05 Lies We Believe About Forgiveness #3-#4
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STB084 | Forgiveness EP2 | Cultivate Relationships
1:14:20

STB084 | Forgiveness EP2 | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about forgiveness and how it differs from reconciliation and restoration. They also discuss propitiation and how restitution works when repenting. APPLICATION QUESTIONS Who do you feel like you are unwilling to forgive? Who annoys you? Who frustrates you? Who irritates you? When angry at someone, is there someone you remember back to and say, "they remind me of _____"? These may be clues that you are holding onto an unwillingness to forgive. SHOW LINKS • The Freedom Booklet https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • UnLove Book https://cultivaterelationships.com/unlove • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com • Comment/Email Us Your Questions & Thoughts About This Episode https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact 00:00 Is Nathan writing a Revelation commentary? 01:32 The process of forgiveness and ongoing forgiveness 11:58 Unresolved offenses and their impact on us 25:43 Reconciliation (& Propitiation) = Forgiveness + Repentance 39:22 Moving from reconciliation to restoration. 59:28 How restitution works within broken relationships
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STB083 | Forgiveness EP1 | Cultivate Relationships
1:07:56

STB083 | Forgiveness EP1 | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about all things forgiveness. They also discuss what it is, what it isn't, and some objections to it. APPLICATION QUESTIONS How was forgiveness taught or exampled to you in your growing-up years? How does that differ from your view today? SHOW LINKS • The Freedom Booklet https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • 1-3 John Series https://rumble.com/playlists/bzgsj_8mLHc • UnLove Book https://cultivaterelationships.com/unlove • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com • Comment/Email Us Your Questions & Thoughts About This Episode https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact 00:00 Long Hair & "New" Studio 02:54 Introducing Forgiveness, Luke 17.1-5 13:13 The Lord's Prayer & Forgiveness, The Physical Effects of Bitterness 27:31 Unforgiveness & Coping Addictions and the Necessity of Community Prayers 38:49 Forgiveness & Repentance --> Resolving Sin = Release & Replace 54:25 Jesus' Word Will Lead Us To Freedom & Defining Freedom
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STB082 | BSE | Faith | Cultivate Relationships
1:40:21

STB082 | BSE | Faith | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about the Holy Spirit, faith, and spiritual gifts. They also discuss baptism or being filled with the Holy Spirit, cessationism, tongues, and how God answers prayer. APPLICATION QUESTIONS What concerns you or what questions do you have about the Holy Spirit? What questions do you have about gifts of the Holy Spirit or living empowered by the Holy Spirit? Leave a comment and in an upcoming episode, Nathan and Scott will address your questions, comments, and concerns. ACTIVATION STEPS Seek out a Spirit-filled community and ask them how you might be able to serve. Over time, ask them to affirm and confirm in you gifts that they see. DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • Our discussion about Nephilim: https://rumble.com/v4itbb8 • How to Study/Read the Bible: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/#more • Jesus Revolution Movie: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B0B8JB31PC/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_r • Small Group Video Series - Failure https://rumble.com/playlists/T1lEB7qZJ9k • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Dad Jokes 4:00 Cessationism, Tongues, Azusa Stree 17:52 Nathan & Scott share their Holy Spirit baptism story 42:58 Tongues, How to hear God, Prayer 1:03:54 Hard questions from God, prayer beads, and icons 1:22:57 What is faith and how does it look in one's life, expectations, and failure
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STB081 | Influencers | Cultivate Relationships
1:11:13

STB081 | Influencers | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about "influencers", social media, and how habitually scrolling create an overwhelming compulsion to consume. They also discuss the discontentment that is brought about by comparison as a result of curated "perfection" on social media platforms. APPLICATION QUESTIONS What circumstance would make you feel content? What achievement would make you appear successful? Who's attention would make you believe you are valuable? SHOW LINKS • STB070 | BSE | Fear https://rumble.com/v4der35 • STB071 | BSE | Rejection https://rumble.com/v4etgmq • STB072 | BSE | Anger https://rumble.com/v4g54it • STB073 | BSE | Depression https://rumble.com/v4hl9qf • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Unpopular Opinions 01:54 Truly Horrible Habits 14:09 Influencers: The Target Market & the Comparison Problem 26:54 Social Media: Overwhelming Consumption & Our God-Given Needs 42:03 Fixer Upper, Discontentment, Self-Improvement 56:49 Application Questions
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STB080 | BSE | Galatians EP6 | Cultivate Relationships
1:22:09

STB080 | BSE | Galatians EP6 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 6.1-18. They discuss spiritual maturity, Christian generosity, and how the measure of our generosity directly impacts the generosity God demonstrates toward us. They also share how numbers-based evangelism is a fleshly, self-focused, approval-seeking false Gospel. APPLICATION QUESTIONS What do you use to measure your Christian maturity against others’? When is it most difficult for you to be generous with your: 1) time; 2) abilities; 3) money; 4) possessions with: 1) non-Christians; 2) Christians; 3) Christian/Ministry Leaders? How is living a Spirit-filled life amidst your job, friends, and family be a truer, more effective form of evangelism than simply telling people about the “Roman’s road” or praying a “sinner’s” prayer? Why might this be more difficult? ACTIVATION STEPS Ask the Holy Spirit to put on your mind 3 people (a non-Christian, Christian, and a Christian/ministry leader) that you are to intentionally care for and sacrificially be generous toward. Then, implement this over the next few days. DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • The Blessed Life, by Robert Morris: https://a.co/d/cDCMC4Y • The Spirituality of Fundraising: https://a.co/d/d7UD0wU • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Dad Jokes 4:27 Galatians 6.1-5 - Pt 1: Spiritual vs Unspiritual (Fleshly) 17:15 Galatians 6.1-5 - Pt 2: Spiritual vs Unspiritual (Fleshly) 28:33 Galatians 6.6-10: Christians Genersouly Care for People 43:55 Galatians 6.11-18: Numbers-Based Evangelism vs Exampling Jesus 1:02:36 Application & Activation
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STB079 | BSE | Galatians EP5 | Cultivate Relationships
1:31:18

STB079 | BSE | Galatians EP5 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 5.1-26. They discuss how faith in Jesus brings freedom from the Law and sin; while the Law only brings meaningless mutilation. They also contrast the fruit of living in the flesh with the Holy Spirit and living in the flesh with the Holy Spirit. APPLICATION QUESTIONS When or with whom is it most difficult for you to trust the Holy Spirit? Into what circumstances, relationships, or areas of your life have you not invited the Holy Spirit’s opinion? ACTIVATION STEPS Discuss with a family member, friend, or spouse the areas above. Develop a plan with that person to encourage and equip you to trust the Holy Spirit and live in agreement with how He designed you. DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • Gnosticism: https://rumble.com/v3zpwpa • Jesus Is Perfect Humanity: https://rumble.com/v2jexb0 • You Are God's Image & Likeness: https://rumble.com/v2jjhlm • Walking In Step with the Holy Spirit https://rumble.com/v2jjm6i • A Discussion About Jesus' Humanity https://rumble.com/v2ganne • A discussion about Doing What Jesus Did https://rumble.com/v2gdfju • UnLove Book https://www.lulu.com/spotlight/cultivaterelationships/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Dad Jokes 2:13 Galatians 5.1-12 - Pt 1: If Circumcision = Righteousness… Then Cut It All Off 27:57 Galatians 5.1-12 - Pt 2: If Circumcision = Righteousness… Then Cut It All Off 44:26 Galatians 5.13-21: Flesh - Spirit = Law → Unhealthy Fruit (Distorted Design) 1:09:45 Galatians 5.22-26: Flesh + Spirit = Freedom → Healthy Fruit (God’s Design) 1:20:00 Application & Activation
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STB078 | BSE | Galatians EP4 | Cultivate Relationships
1:25:29

STB078 | BSE | Galatians EP4 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 4.1-31. They discuss how the Law is immature and will (in 70 AD) melt away because the mature (Jesus) has come. They also discuss Paul's analogies of the Law (Hagar) and the Promise (Sarah). APPLICATION QUESTIONS Considering that the Law was fulfilled in Jesus along with the real destruction of its practices and rituals during the destruction of Jerusalem, why do we often read Scripture as a Law book for living (a list of dos and don’ts)? What concerns are there if we stopped looking at Scripture as a behavior manual and salvation as behavior modification? ACTIVATION STEPS What creative or new way might you try this week to connect with God that doesn’t involve a “study” of Scriptures? DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • The Identity Guide: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-identity-guide/ • The Freedom Booklet: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Dad Jokes 4:04 Galatians 4.1-11 - Pt 1: The Law Is Immaturity, Not Maturity -> When the Mature Came It "Melted" Away 16:07 Galatians 4.1-11 - Pt 2: The Law Is Immaturity, Not Maturity -> When the Mature Came It "Melted" Away 28:38 Galatians 4.12-20: Paul Appeals to Their Former Fondness For Him 36:46 Galatians 4.21-31: The Promise (Sarah) & The Law (Hagar) 48:53 Application & Activation
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STB077 | BSE | Galatians EP3 | Cultivate Relationships
1:27:13

STB077 | BSE | Galatians EP3 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 3.1-29. They discuss how the Law was not God's original design; but rather, it was a babysitter for the immature Israelites who didn't want a personal relationship with God. APPLICATION QUESTIONS In your relationships (i.e., parents, spouse, children, friends, siblings, etc.) when or with what issue is it easier to have rigid expectations rather than flexible adaptability? Why is this the case? What have been the outcomes in the relationship or issue because of these rigid expectations? What outcomes has someone’s rigid expectations produced in you? When might rigid expectations be appropriate? ACTIVATION STEPS What might the Holy Spirit be leading you to do this week to help bring resolution to the issue or reconciliation to the relationships you discussed above? DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • How NOT to Read the Bible Video Series: https://rumble.com/playlists/JuRb0etLd7g • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Dad Jokes 4:45 Galatians 3.1-14 - Pt 1: We’re Not Justified by the Law So We Don’t Live by the Law 24:30 Galatians 3.1-14 - Pt 2: We’re Not Justified by the Law So We Don’t Live by the Law 38:29 Galatians 3.15-18: The Promise (Faith) Is Not Cancelled by the Law (Works) 47:28 Galatians 3.19-29: The Babysitter Until the Promise was Fulfilled 1:11:58 Application & Activation
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STB076 | BSE | Galatians EP2 | Cultivate Relationships
1:34:15

STB076 | BSE | Galatians EP2 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 2.1-21. They discuss a timeline of Paul's life up until visiting Jerusalem a second time to deliver financial support. They also talk about how Paul had to confront Peter, Barnabas, and other Jewish Christians over their fear of being rejected by Jewish Christians from Jerusalem. APPLICATION QUESTIONS As a Christian, who in your life have you sought to impress or be accepted by, or not lose their favor or attention? How did you go about accomplishing this? What elements of your personality or behavior did you feel like you had to change for the person to accept you? Why did you want the person(s) approval? ACTIVATION STEPS Is there anyone you have put expectations on (i.e., things the person must do or change) for you to accept, forgive, or be in relationship with that person? Take some time this week to reach out to that person to apologize for putting on this person expectations. DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • Failure Series: https://cultivaterelationships.com/small-groups/series-2-failure/ • How To Apologize (Say, "I'm Sorry"): https://cultivaterelationships.com/small-group-videos/cwc-how-to-apologize/ • Assumptions & Expectations Series: https://cultivaterelationships.com/small-groups/series-3-assumptions/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Dad Jokes 4:48 Galatians & Acts Timeline 13:23 Galatians 2.1-10 - Paul's Jerusalem trip #2 and he submits to the Jerusalem Church leaders 43:03 Galatians 2.11-14 - Paul confronts the hypocrisy of Peter, Barnabas, and other Jewish Christians 59:15 Galatians 2.15-21 - Paul's thesis statement for the rest of his letter - Jesus + Anything = Nothing 1:13:12 Application & Activation
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STB075 | BSE | Galatians EP1 | Cultivate Relationships
1:58:04

STB075 | BSE | Galatians EP1 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 1.1-24. They discuss how Paul is not bashful about sharing his story of Jesus' redemption in his life. They also talk about the background, setting, and date of Galatians. APPLICATION QUESTIONS What aspects of your past do you withhold from people due to the shame or regret it makes you feel? How has God redeemed you from your past? Without talking about your past, how might people glorify God for your redemption without the context of your past? ACTIVATION STEPS If you have not done this, share your story with a family member, friend, or spouse. If you’ve already done this, share where God is currently transforming or redeeming you. DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • NASB Study Bible: https://a.co/d/9Mt0fQP • ESV Study Bible: https://a.co/d/9yzdSk4 • Hidden In Plain View: https://a.co/d/04tnAfO How (Not) To Read The Bible: https://a.co/d/0dZKrPl • Redating The New Testament: https://a.co/d/9Z8phbx • Rethinking The Dates Of The New Testament: https://a.co/d/dsj8k7r • The Apostle: A Life Of Paul: https://a.co/d/1GP0RVE • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Unspoken prayer requests, Nathan humbled 8:38 Recommended resources, New Testament timeline 29:19 Galatians 1.1-7 - author, audience, setting, the distorted Gospel 50:59 Galatians 1.7-14 - Paul's contrary life to his former religious life (Philippians 3.1-13) 1:11:32 Galatians 1.15-24 - predestination, Paul's trip to Arabia, Paul's discipleship 1:33:17 Application & Activation
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STB074 | BSE | Oddities | Cultivate Relationships
1:51:54

STB074 | BSE | Oddities | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about a few of their favorite Bible oddities, "coincidences", and threads. While this episode may not have any specific application or activation, we hope it peaks your interest in exploring the literary genius that is the Scriptures. APPLICATION QUESTIONS What are some questions or confusing passages of Scripture that have perplexed you? What are your favorite Bible oddities? ACTIVATION STEPS Simply, begin reading the Scriptures. A great place to start is the Gospel of Luke and the book of Acts. These two writings, authored by Luke, will give you a foundation into who Jesus is while explaining some of the Hebrew Scriptures associated with his life, death, and resurrection. DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Opening 2:43 Zombie Evangelists, Undesigned Coincidences 31:15 Saved By A Foreskin, The Brick Bible 42:10 Goliath & Golgatha 1:03:08 Giant Demon Babies, The Movie: Noah, The Movie: Exodus 1:24:25 Disappearing Sword Trick, Jesus is Hangry, Light Before Lights
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STB073 | BSE | Depression | Cultivate Relationships
1:54:17

STB073 | BSE | Depression | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about how despair (depression) is the hopeless state in which we choose not release our circumstances and relationships to God — that is the Father’s good character, Jesus’ redemption, or the Holy Spirit’s empowerment. They share how depression holds on to our rights, desires, beliefs, and expectations of how we think a circumstance should work out or a person should behave. APPLICATION QUESTIONS When or with who do you seem to lack peace, feel a lack of focus and clarity, or feel a lack of resolution? With your answer to the previous question, how do you generally cope with these feelings (what do you do, where do you go, with whom do you spend time)? Control? Distract? Medicate? What achievement would make you feel successful? What circumstance would make you feel satisfied? Whose attention would make you feel significant? What OTHER factors have you dealt with or struggle with that contribute to your lack of hope or resolution? ACTIVATION STEPS Discuss the above questions with a trusted friend, family member, or spouse. Then, work through The Freedom Booklet to help you resolve the circumstance or the person’s behavior that has make you lack peace, feel a lack of focus or clarity, or where you feel a lack of resolution? DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • Nefarious Movie: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B0BZSJ46KZ/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_r • The Identity Guide: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-identity-guide/ • The Habit Tree: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-habit-tree-worksheet/ • The Freedom Booklet: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Opening 1:56 Cain - the first self-fulfilling prophet of despair 21:11 2 Corinthians 4.7-10 and paralyzed and performance depression 52:13 Performance depression 1:14:10 Ways we prolong and exacerbate depression 1:43:40 Application & Activation
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STB072 | BSE | Anger | Cultivate Relationships
1:47:04

STB072 | BSE | Anger | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about anger and how it is a behavior — words or actions — toward someone or something as a result of negative feelings being triggered in our hearts. They discuss how unhealthy anger (either internal ‘smolderer’ or external ‘exploder’) is a behavioral reaction to the belief that our satisfaction, security, or safety is being infringed upon. This belief, and ensuing behavior, hinders our own peace of mind and infringes upon others’ freedom. APPLICATION QUESTIONS Who have you yet to forgive and release to God? What desired outcomes of negative or uncomfortable circumstances and relationships have you yet to release to God? ACTIVATION STEPS Discuss the above questions with a trusted friend, family member, or spouse. Be sure to address when, how, or why you answered how you did. Then, work through The Freedom Booklet to help you resolve times you have felt unsafe, unloved, uncared for, or out of control. SHOW LINKS • The Identity Guide: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-identity-guide/ • The Freedom Booklet: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Opening 7:04 Anger & Compassion - Ephesians 4.26-32 27:09 Smoldering Anger 48:24 Exploding Anger 1:09:40 Jesus righteous anger and God's kindness 1:27:59 Application & Activation
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STB071 | BSE | Rejection | Cultivate Relationships
1:50:52

STB071 | BSE | Rejection | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about rejection and how it's a belief that our acceptance (or acceptability) is dependent upon what we do, what we produce, or how we behave. They also discuss how this belief hinders peace of mind and confidence in who God created us to be and what He designed us to do. APPLICATIONS QUESTIONS What has been your most painful experience of feeling insignificant or rejected? Who was the person(s) involved? In light of your answer to the previous questions: (1) How have you been affected? (2) How has your relationship with others been affected? (3) How has your relationship with Jesus been affected? ACTIVATION STEPS Take The Identity Guide and read through it, out loud, twice a day for the next week. Discuss the above questions with a trusted friend, family member, or spouse. Be sure to address when, how, or why you answered how you did. Then, when you will work through The Freedom Booklet to help you resolve areas of rejection in your heart and mind. SHOW LINKS • Expectations - Small Group Videos: https://cultivaterelationships.com/small-groups/series-3-assumptions/ • Bible Tools: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • The Identity Guide: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-identity-guide/ • The Freedom Booklet: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Opening 4:31 Built up by significance, not worn down by rejection 25:55 Biblical examples of rejection. 48:30 Flavors of feeling rejected 1:10:07 3 foundational reasons we believe we are rejected. 1:32:29 Abide in Jesus' real, timely, and personal word for your life. 1:45:07 Application & Activation
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STB070 | BSE | Fear | Cultivate Relationships
1:45:08

STB070 | BSE | Fear | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about fear (a.k.a., worry, doubt, anxiety, etc.) being the lie that we are more caring, responsible, just, resourceful, loving, good, and redeeming than God. They discuss how fear is ultimately not an issue of circumstance; but rather, it is an issue about what we trust. APPLICATION QUESTIONS What are you afraid of people knowing about you? What people do you constantly try to appease or make happy? What circumstances or possessions make you content, happy, or at peace? What is an acceptable or adequate place to live? How do you view people who are “better off” and “less than” you? What are you unwilling to give or part with to serve/trust God? What area or circumstances in life, when not in control, do you become emotionally, physically, or mentally stressed or burdened? ACTIVATION STEPS Discuss the above questions with a trusted friend, family member, or spouse. Be sure to address when, how, or why you answered how you did. Then, consider walking through The Freedom Booklet to help you repent for living in fear, worry, or anxiety. SHOW LINKS • The Freedom Booklet: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Opening 3:24 Holy Spirit (abundant life) vs The Enemy (steal, kill, destroy) 29:43 Fear: a signal that a God-given heart-need is being attacked. 50:56 3 Categories of Fear: Fear of the Unknown, Fear of Poverty, Fear of Man. 1:13:48 Fear: How to defend against it and how to attack it. 1:36:58 Application & Activation
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STB069 | BSE | 1-3 John EP5 | Cultivate Relationships
1:46:07

STB069 | BSE | 1-3 John EP5 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about how a Christian who receives the Heavenly Father’s love and forgiveness; is filled with the Spirit; and trusts Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection does not need to sin. They also discuss 1 John 5.1-21 and how believers can live their life sin free when their conscience is tuned into the Holy Spirit. APPLICATION QUESTIONS From who or what do you need permission to do the things the Holy Spirit is asking you to do (think of the things that brings you safety, security, and satisfaction)? ACTIVATION STEPS Pick one thing you know the Holy Spirit has asked you to do that makes you feel uncomfortable. Tell a trusted friend, family member, or spouse. Develop and implement a plan to accomplish (or least take the first required step) in fulfilling that thing. SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools: New Testament: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/new-testament/ • UnLove Book: https://www.lulu.com/spotlight/cultivaterelationships/ • Pints with Aquinas: https://www.youtube.com/@PintsWithAquinas • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Opening 11:12 1 John 5.1-4 32:28 Being Right vs Being in Right Relationships 54:10 1 John 5.5-17 1:14:53 1 John 5.18-21 1:34:55 Closing
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STB068 | BSE | 1-3 John EP4 | Cultivate Relationships
1:38:18

STB068 | BSE | 1-3 John EP4 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Jesus being fully human and how he can fully identify with us. They also discuss 1 John 4.1-21 and the gnostic origins behind the pessimistic nature of humanity and how this belief hinders humanity's ability to mature in Jesus and be led by him into freedom and victory over sin. APPLICATION QUESTIONS In difficult circumstances and with difficult people, what does abiding in Jesus look like for you? What thoughts, feelings, or behaviors do you have that trigger your awareness that you might not be abiding in Jesus? ACTIVATION STEPS Talk with a trusted, Spirit-filled family member, friend, or spouse about when it is most difficult for each of you to abide in Jesus. Develop a plan for how you will encourage one another when those moments come. Use last week’s activation step as a starting point. SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools: New Testament: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/new-testament/ • The Natural Ability of Man: https://www.lulu.com/shop/jesse-morrell/the-natural-ability-of-man-a-study-on-free-will-human-nature/paperback/product-1gv9nkz4.html?page=1&pageSize=4 • Bible Project Podcast: Images of God (4 Episodes): https://bibleproject.com/podcast/series/image-of-god-series/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Opening 05:41 1-3 John Review 24:49 1 John 4.1-6; 2 John 7 42:09 How Gnosticism permeated the modern church. 1:03:20 1 John 4.7-21; 2 John 5-6; 3 John 11 1:31:26 Closing
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STB067 | BSE | 1-3 John EP3 | Cultivate Relationships
1:26:00

STB067 | BSE | 1-3 John EP3 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about 1-3 John (1 John 3.4-24; 2 John 1-6; 3 John 2-12) and how our proximity to Jesus isn't as important as our faith in him. They also discuss how what we practice (work at to improve) reveals our true loyalty: practicing rebellion against our design reveals our loyalty to the enemy, practicing living in right relationship with God and others reveals our loyalty to Jesus. APPLICATION QUESTIONS As a Christian, how have you demonstrated that you do not practice sin (self-righteousness / unrighteousness)? When is it most difficult for you to practice right relational living (righteousness)? ACTIVATION STEPS Assess this week when you are tempted to practice sin. Take note of the extent to which the following factors played a role in you giving into the temptation: 0 = not a factor / 4 = major factor Hunger / Type of Diet/Nutrition 0 1 2 3 4 Exhaustion (not from health) 0 1 2 3 4 Unresolved Frustrations 0 1 2 3 4 Unresolved Disappointments 0 1 2 3 4 External Pressures (others) 0 1 2 3 4 Internal Pressures (yourself) 0 1 2 3 4 Physical Health / Lack of Exercise 0 1 2 3 4 Using the factors that you selected 3 or 4, what might God be revealing to you about your lack of trust or dependence on Him in those areas? Prayerfully discussing with a close, trusted, Spirit-filled friend, what intentional steps might you need to take to grow in your trust or dependence on the Holy Spirit in those areas? SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools: New Testament: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/new-testament/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Opening 03:52 1 John 3.1-10; 3 John 11-12 19:09 1 John 3.11-12; 3 John 11 37:36 1 John 3.13-22; 2 John 1-6 55:37 1 John 3:23-24; 3 John 2-8 1:05:33 Closing
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STB066 | BSE | 1-3 John EP2 | Cultivate Relationships
1:42:22

STB066 | BSE | 1-3 John EP2 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about 1-3 John (2 John 2.3-3.3) and how our focus determines our world view — whether light and walking with the Holy Spirit or darkness and rejecting God's empowerment. They also discuss antichrist, eschatology, and the Kingdom of Heaven spreading to fill the earth. APPLICATION QUESTIONS When is it difficult for you to believe that you are truly forgiven and free from your past? When is it most for you to believe you are empowered to be victorious over sin in your present and future? In what circumstances or relationships is it most difficult for you to believe that Jesus can truly and fully identify with you? ACTIVATION STEPS Using your responses from above, take the following actions: (1) Taking your most shameful past memory, work through The Freedom Booklet. Pay special attention to Step 9: Receive & Replace; (2) Taking your misbelief or disbelief about how God has empowered you to live victorious, sign up for Freedom Prayer – HCFBurnet.org/Freedom (App: “More”/ “HCF|Freedom”; (3) Prayerfully ask Jesus to reveal himself get into community to experience his answer. SHOW LINKS • The Freedom Booklet: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • HCF|Freedom: https://hcfburnet.org/freedom • Online Prayer Ministry with Pastor Rusty & Nancy Russey: https://reliant.org/Rusty.Nancy.Russey • Bible Tools: New Testament: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/new-testament/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Opening 01:30 1 John 2.3-6 27:43 1 John 2.8-11 & 2 John 5-7 47:34 1 John 2.11, 12-17 & 3 John 11-12 1:07:51 1 John 2.18-25 & 2 John 7-11 1:21:44 1 John 2.26-3.3, Application, & Activation
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STB065 | BSE | 1-3 John EP1 | Cultivate Relationships
1:22:25

STB065 | BSE | 1-3 John EP1 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about 1-3 John (1 John 1.1-2.2), Gnostic influences in the modern church, and how believers do not have to sin. They also discuss how our ability to experience full joy may only come as a result of serving and loving others. APPLICATION QUESTIONS: What specific relationship or situation currently make it challenging for you to feel joy? Additionally, what role have you played in contributing to this lack of joy in your life? ACTIVATION STEPS Purposefully surrender your expectations for the individual or situation to God and ask Him to give you His viewpoint. Then, write down three (3) distinct things for which you can express gratitude, whether related to the person or the circumstance, and offer praise to God for each one. Repeat this practice, with three (3) new items of thanksgiving, every night before bedtime for the next seven days. SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools: New Testament: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/new-testament/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Opening 04:22 1 John 1.1 21:37 1 John 1.1-6 42:58 1 John 1.7-2.2 & Application 1:04:45 Activation 1:15:09 Closing
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STB064 | Miracles | Cultivate Relationships
1:17:24

STB064 | Miracles | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about miracles they've experienced throughout their life and marriage. They also discuss how seeing miracles takes intentionality, humility, and release of expectations. SHOW LINKS • Seasons Song: https://youtu.be/QaEx2A7p9Dk?si=065FCIC4e8djEv9z • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 OPENING 03:17 PART 1 Nathan - Life Flight, Lungs Collapsed, Angel Nurse 22:41 PART 2 Marriage, Infertility, Field of Dreams Room 43:46 PART 3 Meeting Linda (Lydia), Adoption, Tattoos, Ireland 1:03:57 PART 4 Moving to Texas, Homeless, Rest & Release 1:10:08 CLOSING
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STB063 | BSE | Jude EP2 | Cultivate Relationships
1:35:24

STB063 | BSE | Jude EP2 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Jude 17-24 and how believers empowered by Jesus to live in mercy. They also discuss progressive Christianity and the practical tools Cultivate Relationships provide to keep believers from becoming bad leaders. APPLICATION QUESTIONS Toward who have I not been demonstrating mercy (intentional joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, self-control, etc.)? ACTIVATION STEPS Ask the Holy Spirit what a merciful response (actions or words) would be for that person you listed above… and do it! SHOW LINKS • STB044 | LGBT + Kalena: https://rumble.com/v2ivku6-stb044-lgbt-kalena-cultivate-relationships.html • StrengthsFinder Book: https://a.co/d/iuHxoh2 • FREE Strength Finder Test: https://high5test.com/ • End Times Teaching: https://rumble.com/v2g36xe-teaching-the-end-times...-and-why-youll-want-to-be-left-behind-cultivate-re.html • Revelation Study: https://rumble.com/playlists/fppIcx27N0M • The Habit Tree: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-habit-tree-worksheet/ • The Freedom Booklet: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Opening 03:59 Jude 17 25:39 Jude 18 43:51 Jude 19-23 1:04:12 Jude 24-25 1:19:06 Application & Activation 1:32:30 Closing
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STB062 | BSE | Jude EP1 | Cultivate Relationships
1:33:44

STB062 | BSE | Jude EP1 | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Jude 1-16 and how believers are to live in a manner that agrees with their beliefs. They also discuss Gnosticism, apocryphal books, false teachers, along with how to avoid becoming a legalistic or liberal Christians. APPLICATION QUESTIONS What fruit has your choices produced in your life? What behaviors toward others (thoughts, words, actions) do you have that contradict your Biblical beliefs or principles? Why? ACTIVATION STEPS (1) Whose attention makes you feel valuable, loved, or important? Ask God why this person’s opinion matters so much. Ask Him to give you a word that reflect His opinion of who you are; (2) What achievement makes you feel successful, smart, or fulfilled? Ask God why this achievement matters so much. Ask Him to give you a word that reflects His empowerment of your abilities; (3) What circumstance makes you feel secure, safe, or comfortable? Ask God why this circumstance matters so much. Ask Him to give you a word that reflects His provision toward you. SHOW LINKS • The Babylon Bee: If Jesus' Resurrection Were A Hoax: https://youtu.be/23UNLLbOS3w • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Opening 01:23 Jude 1-3 23:45 Jude 3-7 43:51 Jude 8-11 1:07:56 Jude 12-16 1:21:51 Application & Activation 1:32:56 Closing
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STB061 | BSE | Gnosticism | Cultivate Relationships
1:29:11

STB061 | BSE | Gnosticism | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Gnosticism and its impact on the content of the New Testament along with its influence on the modern church. They also discuss ways Christians may be "gnostic" and not even realize it. SHOW LINKS • The IVP Bible Background Commentary: New Testament: https://a.co/d/3OfJhYi • Rethinking the Dates of the New Testament: https://a.co/d/70a5Yue • The Natural Ability of Man: https://www.lulu.com/shop/jesse-morrell/the-natural-ability-of-man-a-study-on-free-will-human-nature/paperback/product-1gv9nkz4.html?page=1&pageSize=4 • Bible Project Podcast: Images of God (4 Episodes): https://bibleproject.com/podcast/series/image-of-god-series/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Opening 01:22 Historical Background of Gnosticism 12:31 New Testament & Gnosticism Impact 29:27 New Testament Canon & Gnostic Writings 39:58 Gnostic Influence in Christianity Today 1:08:05 Why Gnosticism is Desirable AND Devastating 1:25:37 Closing
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STB060 | Apocalypse EP2 | Cultivate Relationships
1:15:42

STB060 | Apocalypse EP2 | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about pessimistic fear-inducing American-centric interpretations of Revelation, Spirit-led led decision-making, technology, whether or not Elon Musk is evil, and how social media is antagonistic to how our brains are wired. They also discuss how social justice, migrants, protestors, and people who tow the line are used as pawns to empower progressivism and liberal agendas that are in opposition to the Gospel message. SHOW LINKS • Revelation Class: https://cultivaterelationships.com/category/teachings/series-revelation/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 OPENING 05:29 PART 1 American-Centric View of End Times 13:26 PART 2 Gloomy Views of Revelation, Christian Freedom 28:03 PART 3 Mark of the Beast, Social Media, Electric Tech 42:25 PART 4 Consumer Responsibility, Social Engineering 59:46 PART 5 Social Gospel, Individual Purpose, Unity/Diversity 1:14:16 CLOSING
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STB059 | Apocalypse EP1 | Cultivate Relationships
1:32:53

STB059 | Apocalypse EP1 | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about how a Christian should respond to politics, voting, conspiracies, and war. They also discuss how our view of the world, the Kingdom of God, and His images (people) will determine our hope and peace. SHOW LINKS • End Times Teaching: https://cultivaterelationships.com/teachings/20201130-the-end-times-and-why-youll-want-to-be-left-behind/ • The Experimenter: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B018J29QVE • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 OPENING 01:05 PART 1 Homeschooling, Conspiracy Theories, Redefining Terms 19:58 PART 2 Researching, Anchoring Yourself, Discernment 40:15 PART 3 Circumstantial Peace vs Transcendent Peace 58:45 PART 4 Influence, The Experimenter, Kingdom of Heaven 1:17:45 PART 5 Immature Christians, Avoiding Evil, God’s Heart 1:27:16 CLOSING
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STB058 | Encouragement | Cultivate Relationships
1:02:56

STB058 | Encouragement | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about how to encourage someone going through a hard time. They also discuss love languages, how to pray for someone, and how to respond when you don’t feel cared for. SHOW LINKS • 5 Love Languages: https://a.co/d/300XkHD • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 OPENING 01:51 PART 1 Encouragers, Empathy, Intentional Helping 12:03 PART 2 Abilities, Peace vs Pressure, God’s Agenda 23:30 PART 3 One-Way Forever, Routines, God’s Perspective 36:16 PART 4 Praying for Others, Pray Scripture, 5 Love Languages 49:22 PART 5 Community, Awkwardness of Presence, Comparison 59:33 CLOSING
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STB057 | Vision | Cultivate Relationships
57:03

STB057 | Vision | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about God giving people vision, hopes, and dreams along with the downfalls of trying to fulfill these through self-imposed expectations for how those should be accomplished. SHOW LINKS • Experiencing God: https://a.co/d/7y6IGW5 • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 OPENING 01:36 PART 1 Ambitions, Obedience, Pursuing Dreams 12:40 PART 2 Expectations, Faith, Risk, Sustainability 23:08 PART 3 Experiencing God, Partnerships & Performance 35:58 PART 4 Reflecting God’s Heart, Faith & Work 49:46 PART 5 Jesus Is In Charge, Seek God First 54:00 CLOSING
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STB056 | Community + Pastor Scott | Cultivate Relationships
1:07:04

STB056 | Community + Pastor Scott | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about attending church while also living in intentional community with others. They also share their thoughts on mega-churches and house churches.
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STB055 | Scripture + Pastor Jordan | Cultivate Relationships
1:05:49

STB055 | Scripture + Pastor Jordan | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Jordan Cornelius about the spectrums of Christianity and their views on the authority of Scripture.
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STB054 | Media + Andrew | Cultivate Relationships
1:08:52

STB054 | Media + Andrew | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan shoots the breeze with Andrew Orr about the role media production, social media, and live-streaming has in the modern church.
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STB053 | Studying | Cultivate Relationships
1:05:49

STB053 | Studying | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about how to read and study the Bible with the Holy Spirit. Lots of recommended resources in this one!
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STB052 | Men + Cole | Cultivate Relationships
1:08:44

STB052 | Men + Cole | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan shoots the breeze with a man's man, Cole Bollier, about manly things and why men need to be more in touch with their feelings.
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STB051 | Obedience + Pastor Jeremy | Cultivate Relationships
1:07:38

STB051 | Obedience + Pastor Jeremy | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Jeremy Cotton about hearing God's voice, transitions in life, and resolving disappointment.
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STB050 | Technology | Cultivate Relationships
1:19:20

STB050 | Technology | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about social media and how the more "connected" we are the more disconnected we actually become.
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STB049 | Grieving + Rebekah | Cultivate Relationships
1:12:50

STB049 | Grieving + Rebekah | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan shoots the breeze with Rebekah Jones about how to grieve the loss of loved ones in a healthy way. They also discuss running, eating disorders, self-hatred, purity culture, and unhealthy perspectives in fundamental Christianity.
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STB048 | Worship + Kalena | Cultivate Relationships
1:04:14

STB048 | Worship + Kalena | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan shoots the breeze with Kalena Cotton about how she connects with God. We discuss reading the Bible, worship, and prophetic words — including when and what words to receive, revisit, or reject.
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STB047 | Hell + Pastor Michael | Cultivate Relationships
1:05:33

STB047 | Hell + Pastor Michael | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Michael Barnard. We discuss the light topics of evangelism, salvation, and hell. We also discuss how to have healthy disagreements with other Christians and why some things aren't worth debating.
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STB046 | ExVangelical + Kalena | Cultivate Relationships
1:00:44

STB046 | ExVangelical + Kalena | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan shoots the breeze with Kalena about why some people who grew up evangelical are deconstructing their faith and leaving the Church. They also discuss their views on progressive "Christianity" and why not having an anchor is dangerous.
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STB045 | Traditions + Arianna | Cultivate Relationships
48:13

STB045 | Traditions + Arianna | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan shoots the breeze with Arianna Steel, his adopted daughter and homeschooled science student. This episode literally proves our show name. While discussing weekly traditions, they also touch on counseling, ASMR, pets, and so much more.
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STB044 | LGBT + Kalena | Cultivate Relationships
1:08:58

STB044 | LGBT + Kalena | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan shoots the breeze with Kalena Cotton, a long-time acquaintance, a worship leader, and former lesbian. They discuss Kalena's journey into the "cult-like" embrace of the LGBT community along with her own struggles that led her there.
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STB043 | Evolution + Joe & Daniel | Cultivate Relationships
1:09:40

STB043 | Evolution + Joe & Daniel | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan shoots the breeze with his friends Joe and Daniel about theology, science, and evolution. They also discuss recognizing the limitations of apologetics and seeing the value of focusing on relationship more than winning an argument.
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STB042 | Surrender | Cultivate Relationships
1:03:57

STB042 | Surrender | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about the important role a healthy community plays in freedom. They also reveal how Christian maturity is more of moving from "glory to glory" than it is "peeling away layers like an onion".
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STB041 | Faith + Jim & Joe | Cultivate Relationships
1:09:07

STB041 | Faith + Jim & Joe | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan shoots the breeze with his friends, Jim and Joe. They discuss how fulfilling our God-given needs can become unhealthy. They also question if the Bible is the only way we can know God and grow in our relationship with Him.
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STB040 | Forgiveness | Cultivate Relationships
57:37

STB040 | Forgiveness | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about forgiveness, what forgiveness means, and how to live out of thorough forgiveness. They also discuss repeat offenders, accountability (and the pitfalls of it), and how to have encouraging friendships.
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STB039 | Sovereignty | Cultivate Relationships
1:08:59

STB039 | Sovereignty | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about a question they received about how you make a decision when God hasn't given you direction. They also discuss free will, open theism, and their definition of God's conviction.
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STB038 | Cancer + David Root | Cultivate Relationships
1:06:35

STB038 | Cancer + David Root | Cultivate Relationships

Nathan shoots the breeze with David Root, a friend of his diagnosed with a rare and untreatable lung cancer. They discuss God's goodness, healing, relationships, and the choices he makes to maintain a positive outlook.
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STB037 | Obedience | Cultivate Relationships
1:02:29

STB037 | Obedience | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about their education, qualifications, and the perceived foolishness in their walk with God. They also reveal the most important thing (and their biggest struggle) they've learned about success and God's favor.
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STB036 | Politics | Cultivate Relationships
1:06:10

STB036 | Politics | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about the subject they have avoided at all cost -- politics. They discuss the mark of the beast, vaccines, and Nathan's controversial End Times beliefs.
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STB035 | Leadership + Pastor Scott | Cultivate Relationships
1:15:19

STB035 | Leadership + Pastor Scott | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, Nathan shoots the breeze again with Pastor Scott Frerking. They talk about spiritual authority, time management as a pastor, mutual submission, and unity between local church communities. You can learn more about Scott by visiting: hcfburnet.org.
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STB034 | Homeschool 2.0 | Cultivate Relationships
1:08:31

STB034 | Homeschool 2.0 | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about homeschooling... again. They discuss lessons they've learned over the years and the changes they're making for this school year. One of the biggest changes they're implementing is a mindset that comes from their friend, Shannon Guerra. She is the author of Upside Down: Understanding and Supporting Attachment in Adoptive Families. You can learn more about Shannon and her family at: https://copperlightwood.com/
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STB033 | Intentionality + Jim & Lauren | Cultivate Relationships
1:15:10

STB033 | Intentionality + Jim & Lauren | Cultivate Relationships

Prayer, by its simplest definition, is a two-way conversation between humans and the living God. In this teaching, Nathan looks at Matthew 6:5-18 and reveals how Jesus prayed and taught his followers to pray.
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STB032 | Community + Jolene | Cultivate Relationships
1:12:30

STB032 | Community + Jolene | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, Nathan shoots the breeze his mom, Jolene Beach. They discuss divorce, marriage, and God's provision. They also talk about the importance of having people in our lives — even if they say stupid things from time to time.
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STB031 | Suicide + Pastor Jordan | Cultivate Relationships
1:08:53

STB031 | Suicide + Pastor Jordan | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, Nathan shoots the breeze again with Pastor Jordan Cornelius. They talk about theology, mental health, and the importance community and relationships play in preventing suicide. You can learn more about Jordan by visiting: hcfburnet.org.
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STB030 | Peace | Cultivate Relationships
1:04:39

STB030 | Peace | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about the season of life they are in and how God has brought them to a place of peace. They each share their perspectives of where God has them in ministry, as a parent, and in their own personal lives. They also share what they have had to do to receive peace of mind no matter what is happening around them.
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STB029 | Co-Parenting + Jeremy | Cultivate Relationships
1:16:16

STB029 | Co-Parenting + Jeremy | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, Nathan shoots the breeze with his oldest brother, Jeremy. Jeremy has a daughter with whom he shares custody. We discuss when and how to compromise along with how to maintain consistency. We also discuss our experience growing up in church and how discipleship and evangelism may not be what we were traditionally taught.
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STB028 | Control + John | Cultivate Relationships
1:15:48

STB028 | Control + John | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, Nathan shoots the breeze with John Barclay, a husband, dad, software security salesman, and a volunteer leader with Cultivate. We discuss how the home he grew up in affected his marriage. He talks about his struggle with needing to be in control and learn healthy forms of conflict in his marriage.
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STB027 | Anxiety + Lauren | Cultivate Relationships
1:12:03

STB027 | Anxiety + Lauren | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, Nathan shoots the breeze with Lauren Barclay, a wife, mom, and a volunteer leader with Cultivate. The trauma Lauren faced growing up resulted in anxiety that often fed thoughts of her circumstances ending in worst-case scenarios. She talks about how this anxiety impacted her marriage and parenting.
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STB026 | Devotions | Cultivate relationships
1:11:57

STB026 | Devotions | Cultivate relationships

In this episode, Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about devotional times and bible reading. The "Christianese" is strong in this one. They both share how their times with God have changed throughout their lives along with some recommendations that may help you get more out of your quiet times. If you're unfamiliar with what "devotions" and "quiet times" mean, think of it like meditation but where you are intentionally focusing on the Holy Spirit's voice.
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STB025 | Science + Daniel | Cultivate Relationships
1:11:23

STB025 | Science + Daniel | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, Nathan shoots the breeze with Daniel Diemer, a senior power grid operator for a Texas electric company. In his time in the Navy, he was a nuclear electrician on a submarine. They discuss evolution and the role religion plays in science.
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STB024 | Cultish | Cultivate Relationships
1:12:16

STB024 | Cultish | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about spiritual abuse. Lacey shares her story of being at Master's Commission — a ministry school that marginalized unpopular students and treated dropouts like they had given up on Jesus himself. Nathan describes what it was like growing up in a house with a spiritually abusive pastor for a dad. They also share some resources that can help you resolve spiritual abuse and live free from its oppression.
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STB023 | Accountability | Cultivate Relationships
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STB023 | Accountability | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, Lacey and I shoot the breeze about accountability partners. SPOILER ALERT We do not like them. But we do talk about something that has been proven very effective for changing unhealthy mindsets and habits. Also, we fight about our new studio/office arrangement.
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STB022 | Decisions | Cultivate Relationships
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STB022 | Decisions | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, Lacey and I shoot the breeze about how we make decisions. Lacey tells the story of how we pursued her healthcare and surgery (and the decisions we made along the way). And, we also make a decision about how we will parent our girls right before your ears.
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STB021 | Random | Cultivate Relationships
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STB021 | Random | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, we shoot the breeze and ask each other random questions. From politics to childhood fears, we ask questions from a book we used to get to know each other while we were dating.
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STB020 | Messy | Cultivate Relationships
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STB020 | Messy | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, we shoot the breeze about our ideal dates, how the Holy Spirit has been speaking to us lately, and — for the first time in our marriage — how God has been calling us to different purposes in this season of our marriage.
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STB019 | Ministry + Pastor Jason | Cultivate Relationships
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STB019 | Ministry + Pastor Jason | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, I shoot the breeze with Pastor Jason Teague, a United Methodist Pastor. Jason and I discuss the apprehensions of getting into full-time ministry. You can learn more about Jason by visiting: fumcburnet.org. I hope you enjoy!
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STB018 | Infertility | Cultivate Relationships
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STB018 | Infertility | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, we share our struggle with infertility along with some of the more common inappropriate things we hear about adoption. We hope this episode will be encouraging to those struggling with infertility and secondary infertility. Also, we hope this discussion will help those to know what to say to someone struggling with infertility.
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STB017 | Depression + Pastor Jordan | Cultivate Relationships
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STB017 | Depression + Pastor Jordan | Cultivate Relationships

This week, I shoot the breeze with Pastor Jordan Cornelius, former Marine and a personal student of R.T. Kendall out of London, England. We talk about depression, the importance of mental health, and how the Spirit of God helps us. You can learn more about Jordan by visiting: hcfburnet.org. I hope you enjoy!
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STB016 | Time + Pastor Donna | Cultivate Relationships
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STB016 | Time + Pastor Donna | Cultivate Relationships

I sat down with Donna Shaw, pastor, ministry director, and the Chief Operations Officer of the business she and her husband own. She's a wife, homeschool mom, and so much more. Donna and I shoot the breeze about her time management, how she develops volunteers, and how she sets realistic goals for herself. We also share a hobby we mutually enjoy — wearing costumes. You can learn more about her at her website: weakdayministries.com. I hope you enjoy!
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STB015 | Struggles + Cate | Cultivate Relationships
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STB015 | Struggles + Cate | Cultivate Relationships

Cate Morris is an author, speaker, worship leader, and evangelist. She and her husband, Jamin, are commercial fishermen in Homer, Alaska. You can learn more about her at her website: catemorris.com. Cate and I discuss her new book, Beyond the Siege. I had read her book during one of the darkest seasons of my entire life. While there were many contributing factors to my freedom, Cate's book was the catalyst of hope that reinforced the truth that I am not alone. I hope you enjoy this episode.
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STB014 | Siblings + The Steel Brothers | Cultivate Relationships
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STB014 | Siblings + The Steel Brothers | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, Lacey gets another week off because I (Nathan) interview my brothers, Jeremy and Josh. It truly is us just shooting the breeze — so much so, this is the only episode I have had to edit. In the middle of all the jokes, sarcasm, and laughing, we discuss what it has taken for us to have a healthy relationship. Also, my brothers share their perspective of growing up with a brother who has a terminal disease. They also give advice to parents and siblings of those who have an illness.
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STB013 | Blessings | Cultivate Relationships
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STB013 | Blessings | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, we discuss many of the blessings we've experienced as a couple and family over the past 16 years. One of the biggest keys to maintaining emotional, mental, and relational freedom is thankfulness. We received some disappointing news just prior to recording this episode so we decided to remember God's faithfulness.
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STB012 | Family + Pastor Scott | Cultivate Relationships
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STB012 | Family + Pastor Scott | Cultivate Relationships

Scott Frerking is the lead pastor of Hill Country Fellowship Church located in Burnet, Texas. He and his wife, Sarah, are parents to five children. You can learn more about him at the church website: hcfburnet.org. Scott and his wife were mine and Lacey's marriage counselors almost 15 years ago. Scott and I talk about our wives (and their disapproval of our jokes), our kids (and how often they force us to trust Jesus), and leadership (and how to have confidence and conviction amidst opposition). I hope you enjoy this episode!
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STB011 | Pets | Cultivate Relationships
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STB011 | Pets | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, we grieve the passing of one of our favorite pups we've owned. This transitions to stories of all the pets we've had through our marriage. TRIGGER WARNING: Some of them do not end well. We also share some bazaar pets other people have had and the tragedies that have resulted from those bazaar pets — this episode has DOUBLE TRIGGER WARNINGS!!!
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STB010 | Braces | Cultivate Relationships
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STB010 | Braces | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, we reveal the cause of Lacey's new speech impediment. We also share an encouraging thought that may change how you view yourself. To celebrate our 10th episode, we share ten things we appreciate.
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STB009 | Traditions | Cultivate Relationships
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STB009 | Traditions | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, we are back in our studio revisiting horror stories from years of past Valentine's Days. We also discuss several traditions that our family has and why they're important to us. We also share some tips that can help your family create meaningful traditions.
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STB008 | Sheltered | Cultivate Relationships
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STB008 | Sheltered | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, we take our work home with us... because global warming officially hit Texas and we are FREEZING! As we shelter, we agree to disagree about showing up late to places, the Twilight series, and what translation of the Bible is best.
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STB007 | Questions | Cultivate Relationships
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STB007 | Questions | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze and respond to your questions and your responses. Some of the topics covered in the episode are how to find peace amidst chaos, living whole amidst a divorce, how to find contentment through singleness, and how do you start dating post-divorce.
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STB006 | Reading | Cultivate Relationships
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STB006 | Reading | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, we reminisce about what was "cool" when we were growing up. Also, we reveal our secret shame and a few books we recommend... and some we don't. We are also joined by a special guest, our dog, Lulu.
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STB005 | Ireland | Cultivate Relationships
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STB005 | Ireland | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, we discuss our time in Ireland along with our ministry fails and fact checks. Lacey also reveals how the lack of conviction in one's life leads to unnecessary pain.
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STB004 | Homeschool | Cultivate Relationships
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STB004 | Homeschool | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, we discuss homeschooling and how it took a global pandemic to get us to do it again. We also discuss colloquialisms, playing the lottery, hiding money in couches, and why even good habits can be bad for you.
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STB003 | Regrets | Cultivate Relationships
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STB003 | Regrets | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, we discuss our love of fish, the stomach flu, and an embarrassing encounter Nathan had with Pastor Mark Driscoll. Nathan also blows the whistle on Lacey — revealing a very dangerous driving issue she has. Be sure to click the "Respond" button to send us any questions or topics you want us to discuss relating to theology, life, relationships, or whatever else is on your mind. Thanks!
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STB002 | Censorship | Cultivate Relationships
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STB002 | Censorship | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, we defend our individual views of hotel key cards in a segment called, "Agree to Disagree". We also discuss why censorship is dangerous and how censorship within relationships can lead to immaturity.
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STB001 | Firsts | Cultivate Relationships
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STB001 | Firsts | Cultivate Relationships

In this episode, we discuss firsts (e.g., first appearances, first dates, and first kisses.). We also reveal our favorite and worst gifts, and present a surprise segment called, "Why Do I Care?" where we discuss why certain theological topics are important. The first important topic: Eschatology (aka, The Study of End Times). Enjoy!
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SHOOT THE BREEZE (PODCAST) | Cultivate Relationships
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SHOOT THE BREEZE (PODCAST) | Cultivate Relationships

Our podcast celebrates the messiness of life, relationships, and Christianity. Mostly, it is us shooting the breeze (sometimes with guests) while occasionally saying something important.

STB087 | BSE | Kingdom | Cultivate Relationships

5 months ago
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BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about the Kingdom of Heaven and its present reality in a Christian's life. They also reveal how the Hebrew Scriptures point to Jesus as the prophetic fulfillment of the Davidic Messianic King. *FACT CHECK* 40:25 - Psalm 38.6 not Psalm 89 - The Hebrew word translated "bent over" in Psalm 38.6 is the same word in 2 Samuel 38.18 translated "iniquity". However, the word in Psalm 38.18 translated as "iniquity" is a completely different Hebrew word than 2 Samuel 38.18 and means guilty of sin. Psalm 89 deals with the Messianic Davidic Kingdom and has no bearing on the word "iniquity" from 2 Samuel 7.14. However, is a worthwhile read regarding this study on Jesus and his Kingdom.

APPLICATION QUESTIONS
When is it most difficult for you to see God’s Kingdom as a current reality in your life? When is it most difficult for you to believe the enemy is disarmed?

ACTIVATION STEPS
Think of a family member, friend, or loved one going through a difficult circumstance. Ask the Holy Spirit: “In what way do You want me to bring Your Kingdom into this circumstance?” Then, over the next week, look for opportunities to do what the Holy Spirit is leading you to do.

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SHOW LINKS
• The Identity Guide:
https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-identity-guide/
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https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/
• Genesis 3 Teachings:
1) You Are God's Image & Likeness: https://rumble.com/v2jjhlm
2) Walking In Step with the Holy Spirit: https://rumble.com/v2jjm6i
3) You Are Important: https://rumble.com/v3oxm2p
• Bible Oddities:
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• Galatians Playlist:
https://rumble.com/playlists/LQ6jwwUgzjw
• Forgiveness Playlist:
https://rumble.com/playlists/fRimChMNK1M
• Website & Resources:
https://cultivaterelationships.com

00:00 Dad Jokes, Introduction, the Human's Design
16:56 Messianic Promises in Genesis
36:53 King & Kingdom Promises and The 5 Kingdoms of Daniel Explained
40:25 *FACT CHECK*
1:01:15 Matthew 13 Kingdom Parables Explained
1:34:13 Diminishing Darkness, Application Questions, & Activation

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