SHOOT THE BREEZE (PODCAST) | Cultivate Relationships

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 6.1-18. They discuss spiritual maturity, Christian generosity, and how the measure of our generosity directly impacts the generosity God demonstrates toward us. They also share how numbers-based evangelism is a fleshly, self-focused, approval-seeking false Gospel. APPLICATION QUESTIONS What do you use to measure your Christian maturity against others’? When is it most difficult for you to be generous with your: 1) time; 2) abilities; 3) money; 4) possessions with: 1) non-Christians; 2) Christians; 3) Christian/Ministry Leaders? How is living a Spirit-filled life amidst your job, friends, and family be a truer, more effective form of evangelism than simply telling people about the “Roman’s road” or praying a “sinner’s” prayer? Why might this be more difficult? ACTIVATION STEPS Ask the Holy Spirit to put on your mind 3 people (a non-Christian, Christian, and a Christian/ministry leader) that you are to intentionally care for and sacrificially be generous toward. Then, implement this over the next few days. DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • The Blessed Life, by Robert Morris: https://a.co/d/cDCMC4Y • The Spirituality of Fundraising: https://a.co/d/d7UD0wU • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Dad Jokes 4:27 Galatians 6.1-5 - Pt 1: Spiritual vs Unspiritual (Fleshly) 17:15 Galatians 6.1-5 - Pt 2: Spiritual vs Unspiritual (Fleshly) 28:33 Galatians 6.6-10: Christians Genersouly Care for People 43:55 Galatians 6.11-18: Numbers-Based Evangelism vs Exampling Jesus 1:02:36 Application & Activation

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 5.1-26. They discuss how faith in Jesus brings freedom from the Law and sin; while the Law only brings meaningless mutilation. They also contrast the fruit of living in the flesh with the Holy Spirit and living in the flesh with the Holy Spirit. APPLICATION QUESTIONS When or with whom is it most difficult for you to trust the Holy Spirit? Into what circumstances, relationships, or areas of your life have you not invited the Holy Spirit’s opinion? ACTIVATION STEPS Discuss with a family member, friend, or spouse the areas above. Develop a plan with that person to encourage and equip you to trust the Holy Spirit and live in agreement with how He designed you. DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • Gnosticism: https://rumble.com/v3zpwpa • Jesus Is Perfect Humanity: https://rumble.com/v2jexb0 • You Are God's Image & Likeness: https://rumble.com/v2jjhlm • Walking In Step with the Holy Spirit https://rumble.com/v2jjm6i • A Discussion About Jesus' Humanity https://rumble.com/v2ganne • A discussion about Doing What Jesus Did https://rumble.com/v2gdfju • UnLove Book https://www.lulu.com/spotlight/cultivaterelationships/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Dad Jokes 2:13 Galatians 5.1-12 - Pt 1: If Circumcision = Righteousness… Then Cut It All Off 27:57 Galatians 5.1-12 - Pt 2: If Circumcision = Righteousness… Then Cut It All Off 44:26 Galatians 5.13-21: Flesh - Spirit = Law → Unhealthy Fruit (Distorted Design) 1:09:45 Galatians 5.22-26: Flesh + Spirit = Freedom → Healthy Fruit (God’s Design) 1:20:00 Application & Activation

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 4.1-31. They discuss how the Law is immature and will (in 70 AD) melt away because the mature (Jesus) has come. They also discuss Paul's analogies of the Law (Hagar) and the Promise (Sarah). APPLICATION QUESTIONS Considering that the Law was fulfilled in Jesus along with the real destruction of its practices and rituals during the destruction of Jerusalem, why do we often read Scripture as a Law book for living (a list of dos and don’ts)? What concerns are there if we stopped looking at Scripture as a behavior manual and salvation as behavior modification? ACTIVATION STEPS What creative or new way might you try this week to connect with God that doesn’t involve a “study” of Scriptures? DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • The Identity Guide: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-identity-guide/ • The Freedom Booklet: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Dad Jokes 4:04 Galatians 4.1-11 - Pt 1: The Law Is Immaturity, Not Maturity -> When the Mature Came It "Melted" Away 16:07 Galatians 4.1-11 - Pt 2: The Law Is Immaturity, Not Maturity -> When the Mature Came It "Melted" Away 28:38 Galatians 4.12-20: Paul Appeals to Their Former Fondness For Him 36:46 Galatians 4.21-31: The Promise (Sarah) & The Law (Hagar) 48:53 Application & Activation

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 3.1-29. They discuss how the Law was not God's original design; but rather, it was a babysitter for the immature Israelites who didn't want a personal relationship with God. APPLICATION QUESTIONS In your relationships (i.e., parents, spouse, children, friends, siblings, etc.) when or with what issue is it easier to have rigid expectations rather than flexible adaptability? Why is this the case? What have been the outcomes in the relationship or issue because of these rigid expectations? What outcomes has someone’s rigid expectations produced in you? When might rigid expectations be appropriate? ACTIVATION STEPS What might the Holy Spirit be leading you to do this week to help bring resolution to the issue or reconciliation to the relationships you discussed above? DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • How NOT to Read the Bible Video Series: https://rumble.com/playlists/JuRb0etLd7g • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Dad Jokes 4:45 Galatians 3.1-14 - Pt 1: We’re Not Justified by the Law So We Don’t Live by the Law 24:30 Galatians 3.1-14 - Pt 2: We’re Not Justified by the Law So We Don’t Live by the Law 38:29 Galatians 3.15-18: The Promise (Faith) Is Not Cancelled by the Law (Works) 47:28 Galatians 3.19-29: The Babysitter Until the Promise was Fulfilled 1:11:58 Application & Activation

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 2.1-21. They discuss a timeline of Paul's life up until visiting Jerusalem a second time to deliver financial support. They also talk about how Paul had to confront Peter, Barnabas, and other Jewish Christians over their fear of being rejected by Jewish Christians from Jerusalem. APPLICATION QUESTIONS As a Christian, who in your life have you sought to impress or be accepted by, or not lose their favor or attention? How did you go about accomplishing this? What elements of your personality or behavior did you feel like you had to change for the person to accept you? Why did you want the person(s) approval? ACTIVATION STEPS Is there anyone you have put expectations on (i.e., things the person must do or change) for you to accept, forgive, or be in relationship with that person? Take some time this week to reach out to that person to apologize for putting on this person expectations. DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • Failure Series: https://cultivaterelationships.com/small-groups/series-2-failure/ • How To Apologize (Say, "I'm Sorry"): https://cultivaterelationships.com/small-group-videos/cwc-how-to-apologize/ • Assumptions & Expectations Series: https://cultivaterelationships.com/small-groups/series-3-assumptions/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Dad Jokes 4:48 Galatians & Acts Timeline 13:23 Galatians 2.1-10 - Paul's Jerusalem trip #2 and he submits to the Jerusalem Church leaders 43:03 Galatians 2.11-14 - Paul confronts the hypocrisy of Peter, Barnabas, and other Jewish Christians 59:15 Galatians 2.15-21 - Paul's thesis statement for the rest of his letter - Jesus + Anything = Nothing 1:13:12 Application & Activation

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 1.1-24. They discuss how Paul is not bashful about sharing his story of Jesus' redemption in his life. They also talk about the background, setting, and date of Galatians. APPLICATION QUESTIONS What aspects of your past do you withhold from people due to the shame or regret it makes you feel? How has God redeemed you from your past? Without talking about your past, how might people glorify God for your redemption without the context of your past? ACTIVATION STEPS If you have not done this, share your story with a family member, friend, or spouse. If you’ve already done this, share where God is currently transforming or redeeming you. DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • NASB Study Bible: https://a.co/d/9Mt0fQP • ESV Study Bible: https://a.co/d/9yzdSk4 • Hidden In Plain View: https://a.co/d/04tnAfO How (Not) To Read The Bible: https://a.co/d/0dZKrPl • Redating The New Testament: https://a.co/d/9Z8phbx • Rethinking The Dates Of The New Testament: https://a.co/d/dsj8k7r • The Apostle: A Life Of Paul: https://a.co/d/1GP0RVE • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Unspoken prayer requests, Nathan humbled 8:38 Recommended resources, New Testament timeline 29:19 Galatians 1.1-7 - author, audience, setting, the distorted Gospel 50:59 Galatians 1.7-14 - Paul's contrary life to his former religious life (Philippians 3.1-13) 1:11:32 Galatians 1.15-24 - predestination, Paul's trip to Arabia, Paul's discipleship 1:33:17 Application & Activation

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about a few of their favorite Bible oddities, "coincidences", and threads. While this episode may not have any specific application or activation, we hope it peaks your interest in exploring the literary genius that is the Scriptures. APPLICATION QUESTIONS What are some questions or confusing passages of Scripture that have perplexed you? What are your favorite Bible oddities? ACTIVATION STEPS Simply, begin reading the Scriptures. A great place to start is the Gospel of Luke and the book of Acts. These two writings, authored by Luke, will give you a foundation into who Jesus is while explaining some of the Hebrew Scriptures associated with his life, death, and resurrection. DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • Bible Tools & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Opening 2:43 Zombie Evangelists, Undesigned Coincidences 31:15 Saved By A Foreskin, The Brick Bible 42:10 Goliath & Golgatha 1:03:08 Giant Demon Babies, The Movie: Noah, The Movie: Exodus 1:24:25 Disappearing Sword Trick, Jesus is Hangry, Light Before Lights

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about how despair (depression) is the hopeless state in which we choose not release our circumstances and relationships to God — that is the Father’s good character, Jesus’ redemption, or the Holy Spirit’s empowerment. They share how depression holds on to our rights, desires, beliefs, and expectations of how we think a circumstance should work out or a person should behave. APPLICATION QUESTIONS When or with who do you seem to lack peace, feel a lack of focus and clarity, or feel a lack of resolution? With your answer to the previous question, how do you generally cope with these feelings (what do you do, where do you go, with whom do you spend time)? Control? Distract? Medicate? What achievement would make you feel successful? What circumstance would make you feel satisfied? Whose attention would make you feel significant? What OTHER factors have you dealt with or struggle with that contribute to your lack of hope or resolution? ACTIVATION STEPS Discuss the above questions with a trusted friend, family member, or spouse. Then, work through The Freedom Booklet to help you resolve the circumstance or the person’s behavior that has make you lack peace, feel a lack of focus or clarity, or where you feel a lack of resolution? DID WE USE YOUR JOKE? Email us by clicking the following link: https://cultivaterelationships.com/contact Be sure to include in your email: • your name • mailing address • which episode • specify the gift you want SHOW LINKS • Nefarious Movie: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B0BZSJ46KZ/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_r • The Identity Guide: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-identity-guide/ • The Habit Tree: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-habit-tree-worksheet/ • The Freedom Booklet: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Opening 1:56 Cain - the first self-fulfilling prophet of despair 21:11 2 Corinthians 4.7-10 and paralyzed and performance depression 52:13 Performance depression 1:14:10 Ways we prolong and exacerbate depression 1:43:40 Application & Activation

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about anger and how it is a behavior — words or actions — toward someone or something as a result of negative feelings being triggered in our hearts. They discuss how unhealthy anger (either internal ‘smolderer’ or external ‘exploder’) is a behavioral reaction to the belief that our satisfaction, security, or safety is being infringed upon. This belief, and ensuing behavior, hinders our own peace of mind and infringes upon others’ freedom. APPLICATION QUESTIONS Who have you yet to forgive and release to God? What desired outcomes of negative or uncomfortable circumstances and relationships have you yet to release to God? ACTIVATION STEPS Discuss the above questions with a trusted friend, family member, or spouse. Be sure to address when, how, or why you answered how you did. Then, work through The Freedom Booklet to help you resolve times you have felt unsafe, unloved, uncared for, or out of control. SHOW LINKS • The Identity Guide: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-identity-guide/ • The Freedom Booklet: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Opening 7:04 Anger & Compassion - Ephesians 4.26-32 27:09 Smoldering Anger 48:24 Exploding Anger 1:09:40 Jesus righteous anger and God's kindness 1:27:59 Application & Activation

BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about rejection and how it's a belief that our acceptance (or acceptability) is dependent upon what we do, what we produce, or how we behave. They also discuss how this belief hinders peace of mind and confidence in who God created us to be and what He designed us to do. APPLICATIONS QUESTIONS What has been your most painful experience of feeling insignificant or rejected? Who was the person(s) involved? In light of your answer to the previous questions: (1) How have you been affected? (2) How has your relationship with others been affected? (3) How has your relationship with Jesus been affected? ACTIVATION STEPS Take The Identity Guide and read through it, out loud, twice a day for the next week. Discuss the above questions with a trusted friend, family member, or spouse. Be sure to address when, how, or why you answered how you did. Then, when you will work through The Freedom Booklet to help you resolve areas of rejection in your heart and mind. SHOW LINKS • Expectations - Small Group Videos: https://cultivaterelationships.com/small-groups/series-3-assumptions/ • Bible Tools: https://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/ • The Identity Guide: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-identity-guide/ • The Freedom Booklet: https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/ • Website & Resources: https://cultivaterelationships.com 00:00 Opening 4:31 Built up by significance, not worn down by rejection 25:55 Biblical examples of rejection. 48:30 Flavors of feeling rejected 1:10:07 3 foundational reasons we believe we are rejected. 1:32:29 Abide in Jesus' real, timely, and personal word for your life. 1:45:07 Application & Activation