The Changing Roles in a Narcissistic Family
Narcissistic people often assign roles to people in their lives as a means of fulfilling their own emotional needs and maintaining control over their relationships. This includes in their own families.
These roles, which include the Golden Child, the Scapegoat, and the Enabler and Hero Child can undergo transformation over time due to various factors such as personal growth, changing family dynamics, and external influences
00:00 Intro
00:33 Family Roles
03:27 Purpose of Roles
05:13 Shifting Roles
08:24 Conclusion
#narcissisticfamily #narcissisticparent #mentalhealth
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Characteristics of Narcissism: Envy and Jealousy
The jealousy displayed by narcissistic people is often rooted in their need for validation, fear of losing their perceived superiority, and an inability to empathise with others.
This video looks at the world of narcissism to uncover the roots of their intense envy and jealousy. From their fragile self-esteem to their insatiable need for admiration and the factors that contribute to their jealous and envious nature. Looking also at how these emotions manifest in their relationships and interactions with others at work, with friends and partners and on social media.
#narcissistrelationship #narcissism #mentalhealth
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Resilience and Confidence Building
We all have inner strengths and resources we sometimes don't recognise in ourselves. In this livestream I look at ways to help identify and build on them to help improve confidence and resilience for personal growth.
#mentalhealth #resilience #selfconfidence
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Recognising and Addressing Cognitive Dissonance
Cognitive dissonance is a psychological phenomenon first proposed by Leon festinger. It occurs when individuals hold conflicting beliefs, attitudes, or behaviours, leading to feelings of discomfort and internal conflict.
This video looks at some ways to help identify and address it.
#cognitivedissonance #mentalhealth
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Cognitive Dissonance: The Conflict Within
Cognitive dissonance is a psychological phenomenon that occurs when individuals hold conflicting beliefs, attitudes, or behaviours, leading to feelings of discomfort and internal conflict.
First proposed by Leon Festinger in 1957, cognitive dissonance theory has since become a significant aspect of social psychology, shedding light on how people cope with inconsistencies in their thoughts and actions.
Victims of abusive relationships often experience cognitive dissonance due to the conflicting beliefs and emotions they encounter within the context of the abusive dynamic.
#cognitivedissonance #mentalhealth
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The Power of Empathy
Empathy is not just understanding and being able to resonate with how others feel. There are different kinds of empathy, from cognitive, effective, compassionate, somatic and dark empathy.
As much as empathy is an important aspect of emotional intelligence, it can also be exploited by others - so also looking at how empathy with boundaries can be a powerful self defence mechanism.
Looking also at the 'super empath'
#empathy #superempath #boundaries
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Narcissists and Criticism
Short clip from the video series looking at different characteristics of narcissism. https://youtu.be/4k9B8EhqE28 Why narcissistic people can be highly resistant or highly sensitive to criticism.
#narcissism #criticism
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Understanding Narcissism: Resistance to Criticism
At the core of narcissism lies a fragile self-esteem. Criticism, whether perceived or genuine, can threaten to expose their vulnerability. As a defence mechanism, they tend to reject, deny, or dismiss any form of criticism to preserve their self-image as infallible.
Being highly resistant to criticism is often associated with grandiose narcissism, whereas being highly sensitive to criticism if often associated with covert narcissism.
This video looks at some of the situations where narcissistic people can be, or feel criticised, such as in the workplace, in families, in personal relationships and on social media, and gives examples of common reactions and the reasons behind those reactions.
Other videos in this series:
The disagreeable nature of narcissism https://youtu.be/dmNEbvJrYjQ
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Unravelling the Hierarchy of Needs
Using Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs in the recovery from abuse can provide a helpful framework for understanding and addressing the various aspects of healing and growth. Maslow's Hierarchy suggests that individuals must meet certain fundamental needs before they can focus on higher-level needs and self-actualization.
#maslow #recoveryfromabuse #mentalhealth
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Echoism: The Opposite of Narcissism?
Echoism is a term used to describe a personality trait or pattern of behavior characterised by a tendency to minimise one's own needs, desires, and opinions while focusing excessively on the needs and desires of others. It is often seen as the opposite or counterpart to narcissism.
This term "echoism" was coined by Dr. Craig Malkin, who proposed that echoism represents the opposite end of the spectrum from narcissism. While narcissism involves an excessive focus on oneself and a need for admiration, echoism involves an excessive focus on others and a lack of assertiveness or self-identity.
Common traits include low assertiveness, poor boundaries and always putting the needs of others first.
Dr Malkin is the author of 'Rethinking Narcissism', and provides more information on echoism on his YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@UC9X9sdn_4JtZxqIoGA9Xnkg
#echoism #mentalhealth #relationships
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Why Narcissists are so Disagreeable
Narcissism is characterised by an inflated sense of self-worth, a lack of empathy and a constant need for admiration, which can lead individuals down a path of disagreeable behaviour. From disregarding differing opinions to exploiting others for personal gain, these behaviours can leave a lasting impact on those around them.
This video looks at the characteristic traits that contribute to the disagreeable nature of narcissism. From grandiosity and arrogance to a lack of empathy and emotional manipulation, and the behavioural patterns that make interactions with narcissists challenging and draining.
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Is there a Healthy Level of Narcissism and Echoism?
There can a healthy level of narcissism, sometimes referred to as Adaptive Narcissism. It refers to having a moderate level of self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-focus without crossing into pathological or harmful behaviour.
Echoism is a term used to describe a personality trait or pattern of behaviour characterised by a tendency to minimise one's own needs, desires, and opinions while focusing excessively on the needs and desires of others. It is often seen as the opposite or counterpart to narcissism.
In this livestream I'll be looking at finding a balance between the two in order to grow and move forward. Hope to see you then.
#echoism #narcissism
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Munchausen By Proxy: A Complex Form of Abuse
Munchausen by Proxy, also known as Factitious Disorder Imposed on Another, is a psychological condition in which a caregiver, typically a parent, fabricates or induces illness in a dependent, often their own child. It can be a well disguised yet deeply disturbing and complex form of abuse.
This video outlines some of the common indicators and motivations associated with Munchausen by Proxy
#munchausenbyproxy #fictitiousdisorder #abuse
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Twelve Signs of a Sadistic Partner: Unmasking a Malignant Narcissist
Sadism is characterised by having a desire to inflict pain and misery on others for pleasure or to control and dominate. Alongside psychopathy, narcissism and Machiavellianism, sadism is the fourth part of The Dark Tetrad.
Through examples and insights this video outlines looks at the key characteristics of sadistic side of the dark personality, and how a sadistic narcissist operates within a relationship, their manipulation techniques, gaslighting, parental alienation and abuse. Looking also a their dark empathy, enjoyment of others' suffering, and insatiable thirst for power and control at any cost.
00:00 Intro
01:35 Signs of a sadistic partner
11:15 Conclusion
Explosive Sadism https://youtu.be/7Sysa-lB5Fs
Tyrannical Sadism https://youtu.be/8Fs263MajHQ
Enforcing Sadism https://youtu.be/clRlcEgSBv8
Spineless Sadism https://youtu.be/KDvYwHxbCCM
Sadistic Personality https://youtu.be/dna9PWLo2v0
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12 Irrational Beliefs that can Hold You Back
Human beings are prone to developing irrational, limiting beliefs, which often lead to distorted perceptions of reality and hinder personal growth. These irrational beliefs, identified by psychologist Albert Ellis, shed light on the faulty thinking patterns that can negatively impact our lives.
By examining these twelve irrational beliefs, we can recognise the fallacious thinking patterns that can hinder personal development and well-being. Awareness of these beliefs is the first step towards challenging and replacing them with rational and empowering perspectives. By cultivating a more realistic and adaptive mindset, individuals can navigate life's challenges more effectively and experience greater personal growth and fulfilment and improve overall mental health.
Looking at the beliefs from a general perspective, the perspective of having been in a narcissistic relationship, as well as how they might apply to a narcissistic person.
#recoveryfromabuse #recoveryforlife #narcissistrelationship
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The Hidden Agenda Behind Narcissistic Compassion
Narcissistic compassion is a manipulative tactic employed by individuals with narcissistic traits or narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). While it may initially appear as genuine empathy and care for others, it generally serves as a means to fulfil their own self-interests.
Have you ever questioned the sincerity of someone's compassion or wondered if there's more to their seemingly kind acts? This video looks at the the disturbing ways in which narcissists exploit compassion to gain control, validation, and personal benefits and how it differs from altruistic narcissism.
From conditional support to emotional manipulation, shedding light on the various techniques narcissists employ to maintain their self-image and exert dominance over others. Looking also at how dark personality types use compassion as a means to justify their abuse of others.
00:00 Intro
00:48 Altruistic vs compassionate
02:09 Examples of narcissistic compassion
06:13 Dark Personality
06:59 Using compassion to abuse
10:44 Conclusion
#narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissistrelationship #compassion
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The Effects of Loveless and Sexless Relationships
This video is part three in a series looking at intimacy in relationships. The absence of love and physical intimacy can erode emotional connection, breed feelings of loneliness, and create a sense of dissatisfaction and frustration.
This video looks at the toll that a loveless and sexless relationship can take on self-esteem, self-worth, and overall well-being, such as emotional distress, feelings of rejection, and how the lack of intimacy can contribute to a cycle of disconnection, communication breakdowns, and potential conflict.
#intimacy #sexlessmarriage #loveless
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Understanding Why Narcissists Fear Yet Control Intimacy
Despite their desire for admiration and control, narcissists struggle with emotional and sexual intimacy. This video explores the characteristics of narcissism that contribute to this fear, including their lack of empathy, self-centerdness, and fear of vulnerability.
Also looking at how narcissists manipulate and control intimacy to maintain their desired power dynamic through tactics such as emotional manipulation, withholding affection, and using sex as a means of punishment or reward using analysis and real-life examples to shed light on the complex interplay between narcissism and intimacy.
Part One: The Importance of Intimacy
https://youtu.be/z-w-ZOhMuJU
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Unlocking Your Potential: Harnessing the Power of Self-Awareness for Personal Growth
Self-awareness serves as the foundation for personal development, allowing you to gain a deep understanding of your thoughts, emotions, strengths, weaknesses, and motivations. By developing this crucial skill, you can make conscious choices, enhance your relationships, improve decision-making, and unlock your full potential.
During the livestream, we'll discuss practical strategies and effective techniques to cultivate self-awareness. You'll gain valuable insights on how to observe your thoughts and emotions without judgment, identify patterns and triggers, and develop a greater understanding of your values, beliefs, and goals.
Self awareness allows us to learn how to identify your strengths and recognise areas for growth, recognise self-limiting beliefs, and unleash your untapped abilities, and utilise them to your advantage.
Hope to see you then
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Why Narcissists Won't Say Your Name
A puzzling behaviour commonly observed in interactions with narcissists is their refusal to use your name. This video outlines the complex psychological motivations behind this silent manipulation tactic and how it relates to self-centeredness, control dynamics, creating emotional distance and the devaluation of others.
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#narcissistic #narcissism #saymyname
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Emotional Regulation and Building Resilience in Recovery from Toxic Relationships
In this livestream I'll be discussing emotional regulation and building resilience.
Emotional regulation refers to the process of effectively managing emotional experiences, expressions, and responses. It involves the ability to recognise, understand, and control one's emotions in a way that promotes well-being and healthy functioning. Emotional regulation encompasses various aspects, including the awareness of emotions, the ability to tolerate and manage distress, and the skill to respond to emotions in a socially appropriate manner.
Resilience refers to the ability to adapt and bounce back in the face of adversity, challenges, or stressful situations. It is the capacity to recover and regain one's equilibrium after experiencing setbacks, failures, or difficult circumstances. Resilience is not a fixed trait but rather a skill that can be developed and strengthened over time.
#emotionalregulation #resilience #
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Dating Later In Life: It's Never Too Late To Find Love
Dating in later life presents its own unique set of challenges and advantages. While there may be obstacles to overcome, such as limited opportunities and health concerns, the advantages include self-awareness, emotional maturity, shared interests, and a genuine appreciation for companionship.
With an open mind and a willingness to explore new possibilities, dating in later life can lead to fulfilling and meaningful relationships.
#dating #romance #datingwhenolder
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Ten Signs of Narcissistic Neglect
This videos discusses the difference between narcissistic abuse and neglect, how narcissists can abuse through neglect, an some of the common kinds of neglect that can take place in a narcissistic relationship.
#narcissisticneglect #neglectfulnarcissist #narcissistrelationship
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Handling Difficult Conversations
There's never a good time for a difficult conversation. Sometimes it feels like the easiest thing to do is to back down. Some people rely on this and intimidate and interrogate to get their own way. In this live stream I'll be discussing the art of having a difficult conversation, being assertive without being aggressive and using active listening. Hope to see you then.
The book I mentioned during the livestream is:
‘How to Stand Up for Yourself’ Paul Hauck
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