Darren F Magee

Short clip from the video series looking at different characteristics of narcissism. https://youtu.be/4k9B8EhqE28 Why narcissistic people can be highly resistant or highly sensitive to criticism. #narcissism #criticism

At the core of narcissism lies a fragile self-esteem. Criticism, whether perceived or genuine, can threaten to expose their vulnerability. As a defence mechanism, they tend to reject, deny, or dismiss any form of criticism to preserve their self-image as infallible. Being highly resistant to criticism is often associated with grandiose narcissism, whereas being highly sensitive to criticism if often associated with covert narcissism. This video looks at some of the situations where narcissistic people can be, or feel criticised, such as in the workplace, in families, in personal relationships and on social media, and gives examples of common reactions and the reasons behind those reactions. Other videos in this series: The disagreeable nature of narcissism https://youtu.be/dmNEbvJrYjQ Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos. If you found this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee #narcissisticbehavior #criticism #understandingnarcissism

Using Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs in the recovery from abuse can provide a helpful framework for understanding and addressing the various aspects of healing and growth. Maslow's Hierarchy suggests that individuals must meet certain fundamental needs before they can focus on higher-level needs and self-actualization. #maslow #recoveryfromabuse #mentalhealth

Echoism is a term used to describe a personality trait or pattern of behavior characterised by a tendency to minimise one's own needs, desires, and opinions while focusing excessively on the needs and desires of others. It is often seen as the opposite or counterpart to narcissism. This term "echoism" was coined by Dr. Craig Malkin, who proposed that echoism represents the opposite end of the spectrum from narcissism. While narcissism involves an excessive focus on oneself and a need for admiration, echoism involves an excessive focus on others and a lack of assertiveness or self-identity. Common traits include low assertiveness, poor boundaries and always putting the needs of others first. Dr Malkin is the author of 'Rethinking Narcissism', and provides more information on echoism on his YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@UC9X9sdn_4JtZxqIoGA9Xnkg #echoism #mentalhealth #relationships

Narcissism is characterised by an inflated sense of self-worth, a lack of empathy and a constant need for admiration, which can lead individuals down a path of disagreeable behaviour. From disregarding differing opinions to exploiting others for personal gain, these behaviours can leave a lasting impact on those around them. This video looks at the characteristic traits that contribute to the disagreeable nature of narcissism. From grandiosity and arrogance to a lack of empathy and emotional manipulation, and the behavioural patterns that make interactions with narcissists challenging and draining. Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos. If you found this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee #disagreeableness #narcissistrelationship #understandingnarcissism

There can a healthy level of narcissism, sometimes referred to as Adaptive Narcissism. It refers to having a moderate level of self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-focus without crossing into pathological or harmful behaviour. Echoism is a term used to describe a personality trait or pattern of behaviour characterised by a tendency to minimise one's own needs, desires, and opinions while focusing excessively on the needs and desires of others. It is often seen as the opposite or counterpart to narcissism. In this livestream I'll be looking at finding a balance between the two in order to grow and move forward. Hope to see you then. #echoism #narcissism

Munchausen by Proxy, also known as Factitious Disorder Imposed on Another, is a psychological condition in which a caregiver, typically a parent, fabricates or induces illness in a dependent, often their own child. It can be a well disguised yet deeply disturbing and complex form of abuse. This video outlines some of the common indicators and motivations associated with Munchausen by Proxy #munchausenbyproxy #fictitiousdisorder #abuse

Sadism is characterised by having a desire to inflict pain and misery on others for pleasure or to control and dominate. Alongside psychopathy, narcissism and Machiavellianism, sadism is the fourth part of The Dark Tetrad. Through examples and insights this video outlines looks at the key characteristics of sadistic side of the dark personality, and how a sadistic narcissist operates within a relationship, their manipulation techniques, gaslighting, parental alienation and abuse. Looking also a their dark empathy, enjoyment of others' suffering, and insatiable thirst for power and control at any cost. 00:00 Intro 01:35 Signs of a sadistic partner 11:15 Conclusion Explosive Sadism https://youtu.be/7Sysa-lB5Fs Tyrannical Sadism https://youtu.be/8Fs263MajHQ Enforcing Sadism https://youtu.be/clRlcEgSBv8 Spineless Sadism https://youtu.be/KDvYwHxbCCM Sadistic Personality https://youtu.be/dna9PWLo2v0 Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos. If you found this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee #sadisticnarcissist #narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissistic

Human beings are prone to developing irrational, limiting beliefs, which often lead to distorted perceptions of reality and hinder personal growth. These irrational beliefs, identified by psychologist Albert Ellis, shed light on the faulty thinking patterns that can negatively impact our lives. By examining these twelve irrational beliefs, we can recognise the fallacious thinking patterns that can hinder personal development and well-being. Awareness of these beliefs is the first step towards challenging and replacing them with rational and empowering perspectives. By cultivating a more realistic and adaptive mindset, individuals can navigate life's challenges more effectively and experience greater personal growth and fulfilment and improve overall mental health. Looking at the beliefs from a general perspective, the perspective of having been in a narcissistic relationship, as well as how they might apply to a narcissistic person. #recoveryfromabuse #recoveryforlife #narcissistrelationship

Narcissistic compassion is a manipulative tactic employed by individuals with narcissistic traits or narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). While it may initially appear as genuine empathy and care for others, it generally serves as a means to fulfil their own self-interests. Have you ever questioned the sincerity of someone's compassion or wondered if there's more to their seemingly kind acts? This video looks at the the disturbing ways in which narcissists exploit compassion to gain control, validation, and personal benefits and how it differs from altruistic narcissism. From conditional support to emotional manipulation, shedding light on the various techniques narcissists employ to maintain their self-image and exert dominance over others. Looking also at how dark personality types use compassion as a means to justify their abuse of others. 00:00 Intro 00:48 Altruistic vs compassionate 02:09 Examples of narcissistic compassion 06:13 Dark Personality 06:59 Using compassion to abuse 10:44 Conclusion #narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissistrelationship #compassion

This video is part three in a series looking at intimacy in relationships. The absence of love and physical intimacy can erode emotional connection, breed feelings of loneliness, and create a sense of dissatisfaction and frustration. This video looks at the toll that a loveless and sexless relationship can take on self-esteem, self-worth, and overall well-being, such as emotional distress, feelings of rejection, and how the lack of intimacy can contribute to a cycle of disconnection, communication breakdowns, and potential conflict. #intimacy #sexlessmarriage #loveless

Despite their desire for admiration and control, narcissists struggle with emotional and sexual intimacy. This video explores the characteristics of narcissism that contribute to this fear, including their lack of empathy, self-centerdness, and fear of vulnerability. Also looking at how narcissists manipulate and control intimacy to maintain their desired power dynamic through tactics such as emotional manipulation, withholding affection, and using sex as a means of punishment or reward using analysis and real-life examples to shed light on the complex interplay between narcissism and intimacy. Part One: The Importance of Intimacy https://youtu.be/z-w-ZOhMuJU Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos. If you found this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee #narcissistrelationship #intimacy #narcissisticabuseawareness

Self-awareness serves as the foundation for personal development, allowing you to gain a deep understanding of your thoughts, emotions, strengths, weaknesses, and motivations. By developing this crucial skill, you can make conscious choices, enhance your relationships, improve decision-making, and unlock your full potential. During the livestream, we'll discuss practical strategies and effective techniques to cultivate self-awareness. You'll gain valuable insights on how to observe your thoughts and emotions without judgment, identify patterns and triggers, and develop a greater understanding of your values, beliefs, and goals. Self awareness allows us to learn how to identify your strengths and recognise areas for growth, recognise self-limiting beliefs, and unleash your untapped abilities, and utilise them to your advantage. Hope to see you then

A puzzling behaviour commonly observed in interactions with narcissists is their refusal to use your name. This video outlines the complex psychological motivations behind this silent manipulation tactic and how it relates to self-centeredness, control dynamics, creating emotional distance and the devaluation of others. Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos. If you found this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee #narcissistic #narcissism #saymyname

In this livestream I'll be discussing emotional regulation and building resilience. Emotional regulation refers to the process of effectively managing emotional experiences, expressions, and responses. It involves the ability to recognise, understand, and control one's emotions in a way that promotes well-being and healthy functioning. Emotional regulation encompasses various aspects, including the awareness of emotions, the ability to tolerate and manage distress, and the skill to respond to emotions in a socially appropriate manner. Resilience refers to the ability to adapt and bounce back in the face of adversity, challenges, or stressful situations. It is the capacity to recover and regain one's equilibrium after experiencing setbacks, failures, or difficult circumstances. Resilience is not a fixed trait but rather a skill that can be developed and strengthened over time. #emotionalregulation #resilience #

Dating in later life presents its own unique set of challenges and advantages. While there may be obstacles to overcome, such as limited opportunities and health concerns, the advantages include self-awareness, emotional maturity, shared interests, and a genuine appreciation for companionship. With an open mind and a willingness to explore new possibilities, dating in later life can lead to fulfilling and meaningful relationships. #dating #romance #datingwhenolder

This videos discusses the difference between narcissistic abuse and neglect, how narcissists can abuse through neglect, an some of the common kinds of neglect that can take place in a narcissistic relationship. #narcissisticneglect #neglectfulnarcissist #narcissistrelationship

There's never a good time for a difficult conversation. Sometimes it feels like the easiest thing to do is to back down. Some people rely on this and intimidate and interrogate to get their own way. In this live stream I'll be discussing the art of having a difficult conversation, being assertive without being aggressive and using active listening. Hope to see you then. The book I mentioned during the livestream is: ‘How to Stand Up for Yourself’ Paul Hauck

This video addresses the questions around the relationship between a parent and a narcissistic adult child, the family conflict and triangulation with other siblings. Looking also at elder abuse and manipulation. Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos in the comment section. If you found this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee #narcissisticfamily #narcissisticson #narcissistcdaughter

Letting go can be one of the most difficult things anyone can do if they have been used and abused in a relationship. It can also be one of the most liberating. In this live stream I'll be outlining the concept of 'letting go', looking what it means, what it doesn't mean, some of the obstacles to healing and some ideas that can help with recovery from narcissistic and toxic relationships. Hope to see you then. #lettinggo #recoveryfromabuse #narcissisticabuseawareness

This video outline nine different signs that a workplace is toxic. Signs including constant criticism, micro managing, workplace cliques, poor communication and ostracising. This can lead to demotivated staff. Also looking at some of the affects of workplace bullying and harassment on someone's mental health and work life balance. #toxicworkplace #toxicworkenvironment #toxicboss

This video looks at the concept of why many narcissistic people don't seem to listen to others, even those closest to them. Through maladaptive defence mechanisms aimed at protecting a false and fragile sense of self many narcissists never seem to listen to the point where they seem to reject reality. They often display poor listening skills, gaslight others, engage in reactive abuse and don't accept responsibility for their actions. However there is also an other element of listening, more associated with dark personality types and dark empaths where they do listen, but not quite the the way or for the reasons you might think. Nine Signs of the Dark Personality https://youtu.be/_z4uKZ5h6yw Internet Trolls and Dark Personality https://youtu.be/elkimw5TRQs The Dark Triad https://youtu.be/ipbW6XbYqUc The Dark Empath https://youtu.be/wChB6LLpLdA The Strawman Fallacy https://youtu.be/oTqITHKt_nU Narcissism, Dark Triad, And Victim Complex https://youtu.be/kYd6g4soLOs Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos in the comment section. If you found this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee #narcissisticabuseawareness #darkempath #darkpersonality

Covert abuse tends to be more 'under the radar' than overt abuse and manipulation. It has victims doubt their own sanity, uncertain if they are being abused and sometimes question if in fact they are being abusive. This video outlines how covert narcissists confuse, gaslight and abuse their victims through being passive aggressive and from a position of helplessness and victimhood. How Narcissists Threaten https://youtu.be/ROkr8I4gIF8 How Covert Narcissists Manipulate https://youtu.be/UTDics5IeDs Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos in the comment section. If you found this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee #narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissism #covertnarcissist

Join me at 8pm UK time on the 16th April where I'll be discussing feelings of guilt, rumination, unfinished business and limerence, and some ideas to help break free after a narcissistic relationship to help you move forward towards a healthier happier future. Hope to see you then. #narcissisticabuserecovery #recoveryfromabuse #narcissisticabuseawareness

Physical abuse often occurs in cycles, and alongside other forms of abuse and coercion. This video outlines some common forms of physical abuse and some hidden signs of it. Other Types of Abuse: Emotional Abuse https://youtu.be/9KiReTScQxM Psychological Abuse https://youtu.be/uSg-jT0bn4o Financial Abuse https://youtu.be/IajHlGw_jTo Spiritual Abuse https://youtu.be/F_IPe-mv0gM Affects of Abuse: Self Gaslighting https://youtu.be/gDIdYhzd870 Reactive Abuse https://youtu.be/0wwswrPGdP0 Triangulation https://youtu.be/e8rmJbMCtno How Narcissists Threaten https://youtu.be/ROkr8I4gIF8 How Covert Narcissists Manipulate https://youtu.be/UTDics5IeDs If you need support for being abused there are some helpful links below. https://mensallianceni.co.uk/ https://belfastwomensaid.org.uk/ https://www.gov.uk/guidance/domestic-abuse-how-to-get-help https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.thehotline.org/ https://au.reachout.com/articles/domestic-violence-support Please feel free to suggest any topics you might like me to cover in future videos in the comment section. If you found this video interesting please consider supporting me on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dfmagee #domesticabuseawareness #domesticviolence #abusiverelationship