BPDBreakupandCodependencyRecovery

BPD Breakup Getting Your Ex Back - Dream Come True or Nightmare Revisited? BPD Relationship breakup and recycling of relationships getting your BPD Ex back BPD breakup after BPD breakup - how can that be healthy or working because the same cycles keep being experienced and add to your pain more and more each time. What Codependents really need to understand. Understanding BPD more and more is not going to make your relationship healthy or sustainable. Do you feel like if this try doesn't work, you'll be okay? Codependent denial coupled with on/off breakup/relationship cycles hurts you more and more and strengthens the very Codependency that you need to heal from. https://ajmahari.ca/sessions - Sessions with A.J. Mahari https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Blog - Contact - Ebooks & More https://bpdbreakups.com - Blog & Podcasts #BPDBreakup #GetBPDExBack #ajmahari Source: https://www.spreaker.com/user/13416281/bpd-breakup-getting-your-ex-back-dream-c

BPD Risky Sexual Behavior and Impulsivity *New Service:* Ask A.J. now available and A.J.'s Expert response(s) will be in Audio for you: https://ajmahari.ca/2023/01/ask-a-j-mahari/ Ask AJ 1 Question $59.99 or 4 - $99.99 - Have a few questions and can't afford sessions. Now you can get the benefit of A.J.'s expertise in a response and follow up to 1 question or 4 questions depending what you purchase Borderline Risky Sexual behavior and bpd impulsivity is a central and core part of BPD for many but now all. Impulsivity acted out through risky sexual behavior means partners being cheated on. BPD monkey branching or many with BPD seeking to re-engage sexually with an Ex or more than one Ex. Why do people with BPD cheat (many often) as you are split to devaluation blamed for how the Borderline feels often ghosted or discarded because the Borderline is not consciously aware of why they feel what they feel with all the triggered emotional dysregulation they cannot (untreated) manage or cope with at all? Sessions with A.J. - https://ajmahari.ca/sessions https://ajmahari.ca - Blog & Podcasts - Courses -Ebooks-Ask A.J. https://bpdbreakups.com #BPDRiskySex #BPDImpulsivity #ajmahari Source: https://www.spreaker.com/user/13416281/bpd-risky-sexual-behavior-and-impulsivit

BPD Breakup & Recycling Relationships is extremely common for people with Codependency. Recycling a BPD relationship rarely if ever works out and for the codependent it strengthens the trauma bond. That’s taking you in the opposite direction of healing and leaving you stuck in the on/off cycles that not only speed up - the person with BPD splits you to devaluation faster and faster ghosting & discarding you sooner and sooner. Do you want to break the trauma bond, find yourself again, and get into a healing and recover process? I have 33 years experience working with clients and helping them get off the BPD recycling roller coaster and find themselves again! https://ajmahari.ca #bpdbreakup #wantBPDExBack #traumabonds #ajmahari

BPD Breakup Limbo & Codependent Compulsions To Pursue BPD Ex BPD Breakup LImbo and Codependent compulsions to pursue and get your BPD Ex back, to recycle the relationship in painful repeating ways that keep you stuck in limbo. Are you in this on/off place of can't live with the Borderline but feel like you can't live without them? https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog https://ajmahari.com - Online Store - Ebooks & more https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcasts & Blog #BPDBreakupLimbo #Codependency #ajmahari

BPD Relationship Breakup But ... Have you experienced one or many more BPD relationship breakup(s) BUT ... Is your relationship over? Are you no contact? Or waiting for a hoover? Reverse hoovering? Ruminating constantly? Recycled a BPD relationship once, few times, for years? What do you need to get off this roller coaster of recycling and get to an actual breakup working with someone to help you actually heal to move on? https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog - Ebooks & Audios + https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcasts & Blog #BPDBreakup #BPDRelationshirecycles #ajmahari

Borderline Red Herring Fallacy The Borderline Red Herring Fallacy is experienced by anyone close to a person with Borderline Personality. Especially BPD partners, on/off recycling relationships, BPD Hoovers or your reverse hoovers. What does the Borderline Red Herring Fallacy have to do with Codependents? How does it effect you? Do Codependents also experience their own red herring fallacy? https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog - Ebooks, Audios & more https://ajmahari.ca/2023/01/ask-a-j-mahari/ Ask A.J. 1 Question $59.99 or 4 - $99.99 https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcasts & Blog #BorderlineRedHerringFallacy #ajmahari #Codependents

BPD NPD Relationship Breakup or BPD NPD Family Member or Friend? Ask A J. Mahari - A New Service BPD NPD relationship or relationship breakup, Family Member, Favorite person of BPD or NPD or friend of someone with BPD or NPD or perhaps co-morbidly both I have a new service that I've been doing for a month and a half or so now "Ask A.J. Mahari" wherein you can purchase 1 question for $59.99 to get an in depth expert response to and 1 follow up or 4 questions for $99.99 with my responses and your one follow up (each or all together) and my one follow up after that. This service has been going very well and is designed to offer more in depth help and information to people who can't afford a session or just want to ask a question or questions. This is not a replacement for one-to-one sessions with me but many have found it very helpful already. https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog - Ebooks & Audios - Courses Ask A.J. 1 Questions $59.99 or 4 $99.99 https://ajmahari.ca/2023/01/ask-a-j-mahari/ https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcasts & Blog #BPDNPDBreakup #BPDRelationships #AskAJMahari

BPD Relationship Impossibility In Polyamory or Monogamy BPD relationship impossibility exists in the dynamics of polyamory or monogamy. People with all the patterns of BPD undiagnosed, or diagnosed both groups untreated are not emotionally capable of anything that even remotely resembles a healthy relationship. While Polyamory and Monogamy have fundamental differences, when there is a person with untreated BPD in any relationship the dynamics at core collapse from the relational efforts of the person with BPD, regardless of relationship types. People with BPD lack a self and do not have the emotional maturity (untreated) for any type of healthy relationship. https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog https://ajmahari.ca/2023/01/ask-a-j-mahari/ - Ask A.J. 1 Question $59.99 or 4 - $99.99 https://bpdbreakups.com - Blog & Podcasts #BPDBreakupPolyamory #BPDBreakupMonogamy #ajmahari Source: https://www.spreaker.com/user/13416281/bpd-relationship-impossibility-in-polyam

BPD Partner or Ex Not Diagnosed? - Wanting BPD Ex Back & Codependent Repetition Compulsions BPD partner or Ex diagnosed with BPD or not you know what you are dealing with. Do you need to know 100% for sure? NO! The red flags and stop signs are in all the patterns of behavior, instability, inconsistency, push/pull, accusations, manipulations, and more. Codependent (unconscious) repetition compulsions and the wanting the Ex is not an addiction - it's the childhood woundedness of your Codependency that you need to address in therapy to stop your self-abandonment. https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog - Ebooks & Audios & More Ask A.J. 1 Questions $59.99 or 4 $99.99 https://ajmahari.ca/2023/01/ask-a-j-mahari/ https://bpdbreakups.com #BPDEx #Codependency #ajmahari 0:00 BPD Patterns Diagnosed or Not? 1:49 First Comment 2:06 Relationship Ended Demand For Children 3:40 Close To Recontact & Caving In 4:40 Child With Suspected Borderline 4:51 Therapy Before Re-Contact Ex 6:00 Codependents Following Feelings 9:26 BPD Push/Pull & Codependent Denial 10:10 Suspected BPD & Red Herrings 11:45 Letter Writing To Re-Contact Ex 12:48 Letter Fantasy Asks of Ex 14:20 Need To Know If Ex 100% BPD or Not? 15:10 Codependent Denial Dynamic (BPD Ex) 20:33 BPD Diagnosis or Not Truth Is Brutal 23:17 BPD Undiagnosed Codependent Denial & Escapism 30:21 Suspect BPD - STOP Signs 35:40 BPD or Not Codependent Denial Trap 37:02 Codependent “I Can Do Better” vs BPD Instability 40:23 Codependent BPD or Not Red Herring Denial Dilemma 43:11 If BPD “Not her, it’s BPD” “I’d Be More Patient” Codependent Circles 45:08 BPD Not Diagnosed Codependent Trauma Bond Trap of Repetition Compulsions 54:00 Blowing Thru Red Flags - Why?

BPD Breakup Want A Do Over Forgiveness Want BPD Ex Back Codependent Unhealthy Focus BPD Breakups are extremely complicated and often long-terms cycles. Do you want a do over with a BPD Ex? Still extremely focused on a BPD Ex? Did you think you instantly forgave them already? Do you want and long for your BPD Ex back? What can this Codependent unhealthy focus possibly yield for you? https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog - Ebooks, Audios & More Ask A.J. 1 Questions $59.99 or 4 $99.99 https://ajmahari.ca/2023/01/ask-a-j-mahari/ https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcasts & Blog #BPDBreakup #WantBPDExBack #ajmahari #codependency

BPD Devaluation Can You Be Re Valued? BPD or Couple's Therapy Doesn't Save These Relationships BPD devaluation, after the first major split, and many subsequent BPD splitting you to devaluation doesn't make re-valuing you possible for those with untreated BPD. The person with BPD getting into therapy or both of you trying couple's therapy does not save these relationships. https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog https://ajmahari.com - Online Store - Ebooks & more https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcasts & Blog #BPDDevaluation #BPDRevalueYou? #ajmahari

BPD Discards Will Your Ex Come Back Cause She Misses You or Gets It Now? BPD discards will your BPD Ex come back because she or he missies you and gets it now? Not all people with BPD who discard hoover or come back at all. Why do you want your BPD Ex back when you are in so much pain and confusion? https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog https://ajmahari.com - Online Store - Ebooks & more https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcasts & Blog #BPDDiscards #BPDhoovers #ajmahari #BPDBreakup

BPD Girlfriend Wants Space - Slow Split to Devaluation and Ghosting - Now what? When a BPD girlfriend or BPD Boyfriend wants space it is a slow split to devaluation and ghosting - Now what? What does this mean? Is it over? Is it a final discard? what is a slow split to devaluation and ghosting anyway? Not all people with Borderline Personality Disorder are the same. Even untreated, they do not all have a rapid, sudden, split to devaluation that leads to ghosting. Many do but many don't. If your BPD girlfriend, wife, boyfriend, husband, wants space, and is manifesting the slow split to devaluation and ghosting for the first time, or in a patterned way, you can't really know if it's a final ghosting or a discard for a period of time, In the meantime I help people who book sessions with me to understand this better and to learn coping strategy to help you as you try to understand what is happening and what it may mean for your near future, or not. Sessions with A.J. https://ajmahari.ca - Contact & Blog too! https://bpdbreakups.com - Blog & Podcast #BPDwantspace #BPDslowSplit #ajmahari Source: https://www.spreaker.com/user/13416281/bpd-girlfriend-want-space-slow-split-to-

BPD Relationship/Breakup - Codependent Need To Heal means learning to focus on yourself. Continuing to focus on the Borderline or the Narcissist keeps you stuck. Want to start the healing and recovery journey now? Feel lost? Still believe you need to give that person the worst amateur diagnosis you can? How’s that going to help you? It’s not going to help you at all. Sessions and a way to recovery: https://ajmahari.ca Stop self-abandoning yourself today!

BPD & ASPD - Borderlines Still are Not Psychopaths (Facts!) Much more in depth research-based information on this coming soon to https://ajmahari.ca People will benefit so much by not just assuming that what you want to hear - all the lacking in fact misinformation on YouTube - is accurate. It just isn’t! Want to know more understand your Borderline or Narcissist deeply enough to focus on yourself and your own healing & recovery process? Sessions available - https://ajmahari.ca Believing misinformation is not going to ease your pain!

BPD or BPD/NPD or BPD/Psychopath - You Will Never Change a BPD - How To End BPD Breakup Cycles How to achieve Suriving a BPD Relationship Breakup that is actually the end of the relationship and the breakup. How and why endless focus on is the Borderline only a Borderline or a BPD/NPD or a Borderline 'Psychopath' or BPD/ASPD co-morbid person is meaningless because it keeps you stuck in the pain and agony of not focusing on yourself and your own healing and recovery journey to break free of the unhealthy bond and no longer need endless dramatic videos, misinformation and/or more and more about Cluster B. Doing this and focusing on endless videos and info keeps you mired in the emotional muck of not getting to the surviving of an ended BPD Breakup so that you can go on to a new chapter in your life. How to get to end the BPD Breakup Cycles. Be BPD and Cluster B free - it takes a healing and recovery process in therapy. https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog & More! #BPDBreakup #BPDNPDASPD #ajmahari #NeverCanChangeABorderline Source: https://www.spreaker.com/user/13416281/bpd-or-bpd-npd-or-bpd-psychopath-you-are

Borderlines or Narcissists Do Not Cause Situational Narcissism in Codependents Borderlines or narcissists do not cause or create situational or "Temporary" Narcissism or "acquired narcissism" in people with Codependency. To suggest that this has any factual truth to it is to misinform people with Codependency. Codependency is still not that well understood for what it really is, means, and how people develop Codependency in childhood. It is extremely important not to fuse Codependency with BPD or NPD or the traits of because Codependency is its own painful mental health challenge. It is separate from BPD and NPD no matter how much has been hurt and loses more of self to a person with BPD or NPD. And, Codependency recovery requires professional help and is an in depth multi-layered process. https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog - Coming All New Website! Member Content & much more! https://bpdbreakups.com - Blog & Podcast #CodependencyNotNarcissism #ajmahari Source: https://www.spreaker.com/user/13416281/borderlines-or-narcissists-do-not-cause-

Acquired Situational Narcissism & Codependency? People with Codependency do not become “Acquired situational Narcissists“ or develop acquired situational narcissism. To do so when would have to actually perceive and believe that he or she is better than others. This is not the experience of people with Codependency in any relationship type with or to a person with borderline personality or a narcissist and BPD is not a form of NPG so you as a codependent you are not going to have any such thing as a quired situational narcissism. Are you confused, are you really hurting, feeling guilty feeling lost could you use some help and support sessions are available with me at: https://ajmahari.ca Coming to my website soon, lots of new content, a membership section and so much more! Check my website in mid February! My new site will feature a new online store with so much in depth accurate content. If you resonate with me you won’t want to miss out on all this upcoming content and where I’m going to be focussing the majority of my energy aside from working with my clients. This content will be an extremely helpful addition to your healing & recovery journey!

Cluster B Matrix - What You Believe Can Keep You Stuck! Misinformation in many places on the internet and just following your raw wounded emotions can be introjects not only from a BPD or NPD person but from your childhood as well. Negative core beliefs that go back to childhood reinforced by terribly wounding BPD NPD Relationships and Breakups don’t change the facts of what BPD and NPD are no matter what you believe. Do you want to be “right” or heal? Sessions - https://ajmahari.ca Much more coming to my website soon including memberships and your roadmap to recovery.

Hurt by a BPD or NPD person? Your feelings are valid but don’t create facts that define BPD or NPD. Watch for much more in depth and as always accurate information coming from me on my soon to be newly designed website with courses, Ebooks Sessions and more. Sessions - https://ajmahari.ca

BPD Relationships & Codependents - Denial & false hope - Tilting at Windmills I help people understand and learn enough about that BPD NPD or ASPD individual person who has hurt you so terribly. To heal, find your own closure and break the unhealthy bond it is a game-changer to learn more about that significant person in your life not just the “all borderline” narrative of inaccurate “they are all the same. Sessions - https://ajmahari.ca - Stop tilting at windmills and battling with an impossible dream.

Cluster B Matrix - BPD NPD ASPD How to navigate it to heal yourself and your need to break free in a healing and recovery process. Sessions with me https://ajmahari.ca I have 33 years experience helping people heal! Watch for memberships, courses and more coming to my website soon!

BPD - pw/BPD are men & women and they are not all the same. Some are much more severely impacted than others - male or female. Many are in therapy getting well. While more aren’t. There are vast differences in individual awareness and levels of hurting self and/or other. Sessions with A.J. https://ajmahari.ca Watch for much more in depth information to help people toward a deeper understanding of their own experiences & much more coming to my website soon!

Borderline Rage In Women & “Secondary Psychopathy” This is not true of all women or men with BPD at all. BPD rage is a primal defense mechanism but it isn’t secondary psychopathy. Less than 2% of all women diagnosed with BPD have any ASPD traits. Want to know more about your Borderline, man or woman and whether or not they have anything other than BPD & get into your own healing? Sessions with A.J. - https://ajmahari.ca

Borderline Aggression Can Lead to Violence Borderline aggression for many men or women with BPD can and often does lead to violence. Rage and verbal abuse are at the very least emotionally and verbally violent. Not all diagnosed with BPD will be violent. While many with BPD, male or female, may well be violent in relationships there is even a higher possibility of violence during or after BPD Breakups, ghosting, or discards. People with BPD that smear campaign you, keep contacting you (when you are not wanting contact or responding) may also start harassing friends, family and/or co-workers of yours with contact which is staking behavior that needs to be reported to Police and is a red flag to a more potentially violent borderline (male or female). https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog https://ajmahari.com - Online Store - Ebooks & more https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcasts & Blog #BorderlineAggression #BPDviolence #ajmahari