BPD Partner or Ex Not Diagnosed? - Wanting BPD Ex Back & Codependent Repetition Compulsions

BPD Partner or Ex Not Diagnosed? - Wanting BPD Ex Back & Codependent Repetition Compulsions

BPD partner or Ex diagnosed with BPD or not you know what you are dealing with. Do you need to know 100% for sure? NO! The red flags and stop signs are in all the patterns of behavior, instability, inconsistency, push/pull, accusations, manipulations, and more. Codependent (unconscious) repetition compulsions and the wanting the Ex is not an addiction - it's the childhood woundedness of your Codependency that you need to address in therapy to stop your self-abandonment.

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0:00 BPD Patterns Diagnosed or Not?

1:49 First Comment

2:06 Relationship Ended Demand For Children

3:40 Close To Recontact & Caving In

4:40 Child With Suspected Borderline

4:51 Therapy Before Re-Contact Ex

6:00 Codependents Following Feelings

9:26 BPD Push/Pull & Codependent Denial

10:10 Suspected BPD & Red Herrings

11:45 Letter Writing To Re-Contact Ex

12:48 Letter Fantasy Asks of Ex

14:20 Need To Know If Ex 100% BPD or Not?

15:10 Codependent Denial Dynamic (BPD Ex)

20:33 BPD Diagnosis or Not Truth Is Brutal

23:17 BPD Undiagnosed Codependent Denial & Escapism

30:21 Suspect BPD - STOP Signs

35:40 BPD or Not Codependent Denial Trap

37:02 Codependent “I Can Do Better” vs BPD Instability

40:23 Codependent BPD or Not Red Herring Denial Dilemma

43:11 If BPD “Not her, it’s BPD” “I’d Be More Patient” Codependent Circles

45:08 BPD Not Diagnosed Codependent Trauma Bond Trap of Repetition Compulsions

54:00 Blowing Thru Red Flags - Why?