BPDBreakupandCodependencyRecovery

Men with BPD Very Jealous of & Competitive with their children For Partner’s Attention Triggered emotional dysregulation and age-regression in male borderlines causes many difficulties in relationships and often with the borderline male being very destabilized by an I ability to tolerate “sharing” your time and attention with a child. Are you in a relationship or relationship breakup with a man with BPD? Do you want or need support and to make decisions that are healthiest for you? Sessions with A.J. - https://ajmahari.ca

Borderlines, Untreated, Are Relationship Impossibility People with suspected or diagnosed BPD are wounded and meet the world in a way that means they are continually defending against getting hurt again. They don’t have a known self from which to trust “self” or anyone else. These relationships are impossibly unhealthy. Sessions - https://ajmahari.ça

Borderline Woman Out To Destroy You - She lies, chests, live bombs then splits you to devaluation. She acts so sweet and innocent then suddenly you are her mortal enemy and she says “You can’t do anything right” “Stop hurting me” “I don’t live you and I never did” She screams and rages minutes or hours from your last passionate physical intimacy. WTH is wrong with her? You do EVERYTHING for her and it’s never good enough! Need or want help, support & answers? Trying to figure out how to make the impossible work? Want to end it or been ghosted but you just can’t stop loving her? Sessions - https://ajmahari.ca

Borderline Rips Your Guts Out - Her Black & White World -She takes and takes and gives nothing but pain and heartache back. Sessions - https://ajmahari.ca

Men - Not all BPD women ghost/discard - The heartbreak of you needing to breakup 💔You may feel guilty, worried about her physical survival. Want or need support and answers and to process your way through healing? Sessions - https://ajmahari.ca Will she punish you? Lie about you? Accuse you of falsely hurting her? Will she do a smear campaign? You still love her and can’t stop thinking about her. Are you lost and really wondering what to do? I have 33 years experience working with thousands of men to help them process decisions and heal from the heartbreak and Codependency.

AUnderstanding Borderlines Facilitates Codependent Recovery & Building a Bridge Back to Self Understanding Borderlines and BPD *accurately* and then ending that focus on the borderline and endless videos facilitates Codependent recovery & building a bridge - healthier than ever - back to a much better known and integrated self in and through a healing and recovery process working with myself if I resonate with you or another mental health professional. There is no one thing or one way to heal from the BPD or NPD breakup and the 12 Steps of Codependent's Anonymous are antiquated in comparison to therapy to break the unhealthy bond and fully heal and recover. https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog - Ebooks & Audios & more Ask A.J. 1 Questions $59.99 or 4 $99.99 https://ajmahari.ca/2023/01/ask-a-j-mahari/ https://bpdbreakups.com - Blog & Podcast #UndertandBPDaccurately #codependentrecovery #ajmahari

Codependents Vilifying pw/BPD or NPD = Self-Abandonment! Self-abandoning people with Codependency are blocking their own healing & recovery process and continuing to increase your own pain. Sessions - https://ajmahari.ca

How To Disempower a Borderline or Narcissist and empower yourself! What you focus on expands. Focus on the Borderline or the Narcissist and you are giving your power to them. Focus on yourself and will not be controlled by either a Borderline or a Narcissist. Sessions - https://ajmahari.ca

BPD NPD Co-Morbid Well Known in 40% of pw/BPD - *Facts* This isn’t really open to wayward dismissal and it stands as evidence that BPD is *not* a form of NPD. I have 33 years experience (28 of those years online) working with people in their healing and recovery and you can purchase and book a session or sessions with me at: https://ajmahari.ca Are you a person with Codependency still in a Cluster B relationship or trying to navigate surviving a BPD or NPD Breakup? Need or want help, support and answers to your questions to better understand in a healing process from the breakup and Codependency?

Malignant Borderline has no meaning. It is not a relevant or accurate descriptor nor any clinical terminology whatsoever and doesn’t add anything to accurate understanding BPD. Want or need help, support, and/or your questions answered to help you understand and to get into your own healing and recovery process after a BPD Relationship Breakup? Sessions- https://ajmahari.ca

There Isn’t Any One Thing or Way to Heal & Recover From a BPD or NPD Breakup. Beware of any YouTuber disregarding factual information of Psychology or Psychiatry because they seem to think they know it all just because they were in brief relationship with a woman with thought to have had BPD. That’s Narcissistic (NOD) wayward grandiosity that is put out there as in any way accurate information - it is largely the projected out unhealed misinformation of a claiming to be know-it-all Narcissist. For help, support and accurate information and answers to your questions please go to https://ajmahari.ca where you can purchase and book session with me. I am a professional expert in this area with 33 years experience working with clients.

BPD, NPD, & ASPD each are Separate Diagnoses - *FACTS* So much misinformation out there that any one BPD female is a “hybrid of all 3” Nonsense! If a male BPD Ex asserts this & that he is “cured” from the BPD Breakup & Codependency he doth protest too much and according to his “philosophy” therefore must really still be hurting or angry at having been discarded so how could he have a “one thing cure” for anyone else? Sessions- https://ajmahari.ca wherein you can get accurate expert help, support & answers to your questions.

40% of Male or Female Borderlines are Co-Morbid BPD/NPD & Neither Disorder is Feminine vs Masculine. BPD, NPD & ASPD are each distinct diagnoses. Not all people with any Cluster B diagnosis are exactly the same. Borderline Personality Disorder is highly treatable. So much incredible misinformation out there online be discerning and beware of reductionist and overly dramatic “explanations” of BPD. If you want your questions answered and to know more about which type of Cluster B you are or were in a relationship with please visit my website and purchase a session or sessions with me. https://ajmahari.ca

There is not this one Borderline out there that is a woman as if all Borderlines are women - there are just as many Men with BPD. 40% of all - Men or Women diagnosed with BPD have co-morbidity with NPD. Less than 2% May have co-morbidity with ASPD (?) BPD is not feminine vs NOD as being masculine. Be careful about what misinformation out there you need to dismiss even if it’s what you want to hear to feel better. Do you want or need support and answers to your questions in a relationship or after a relationship with someone with BPD, NOD, or Co-Morbidly both? Sessions & More at https://ajmahari.ca

Malignant Borderline Psychopaths? - 8 Traits & 4 C's of Differentiation From BPD Malignant Borderline is a meaningless term. An internet term not a clinical term. It is now being forwarded online as slippery language for (supposedly) co-morbid BPD/ASPD women. In this podcast I give you 8 traits of ASPD and the 4 C's that can help you differentiate a woman (or man) with ASPD from one with BPD. Less than 2% of all women diagnosed with BPD (according to all the research papers to date) fit this BPD/ASPD or "secondary psychopathy" ideological narrative forwarded from what remains pseudoscience. https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog - Ebooks, Audios & More Ask A.J. 1 Questions $59.99 or 4 $99.99 https://ajmahari.ca/2023/01/ask-a-j-mahari/ https://bpdbreakups.com - Blog & Podcast #MalignantBorderline #FemaleASPDvsBPD #ajmahari Source: https://www.spreaker.com/user/13416281/malignant-borderline-as-if-psychopathic-

Malignant Borderlines - BPD/ASPD If So Less Than 2% of All w/BPD There is no such useful general parlance meaning to "Malignant Borderline" and no clinical references to it whatsoever. Sessions - https://ajmahari.ca

BPD Breakup - An End? Or A Hoovering Recycling Repeating “Not New” Beginning? A serious of painful “beginnings” over and over with BO Re idealization and faster and faster Borderline splits to devaluation leaving you in yet another “Breakup” place that you are still not going to choose be an END? The first goal is to seek professional help to get to no contact so you can have a chance to heal and break that on-going trauma bond. If you resonate with me (see my 1100+ videos I work with clients in this specific area of recovery and have 33 years experience doing so. Sessions - http://ajmahari.ca

Borderlines & A Fantasy World? No, that’s not what is happening inside of people with BPD at all. They do not have any elaborate construct of a fantasy or fantasy world that they have a scripted skit in some movie just waiting for you or the next person to fill. Unlike, Narcissists, people with BPD are more disorganized and often overwhelmed by feelings internally whether they externalize them or not. People with BPD project out and not from a "fantasy place" but more from the unconscious repetition compulsion reactions and re-enactments. Sessions - https://ajmahari.ca

BPD Breakup - No Contact: Next How To Break The Trauma Bond & Heal? For so many people many BPD Relationship “Breakups” are not the END but rather just the beginning of Hoovers & reverse Hoovers that mean many attempts (that will fail) of Codependents and Borderlines to recycle the relationship. For some this on/off recycling means not ever getting g to no contact it to Codependent healing and recovery from the BPD relationship. You can’t do this on your own! The first goal is to seek professional help to get to no contact so you can have a chance to heal and break that on-going trauma bond. If you resonate with me (see my 1100+ videos I work with clients in this specific area of recovery and have 33 years experience doing so. Sessions - http://ajmahari.ca

BPD Is Not NPD - Narcissism in BPD? Yes, there is a lower grade pathological narcissism within the diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder that is not as formidable or tge to the same level as the pathological narcissism that is ubiquitous within NPD. BPD is not the same as NPD. Need help and/or support in Codependency recovery and healing from a BPD Breakup? Want to understand more about why Borderlines do what they do? Sessions - https://ajmahari.ca

BPD All About Survival - Not To Destroy Anyone This statement of fact is not meant to in any way excuse the abusive ways many men or women with BPD behave and treat those closest to them. Need help and/or support in Codependency recovery and healing from a BPD Breakup? Want to understand more about why Borderlines do what they do? Sessions - https://ajmahari.ca

BPD Reality Testing is Average in Assessment because BPD is not a psychotic disorder. Need help and/or support in Codependency recovery and healing from a BPD Breakup? Sessions - https://ajmahari.ca

BPD Idealization Devaluation Cycles - "Get-Away Closer" BPD Push/Pull BPD idealization is not as real as BPD devaluation. Both result from the core relational impairment of the Approach Avoidance Conflict in BPD - It's the push-pull "get-away closer" that cannot and will not ever change until and unless each person with BPD has 8-16 years of successful treatment. Without that treatment Borderlines have no hope of learning object constancy and object permanence. Borderline Approach/Avoid (push/pull) is the absence of object constancy. https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog https://ajmahari.com - Online Store - Ebooks & more https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcasts & Blog #BPDIdealizationDevaluation #ajmahari #BPDpushpull

Borderlines Using Codependents - What Are Codependents Doing? Borderlines using Codependents as "Object Other Parent Representation" unconsciously. What are Codependents doing in these relationships? Borderlines use Codependents and in their own unconscious way Codependents "use" borderlines. Unhealthy bonds and impossible relational dynamics. https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog https://ajmahari.com - Ebooks, Audio & more Coming https://bpdbreakups.com - Blog & Podcast #BPDUseYou #ajmahari #codependency