He Does These 5 Things (IF He Wants A Relationship!)
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He Does These 5 Things (IF He Wants A Relationship!)
Hey this is Carlos Cavallo...
How do you know if the guy REALLY wants a relationship?
How can you read him and figure out if he's the one for you?
After all you don't want to push him and risk scaring them off right?
Let's or talk about today to show you five things he does if he wants a relationship
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Look, the reality is right off the bat:
Men simply don't show you their emotions easily!
1. Because he doesn't feel them as vividly as you do
2. Because he doesn't feel them as often as you do
3. He doesn't understand his emotions as well as you do
4. He may love you but he's probably nervous about letting you know
Right up front let me tell you that the one sign you should NOT be looking for is him showering you with possessions.
You know, buying you gifts.
If a man shows you his love through buying gifts (and ONLY) you should immediately be hesitant and wary.
I mean let's get real here...
Movie television and love songs have probably distorted what you think a man will do when he wants a relationship.
You know things like:
- Carry you piggyback while you both giggle in the fields of flowers
- he'll ride up to you on a horse with his shirt unbuttoned to take you for a ride on the beach
- he will hold you close to him in the rain, love you even though your mascara is running on your face
The point is that you have to let go of all of the Hollywood and pop-culture lies about what men do when they're in love with you...
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Are You Emotionally Stuck On An Unavailable Man?
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Are You Emotionally Stuck On An Unavailable Man?
If you've ever been in a relationship with a guy and he doesn't seem to want to take the next step with you -
You may be worried that you're stuck with an unavailable man.
And if you invested your heart with him it can be hard to walk away.
Let's find out if you are stuck on an emotionally unavailable man.
Hey, this is Carlos Cavallo from dating fire.com and datingadviceguru.com
Welcome back to the dating and relationship secrets you need to know...
You probably already know if you're sttuck on this guy, right? I mean, it's probably fairly obvious.
You know you have feelings for him.
AND you're having a tough time walking away.
You might tell yourself you have trouble walking away because you really want to be sure!
But deep down inside, you probably sense that you've created an emotional attachment.
And you're unwilling or unable to break it.
Probably the most important things to do is to really be sure he's REALLY unavailable.
One of the most common mistakes women make is to assume that just because he's not interested in her that means he's emotionally unavailable.
I call this the "grand self-deception"
I mean really who wants to believe that the reason they can't get their man to commit is because of ...their self?
But I'm sure you've also experienced relationships where a guy has not made a commitment to you.
And then right after you guys break up he gets together with somebody new and they're married within a year.
If you've ever had this happen to you, it's horribly confusing
You might give up on relationships completely if something like this happens to you.
The reason this happens is because ...
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Why He Stopped Chasing You! (And How To Get Him To Do It Again)
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Hey this is Carlos - if you've been watching any of my videos you probably know that the most important thing for woman to do is get a man to chase her…
The problem is that for many women he STOPS chasing.
And then you're left wondering what to do next.
Today I'm going to tell you why he stopped chasing you and what to do to get it started again.
This is Carlos Cavallo from dating fire.com and datingadviceguru.com
Welcome back to the dating and relationship secrets you need to know…
When it comes to a relationship, the chase is everything.
As a woman you know that you need him to chase you.
When a man chases you it tells you exactly how interested he is.
Which is why it's so important in a relationship that is just starting out!
But not just the starting relationship, either.
If you're in a relationship that has been going for several years, you still need him to keep chasing you a little bit don't you?
In fact, I would go so far as to say that you must keep him chasing you for the *rest of your life.*
Maybe not as intensely as in the beginning, but the chase tells you where you stand with him.
When a man stops chasing you, it's a recipe for disaster.
It's a signal that things are not going right.
And if you've ever panicked when he realized he stopped chasing you, you are right to pay attention
The first indication that something may be broken in your attraction is when your man -
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How To Interpret His Mixed Messages! (Find out if he's really interested)
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How To Interpret His Mixed Messages
It's funny but we often think of women being the ones to send mixed messages.
But the truth is that many women feel that MEN are the ones to send mixed signals.
Have you ever had that problem with a guy?
Hey - this is Carlos Cavallo from dating fire.com and datingadviceguru.com
Welcome back to the dating and relationship secrets you need to know.
Mixed messages can be horribly confusing - no matter which side of the relationship you're on. Mostly because it feels like someone is just stringing you along.
By the way, I just covered that topic recently as well here on the channel.
The bottom line when it comes to mixed signals is that it happens for only a few reasons:
1) He's clueless that he's sending mixed signals.
Some guys just don't know how to be consistent with their indications of interest.
2) He's just keeping you around for a backup
Which means you probably got tricked into thinking you had a relationship with him.
3) He's just not interested.
Period.
He's not looking for a relationship, and again you may have been led astray.
The "funny" part is that a lot of guys think that you'll just ....
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9 Signs He Is Stringing You Along
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Everyone has had a guy who seems to be stringing her along at one time or another
Maybe just doesn't seem all that enthusiastic
Or he sends you mixed signals
Or you really don't know what to think!
Well, Carlos will clear up some things for you today.
Were to go through the signs he's stringing you along.
Hey this is Carlos Cavallo from datingadviceguru.com.
Welcome back to the dating and relationship secrets you need to know.
First of all I'm going to assume that you want this guy to make some kind of commitment to your relationship.
Again this is the most common issue women have.
The man doesn't seem to be interested in a relationship when she is.
But it's not as simple as calling every man "commitment phobic."
Obviously this isn't true because for every married woman out there there is a man married to her.
And I've seen more than my fair share of relationships where the woman is on the way out the door, too.
Commitment is a two-way street, after all!
And the fact is that if a man isn't interested in a relationship, you probably...
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How To Make Him Value You - Secret 'Tricks'
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When He Doesn't Value You! Do THIS
By Carlos Cavallo
Have you ever felt like your man doesn't really appreciate you?
You feel like he is taking you for granted?
Like he doesn't really value what you give to him.
This is a common complaint among women.
But why is it happening?
Why is he treating you so casually?
And how can you get him to value you again?
Welcome back to the dating and relationship secrets you need to know…
The first thing you gotta realize is that there are two directions you can go with this.
They are very important to understand if you want him to see what you have to offer him.
But wait - before I show you those two directions -
Let me ask you an important question:
Why haven't you dumped his ass?
I'm serious!
Why haven't you just dump him and moved on to find someone who will appreciate you?
Are you really that afraid of losing someone who doesn't appreciate you?
This is an important question because it could cut right to the heart of the issue.
If he has started to change his attitude about you.
And you have done nothing to correct him and remind him that this is unacceptable
he probably figured you're okay with it.
Of course you're not, and you shouldn't be!
But you have to remember that he is going to treat you exactly how he sees you treating you.
So the very first thing you gotta do is check in with yourself and make sure you're not accepting his abuse.
So my very first bit of advice is...
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Why Men Run Away From Commitment - And What To Do About It!
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Why Men Run Away From Commitment
By Carlos Cavallo
One of the most confusing behaviors you'll ever experience from a man is when he runs away from your love.
It's the most common question I get from women about their relationships!
And every single woman has had a man grow cold and distant from her.
Today were going to talk about this and would tell you why men run away from commitment.
This is Carlos Cavallo from www.datingadviceguru.com
Welcome back to the dating and relationship secrets you need to know.
The first thing we have to address is that no one really runs away from love. You might think that all you're doing is radiating love to him, but that's not what he's running from.
He's running from his own fears!
These are fears about what he thinks will happen if things keep going the way they are.
Is he a man is really looking at your relationship in terms of it being committed or not.
You might think that way but he doesn't.
Men are looking at the relationship in terms of just a few simple criteria.
1. Am I having fun?
His first and most important indicator of whether he wants to keep dating a woman is whether or not she's fun to be with.
Now this seems like the most obvious thing in the world but strangely enough a lot of women don't recognize this.
2. Are you really in love with him? Or are you in love with the idea of a committed relationship
Almost every single man has had the experience of a relationship with a woman didn't seem to care so much about who the man was, only if he was going to make a commitment and provide for her.
This may not be you of course
But you will be looked at in relation to that.
So as I was saying, no one runs from love if that's what they are receiving
Unfortunately we have ways of ...
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8 Nice Girl Habits You Must Break Right Away! (Are you making these mistakes?)
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8 Nice Girl Habits You Must Break NOW!
By Carlos Cavallo
Most women figure out that being a nice girl doesn't get you what you want.
You might have just figure that out recently yourself.
Of course you want to be nice, but you don't need to be the 'nice girl.'
Today I'm going to go through eight nice girl habits you must break right now.
Not next week - not next month...
But right NOW.
Because they are killing your relationships
Let's go...
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Welcome back to the dating and relationship secrets you need to know.
The problem with being too much of a nice girl is that it diminishes a man's feelings for you.
You may have noticed this but there is a strange irony in human behavior..
And no matter how much you wish it would change it won't.
This behavior goes like this:
- You treat someone nice, they don't respect you...
- But if you treat them with disinterest or apathy, they will work to win your approval
Mind you I am not condoning that you should ever mistreat somebody just to get respect, because that doesn't work either.
But I'm guessing you have certain habits where you may be compromising your posture just to win a man's approval.
Some of the women who watch this video might be resistant to this idea, but it's important for you to understand:
You can still be a respectable and desirable woman!
The only way you can be respectable and desirable is to not let men or anyone else walk on you like a rug.
Unfortunately this is what happens when women try too hard to be nice.
So let's jump into the first habit you must break:
HABIT 1: You try to get a man to ...
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Make Him Jealous & Win Him Back! 8 Secret Strategies
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Make Him Jealous & Win Him Back! 8 Secret Strategies
by Carlos Cavallo
If you're trying to get him to come back to you, chances are that you will do anything to make that happen.
In fact the most important reason you want to make him jealous is to wake him up and get him to come back to your relationship.
Maybe you made a mistake and scared him off...
Maybe it was something you said...
Maybe was something you did...
Well if you want to get him back on the show you something very controversial today.
I want to show you how to get him back using jealousy.
But were not going to do anything wrong or evil.
Let's get going.
This is Carlos Cavallo from dating fire.com and datingadviceguru.com
Welcome back to the dating and relationship secrets you need to know.
Jealousy is a superpowerful emotion. You probably know this already.
Jealousy can definitely be used for good in a relationship because it can do the following for your partner:
- Make them remember your value
- Remind them how lucky they are to have you
- Show them that you are still attractive and wanted, and other men want you
- Make them understand that you are not obligated to be his
- Remind them how much they wanted you before the complacency set in
When you're in love with somebody, you want to possess them completely.
And if somebody comes along who threatens that, you go on alert.
You're ready to get those claws out and start scratching.
And if you've recently broken up or you are losing your man, you're probably feeling a little jealous right now yourself
You don't want to lose him some other woman, right?
Think about the power of jealousy:
It can make you take action when you didn't want to.
And if you want your ex back, making them jealous could be the best way to make them realize that you are a catch.
That your relationship was much better than they appreciated.
You want to make them wish they were still with you even if they don't admit it.
So this is controversial because it feels manipulative to make someone feel jealous or to trick someone.
Let's be clear here: I'm not saying that you should purposely manipulate anyone.
This is completely ...
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What Men Consider Great Sex - 5 Secrets! Amaze Him!
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What men consider great sex - 5 secrets
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If there's one area that both men and women are concerned with in a relationship it's the old bedroom.
Yup we're talking about that "three letterword." Rhymes with hex.
After all, if your sex life isn't happening for you then you know the relationship probably isn't working.
It's the lifeblood of your passion.
So I'm going to show you five secrets about what men consider great sex.
And these five factors will - if you focus on them - ensure that your relationship is properly fueled with passionate desire.
Let's dive right in...
Welcome back to the dating and relationship secrets you need to know.
If there's one topic women want to know more about its what men consider great sex.
Because even if men and women often focus on different parts of this intimacy, women know that it's a huge priority for guys.
But did you know WHY?
Well let me tell you...
Physical intimacy is a man's number one concern in a relationship because he knows that this is his primary way of connecting with you.
Even if you don't feel like it's your number one connection, he does!
So here's what you have to know...
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7 Compliments a Man Wants To Hear
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7 Compliments Men Are Dying To Hear From You!
It can be tricky…
You want to pay a man a compliment but you don't know exactly what to say.
After all, you don't want to insult him accidentally.
And you know that complimenting a guy on his new set of high heels would be totally inappropriate.
In fact, ‘girl compliments’ will get you nowhere.
Well today I'm going to show you seven compliments men are dying to hear from you.
And I'm going to give you some understanding of why they work…
Hey this is Carlos Cavallo from datingfire.com and datingadviceguru.com.
Welcome back to the dating and relationship secrets you need to know…
If you've ever tried to compliment a guy chances are you may have had mixed results. Or you may have complimented a guy and it seemed like it went over well.
What gives?
Well the truth is that complimenting men isn't difficult. But it's a whole lot different than complimenting women.
You can't just hand out empty compliments about his appearance.
What men want to be complimented on are the subtle qualities that most people don't usually see.
Things like his personality, his skills, etc.
So let's jump right in with the first compliment.
COMPLIMENT 1:
"Wow, you always know exactly what to say."
This one is…
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How To Make A Man Miss You (NEW!)
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How to make a man miss you!
- Carlos Cavallo
Hold onto your butts for this one!
Every single woman wants her man to miss her...
I'm betting you're no different.
The truth of the matter is that if a man misses you, you know he loves you.
Which is why every woman wants to know how to make a man miss her.
Were going to hit you hard with some deep and very cool psychological tactics today
It's not just about making a man desire you.
It's about making him authentically desire your presence in his life.
Nothing says that more than KNOWING that he misses you.
Am I right or am I right?
It's one of the most disappointing situations is when a man doesn't miss your presence or you don't feel his desire for you in that way.
So what we're going to talk about today are a few psychological principles of how men - and really how all people - really work when it comes to missing you.
Missing you secret #1: Don't pretend you're not pretending!
I'm consistently amazed to find out that so few women understand the principle of being a little bit hard to get.
Some women are scared of this idea!
They push it away and pooh-pooh it by saying that they don't want to be manipulative.
They just want to be authentic and real, they say.
But - The reality is that...
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Will Smith Slaps Chris Rock At Oscars - Relationship Guru Reacts!
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Relationship Expert Reacts: Will Smith slaps Chris Rock At the Oscars
You probably saw it, it happened on the Oscars.
Will Smith slapped Chris rock across the face for a joke about his wife.
Was he justified?
Was that acceptable?
Well I'm going to give you a relationship expert reaction to what is happening here with Will Smith and his crumbling marriage
Because you need to know what this really means.
First off, we all know that celebrities don't represent reality.
But they can provide us with examples that we can learn from.
And that's something you should do with this sort of thing.
I'm trained as a therapist and I look at these kinds of situations and break them down is if I had them as a client.
Then I break them down in ways that can help YOU.
I have observed Will Smith's crumbling marriage for several years now.
Perhaps you even saw some of the videos of will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith talking over her affair.
I'll warn you that if you watch some of these videos prepared to cringe
Jada is obviously not caring very much about how much harm she's caused Will.
In fact, Jada really thinks that Will Smith is...
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14 Signs A Man Is Emotionally Attached To You - And How To Spot Them!
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14 Signs A Man Is Emotionally Attached To You
By Carlos Cavallo
If the guy you are interested in was emotionally attached to you, would you want to know?
Of course you would!
You want to see the signs that a man is into you.
And knowing what to look for in a man's behavior would answer so many questions...
Because guys don't always show their emotions to you today?
That's what we're going to cover in this video.
On the show you 14 signs a man is emotionally attached to you and how to spot them.
First off, you have to know what emotional attachment really is.
When we build up an emotional connection with somebody, it always starts somewhere that you can identify.
I've seen a few articles that say that the first stage of attachment is when he sees you as a friend.
This is actually completely false.
A man starts out feeling emotional attachment to you when he's first attracted to you.
Not when he starts thinking of you as a friend.
Men do not think of you as a friend until after you have the relationship.
This is not come as a huge shock for most women.
In fact you probably screaming at the screen right now aren't you?
But it's the truth.
And the honest truth would be that you don't really look to see if he's a friend first. You want to know if you got that spark of chemistry.
Very few relationships start out as purely platonic with only a friendship.
Most relationships that turn into romance love and marriage start out with a spark of sexual attraction.
Sure, we may meet someone and eventually start dating.
But in reality we knew looking back that that person was attractive to us.
So the first step is physical attachment.
The next step is emotional attachment.
This is where both of you are sharing strong feelings and emotions.
It's not just physical connection, it's an emotional connection.
And finally, after that comes a deeper commitment of your shared interests and communication and friends etc.
So let's review the signs of a man is emotionally attached to you...
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7 Ways Women Scare Men Away - Avoid These Mistakes!
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7 Ways Women Scare Men Away
By Carlos Cavallo
Have you ever worried that you might be scaring him off?
one thing a woman doesn't want to do is scare a man away
The truth is that you probably scared a lot of guys a way that you SHOULD have scared away
Either they were not a good match, or you weren't in a good place
But now that you are in a good place hopefully
The last thing you want to do is freak him out before you have a chance to show him how good you are together
I'm gonna show you the seven ways women scare men away
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I want to share another letter I got from a reader with you -
and it's one you might relate to:
Dear Carlos,
I'm a single mom of two. I just got back on the dating scene again after 10 years.
Now that I'm getting closer to 40 I'd like to find a new partner...
But the problem is that I keep scaring guys off.
Everything starts out great, but eventually they seem to either lose interest or disappear
Or both!
What am I doing wrong?
Help!
Scary in Sacramento
J
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CARLOS CAVALLO ANSWERS:
Well, J
I don't want to call you scary, because chances are you probably aren't as scary as you might think.
But here's the reality:
If you don't know what a man is looking for
Or you don't know how he sees you
You might accidentally give him a reason to run away.
Even if it's not your fault!
This is why it's so important for women to understand what men are thinking.
And what a guy is looking for when he starts dating a woman
So let's start going through a few of the things that scare men away from a relationship...
Let's call them
The Relationship Fear Factors!
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How To Understand Men - 6 Tips You Can Use NOW!
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Understanding men seems so difficult sometimes, doesn't it?
He does stuff you wouldn't do. And he doesn't do stuff you would do...
What gives?
How do you know what's going on inside that mind of his?
We're going to the mailbag this episode - and I'm going to explain how to understand men - 6 tips you can use NOW!
QUESTION FROM A READER:
Dear Carlos, quick question. Why does my man treat me like I've been a bad girl, behaves as if he wants to dominate me, yet doesn't say anything?
Some history: my guy is emotionally close to me. We've had issues where trust is very thin.
We break up, or at least I do, and a few months later, he's texting to talk to me but won't answer direct questions.
He's had a difficult childhood. He was totally a bad boy, loves women and can lie easily.
Help me understand him.
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5 Things Men Want In A Relationship - Desperately!
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5 Things Men Want In A relationship - DESPERATELY!
When it comes to a relationship - men want you to just know what they want without having to tell you.
Does that Sound familiar?
This is because men arent' sure how to describe what they want to you.
So he won't verbally ask for it.
But you need to know what he wants or you risk missing out on a relationship with him.
Let's look at the things men want in a relationship.
Guys have a tough time explaining their emotions.
Much less what they really want.
There are a lot of things a guy is looking for, but you might have missed them.
Why?
Because you were probably trying to give him what you wanted in a relationship.
Hey, he's probably making the same mistake you are. But at least you can explain what your needs are.
We are all guilty of this. We always try to give another person what we are looking for ourselves.
You might've heard the advice "walk a mile in another person's moccasins"
What this simply means is in order to understand another person's needs you have to see things through their eyes.
Well that's what were going to do today. I'm going to give you a look through man's eyes at the world of relationships.
Let's talk about the things a man wants in a relationship
WANT 1: He wants you to take interest in his interests.
Of course you don't have to be interested in everything he likes...
But a guy really loves it when you're interested in his passions.
It could be his sports team, his job, movies, video games- whatever.
If you want to get him to feel an instant connection with you all you have to do is take the initiative to either learn more about something he likes
Or to seek out an activity related to it.
I'll give you an example here:
My wife knew that I wanted to go see motley crew in concert on their farewell tour several years back.
Yeah I know I'm an 80s rocker kind of guy.
So what did she do?
She ...
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Are You Smothering Him? Signals To Watch For!
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Are You Smothering Him?
by Carlos Cavallo
When it comes to a relationship, there are signs you are smothering him. And like it or not, one of the things in life a girlfriend doesn't want to do is smother her partner.
There are lots of reasons for this coming up in a relationship. But the most important advice for you to know is if you're being too needy, and if your behavior is undermining trust in the relationship.
Sometimes insecurities show up in the way you feel and the little red flags you notice.
It's very hard for a man to explain to his girlfriend that she is suffocating or smothering him in the way she's handling the relationship. He doesn't want to hurt your feelings, so he may hint with his own behavior.
The goal is to have your man feeling your openness, not your insecurities. I want to show you signals that you are smothering him or making him feel pressure.
Smothering Signal 1: You're trying to control too much of his life
Now I'm sure that most women don't feel they are trying to control the relationship too much. You want to believe that you're the cool girl that is easy going.
But the truth is that if a man is a 'go along to get along' kind of guy, he may be letting you take on too much. He may be guilty of not controlling his own boundaries very well. When that happens, a woman tends to take over.
And you know what? I wouldn't blame you. But the unfortunate thing is that this is smothering behavior that will compromise your happiness - and his.
A man needs to feel independence and a separate identity from the relationship. If this doesn't mean that he is not committed. It simply means he...
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Are You Compatible? Find Out If You're Meant To Be Together
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"How Compatible Are We?" - Find Out If He's Right For You!
By: Carlos Cavallo
When you're looking for a life partner, the first question you need to ask is how compatible are we?
Compatibility in a relationship will help you understand if you're right for each other. Yes, you can take a quiz to find out more about your compatibility. (I'll point you to my compatibility quiz in just a moment.)
Your personality, your interests, and so many other qualities can be used to figure out whether you and your significant other are compatible with each other.
You've probably been told that compatibility is one of the most important things in a relationship. But there's lots of stuff that will tell you what really makes a love connection work.
And there are some unexpected signs that you might miss.
First let's clear up some myths:
MYTH 1: If you have too many differences, you're not compatible
This one is very misleading. The fact is that you do need some differences or you run the risk of being too much like each other.
Relationship compatibility needs two people who are willing to work with one another. Inevitably, you will have conflict in your relationships. What's more important is how you handle your arguments and disagreements.
MYTH 2: You might have to change to be compatible
Again, this is false. If you are changing your habits and behaviors to match your partner, or to save your marriage in some way, this is ...
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How To Kiss a Guy - Tips & Secrets To Drive Him Wild
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For most women, the first time you kiss a guy is important, because it's the first intimate contact you have with him. Let's talk about how to kiss a guy - and how to make him crazy for you when you do!
Let's get real here - you're probably not a beginner. But you do want him to think you're a good kisser.
And kissing a guy isn't always intuitive. Especially when so many guys don't kiss well in the first place.
Ultimately, you can get him to fall in love with you simply by kissing a man the right way. You just need some basics to understand what a guy is thinking about you in that make-out session.
All women have questions about how to kiss a man the right way - or they want some kind of "rule book" for how to kiss a guy. You may have even wondered:
How do you kiss a guy for the first time?
What is the best type of kiss?
What should you NOT do when kissing him?
How to get a guy to kiss you?
Let's break this down and show you exactly how to kiss a guy.
Kiss Guys Secret #1: Make sure you use more than just your lips
The one thing a man wants to know is that his partner is really into the kiss. He doesn't want to feel like you're checking out for not really there.
He's looking for...
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How To Start A Conversation On A Dating App
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It's tricky enough talking to people in person, but what if you want to start a conversation on dating apps? How do you do it?
After all there are a crazy number of apps out there for your phone, and even websites for those of you dating on your computer. Online dating is a huge time-suck, too. So you gotta know the right questions to ask and what to say!
Which app are you using?
Tinder?
Hinge?
Bumble?
HER?
Match.com?
BLK?
The Sauce?
Victoria?
Thursday?
Happn?
I could go on and on with this list. But the truth is that no matter what dating app you're using, your conversation starters are pretty much the same no matter which one.
Let's run through a few quick tips for how to start a conversation on a dating app…
Conversation Tip #1: Use the profile
The best way to connect with someone is always using information you know. Start with his bio, and then look for something about his personality for his interests. The best conversation starter is a question about his life.
If you need any proof of this, just take a look at your own life. I'm sure you would respond positively to a message asking you about your own life or hobbies.
The beauty of these apps are that a woman has information and material she can use to connect with him. It's all in his profile information that he added.
Starting Conversations - Tip #2: Remember the...
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How To Apologize To Your Boyfriend (Or Husband) Before It's Too Late!
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How To Apologize To Your Boyfriend (Or Husband) Before It's Too Late!
by Carlos Cavallo
It can be tricky to admit you're wrong. BUT if you made a mistake, you need to know how to apologize to your boyfriend (or your husband).
It's an essential skill for any woman that finds herself needing to make amends.
After all, anyone can make a mistake or act out of impulse and say the wrong thing.
But it's much more important to heal the hurt feelings and the relationship with your partner. It's tempting to say something in anger, and then stick to your guns because you don't want to be wrong.
But ultimately you could ruin a relationship by NOT giving him an apology. Words of forgiveness can mean everything to him.
And it's also the fastest way to end your fight!
Right here, I'll show you some tips for how to apologize to your boyfriend.
Your situation may be different in some ways, but you should search your heart for ways to forgive each other.
Yes, even if it's not your fault and you didn't make a mistake, you don't want to regret not reaching out to at least try to fix the problem.
If he's done something genuinely awful, then of course you should definitely NOT apologize for that. However, if you know you're in the wrong, you have to put your ego aside.
Sure, it can be as easy as saying you're "sorry," but you also don't want to appear like you have no remorse or you don't mean it.
There are a lot of mistakes you can make while you're apologizing. I'm going to help you with the words and action to help you regain his trust.
And, seeing as I'm a man, I can help you with the right words and phrases that will send the right message to him.
So let's dig into a few tips to help you get that apology out.
FIRST: The best place to begin is to figure out where you are with him right now.
Have you just had an argument or disagreement?
Is he cold and distant?
Did you send him a text and got nothing back?
Are your emotions still raw and tender?
Are things so bad that you need to see a counselor or therapist?
Wherever you are starting from, take a moment to really consider your situation. Wherever you are starting from, simply resolve to let go of your own hurt first. Because if you're just seeking an apology from him with your own apology, you could come across as being cold.
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7 Things You Should Never Say To A Guy - AVOID THESE!
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7 Things You Should Never Say To A Guy
It's probably pretty obvious but there are things you should never say to a guy. Some things are better left unsaid when all is said and done.
There is a better way...
One of the questions I ask all of my newsletter subscribers is, "What have you said to a man that you regretted?" And it's one of the most popular emails I send out, because I almost always get a response.
We've all said something in a relationship that we regretted. And we wish we could take it back.
I'm in saving you some of the trouble right now by helping you understand a few of the things you never want to say to a man.
Don't say this to him: “It's no big deal. It happens to everyone.”
Of course we're referring to the inevitable failure in bed. Which is one thing a man doesn't want to experience. He never wants to let you down.
We know your heart is in the right place when you say this, but it is still a huge blow to a man's ego to fail in this one department. Everything a man feels about his own masculinity can be destroyed in a moment when he just can't get it up.
And when a woman tries to brush this embarrassing event aside quickly to avoid the discomfort and awkwardness, the comment doesn't land well in his brain.
Instead, focus on giving him physical affection and attention.
Chances are he's just anxious about performing. And once his thinking gets out of the way, his feelings can come to the front.
And everything will rise after that.
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What Is A Man Thinking When He Pulls Away From You?
Dating Advice Guru is your #1 source for articles, videos and podcasts. We'll cover how to be a good girlfriend, how to make a guy like you, how to please your man, how to turn a man on and plenty of other dating advice topics to help you find the ideal partner and relationship for you.
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The Best Cure For A Broken Heart? Find Out!
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The Best Cure For A Broken Heart
By: Carlos Cavallo
If there's one pain that we experience that we would prefer to avoid it's a broken heart. But there is a cure for a broken heart, no matter how painful it may seem right now.
But the most important thing you need to ask is, does my heart have to stay broken? Can I win him back?
If you answer yes to those questions then let me share some tips on how to do that.
And if you answered no to those questions - then I'm not sure what else to tell you except to keep moving forward!
So let's start with this:
Curing A Broken Heart
Heartbreak can be felt in your emotions and in your body. They don't call it heartbreak for nothing.
It sometimes feels like your heart has literally broken. Research has shown that heartbreak can even feel like a heart attack.
The good news is there are things you can do to mend your broken heart. and even if you don't want to mend your heart and you want to win him back, I'll tell you more about how to do that in a minute.
Yes, you can make it through your breakup.
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