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How To Ask Better Questions (& Get Past Small Talk) In Convos | Try These 5 Techniques NOW!
Feel awkward in conversations and/or hate small talk? Then this video is for you. In this episode, Zoe shares her personal experience on how she learned to ask better questions, revealing 5 killer techniques that you can use today! We are exploring open-ended questions, emotional intelligence, the power of "what" and "how" oriented questions, and more, all to help to create meaningful connections.
0:00 - intro
1:23 - Zoe shares her story about how she learned the importance of good questions
2:11 - the first technique and approach you must take when asking good questions
6:32 - technique #2 (and getting to open ended questions)
7:50 - why asking “why?” Is NOT a good question to ask
8:25 - the power of starting a question with “what” and “how”
10:26 - a good question to ask in a networking setting
11:31 - technique #3 (and why to embrace emotions)
15:12 - technique #4 (and having a differing worldview)
19:08 - technique #5 (and how to be more mindful)
23:00 - the types of questions that need to happen for meaningful connection to be made
Special thank you to this episode's sponsor: The Party Q's App, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q's is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the App Store and Google Play. Download Party Qs today - You will love it!
Link to download the app on your mobile phone: https://www.partyqs.com/
Web version for you to play right now: https://app.partyqs.com/
Did you know we are also on ALL podcast streaming platforms??? Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts...you name it, we are on it! Just search "Accidentally Intentional", or head to: accidentallyintentionalpod.com
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How To MAINTAIN Long Distance Friendships + Make New Friends In 2024!
Let's say you or your close friend is moving. Now, one of your fears begins to creep in - how am I going to keep this long-distance friendship alive? Will it be the same when we aren't in physical proximity anymore? Is there any hope? How can I maintain this one, while also making friends in a new city? We are discussing and answering all of these questions and more in today's episode - from someone who has become an expert on this very topic - moving WHILE maintaining, and making room for even more friends!
0:00 - intro
2:32 - Alizah shares about her first (of many) moves, and what she was thinking through when she thought she was leaving her childhood friends forever
4:44 - the first step Alizah took to make friends in a new city
7:35 - how to deal with feelings of loneliness and finding connection
14:04 - how long it takes to make a friend
15:18 - how did Alizah manage her long-distance friendships
18:29 - Dunbar principle + our social limits
21:44 - what is the preferred connection method?
23:24 - how to determine what type of friends (or potential friends) are worth investing into?
27:57 - when friendships drift apart
32:44 - how to find out who can be trustworthy
35:10 - how to balance your friendships
40:16 - final encouragement
Did you know we are also on ALL podcast streaming platforms??? Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts...you name it, we are on it! Just search "Accidentally Intentional", or head to: accidentallyintentionalpod.com
Join the conversation by DM'ing with your biggest takeaways, or just to say hello, and follow along on Instagram! @accidentallyintentional or @zoeasher
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How to STOP Being Awkward & Become MORE LIKABLE When Meeting New People | 5 Social Cues To Try Now!
Feel socially awkward in conversation and when meeting new people? Here's how you can put that behind you once and for all! In this episode, we are diving into how mastering body language and social cues can turn that around, making you instantly more likable in any social setting. It's all about realizing that our words are just the tip of the iceberg; the real magic happens in the non-verbal vibes we give off, paving the way for genuine, deep connections.
0:58 - what communication is made up of
3:51 - what charisma is and why its important
6:00 - 5 social cues that show someone they can trust you
11:56 - 5 social cues that show someone they can rely on you
22:07 - 5 social cues to AVOIDD! (It works against you!)
28: 15 - how to become more confident
Did you know we are also on ALL podcast streaming platforms??? Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts...you name it, we are on it! Just search "Accidentally Intentional", or head to: accidentallyintentionalpod.com
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Why Americans Suddenly Stopped Hanging Out (What You NEED To Know + Next Steps)
Never thought I'd be making a reaction video, yet here we are. America is in a 'loneliness epidemic,' and this now-viral Atlantic article floored me with its new findings, as well as the implications for our social health. My goal is to destroy loneliness by teaching you how to build RICH relationships, so in this episode, we are walking through this article, and unpacking the necessary steps we ALL need to take to change direction.
Read this shocking article for yourself here:
https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2024/02/america-decline-hanging-out/677451/
Did you know we are also on ALL podcast streaming platforms??? Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts...you name it, we are on it! Just search "Accidentally Intentional", or head to: accidentallyintentionalpod.com
Join the conversation by DM'ing with your biggest takeaways, or just to say hello, and follow along on Instagram! @accidentallyintentional or @zoeasher
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How To Be Less Defensive In Relationships (9 Steps That Really WORK) (4K)
Let's be real - I know how it feels when someone says you're being too defensive. It's like, "Me? Defensive? You're wrong about that!" I've watched so many videos on this topic to help my own defensiveness...and none of them give you actual tools and scenarios that you can apply and work through! This video is different. Using hundreds of hours of therapy, research, and practice in my own life, I've condensed it down to 9 steps that actually work to help us remain calm, and not jump to defense mode every time we're triggered. It's just you and me here, working on getting better at this whole relationship thing, step by step. I've been there (and find myself back here again very often), and if I can make these changes 2 degrees at a time, so can you. Let's tackle this together.
0:00 - intro
1:48 - outlining what we will cover in this episode
3:13 - 4 steps to being less defensive when someone suddenly says or does something to trigger you
3:45 - step 1
4:22 - step 2
7:33 - step 3
9:40 - step 4
13:27 - 7 tools to immediately help you be less defensive, and cool down
19:49 - 5 steps to be less defensive when someone is sharing how they feel as a result of something you did or said
21:03 - step 1
25:50 - step 2
26:48 - step 3
29:00 - step 4
30:06 - step 5
The book mentioned in this episode that has been a great help when it comes to communicating through defensive postures is "Never Split the Difference" by Chris Voss: https://a.co/d/37qeFsD
Did you know we are also on ALL podcast streaming platforms??? Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts...you name it, we are on it! Just search "Accidentally Intentional", or head to: accidentallyintentionalpod.com
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How To Have Happy Relationships (& Become Happier Yourself) in 2024 | 3 KEYS You NEED To Know
You found this video because the thing you want most is to find happiness in your relationships, and also in your own life. And maybe that's because you are currently NOT happy. Or want to be happier. You're not alone. In fact...this is me too. Here's the good news. In this video, we are discussing the 3 key ingredients to becoming happier, and also the 4 necessary goals one needs to have in their pursuit of happiness - straight from the research and science of happiness directly! Let's go.
0:00 - intro
2:00 - what actually is happiness?
3:49 - the 3 keys to happiness (the ingredients)
8:49 - the 4 essential goals you need to have to pursue happiness
10:50 - the happiness killers
14:14 - strategies to overcome the happiness killers ( + fear and anxiety)
18:58 - actions that are instant happiness boosters
A lot of what was discussed in this episode is from the work and research of Dr. Arthur Brooks, the Harvard Happiness Professor who has spent decades of his life researching happiness, and also wrote the NYT Best-Selling book " From Strength To Strength" and now just recently co-authored a book with Oprah: "Build The Life You Want".
If you want to hear more from Dr. Arthur Brooks, I recommend https://youtu.be/qRY-foz-ZAw?si=EK5-twwM2RkO3lhx and https://youtu.be/C1gDbrOmwvo?si=0SNXWJrfIpO7CiR1
Did you know we are also on ALL podcast streaming platforms??? Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts...you name it, we are on it! Just search "Accidentally Intentional", or head to: accidentallyintentionalpod.com
Join the conversation by DM'ing with your biggest takeaways, or just to say hello, and follow along on Instagram! @accidentallyintentional or @zoeasher
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How To Ask Better Questions (& Get Past Small Talk) In Convos | Try These 5 Techniques NOW!
Feel awkward in conversations and/or hate small talk? Then this video is for you. In this episode, Zoe shares her personal experience on how she learned to ask better questions, revealing 5 killer techniques that you can use today! We are exploring open-ended questions, emotional intelligence, the power of "what" and "how" oriented questions, and more, all to help to create meaningful connections.
0:00 - intro
1:23 - Zoe shares her story about how she learned the importance of good questions
2:11 - the first technique and approach you must take when asking good questions
6:32 - technique #2 (and getting to open ended questions)
7:50 - why asking “why?” Is NOT a good question to ask
8:25 - the power of starting a question with “what” and “how”
10:26 - a good question to ask in a networking setting
11:31 - technique #3 (and why to embrace emotions)
15:12 - technique #4 (and having a differing worldview)
19:08 - technique #5 (and how to be more mindful)
23:00 - the types of questions that need to happen for meaningful connection to be made
Special thank you to this episode's sponsor: The Party Q's App, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q's is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the App Store and Google Play. Download Party Qs today - You will love it!
Link to download the app on your mobile phone: https://www.partyqs.com/
Web version for you to play right now: https://app.partyqs.com/
Did you know we are also on ALL podcast streaming platforms??? Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts...you name it, we are on it! Just search "Accidentally Intentional", or head to: accidentallyintentionalpod.com
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How To Build Trust & Actually Have PEACE-Filled, Amazing Relationships with Dr. John Delony
The opposite of anxiety is peace, and in today's episode with Dr. John Delony, we are talking through exactly how to build a non-anxious life and ultimately find peace, in ALL of your relationships. We're discussing the complexities of vulnerability in relationships, plus the difference between trust-building and oversharing. We're then exploring the consequences of the 'I don't want to bother people' mentality, the overuse of the term "toxic," and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. Then, we are discussing how and where to find peace-filled safe connections, and Zoe gets called out on her anxiety, and what can be done to turn the anxiety alarms down in our life.
0:00 - intro
2:50 - troubling statistics about the state of relationships in America
4:12 - Dr. John speaks about what vulnerability is and is NOT
9:13 - how to learn to be vulnerable and breed trust without oversharing
11:34 - Dr. John shares his first hand experience learning to be vulnerable
13:37 - Why the mentality of not wanting to bother people actually harms relationships
22:36 - what should boundaries look like (without being manipulative)
28:33 - thoughts on “no is a full sentence”, and when that is and is not appropriate
32:22 - why is everyone using the word “toxic” all of the sudden
37:13 - how labeling experiences and people are “toxic” can be very dangerous for us
39:55 - where are safe places for people to create connection
45:33 - a discussion on mindfulness and being curious while anxious
54:20 - Zoe’s encouragement to John
Make sure to grab a copy of Dr. John Delony's new best-selling book "Building A Non-Anxious Life" wherever books are sold!
Special thank you to this episode's sponsor: The Party Q's App, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q's is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the App Store and Google Play. Download Party Qs today - You will love it!
Link to download the app on your mobile phone: https://www.partyqs.com/
Web version for you to play right now: https://app.partyqs.com/
Did you know we are also on ALL podcast streaming platforms??? Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts...you name it, we are on it! Just search "Accidentally Intentional", or head to: accidentallyintentionalpod.com
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How To Overcome Imposter Syndrome (PLUS Launch Your Dream Business!) With Christy Wright
Any day now...someone is going to figure it out. They'll discover I'm not who they thought I was. I'm a total fraud." This is your imposter syndrome talking, and you're certainly not alone. In this episode, we are talking with National Best-Selling Author & Speaker Christy Wright on how to demolish Imposter Syndrome so that it no longer holds back, so that you can do the dang thing (whatever said "thing" is for you). We are deep diving how to launch a business post-covid, and how doing it scared is the absolute best thing you can do! You will feel encouraged and energize to take action after this episode!
0:00 - intro
0:47 - Christy Wright shares what's been going on in her life the past 18 months
4:38 - Christy shares the "in the middle" moment, as in whaat the very first step she needed to take was
9:39 - Christy speaks about how she has dealt with imposter syndrome in her life
10:58 - how Christy defines imposter syndrome
12:23 - how to figure out what lies you're believing
14:49 - how to support a friend or family member that has imposter syndrome
19:31 - how Christy started over when it came to building her brand.
24:30 - Christy shares about being a dreamer and finding a team to help push her vision forward
27:33 - Christy's response when someone says they don't have the money to pursue their dreams
30:47 - Christy's response when someone says "I don't have an audience that wants what I have"
32:42 - What if your family and friends want your business offerings for free (script to use)
37:22 - How to know what to price your product or service for
Head to https://www.christywright.com/ to learn more about Christy's speaking courses!
Check out her podcast https://www.getyourhopesup.com/
Follow Christy on IG and thank her for being on the show! https://www.instagram.com/christybwright/
Did you know we are also on ALL podcast streaming platforms??? Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts...you name it, we are on it! Just search "Accidentally Intentional"
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“It’s a social wasteland.” What you NEED TO KNOW about Gen-Z’s struggle to make and keep friends.
Imagine heading into college anxious to have some awesome conversations to make new friends, only to realize...nobody is talking. At all. At least not to your face. It's a digital wasteland. All other eyes glued to a screen. Scrolling endlessly hoping to find a replacement for the human connection you're trying to offer. Conversation and communication as you know it screeches to a halt, and is replaced with social connection on Snapchat. This is the reality for Gen Z today.
In this engaging episode, Sean Killingsworth (founder of the Reconnect Movement) and Zoe dive into the challenges and solutions of our digitally saturated age, how Sean counters today's screen-time epidemic, even discussing his personal switch to a flip phone. Together, they explore the power and nuances of real-world conversations, the frustrations, and the hope for a better future. Join us to learn more about fostering genuine connections in today's digital era.
0:00 - intro
1:00 - Sean shares his story
4:06 - Sean shares exactly how he felt and what he was thinking when he realized this “wasteland” was happening in front of him
6:52 - Sean explains why he is the reverse Mark Zuckerberg
9:37 - Sean explains what Reconnect Movement does
11:55 - Zoe explains what her college experience felt like
14:40 - what are the reactions to the Reconnect Movement
16:25 - how does Sean market the Reconnect movement without social media?
19:10 - Sean explains how there is an answer to the screentime/social media isolation epidemic
26:25 - Sean talks about how he uses his flip phone
28:50 - Sean and Zoe discuss the phenomenon of needing to record and photograph everything on our phones
32:54 - Zoe shares what she just witnessed in DisneyWorld on a recent trip
35:00 - Zoe shares her approach to talking to strangers
36:20 - Sean shares his approach to starting a conversation with a stranger
38:40 - Sean shares what his biggest passion is
39:48 - Sean confesses how much time he spends on his phone a day
44:31 - How Sean has made it normal to call people (instead of text) in his friend group
49:20 - Sean shares how parents and the older generation can help Gen Z through this current struggle
53:24 - how and where you can connect with Sean
Follow The Reconnect Movement on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/thereconnectmovement/
Check out the Reconnect Podcast HERE: https://rss.com/podcasts/reconnectpodcast/
https://thereconnectmovement.com/
Did you know we are also on ALL podcast streaming platforms??? Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts...you name it, we are on it! Just search "Accidentally Intentional", or head to: www.accidentallyintentional.life
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What You NEED TO KNOW To Survive High School This Year (A Letter From US To YOU)
High school is NO JOKE. If you are already in, or about to enter high school this year, this video is for YOU. (And if not, please share this with a high schooler!) This is a virtual letter to high school me (sharing EVERYTHING I wish I knew, or had been told in high school). Why? Because, quite frankly you're worth it. And I'm so proud of how far you've already come.
You can hear my full bullying story here: https://youtu.be/XGDdkrxrQOQ
Feel awkward when meeting new people? This video will help! https://youtu.be/gzLcVdOcju8
Did you know we are also on ALL podcast streaming platforms??? Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts...you name it, we are on it! Just search "Accidentally Intentional", or head to: accidentallyintentionalpod.com
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1 Trick You Can Use To Build Relationships In A Group Setting! (This Has Helped My Social Anxiety!)
Do you get overwhelmed and feel that you nearly have social anxiety in group settings? ME TOO. I had so much trouble with it that I had to create a system and technique to help me navigate building relationships in a group setting. Now, I am able to thrive, and make friends and build great relationships while being in a crowd, and in this episode, I'm showing you how you can too!
0:00 - intro
1:45 - the first step to building a relationship in a group setting
2:10 - for those who say they are "awkward" when meeting new people
3:11 - the trick to help you thrive in group settings
7:19 - how to use this technique at a networking event
10:37 - how to use this technique at a party
15:27 - how to use this technique at a family gathering
17:30 - 5 power questions to make your go-to's in conversation
19:16 -what to do when you don't know how to approach someone to start a conversation
Special thank you to this episode's sponsor: The Party Q's App, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q's is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the App Store and Google Play. Download Party Qs today - You will love it!
Link to download the app on your mobile phone: https://www.partyqs.com/
Web version for you to play right now: https://app.partyqs.com/
Did you know we are also on ALL podcast streaming platforms??? Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts...you name it, we are on it! Just search "Accidentally Intentional"
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Relationship ADVICE That 22 MILLION People Wish They Learned Sooner! Don't Make THESE Mistakes!
Crowdsourced from over 22 million people, we are discussing some really profound life tips of sort. The sooner we learn and apply these pieces of relationship advice in our own lives, the richer and deeper we will find all of our relationships to be!
0:00 - intro
1:06 - relationship tip #1
2:20 - relationship tip #2
3:48 - relationship tip #3
5:28 - relationship tip #4
8:05 - relationship tip #5
10:32 - relationship tip #6
11:53 - relationship tip #7
13:28 - relationship tip #8
14:24 - relationship tip #9
16:23 - relationship tip #10
17:36 - relationship tip #11
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My Friend Started Dating Someone... I Feel Abandoned & Forgotten. What Do I Do?
You may find yourself in this exact situation right now. Feeling ignored, abandoned, forgotten, and more. You're frustrated because you didn't do anything wrong, and want to know why its happening and what you can do next. In this episode, we cover what science actually reveals about this phenomena, as well as action steps you can take to preserve your friendship, and not let this current feeling have the final word.
0:00 - intro
1:30 - what research has revealed about the amount of friends you can handle before reaching a social limit
3:06 - research that reveals the social dynamic that happens when someone gets into a romantic relationship
5:02 - the most important thing you can do if you're in this situation
6:40 - Zoe shares her personal experience and how she accidentally made someone else feel abandoned
8:30 - if you feel abandoned, do this.
11:25 - 4 questions to ask yourself when you are starting to make new friends
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7 Thoughts Holding You Back From Great Relationships (& The Mindset Shifts To CHANGE This)
I think it's safe to say that we honestly ALL want amazing relationships. The problem is, so often, we are the ones standing in our own way. So in this episode, speaking from personal experience and SO so many conversations with others in my life, I've gathered up 7 major assumptions/excuses/negative thoughts/limiting beliefs that we tend to believe and hold onto as truth, and then share 7 mindset shifts we NEED in order to unlock these awesome relationships we've been searching for.
0:00- Intro
1:08 - Thought #1 That Is Holding Us Back
2:59 - Thought #2 That Holds Us Back
4:59 - Thought #3 That Holds Us Back
6:49 - Thought #4 That Holds Us Back
8:41 - Thought #5 That Holds Us Back
9:47 - Thought #6 That Holds Us Back
11:20 - Thought #7 That Holds Us Back
13:54 - If You're Thinking "I'm Not Worthy Of Having Good Friends...If Only You Knew Who I Really Am"...Listen to this part.
15:39 - Science on what continuing to "show up' actually does
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How AI Will Impact All Our Relationships (What You NEED To Know + How To Prepare)
No matter how much or how little you know about AI, and regardless of how you feel about it...AI is here to stay. Will it take over our lives? What will it replace? Is the state of humanity and all of our relationships and connections doomed forever? We discuss all of it in this special edition episode, or more appropriately called a Relational Wealth State Of The Union address.
0:00 - intro
1:45 - the story of the social media influencer who created an AI version of herself as an income source and the impacts of this
4:19 - studies pointing to the loneliness epidemic
5:20 - Apple VisionPro's way of keeping us connected
8:03 - the "Emergency Podcast Episode" that reveals the darkside of AI and the chilling quote
11:57 - beginnings of AI impacting our relationships
13:10 - what covid showed us about the importance of connection
14:02 - how does AI learn and become more powerful
15:05 - have we become so concerned about safety that it's now become dangerous?
17:25 - some of the top regrets of the dying
18:23 - how to become masters of human connection - Way #1
20:15 - how to become masters of human connection - Way #2023
25:38 - ChatGPT's real response to how AI can help your relationships
27:35 - which will you choose?
No matter how much or how little you know about AI, and regardless of how you feel about it...AI is here to stay. Will it take over our lives? What will it replace? Is the state of humanity and all of our relationships and connections doomed forever? We discuss all of it in this special edition episode, or more appropriately called a Relational Wealth State Of The Union address.
0:00 - intro
1:45 - the story of the social media influencer who created an AI version of herself as an income source and the impacts of this
4:19 - studies pointing to the loneliness epidemic
5:20 - Apple VisionPro's way of keeping us connected
8:03 - the "Emergency Podcast Episode" that reveals the darkside of AI and the chilling quote
11:57 - beginnings of AI impacting our relationships
13:10 - what covid showed us about the importance of connection
14:02 - how does AI learn and become more powerful
15:05 - have we become so concerned about safety that it's now become dangerous?
17:25 - some of the top regrets of the dying
18:23 - how to become masters of human connection - Way #1
20:15 - how to become masters of human connection - Way #2023
25:38 - ChatGPT's real response to how AI can help your relationships
27:35 - which will you choose?
The A.I. podcast episode referenced in this video is from the Diary Of A CEO (By Steven Bartlett), "E252: EMERGENCY EPISODE: Ex-Google Officer Finally Speaks Out On The Dangers Of AI! - Mo Gawdat" You can find it on YouTube: https://youtu.be/bk-nQ7HF6k4 + wherever your listen to podcasts.
Special thank you to this episode's sponsor: The Party Q's App, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q's is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the App Store and Google Play. Download Party Qs today - You will love it!
Link to download the app on your mobile phone: https://www.partyqs.com/
Web version for you to play right now: https://app.partyqs.com/
Did you know we are also on ALL podcast streaming platforms??? Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts...you name it, we are on it! Just search "Accidentally Intentional", or head to: www.accidentallyintentional.life
Join the conversation by DM'ing with your biggest takeaways, or just to say hello, and follow along on Instagram! @accidentallyintentional or @zoeasher
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How To Become More Bold (& Deal With Being Misunderstood In The Process), with Chris Durso
As a cultural commentator and social media influencer, Chris Durso often takes to social platforms to not just share his mind, but share what he believes are important truths with the masses, in effort to challenge and provoke thought in a new way. As you can imagine, this approach comes with a lot of backlash all the time. In this episode, Chris shares how he became so bold, how he deals with being misunderstood, and so much more!
0:00 - intro
1:00 - 3 most important traits Chris Durso looks for in his relationships
2:27 - How does Chris decipher what authenticity looks like
5:02 - How does Chris deal with the pressure and burden of holding influence
8:53 - Thoughts on giving others and ourselves grace
10:10 - How Chris sees each interaction
11:58 - How did Chris become and start having such boldness in his cultural commentary
18:02 - How does Chris decide whether he should give a response to something or someone (or a troll) or not
21:46 - What are some of the consequences of posting your thoughts on social media openly and what Chris has learned from it
24:57 - How to deal with the "comments section" and people taking things out of context and attacking you
30:00 - How does Chris balance challenging the people in his life in a healthy, encouraging way
33:16 - thoughts on the phrase "I don't mean to be blunt, but..."
35:17 - How Chris decides what he will talk about in culture
39:58 - What is something that Chris is often misunderstood for that he wishes people knew more about
44:00 - Chris shares why he appreciates Accidentally Intentional
To follow Chris and see what he's culturally weighing in on, just search @chrisdurso on Instagram.
To purchase his book "The Heist" click here: https://a.co/d/60hBCZG
To purchase his book "Misfit" click here: https://a.co/d/c8rt8GD
Did you know we are also on ALL podcast streaming platforms??? Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts...you name it, we are on it! Just search "Accidentally Intentional", or head to: www.accidentallyintentional.life
Join the conversation by DM'ing with your biggest takeaways, or just to say hello, and follow along on Instagram! @accidentallyintentional or @zoeasher
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How To Heal & "Graduate" The Grieving Process (PLUS Walk Alongside A Grieving Friend)
Grief is a hard topic, but unfortunately a necessary topic as well, since we will all experience grief in our lifetime, and probably can think of someone who currently is grieving as well. Our relationship with grief impacts how we show up in all of our other relationships, so I have brought Grief Coach Sherrie Dunlevy onto the podcast today to help improve our relationship with grief, and how to best show up and support others who are grieving as well.
0:00 - Intro
1:55 - Sherrie's Story and How She Became Passionate About Helping Others Who Are Grieving
7:53 - How Sherrie Would Define Grief
10:07 - How To Know What Grieving Looks Like
17:34 - Does Grief Come To An End?
21:08 - What Does A Healthy Grieving Process Look Like?
27:41 - What NOT To Say And Or Do To Someone That Is Grieving
33:33 - Should We Share Stories About Someone Who Passed Away, Or Does That Make Grieving Harder?
37:05 - What Are Some Markers Of Someone Who Has "Graduated" The Grieving Process? (How To Know You've Stopped Grieving)
To learn more about Sherrie's work, head to https://sherriedunlevy.com/
Are you ready to graduate grief? Take the quiz at https://graduatinggrief.com/quiz/
To learn more about Sherrie's "Graduating Grief" course, head to https://graduatinggrief.com/resources/
To get Sherrie's book, "How Can I Help?", head to https://www.amazon.com/How-Can-Help-Go-Difficulties/dp/0692820833/
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How LONG Does It Take To Make Friends? (Hours Revealed + What Interactions Need to Happen)
Did you know that scientific research has actually proven the amount of hours it takes to make friends? But that's not the entire story. Separate research shows 3 types of interactions that are necessary to create meaningful relationships, and in this episode, we are covering it all! The amount of hours, the types of interactions necessary, and all that is necessary in order for you to commit to building deep relationships this year!
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The 4 Types of Friendships You NEED (And How To Find Them in 2023) According To Science!
According to an 80 year study (the longest study in recorded history), we now have scientific data to point towards what 4 types of friendships one needs in order to be happiest in life! So in this podcast episode, we outline what the 4 types are, the philosopher Aristotle's thoughts on friendship categories, and also where you can find these types of friendship in your life!
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How to Heal And Build A Positive Relationship With Food (Leading To Better Relationships!)
Between trying to decipher what is a "good" food vs. an "unhealthy" food, body shame, calorie counting, new food recommendations, and a now defunct food pyramid...the topic of food is CONFUSING. In fact, it is a Google search topic that a ton of people are searching for more answers on. And dietician Anna Rohar is here to set the record straight today to help us figure out how we can SIMPLIFY our understanding of food, and create a healthy relationship with it, which will ultimately positively impact all of our other relationships as well!
0:00 - intro
1:14 - How Should We Think About What We Eat?
3:00 - How Do We Learn The Balance Of When We Should Have Dessert?
5:12 - Why Do We Get So Offended When Someone Calls Out Our Food Choices?
7:12 - How To Know When and How To Address Concerns Over Someone's Eating Habits
11:15 - How To Build A Healthy Relationship With Food?
13:25 - How To Get Out Of The Shame Spiral With Food?
14:35 - Foods That Give Us Energy vs. Slow Us Down
15:59 - How Can I Simplify Nutrition?
18:17 - What Is Considered A "Good" Protein?
21:46 - Calories Are Scary! Why?
23:02 - Tips For What To Eat When Going Through A Physical Or Emotional Traumatic Event
26:18 - Do Nutritional Facts and Stats Tell the Whole Story?
28:43 - When Is Satisfying Cravings Actually Important?
32:35 - Fueling Your Body Correctly
34:37 - What To Do When Your Choices To Eat Healthier Are Unsupported At Home?
Special thank you to this episode's sponsor: The Party Q's App, the FREE app that offers a HUGE variety of thought-provoking and conversation-starting questions to break the ice and get the party going. Party Q's is the ultimate wingman for your social life. Available on the App Store and Google Play. Download Party Qs today - You will love it!
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How To Make Fitness Work For You (Warning: Story May Cause Tears)
A clip from the latest episode: "How Creating A Healthy Relationship With Exercise Can Transform ALL Of Your Other Relationships"
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How Creating A Healthy Relationship With Exercise Can Transform ALL Of Your Other Relationships
Have a love/hate relationships with exercising? We totally get it. And we've brought 2 fitness coaches (who both used to want NOTHING to do with exercise) to discuss what a healthy relationship with exercise (that's actually attainable) can look like, and how it can impact all of your other relationships as a result!
Join 3MF Mobile Coach Jarad, Bag + Barre Gym Founder Mackenzie Te'o, and Zoe as they sit down and discuss this important topic on relational health, and how it ultimately impacts your relational WEALTH.
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Just Had A Baby? WATCH THIS To Heal Your Relationship With Your Body After Pregnancy!
If you're a new mom, please know that you are not alone, and you are SO much stronger than you know. This might just be the encouragement you've been searching for.
This clip with fitness coach Mackenzie Te'o is from the full episode on body issues and changing your relationship with your body. Click here to watch the full episode: https://youtu.be/Kp3ZRNEe7zk
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