Candice Horbacz

For more clips https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSnRsbWCQUTQYcZNcSHIDdQ Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com Full Video https://youtu.be/pUq-qiodaLQ The question about the possibility of creating an artificial consciousness similar to human consciousness is not new, and this is still debated by experts.

For more clips https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSnRsbWCQUTQYcZNcSHIDdQ Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com Full Video https://youtu.be/pUq-qiodaLQ Tom Bilyeu discussed how he understands the meaning of money and fulfillment. This topic will give you clarity about what makes you feel alive and happy.

For more clips https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSnRsbWCQUTQYcZNcSHIDdQ Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com Full Video https://youtu.be/pUq-qiodaLQ Tom Bilyeu presents his thoughts on augmentation, neurolinks, AI's, as well as why he believes that the only way forward for our species is to augment.

For more clips https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSnRsbWCQUTQYcZNcSHIDdQ Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com Full Video https://youtu.be/pUq-qiodaLQ It is unclear what happens to us when we die and whether or not living forever has spiritual implications. This is still one of life's great mysteries.

For more clips https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSnRsbWCQUTQYcZNcSHIDdQ Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com Full Video https://youtu.be/pUq-qiodaLQ "My life is the answer to what does a really fast pig look like," says Tom Bilyeu, who explains why. This quote is helpful when you are doubting yourself.

Chatting with Candice Tom Bilyeu (@Tom Bilyeu ) Episode Run Time: 01:19:36 Tom Bilyeu co-founded Quest Nutrition, the #1 protein bar brand in America. After leaving Quest in 2016, he started his own media company and podcast called Impact Theory. With his new venture, Tom seeks to incite lasting global change through the incubation of mission based businesses and the creation of empowering content. In this episode, I talk to Tom about his experiences at Quest and Impact Theory, the best practices for a healthy relationship, and the importance of a growth mindset to unlock one’s true potential. 00:00:00 00:01:34 Introducing Tom Bilyeu[00:05:08] Tom’s decision to marry his wife despite her health[00:12:07] Never weaponize your partner’s insecurity[00:17:29] Self-awareness and honesty in communication [00:23:45] How Tom deals with betrayal and forgiveness[00:30:10] Money does not change your self-worth[00:36:51] Why “loving yourself” is not enough[00:40:58] You can improve any skill with practice[00:47:26] Influence of Impact Theory University on kids VS adults[00:50:33] Impact Theory’s future content: virtual reality & metaverses[00:56:47] Upgrading humans through augmentation [01:01:37] Death, after-life, and immortality[01:07:18] Creating an AI version of yourself[01:12:40] Children’s access to technology and the internet Tom shares that he put a lot of thought about whether he would propose to his wife Lisa who had chronic health issues. Even if it meant a life of caretaking, Tom believed it was a small price to pay to be able to spend his life with his soulmate. They co-founded Quest Nutrition with their friends and have been married for 20 years. Their time together has taught them how to communicate and handle arguments. In a relationship, both parties reveal personal struggles and vulnerabilities. When an insecurity is made known, you should never use that as a weapon against your partner. Your relationship should be a safe space where you can both freely share your fears and faults. Trust is broken when you hold those insecurities against him/her, especially because it was shared in confidence. Arguments arise when insecurities are triggered. People get angry and upset because they have been made to feel less than. Knowing why you feel a certain way is the first step to solving the problem. Equally important is having the ability to communicate so you can talk about what’s really happening. Another tip from Tom: never bring up past fights or transgressions. Constantly dredging up your partner’s past crimes is damaging for the relationship. With every conversation, ask yourself, “What is my goal?” If your goal is to have a loving connection with your partner but then you act coldly towards him/her then it doesn’t make sense. Your goal or your behavior needs to change. Be honest about what you want to achieve⎯even if it seems petty or childish. With transparency, then you can both move forward. Self-awareness, communication, and openness are the key ingredients to overcome disagreements. On the topic of money and success, Tom believes that people truly want fulfillment, not fame or riches. Admittedly, there was a time wherein Tom himself chased after money. But once he finally amassed wealth, he realized that it didn’t change his self-worth. The goal of life is to not to become rich, but to respect and like who you are when no one’s watching. Tom defines fulfillment as “working really hard to garner a set of specific skills that matter to you, that allow you to serve yourself and other people.” Even if you’re failing, you feel fulfilled because you’re growing. The question to ask yourself is, “What would I do and love even if I’m failing?” By answering this question, you’re on the right track to finding your life’s meaning and purpose. With enough practice, you are guaranteed to make an improvement in any skill. Small increments do add up in ways that can have drastic effects on your life. It’s normal to have doubts or criticisms about yourself. Instead of entertaining these negative thoughts, you need to re-focus on your goal. Evaluate whether or not these reservations will serve you in any way. The doubts that you have may be founded on some evidence, but will it helpful to keep on repeating them? Only engage in thought and behaviors that will propel you towards the future you envision for yourself. Links and Resources Tom’s Twitter https://twitter.com/TomBilyeu Tom’s Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tombilyeu Tom’s Podcast https://impacttheory.com/episodes/ Impact Theory https://www.impacttheory.com Impact Theory University https://university.impacttheory.com/?sl=mwtn&utm_source=home_page&utm_medium=mwtn&utm_campaign=impacttheorycom

Gender ideology can be concerning because it has the potential to deteriorate many of the institutions that we rely on in order to function as a society.

We must be completely honest about our gender in certain aspects of our society, such as sports and medical records. Colin Wright explains why.

Chatting with Candice Colin Wright Episode Run Time: 01:34:25 Colin Wright is an evolutionary biologist and the managing editor at Quillette. Previously, he held a post doctorate position at Penn State University. His views on gender opposed progressive ideology, which received huge backlash from activist groups. Colin’s critics had even gone as far as to spread false claims to ruin his potential employment opportunities. In April 2020, he decided to leave the academia in favor of a career in journalism due to the current political climate. In this episode, Colin and I delve deeper into the current gender ideology, the risks of exposing children to puberty blockers, and society’s obsession with identities. [00:02:03] The sex and gender debate[00:06:36] Defining biological sex[00:12:05] Male, female, and intersex[00:14:49] Colin got “canceled” in academia[00:20:19] Denial of reality deteriorates institutions[00:27:02] Current gender ideology causes confusion[00:33:23] Exposing children to irreversible biological changes[00:39:25] Is gender dysphoria socially contagious?[00:49:56] Biological sex matters more in certain contexts [00:54:44] Exploitation of the flawed gender ideology[01:04:50] Dealing with mob pile-ons[01:15:13] There is no social justice without facts[01:24:18] Society’s obsession with identity Sex and gender are two separate things: the former refers to your reproductive anatomy while the latter refers to your identity. Progressive gender ideology aims to tear down the clear distinction between the two. The liberals insist that biological sex, like gender, exists on a spectrum even though there is no scientific evidence for this claim. Intersexed individuals do not fall into the typical definition of either male or female. Their physical appearance does not match their reproductive anatomy. Even though they are sexually ambiguous, it does not mean that there is a third sex. For a new category to exist, people must have a third kind of gamete. People who deny the fundamental aspect of sex essentially deny reality. The current gender ideology is perpetuated through tribal thinking and social policing. Reality should be grounded in science, not politics. Intertwining sex and gender distorts what is real. If we cannot agree on the basic fact that sex is only male or female, then how can we tackle much more complex issues? Trust is slowly being eroded not only in experts and scientists, but in institutions as well. Allowing children to transition into the opposite sex is also a subject of debate. Gender ideology can cause confusion in children’s gender identities. Parents are expected to unquestioningly affirm their children’s choice to transition. This is a very dangerous precedent since puberty blockers, hormones, and surgery cause changes that cannot be undone. We recognize that children are not yet fully consenting individuals but we allow them to make such delicate, life-changing decisions without parental intervention. This is an example of how politics undermines science. Activist-scientists push their own agenda in their research and anyone how disagrees will be called out. Journals are reluctant to publish an opposite point of view for fear of “getting canceled”. The irony of this whole situation is that gender ideology can be taken advantage of. There’s been stories of people who identify as trans in order to get what they want. Gender ideology is so focused on achieving social justice but its work has been counterintuitive. Blurring the separation between sex and gender means that all truth is relative. If we continue to avoid facts to prevent hurting feelings, then there can be no progress in any aspect of society. Denial of biological sex has consequences. Links and Resources Colin’s Twitter https://twitter.com/SwipeWright Colin’s Instagram https://www.instagram.com/swipewrightfitness/ Colin’s Newsletter colinwright.substack.com

@Benjamin A Boyce and I talk about oneness. What is it like to be no one. What is activist culture? And my awful experience in women's and gender studies.

@Benjamin A Boyce and I discuss energy of evil. How the emotions you hold can impact your health, and the state of others. What is the opposite of love and charity? How your mindset creates your reality.

Chatting with Candice Benjamin Boyce Episode Run Time: 01:58:16 Benjamin Boyce is the host of the Boyce of Reason podcast. He is most known for being a vocal critic of the Evergreen protests, having witnessed it firsthand as a student. His in-depth documentary and series of videos expose the chaotic behaviors that took place during the week-long incident in 2017. The event has been a result of the Evergreen College’s over emphasis on inclusivity and equality. In its attempt to promote progressive values, it has inadvertently fostered a cult-like mindset that demands conformity at all costs. In this episode, I talk to Benjamin about his experience during the Evergreen protests, the future of higher education, and the dangers of wokeism and cancel culture. [00:02:49] Benjamin’s experience during the Evergreen protests[00:14:20] Universities instill a new morality with no room for criticism[00:21:17] Students’ experience, activism, and fragile psychology[00:30:35] Human desire for religion and community[00:41:05] Determinism creates an infinite loop of shame and scapegoating[00:46:26] Love is a more powerful force that unites[00:52:50] Displacing the individual’s locus of control[00:55:30] Focus on the content of character[01:05:15] Activism culture attracts traumatized individuals[01:11:01] Verification of reality through an external criteria [01:16:06] Does the soul have a gender?[01:24:16] The disconnect between information and reality[01:37:04] Honesty through the separation of facts and opinions [01:42:42] Being attuned to your spirituality and religion[01:46:55] Let genuine curiosity drive the conversation[01:50:56] Cancel culture and people’s capacity to change Evergreen State College attracted national attention for the student protests that took place on campus in 2017. The controversy revolved around the school’s decades-long tradition of “Day of Absence”. On the day of the event, students and faculty of color would be absent from the campus so that their contributions may be highlighted. The following day is called “Day of Presence” where everyone returns to the campus to celebrate diversity. With Trump sworn into office at the start of 2017, minority groups felt unsafe in the new political climate. As a response, Evergreen State College decided to reverse the Day of Absence by inviting white people to leave the school. Bret Weinstein, a professor at Evergreen at the time, expressed in an e-mail that he was against this change. His e-mail was leaked to the public, which was a major catalyst for the demonstrations. Students protested against Bret Weinstein and called for more inclusivity and equality in the institution. Activists took things too far by seizing hostages and attacking the police force. Benjamin recalls a struggle session during the week-long campaign. He narrates that white students were berated for their race and were not allowed to speak. Seminars and workshops like these were not uncommon since a new president was appointed for Evergreen State College in 2015. With the institution’s support, student activist groups were given power around issues of race. For Benjamin, the workshops felt dogmatic and ritualistic. White participants were required to acknowledge and to apologize for their race which automatically makes them complicit in systems of oppression. There’s an indoctrination of new narratives and values. Any argument or criticism would be shut down through the use of specific rhetoric maneuvers. In a sense, colleges have returned to their original function of being an extended arm of religion. Higher education is programming students to adapt to the new religion of wokeism. But this new ideology is not just perpetuated through education, but also through corporations, social media, and community groups. Once this new religion is accepted, all dissent is purged against it. Blind allegiance to these new values can be dangerous, as it encourages a hive mentality. In this new religion, there is only shame and scapegoating. It demands acknowledgement of past sins but there seems to be no redemption. Instead of apologizing for immutable characteristics like gender and race, there should be a focus on an individual’s character. In born traits shouldn’t be the defining qualities of a person. By looking at our differences, it’s harder to get to a place of love. Links and Resources Benjamin’s YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/BenjaminABoyce Benjamin’s Twitter https://twitter.com/BenjaminABoyce

More clips https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSnRsbWCQUTQYcZNcSHIDdQ Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com Eliza Bleu and I discuss why it's so hard to catch the bad guys. The importance of aftercare for victims.

More clips https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSnRsbWCQUTQYcZNcSHIDdQ Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com Eliza Bleu and I discuss some of the statistics on human trafficking https://www.childrescuecoalition.org for more resources Why is human trafficking becoming a political debate? The importance of survivors coming forward.

The United Nations quotes human trafficking as the hidden figure of crime, with estimates showing that only 0.04% of survivors of human trafficking cases are identified. Our guest for today, Eliza Bleu, is one such survivor who miraculously survived a tragic case of human trafficking right here in the US. As a 17-year-old minor, Eliza moved to LA with big dreams of becoming a star. Forty-eight hours later, the man who promised her heaven on earth sold her to another man for a mere $500. Today Eliza is an advocate combating human, sex, and child trafficking, an industry worth $150 billion. In this episode, Eliza and I discuss facts and figures around human trafficking, detecting child sexual abuse material online, and the Stockholm syndrome in human trafficking. [00:05:30] Differentiating the different types of willing adult entertainers [00:08:20] Having a conversation with survivors [00:09:47] Why most people link sex trafficking to willing adult entertainment [00:11:20] Facts around human trafficking [00:13:33] Eliza's human trafficking story [00:18:08] Breaking down the process of selling a human being [00:22:09] Why Eliza returned to her abusers [00:27:56] The lack of empathy during human trafficking conversations [00:30:42] Stockholm syndrome and human trafficking [00:35:08] Why it's hard to track and charge sex traffickers [00:40:10] Understanding the psychological effects of sex trafficking [00:43:01] Eliza's journey to healing and restoration [00:56:10] Detecting child sexual abuse material online [01:01:03] Are social platforms to blame for online sexual exploitation? [01:02:40] Why most people are against online paywalls [01:14:14] Laws around possessing and sharing explicit content online [01:17:40] Dissecting Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act [01:24:10] A look at why prohibition laws never work [01:25:10] Understanding harm reduction [01:32:23] Eliza's main motivation and go-to resource when tackling human rights violations [01:38:30] The empowering effect of sharing your story Facts About Human Trafficking According to the United Nations, human trafficking is when a person is recruited or abducted by threat or force to be exploited, mostly for sex or labor. For the most part, human trafficking is only comparable to modern-day slavery. Sadly, there are more 'slaves' today than there were at the height of slavery itself. They don't come out and ask for help, but they are there; you just don't get to see them. The US State Department estimates there are 24.9 million human trafficking victims worldwide. The problem is, when most people hear the words 'sex trafficking', they automatically assume that it's women and children from overseas who are being forced into sex enslavement. Never will Americans believe that Americans are being trafficked by other Americans. Stockholm Syndrome and Sex Trafficking Stockholm syndrome is a psychological response to captivity and abuse where victims develop an attachment with their abusers or captors. Although it's not yet known what prompts this response formation, experts believe it may serve as a coping mechanism for people experiencing trauma. Other than high-profile kidnappings and hostage situations, people living with an abusive partner perfectly sum up this narrative. It's easy to judge them for staying around for the next one-sided boxing match, but it would be best if you empathize with their situation. But why do victims find it so difficult to leave? Most sex trafficking victims face an immediate threat to their survival and believe that their abuser is willing and able to carry out the said threat. For others like Eliza, it was a little bit subtle-- emotional abuse. There wasn't any threat to survival at the beginning of the relationship, but once she developed a bond, it was too late. No matter their current circumstances, victims will always be dependent on the abuser. And that's why Eliza returned to the human trafficking world even after enjoying freedom for a while. Are Social Networks to Blame for Online Sexual Exploitation? Social networks have been reluctant to censor posts about conspiracy theories, fake news, and online child sexual exploitation. The sad reality is that they sometimes profit from non-consensual content. A great example is a recent accusation where Pornhub was forced to remove over 10 million videos that included videos of child abuse and non-consensual sexual acts from their porn archive. Although amendments have been made to try and censor digital content, digital platforms benefit from Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act that grants them immunity from liabilities related to third-party content. Online sexual exploitation often includes live streaming, grooming, consuming child sexual abuse material, blackmailing children for sexual purposes. Links and Resources Eliza’s Twitter https://twitter.com/elizableu Join the Eliza Community https://eliza.locals.com/

For more clips https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSnRsbWCQUTQYcZNcSHIDdQ Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com In this clip Dr. Hardt and Candice Horbacz discuss righteous anger. How changing your identity changes your reality, and the powerful effects of Alpha 1 training at Biocybernaut.

For more clips https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSnRsbWCQUTQYcZNcSHIDdQ Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com In this clip Dr. Hardt and Candice Horbacz discuss merging, manifestation, and orgasm. How are these things related? What is sex magic? Why are there chicken sacrifices in Voodoo?

Chatting with Candice Dr. James Hardt Episode Run Time: 02:09:24 Dr. James V. Hardt is a research scientist, psychologist, author, and founder of Biocybernaut Institute. Known for inventing the world's first Micro-Computer-based brain wave analyzer and biofeedback system, Dr. Hardt offers unique brain training programs at Biocybernaut. Dr. Hardt has traveled across the globe to pursue his research to study advanced Yogis and Zen Masters with his technology. He has worked with personalities like Tony Robbins and high-powered executives to elevate states of intelligence and consciousness. In this episode, I talk to Dr. Hardt about his work in consciousness, the mystical side of brain wave training, sex magic, biological determinism, and the Ego. [00:03:12] Introducing Dr. James Hardt and Biocybernaut [00:09:45] Maintaining the effects of brainwave training [00:13:52] Revealing the mystical side of brainwave training [00:00:00] Changing your identity to change your reality [00:36:00] Spiritual awakening, forgiveness, and identity [00:52:44] The practical and mystical applications of brainwave training [01:09:05] Brainwaves, manifestation, and The Secret [01:15:19] Merging, transcendence, and sex magic [01:18:35] Neuroplasticity, biological determinism, and meditative prayer [01:30:10] The enduring effects of Biocybernaut (beyond the training) [01:38:14] Psychedelics, brain training, and The Ego as an obstacle to growth [01:46:24] Is Ego death possible? [01:52:31] Russell Brand, the Ego Eradicator, and breathwork [01:58:33] Why do we have an Ego, and how can we diminish it? [01:59:25] Reducing suffering, expanding awareness, and ushering in a Golden Age Biocybernaut is the result of over 40 years of research in biofeedback. Dr. Hardt shares his personal experiences with biofeedback and the incredible documented results that Biocybernaut training can deliver for improved health and wellness. Biocybernaut training provides effective means to remove emotional trauma baggage that can limit an individual's progress. The training improves central nervous system function and thus holds the potential to improve all the aspects of someone's life. In Buddhism, there are over 150 levels of consciousness. Similarly, improvements that people make in Biocybernaut training span a broad spectrum. Depending on the type and extent of brain wave training, progress can be tremendous. "There are doorways to the infinite, or the divine, that are littered, quite literally in the hallways of Biocybernaut." - Dr. Hardt Dr. Hardt always spoke openly with clients about empirical results, including the expected boost in IQ and creativity. He revealed the more mystical side of its development, in part because prevailing opinion had begun to change, and shift towards being more accepting of technology could alter consciousness. According to Dr. Hardt, identity and reality are synonymous. Thus, when you change your brainwaves, you change your personality, identity, and your experience of reality. Links and Resources The Biocybernaut Institute Website https://www.biocybernaut.com/ The Art of Smart Thinking by Dr. James Hardt https://www.amazon.com/Art-Smart-Thinking-James-Hardt/dp/0979573009

For more clips https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSnRsbWCQUTQYcZNcSHIDdQ Full episode https://youtu.be/jodUQEIRvBU Chris Williamson and Candice Horbacz discuss how to maintain a healthy relationship. Can love conquer all? We discuss the value of time. Knowing your values, and your partners values. Is fate real? Can fate coexist with free will?

For more clips https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSnRsbWCQUTQYcZNcSHIDdQ Full episode https://youtu.be/jodUQEIRvBU Chris Williamson and Candice Horbacz discuss why tradition is important. Is it a good idea to sleep with someone on the first date? Why are millenials not having kids anymore? Is marriage a sham? Should a woman choose a family or a career, and can you have both?

Full Episode https://youtu.be/jodUQEIRvBU Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com For more Clips https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSnRsbWCQUTQYcZNcSHIDdQ Chris Williamson (@Chris Williamson ) and Candice Horbacz discuss his younger self. When should you get married? Why do most relationships end in catastrophe? Can you have your cake and eat it too? What happened to tradition? Should you sleep with someone on the first date?

Chatting with Candice Chris Williamson Episode Run Time: 01:32:33 Chris Williamson is the host of the podcast Modern Wisdom. After being a club promoter for over a decade, running more than a thousand events, and most famously appearing on Love Island, Chris, tired of the party scene, started the podcast to expand his purview. Although he still runs club nights, he now spends most of his time hosting his show, a job he can’t believe he is paid to do. He also has a Master’s degree in International Marketing, which he uses to make the most of his events. In this episode, I talk to Chris about his time on reality shows, learning from relationships, and how taking responsibility for your life can be liberating. [00:00:57] Introducing Chris Williamson [00:12:58] Leaving reality television [00:18:37] People eventually forget your past [00:20:28] Shifting from reality TV to hosting a podcast [00:22:38] Learning from relationships [00:25:32] Healthy and unhealthy levels of jealousy [00:33:11] The evolution of marriage and the upward trend in divorce [00:38:37] The value of tradition and ritual in society [00:43:23] Long term relationships, marriage, and biological imperatives [01:01:40] Predetermination, agency, and locus of control [01:10:56] Turning the volume down on your thoughts [01:24:31] Journaling and self-help are feminine? [01:25:30] Chris’s TEDx Talk Even though he believes his podcasting work is way more exciting and valuable, Chris still fields tons of questions online about reality tv. Fans of Love Island regularly get in touch with him, asking for tips on how to get onto similar shows. He believes that “instant fame” is appealing, and many people realize it requires a relatively small amount of work. We all believe that our internal state is far richer than everybody else’s. Fans see reality tv as “free fame” and as their chance to be plucked out of obscurity just for existing. Chris is concerned that the obsession with reality television and its potential for instant fame sends the wrong message about success and how we all should measure our efforts. According to Chris, the vast majority of people within the industry are miserable, which is part of the reason he left. Because they anchor their identities to the roles they play, stars of reality shows often experience a crisis of identity when trying to build a life outside of the industry. Although we all should expect some level of healthy jealousy, superabundant jealousy is a sign of a bigger problem. If we experience a lot of jealousy, we must consider what we need to lessen the emotion’s intensity and frequency. We may crave reassurance and affirmation from our partners. Transparency and communication often solve most issues in a relationship. We should learn to convey our needs effectively if we want something different. For many men, jealousy feels shameful. Admitting to jealousy is acknowledging insecurity, which is “unmasculine”. Seeing relationships fail has jaded Chris’s view of them. He believes that catastrophe and disaster are the rules with relationships, not the exception. Accepting that liberates you from some fears that spark your jealousy. It is imperative to find compatibility with values, schedules, and life plans. When you settle down with someone, you need to have difficult conversations. If your partner wants to have children and you do not, you are fundamentally incompatible, and things will end badly. Chris describes himself as spiritual as opposed to religious. He does not believe in fate per se, but rather that he can make things work. Chris is hesitant to attribute the sum of his life to a higher power and instead takes responsibility for his intentional actions to create and rectify outcomes. He believes the idea of fate takes away your agency and strips you of any acknowledgment for your hard work and creative problem-solving. You are the common denominator in all your life experience; there is an internal locus of control. If you encounter a particular result consistently, it is because of you. It is more likely that it is because of you than it is because of the world. When you start to see life in this way, it can be very liberating but challenging. There is an appeal in believing that things are happening to you rather than being accountable and accepting responsibility for your life. Consistent results follow a consistent input. Links and Resources Chris’s Website https://chriswillx.com/ Chris’s Podcast: Modern Wisdom https://chriswillx.com/modernwisdom/ Chris’s Instagram https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx/ Chris’s Twitter https://twitter.com/ChrisWillx

For more clips https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSnRsbWCQUTQYcZNcSHIDdQ For the whole episode https://youtu.be/K9yDfQD0pj4 Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com Keisha Grey and I discuss how regulations on age can help improve the porn industry and lead the talent to making more informed decisions. We also discuss the importance of using your social media for good, and connecting with followers to make a difference.

For more clips https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSnRsbWCQUTQYcZNcSHIDdQ For the whole episode https://youtu.be/K9yDfQD0pj4 Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com Keisha Grey and I discuss how regulations on age can help improve the porn industry and lead the talent to making more informed decisions. We also discuss the importance of using your social media for good, and connecting with followers to make a difference.

Chatting with Candice Keisha Grey Episode Run Time: 01:30:18 Keisha Grey is a highly acclaimed former adult star with more than 1.5 million fans on Instagram. Her meteoric rise to become one of the most sought-after actresses in the industry was not without a few hiccups, though. First, Keisha battled addiction, and her fall from grace led to a short stint at Dunkin Donuts. Nonetheless, her determination to kick out the habit and subsequent journey to sobriety is a story of perseverance, gratitude, and love. Interestingly, Keisha is our most requested guest, and she talks about her exit from mainstream shooting, finding love, and why porn is an art. [00:03:50] Introducing Keisha Grey [00:07:45] Learning to say No [00:09:48] Having standards and setting an excellent example for other girls [00:10:50] The link between poor sex education and early pornography indulgence [00:15:00] Keisha's fight against child trafficking [00:17:20] Keisha's struggle with addiction [00:20:50] How Keisha balanced a long-term relationship and her onscreen career [00:24:14] Surviving an overdose and the road to recovery [00:28:01] Battling a relapse [00:34:40] Affirmations and gratitude lists [00:36:30] Handling cyberstalking and personal privacy [00:41:50] The competitive nature of the adult industry [00:43:44] Porn as an art [00:49:48] Keisha's encounter with manipulative agents [00:51:37] Dissecting the proposed 21 and Over rule [00:55:50] Using social media to make a difference [00:59:30] Keisha's transition from mainstream to self-production [01:01:37] How value impacts on-screen performances [01:06:25] The difference between fantasy and glorified abuse [01:08:20] Regulating the industry using a paywall [01:13:34] Keisha's love story [01:15:40] Keisha's exist from mainstream shooting [01:16:40] Losing everything and starting from the bottom [01:19:13] Working at Dunkin Donuts [01:21:15] Adult stars dealing with different personalities off-screen [01:24:40] Battling anxiety issues [01:26:20] Keisha's goals and ambitions For the longest time, traditional porn studios have exploited young girls who flock the industry every year searching for opportunities. Young girls, naive of how the industry works, sign shitty contracts, perform outrageous acts, all in the name of perfecting their crafts. While it's okay to try out a couple of stuff early on in your career, you need to understand that the type of content you produce will forever be part of your resume. So, if you settle for mediocre content, you'll always be associated with mediocre content. Unfortunately, girls who stand up against being mistreated or poor pay are often met with frowns of disapproval. The good news is that there are other ways to remain relevant other than mainstream shooting. A good example, and a favorite for most stars, is OnlyFans. It's easy to set up, and you get to enjoy the freedom of producing your own content whichever way you please. The pressure associated with mainstream shooting can drive even the toughest of souls into depression. The tight schedules, constant traveling, relationship issues, and the recent pandemic are things stars have to bear. Some stars choose to meditate; others try to sleep it off, and sadly, the majority fall into drug and substance abuse. For Keisha, pills and alcohol were her thing, such that she sometimes appeared on set a little tipsy. Like most addicts, Keisha battled denial and only sought professional help only when her agents threatened to drop her if she didn't seek help. Although she has relapsed a couple of times, her journey to sobriety is one of courage, determination, and love. We live in an age where kids as young as ten have internet access. While this might be a good thing in terms of information access, parents need to filter the content their kids can have access to. This is because there are free stuff everywhere, and since kids are naturally curious, there is a huge chance that they'll one day bump into some adult content. As a parent, you must control the type of content your child consumes and have the dreaded sex talk when the time is right. Keisha also believes there should be a paywall where people sign up and pay for content when accessing adult sites. The paywall will do wonders in terms of how we consume content and boost industry earnings while providing better tax avenues for the government. It would also be best if regulators introduced the 21 and over rule as part of measures aimed at protecting young girls joining the industry. Links and Resources Keisha’s Instagram Keisha’s Twitter handle