Candice Horbacz

I was a guest on @Chrissie Mayr 's podcast with Brandi Love to discuss the events that unfolded at Turning Point USA. A few weeks ago everyone was chiming in on whether or not an adult performer should be allowed at a conservative convention.

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Chatting with CandiceAdapia D’ErricoEpisode Run Time: 01:19:32 Adapia D’Errico is a professional real estate investor on private equity and other areas of investments such as start-ups, ventures, and cryptocurrency. Her book “Productive Intuition” is a self-help book that aims to explore the “intersection of science and spirituality through story and the senses to immediately bring you into alignment with your Inner Authority”.In this episode, Ada and I talk about her journey of self-realization with her first marriage, being your most authentic self with your partner, and the Goalcast video that went viral. 00:00:00 00:06:30 Finding courage to rise above an unsatisfied life 00:10:32 Pressures of marrying and settling down early 00:14:22 Rewriting your narrative 00:18:41 The difference between being self-centered and selfish[00:21:46] “Being authentic and not stopping your dance” 00:26:15 The dark side of self-love 00:31:55 How to be constructive and intentional with yourself 00:35:14 The power of apology and communication 00:40:27 Building a life (and a house) together 00:46:28 Money as a tool in marriage 00:52:02 Ada’s journey of sharing her learnings with the world 01:00:47 Self-honesty and self-forgiveness 01:05:07 Ada re-facing the music and the video that went viral 01:11:11 Navigating booby traps and pain points 01:17:01 Final words and where to find Ada and her work Where do we draw the line between being self-centered and selfish?The culture surrounding the “self-love” movement has made quite an impact on social media, particularly towards Gen Z and Millennials. While the intention promotes a positive outlook towards the self, it can also lead to an aversion to conflict and labelling of negative emotions and criticism as “toxic”. However, life and reality rarely operate this way and part of growing as a person involves looking inwards, being honest, and facing the parts of ourselves that we don’t like. The key to navigating positive self-love is to self-regulate; recognizing “negative” emotions like anger as energy that just needs to be aired out to make space for more positive emotions. What happens when you build a life and a house together?As I share my experience building a house with my husband and the differences in our perspective, Ada shares a similar experience with her husband and how they successfully navigated this big step by forming a team of two people with different areas of expertise, her in finance and him in architecture and construction. Ada also shares how life and love is practical and how she understands money as not the endgame in a marriage, but an important tool in making marriages work. Ada discusses the Goalcast video that went viral In 2019, Goalcast shared a video of Ada’s keynote speech discussing her previous marriage and how she eventually left because of how unhappy she was. The video went viral with over 40 million views, and she received a considerable amount of negative feedback over a video she believed was a 20-minute condensed version of her 9 year-marriage. After she reached out to friends and family about the shame she felt over the video, she finally confronts it and decides to watch it again. What she thought would have been a difficult process led to her realizing the beauty and impact of her video and her journey to self-forgiveness. Links and Resources: Official Website https://www.adapiaderrico.com/ Where to buy "Productive Intuition" https://www.productiveintuition.com/buy-here Adapia's LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/adapia/

Full Episode https://youtu.be/zKooFT6GpXw Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com/ Or https://www.Candice.locals.com As the world continues to secularize, does spirituality affect modern day happiness? Science says that it does. Mike and Candice discuss the role of time, faith, and community in achieving happiness.

Full Episode https://youtu.be/zKooFT6GpXw Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com/ Or https://www.Candice.locals.com Everyone has a dream that’s unique to themselves. There will be people who will not understand why you’ve set certain goals and that’s okay. Live out your purpose anyway. Here’s some advice to help you live boldly as your authentic self.

Full Episode https://youtu.be/zKooFT6GpXw Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com/ Or https://www.Candice.locals.com Happiness can either be fleeting or enduring, depending on our goals and actions. As a psychology and money expert of 30 years, Mike shares his simple recipe to achieve lasting happiness.

Full Episode https://youtu.be/zKooFT6GpXw Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com/ Or https://www.Candice.locals.com Is altruism one of the ingredients for long term happiness? Mike and Candice share stories of what it means to give and how it’s affected their own happiness.

Full Episode https://youtu.be/zKooFT6GpXw Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com/ Or https://www.Candice.locals.com A longitudinal study found that alcohol addiction is one of the factors that can negatively impact happiness. Mike and Candice talk about the intentional use of substances and its influence on the brain and creativity.

Full Episode https://youtu.be/zKooFT6GpXw Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com/ Or https://www.Candice.locals.com Survival instincts wired humans to be more attuned to negative events. But in today’s age of social media, a pessimistic view does more harm than good by amplifying feelings of envy and loneliness. To overcome this tendency, we need to choose gratitude.

Chatting with Candice Mike Duffy Episode Run Time: 01:18:19 Mike Duffy is the CEO of Happiness Wealth Management, the founder of the Happiness Hall of Fame, and a motivational speaker. He is the author of The Happiness Book: A Positive Guide To Happiness! and four other titles on the same topic. With his expertise on both money and happiness, Mike is on a mission to help others achieve financial independence and lasting joy. In this episode, I talk to Mike about the factors that influence happiness and how to sustain it. We also share our own stories of how giving has contributed to our personal sense of fulfillment. 00:00:00 00:01:25 Introducing Mike Duffy [00:02:45] Alcohol, drugs, and happiness [00:10:08] The happiness formula [00:16:05] Candice’s dream [00:20:34] Scientifically proven indicators of happiness [00:27:51] The difference between happiness and joy [00:31:05] Happiness of giving VS receiving [00:35:15] The Happiness Hall of Fame [00:41:08] How do you sustain happiness? [00:46:14] Golf as “social yoga” [00:52:17] Overcoming the negative bias [00:57:03] Be vulnerable and courageous to live authentically [01:01:30] The conscious practice of gratitude [01:06:37] Travelling and the human need for variety [01:13:20] Take a chance on yourself The Grant Study by Harvard followed 300 participants over the course of 75 years. It’s been found that alcoholism had a negative impact on happiness and marriage. Drinking in moderation is fine, but not everyone is capable of controlling themselves. The lack of intentional use for alcohol and drugs can easily lead to substance abuse. In order to achieve long term happiness, one must combine purpose and progress. Identify your life purposes. Next, enumerate the steps that you can take to make progress in those areas. We’re all capable of greater happiness if we write down our goals and stay on track. Knowing our purposes prevents us from succumbing to vices. Other important factors that can influence happiness is spirituality, relationships, and autonomy. Numerous studies have shown that people who have faith, who are part of a community, and who work for themselves are much happier than their counterparts. Interestingly, altruism also plays a big role in happiness. Be it with words, deeds, or gifts, giving contributes to our sense of fulfillment and ripples out to make positive changes in the world. The COVID-19 pandemic has provided many with the opportunity for self-reflection. People were forced to re-assess their priorities and how they spent their time. After much rumination, Mike encourages people to be boldly authentic. Go after the passion project or business idea you’ve been holding yourself back from. It’s time to take a chance on yourself. Even if you fail, you’re coming out wiser and stronger than ever. Humans have the tendency to dwell on the negative, but this bias can be combatted through the conscious practice of gratitude. Links and Resources Mike Duffy’s LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/mike-duffy-30ab0518/ Mike Duffy’s Website https://mikeduffyspeaks.com/ Happiness Hall of Fame Website happinesshalloffame.com/ Happiness Wealth Management https://www.happinesswealthmanagement.com/

FULL VIDEO FULL VIDEO https://youtu.be/ABidhMTF9ls Support the podcast https://candice.locals.com/ Everyone wants to know why they should homeschool, but what about why you shouldn't homeschool? Candice and Jack explain why homeschooling is not for everyone and the impact it has on your kids.

FULL VIDEO https://youtu.be/ABidhMTF9ls Support the podcast https://candice.locals.com/ Submission is the one word in relationships that is often misunderstood and sparks fear and resistance among married couples. However, submission is not slavery, rather an act that is expressed mutually and voluntarily.

FULL VIDEO https://youtu.be/ABidhMTF9ls Support the podcast https://candice.locals.com/ Did you know that our bodies store memories of traumatic events? In this video, Jack and Candice describe how certain yoga poses release trauma stored in the body to heal pain, stress, and tension.

FULL VIDEO https://youtu.be/ABidhMTF9ls Support the podcast https://candice.locals.com/ As the debate over whether female transgender athletes should compete against biological women in sports, biological men continue to dominate female sports. Jack explains that unfair advantage, testosterone levels, and discrimination are some of the reasons why he’s against transgender women competing against women in sports.

FULL VIDEO https://youtu.be/ABidhMTF9ls Support the podcast https://candice.locals.com/ We’ve all heard jokes about “who wears the pants in the family.” In this video, Jack asserts that the man is the head of the house, even though the statement is considered “controversial” by modern feminists who work relentlessly to undermine a man’s position in the house.

FULL VIDEO https://youtu.be/ABidhMTF9ls Support the podcast https://candice.locals.com/ Why do some relationships thrive while others fail? Good romantic relationships are not based on status, deep conversations, or lust. So, what are they based on? Jack opens up on why his first marriage failed and dissects the building blocks for successful marriages.

Chatting with Candice Jack Murphy Episode Run Time: 01:49:58 Support the podcast https://candice.locals.com/ Jack Murphy is a podcaster, author, and founder of The Liminal Order, an exclusive men’s organization that ascribes to positive masculinity and believes in the power of individual accountability. His book Democrat to Deplorable takes a deep look into the Democrats who proudly switched parties to vote for former President Donald Trump. In this episode, Jack and I talk about feminism versus traditional masculinity, the keys to a successful marriage, and why more men should do yoga. 00:00:00 00:03:50 Commitment in married and unmarried cohabitation [00:09:30] The building block of a great relationship [00:16:05] Why couples who share core values have happier relationships [00:18:50] The demerits of passive forms of political beliefs [00:24:45] The adverse effects and aspects of homeschooling [00:31:50] The link between parenting and a child’s behavior [00:36:50] Is yoga too feminine? [00:41:05] Expectant fathers hormonal changes during pregnancy [00:42:30] Should women be submissive to their husbands? [00:52:20] Why the man needs to be the leader in his family [00:58:08] Feminism versus traditional masculinity [01:03:30] Balancing between fair competition and the rights of transgender athletes [01:06:10] Transgender athletes and biological performance advantages [01:08:10] Why losing is sometimes more important than winning [01:15:50] Would you rather be right or happy? [01:23:04] Positive masculinity in the Liminal Order [01:26:34] Purpose and filling the God-shaped hole [01:33:01] Developing and maintaining long-term romantic relationships [01:36:58] Learning who you are through relationships [01:42:45] The core foundations of real love and true intimacy The Negative Effects and Aspects of Homeschooling The past couple of years have witnessed an increase in the number of parents choosing to homeschool their children. Many experts have tried to explain why this is the case, and, for the most part, safety and religious concerns always top the list. Clearly, these concerns make sense because homeschoolers do not have the same exposure to peer pressure and bullying as school-going kids. However, although justified, these concerns do not repeal the reality that homeschooling can have life-long adverse effects on children. For one, children need to spend time away from the caring eye of their parents to learn how to adjust. They need to understand that life is not a bed of roses, and situations will arise where they end up on the losing side of things. Thus, time spent away from family is when they can learn the art of compromise and deal with despicable people. Is Yoga Too Feminine? When you look at the yoga community, a disproportionately large majority of its members are female. Jack believes that this is probably because most men believe yoga is only for women. However, yoga is a recommended health practice for both men and women. So, as a man, you might be thinking that yoga is too feminine or that you’re not flexible enough, but yoga was originally invented by men for men. Furthermore, challenging your body in a new way can drastically improve stamina and build confidence. Of course, there are certain types of yoga that might be too feminine. So, as a man, it would be best if you avoided those. Why the Man needs to be the Leader in his Family Sadly, many men don’t want to be in charge in the family setting. Some husbands don’t understand how to lead while others simply refuse to lead. Jack believes that the many serious marital, financial, and parenting problems present in most homes are directly a result of men’s failure to lead. Jack further explains that women can furnish the house, clean, cook, and do the laundry, but that’s just part of their feminine side. So, as a man, your responsibility is to lead the way, take care of problems, and be the muscle. There is no such thing as equals in marriage, and women are happier when they have an alpha in the house who initiates stuff. A leader doesn’t wait for others to help him make the first move. He is the instigator. Links and Resources https://twitter.com/jackmurphylive https://www.youtube.com/jackmurphylive The Liminal Order https://t.co/cQIYCWHRXX?amp=1 Jack Murphy’s Democrat to Deplorable https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08XK6CPW5/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_1JRKRY912Z9SQ8TEM20Z

FULL VIDEO https://youtu.be/h9ZGJ9Gl2Vg John McAfee was one of the most authentic people I've met. I am so grateful I got to spend some time getting to know him. He will be missed.

Full episode https://youtu.be/oHtxb8PoOLE Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com Dan Go discussed why we need to change our minds as we change our bodies. Discover how to live a healthy lifestyle and how simple it is to lose weight.

Full episode https://youtu.be/oHtxb8PoOLE Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com Making time for the things you have to do as well as the things you want to do is the key to living a balanced life. Find out how to achieve this.

Full episode https://youtu.be/oHtxb8PoOLE Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com There are many strategies to burn fat, but the problem is that there are many misconceptions about fitness, and Dan Go shared his thoughts about it.

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Being fit is a worthy goal, but which plan will get you there? Before addressing our problems, we must first understand our approach to diet and exercise. Full episode https://youtu.be/oHtxb8PoOLE Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com

Chatting with Candice Dan Go Episode Run Time: 01:58:01 Dan Go is a serial entrepreneur, coach, and investor with over 20 years of experience within the fitness industry. He is also the founder of High-Performance Founder Accelerator, a fitness company that focuses on getting high-achieving entrepreneurs into their ideal bodies with minimal stress. Dan has been ranked one of the top fitness coaches on Twitter after building an audience of 90,000+ followers in under two years, with his 1:1 coaching program boasting a 94% success rate. In this episode, Dan and I tackle the powerful connection between fitness and entrepreneurship, the disadvantages of excessive workouts, and the mind-blowing benefits of walking in nature. 00:00:00 00:08:01 The powerful connection between fitness and entrepreneurship [00:12:20] Maintaining a healthy balance between diets and working out [00:20:25] The disadvantages of excessive workouts [00:24:01] Fasting versus exercising [00:29:25] Fasting and its effects on testosterone [00:31:30] How to naturally boost your testosterone levels [00:33:45] The truth about testosterone injections and male fertility [00:35:03] Dan's testosterone theory [00:39:26] Why walking is the most underrated form of exercising [00:42:40] The link between fitness and longevity [00:48:40] How lifestyles, habits, and diets affect biological aging [00:54:50] When and how to get a DEXA scan [00:58:01] Type 2 diabetes: Tips to lose weight successfully [01:04:10] Why changing your mindset is the key to losing weight [01:08:05] Why you should never take your health for granted [01:10:50] The pros and cons of social media use [01:21:34] Mind-blowing benefits of walking in nature [01:23:50] Nature healing for depression and anxiety attacks [01:24:40] Japan's vicious 'Death by Overwork' cycle [01:27:50] The ever-evolving definition of life-work balance [01:32:02] Family-focused recovery [01:42:50] Are you missing out on your child's development? [01:43:56] How to find your purpose in life [01:51:15] Why getting rid of your 'old self' is key to personal growth [01:55:50] Steps to living a regret-free life Links and Resources Dan’s Twitter https://twitter.com/FitFounder Dan’s Website https://highperformancefounder.clickfunnels.com/bookcallv2

For more clips https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSnRsbWCQUTQYcZNcSHIDdQ Support the podcast https://www.chattingwithcandice.com Full Video https://youtu.be/pUq-qiodaLQ One of the reasons for divorce is that people tend to grow in different ways, however, there are strategies to avoid this scenario which @Tom Bilyeu shared.