6 Rude Conversation Habits You May Be Guilty Of

There are certain habits that simply drive other people away. As the saying goes, we all have something good to offer. However, we also all have characteristics that can annoy others. Are people happy when you arrive or when you leave a place?

In this video you will see what those horrible traits are that drive people away. We tell you how to recognize if you have them so you can try to avoid it. Don't miss it!

There will be occasions when we need to project safety and precision, or when we want to make a good impression. Examples: an appointment, a job interview or a public exhibition.

Therefore, the proposal is to train in everyday conversations to eliminate or attenuate habits that could play against us on those special occasions.

Remember that a habit is an action that is executed mechanically, without thinking. In social situations where we are a little nervous, it could "shoot itself". And that doesn't suit us.

Think of a date or a delicate situation like that and you'll see that these innocent habits can be "bad.

Surely, most of us could use removing, polishing, or changing a few bad habits when we speak to firmly and clearly convey our message on special occasions.

These things are trained, learned, and throughout life we are improving them.

Many people think that being a good conversationalist is a matter of verbiage, and limit themselves to exchanging sounds without communication, without respect, without listening and without caring what the other expresses. That's not talking: that's going back to the Stone Age, where clubs, grunts and selfishness reigned. Conversation is a delightful social act that cannot be learned in books or with routines or disciplines, because as Guy de Maupassant said there is nothing more seductive than a good conversation: "What is it? A mystery! It is the art of not seeming boring, of touching everything with interest, of enjoying with trifles, of being fascinating, with nothing at all".

A good conversation is an extremely pleasant act, which provides calm, nourishes self-esteem and generates endorphins. In order to be a good conversationalist one must try to avoid the most typical mistakes, many toxic habits resulting from childhood and adolescent experiences that burden the attitude for this sublime act of conversation. We are in time to fight them. The first thing is to be aware of the problem. Let's see them!