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Always "trying to get along" and having that be your "only move" is not a good position to be in. It's a weakness because you don't know how to be disagreeable. Now if you start introducing more disagreement, challenging her, and break rapport in conversations, you can now get the experience to get good at this. Only then is your "agreeableness" more valuable, because now you have a choice, and you won't agree unless you genuinely value whatever it is that is being presented. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #preperation #diligence #datingtipsformen #highvaluemale #socialdynamics #women

When meeting a beautiful woman at first, the name of the game is conveying value and building tension. So you'll tease a bit more, challenge her a bit, all while conveying value and establishing attraction. Later on when you are spending time together and building familiarity and comfort, the behaviors that lead to building attraction get toned down and spaced out a bit more. In comfort it's more so about building that trust and familiarity by going through shared experiences, learning each other's values and boundaries, and simply spending time together. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #preperation #diligence #datingtipsformen #highvaluemale #women #relationshipadvice

When interacting with a beautiful woman at your favorite cocktail lounge. It is possible to go home with the girl on the same night. In order to do that you have to get in the habit of testing for compliance. You can't just make moves blindly and risk making her feel uncomfortable. By testing for compliance, you are a lot more in tune with where she is emotionally at. If it's comfortable for her, a same night lay can happen. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingformen #socialdynamics #selfhelp #highvaluemale #psychology #women

While practicing your social skills, you can't do it without reading people. If you aren't observant and paying attention to how people behave based on things that you have said or done, than you are missing out on valuable data to better know ho to communicate and deal with someone. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #psychology #socialskills #women #datingcoachformen #networkingskills

When getting into a relationship, you can't assume that the other person is going to walk into knowing your values, boundaries, the way you do things, the way you do relationships, etc. If they figure it out, great! You just can't assume it, if you haven't done anything to reinforce it. You have to show and teach the other person the way you like to do things, and it's them respecting your values, and vice versa, that deepens the bond you have. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #psychology #datingadvice #women #highvaluemale #relationshipadvice

There comes a time in an interaction with a woman of interest where you have to state your intentions and interest in her for things to move forward into a more intimate relationship. If you do it too early, you risk rejection because she doesn't have value for you yet. If you wait too long, you risk being friend zoned due to looking like the guy who doesn't have the courage to move things forward. In The Dating Arts, you learn when to do it precisely and avoid either one of those problems. Now that's too long of a lesson to type out here, so if you'd like to have deeper discussions that are specific to what you are going through, then get involved on "the inside" to get things rolling. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #datingcoachformen #women #socialskills #datingformen #alphamale

If you want a great relationship that is different and unique then the normal clown world relationships you see where couples argue, complain about the dishes, demanding sex without doing anything romantic to lead up to it, taking each other for granted, high divorce rates, etc. Men at The Dating Arts, we don't want to none of that! We hold ourselves to a higher standard and we show the women that we are with, how to uphold that standard to have a great relationship with one another. Now if she's never been in a relationship like this, you have to teach her and itemize the different relationship moves that you guys are going to do together. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #savvy #datingformen #socialskills #socialdynamics #relationshipadvice #relationships

When you speak to a woman of interest, eliciting curiosity about you out of her, is very important. Within The Dating Arts you will specifically learn how to do this with material designed to teach you how to say it. Establishing curiosity and intrigue entices people to explore that curiosity, which is the prerequisite for building attraction. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialskills #women #datingformen #communication #flirting #alphamale

A large aspect of what we do here at The Dating Arts is, we are different than any other man around, we move different, we talk different, we hold different standards than the average guy. This starts and get's established on the Opener and continues to get established every single step of the way, all the way into the relationship. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingcoachformen #socialdynamics #women #highvaluemale #levelup #sophistication

One of the deeper concepts to sort out is your identity. What kind of a man are you? What do you represent? When people think of you, what do they think? This is a topic too deep to fully explore in the comment section, but for starters ... begin considering what kind of man do you want to be ... then you can align your conversation style and the way you conduct yourself with that. For a deeper discussion and to sort this out specifically for yourself ... we'll see you on the inside! Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #psychology #selfhelp #datingadvice #women #socialdynamics

When you're out for nightlife meeting beautiful women, the venues are designed for stimulation. The music is loud, the lights are dim, there are a lot of people running around, etc. There is a lot happening to look at, get distracted by, and everything is pulling at your attention. So if you approach a beautiful woman in that environment, but are not fun enough to keep her attention, it is going to be difficult for you to keep her around. You have to be better than the competing stimulus, you have to be so fun in how you conduct yourself, that you are the funnest and coolest thing in that room. Not only will you have her attention, but you will have everyone's attention! Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ

When building yourself up as a man and meeting women, it is important that you keep this standard in mind. Build yourself in a way, where you personally place self worth and value on your intrinsic qualities and the type of guy that you are. From there, when you communicate your value to women, sell yourself on the type of man that you are, not the things that you can do for her. If all you sell her on is the material things that you have acquired, then don't complain if you're with a gold digger who will leave you the second all that stuff is gone. As humans we want to be valued for who we are, so make yourself valuable, and date women who appreciate your qualities as person ... and then as a bonus and reward to her showing you that she actually values you ... you can surprise her with nice things. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ

As you embark on your TDA conquest, and begin working to build your skills as a high value male. Manage "burning out", by making it sustainable for yourself. On a different note, if you are not yet accustomed to handling pressure, which is a quality you should develop as a high value male, then you need keep that into consideration when defining what is "manageable", that way you don't get stuck in "not making progress" or "progress being extremely slow". A simple answer to this is ... don't pre-determine what is manageable. Take on more pressure than you think you can handle, then discover what is manageable for you via action. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ

If you want to be a man who dates multiple women, then don't confuse her by doing things that people do in monogamous relationships. Don't send mixed signals by saying one thing and doing another, or even worse ... lying about it. If that's the life you choose, then take ownership of it, stop being apologetic about it, and respect her decision to either take it or leave it. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ

While practicing the skills taught with The Dating Arts, like any other skill ... you have to practice correctly for it to work. If you're just running around taking action, but aren't diligent about doing it perfectly. You will likely develop bad habits that will only serve as gaps in your social skills, where you have bad social experiences. Sure you can get good without diligently working on doing it correctly. Just not as good. You will the have skills of an amateur (i.e. amateur fighter, amateur body builder, amateur musician, etc.). Pros, practice perfect, are diligent about the process, and have practiced their skills on the most granular level. Which one will you be? Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ

If your only move in dating is "getting along" with women. Then it's a weakness that needs to be improved. I'm not saying, getting along with women is a weakness. I'm saying, if your ONLY move is to seek validation, because you are too afraid to break rapport, then it's a weakness.⁠ ⁠ Start practicing breaking rapport right after the opener. So that you have a controlled time and place, where you get to exercise that behavior, until you're comfortable with it.⁠ Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ

While practicing the TDA material provided to you on the inside. There are two types of students. The first type, thinks the material is amazing and is really into it, and it's the belief in what you are saying and the conviction that you speak with, that determines if it goes well or not. The other type of student has problem material, so when he delivers it, it's obvious that he is doing something ... weird. Something that isn't in alignment with his beliefs, which may not be something people can put their finger on, but they "feel something is off". If you are one of those guys, you have to change your perspective on the material and buy into it, in order to get the most out of your success with The Dating Arts. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #psychology #selfhelp #datingadvice

Desire from women is the byproduct of developing yourself as a man and developing your skills in The Dating Arts. Women are going to want things out of you and will want you to commit to them in a more serious relationship. That's just the reality of a TDA man. It is your job to communicate your intentions and reality honestly and effectively, and establish the frames that you want out of the relationship, while having the willingness to walk away, if it doesn't seem to be a good fit, for the both you. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingformen #socialdynamics #selfhelp #highvaluemale

In order to play The Dating Arts game you will have to develop the basics of having the verbal and social skills to maneuver social interactions when going out. Without developing these basics, you aren't even playing. Now once that has been taken care of, you will have options of women who are interested in aligning with you. Now the conversations about building comfort and relationships matter. If you want to know HOW this is all done, I'd recommend finding your way into our bi-weekly Close Her School coaching calls, where you have an opportunity to ask questions that are specific to the action you're taking and will receive guidance to make all of this come into fruition. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #leveluplife #socialdynamics #datingcoachformen #women

When you take the time to diligently work on and develop your skills with The Dating Arts. You eventually arrive to a point where you have asked yourself all the questions, solved all the answers, and have experience in doing things that work really well. You will stand out from other men, simply because you were diligent enough to prepare. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #preperation #diligence #datingtipsformen #highvaluemale

When cold approaching a high value group with beautiful women in it, your first task is to get out of the "stranger mold". If you are viewed as a stranger, you are not accepted by the group. With the conversational tools provided to you by The Dating Arts, it is your job to execute and deliver in a way, where it "feels" good for them. In other words, the emotion that is triggered at first from the thought of "who is this stranger talking to us?", needs to shift to an emotion of familiarity which occurs from the perception of "this is just a fun & cool guy, who is comfortable connecting with people". If you can't shift the perception and feeling to "this is a friend", you will likely find yourself, getting "blown out" often, because why would anyone trust and invest into an individual, who doesn't prove to be a "friend". Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialskills #socialdynamics #datingcoachformen #networkingskills

It is common amongst men in society to want to be the "alpha male". But what specifically can you work on to be more "alpha". One way to convey that you are the alpha male, is to aesthetically come across as a physically dominant guy. Whether that be in your overall physique from working out, or to take up the most space with your body language, or the way you use physical touch with your woman, and many other things that you can do, which are taught within the walls of The Dating Arts. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #women #alphamale #highvaluemale #datingtips

Building yourself up to be an attractive high value man, starts and ends with the mind. Your mindset is what determines your decisions and actions, which in turn impact the experiences you have. Sure you can sell the woman you are courting on the experiences alone, but don't be surprised when she loses interest if you take those experiences away. Rather then selling her on the external things that you have achieved, sell yourself for "who you are", "how you think", and "the type of individual that you are". This way you're attracting women that like you, and not women who just like what you can do for them. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #datingformen #highvaluemale #datingtips

The primary objective when you begin your journey with The Dating Arts, is to become competent at being social. This is an important skill to get down before worrying about dating and being in relationships, because for one you won't have an abundance of options unless you can strike up conversations effectively with beautiful women and have them become interested in who you are, but also let's say you do start building a relationship with a beautiful woman, she's going to introduce you to friends and family, dudes are going to approach her while you're out with her, you're both going to meet and interact with people in day to day life, and if you skipped getting good at your verbal game, and rushed to get into a relationship, well now you are in a situation where your poor social skills get to be observed closely. Instead of your social skills being an advantage in the relationship, now they are a disadvantage. Which is why it's important to master skills in a certain order. Put the horse before the buggy! Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialskills #datingformen #women #sociallife

In conversation you can use playful disinterest to redirect topics that come up that you aren't interested in exploring. This behavior will show that you value yourself and aren't a people pleaser who simply bends to others "to get along". This behavior will set you apart from most men, and make you more intriguing. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #socialskills #datingadviceformen #highvaluemale