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Any time you find yourself in a situation where you need to ask a question, whether it be a beautiful woman you are engaging with, a customer you are selling to, or as a consumer who is paying for a service. Whatever it may be, it benefits you to build the habit of turning your questions into statements. "Where are you from?" ... "Let me guess, you are from Texas" "Does that sound good to you?" ... "If everything sounds good, then let's proceed forward." "Do you have coffee?" ... "I'd like a coffee, thank you." It's a subtle shift, but the statements make you sound more self assured, confident, and dominant. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingexpert #highvaluemale #women #datingtipsformen #socialskills #communication

While out meeting beautiful women, you will run into scenarios where you see a woman that you want to meet, but she happens to be across the room. Typically with The Dating Arts, we open over the shoulder as to convey that we aren't invested on the "in". If she is across the room, you literally have to invest to walk over there to talk to her, so to do that and act that you're not invested, sends mixed signals. Rather you handle it, by not worrying so much about the over the shoulder, and going up directly, while owning up to the fact, that you walked up to talk to them. On the other hand, what you can control is the reason "why" you walked up to them, is it because "she's hot and you wanted to meet her" or is it because "she looks like an LA girl, so surely she has an opinion on this thought". Any assumptions of "you are trying to hit on us", if that's not the assumption that you want, can easily be handled with something like ... "Easy, I'm spoken for ... all I can offer is good conversation". Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #women #datingformen #socialskills #socialdynamics #selfhelp #psychology

Once you have gone out, met a beautiful woman, and now you are spending time together? Are you the type of guy that always has to prove something to his girl, and is always stressing about the value you bring her, because you are afraid to lose her otherwise? Or ... are you the type of guy, who demonstrates value up until he gets laid, then takes the relationship for granted, and all the value diminishes after that. The solution to both is to BE a man of value. If the things that you are into, the actions that you take, the decisions that you make, all equal building yourself to be higher value, and this how you live ... Then it is YOU, that has the value, simply by existing. Meaning you don't have to "try hard" to bring value for her, because you have already been doing it for yourself. You don't have to worry about the value diminishing from"taking the relationship for granted", because the relationship isn't the reason you build value, it's just what you do. Lead your life in this way, and you won't ever have to concern yourself with "value diminishing" due to something external, because it's an intrinsic path for you. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #boundaries #highvaluemale #women #datingtipsformen #socialskills #communication

You can't do it without a smile! When you're out in social gatherings working on your skills with The Dating Arts, it will be 10x easier for you if you're doing it with a smile. People want to meet fun people. Walking around looking serious or miserable isn't going to do you any favors socially. Learn to smile more often and watch the impact it has on your social interactions. When escalating things with a woman of interest, it is important to test for compliance along the way. You can't just ignore where she is at and steam roll to sex. Now when I say testing for compliance, I don't mean she is a little bit receptive. That's not ideal, she should be smiling ear to ear, enjoying herself, desiring for you to make the next move. That's how it's done correctly Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #preperation #diligence #datingtipsformen #highvaluemale #selfhelp #psychology

How do you never get rejected? By not committing to someone and trying to be accepted. Let me explain ... "You should always be in the interaction, without ever being in the interaction" When you're out and about practicing your social skills. Practice the "throw and go". That is, to say something with the intention of offering value and not looking for anything in return, and keeping it moving. Now if they engage back and want to talk to you, you can choose to stay a bit. If they don't, well you were leaving anyway. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #savvy #datingcoachformen #socialskills #women #datingexpert #socialdynamics

A fun game that you can use while interacting with a beautiful woman, is to pretend like you are a "palm reading" expert. The key is to capture the absurdity in your delivery, you're not actually trying to convince her that you can read palms. In the video lesson you can see how this is done specifically, as that is a better format to demonstrate it than typing it out on text. Essentially, you grab her hand, you make up some bullshit about the lines on her hand and what they mean, you do it comedically so she can tell that you are joking, and you share a laugh. Keyword here is "essentially", see the video for the specific delivery and execution. It's not enough to just "do it". You have to "do it well". Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingformen #socialdynamics #selfhelp #highvaluemale #psychology #women

When it comes to getting into new experiences and adventures, be a guy who is "for doing things" not "against it". Saying yes, conveys more dominance because you are willing to go after things and experience life to the fullest, conveying a sense of boldness & vitality. Saying no more often, is typically linked with being more reserved, timid about the experience, or being afraid. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingformen #socialdynamics #selfhelp #highvaluemale #psychology #women

When approaching a beautiful woman for the first time. Your first objective is to just keep talking. If you hesitate, get tripped up by your own words, or just stand there saying nothing, what outcome can you even expect, except for the conversation being over. If you rant through your material, you have the best possible chance of making something happen within the conversation. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #psychology #datingadvice #women #highvaluemale #datingcoachformen

When it comes to the things that you are after in this life, don't ever operate from a scarcity mentality, desperation kind of place. One practical way to rewire your brain for this, is to change the linguistics of how you speak about your goals from "need" to "want". Using the word "need", just reinforces a desperation for that thing. You should want things, not need them. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #datingcoachformen #women #socialskills #highvaluemale #datingadviceformen

When initiating an interaction with a new group of people and/or new person. It isn't ideal to be the "downer", who shows up and brings the energy down. The rule is to approach them with equal or slightly higher energy. By practicing and sticking to this rule, you can get into a habit of uplifting people socially, which will benefit both you and them. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingformen #socialdynamics #selfhelp #highvaluemale #psychology #women

Typically in the dating world, women are using the line "I have a boyfriend", to get rid of men who they are not attracted to. Sure, at times they do have a boyfriend and are in a long term relationship, but.that's just a small percentage, most of the time it's a rejection tool. Now whether you were hitting on her, or weren't ... the end result is the same. You are framed as being the guy who wants her, which typically leads the guy to become reactive to that assumption. Now, if you wanted to, you have access to using that same tool. If you misinterpret something a woman does as "she is making a move on you", you can say "I have a girlfriend", and the effect is the same. She is now framed as hitting on you, and will react the same way a guy would, which is to manage that assumption. The kicker is, this doesn't frequently happen to women, therefore it will spark curiosity and intrigue about you. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #seduction #highvaluemale #women #datingtipsformen #socialskills #communication

Stop seeking approval and asking permission. If you want to conduct yourself like a high value male, and have respect from those around you. You need to be "unapologetic" to some degree. You have to operate from a level of certainty in your own thoughts, beliefs, and opinions, without needing approval from others on it, or permission to think what you think. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #datingformen #highvaluemale #datingtips #highvaluemale #socialskills

"The best time to make a move on a woman, is when she wants it to be made." When making your move on a beautiful woman and stating your intent. It is best done 10 minutes after she wants you to do it. Why 10 minutes? If you recognize that she wants things to move forward, but unlike most guys, you don't jump on every opportunity to blow your load. That sets you apart and makes her think, "who the hell is this guy? Most guys, I can have them whenever I want, but that doesn't seem to be the case with this guy". That is where desire is birthed. Now after 10 minutes of anticipating a move, the move now gets rewarded and appreciated. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingformen #socialdynamics #selfhelp #highvaluemale #psychology #women

Whenever you are talking to a beautiful woman, and she hits you with "I have a boyfriend". The reality is there is a reason to why she said that based on something that you did, which can be evaluated and improved upon on your end. Whether she actually has a boyfriend or not is irrelevant, because in both cases she can choose to either say it or not to say it. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #women #datingformen #levelup #socialskills #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen

"Energy" when it comes to social interactions is a very abstract idea to get into from a teaching perspective. Nonetheless, it is a concept understood by people to some degree, and is something that is "felt" when dealing with people. What you have to realize about energy is ... There is no, one straight forward answer to how to cultivate it or project it to others. You can project it with a smile. You can cultivate it with diet and exercise. You can project it with your "stillness" and "un-reactiveness" when dealing with people. You can cultivate it by crushing it in business. The point is, there are a multitude of ways to cultivate energy and to be able to relay that energy to others. So my suggestion is that you take on this perspective and start figuring what it takes for YOU to operate in the "energy" that you want to be in. Beyond this caption, we can discuss it and work on it more so on the inside. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #psychology #selfhelp #datingadvice #women #socialdynamics

When going out with the tools and tactics provided by The Dating Arts, and you are building momentum in developing your social skills. One of the aspects that makes or breaks your social interactions is "how you say things". This is your delivery. Without dialing in "the way that you speak", it will leave a lot of room for misinterpretation. To be an effective communicator, you have to be able to take your thoughts and emotions that you are experiencing internally, and be able to communicate your message that you are trying to relay effectively. It's not enough for you to think it, they have to think it for them to understand. Without taking perception into consideration, and being able to give someone the exact perception that you want them to have of you. You're always going to have misinterpretation in your interactions, causing your trouble. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingcoachformen #betheman #socialskills #levelup #witty #socialdynamics

When it comes to The Dating Arts and becoming skilled at meeting women and socializing with people in general, your style plays an important role. Most people here style and only think about their fashion sense. Sure, that is one aspect of it, but also it's how you behave, the things that you do, how your presence is felt when people are around you. This is important to get down, because when you do initiate interactions with people you are starting off perceptively at a better place. If your style is "off putting" or "low value", your interaction will be more of an uphill battle. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #women #datingformen #style #socialdynamics #selfhelp #psychology

There comes a point in the interaction with a beautiful woman where you have to make a "move" ... you have to show your intent. Not doing this puts you in the category of "guy who doesn't pull the trigger" ... leads to stairway to heaven conversations ... and just has you locked-in the friend zone. Don't be that guy. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialskills #datingcoachformen #socialdynamics #socialstatus #datingtipsformen #highvaluemale

A lot of modern dating coaches talk about logistics like it's the most important thing! They're not wrong ... when your game sucks ... being able to tell a girl "my apartment is only 10 minutes away" makes it easier for her to invest, because she's definitely not investing because of your game. On the other hand, the men of The Dating Arts are accustomed to women traveling from different parts of the world to spend time with us. The thing is ... when you're a low value male and your game sucks ... weaseling her to commit to a 10 minutes walk ... might be your move ... I mean ... what other options do you have? Now if you actually want to have good game and be a high value male that is respected and appreciated by women, who will go above and beyond to spend time with you ... we can help with that Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingcoachformen #socialdynamics #datinggoals #highvaluemale #levelup #datingexpert

In conversations with people, realize that any value that you are looking to convey, does not get conveyed unless you finish talking. Often guys will approach beautiful women, and bail the second she gives them a weird look. If you do this, you are never able to convey any value, because you are leaving before the value can be established. The better move is to keep talking and deal with any weird reactions along the way so that they don't deter you. Join us inside of TDA if you want to know exactly how to do this. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #savvy #datingformen #socialskills #socialdynamics #selfhelp #psychology

When going out to develop your social skills with The Dating Arts, it's easier when you talk to fun people. A lot of guys will look over to a fun group of men and women, and feel intimidated to approach. Then they scan the room and see the one girl by herself looking miserable in the corner, and think ... "that is way easier" ... ... but is it? Wouldn't the fun group be more receptive to socialize than the girl looking miserable in the corner? Open fun, high value people ... because that's who you would want to meet. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #preperation #diligence #datingtipsformen #highvaluemale #selfhelp #psychology

When you build yourself up as a high value male and have mastered the communication skills of The Dating Arts, you will find yourself out and about with a beautiful woman with you. People will stare, guys will want to talk to your girl, some guys are willing to try and steal her, these are all different dynamics you have to know how to handle. If you want to build yourself up as a man and refine your social skills, we are here to help! See you on the inside ... Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #psychology #datingadvice #women #highvaluemale #datingcoachformen

In order to deal with people effectively you must be a source of value for them. Human beings are naturally wired to seek ways to raise their survival value in this world. In other words, people are not interested in anything that takes value away, and makes their life harder. Be a source of value for others, by making it a part of your being to always add value to the people in your life. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialskills #women #datingformen #communication #flirting #alphamale

While courting a beautiful woman, there comes a time in the process where you have to make a move to take her home with you. Most men are eager to do this and will not leave any space for it to be desired by her. Meaning, before she has even considered going home with him, he will insists and suggest the move, leaving it up in the air to see what the outcome will be. What you should do instead is, get good at reading her body language the gauge if she is ready, once you see that she is, slow everything down, continue enjoying the moment with her, then later suggest it, after you saw the cues, after you allowed some time to pass. That's the better move. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #psychology #selfhelp #datingadvice #women #seduction

When it comes to developing comfort with a beautiful woman, it is all about the range of your conversation. It's sharing your world view and elevating her outlook. It's getting to know one another over a broad spectrum of perspectives. It's being able to go deep with vulnerabilities. Your ability to communicate this effectively is what you need to develop. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #boundaries #highvaluemale #women #datingtipsformen #socialskills #communication