BLACK MOTHER/DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP FROM THE DAUGHTER PERSPECTIVE: JEALOUS & COMPETITIVE, MOTHERS FULL OF CRITICISM & RIDICULE, EXTREMELY CONTROLLING, ABUSIVE, DISMISSIVE, IMPROPER BOUNDARIES.🕎Deuteronomy 28;45-50 KJV
TOXIC RELATIONSHIP WITH MY MOTHER, BLACK MOTHER CHILDHOOD TRAUMA: IN ORDER TO SEE POSITIVE CHANGES IN MY LIFE I MUSTN’T ALLOW THE TRAUMA THAT SHE BROUGHT UPON ME TO CONTINUE TO LEAD ME DOWN MY OWN SELF DESTRUCTION…THE CURSES!!🕎Deuteronomy 28:56 KJV
THE STRAINED RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN BLACK MOTHERS & THEIR DAUGHTERS: TREATING THEM LIKE COMPETITION & SEXUALIZING THEM…DAUGHTERS BECOME SEVERELY INSECURE HAVING LOW SELF WORTH.🕎 Ephesians 6:4 KJV
ARGUMENT OVER VIDEO GAME SYSTEM PRECEDES MURDER OF MOTHER, 6-year-old daughter…“If ye love me, keep my commandments.” 🕎Ecclesiasticus 26:23 “A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him”
ATTACHMENT NEEDS REMAIN SIGNIFICANT THROUGHOUT THE LIFESPAN, ANY UNPROCESSED ATTACHMENT RELATIONSHIP TRAUMAS CAN SERVE TO PERPETUATE NEW TRAUMAS….ITS NO LONGER ABOUT YOU & YOUR MOTHER, ITS ABOUT YOU, YOUR SPOUSE & CHILD.🕎Matthew 27;21-26 KJV
HEALING DIFFICULT BLACK MOTHER-DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP: GAINING AUTONOMY OF YOURSELF, WHAT YOU DONT HAVE WHEN YOU HAVE A BLACK MOTHER WOUND IS “AUTONOMY”… EMOTIONAL AUTONOMY, MENTAL AUTONOMY & OFTEN TIMES PHYSICAL AUTONOMY.🕎Deuteronomy 28;45-50