Don't let money stress ruin your relationships
Did you know that more marriages collapse because of money issues than any other issues?
And that people have more shame about their finances than they do about their sex life?
Having an honest conversation about money is almost taboo!
I am here to change all that.
As you know, I have worked as an investigative healer/coach with tens of thousands of clients since 2000.
These clients are from all walks of life.
I have worked with mums and dads, tradies, farmers, business owners, CEO’s, executives, teachers, psychologists, radiologists, you name it.
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8 Steps Toward Self-Healing
Recently, I participated in a ten-day healing retreat (over zoom).
Two days into the retreat, I began to experience excruciating nerve pain in my lower back and inside my pelvis.
I immediately knew what it was: some of my paralyzed nerves are waking up, sixteen years after being hit by a truck.
As most of you know, in 2006, I was struck down by a passing truck, while I was getting into my parked van.
I was left with many injuries, including nerve damage to the lower part of my body.
I needed a permanent colostomy bag and a catheter.
The prognosis was not good.
The injured nerves were as good as dead, I was told, and I just had to learn to live with partial paralysis.
I never paid any attention to what I was told by the doctors.
Instead, I made the decision to trust my body, and never look back.
As you can tell from my story, the healing never stops, it is ongoing.
Scientists already know that your body is constantly changing.
Your skin is renewed every month, your stomach lining is replaced every 3 days, your eyeballs are renewed every 48 hours, your liver is new every 6 weeks and your entire skeleton is replaced constantly.
The good news is that you can participate in your own healing process and assist your body to heal faster.
The sad news is that most people don’t believe in their own bodies healing abilities.
They give up too soon.
Did you know that your body is a feedback system?
It is always sending us messages, but we are distracted or tuned out, so we miss the message, often till it is too late.
Something happens that forces us to stop, sit up and listen.
Can you relate to this?
Today, I want to show you a 8 steps you must take for healing to happen....
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Are you ready to have an endless flow of ideas ?
“Businesses don’t run out of money, they go bust because they have run out of ideas” famous quote by a business coach.
What does that mean for you and me?
It means that the real version of financial security is always having the next idea to make money.
The truth is that everything is created twice, first as a concept, and then as a material reality.
We are part of an infinitely abundant universe, so when we experience scarcity, it often means we have cut ourselves off from the flow of ideas.
In the video today, I share how I put myself back into the flow of ideas.
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Unlocking your personal wealth potential
The word ‘chakra’ gets thrown around a lot in alternative healing, not so much in the financial world.
But, did you know that your chakra system is your road map for personal wealth?
Your entire history is written inside your chakra system.
That includes your Money DNA.
How successful or not your ancestors were, affects you hugely today.
It is all hidden inside the energies of your body/mind system, which is controlled by your chakras.
Blocked energy in the chakras inhibits your ability to live your life fully.
For instance, if the hidden data in your chakras dictate that you can never earn more than $500 per week, you will never go above that amount.
Whether it is $50, $5000, or $ 5000000 or more per week, your money ceiling is already determined before you start your new job or venture.
Did you know that if all the money in the world is divided equally, everyone would be given $10 million dollars?
That is how abundant humanity is.
The sad fact is, that within a few months of sharing the money out equally, we would be back to square one.
The 1% of humanity would own 99% of our world’s riches again.
We need to stop blaming the ‘elite’ and step into bigger boots ourselves!
We need to create lasting change from the inside out.
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7 steps to turn your fears into opportunities
There are two kinds of people in the world.
People who see obstacles and people who see opportunity.
The people who see opportunities will create more opportunities and enjoy more successes.
Most of us are somewhere in between these two groups.
But there is one thing we all have in common!
Our first reaction in the face of insecurity and change is fear.
*Fear of being unable to get what we want.
*Fear of losing what we have.
*Fear of losing control.
*Fear of embarrassment or being shamed.
*Fear of dying.
*Fear is created by our mind/ego, by the programming of our nervous system from our ancestors, and society.
*Fear is an illusion.
Sometimes we experience the truth of who we are in the most shocking moments.
I had an epiphany of my own Essence when I got hit by a truck and left my body for a few moments.
Once I was outside my nervous system, I experienced a state of bliss and inner peace.
I had reconnected to the field of infinite acceptance and unconditional love.
We all come from this place and we will return to it.
I am happy to inform you that there are no obstacles in that space.
I received a new perspective on life, and this perspective supported me all through my recovery from near-fatal injuries.
Having a new perspective on life is different from having all the answers.
Sometimes we believe that if only I was smart enough, or got another degree, or worked harder, I will be more successful and at peace.
When in reality, all you need is a shift in perspective.
And you don’t need to die first to receive this perspective.
You can gain a completely new perspective by dropping into your core essence.
Wisdom always dwells there.
The answers you are looking for are waiting to be found in this place.
So the first step in overcoming fear, and beginning to see opportunities rather than obstacles, is to receive a change in the way you perceive your life.
A shift in perspective is always accompanied by a shift in your body chemistry.
That means you will experience a positive change on a cellular level.
Your body will begin to pump out serotonin and dopamine, the love and peace hormones.
Click on the below link to see the steps and to read Grada's Blog in full:
https://gradarobertson.com/7-steps-to-turn-your-fears-fear-into-opportunities/
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Today, I am coming to you as your Money Coach!
Today, I am coming to you as your Money Coach!
Did you know we give ourselves around 60000 messages every day?
And that most of these are negative?
Today, I want to help you identify thought patterns that are draining your body, and making you feel heavy, anxious, and depressed, so you can delete them.
We are thinking all the time, but often we don’t realize how much we are engaged in self-criticism.
We are constantly hurting ourselves because our mind influences the rest of our bodies and our nervous systems.
For instance, you might have a pattern where you never feel good enough…..
You keep thinking I am not good at hanging onto money.
I am not even going to try for a promotion.
I don’t deserve an extra $1000 a fortnight….. etc.
I have chosen to focus on money because it brings up a lot of stress in most people.
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https://gradarobertson.com/today-i-am-coming-to-you-as-your-money-coach/
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Do you feel drained after a long day ?
How many times do you come home at the end of the day and feel completely drained?
One of the reasons we are so exhausted is that we have adopted roles that we play around different people:
We act differently when we are at work than when we are at home in our PJs.
We play so many roles for so many people, and we have done so for years.
We played them for our parents, for our teachers at school, for our peer group, for our bosses at work.
We know how to be cool in our friendship groups, or in our communities or church groups.
In the video below, I am going to invite you to become aware of the roles you play completely unintentionally.
Every time we play a role or modify our authentic self to fit into a mold, we go into constriction.
Over time, we lose connection with our true essence, and with Source, because we are so caught up in behaving a certain way, playing a role to please others, or to live up to other expectations.
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How do you create a life that you love?
How do you create a life that you love?
You do the inner work, which means that you work ‘on yourself’ and I am here to help you find your blind spots.
I am here to act as your secret weapon to help you discover hidden information about yourself…. so you can release the blocks holding you back from success and happiness!
You already know that YOU are the CREATOR of your own REALITY…
But what many people don’t realize is that being the creator of your own reality means asking questions.
And not just any questions!
The QUALITY OF YOUR LIFE depends on the QUALITY of the questions you ask yourself.
For instance, when I got hit by a truck and left for dead in the middle of the road, I could have asked myself/the Universe: “why me?” or “why did this happen to me?”
Thankfully, I was wiser than that!
(I have been on a path of spiritual and personal development for as long as I can remember!)
I asked myself: “Why is this happening for me?”
I chose to believe that the near-fatal accident happened for my benefit.
That I would gain something from it, rather than lose.
I was always looking for the GIFT in it, and because of this question, I was able to give my life over to a higher power and heal miraculously.
To find many more answers to this question, I started writing my memoir ‘You Are The Miracle! How Being Hit by a Truck Saved My Life.
During the process of writing, I discovered that I had had many limiting beliefs, judgments and behaviours that had been in the way of really trusting in the Universe….
Here is a list of behaviours that kept me stuck:
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Ten proven tips to Boost your Love Hormone
Oxytocin is a hormone and neurotransmitter produced in the hypothalamus.
Even if you’ve never heard of it until now, you know what it feels like.
It’s that warm fuzzy feeling you get when you receive a hug from a loved one.
This love hormone is associated with trust, empathy, and relationships.
For this reason, it is also known as the ‘happiness hormone’ or ‘love hormone.’
It can relieve anxiety and stress and make us more social.
It also appears to inspire some of humanity’s more admirable qualities such as love, loyalty, trustworthiness, courage, and empathy.
Signs of a deficiency include:
• Difficulty feeling affection
• Dislike of social interactions
• Trouble maintaining relationships
• Being told you lack empathy
When your body lacks this critical hormone, life feels like an uphill battle.
When it comes to giving and receiving love, it feels as if you have one foot on the accelerator and the other foot on the brakes.
It is hard to experience joy, abundance and personal growth when you have the handbrake on.
I am all for personal and spiritual growth and abundance, I want everyone to thrive!
So let’s take a look at 10 oxytocin hacks that will boost your love hormone naturally and easily.
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https://gradarobertson.com/ten-proven-tips-to-boost-your-love-hormone/
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Recharge your thyroid with this meditation.
Recharge your thyroid with this meditation.
Even traditional medicine accepts that 80% of all illnesses are stress-related, and the biggest cause of stress is repressed trauma.
When it comes to the thyroid, the all-important master gland inside your neck, it’s no different.
Whether it is Graves’ Disease, Hashimoto’s, Hyper/Hypothyroidism, or simply always having to clear your throat, feeling constricted, let’s have a look at some of the ‘spiritual’ or energetic throat blockages.
Click on the below link to read Grada's blog in full and to see a list of some of the suppressed fears commonly seen in my clients when they have thyroid/throat issues ...
https://gradarobertson.com/recharge-your-thyroid-with-this-meditation/
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What if you really believed in yourself ?
What would your life look like if you really believed in yourself?
If you believed anything is possible?
How would that change your health?
If you truly believe in yourself, you can recover from aches and pain, increase your energy levels, and overcome serious health challenges? (many of my clients have learned how to do that)
If you truly understood how powerful you are, how would that change your finances?
And last but not least, if you believe in yourself, how would that change your relationships?
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https://gradarobertson.com/what-if-you-really-believed-in-yourself/
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You are a powerful healing machine!
It only takes 2 days to have a completely renewed inner eye….
I know, crazy isn’t it.
Touch your eyeball, it feels so solid, and yet, every 48 hours your inner eye is new.
The lining of your stomach is new every 5 days.
You have a new outer skin every 3 weeks or so.
You can tell that yourself because your tan wears after 3 weeks.
Your liver is renewed every 6 weeks.
These are all tangible signs that your body never stops healing.
Plus your hair keeps growing, and so do your nails.
All this new growth happens under the all-seeing eye of your immune system.
Your immune system has its own mind, which is different from your ego-mind.
For instance, you could say to your body: I want a new knee!
And you wake up with the same old stiff knee the next morning.
We believe that our immune system doesn’t hear us.
The truth is, our incredibly smart immune system does listen to us.
It eavesdrops all day long, it hears the words we speak, the thoughts we think, the feelings we have.
All of this has a positive or negative effect on our immune system.
After a while, our immune system becomes so clogged down with conflicting and confusing information, it becomes like my phone and refuses to take another photo because the storage is full.
You have to delete some information.
Or close down some apps, and empty the recycle bin, before the camera can take a new video.
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Open the doors to abundance!
Everything that happens in your life has energy behind it.
What you say, what you think, what you focus on, what you talk about, who you talk to, it’s all an energy exchange.
This means that we are constantly growing tomorrow’s circumstances.
You grow more of what you do, say, and focus on today.
The thing is that most humans are addicted to something.
Some people are addicted to chaos.
Others to drama, abuse, let down, stuckness, poverty, relationship breakups, losing money.
If we want more peace, harmony, greatness, gratitude, true love, friendship, health, and wealth, all the good stuff, we have to change our cell programming.
You must learn to say NO to things that stand in the way of your dreams, so you can say YES to creating and receiving your DREAM life.
First of all, you have to say NO to your own self sabotages, and I explain how to do that in the video.
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Do you have a bully in your head?
Do you have a bully in your head?
Earlier today I listened to a mindset coach who talked about evicting the bully in your head.
Let me tell you today how harmful it is to take the approach of beating your bully, shutting it down, or ignoring it.
Even naming this voice a bully isn’t helpful.
That voice in your head belonging to your inner bully is…..YOU.
This voice is coming from a memory.
It may not be telling you the literal truth, but it is telling you something worth listening to.
The meaner the voice, the bigger the need to be heard.
Remember this voice belongs to one of your inner children.
Shutting it down means you are betraying yourself and setting yourself up for a lifetime of struggle.
When we tell the bully in our head to get the hell out of here, we are training our brain, emotional and immune response to dissociate.
By doing this we are reinforcing the message that you are not worth listening to.
It’s why you feel exhausted all the time, have pain in your body, or your love life sucks, or your money doesn’t flow.
So what can you do?
Do we just let that voice beat us up?
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https://gradarobertson.com/do-you-have-a-bully-in-your-head/
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Connecting with your emotional IQ
As most of you know, I almost died in a terrible accident in 2006.
I got hit by a truck and was left with crippling injuries.
Nobody knew if I would live, or if I did, what sort of quality of life I would have.
I had a brain injury, broken spine, smashed pelvis, and internal bleeding.
Thankfully, I made a miraculous recovery in an incredibly short time.
5 months after this accident, I went back to work.
Since then, I have learned everything I could about every aspect of health, researching every spare moment.
The CDC, the Centre for Disease control’s website, says that 85% of all illness has an emotional basis.
And the reason they can say this is because of all the work going on in the field of cellular healing.
What I know about emotions and the effect they have on our cells is that when you feel a strong emotion, and you repress it, it changes your biochemistry.
This has effect has been measured and noted by scientists.
This chemical created by suppressing the emotion, will go to certain cells and cell receptors and block them, rendering those cells incapable of communicating with the rest of the cells in the body.
This is called an energy blockage.
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https://gradarobertson.com/connecting-with-your-emotional-iq/
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Finding happiness and meaning!
The meaning of life is not something that can be found out there..
It’s an experience that we have internally.
Society teaches us to chase after happiness.
The truth is that happiness is always fleeting.
And, to live a life without regrets, we need to focus on the meaning of life.
Here are 3 things that get in the way of leading a meaningful life:
1. Your boots are too small for you.
Living a small life is hard on your soul.
Get some bigger boots, ones that give your room to grow!
You are never too big for your boots!
Your life matters, you are important and the Divine has invested everything in you, so don’t hold yourself back.
2. Most people unconsciously live out their parents’ lives.
Especially if one of the parents lived an unfulfilled life, you often tend to make up for that parent unconsciously.
Whether you resist your childhood programming or not, your parents’ influence was and is huge!
Begin to see how you are different, and recognize your own genius.
3. Many people live in autopilot mode, which is the opposite of being on Purpose.
The REMEDY is to ask yourself constantly:
What is my life’s purpose?
Who am I?
What am I here for?
Is there something I am not seeing?
Please show me the meaning of my life. (Asking the Universe)
Unless you ask, you are not going to have an answer!
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https://gradarobertson.com/finding-happiness-and-meaning/
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Your aura holds the keys to your life.
Few people can see the colours and levels of the aura.
But many of us feel them or sense them.
Have you ever had the sensation that you can see through the bright and smiling exterior of others, knowing that they are suffering on the inside?
Humanity has refined the art of hiding loneliness, depression, shame, or pain.
We enlist the help of our personas to hide who we truly are, or what we are feeling.
However, our aura can’t lie.
It is the true presentation of yourself.
Try as you might, you can’t stop your true self from shining through to those of us who are ‘intuitive’ or psychic.
And I would say that most humans are way more intuitive than they realize!
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https://gradarobertson.com/your-aura-holds-the-keys-to-your-life/
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Did you know that 8 out of 10 have chronic money stresses?
Did you know that 8 out of 10 have chronic money stresses?
They worry about how to make ends meet, surviving from one paycheck to the next?
It’s a huge energy leak, yet most people simply accept that this is life.
“It was like this for my parents, so it’s good enough for me”.
Can you relate to this?
Have you been told that if you want more, there is something wrong with you?
We’re not trained that we should want more.
That it is greedy, or bad….
And we should just be grateful for everything we have.
Here’s the truth, yes, be grateful for everything you have.
You can be grateful AND want more!
And I believe that that ‘urge for more’ is a Divine calling.
Because we live in a Universe that is superabundant.
Just look around you.
Mother nature is just spilling over with copious energy, and the Universe is constantly giving us nudges to have a GREATER LIFE.
When we live in scarcity, we are out of alignment with the Universe.
It is a spiritual urge in us to seek greater freedom, greater fulfillment, greater success, greater impact.
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https://gradarobertson.com/did-you-know-that-8-out-of-10-have-chronic-money-stresses/
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Do you struggle with perfectionism?
When we are little, we sometimes come to the conclusion that we have to be ‘good’ to be loved.
Being loved equals survival when we are too small to take care of ourselves.
We spend all our time trying to be good, trying to earn approval, trying to stay in other people’s good books.
Because we want to be loved so much, that we spend a lot of time trying to be perfect.
Later on, we realize that this isn’t working, or that all this effort isn’t paying off.
That it’s a recipe for disaster, but by then, we don’t know how to do or be different.
We are caught on the hook of seeking perfection, and we set cruel goals for ourselves.
Unless we find perfection, nobody can love us, and we are worthless.
We are caught up in the trance of worthlessness, where we believe that unless we find perfection, nobody can love us, so we are worthless.
Does this feel familiar to you?
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https://gradarobertson.com/do-you-struggle-with-perfectionism/
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Create the life you want!
There is a process to creating the life you want, and it starts with knowing what you want!
Strange as it sounds, many people don’t really know their heart’s desires, they just know what they don’t want.
What is your deepest wish for yourself?
Take a minute and write out what you want in the 5 Fs of your life
What do you want in the area of your FAMILY?
What do you want for your FINANCES?
What do you want your FITNESS TO FEEL LIKE?
What do you want in the area of FAITH?
What do you want for FUN?
Perhaps this is the first time that you have ever stopped to think about this, and this can be a turning point for you.
Really write down in detail what YOU want, not what your parents, your children or your spouse wants.
I want you to think big, be ‘greedy and selfish!’
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https://gradarobertson.com/create-the-life-you-want/
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When it rains, it pours!
Have you heard of the expression: When the grief train pulls into the station, it brings all the other cars with it?
Sometimes grief can be so overpowering that we have no words for it.
We say things like “I am afraid I am going to drown if I allow myself to go there.”
Other times, we are conscious of low-lying sadness humming away in the background.
We bury it in our work, our busyness, a bottle of wine, Netflix, gambling, and so on.
We live in a society that doesn’t honour grief, loss, heartbreak, or sadness, so many people don’t know what to do with it.
It is time we turn that around.
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https://gradarobertson.com/when-it-rains-it-pours/
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Don't sweat the small stuff!
If you had $86,400 in your bank account and someone stole $10 from you, would you be so upset and triggered that you would throw away all the remaining $86,390 away in the hope of getting back at the person that took your $10?
Or would you let it go and move on?
You would move on and live, right?
See, we have 86,400 seconds every single day.
Sometimes a little conversation or attitude can rub us the wrong way, and we let someone’s negative 10 seconds ruin the rest of our day.
Don’t let someone’s negative 10 seconds rob you of the rest of your 86,390 seconds!
I do this myself sometimes, especially when I am tired or overwhelmed and I want to change that today.
I want to make the most of my time!
When you run out of money, you will always find a dollar somewhere, but when you run out of seconds, your earthly life is over.
Click here to read Grada's Blog in full ...https://gradarobertson.com/dont-sweat-the-small-stuff/
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Your heart always knows best !
The most powerful place of healing is inside the centre of our own hearts.
This is the space where heaven and earth meet.
Where the material and spiritual come together.
Our heart space is a centre of unconditional love, whether you are conscious of it or not.
Many people believe that money and love come from two different places.
Love comes from your heart and money comes from somewhere else.
The ‘underworld’ for instance.
The truth is that your heart chakra contains your blueprint for wealth.
It is a major player in your money success.
Think about it, your heart circulates your blood.
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https://gradarobertson.com/your-heart-always-knows-best/
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Your history doesn’t have to be your destiny!
As you come into this world, from the moment of conception that unconscious mind of yours begins to record every feeling, every event, and everything that’s ever been said to you or around you — and you absorb all of this right away.
Everything is there in your memory.
Everything you have ever eaten, every facial expression you have had, is all neatly recorded in your unconscious mind.
How many steps you took this morning, and what you noticed when you went for your walk— you don’t need a smartwatch— your unconscious flawlessly recorded it!
So imagine a young infant that’s sitting there absorbing everything in its surroundings, including parents who are struggling, fighting to pay bills, constantly stressed out not taking any notice of the child…..
Imagine a grimmer scenario where there was violence, or physical abuse, mental or emotional trauma, or inappropriate sexual behaviours.
That’s all recorded just the same.
While we can’t change our history, we CAN transform our memories, which means we can take new steps and decisions.
But there is a catch, we can only change the memories that we can remember.
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https://gradarobertson.com/your-history-doesnt-have-to-be-your-destiny/
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5 Tools to raise your vibration!
You can never be happy enough.
Happiness and joy are your internal guidance system, letting you know you are on track or not.
No joy = you are removed from your soul purpose.
But rather than beginning a search for your soul purpose, you can slip in through the back door, by doing these 5 practices.
When you up-level your joy, your purpose will become clear.
Before I show you these 5 tips, I want to remind you of what happens to a crab when it is caught.
If you have one crab in a bucket, it will climb its way out.
But if you have 2 crabs in a bucket, one will start climbing its way to freedom, and the other one will keep pulling it down, so they both end up in the pot.
They never escape.
It is so important today to not buy into the doom and gloom.
Don’t put your happiness and joy secondary!
When you listen to the other crabs in the bucket and you are bombarded by negativity, you could easily be led to believe that there is no light at the end of the tunnel.
If you stay in that zone, it will drain all your energy, motivation, and creativity to get the results you want in your life.
So here are 5 powerful tools that you can use to cultivate more joy and more happiness in your life, and express all the beauty that life has to offer.
Now, these are quick and easy tools that you can use any time of the day, to turn your energy, raise your vibration and put a big old smile on your face.
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https://gradarobertson.com/5-tools-to-raise-your-vibration/
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