Part 2. 1st Place In Ms. Health & Fitness FoReal!!! With Music & Screenshot!
Originally uploaded April 26th, 2022
Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/YCeyh8omwYY
Filename: 1st Place In Ms. Health & Fitness FoReal (With) mp4.
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I'm in the Ms. Health and Fitness competition for 2022!
I got the screenshot of me being in 1st place! CRAZYYYYYYYYYYYY!
https://mshealthandfitness.com/2022/alesha-pet
Thanks for voting for me!
*I think the last I checked at 6:00 pm I'm 10th. It will change. I could always go back up at anytime. 10th is still good!
No matter what happens at this point, this is neat. Thank you!
I got 200,000 plays on Soundcloud! Thank you!
Music: Bensound.
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1st Place In Ms. Health And Fitness? Whattttttttt? IS my eyes tricking me lol!
Originally uploaded April 26th, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/itUDtSk2zSo?feature=share
Original description:
I'm in the Ms. Health and Fitness competition for 2022!
YALL I PLACED 1ST! THIS IS THE HIGHEST I'VE EVER BEEN IN ANY COMPETITION. It was incredible.
Currently editing the video with the 1st place screenshot in it! Give me a sec. YouTube land can be harsh unless you got the proof lmfaoo.
https://mshealthandfitness.com/2022/alesha-pet
Thanks for voting for me!
*I think the last I checked at 6:00 pm I'm 10th. It will change. I could always go back up at anytime. 10th is still good! No matter what happens after this I'm good. I accomplished mostly what I came in to do! Which was be in the TOP 5!
I got 200,000 plays on Soundcloud! Thank you!
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Ms. Health & Fitness 2022! 200,000 Soundcloud Plays!
Originally uploaded: April 3rd, 2022
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Filename: Ms. Health & Fitness 2022! 200,000.mp4
I'm in the Ms. Health and Fitness competition for 2022!
I got 200,000 plays on Soundcloud! Thank you!
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My Teams Going Dancing! Go Hoosiers! Go Frogs! Go Jackrabbits! Go Spiders!
Originally uploaded: March 14th, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/jefBPwiZgUI
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My Teams Going Dancing! Go Hoosiers! Go Frogs! mp4.
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My teams are dancing! Hoosiers, my main team did so good during the Big Ten Tournament! As a newer fan learning about Hoosier nation, I feel spoiled. :D
Of course I got the Jackrabbits, Frogs, Spiders too!
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A perspective from a new Hoosier fan. 100,000 Soundcloud plays. Thank you!
Originally uploaded March 5th, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/ClduvL46wOQ
Filename: A perspective from a new Hoosier fan.mp4
Original description:
1. Congrats on a great season, Hoosiers. (Even if you are not a Hoosier fan, I talk about life). Sometimes things don't go your way. You can play hard, but for whatever reason you just don't win. That's life.
2. How do you like the braids? As a part time hermit (hospital surgeries keep me from going all out) I'm rebelling. That includes trying a hairstyle I haven't had in 15 years! Especially right now, I rather be ugly in peace. Airplane mode is the best thing they invented for a cell phone. Animals make better friends than people. They don't lie or gossip on you.
3. I know a thing or two from people kicking you down when you are already down. When you winning, everyone is with you. You losing, people against you. You won't hear me being critical. I just appreciate the hustle you put in while playing, Hoosier Basketball (this goes for the other sports too).
4. I cut off some people, places & things that I used to love. (Not naming names in this right now. I post about it enough on my blog). It was painful as hell, but they didn't love me or show me loyalty in ways I showed them. I was bothering them when I need help once, even though I dropped everything to help them multiple times. I was unnoticed, unloved, unappreciated and thrown away like a piece of trash. It was clear I was missing them, but they wasn't missing me. It was clear as day they could give two f***s about me. Not everyone is a friend. So I made changes. I appreciate the new vibes, energy and fandom from Hoosier Nation. Y'all are fun and wild. Becoming a Hoosier was a long time coming. And friends I still got love for: I'll always be respectful of the other sides, I appreciate the memories we share. I'm rooting for you in red and white nowadays (and preferably at a distance from most of you.) Family is all I got at this point!
5. I'm not a student and have no interest in re-enrolling on a college campus for any reason. I want to make this clear because people mistake me for being a student all the time and my "babyface". I rather take a ride to hell in the front seat first, or be the target they shoot at a gun range first. Just keeping it for real. I can love, admire and observe from a far. I mostly watch the Hoosiers from a TV. If I go to the games, I'll buy tickets. If I can't buy tickets or afford them, I'm staying my sorry ass home.
6. I haven't been a fan of organized religion for some time. After 2021 I do not like organized religion especially. I said God Bless the Hoosiers out of respect to those who believe. I love my Hoosiers.
6. My music is taking off. 100,000 plays on Soundcloud!?!?!? Thank you! I do not have many followers on my pages. I'm not aiming for fame. So the listens are very neat. Thank you.
100,000 soundcloud plays! Thank you: https://soundcloud.com/silky-slick
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Happy Twosday! 2 22 2022!
Originally uploaded February 22nd, 2022! 2-22-2022! #222
YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/tu4TuKG_E3A
Filename:
Happy Twosday! 2-22-2022!.mp4
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222!
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Woods! Winter Moon!
Originally uploaded: February 19th, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/ZqF8f_ZbGqw
Filename: Woods! Winter Moons!.mp4
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I've been spending a lot of time in nature. And I've been releasing a lot of music.
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222 in Hoodie! & Groundhog Day! 40,000 Plays On Soundcloud! Thank You!
Originally uploaded February 3rd, 2022
Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/-C2JNHBf-Vc
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222! & Groundhog Day!.mp4
I see 222 everywhere, and saw 222 on 222 a lot. I've been seeing a lot of angel numbers!
I think groundhogs are cute.
And thank you for the streams on Soundcloud. I don't have a lot of followers, I'm not crazy about any level of fame, so all these plays are great. Thank you! Just going to ride the wave on Soundcloud and see what happens on other platforms. I took a couple of screenshots for the video, comment if you want to listen to my music.
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Sun, Hoosiers & Hermit Lady!
Originally uploaded: January 30th, 2022
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Filename: Sun, Hoosiers & Hermit Lady!.mp4
Adventures in woods during the winter. Take care and have a great Sunday! See you next video!
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Happy Birthday Betty White! And Happy MLK Day! From Woods!
Originally uploaded: January 17th, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/_CNPeCrfE3I
Filename:
Happy Birthday Betty White! And Happy MLK Day! From Woods! mp4.
Betty White would have been 100, so I made her part 100 seconds.
Martin Luther King would have been 93! So I made his part 93 seconds.
Sounds are from Bensounds.com
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Night Views Of Woods!
Originally uploaded January 16th, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/0G5kCDt4keE
Filename:
Woods 1162022.mp4
January 16th 2022 Sunset in woods! With my animal kids and away from people has been peaceful!
Thanks for your support! I'm in the Ms. Jet Set mag contest and I'm currently in 14th place. Voting for top 10 ends soon! I h
I haven't been pushing this one as hard but thank you!
Vote Link: https://miss.jetsetmag.com/2022/alesha-peterson
Vote Link: https://miss.jetsetmag.com/2022/alesha-peterson
I love being apart of the Jet Set family! I appreciate you for letting me be myself! I put that I'm an aspiring hermit, cat lady, squirrel communication specialist and they still took me! My people! :D
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Sunset In Woods!
Originally uploaded: January 11th, 2022
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January 11th 2022 Sunset In Woods!.mp4
January 11th 2022 Sunset in woods! With my animal kids and away from people has been peaceful!
Thanks for your support! I'm in the Ms. Jet Set mag contest and I'm currently in 13th place. Voting for top 15 is until January 13th! All online!
Here's my thank you from the woods with my dog!
Vote Link: https://miss.jetsetmag.com/2022/alesha-peterson
Vote Link: https://miss.jetsetmag.com/2022/alesha-peterson
I love being apart of the Jet Set family! I appreciate you for letting me be myself! I put that I'm an aspiring hermit, cat lady, squirrel communication specialist and they still took me! My people! :D
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Currently In 10th Place For Ms. Jet Set! Thank You From Woods! #MsJetSet #MsJetSet2022
Originally uploaded: January 4th, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/l9Lt349TXhs
Filename: Currently In 10th Place For Ms. Jet Set! Thank You From The Woods.mp4.
Hello!
Thanks for your support! I'm in the Ms. Jet Set mag contest and I'm currently in 10th place. Voting for top 15 is until January 13th! All online!
Here's my thank you from the woods with my dog!
Vote Link: https://miss.jetsetmag.com/2022/alesha-peterson
Vote Link: https://miss.jetsetmag.com/2022/alesha-peterson
I love being apart of the Jet Set family! I appreciate you for letting me be myself! I put that I'm an aspiring hermit, cat lady, squirrel communication specialist and they still took me! My people! :D
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New Years Day! 2022! Done Without Music!
Originally uploaded: January 3rd, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/XUP8y1ncuSc
Filename: New Years Day! 2022! Done Without Music!.mp4
Without music version!
I'm trying to eat food and then woods with my dog. I hope all of your dreams come true in 2022 and beyond!
I made some New Years Resolutions for the first time in a while. :D
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New Years Day! 2022! Edited Video Done With Music!
Originally uploaded: January 1st, 2022
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Filename: New Years Day! 2022! Done with Music.mp4
I'm trying to eat food and then woods with my dog. I hope all of your dreams come true in 2022 and beyond!
I made some New Years Resolutions for the first time in a while. :D
Going higher, Bensound.com
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New Years Eve 2021! Without Music!
Originally uploaded: December 31st, 2021
YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/afzrwLQHmE0
I love food on New Years Eve.
Going higher, Bensound.com
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New Years Eve 2021! Rip Betty White!
Originally uploaded: December 31st, 2021
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Filename: New Years Eve 2021! Done.mp4
New Years Eve 2021!
I'm trying to eat food and then woods with my dog. I hope all of your dreams come true in 2022 and beyond!
I made some New Years Resolutions for the first time in a while. :D
Going higher, Bensound.com
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Christmas Day! (2021)
Originally uploaded: December 25th, 2021
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Merry Christmas!
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Christmas Eve 2021!
Originally uploaded December 24th, 2021
YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/w7nPsSYCh2o
Hey!
Happy Christmas Eve!
4got to mention in the video that I've been re-releasing old music and I have Medium articles written up until June 2022! With surgeries I've been keeping a low profile with traveling, but have a great Christmas season. RIP to all my family and friends that passed away, I didn't mention this in the video but I'm thinking about you right now!
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Happy Girl On Surgery Day!
Originally uploaded November 23rd, 2021
Youtube link: https://youtu.be/-b-mJN0AepU
Filename: Surgery Day!.mp4
I didn't catch all of my surgeries and surgery preps on video, but this one I did. This is going to be shorter than my usual videos.
November 22nd I was chatting with nurses asking questions, prepping for surgery and such. I was a happy person all day that day, even though I was on edge about the surgeries. Usually for me, when every procedure happens I'm not sure what to expect. Or how my body is going to feel. Or if I'm going to adjust my eating or workout habits.
November 23rd is still a good day. All my surgery days are good days, even though my nerves get high.
My nurses and doctors are all so nice, thank you everyone for working with me since June, even when it was just doctors appointments and not hospital visits right away. This has been a journey, but all the people I met along the way have been great to me.
Nervous about operations? Yesss. Every time but also happy to seek small wins (even if it's only a little bit of an improvement).
Especially happy that my Hoosiers are 4-0 at the time of this video being published. Go Hoosiers (Still a new fan though, any and all advice on Hoosier basketball and history would be appreciated)! Hope you love my hoodie in the video. Hold the fort down and beat every team this season on the basketball court while I beat every health issue in the operation room/hospital. I'll be rooting for you in spirit. Cheers to your 6th, 7th and 8th basketball championship and beyond, I believe in y'all. Thanks for giving me something to hold on to darlings.
I'm happy in this video despite being nervous about surgery. I think the doctors and nurses really helped. It started to get real when I switched in my hospital gown and they told me to look into not working out for a bit (I'm hoping I'm in the mode to work out the next day, I don't know about the people reading this but I hate missing my workouts). When they were rolling me in the back, it felt really cold (and I also get cold naturally anyways.)
Keep holding down the fort for me out there everyone, and Happy Thanksgiving (Idk if I will make a video on Thanksgiving, we shall see).
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More Favorite Things.
Originally uploaded August 13th, 2021
Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/rSup6011bMo
More Favorite Things!
More Favorite Things!
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Part 5! What to do if you are not invited to a wedding! (Shortest version)
Originally uploaded: August 8th, 2021
Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/sjxc88KmLvk
Filename: What to do if you are not invited to a wedding Short Final.mp3
Thank you for all the DMs, comments on the 2020 versions. I was asked for a part 3 and to dive in a little deeper, here we go! Due to this being a tad bit long, I put time stickers so you can watch your part and get going, or watch the whole thing. Up to you. This Youtube channel is a pandemic project that ended up connecting me to peeps in ways I didn't expect. As a small YouTube channel this is all a surprise. I usually expect only 10 views on these vids and no comments, so thank you.
Article Version: (If you prefer to read): https://aleshapeterson.medium.com/what-to-do-if-you-are-not-invited-to-a-wedding-96e15471b3e7
*I will also make a separate video of just my favorite things without the wedding invite stuff. I found more favorite things as I edited this...."
My favorite things:
0-2:30 Jellie Bellies, Jellie Babies, Veggo Bears, Dots, Bean Gluten Chips, Organic Acai Pop Tarts, Wicked Crisps (Plant Based), food from other countries, holy moly.
https://gtfoitsvegan.com/product/vegobears-sour-gummy-bears-venice-beach-by-candy-people-usa/?v=7516fd43adaa
https://www.foodservicedirect.com/bushs-best-sea-salt-bean-chips-1-5-ounce-48-per-case-23048251.html?gclid=Cj0KCQjwsZKJBhC0ARIsAJ96n3WG_2_1oIv4s2056D2VU0Jpkaa-52usOGqmjCt5m-m7qqjgMVKOohoaAn7eEALw_wcB
https://www.target.com/p/nature-39-s-path-organic-toaster-pastries-frosted-wildberry-acai-6ct/-/A-17016217?ref=tgt_adv_XS000000&AFID=google_pla_df&fndsrc=tgtao&DFA=71700000012732781&CPNG=PLA_Grocery%2BShopping_Local%7CGrocery_Ecomm_Food_Bev&adgroup=SC_Grocery&LID=700000001170770pgs&LNM=PRODUCT_GROUP&network=g&device=m&location=9016142&targetid=pla-387040279092&ds_rl=1246978&ds_rl=1248099&gclid=Cj0KCQjwsZKJBhC0ARIsAJ96n3Wh3iLBpcPNmMIGphLUNuBc6ylBYAGDYgOIMk7ey2YUghLJHGGkuj4aAnZeEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds
My mating call for food comes out. (People think I'm having an orgasm on set, but I'm not and get your mind out the glutter yalllllll.) This is literally me getting excited over eating food.
2:30-4:10 Minty Relieph, & Eighty One, thank you for existing and being a part of my self care routine. Both products make the hard days easier to get through.They have no idea, but their products are life savers. Love ya cuzzos for creating them! Sorry if I messed up the name lolz.
Go buy these: https://www.eightyonefaceandbody.com/
Go buy these: https://www.mintyrelieph.com/
Watching peers pass away constantly is extremely painful and hard. My grieving style is I usually get fearful to do anything and lose confidence. I've been breaking out/scarring more in my face in recent months and the 81 Face & Body helps with that. I use Minty Relieph for eczema, dry skin, and itchy skin.
4:36-5:36 Name shout outs! (Again, sorry if I messed up your names)
5:36 If any family members happen to come across this. Hello loves. Got some DMs from some cuzzos from first versions of this video. So I added this just in case they make it to the 3rd video. I found out after the edits I'm actually 7th generation. I'm going to check at the next Peterson reunion to be sure. Whoopz.
6:15-7:00 Lil cuzzos/cousins probably not the video for you to watch until you get older, sorry loves. The 2020 versions of this is one of my most commented videos, and I was asked for more bluntness. Watch those instead and watch this when you are a little older. AGAIN, DON'T WATCH IF YOU DONT LIKE CURSING ALSO. Family members, loves, this is no longer 9 year old Alesha from the 1999 Atlanta reunion. Just warning you for the last time. I curse like a damn sailor.
7:00-26:00 The official start of part 3! Why I'm #1 on the cut lists. (You asked for the shit and inside scoop according to DMs, private messages, here it is due to popular demand lol. I didn't think people would watch or comment on the 2020 vids so thank youuuu once again). I talk about life beyond wedding invites also.
The more you watch, the more you notice it's about life and goes beyond about getting invited to things.
If you are interested, you have to watch and see.
22:55: https://aleshapeterson.medium.com/when-someone-you-love-dismisses-your-pain-650f2ad8f7f
23:48: https://innerfokus.com/blog-invisiblechronicillness/
26:30-30:53 Why some people on my end of the branch take it wayyy too personally when they don't invited. Lord help them.....They will get over it, eventually....I hope. For shit's sake. Please help me help them find something else to do.
(For Christ sake, it's annoying to hear them talk about it over and over. I think they wish they got married themselves, as stated in the video.)
30:54- YOU MADE IT TO THE END! More blunt *ADVICE* on if you really wanted to be there but you didn't get invited.
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Part 4! Popular Video Revisited!: What To Do If You Are Not Invited To A Wedding! Long Version
Originally uploaded: August 6th, 2021
Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/rexnOoj9spo
0.18-10.38: What To Do If You Are Not Invited to Wedding Part 1 (Noise
10.38-23.00
MOST PEOPLE START HERE: 23:00!THIS IS THE NEWEST PART.
23:00- REQUESTED UPDATE (Thanks for watching my first videos I made in 2020! Appreciate it, surprised people watched that lol)
My favorite things:
23:00 Jellie Bellies, Veggo Bears, Dots
My mating call for food comes out.
25:30-27:12ish Minty Relieph, & Eighty One, thank you for existing and being apart of my self care routine. Love ya cuzzos for creating them! Sorry if I messed up the name lolz.
27:37-28.04 Name shouts! (Again, sorry if I messed up your names)
28:42: If any family members happen to come across this. Hello loves.
29:29 Lil cuzzos, probably not the video for you to watch until you get older, sorry loves. This is one of my most commented videos, and I was asked for more bluntness. AGAIN, DON'T WATCH IF YOU DONT LIKE CURSING. Family members this is no longer 9 year old Alesha.
29:49-49:00 The official start of part 3! Why I'm on the cut list. (You asked for the shit and inside scoop according to DMs, private messages, here it is).
45:85-https://aleshapeterson.medium.com/when-someone-you-love-dismisses-your-pain-650f2ad8f7f
46:00: https://innerfokus.com/blog-invisiblechronicillness/
49:18-52:42. Why some people on my end of the branch take it wayyy too personally when they don't invited. Lord help them.....
53:43 YOU MADE IT TO THE END! Advice on if you really wanted to be there but you didn't get invited.
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Part 3. IS IT HARDER TO MAKE FRIENDS AS ADULTS?!? Why I Dropped APO 1 Yr L8r (Short Version)
Originally posted: July 20th, 2021
Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/PlL3Qi_LS8Y
Popular Video Revisited, shorter version! IS IT HARDER TO MAKE FRIENDS AS AN ADULT?
To See The Main Description, go to the first version of this video:
https://youtu.be/VgS6FPwUk3M
https://youtu.be/VgS6FPwUk3M
https://youtu.be/VgS6FPwUk3M
I decided to make a version without screenshots.
To fam and friends that know me personally. I do curse, like a sailor. If you don’t like this don’t watch. I hold nothing back and you will either love my bluntness or hate it.
REQUESTED: People are still interested in this shit a year later. Seriously thanks for watching the first rounds of video. I did not think people would reach out to me, ask for a follow up and all that jazz. Since I’m in several friend groups on Facebook that asked about making friends as an adult, I answered those questions and used my experiences in Alpha Phi Omega as an example. This shows me to always share your story, you never know what could happen out of it.
Be careful who you let in your circles. Toxic people and energy can be the reason you're not as successful as you like to be or want to be. That's why they always say you are the average of the 5 people who you hang around with; The people you surround yourself with, you become. We are all energy. If you subject yourself to peers who are negative, insecure or destructive, it will affect you. Regardless of your strength as an individual, you are not immune to a constant surrounding of negative energy or bad influence. Not only are you the average of the FIVE people you surround with, it’s way bigger than that. You’re the average of all the people who surround you. So take a look around and make sure you’re in the right surroundings. 3b. The dream in your heart may be bigger than the environment in which you find yourself. Sometimes you have to get out of that environment to see that dream fulfilled. It’s a fact of life that some people hold us back, while others propel us forward. For example: For example, you might have a set of friends who are fun and who you enjoy getting lunch with, but they might not understand your goals and desires. As a result, they're more likely to be a fun diversion from your business than an engine that pushes it forward. 4. If you are watching this and you are dealing with mean grade school, h.s. or college girls (or even a toxic work place) it's just a phase. At some point you won't ever have to see these people ever again. As an adult it's bad that bullying still happens but it does. 5. Just because you got it going on doesn't mean you have to be a doormat for anyone. Nor should people make you feel bad for the success you are experiencing. Maybe you can in turn be an inspiration for them to have successes in their own life. Go forth and keep experiencing abundance. 6. Some friendships and relationships are not meant to last forever. Some only last for a season and a reason. Some people you haven't seen for years and you can pick up right where you left off.
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IS IT HARDER TO MAKE FRIENDS AS ADULTS?!? Popular Video Revisited! Leaving A-Phi-O Convo 1 Yr Later
Originally uploaded: July 18th, 2021
YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/7xDn0tjMQtQ
Filename: Popular Video Revisited! Dropping APO! Without Screenshots.
Popular Video Revisited! Dropping APO! Without Screenshots!
Headsup: Everyone won't have the same experiences. Try it out.
To See The Main Description, go to the first version of this video:
https://youtu.be/VgS6FPwUk3M
https://youtu.be/VgS6FPwUk3M
https://youtu.be/VgS6FPwUk3M
I decided to make a version without screenshots.
To fam and friends that know me personally. I do curse, like a sailor. If you don’t like this don’t watch. I hold nothing back and you will either love my bluntness or hate it.
REQUESTED: People are still interested in this shit a year later. Seriously thanks for watching the first rounds of video. I did not think people would reach out to me, ask for a follow up and all that jazz. Since I’m in several friend groups on Facebook that asked about making friends as an adult, I answered those questions and used my experiences in Alpha Phi Omega as an example. This shows me to always share your story, you never know what could happen out of it.
Be careful who you let in your circles. Toxic people and energy can be the reason you're not as successful as you like to be or want to be. That's why they always say you are the average of the 5 people who you hang around with; The people you surround yourself with, you become. We are all energy. If you subject yourself to peers who are negative, insecure or destructive, it will affect you. Regardless of your strength as an individual, you are not immune to a constant surrounding of negative energy or bad influence. Not only are you the average of the FIVE people you surround with, it’s way bigger than that. You’re the average of all the people who surround you. So take a look around and make sure you’re in the right surroundings. 3b. The dream in your heart may be bigger than the environment in which you find yourself. Sometimes you have to get out of that environment to see that dream fulfilled. It’s a fact of life that some people hold us back, while others propel us forward. For example: For example, you might have a set of friends who are fun and who you enjoy getting lunch with, but they might not understand your goals and desires. As a result, they're more likely to be a fun diversion from your business than an engine that pushes it forward. 4. If you are watching this and you are dealing with mean grade school, h.s. or college girls (or even a toxic work place) it's just a phase. At some point you won't ever have to see these people ever again. As an adult it's bad that bullying still happens but it does. 5. Just because you got it going on doesn't mean you have to be a doormat for anyone. Nor should people make you feel bad for the success you are experiencing. Maybe you can in turn be an inspiration for them to have successes in their own life. Go forth and keep experiencing abundance. 6. Some friendships and relationships are not meant to last forever. Some only last for a season and a reason. Some people you haven't seen for years and you can pick up right where you left off.
Part 1: 0:24.53-.42.16, give or take (Original Video Here: https://youtu.be/484BxZZHdJo)
Part 2: 24:44-42:02 (Original Video Here: https://youtu.be/8UYCZNymplM)
Part 3 : 42:02- MOST PEOPLE SHOULD START HERE. This video is already long enough. Lmfao.
43:07: IS IT HARDER TO MAKE FRIENDS THE OLDER YOU GET?
44:11-51:45: Why I still think most of my beloved APO bros who posted the black box pretending to be on the team don’t give two f*****. My blunt stance. Why I will never re-join Alpha Phi Omega. (Some people say never say never, but y’all don’t know how stubborn I am. I have joined other orgs as an adult. I understand that everyone won’t be close to everyone & you can’t completely avoid cliques. I’ve felt more appreciated, welcomed and more like home elsewhere. I don’t care for awards and recognition, just really looking for an opportunity to trust a group outside my close friend circle fully and deeply again, and I haven’t felt this way in a long time.)
Articles I was referring to:
https://aleshapeterson.medium.com/this-is-the-side-of-being-an-extremely-ambitious-entrepreneur-which-rarely-gets-talked-about-ff0e2bd5582b
https://aleshapeterson.medium.com/4-reasons-why-people-hate-on-your-success-and-why-you-should-be-successful-anyways-c0a91fc1e15b
54:11-1.09.56 marker: I talk about mean sorority girls here (Pre APO story).
Screenshots: 1:01 Marker on 1st version of this video. https://youtu.be/VgS6FPwUk3M
1 hour 10 sec marker: APO stories, really juicy, some girls prolly deserve to get called out (give or take, I think it officially starts around 1:09.56 marker). More f****** shit to get into. Why I now believe I was never truly an APO brother. My transparent thoughts on why I never truly fit in w/ the org despite my best efforts (& I do mention law of attraction & setting intentions here).
1:16.49 to the end of the video: I talk about abundance, wealth creation, & how finding friends on your same wavelength really is a gamechanger!
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