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Why I'm The Dropped Facebook Friend. Why People Ghost!
2022 Simple Advice: Btw, When People Ghost, Respect The Dead. Don't Bother Them Again
A few notes:
The air conditioner decided to come on. Shit happens.
Liquor started to take over and few of the words didn't wanna come out right.
Someone tried to call. You see my long nails.
Shit happens and I kept going anyways.
Why People Ghost.
1.Different Paths. Sometimes when you go through life you go in different directions. Sometimes you will find that your married friends don't want to hang out with you anymore. Even the ones you got major history with. Sad but true.
2. Some people hate to see you do well. Some people stay on your social media to watch you fall on your face. Instead of rooting for your success they secretly hating on you. Misery loves company! It's not your problem that your successes makes them feel small. That's something they need to work out on their own journey. Appreciate your own gifts and quit focusing on everyone elses.
3. As a black (multiracial person), I suspect some of it is people have this idea on what they think I should be (based on stereotypes and preconceived notions). Instead of appreciating me for me, they wanted me to stay in a box to make them more comfortable. I was told "cultural differences" may make some people uncomfortable around me and unable to expand their horizons but I still questioned why can't people see me as a human being? It didn't come out this way in this video because of alcohol lmfao. But you get the drift. When I exceeded their expectations they just wasn't sure how to handle me. How about be happy for someone and going on about your business? Just a thought.
4. Being the only child growing up I don't like jealousy, gossip queens and back stabbers. When it boils down to it, I rather be alone and find the right people then have toxic friends. If I see this kind of behavior I'm out. I don't have time for that shit.
Originally posted: June 16th, 2020
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Advice I Posted For My Instagram Fam, Part 1
Originally uploaded: January 2nd, 2023
YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/xlycYHmnmfI
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I had something great happen on one my YouTube channels, and ever since then people been freaking out. Go here if you are interested: https://www.instagram.com/aleshampeterson/.
Here's the advice I laid out.
Ok here's a lil tough love in this. I notice with some of these messages, y'all act like I did a godly act or parted the red sea. No. I just grew my YouTube channels. (And remember, I'm just starting my journey, chill out....). Nobody wants to be there at the beginning of your journey, but everyone wants a piece when you make a breakthrough.
This is a huge secret: Creatives: Don't listen to limiting beliefs, and get used to being disliked and misunderstood.
Non-creatives: Stop putting your negative beliefs on people because they are doing something or living a life you don't understand. Going silent is not support, & on some level you want to see them fail because they are going for their dream.
I didn't listen to anyone who messaged me from my past telling me that "you can't" do it. And now the messages are hella different. 722 messages are ridiculous, especially bc I've been off your radar this whole time. Here's the thing, you do not need me or my 'reels' or advice. You could figure out Youtube or anything on your own just fine. Don't kiss my butt, or pretend I'm some famous person lol. I'm not a guru or sage. I've been called the nicest things since my "breakthrough". I'm the same Alesha you've always known. I just had the guts to go for it. I'm very chill.
Instead of being sorry for words that you actually meant to say to me. Find someone who is a creative, artist, musician, entrepreneur, etc & back them. Leave your opinion out of it. Instead of supporting a celebrity you don't know, pick a local, a black business, poc business, someone you know trying to do something. If you like their product, BUY it. Instead of telling your actor friend that their job isn't legitimate, share their projects everytime they get booked (& they don't even have to know you are doing it). Bc if & WHEN that person becomes successful on some level, eating your words & having the mirror reflected back on you ain't so pretty. Just bc you can't see yourself making money with a creative venture, doesn't mean it applies to someone else. Be better than this & keep your opinions to yourself. Stop putting your negative limiting beliefs on other people. FIND YOUR PURPOSE.
Filmed December 31st, 2022! Bye 2022. Hello 2023! Happy New Years.
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Someone graduated at 22, but waited 7 years to get a job (blooper, too much glare and noise)
Originally uploaded: January 2nd, 2023.
YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/bzibljllgR8
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I really cannot tell you what's going on with my phone haha. But you're where you're supposed to be.
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Happy New Years! My phone is being cloudy, and I'm going with it.
Originally uploaded: January 1st, 2023
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CLOUDY. I really cannot tell you what's going on with my phone haha.
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Stop always being the one who makes the effort. Relax and let that ship sink.
Originally uploaded: January 1st, 2023
YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/Wws3Xl6nU-g
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I let many of them sink and it's one of the best decisions I made. I do not care anymore and it's so freeing.
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Part 2 Version, Listen For The Ya. Don't write a check with your mouth that you can't cash.
Originally uploaded: January 1st, 2023
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Happy New Years!
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Filmed December 26th, 2022! Merry Christmas! But you will see these around New Years.
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When They Don't Know You, They Make Up Lies
Originally uploaded: December 31st, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/JV3klo3COoY
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Make sure you can put your money where your mouth is.
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Filmed December 26th, 2022! Merry Christmas! But you will see these around New Years.
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I saw a post I didn't agree with. And I didn't get offended.
Originally uploaded: December 31st, 2022
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I didn't try to change their mind eith.
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Filmed December 25th, 2022! Merry Christmas! But you will see these around New Years.
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After you realize I'm not the one. And never will be, please also realize this.
Originally uploaded: December 30th, 2022
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I'm not the two or the fifth either.
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Filmed December 25th, 2022! Merry Christmas! But you will see these around New Years.
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I don't fear being alone.
Originally uploaded: December 30th, 2022
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I love being alone, it's when I went around untrustworthy people is when problems showed up.
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Filmed December 25th, 2022! Merry Christmas! But you will see these around New Years.
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I got a new IU hoodie for Christmas!
Originally uploaded: December 29th, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/4iQx3HUkj2k
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Go Hoosiers!
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Filmed December 25th, 2022! Merry Christmas! But you will see these around New Years.
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When they sleep on you..Tuck them in. Then read them a bed time story. Then say good night.
Originally uploaded: December 29th, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/gYB6Vz4bgIc
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I personally like reading Dr. Seuss to them.
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Filmed December 24th, 2022. Happy Christmas Eve & Merry Christmas!
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We pick our friends, but real life situations sort them out
Originally uploaded: December 28th, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/9DU0ZrzfT90
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Real life shows who real.
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Filmed December 24th, 2022. Happy Christmas Eve & Merry Christmas!
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They say blood is thicker than water.
Originally uploaded: December 27th, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/AcuBnSs_H3A
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And when a few cousins did come around, I was at the point where I didn't trust anyone. Good luck to anyone trying to penetrate my shell.
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Filmed December 24th, 2022. Happy Christmas Eve & Merry Christmas!
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If you wanna know who is real? Fall off, go broke, say no and see what happens.
Originally uploaded: December 26th, 2022
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I actually had this happen to me and a lot of people iced me out a lot of times in my life. The coldest lesson I learned that no one really was down for me like I thought at the time(s).
It's easier for me to be and stay a lone wolf. Since I've had so many examples of people in life not being there, it forced me to get really crafty and creative to get things done. I know they don't want to promote soloprenuers, and doing things by yourself, but I've had to become a master at it. What it boils down to is learning that if you don't do it, it won't get done, and your destiny is really in your own hands.
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Filmed December 24th, 2022. Happy Christmas Eve & Merry Christmas!
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Don't worry about the haters. They are just angry that the truth you speak contradicts the lie..
Originally uploaded: December 25th, 2022
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That they live.
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Filmed December 24th, 2022. Happy Christmas Eve & Merry Christmas!
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A person who doesn't defend you while someone slanders you is your enemy too
Originally uploaded: December 25th, 2022
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I had a lot of so called friends play both sides of the fence, or stay silent while people talked and never defended me throughout the years. I don't consider them friends.
I usually defend myself, but usually the gossipers never came to me about, they went to other people and talked about me behind my back.
I tried to see it from my "friends" side. Maybe they are scared, and want to be liked to have friends. Ok. Then the older I got, the more I realized, ok. It's time to have some backbone. You either stand up for something or fall for anything. You are either with me, or against me, there's no going down the middle or playing both sides.
They are opportunists/acquaintances that didn't care about me as a person, or cared about how their actions affected other people. I'm done with playing with people like this.
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Filmed December 24th, 2022. Happy Christmas Eve & Merry Christmas!
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YAYY! YALL ARE INCREDIBLE. 13,616 views on September 24th, 2022
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October 11th, 2022: Happy Surgery Day 1! 19,250
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Be careful where you get your information from. I love this quote because I love staying in my lane
Originally uploaded: December 25th, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/kd_4cIxbn9o
YouTube Description: (Lets stay on Rumble tho)
I actually used myself as an example in this quote, I love this quote. My brain cells froze over too.
Yo, I appreciate the suggestions, but relationships and the college niche for me writing or talking about on YouTube ain't me loves. Please go to the appropriate experts for this, and I'm actually starting a link tree for this, because I'm getting a lot of suggestions on this. I'm a firm believer in staying in my lane, and minding my own business. Like for real. I'm brutally honest, and will not swerve into topics, pretending to knowing something I don't. If I don't know, I'll just say I don't know.
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Filmed December 24th, 2022. Happy Christmas Eve & Merry Christmas!
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YAYY! YALL ARE INCREDIBLE. 13,616 views on September 24th, 2022
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October 11th, 2022: Happy Surgery Day 1! 19,250
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Dear Black Women (my cousins, anyone seeing this. You deserve love that don't require suffering 1st)
Originally uploaded: December 25th, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/LIZxC7TTyio
YouTube Description: (I rather you stay on Rumble...lets get it rolling on here!)
This is my love for my fellow black women! I love you and want to see you happy.
To my cuzzos and friends I know.
I hope you find the love you are looking for (if that's what you want). And not just for Christmas. I hope all your dreams come true year around and then some.
I have experienced a lot of my trust being broken at many different periods of my life, and decided (not just that reason) that the single and independent route is for me. I'll never project on you and hope to be your biggest cheerleader for infinity and beyond.
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Filmed December 23rd, 2022.
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If you are brave enough to say goodbye
Originally uploaded: December 24th, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/e68c5S3uCAo
YouTube Description: (Lets stay on Rumble thooo).
Here's another secret of mine.
Are you brave enough to let things go that no longer serve you? For me personally this was very difficult. And it hurt like hell.
One of the reasons why I didnt go with IU originally because so many of my family was there and being the only child, I'm used to and usually take my own path. But after my experiences I'm like you know what, rooting for IU isn't bad at all. It's been an adjustment and hasn't been easy, especially when you're thinking that you're going to identify one way your whole life. Cognitive Dissonance. (Mom ain't happy with it but she will get over it. Here's to being called the traitor word, love ya mom. We can joke like that.)
Boilermaker friends I love you but this has been a long time coming. It hasn't worked for a long time, I would be stupid af to keep pretending & fronting appearances. It was made clear to me on many different levels that I didn't matter too many times throughout the years. If you do come on over to the Bloomington side sometime, they are a lot of fun, and I'll be that Hoosier buddy for you.. They are wild, enthusiastic. And friendly to strangers. The ones I run into at basketball games struck up a random conversation. I'm like I'm a new stranger, and they treat me like I've been a Hoosier for years.
When my first group of friends passed, I went to Chicago & Bloomington. There's something about spending time and living other places for a bit when the unthinkable happens that's refreshing and healing. I'm very good at hiding things and the people I was with had no earthly idea how much pain I was in and the weight I carry. Thank you Chicagoans and Hoosiers for always being nice, here lately I've been closed off (don't take it personally. December has been a month these past few years when a lot of people in my life passed. I like y'all, but I like being quiet too.)
I don't care about what others care about. I don't want what other people want. I don't care about a new car, I wish I had my friends and loved ones that passed back. And I'm on no one's timeline. My biggest thing is you don't want to live your existence on this earth in a negative vibration. Or living to impress other people. I was very unhappy for many years because I followed the life script.
I said goodbye to things that crushed my soul, and said hello to things and places that brought me joy.
Love ya,
Your empathetic friend Alesha
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Part 2. Can You Get Rid Of The Crab Mentality?
Originally uploaded: December 24th, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/HQa6Z5BTTds
YouTube Description (I rather you stay on Rumble though, lets get it Rumbling on here):
It cut me off in the first clip, so take 2!
Can you rise above the crab in the barrel mentality if called?
This is one of my biggest secrets, and it takes inner work.
I think one of the reasons why my health issues have been happening is the Universe is trying to force me to be in a position to ask for help. I think in some ways some of the posts some of you have been sharing is trying to teach me this. I'm a stubborn mf though. This same stubbornness is what made me figure out YouTube on my own like life. (I'm a Gemini, and since I'm close to Taurus zodiac sign, I pull from that Taurus stubbornness alot. You can't stop a determined Taurus, trust me, those bulls are the greatest teachers)
I made up my mind a long time ago that I will not be a debbie downer to my loved ones. Despite what you said throughout the years, I won't put that on you all the time. If you're happy, your happiness is my happiness.
YouTube (Mindset) success secret: Don't drag others down because you're down. Rise above that pettiness and crab mentality.
P.S. And when I do speak my mind, know I'm just going to keep it for real no matter what that looks like. Some of the things I've said on my YouTube ain't always pretty. But it needed to be said and I'm not making no apologies. Stand up for something or fall for anything.
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Could You Get Rid Of The Crab In The Barrel Mentality If Called To? Part 1
Originally uploaded: December 23rd, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/1c0f2J_PULo
YouTube Description: Could you be happy for someone even if you are not happy in your life?
Story time!
Some things went down that ultimately changed how I saw life. Let's keep that short & simple.
I was determined to make it being a entrepreneur/Youtuber/etc.
B/c I knew I'm going to go down this path less traveled. It's my path.
It's interesting. Listening to well intentioned advice as a teen led me down a path that's no longer for me, & I realized it in my early 20s. Some of my mom's friends think I'll be good at jobs, but no thanks! My experiences at my schools jaded the normal path for me. I'll let them talk shit about me to each other & let them shoot the breeze at my expense. Love ya though. It's not the first or last time people will talk about me & I'm cool w/ it. Remember people wouldn't talk about or bother you if you were nothing. (& in some sense, people being jealous of you means you are going places in life. The celebrities you know & people who are successful didn't fit in w/ others, they stand out. Look at how many haters your favorite celebrities have & consider yourself going in the right direction).
The result from those school experiences was developing skills & mindsets that's not obvious & I don't talk about it (the list is still growing as I write this).Then I was like Universe, gimme a sign's more about developing skills, & letting the successes speak for itself. Learn to talk less & make more moves.
(Mindset) Success secret #4. It's too easy to take the crab in the barrel mentality route & drag someone down b/c you're down. Can you be one of those who elevates someone? Having a negative mindset towards others won't lead me to success.
P.S. 2. I'm still bad at asking for help. Just being honest. Why in the world do you all think I got content years in advance? If I don't make it happen, it won't. You literally got to take your destiny in your own hands. Have a great one.
P.S.3. I was given the same life script. Listening to people growing up led me to being unhappy, unfulfilled, I realized later on that I don't want the same things that everyone else has.
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Filmed December 20th, 2022.
Thank you! 10,000 views on here! (10,168 views to be exact). September 22nd 2022. Happy 1st Day Of Fall Y'all.
Thank you! 12,461 views a day later! September 23rd 2022! Y'all rock!
YAYY! YALL ARE INCREDIBLE. 13,616 views on September 24th, 2022
October 5th, 2022: 17,560
October 11th, 2022: Happy Surgery Day 1! 19,250
October 22nd, 2022: 20,636
November 4th, 2022: 21,946
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I have a question. Could you turn someone on to an opportunity without this fear?
Originally uploaded: December 23rd, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/HCsFaCOYczg?feature=share
YouTube Description: (Lets stay on Rumble though and get it going lol).
Could you do this?
Could you clap for others even if their successes comes before you?
Can you turn someone on to an opportunity without the fear of them getting ahead of you? Can you root for someone's successes like it's your own, even if it means they get theirs before you get yours?...Can you clap for someone else until your time comes if called to do so?
I bring this up because I apply this a lot. I'm at the start of my journey. Sometimes it's a matter of finding your people where you can really blossom. (They are not worried about my Youtube channel over here, they got their own...their grass is greener, but I'm happy I got my own yard too. You can be happy for others, and still be a light in your own right at the same time. Take a lesson from Kelly Rowland and Miss Nigeria.) It can be done, but you can learn mindsets to not get intimidated by someone' successes, but to propel you to grow as a person.
People in our age group? We compare and compete with each other too much. It's ridiculous. The time you spend trying to keep up with the Joneses could be time you could spend growing as a person. The question is which path are you going to choose?
Being jealous or hating on someone is not going to serve you. Can you reframe your mindset to see someone's successes as an opportunity to learn and grow, to see how far you can get in your breakthrough? Instead of seeing someone's success as someone taking away from you (because trust me, no one is taking from you...they put in the work that most won't to live a life most don't). Maybe you secretly wish you could do the same things, or maybe you feel like they got theirs, and you haven't gotten yours, and it's being thrown up in your face.
Remember to not compare your day 1 to someone else's day 400. You never know what someone went through to get where they are today. If you can't be happy for someone, unpack and figure out why. Maybe their successes put a spotlight on your biggest insecurities....I will tell you, gossiping about someone, cutting someone, or talking negatively about someone who you think got ahead of you won't do it. Building your skills, finding your lane, finding your own talents, addressing those jealousies and insecurities and having blind faith will.
What's blind faith? Blind faith is believing you will be successful, even if it hasn't happened in real life, you have to learn how to believe in what you can't see. I was called all kinds of names by my peers, but it's not so crazy now that it's happening in real life, correct? No matter how "delusional" your dreams sound, even to your loved ones, go for it. (I shudder to think where I would be if i listened to all that, let it go in one ear out the other, and let the successes speak for itself).
So Youtube (Mindset) Success secret #3....Your success is my success, and I can root for you like it's my own. There's room for everyone at the table to be successful.
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Filmed December 16th, 2022.
Thank you! 10,000 views on here! (10,168 views to be exact). September 22nd 2022. Happy 1st Day Of Fall Y'all.
Thank you! 12,461 views a day later! September 23rd 2022! Y'all rock!
YAYY! YALL ARE INCREDIBLE. 13,616 views on September 24th, 2022
October 5th, 2022: 17,560
October 11th, 2022: Happy Surgery Day 1! 19,250
October 22nd, 2022: 20,636
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A message for those who are struggling.
Originally uploaded: December 22nd, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/oB-VCy45uhs
YouTube Description (I rather you stay on Rumble tho):
Inspired by Lakshy Dahiya.
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Filmed December 14th, 2022.
Thank you! 10,000 views on here! (10,168 views to be exact). September 22nd 2022. Happy 1st Day Of Fall Y'all.
Thank you! 12,461 views a day later! September 23rd 2022! Y'all rock!
YAYY! YALL ARE INCREDIBLE. 13,616 views on September 24th, 2022
October 5th, 2022: 17,560
October 11th, 2022: Happy Surgery Day 1! 19,250
October 22nd, 2022: 20,636
November 4th, 2022: 21,946
November 30th, 2022: 26,270! 12/5/2022: 26,633
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I'm proud of you for still being here fighting everyday.
Originally uploaded: December 21st, 2022
YouTube Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/YRSJMLL7OFU
YouTube Description: (I prefer you stay on Rumble and get it going here tho, lets gooo)
Inspired by Eden4028.
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Filmed December 14th, 2022.
Thank you! 10,000 views on here! (10,168 views to be exact). September 22nd 2022. Happy 1st Day Of Fall Y'all.
Thank you! 12,461 views a day later! September 23rd 2022! Y'all rock!
YAYY! YALL ARE INCREDIBLE. 13,616 views on September 24th, 2022
October 5th, 2022: 17,560
October 11th, 2022: Happy Surgery Day 1! 19,250
October 22nd, 2022: 20,636
November 4th, 2022: 21,946
November 30th, 2022: 26,270! 12/5/2022: 26,633
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Part 2. The 1 Thing About Being A *Giver W/ An Asterisk. Make Sure You Take Care Of Yourself First.
Take care of yourself first.
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Filmed December 14th, 2022.
Thank you! 10,000 views on here! (10,168 views to be exact). September 22nd 2022. Happy 1st Day Of Fall Y'all.
Thank you! 12,461 views a day later! September 23rd 2022! Y'all rock!
YAYY! YALL ARE INCREDIBLE. 13,616 views on September 24th, 2022
October 5th, 2022: 17,560
October 11th, 2022: Happy Surgery Day 1! 19,250
October 22nd, 2022: 20,636
November 4th, 2022: 21,946
November 30th, 2022: 26,270! 12/5/2022: 26,633
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