10 Red Flags To Watch For In Your Relationship

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When we are in conquest we always surprise that special person with details and things that make his feelings towards us change; once we achieve the task we enter a stage where everything is "honey on flakes", the heart beats when we see that person and the moments next to him are unforgettable...

But as the relationship progresses the first changes come, we enter a state of comfort where we put aside all those things that made that person fall in love, the coexistence becomes monotonous, the conflicts grow and everything indicates that the outcome comes, sometimes by mutual agreement, at other times by infidelity, or simply the coexistence becomes unbearable.

Falling into this vices is very easy and many times one does it unconsciously, we forget about communication and all that made the relationship strong and this leads one of the spouses to begin to see things differently and that little by little this love that existed is extinguished.That's when we open our eyes and realize that something is wrong and try to fix what is already very broken, and no matter how hard we try to straighten the relationship many times is impossible.

A good retreat on time can prevent things from getting out of control. How do you know? Generally in a relationship when things are already bad and there is no composure there are many signs that we refuse to see, by that feeling called love that covers our eyes, but so that you do not go through this, this video will show you 10 warning signs that indicate that your relationship could end.Communication is the basis of any relationship; when it all started, they spent hours talking. Suddenly you no longer feel the same security to tell him anything, this is the main sign that he no longer has the same interest in you.

They fight for everything. Before they tried not to fight, but today anything is a cause for discussion, there is no understanding, and every time the fights become more frequent until they end up fighting daily at the slightest provocation.You always call. Lately one or two days go by without me calling you, I usually put any pretext, but the fact is that you always end up calling him yourself and you have realized that if you don't, he or she definitely won't communicate.

You see your friends more than your partner. Before they did everything together and weekends were exclusive for you, where one went the other, parties, meetings, etc., now everyone goes their own way and spends more time with their friends than with you.The fun is over. Before, they had fun with the simplest things and always looked for a way to be well, to have fun. They went out, they joked, they talked, they went out to dance today everything is boring, they don't go out anymore and much less they have fun.

Everyone sees it and tells you. Your relationship is wrong, something is not right, your friends and family warn you that your relationship is going to end. Try to listen to the people who love you, they would like you to do well and be happy.Someone who loves you and is with you, does it with your defects and virtues; be careful not to lose your essence and always remain firm in what you are and how you are. If you normally want to change your way of being, of dressing and so on, watch out!

No one feels the same way about the other anymore. This is the most obvious sign of all, but it is also the most painful feeling; however, it will be much less when you realize that you will be much happier each on your own.They do not speak of the future. This is a point that does not play an important role in all relationships; but when it comes to leading or ending a relationship if one of the two parties evades it, it may be a sign.

There is mistrust. When there is no longer trust in the couple there is simply no relationship; trust is the primary part for things to go well, if this is lost the end is very close.If you think that your relationship has several of these signs the most advisable is that you sit down to talk with your partner, and together make the best decision. Sometimes it is inevitable to stay in a relationship that is toxic to both, although there are exceptional cases where with the help of therapy or strengthening communication, your relationship instead of ending could "evolve" and long live love!

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