The Guru-Master Paradox

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Alright, let’s dive in nice and early. There’s a dynamic that’s crucial to bring out into the open so we can all progress at the most efficient rate. I'll need to set the stage a bit, but let’s call it the "Guru-Master Paradox Dynamic."

Here’s the gist: someone who's at a higher level than you can obviously synchronize their brain waves and distinguish between yin and yang at a broader and deeper spectrum within the respective parameters of martial arts, qigong, meditation, or whatever the system is. They’ve trained more, so they’ve got a broader range of skills and space than you do.

Now, if they genuinely want to elevate you by providing the most effective tools to develop your body and mind efficiently, they need to teach you how to achieve this. The problem arises when, let's say, we're standing together and touch hands. If I'm at a higher level, I can feel all the subtleties in your body. I can sense your spine moving and notice the space in your mind. I could push you around all day, pointing out flaws, and you might think, "Wow, this guy is amazing. He's a guru." But am I really helping you?

Pointing out mistakes engages your left brain to remember the issue and your right brain to creatively analyze it. This keeps you in a loop of mental activity. Synchronizing brain waves to reach a high level isn’t about cognitive activity; it's about opening up space. I've had teachers do this to me: touching hands, manipulating my spine, and I always sensed something wasn’t quite right. They weren't genuinely considering my growth.

Some instructors maintain dominance without caring about your development. They push you around, point out mistakes, and keep you within parameters that ensure their superiority. The question is, how do you truly help someone if you want to?

There's another dynamic: the psychological and psychic energy aspect. Different perceptions of reality get powered by collective belief, much like how currency has value because everyone believes it does. Similarly, an instructor’s perceived skill is often inflated by collective belief. Change the parameters, and suddenly their skill level appears less impressive.

This extra power can feed their ego, which isn't necessarily bad, but awareness is crucial. Recognizing these dynamics is key to genuine growth and development in any practice.

让我们尽早开始讨论。有一个动态对我们来说非常重要,我们需要将其彻底揭露,以便我们都能以最有效的速度进步。我需要建立一些背景,但让我们称之为“古大师悖论动态”。

基本情况是:处于更高水平的人显然可以同步他们的大脑波动,并在武术、气功、冥想等系统的各自参数内,在更广泛和更深层次上区分阴阳。他们训练更多,因此拥有比你更广泛的技能和空间。

如果他们真心想通过提供最有效的工具来提升你,让你能够有效地发展身体和心灵,他们需要教你如何实现这一点。问题在于,如果我们站在一起,并触碰到手。假设我在更高的水平上,我可以感觉到你身体中的所有细微之处。我可以感受到你的脊柱移动,注意到你心中的空间。我可以整天推你,指出各种缺点,你可能会想,“哇,这家伙真了不起。他是个大师。”但我真的在帮你吗?

指出错误只会让你的左脑记住问题,让你的右脑进行创造性分析。这会让你陷入精神活动的循环中。要同步脑波达到高水平并不是关于认知活动,而是关于开放空间。我有过这样的老师:触碰到手,操纵我的脊柱,我总是感觉有些不对。他们没有真正考虑到我的成长。

一些导师维持主导地位而不关心你的发展。他们推你,指出错误,确保他们的优越性。问题是,如果你真的想帮助别人,该怎么做?

还有一个动态:心理和精神能量方面。不同的现实感知通过集体信念获得力量,就像货币因大家都相信它有价值而有价值一样。同样,导师的技能感知往往因集体信念而膨胀。改变参数,突然他们的技能水平看起来就不那么出色了。

这种额外的力量可以滋养他们的自我,这未必是坏事,但意识到这一点至关重要。认识到这些动态是任何实践中真正成长和发展的关键。

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