Guys, stop using this as an excuse…

I used to agree with the saying “women are the gatekeepers of sex”—but it’s become twisted to be an excuse for men to shirk responsibility. A wise woman guards herself. So does a wise man. Women and the world may not put as much emphasis on a man’s sexual purity as men and the world put on a woman’s. But God puts that emphasis.

Moreover, even secularly speaking, there are serious risks to men who engage in promiscuity—including a decreased ability for future pairbonding.
So yes, let’s recognize that men and women ARE different—sexually and otherwise—and that we each have a role to play. But let’s also be mindful to not demand that the weaker sex exhibit greater self-control than men. Let’s not excuse sin with “oh, it’s biology.” An alcoholic is chemically driven to drink, a child of an alcoholic parent is biologically more programmed to be an addict—but that doesn’t mean we encourage or excuse them in drinking to the point of addiction or frequent intoxication, does it?

And let’s never ever forget that it will, quite simply, always take two to tango. Putting your fate—romantic, sexual, or otherwise—in the hands of the women (or men) around you, is a very bad idea. Especially your eternal fate.

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