You won’t BELIEVE this is happening in Chicago Schools!

Most of the time, when children are being abused in this type of environment they are groomed over time. The sooner you can catch it, the better outcomes for your child.

Here are a few signs of grooming that your child should look out for:

1. Being isolated from the group
2. Telling or asking secrets
3. Showing favoritism
4. Discussing inappropriate or sexual topics
5. Increasing level of physical contact: hugging, tickling, wrestling

Here are a few safety tips:

1. Teach body safety at an early age, as early as 3 years old
2. Teach your children about grooming behaviors.
3. Teach them to report any gifts or treats they receive from teachers, church members, coaches, family members, from their friend’s parents, etc.
4. Teach them it is never okay for anyone to show them their bodies, pornography, or tell them dirty jokes.
5. Help your children know they can come to you with concerns without fear of their feelings being minimized or getting in trouble.
6. If your child comes to you and is having a tough time telling you what happened…don’t take it lightly! Ask them if it is hard to say or if it is embarrassing to talk about. Help them through it with love and encouragement, and don’t freak out.
7. Teach your children to report any time they’ve been alone with an adult that you haven’t previously okayed. This also includes extended family members. Remember the groomer is usually not a stranger.

Do not be afraid to talk to your children. Children who are educated are empowered and have a greater chance of protecting themselves.