Guys would ghost her because she didn't put out | E16
Say hello to Sanjana! Corporate woman by day, model and actress by - well, other days. Funniest guest by far. Like the video if you want to see her back.
Hosts:
@zacknecesito (IG)
Nudrad
Guests:
@sanjana_va_ (IG)
Set Organized and Produced by:
@nathanielxot (IG and YT)
0:00 Intro
1:13 Sanjana's Profession
3:00 Dating age limit
8:13 Where does Sanjana meet guys?
11:00 Has Sanjana been ghosted before?
14:59 Is sex a leverage for women?
21:13 How being an only child affects her relationships
25:27 Being ghosted and dating apps go hand in hand
32:00 What do your parents think of you and your dating and career?
43:07 What if the man of your dreams don't like your online presence?
51:50 What is too much sacrifice?
54:30 Do most guys know if a girl is the one by the first date?
58:35 What is so great about sex for a man?
1:13:40 Sanjana's type
1:18:30 Outro
1:20:08 @nathanielxot Producer Shoutout
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Playing Games | E15
Warning - when Tiffany laughs, she loses balance. We talk about playing games while dating, dating during covid, and self awareness. Enjoy.
0:00 Intro
3:23 She loves love
11:00 How did Tiff meet her BF?
13:43 Playing games
23:35 Who plays more games? Men or Women?
31:26 Is it possible to have a successful relationship after playing games?
34:20 How to retain someone's attention without playing games
40:14 Law of Attraction
50:00 How would your friends describe you?
55:10 Most people aren't aware of their flaws
1:03:20 Who's more self aware? Men or Women?
1:10:51 Tiffany's type
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Does social media contribute to hookup culture? | E14
Social media, infidelity, combat sports, and hookup culture. Same topics different guest. Watch us make friends in real time while hearing different opinions on the mentioned topics. Nudrad's angle cuts out 10 mins before the pod ends. :) Enjoy.
0:00 Intro
2:27 Pros of Social Media
3:56 Cons of Social Media in Dating
10:07 What if your partner had a problem with your social media?
22:16 What causes infidelity nowadays?
26:20 How would you give advice so people could stop cheating
31:25 Are men in combat prone to cheating?
33:20 Random GOT reference
36:30 Commitment issues topic cont.
41:30 Who bears most responsibility for hookup culture
48:00 Hookup culture catching up to you
51:07 Should your partner judge you by your past?
58:04 Outro
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A therapist's take on dating | E13
Watch us get schooled by a professional on dating. John (JD) is a good friend and mentor from college and takes time out of his busy schedule to impart years of professional wisdom on to us. We will definitely invite him back!
Also, sorry about the camera y'all. We accidentally did not record Zack's angle.
0:00 Intro
4:29 Main issues people carry over in a relationship
18:14 Time heals all wounds? Including cheating?
23:03 How neglect can be traumatic
25:14 Hypergamy
28:18 People changing in a relationship
30:01 "I feel" Counter #1
35:58 Relational Depth
43:32 Not everyone is compatible
48:39 "I feel" Counter #2
52:23 Incompatibility cont.
54:25 Comfortability
58:55 1) Treat yourself like another person
1:00:14 2) Take care of yourself in biological order
1:04:42 3) Establish your identity (Stroke your ego)
1:18:00 Outro
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Dating within your culture | E12
Joined in this episode by another homegirl, Faye, we explore topics such as dating within our culture, over investing, and getting comfortable in a relationship.
0:00 Intro
1:04 Bartender talk
8:24 Dating within your culture
23:48 Over-investing in a relationship
37:38: How to prevent over-investing
41:26 How to stop over-investing
44:15 Should relationships be easy?
54:18 Our astrology (smh)
1:01:18 Getting comfortable in a relationship
1:10:00 Mate retention vs mate poaching
1:22:08 Faye and competition
1:24:30 Outro
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The 3 month rule | E11
Nudrad and Zack explore the "Talking Stages" of a relationship. They also explain why they employ a 3 month rule and end the podcast with the question - who should be more invested in a relationship?
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Dates are NOT meant to be 50-50 | E10
Should dates be 50-50? Is ambition a quality men should look for in a partner? Would we ever be sugar daddies? Find out this episode.
0:00 Intro
3:28 Cheers to 10 episodes
4:27 Zack's view on 50/50 dates
7:30 Why does her paying on dates compromise her femininity
9:07 Nudrad doesn't think it's 50/50
12:26 Why did Zack support 50/50 in the past?
16:56 Haircuts are EXPENSIVE
17:38 Zack's past views cont…
21:38 What if a girl doesn't have ambition?
28:14 If ambition is important, why not prioritize it?
29:10 Providing stats is evil
31:07 Ambition cont…
36:10 Is ambition a requirement for Nudrad?
40:23 Why ambition doesn't matter
44:16 Girls with sugar daddies
52:42 Sugar Daddy Story from Nudrad
57:00 How Nudrad finds out a girl's past
1:04:08 Outro
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Approaching 5 different girls on vacation (Cruise Game) | E9
Lucy joins us again as Zack recounts his cruise and the 5 different girls he approached. He talks about what he learned and the impact each girl made - especially the last one.
0:00 Intro
1:51 The girl that made Zack go into hiatus
9:14 What Zack expected from the cruise (Zack explaining Cruise specifics)
11:08 1st Approach (single girls)
12:12 2nd Approach (Sam)
15:07 3rd Approach (J and Pine, more than 50% of cruise workers are PH, black lipstick)
20:24 4th approach (22 nah 32, latin culture?)
23:14 5th approach (money approach) (zack original approach)
31:23 Key moments about the last girl (moses, checking her twice, conflicted, titanic)
41:18 Socratic seminar on hitting on a girl with a BF. (Lucy bf cheating on her 47:30)
50:38 Signs to end a relationship
56:26 Evolutionary Psychology
1:05:17 Responsibilities of each party in a relationship
1:09:44 What could she have done differently?
1:10:30 The dumbest thing Zack has done
1:12:27 Why not be friends?
1:17:56 Being a backup
1:23:41 Lucy's guy best friend
1:26:40 Nudrad on diff sex friendships
1:32:48 What Zack looks for moving forward
1:34:02 What Nudrad looks for moving forward
1:35:17 Compliance story
1:37:21 What Lucy learned today
1:38:27 Compliance topic cont.
1:40:05 Outro
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Young men attempt to define "toxic masculinity" | E7
We reveal that we are pivoting our content. We revisit all of our most memorable approaches in the last 2 months. We attempt to define what a successful man is and close the show with a conversation about "toxic masculinity".
To jump to that discussion, see: 1:01:00
Enjoy!
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Dating App Strategies (How to NOT get ghosted) | E6
In this episode, we have Farhan back in the stu with another part time host - Jasper. We talk about dating app strategies; what to say after matching, how to text her after matching, how to close when meeting up, and how to maintain interest after meeting up with a girl you matched with.
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Shooting your shot at a rave (EDC 2022 stories) | E5
Joseph and Ray share their stories from raves they've attended and answer typical questions like how to start a conversation with somebody in a rave. Is shooting your shot easier in a music festival like EDC?
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Approaching a girl who's "talking to someone" | E4
How does anyone not know what a henley is? Also, some tips and tricks on how to approach a girl who claims that she's talking to someone.
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Do guys care if a girl's college educated? (Post-college perspective) | E3
This episode we discuss dating in med school and imposter syndrome. We also address the negative and positive effects of being in a frat. Lastly, we touch on whether we would date girls without a college degree.
What to text after getting her number at a bar
We explore how we text after getting girls numbers at the bar. We also explore go to first text options for different scenarios.
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The age we think we have the most to offer in dating
This episode, Zack and Nudrad discuss what age they think they'll have the most to offer in dating. While they seem to agree, what do you think? And is it different for men and women?
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How to know if a number is prime
Ep 2 pt 1
Welcome back to another episode! This part we just catch up and talk about the new GOT prequel, House of Dragons, all while attempting to use Gen Z slang. At some point we also try to solve a programming problem about how to know if a number is prime.
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Barhopping in Houston and Dallas
Ep1 pt5
Episode 1 concludes with Zack's stories about barhopping while approaching girls in Houston and how the night went for the boys in Dallas the night before. If you're reading this, thanks for riding with us on this rough first episode! We will be shooting soon and correcting PLENTY of things. We're just getting started.
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What to say to girls at parties/bars
Ep 1 pt 4
Nudrad faces the dilemma of talking to a girl who was willing to cheat on her bf with him. Farhan goes to SATX and meets a girl at a bar with his friends. We also discuss what kind of conversations to bring up to girls at a party/bar environment.
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How do you escalate from friendly to flirting?
Ep 1 pt 3
In this episode Zack concludes his stories in the Philippines by talking about meeting someone he really hit it off with and how it happened.
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Tinder in the Philippines | Approaching Girls in 99Ranch
Ep 1 pt 2
In this part we talk about approaching girls at grocery stores, what the dating app scene is like in the Philippines as a tourist, and how to handle awkward situations.
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Worst she can say is NOT No | Approach Anxiety
Ep 1 Pt 1
We spend so much time talking, I figured I might as well start recording it.
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