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We've all encountered difficult moments in our relationships that shake us to our core and make us question our own worth. Our guest, Nathan, an intake specialist here at Marriage Helper, joins us to discuss the daunting challenges individuals face in troubled marriages. Together, we dissect how fear, panic, and a desperate need for control can often cloud our judgement. We're passionate about understanding each unique narrative, and we aim to create a safe space for all stories to be heard, seen, and understood. Remember, it's okay to seek help and there's no shame in reaching out. Weaving personal experiences into our discussion, we shed light on the complex tapestry of decision-making. What truly influences our choices? How does our self-worth shape our decisions? Why does an external factor like time or logistics often become a roadblock? Are we giving too much weight to the opinions of others? We recount a touching conversation with someone struggling with decision-making due to a lack of clarity. Our goal? To help you navigate your own decision-making labyrinth with more confidence and self-belief. Do you find yourself stuck in a loop of fear, unable to take the leap towards your goals? We've been there. We share our journeys of battling with fear and how focusing on our worth and clarity turned the tide. As we wrap up, we offer reassurance to those grappling with marital issues, spotlighting the life-changing power of self-reflection, responsibility, and grace. You deserve a happy and fulfilling future, and it's well within your reach. Turn despair into hope, fear into courage, and confusion into clarity with us at Marriage Helper. Embrace the belief that nothing is beyond recovery. Your journey towards a better future starts right here. To book a call with an intake specialist like Nathan, visit https://marriagehelper.com/apply2 Time Stamps: 0:00 - Healing from toxic marriage and finding happiness. 2:01 - Common themes in marriage counseling calls. 5:01 - Overcoming obstacles in marriage counseling. 9:19 - Finding clarity in decision-making. 17:10 - Overcoming fear and hopelessness in personal growth. 23:29 - Personal growth and marriage help. 29:39 - Breaking cycles of negative thought and finding hope for a better future. Want 25% off your first month of your Save My Marriage membership? Click the link and apply code "YOUTUBE" at checkout! 🔥 https://bit.ly/3OOUONQ 🔥 Marriage Helper Couples Workshop - Over 70% Success Rate: http://bit.ly/3Vjpad9 #marriage #worth #reconciliation #worth #marriage #separation

What if your world comes crashing down, and you find out your spouse is having an affair? Does it have to be the end of your marriage, or is there a way to survive, rebuild, and even thrive post-infidelity? That's what we're discussing in today's heart-wrenching episode, grappling with the turbulent journey of surviving an affair. We share insights drawn from thousands of marriages we've supported, underlining that infidelity, although a devastating blow, need not signal the end of a relationship. We’ll be guiding you through the process of stepping back, considering your spouse, your children, and the potential shared future that could still exist. To inspire you, we share the story of Jordan and Priscilla, a couple who, despite the anguish of infidelity, chose to fight for their marriage and not let one mistake define their relationship. Their story offers hope, revealing how forgiveness, open communication, and relentless hard work can mend and reconstruct even the most shattered relationships. Moreover, we delve into the crucial role that professional help and support can play in navigating these treacherous waters. Remember, you are not alone in this struggle, and surviving an affair can lead to an even stronger bond than before. So, join us in exploring the tough questions, the raw emotions and the healing journey after an affair. Time Stamps: 0:00 - Surviving an affair in a marriage. 1:30 - Affair impact on marriages and decision-making. 3:13 - Saving marriages after affairs. 4:47 - The impact of divorce on children and the importance of saving marriages. 6:16 - A real life example Want 25% off your first month of your Save My Marriage membership? Click the link and apply code "YOUTUBE" at checkout! 🔥 https://bit.ly/3OOUONQ 🔥 Marriage Helper Couples Workshop - Over 70% Success Rate: http://bit.ly/3Vjpad9 #Infidelity #Reconciliation #Marriage

Ever grappled with the pain of infidelity, manipulation, or the aftermath of separation in your marriage? Are you seeking clarity and perspective to illuminate your path towards self-love and a healthier marriage? We have conversation with Cody Wambolt, a client representative at Marriage Helper, who shares the stories of those confronting these struggles and the transformations they've experienced. Stories of personal growth and transformation are at the center of our discussion. We unearth the journey of a woman who, despite enduring verbal abuse and demands for divorce, managed to turn her life around. The story unveils how understanding her husband's personality, learning to communicate more effectively, and making significant changes in her behavior, allowed her to not only impact her marriage but also her children and social and professional circles. This compelling account underscores the power of personal growth and how it can create ripples in all aspects of life. As we wrap up the episode, we share how to get in touch with the dedicated team here at Marriage Helper. Tune into Relationship Radio to fill your hearts with hope and your minds with invaluable advice. To book a call with Cody or another Client Representative, visit https://marriagehelper.com/apply1 Time Stamps: 0:00 - Marriage help and client situations. 3:50 - Healing and transformation after infidelity in a marriage. 8:20 - Personal growth and marriage transformation. 13:35 - Personal growth and marriage improvement. 17:56 - Marital crisis support and hope. Want 25% off your first month of your Save My Marriage membership? Click the link and apply code "YOUTUBE" at checkout! 🔥 https://bit.ly/3OOUONQ 🔥 Marriage Helper Couples Workshop - Over 70% Success Rate: http://bit.ly/3Vjpad9 #Hope #Reconciliation #Marriage

What if the secret to a healthy and fulfilling marriage lies not in grand gestures or constant compromise, but in the very core of how we perceive ourselves? Join us as our CEO and resident psychology expert, Kimberly Beam Holmes, unravels the connection between self-esteem and marriage. Kimberly helps us understand the difference between self-esteem and self-worth, taking us through the seven areas of self-worth identified by researcher Jennifer Crocker. She emphasizes that only three of these areas - family support, virtue, and God's love - are healthy foundations for self-worth. Our deep-dive into self-esteem doesn't stop at theory. Kimberly demonstrates how self-esteem dynamics can play out in marriage, highlighting the potential harm when we rely on our spouses to fill our need for love and worth. This dependence may lead us into a cycle of altered behaviors and unfair expectations. Yet, there's hope. Kimberly shares insights from her dissertation research on how self-esteem levels can change through interventions. By pausing on our physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual parts of attraction, we can begin to nurture our self-esteem in a healthier manner. Tune in and discover how to strengthen the foundation of your marriage by redefining your self-esteem. Time Stamps: 0:00 - Self-esteem and its impact on marriages. 3:32 - Self-worth and its impact on marriage. 5:58 - Self-esteem and its impact on relationships. 9:14 - Improving self-esteem for better marriages. Link to It Starts With Attraction: https://www.youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes Want 25% off your first month of your Save My Marriage membership? Click the link and apply code "YOUTUBE" at checkout! 🔥 https://bit.ly/3OOUONQ 🔥 Marriage Helper Couples Workshop - Over 70% Success Rate: http://bit.ly/3Vjpad9 #SelfEsteem #Marriage #Healing

Ready for the transformation of a lifetime? Strap in as we unveil the secrets of salvaging a marriage, even when it feels like you're the only one fighting. We'll guide you through a proven seven-step process, crafted from the lessons we've learned supporting thousands of couples through their marital ups and downs. Learn how to navigate the initial stages of this journey solo, arming yourself with clarity and calmness because you are the captain of your fate, the master of your marriage. As we dive deeper, get ready for a paradigm shift. We talk about the pivotal role of accountability and implementation in your behavior transformation. We'll explore the powerful weapon of forgiveness, and why it's vital for both you and your partner to stand on the battlefield of reconciliation together. To top it all off, we'll introduce you to our 'Save My Marriage' program designed to help you see visible, positive results in your marriage. So, join us in this journey of turning your marriage around, one step at a time. It's not about the destination, it's about the journey. Let's start walking together, today. Time Stamps: 0:00 - Saving marriages with only one spouse's effort. 1:15 - Saving marriages through emotional control and clarity. 5:25 - Gaining clarity in marriage issues. 6:46 - Improving marriages through self-reflection and positive change. 9:41 - Saving marriages through forgiveness and reconciliation. Want 25% off your first month of your Save My Marriage membership? Click the link and apply code "YOUTUBE" at checkout! 🔥 https://bit.ly/3OOUONQ 🔥 Marriage Helper Couples Workshop - Over 70% Success Rate: http://bit.ly/3Vjpad9 #Transformation #Marriage #Reconciliation

Ever felt the agonizing sting of infidelity in your marriage? Been crushed under the weight of betrayal and wondered if you could ever find solace or if your relationship could be salvaged? We've got you. In this enlightening conversation, we delve into the painful reality of adultery and guide you through pathways of personal healing and marriage restoration. We reveal how infidelity is, unfortunately, a common predicament in marriages, not just among individuals who approach us at Marriage Helper for advice. Shattering the misconception that an affair is a reflection of your inadequacy, we discuss how it often denotes your spouse's unfulfilled needs. We will explore how your healing lies in recognizing your personal strengths, understanding your contributions to the marital discord, and working on them. We also illuminate the often misunderstood aspects of post-affair reconciliation and trust rebuilding. Tune in as we walk you through the intentional process of forgiveness and healing, that can potentially breathe new life into your marriage. Experience this transforming conversation that holds the power to revolutionize your life and marriage. Time Stamps: 0:00 - Healing from spouse's infidelity and the marriage. 3:39 - Healing from an affair and building self-esteem. 6:39 - Healing a marriage after an affair. 10:20 - Healing marriages after affairs with a focus on personal growth. Want 25% off your first month of your Save My Marriage membership? Click the link and apply code "YOUTUBE" at checkout! 🔥 https://bit.ly/3OOUONQ 🔥 Marriage Helper Couples Workshop - Over 70% Success Rate: http://bit.ly/3Vjpad9 #Healing #Affair #Cheating

Ever wonder why someone you respect and admire could break trust and engage in an affair? Unravel this complex web with us, as we share a story close to home, my father, a respected preacher who grappled with his own infidelity. Through this powerful narrative, we dissect the reasons that even the best among us might step into the shadows of betrayal, exploring the forces of external pulls, shifts in personal beliefs, and the discord created by living out values that don't align with our own. Open your eyes to the potential of forgiveness and the resilience required to mend fractures caused by infidelity. Discover how my mother found the courage to trust my father again and the hard work they both put in to rebuild their relationship. This episode isn't just about exploring the why behind the affair, it's also about the aftermath—how to pick up the pieces and create something stronger in the wake of a betrayal. Join us for a candid conversation about relationships, the dynamics of self-serving actions, and the importance of making informed decisions. This isn't just a story to be heard, it's an opportunity to see infidelity in a fresh light and better understand the complex emotions involved. Time Stamps: 0:00 - Why good people have affairs, despite being good. 0:58 - Father's affair and divorce. 4:03 - Cognitive dissonance and personal change. 6:22 - Affairs and personal growth. 9:37 - Rebuilding relationships after infidelity. Want 25% off your first month of your Save My Marriage membership? Click the link and apply code "YOUTUBE" at checkout! 🔥 https://bit.ly/3OOUONQ 🔥 Marriage Helper Couples Workshop - Over 70% Success Rate: http://bit.ly/3Vjpad9 #Affairs #CognitiveDissonance #reconciliation

What if the one thing standing in the way of a healthier, happier marriage is our belief that people can't change? Join us as we flip this myth on its head. We take a deep dive into the reasons behind why people change and how to create an environment that encourages your spouse to evolve in your marriage. We highlight an intriguing case study that shows how our beliefs about someone, and the way we treat them, can significantly influence their behavior and potential for change. In the latter part of our chat, we explore the concept of behavior modification in the context of marriage. We discuss how behaviors that are rewarded tend to be repeated and how a lack of reward or negative consequences can discourage certain behaviors. But, instead of resorting to punishments, we suggest encouraging open conversations and rewarding desired behaviors. Listen to our insightful tips on how to foster meaningful conversations and create new behavior patterns in your marriage, all for the purpose of fostering a stronger, healthier relationship with your spouse. So, let's shatter the belief that people can't change and start opening doors for growth and improvement in our marriages. EDITOR"S NOTE: Dr. Joe recently had eye surgery, thus the reason for the eyepatch. But don't worry! At the time of this video's release, he's already able to ditch the eyepatch! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Why people change and how to influence change in a marriage. 0:50 - The impact of beliefs and labels on relationships. 4:14 - Behavior modification and its application in marriage. 6:39 - Improving communication and relationships through empathy and understanding. 10:13 - Changing behaviors in marriage. Want 25% off your first month of your Save My Marriage membership? Click the link and apply code "YOUTUBE" at checkout! 🔥 https://bit.ly/3OOUONQ 🔥 Marriage Helper Couples Workshop - Over 70% Success Rate: http://bit.ly/3Vjpad9

Ever wondered how the intimate ties of marriage can weave into the complex tapestry of business? Ready for an adventure that transforms love in your personal life into fuel for professional success? Today, we unpack the profound connections between commitment in marriage and business. We take you through the labyrinth of falling in love – a four-stage journey that resonates deeply in both personal and professional relationships. We dissect the often misunderstood struggles in marriages and shed light on the potency of self-reflection. Believe us, it's not always about pointing fingers, sometimes, the solution lies in a mirror. The path to sustaining healthy relationships saturated with trust and passion starts here. Join us, as we commit to providing hope and help on this incredibly challenging, yet immeasurably rewarding journey of marriage and business. Time Stamps: 0:00 - Commitment to saving marriages and families. 1:51 - The underlying pain of rejection. 4:32 - The pain points of working with family. 8:59 - A mission worthy of committing to. 12:39 - The importance of aspirational goals and family life. 17:48 - The difference between setting goals and having downhill hopes and downhill habits. Want 25% off your first month of your Save My Marriage membership? Click the link and apply code "YOUTUBE" at checkout! 🔥 https://bit.ly/3OOUONQ 🔥 Marriage Helper Couples Workshop - Over 70% Success Rate: http://bit.ly/3Vjpad9 #Love #Success #Business

Your husband or wife has said your marriage is over and they’re ready to move on with their life. Where does this leave you? We have helped thousands of people save their marriages who are in your exact situation. You are not without hope and it's not too late to make a difference in your marriage. 🚨 WARNING 🚨 This training is not for you if... - You're more interested in complaining about your spouse than doing things that will ACTUALLY work. - You are looking for a quick fix. - You are more interested in the "6 TEXT MESSAGES THAT WILL MAKE YOUR SPOUSE COME CRAWLING BACK TO YOU" approach. (Spoiler: those don't work, even though there are so many people out there trying to sell you on their manipulative gimmicks) - You are just looking for things to piece together that you think sound good to you. Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes Kimberly is passionate about saving marriages and strengthening families while helping people become the best versions of themselves. Because of their unique process, Marriage Helper has a 70% success rate in saving marriages. A frequent speaker at women’s conferences and alongside Dr. Joe Beam at marriage events, Kimberly is currently finishing her PhD in Psychology. She lives in Tennessee with her husband of 12 years and her two children. Want 25% off your first month of your Save My Marriage membership? 🔥 https://marriagehelper.com/ytlive-1 🔥 Marriage Helper Couples Workshop - Over 70% Success Rate: http://bit.ly/3Vjpad9

Are you prepared to venture into the labyrinth of emotional complexities that lead some women to cheat? This episode promises an honest exploration into a topic that's often swept under the rug. Join us as we unravel the reasons why some women may stray from their marital vows. From emotional dissatisfaction to raw physical desire, we discuss real-life stories to illustrate how women may justify their actions and the devastating consequences that may follow. While we assert that cheating is never justifiable, we aim to shine a light on the intricate layers of motivations that can lead to such decisions. And, here’s the hard bit: confronting your spouse about a potential affair. Picture this, you've noticed signs, you're anxious, and you need to address this issue with your partner. It's a sensitive task and can be met with a range of emotional reactions. But, don't despair! We're here to guide you on managing these reactions and how best to navigate this tricky terrain. Learn about the effectiveness of seeking help and why it's essential to fight for your marriage. Tune in for a candid conversation and arm yourself with the tools to potentially avert a crisis in your marriage. Time Stamps: 0:00 - Why would a wife cheat? 4:55 - Women tend to cheat because of emotional fulfillment. 6:59 - How to prevent your wife from having an affair? 9:22 - How to talk to your husband about your feelings? Want 25% off your first month of your Save My Marriage membership? Click the link and apply code "YOUTUBE" at checkout! 🔥 https://bit.ly/3OOUONQ 🔥 Marriage Helper Couples Workshop - Over 70% Success Rate: http://bit.ly/3Vjpad9 #Cheating #Affair #Limerence

Why do people cheat? Are men and women motivated by different reasons to step out of their committed relationships? This episode delves into the fascinating world of infidelity, examining the psychology and motivation behind affairs. Surprising yet true, research suggests that a staggering 30-50% of couples will experience infidelity at some point. We navigate through the complexity of such actions, exploring why some individuals do not view their actions as adulterous, regardless of societal norms and moral obligations. But wait, there's more. Guess what, a marriage can be protected from these affairs. It requires consistent, intentional investment. This episode doesn't just stop at dissecting the reasons behind cheating, but also guides you on how to invest in your marriage meaningfully to prevent it from deteriorating over time. We put forth strategies on how to have open conversations about potential temptations and offer ways to resist them. Brace yourself as we journey through the intriguing and often misunderstood paths of relationships and infidelity. Time Stamps: (0:00) What motivates men to cheat? (1:47) Differences between short-lived affairs and long-term affairs. (7:08) Why men have extramarital affairs? (10:15) The third kind of affair. Want 25% off your first month of your Save My Marriage membership? Click the link and apply code "YOUTUBE" at checkout! 🔥 https://bit.ly/3OOUONQ 🔥 Want to learn how to stop your divorce and save your marriage? Click here: https://bit.ly/3PxmDwa Learn How to get your spouse back with our FREE Mini Course: http://bit.ly/3TXeT5g Marriage Helper Couples Workshop - Over 70% Success Rate: http://bit.ly/3Vjpad9 #Cheating #Affairs #Reconciliation