Woman, 41, is jailed after forcing a man to have sex with her while he was asleep
Woman, 41, is jailed after forcing a man to have sex with her while he was asleep.
A woman from Lancashire, England, was jailed on Friday, March 10, for four years after she admitted forcing a man to have sex with her while he was asleep.
Tanya Lord, 41, who is a lesbian, had already pleaded guilty to the sex attack at her home in Co Armagh at an earlier hearing at Craigavon Crown Court.
She was told by the judge there “seems to be no distinction to be drawn between this and the rape of a female.”
Outlining how the victim has been left mentally scarred and suspicious of people by his ordeal, the judge said “there's a repeated myth that males are less susceptible” to the consequences of sex attacks.
He revealed the victim has received counselling, is still prescribed medication for his mental health, has been left untrusting of people and “feels alone” unless he's with his kids.
In an impact statement, the victim told the court: “I would not wish this on anyone,” adding that “encourage anyone who has been abused to come forward.”
Judge Lynch said if the myth about male victims “needs to be disabused, it can be disabused now by the contents of the victim impact statement I have just read out” and warning that “there's no distinction between male and female rape - the fact that a male is the victim doesn't make it any less serious than the rape of a female victim”.
Lord admitted causing a man “to engage in sexual activity with you involving penetration of your vagina with his penis and that he did not consent to the sexual activity, and you did not reasonably believe that he so consented”.
The court heard how Lord forced the victim to have sex when they shared a bed at her home.
Prosecutor Joseph Murphy said the man had been drinking all day and met up Lord after she finished work on June 23, 2020.
They went back to her house, had a few more drinks and some food and then went to bed with both wearing shorts.
The victim believed that no sexual intercourse would take place because he understood that Lord was a lesbian.
The prosecutor said however that in the early hours of the morning, the victim woke and “felt a pain across his chest”.
He regained his senses and realised that his boxer shorts had been pulled down to his knees, his penis was inside Lord and she was “straddling him, bouncing up and down”.
The victim pushed her off and she pretended to be asleep.
The victim got up and went downstairs “to process what had happened”.
He pretended to be asleep in the sofa when Lord brought his clothes down but when she left the room, he got dressed and left the property.
He then spoke to his mother and partner before reporting the incident to police.
He was taken to a rape enquiry centre where he had to endure an intimate examination, have swabs taken from his private parts and be interviewed on video by specialist detectives.
It was those swabs, the court heard, that helped form an “overwhelming case” against Lord because while she claimed there had been no sexual contact whatsoever, her full DNA profile was found on the victim's penis.
When she was questioned, Lord “could provide no explanation” why her DNA had been found on intimate swabs and more than two years after the incident, with repeated delays and adjournments and an aborted trial, she finally confessed her guilt at the eleventh hour.
The prosecutor argued the fact that the victim asleep when he was attacked was an aggravating feature of the case.
Mr Murphy told the court that he could find no similar such case in the UK.
“Factually this case involved a woman having sex with a man without his consent and there should be parity between male victims of sexual crime and female victims,” he said, submitting that to do otherwise would affirm the “myth that men are less affected by sexual assault than women.”
Defence lawyer Michael Ward said Lord, who suffers from a personality disorder and has poor mental health, “has expressed remorse for her offending and some victim awareness”.
“She understands the position she had put herself in and she expresses, through me today, her remorse and her apologies to the victim for the unfortunate and regrettable incident,” said the barrister.
In addition to the four-year sentence, Lord was ordered to sign the police sex offenders register for the rest of her life.
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Mark Zuckerberg’s Meta to launch app to rival Elon's Twitter
Mark Zuckerberg’s Meta to launch app to rival Elon's Twitter.
Mark Zuckerberg's Meta has announced that it is creating a new social media app that lets users share character-limited posts to take on Elon Musk's Twitter.
A Meta spokesperson confirmed the 'standalone decentralized social network' to Reuters, stating that 'there is an opportunity for a separate space' for people to share updates about their interests.
The app's name is unknown, but it will be based on a similar framework that powers Mastodon, a Twitter-like service launched in 2016.
A Twitter-like app would allow Meta to take advantage of the current chaos at the Musk-led company, where cost-cutting and layoffs have been rampant.
MoneyControl reported Thursday about Meta's Twitter competitor, stating it is codenamed 'P92.'
The app would be Instagram-branded, allowing users to register with the same credentials, people familiar with the matter told MoneyControl.
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Only INEC can determine mode of collating, transmitting election results - Court rules
Only INEC can determine mode of collating, transmitting election results - Court rules.
A Federal High Court in Abuja has ruled that it is only the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) that is empowered by law to determine the mode of collating and transmitting election results.
Justice Emeka Nwite, in a judgment, also held that it is only INEC that has the prerogative to direct how Polling Unit Presiding Officer should transfer election results, including the total number of accredited voters and results of the ballot.
Before dismissing the suit, Justice Nwite held that the collating and transferring election results manually in the 2023 general elections is in line with the relevant provisions of the Electoral Act, 2022.
The judgment was on a suit marked: FHC/ABJ/CS/1454/2022 filed by the Labour Party (LP), with INEC as the only defendant.
LP had prayed the court to declare that INEC has no power to choose manual method other than the electronic method provided for by the relevant provisions the Electoral Act, 2022.
The Labour Party urged the court to issue an order directing INEC to comply with the Electoral Act, 2022 on electronic transmission of result in the forthcoming general election.
The judge said: “From the argument of the learned plaintiff’s counsel, I am of the humble opinion that the bone of contention or the sections that seeks for interpretation are actually sections 50(2) 60(5) and 62(2) of the Electoral Act, 2922.
“Section 47(2) as cited by the learned counsel to the plaintiff only deals with accreditation of voters using a Smart Card Reader, but not collation or transmission of result as postulated by the learned counsel,” the judge held.
Justice Nwite said that Section 60(5) of the Electoral Act, 2022 provides for the transfer of election result, including the total number of the accredited voters from the polling unit.
He noted that Section 62(2) of the same Act provides for compilation, maintenance and continuous update of the register of election result as distinct database for all polling units’ results as collated in all elections conducted by the commission.
“The said Section 62(2) has mandated that such register of election results shall be kept in an electronic format by the commission at its national headquarters.
“Now a close reading of Section 50(2) of the Act has provided for voting and and transmission of result to be done in accordance wit the procedure to be determined by the commission.
“This is to say that the commission is at liberty to prescribe or choose the manner in which election results shall be transmitted.
“In same ambit, Section 60(5) empowered the Polling Unit Presiding Officer to transfer the election results, including the total number of accredited voters and results of the ballot in a manner to be prescribed by the commission.
“This is also to say the commission is again at liberty to prescribe to the Polling Units’ Presiding Officer the manner in which to collate and transfer the election results as well as the accredited number of voters in an election under the Act.”
“In view of the foregoing, can the act of the defendant (INEC) in collating and transferring election results manually in the forthcoming 2023 general elections be said to be contrary to the relevant provisions of the Electoral Act, 2022?
“The answer can only be in the negative as there is no where in the above cited sections where the commission or any of its Agents is mandated to only use an electronic means in collating or transferring of election result.
“If any, the commission is only mandated to collate and transfer election results and number of accredited voters in a way or manner deemed fit by it.
“In view of the above, I am finding that, by the provisions of Sections 50(2) and 60(5) of the Electoral Act, 2022 the correct interpretation of the said statutes is that the defendant (INEC) is at liberty to prescribe the manner in which election results could be transmitted and I so hold.
“Consequently this matter is hereby dismissed,” Justice Nwite said.
INEC declared Bola Ahmed Tinubu as the winner of the February 25 presidential election, after he defeated Atiku Abubakar of the PDP and Peter Obi of the Labour Party.
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Four injured as thugs attack Labour Party's governorship campaign convoy in Kaduna
Four injured as thugs attack Labour Party's governorship campaign convoy in Kaduna.
A campaign convoy of the Labour Party governorship candidate in Kaduna state, Honourable Jonathan Asake was attacked by suspected political thugs on Friday, March 10, at Gidan Waya in Jema’a Local Government Area of the state.
Spokesman of the Labour Party Candidate, James Swam, said the incident happened when the campaign convoy was passing through Gidan Waya during Friday Muslim prayers, on its way to Godogodo and other towns as the campaign team toured the local government.
Channels Television reported that the attack ensued after the first three vehicles in the convoy made their way through the old tyres used to demarcate the road. Thugs in the area started throwing stones, big sticks and other harmful objects at the long convoy, before the timely intervention of the security personnel attached to the candidate intervened.
Two boys and two girls were injured during the attack.
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Archrivals Iran and Saudi Arabia agree to end years of hostilities in deal mediated by China.
Archrivals Iran and Saudi Arabia agree to end years of hostilities in deal mediated by China.
Saudi Arabia and Iran announced on Friday, March 10 that they have agreed to reestablish diplomatic ties after seven years of hostility- a deal between the regional arch-rivals that could have wide-ranging implications for the Middle East.
In a joint statement Riyadh and Tehran said they plan to reopen their embassies within two months in an agreement mediated by China.
They also plan to re-implement a security pact signed 22 years ago under which both parties agreed to cooperate on terrorism, drug-smuggling and money-laundering, as well as reviving a trade and technology deal from 1998.
Friday’s announcement is also a diplomatic victory for China in the middle east region that has long been considered part of the US’ domain of influence. It comes as the Biden administration tries to create its own win in the Middle East brokering a peace deal between Israel and Saudi Arabia.
Talks had been ongoing since March 6 in Beijing between Iranian national security chief Ali Shamkhani, Saudi national security council adviser Mosaed Bin Mohammad Al-Aiban and China’s top diplomat Wang Yi, according to Iranian state media.
Video of the signing ceremony aired by Iranian media showed officials seated around tables on opposite sides with the Saudi Arabian, Iranian and Chinese flags around them.
We will continue to play a constructive role in properly handling hotspot issues in today’s world in accordance with the wishes of all countries and demonstrate our responsibility as a major country,” Wang said, adding that Chinese President Xi Jinping supported it since the beginning.
In a push back to American influence on world politics, Wang said that “the world is not limited to the Ukraine issue” while emphasizing that the fate of the Middle East should be determined by the people of the Middle East.
“The foreign ministers of the two countries will meet each other to implement this decision and make necessary arrangements for the exchange of ambassadors,” the joint statement said. “The two sides agree to respect the sovereignty and non-interference in each other’s internal affairs.”
Saudi Arabia and Iran had previously held talks aimed at reconciliation in Oman and Iraq.
Riyadh severed ties with Tehran in 2016 after Iranian protesters stormed the Saudi embassy in the Iranian capital following the execution of a Shi’ite cleric in Saudi Arabia. Since then, they have fought a proxy war that has embroiled a number of neighboring countries mostly Yemen, bringing the region ever closer to war.
In Yemen, the two countries have supported opposite sides of a civil war that has been described by the United Nations as one the world’s worst humanitarian crises. From there, the Houthi rebels have fired missiles at both Saudi Arabia and the United Arab Emirates, targeting oil infrastructure that is vital to their economies.
The deal also comes as Iran finds itself increasingly isolated on the global stage as talks to revive Iran’s 2015 nuclear pact with world powers are frozen and relations with Western states have faced further strains due to the Islamic Republic’s brutal crackdown on protests that started in September.
Iran’s main international ally Russia is preoccupied with the war in Ukraine, while China, its other ally, has lately been courting Tehran’s archrival Saudi Arabia.
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Presidential ballot papers allegedly recover from a bush in Okrika, Rivers State.
Presidential ballot papers allegedly recover from a bush in Okrika, Rivers State.
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Nurse tearfully calls out Ondo Government over unpaid 8-month salary.
Nurse tearfully calls out Ondo Government over unpaid 8-month salary.
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Bola Tinubu’s election stands; if you are aggrieved, go to court — President Buhari.
Bola Tinubu’s election stands; if you are aggrieved, go to court — President Buhari.
President Buhari says that the February 25th election won by APC’s Bola Tinubu stands & that anyone who is aggrieved with the outcome should go to the court.
Presidential spokesperson in a statement on Thursday, March 9, said that Buhari is against any plans to annul the elections which many have said was characterized by irregularities.
According to him, Buhari remained reticent about INEC’s criticism by “wishful thinkers”because he had long decided not to take any decision that would undermine the electoral process.
“President Buhari not only muted himself following the cacophony, he picked up international travel. Bola Tinubu’s election stands. If you are aggrieved, and you have the locus to do so, go to court,” the statement read.
He pointed out that there were calls for the cancellation of the elections but that he had always maintained that the outcome of the election will be accepted by his government & must stand.
#2023elections
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Why you should add 'true love' to your prayer points instead of money — Lady tells japa enthusiasts.
Why you should add 'true love' to your prayer points instead of money — Germany-based Nigerian lady tells japa enthusiasts.
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NSCDC uncovers expansive illegal refinery in Rivers.
NSCDC uncovers expansive illegal refinery in Rivers.
The Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps, NSCDC, has uncovered an expansive illegal refining site at Otamiri-Etche, near Port Harcourt.
Operatives of the Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps (NSCDC) have uncovered an illegal local refinery at Otamiri-Etche in Etche LGA of Rivers State.
The NSCDC State Commandant, Michael Besong Ogar, while addressing newsmen on Thursday, March 9, 2023, said the illegal refinery was uncovered following a tip-off.
“I must confess that this is the first time of witnessing a well fabricated illegal refinery with such a wide range of pipes laid across the area, as you can see how big the land is, you can also imagine how unscrupulous people can be despite the continuous fight against illegal dealings in petroleum products.
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My friends almost dispatched my sister and I to our graves with beating - Singer Portable cries out
How my friends almost dispatched my sister and I to our graves with beating — Singer Portable cries out.
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Actress Destiny Etiko quizzes fan who wanted to drown her with tears
Actress Destiny Etiko quizzes fan who wanted to drown her with tears during their first meeting in Owerri, Imo State.
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Man cries a river after his girlfriend served him ‘delicious’ breakfast 💔💔💔
Man cries a river after his girlfriend served him ‘delicious’ breakfast.
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Late football legend Pele’s widow to inherit 30% of his assets.
Late football legend Pele’s widow to inherit 30% of his assets.
Late football legend Pele’s window, Marcia Cibele Aoki is set to inherit 30% of his assets, according to his will.
Cibele’s lawyer Luiz Kignel in a chat with AFP on Tuesday said the will also mentions a woman who could be Pele’s unrecognized daughter.
According to Kignel, the will states that Cibele, Pele’s third & last wife, will inherit his mansion in Guaruja, a seaside resort town south of Sao Paulo.
Other assets belonging to Pele, who died after battling cancer in late December at age 82, include more real estate & a stake in the Pele brand, Kignel said, adding that a complete inventory has yet to be made.
The remaining 70% is reserved for Pele’s children, including an unrecognised daughter that he may have.
“He indicated the possibility of the existence of another daughter, whose recognition will depend on a DNA test, which could not be carried out (on Pele)due to the pandemic & the state of his health,” Kignel said.
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Body of missing 15yrs old girl found buried in shallow grave in the backyard of her boyfriend's home
Body of missing 15-year-old girl found buried in shallow grave in the backyard of her boyfriend's home.
The body of a missing 15-year-old girl, Karabo Monyama, was buried in a shallow grave in the backyard of her 23-year-old boyfriend's home in South Africa.
Police spokesperson Lt-Col Amanda Funani, who confirmed the development in a statement, said Monyama's body was discovered on Wednesday, March 8, 2023.
Funani said the victim's boyfriend has been arrested and charged with murder, perjury and defeating the ends of justice.
According to the spokesperson, the teenager from Cyferskuil, close to Makapanstad, North West province, was last seen at lunchtime on Sunday when she left home to watch soccer at a nearby field. She never returned home.
“Cyferskuil police arrested a suspect after the body of missing teenager was found yesterday, 08 March 2023. The body of 15-year-old Karabo Monyama was discovered, buried in a shallow grave in the backyard of her 23-year-old boyfriend. The boyfriend was arrested on the same day, and he was charged for cases of murder, perjury and defeating the ends of justice. He is expected to appear in the Moretele Magistrates’ Court on Friday, 10 March 2023.” the statement read.
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I performed valuable services' - Tiger Woods’ ex-girlfriend Erica Herman sues him for $30m
'I performed valuable services' - Tiger Woods’ ex-girlfriend Erica Herman sues him for $30m.
Erica Herman, Tiger Woods’ ex-girlfriend is suing him for $30million, adding that she should still be living in his house, despite the both of them not being in a relationship.
Erica Herman had been living with him in Florida for the duration of their six-year relationship.
During that time, the ex-restaurant manager claimed she performed ‘valuable services’ for the 47 year old golfer in lieu of paying rent.
There was only ever an ‘oral tenancy agreement’ between the pair, which she alleged was supposed to last five more years after they split last autumn.
In new documents obtained by TMZ, Erica claimed Tiger’s staff convinced her to pack for a ‘short vacation’ without the golfer last autumn but, after driving her to the airport, she was told she had been ‘locked out’ and wasn’t allowed back to the house.
The 38-year-old alleged one of Tiger’s lawyers met her at the airport with a proposal to resolve any issues between the former couple.
She has also claimed she had more than $40,000 (£33.7k) in cash confiscated from the house, and that he accused her of doing ‘something shady’ to get the money.
Erica has launched the lawsuit against Tiger’s trust, the titleholder on the house, and is asking for $30m which she claimed is the ‘reasonable rental value’ of Tiger’s house for the five years she claims remain on their verbal agreement.
In response to the lawsuit, Tiger’s trust denied there was ever any oral contract.
The golfer’s team said Erica was simply staying at the property as his girlfriend, so was asked to leave after the sportsman – whose two children with ex-wife Elin Nordegren also live at the house – ended their relationship.
News of the lawsuit came shortly after it was revealed Erica had asked the court to invalidate a non-disclosure agreement (NDA) she signed in August 2017.
She cited the Speak Out Act, which protects victims of sexual assault or harassment.
The paperwork for the filing states the pair ‘had a long relationship’ that was both professional and personal.
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Oscars boss admits they were wrong to allow Will Smith to stay at last year's ceremony
Oscars boss admits they were wrong to allow Will Smith to stay at last year's ceremony after he punchedChrisRock.
Oscar's boss, Janet Yang has said the Academy would now respond differently to how they dealt with Will Smith slapping comedian Chris Rock at the Oscars last year.
Ahead of the 95th Academy Awards ceremony on Monday 13 March, the American film producer told Good Morning Britain that the Academy 'would respond more swiftly in removing the person' should a similar incident happen this year.
She confirmed the Academy had 'a team of people, we have security' on hand to defuse any issues this year, and backed the decision to ban Smith from the ceremony for the next ten years.
She said: 'The board of governors made a decision and we are going to stick by that decision.'
The Academy was heavily criticized for allowing Will Smith to remain in the audience and accept the trophy after attacking Rock on stage.
Will Smith walked up onto the stage and slapped Chris Rock during the 94th Academy Awards on Monday, March 27, 2022.
Rock was on stage to present the award for Best Documentary Feature Film.
Before the presentation, he jibed with the audience and joked that Smith's wife Jada looked like 'G.I. Jane' because of her bald head despite revealing that she suffers from alopecia - hair loss.
Smith at first appeared to laugh at the joke. The camera then showed the moment he turned and stormed onto the stage to slap Rock in the face.
Rock then rubbed his cheek and said: 'Wow, Will Smith just smacked the s**t out of me.'
Back in his seat, Smith shouted: 'Keep my wife's name out of your f***ing mouth!'
He went on to win the award for Best Actor. Smith apologized to the Academy and fellow nominees, saying, 'love makes you do crazy things.'
Rock said he would not press charges.
Soon after, there were calls for Smith to be stripped of the honor. He kept the accolade but was banned from the Oscars and other events hosted by the Academy for the next ten years.
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Brick Lane star and Bollywood director, Satish Kaushik dies aged 66 after suffering a heart attack
Brick Lane star and Bollywood director, Satish Kaushik dies aged 66 after suffering a heart attack.
Bollywood actor and director, Satish Kaushik has died at the age of 66.
The actor's nephew Nishaan Kaushik confirmed his death, saying the actor suffered a heart attack on Thursday morning, March 9., in India's capital Delhi.
Satish's best friend Anupam Kher also took to Twitter to pay tribute to the Bollywood icon, penning: 'I know 'death is the ultimate truth of this world' But I never thought in my dreams that I would write this thing about my best friend #SatishKaushik while alive.
'Such a sudden full stop on friendship of 45 years!! Life will NEVER be the same without you SATISH! Om Shanti!'
Satish achieved international fame after starring in 2007 British drama, Brick Lane.
Born in 1956 in Delhi's Karol Bagh, Satish studied at Kirori Mal College, where he developed his love of theatre.
He went on to study at the National School of Drama before earning a place at the Film and Television Institute of India. He turned to directing in 1993 but his first two Bollywood films, Sridevi's Roop Ki Rani Choron Ka Raja and Prem, were box office flops.
The filmmaker worked on almost 100 films in a long and storied career.
His last film, Kaagaz, was released 2021 and followed the story of a man who is declared legally dead in a government blunder and has to prove his identity.
Satish is survived by his wife Shashi Kaushik. The couple wed in 1985 and welcomed daughter Vanshika via surrogate in 2012. The pair also had a son who tragically died in 1996 at two years old. His cause of death has not been revealed.
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India Embassy in Dublin, Ireland refused to process my visa application because am Nigerian —Lawyer
How India Embassy in Dublin, Ireland refused to process my visa application because of my Nigerian passport — Lawyer.
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Just In: Many feared dead, others injured as train rams into BRT bus in Lagos
Just In: Many feared dead, others injured as train rams into BRT bus in Lagos
A yet-to-be-specified number of persons lost their lives on Thursday morning, March 9, when a train rammed into a fully loaded BRT bus in Ikeja, Lagos State.
The tragic accident also left several others severely injured.
It was gathered that the bus was trying to cross the railway when the train rammed into it.
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I’ll use ‘juju’ to fight you — South Africa-based Nigerian pastor tells wife as she asks for divorce
I’ll use ‘juju’ to fight you — South Africa-based Nigerian pastor tells wife as she asks for divorce.
A South Africa-based Nigerian pastor, Dr Roland, has vowed to use muthi (juju) to fight his wife, a South African woman named Thuli, after she asked him for divorce over an undisclosed issue.
In the video posted by Thuli, Roland was heard saying he won’t sign the divorce papers she served him, instead he said he will return to Nigeria and use juju to fight her.
It was gathered that both Roland and Thuli are actually pastors in South Africa. Roland is the main pastor while Thuli is an assistant.
This comes weeks after Thuli took to Facebook to describe herself as “the luckiest woman in the world” for having Roland as her husband.
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Why I got married and divorced three times — Businesswoman.
Why I got married and divorced three times — Businesswoman.
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Lady narrates how she lost her WhatsApp account to her ‘pastor’.
Lady narrates how she lost her WhatsApp account to her ‘pastor’.
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Just In: INEC postpones governorship and state assembly elections.
Just In: INEC postpones governorship and state assembly elections.
The Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) has postponed the governorship and state assembly elections till Saturday, March 18, DailyTrust reports.
The polls, earlier scheduled for Saturday, March 11, was postponed due to the inability of the commission to commence the re-configuration of the Bimodal Voter Accreditation System (BVAS) machines used for the February 25 presidential and National Assembly elections, to enable their use for the state elections.
According to the report, authoritative sources disclosed that the commission management decided to postpone the election till March 18 following a meeting in Abuja.
“You know that the BVAS re-configuration would take three or four days and since they would all be moved to the headquarters in Abuja, the machines would be re-configured and deployed to the various states and finally to the polling units,” one of the officials said.
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Don’t move to the U.K., if… — Lady advises Nigerians, others #travel
Don’t move to the U.K., if… — Lady advises Nigerians, others.
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