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Mastering Your Emotions: Relational Wisdom from the Book of Proverbs James Long, Jr. Message Exposition 1. Clarity: Understanding our Emotions Eight Basic Observations about Emotions • Emotions are built into all people in all cultures by God’s design (Psalm 32:11) • Emotions are complex and involve our whole being (Exodus 32:19; 2 Samuel 18:33; Mark 1:41) • Emotions drive some of our most noble and constructive behaviors (Exodus 2:5-6; Daniel 1:9) • Emotions can also drive some of our most regrettable and destructive behaviors (Genesis 37:11; Acts 7:54) • Emotions are not inherently sinful (John 8:29) • Human emotions are often twisted by sin. • We have hope for change. Through the gospel, God has redeemed us from the curse of sin (Ezekiel 36:26; Romans 12:1-2; 2 Corinthians 5:17) The key steps in redeeming and controlling our emotions are: • To bring them to God in humility, faith, and prayer • To examine them in the light of God’s truth • To ask Him for the grace, wisdom, and strength we need to harness the power of our emotions so that their ultimate impact is to move us to love the Lord with all our hearts and to love our neighbor as ourselves. 2. Capsized by Out-of-Control Emotions 3. Controlling and Mastering Our Emotions (READ Acrostic) There is hope. With practice, these six essential skills can become habits… • God-awareness – Remember (Proverbs 9:10) • God-engagement – Faithfulness (Proverbs 3:5-6) • Self-awareness – Humility (Proverbs 22:4) • Self-engagement – Discipline (Proverbs 10:17; 12:1) • Other-awareness – Compassion (Proverbs 3:3-13) • Other-engagement – Service (Proverbs 19:17) READ Recognize our emotions Evaluate the source Anticipate the consequences Direct them in godly ways 4. Conquering Ungodly Emotions • Instead of Sinful Anger…Patience and Kindness (Proverbs 14:30; 19:11; 29:22) • Instead of Pride…Humility and Honesty (Proverbs 3:7; 18:12; 26:12) • Instead of Unforgiveness and Bitterness…Forgiveness and Freedom (Proverbs 24:17 and 31:6) • Instead of Depression…Hope and Joy (Proverbs 12:25-28; 15:13) • Instead of Fear, Anxiety, and Worry…Love and Trust (Proverbs 12:25; 14:10; 18:14) Three Necessary Attitudes and Action to Conquer Ungodly Emotions • Honest self-evaluation • Confession and repentance • Learn the biblical process 5. Cultivating Godly Emotions • Renewing our minds • Worship • Preaching • Faith-building relationships • Word and Prayer • Reading, Meditating, and Imagination Questions to Ponder • What am I feeling? What are my moods and attitudes? Recognize your emotions (Psalm 42:5; Matthew 14:30; Philippians 4:6) • Why am I feeling this way? Evaluate their sources (Psalm 73:2-3; Proverbs 20:5; James 1:13-15) • What will happen if I give into these emotions? Anticipate the consequences of following them Proverbs 15:18; 22:3; Colossians 3:5-6) • How can I redirect my emotions to express them in godly ways? Direct them on a constructive course (Proverbs 15:1; 25:15; John 12:27; Colossians 3:12-13)

Revelation 3:1-6 - Christ's Message to a Dying Church James Long, Jr. The Message of Jesus Christ to His Church / Revelation 3:1–6 Message Exposition 1. The Church, City, and Christ (Revelation 3:1) The Church - Sardis The City The Christ: The Identity of Christ (3:1a): The Giver of the Holy Spirit. 2. The Confrontation (Revelation 3:1b ) 3. The Command (Revelation 3:2-3) Five Exhortations 1. Wake up 2. Strengthen what remains 3. Remember • What you received • What you heard 4. Keep it 5. Repent 4. Christ’s Promises: Comfort and Compassion (Consolation) (Revelation 3:4-6) Gospel in Revelation 3:1-6 _______________ ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life’s biggest questions and helps us find God’s solutions to life’s struggles. Learn the power of living by God’s grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

Revelation 2:12-17 "Christ's Message to a Compromised Church." James Long, Jr. The Message of Jesus Christ to His Church / Compromise; Repentance / Revelation 2:12–17 Message Exposition 1. The Church, City, and Christ (Revelation 2:12) 2. The Commendation (Revelation 2:13) I know where you dwell (where Satan’s throne is) You hold fast my name You did not deny my name 3. The Confrontation (Revelation 2:14-15) 4. The Choice (Revelation 2:16) 5. Christ’s Promises: Comfort and Compassion (Consolation) (Revelation 2:17) We, in Christ, receive the promises and privileges of being in Christ • Hidden manna • White stone • New name _______________ ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life’s biggest questions and helps us find God’s solutions to life’s struggles. Learn the power of living by God’s grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

In this Lessons for Life with James Long, Jr video, listen as James discusses how to deal with trials and sufferings by applying the principles found in 1 Peter 1:6-10. These principles will provide hope and help as you deal with life's various tests and trials. So, let's get ready to learn, love, and live the Word of God as it applies to the sufferings and trials of our lives. Blessings. _______________ ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life’s biggest questions and helps us find God’s solutions to life’s struggles. Learn the power of living by God’s grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

Revelation 1:9-20: Comfort in Tribulation: The Vision of the Glorious Christ www.jameslongjr.com The church in John’s time was facing severe persecution. Almost everyone in the Christian faith was under some type of persecution either socially, politically, or economically. Some were being killed for their faith. John was exiled to the island of Patmos because he continued to preach the gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ. He is writing this letter to encourage those facing persecution to stand firm in their faith, to have courage amid the trial, and to exalt the person and work of Christ. The Lord Jesus comes to John to give him a revelation of Himself that will bolster John during his own persecutions. Jesus is the sovereign one. He is speaking through the apostle John to encourage the churches to remember His deep love and compassion for them. The Lord Jesus Christ also encourages the Christian church to continue to live holy in an ungodly world. In this message from Revelation 1:9–20, listen as James speaks about the comfort we can have in our trials by getting a vision of the risen and glorified Christ. Message Outline 1. The Sufferer's Companions and Calling (Revelation 1:9) 2. The Supreme Voice and Vision (Revelation 1:10-16) 3. The Savior’s Comfort and Counsel (Revelation 1:17-18) 4. The Sovereign's Command and Clarification (Revelation 1:19-20) I See the Lord The Gospel in Revelation 1 _______________ ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life’s biggest questions and helps us find God’s solutions to life’s struggles. Learn the power of living by God’s grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

Does it ever feel as though you have the same argument over and over again with someone? Does it seem like you fight over the same topics and that nothing seems to get resolved? Do you ever find that you or the person you are in conflict with get so upset over something so small? In all likelihood, the “4 Conflicts in 1” principle will help answer some of those questions. In the short video, learn about the four areas of conflict that possibly could be affecting the current struggles that you are having and how to better assess the challenges that you and others have in the relationship. _______________ ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life’s biggest questions and helps us find God’s solutions to life’s struggles. Learn the power of living by God’s grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are in a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

Do you find yourself overwhelmed with facing enemies? Do you struggle to see God in the midst of chaotic, confusing, and challenging times? God's hand is seen in every detail. His purposes and His timing are perfect. God's invisible and hidden hand is always active. Even when you cannot see Him, He is there. There are no coincidences, and there is no randomness, and He is the grand designer and coordinator behind all that occurs. Trust in the absolutely sovereign, infinitely wise, perfectly loving, and perpetually present God no matter what the struggles are and no matter what enemy you may be facing. Hear a message from Esther chapters 5 through 7 on having confidence as you face your enemies because you trust in the invisible hand of God. Be blessed. ---- Message Exposition 1. Esther's Courage (Esther 5:1-2) 2. Esther's Patience and Planning (Esther 5:3-8) 3. Haman's Hatred (Esther 5:9-14) 4. The King's Sleepless Night (Esther 6:1-3) 5. The Man the King Delights to Honor (Esther 6:4-9) 6. The Divine Reversal: Exaltation (Esther 6:10-11) 7. You Have Begun to Fall (Esther 6:12-14) 8. Humbling of Haman (Esther 7:1-10) The Gospel in Esther 5-7 - Sovereignty - Providence -Justification Principles to Consider _______________ ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life’s biggest questions and helps us find God’s solutions to life’s struggles. Learn the power of living by God’s grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

Have you ever struggled with depression, despair, or discontentment? At those times, does your faith in God give you hope and help? Do you find confort in the principles and promises from the Word of God? "In Psalm 77 this honest poet of Israel is remembering the past. His memories are troubling. He has a long historical memory, and he remembers how graciously God used to deal with his people, and with himself as well. He remembers how God cared for him, how he fulfilled his promises and showed him mercy. He even remembers how he used to sing about God during the long hours of the night. But there has not been any mercy for a long time now, at least so far as he can see. God seems to have rejected both him and his people, and the rejection is so complete that it looks as though it is going to go on forever. When he compares his life in the present with the past, his memories of the past drag him down, depress him, and keep him from being comforted" (Boice, J. M.). ________________ Psalm 77 - Coming Out of Despair James Long, Jr. / General Sundays in the Psalms / Psalm 77 Psalm 77 - Coming Out of Despair Message Outline 1. Crying aloud in pain (Psalm 77:1-3) 2. Closer look at the perspectives of the heart (Psalm 77:4-9) a. Asaph’s Questions...Our Assumption/Interpretation 3. Concerted effort to remember God’s character and conduct (Psalm 77:10-15) 4. Comfort in remembering God’s great redemption (Psalm 77:16-20) 5. The Gospel in Psalm 77 6. Bringing It Home _______________ ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life’s biggest questions and helps us find God’s solutions to life’s struggles. Learn the power of living by God’s grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

It is not always possible to find a reason for the psalms being placed where they are in the Psalter, but in this case, Psalm 76 follows the last psalm nicely. In fact, there are links between Psalms 74, 75, and 76. Psalm 74 looks at the violence and injustice that are in the world and asks the Lord to intervene. In Psalm 75 God speaks to say that in “the appointed time” he will act both to strike down the arrogant and to lift up the meek and afflicted. Psalm 76 celebrates a dramatic incident in which God did exactly that, utterly destroying Israel’s enemies. In all three psalms, God is viewed as the Judge before whom everyone must one day stand and with whom all must eventually come to terms (James Montgomery Boice) In this study, hear another exposition in our Counseling from the Psalms series, from Psalm 76. Be blessed. ______________________ Psalm 76: God is Known and Near to You James Long, Jr. Sundays in the Psalms / Psalm 76 Message Outline 1. God is known by His people and is near to them (Psalm 76:1-3) a. God is known by His people (Psalm 76:1) b. God is near to His people (Psalm 76:2) c. God will protect His people (Psalm 76:3) 2. God delivers His people and is to be feared (Psalm 76:4-9) a. God overpowers His enemies (Psalm 76:4-6) b. God is to be feared and is the Judge (Psalm 76:7-9) 3. Given that…what should we do? (Psalm 76:10-12) a. Remember: God is Majestic, Sovereign, and Providential (Psalm 76:10) b. Our Responsibility: Keep our vows and word. Do what is right (Psalm 76:11a) c. The World’s Responsibility: Submit to God, honor Him, or be judged (Psalm 76:11b-12) The Gospel in Psalm 76 Bringing It Home _______________ ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life’s biggest questions and helps us find God’s solutions to life’s struggles. Learn the power of living by God’s grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

All of us are entitled to our feelings. Sometimes, we feel sad, and other times, we’re elated and ready for the next phase of life. However, we’re all bound to experience feelings of frustration, annoyance, and even anger. For some of us, we struggle with sadness, shame, fear, disgust, or anger. Negative feelings can be overwhelming and make you feel like you’re out of control. But, you can avoid letting your emotions take over and get the best of you. God created emotions and has given us biblical strategies to master them. In this video training, based on Relational Wisdom 360 principles, learn the following 00:00 Introduction 00:59 Learn what the Bible says about emotions 06:39 Learn the eight-core emotions 11:19 Learn about how triggers can lead to downward spirals in relationships 14:33 Learn a four-point strategy for mastering your emotions _______________ ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life’s biggest questions and helps us find God’s solutions to life’s struggles. Learn the power of living by God’s grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

Christians around the world celebrate a risen savior, the Lord Jesus Christ. But have you ever considered the reasons the resurrection of Jesus is essential? Why does a risen Christ matter to Christianity? Did Jesus give any certainty to his resurrection? What kind of comfort can we find from the resurrection of the Lord Jesus Christ? Many people today think the resurrection of the Lord Jesus Christ is crazy, and they don’t believe it makes any sense. They may believe in the human Jesus, who died on the cross, but they cannot comprehend how He is the resurrected and reigning Lord of all. Other people are confused. They have a sense of aspects of Jesus’s life and ministry. They have heard of His resurrection, but they do not understand why that makes a difference. Finally, some are convinced that Jesus has risen from the grave, that He has ascended to the Father, and is soon to come back as Lord and judge. And this brings them a great sense of comfort and peace. No matter where you are on the journey, this message will give you ample reasons that the resurrection of the Lord Jesus Christ is essential. Be blessed. OUTLINE: Reasons the Resurrection of Jesus is Essential (John 11:25; Luke 24:36-48) Reasons the Resurrection of Jesus is Essential • The Rationale of the Resurrection (John 11:25-26) • The Result of the Resurrection (Luke 24:36-48) • The Reasons the Resurrection is Essential • What is your response to the Risen Christ? _______________ ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life’s biggest questions and helps us find God’s solutions to life’s struggles. Learn the power of living by God’s grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

As the psalmist looks at the chaos and confusion of the world, he reminds himself that God is the final judge. Eventually, those that have exalted themselves will be humbled. When prideful and wicked people attack us and threaten our security, we can trust that God is in absolute and total control and will ultimately judge and destroy them. Where do you place your focus when things are breaking down around you? Do you find yourself overwhelmed with despair and discouragement, or do you find yourself giving thanks to God, being assured by His promises, and responding in faith? Message Outline: Psalm 75: The God of Justice James Long, Jr. - Sundays in the Psalms The God of Justice: God Reigns Over All (Psalm 75:1-10) The Voice of the People: Giving Thanks (Psalm 75:1) The Voice of God: to His People and the Wicked (Psalm 75:2-5) God Gives a Word of Assurance to His People (Psalm 75:2-3) God Gives a Word of Warning to the Wicked (Psalm 75:4-5) The Voice of the Teacher: God is Judge (Psalm 75:6-8) The Voice of a Worshipper: A Response in Faith (Psalm 75:9-10) The Gospel Proclaimed in Psalm 75 What Have We Learned from Psalms 74-75? Bringing It Home ---- ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life’s biggest questions and helps us find God’s solutions to life’s struggles. Learn the power of living by God’s grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

Psalm 74 occurs likely after Jerusalem’s fall and 586 BC. For years, God had warned His people that they needed to turn away from their sin and turn to Him, and God had sent prophets to urge His people to turn back to Him. The people turned a deaf ear to God. Because of their sin and rebellion, God allowed the Babylonians under King Nebuchadnezzar to take the city of Jerusalem. If you read 2 Kings 25:8–15, you will read of the city’s destruction and the temple. If you have not lived in a war-torn area, it is hard to imagine what the nation of Israel must have felt. Think about this: God’s people and the city of God have been ravaged and ransacked. The walls have been torn down, and the temple has been desecrated. The temple was the place of God’s presence. Now the people of God have been taken away in bondage and slavery. It appears the presence of God is gone from their midst. The psalmist shares his fears and grief with God. Psalm 74 is a psalm of lament. The psalmist requests God and pleads with Him to remember His covenant with His people. But seemingly out of nowhere, the psalmist’s mood turns. He begins to reflect on God’s protection of His people in the past and His promises to rescue His people in the future. He remembers who God is and what God has done. He ends the song by asking God to rescue his people and remember His promises. Message Exposition 00:00 - Introduction 05:04 - Fear and Faith: Praying in Times of Terrible Destruction 06:55 - The psalmist shares his fears and grief (Psalm 74:1-11) 18:42 - The psalmist expresses his faith in God (Psalm 74:12-23) 32:10 - The Gospel in Psalm 74 ---- ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life’s biggest questions and helps us find God’s solutions to life’s struggles. Learn the power of living by God’s grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

Do you find yourself feeling discouraged and sad about things that are happening in the world around you? Those who seem to be living ungodly lives seem to prosper, while the godly seem to be struggling. Life seems upside down at times. Sometimes life just doesn’t seem to make sense. In Psalm 73, the psalmist, Asaph, speaks about the temporary prosperity of the wicked as compared to the lasting rewards of the righteous. In the psalm, we find out that we should live holy lives and trust God for our future reward. In the psalm, Asaph arrives at accurate perspectives on the world by voicing his complaints to God. Asaph shows believers how to express doubts, questions, or anger to God, and the goodness of God makes it safe to do so. Psalm 73: “I Don’t Get It”: Learning Contentment in Discouraging Times James Long, Jr. - Sundays in the Psalms Message Exposition 00:00 - Introduction 10:02 - Opening Statement: Character and Conduct of God (‍Psalm 73:1‍) 11:45 - Candid Confession (Psalm 73:2–3a‍) 13:50 - Comparison Kills (‍Psalm 73:3b–12‍) 20:25 - Constant Suffering (‍Psalm 73:13–14‍) 22:50 - 7 Practical Steps to Conquer Your Discontentment and Discouragement 36:27 - The Gospel in Psalm 73 ---- ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life’s biggest questions and helps us find God’s solutions to life’s struggles. Learn the power of living by God’s grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

Do you struggle with failure? How are we to deal with failure biblically? What does the Bible say about overcoming loss and living with success? In the short video, learn principles that will help you be motivated during your struggles with failure. Learn to trust God for the impossible. When you fail, trust in the fact that Christ succeeds! Table of Contents: 00:00 - Intro 00:52 - I Can't, He Can 01:49 - Explanation of I Can't, He Can 07:35 - Conclusion ---- ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life's biggest questions and helps us find God's solutions to life's struggles. Learn the power of living by God's grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

Have you ever been asked to create a value or mission statement? For those of us in ministry, we are often asked to supply a philosophy of ministry or perhaps a philosophy of counseling. About a year ago, I had a friend ask me if I could boil my ministry focus down into one sentence. He asked if I could talk about ministry and why I do what I do and what I do with people, and I can boil it down to one sentence. Well, very honestly, when asked me, I really thought it would be easy. I thought this would be a piece of cake to boil it down, but it really wasn't easy at all. It took me a couple of weeks to really hone this down to the sentence. I will give you today, and in this sentence, I think what it's going to do is give you a sense of who I am and why I do what I do. In this short video, hear how I boiled my ministry focus down to one sentence. Video Chapters 00:00 Intro 00:53 Ministry Focus in One Sentence 01:40 02:14 - I help people 02:34 Pain from their past or present 03:32 Perspective on life 04:09 Teaching them 04:47 Person 05:36 Principles and promises 06:15 Pathway for change 07:25 Renew peace, hope, and joy 09:32 Conclusion ---- ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life's biggest questions and helps us find God's solutions to life's struggles. Learn the power of living by God's grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

Psalm 72 - A Prayer for the King Message Exposition Prayer for the King (Psalm 72:1) The psalmist prays that God would impart God’s justice and righteousness to the Royal Son. Righteous and Just Reign (Psalm 72:2-4) The psalmist prays that the King’s reign will be marked by righteousness and justice for all people. Endless Reign (Psalm 72:5-7) The psalmist prays for an everlasting reign and rule for the King. Universal Reign (Psalm 72:8-11) The psalmist prays that the reign of the King would extend to all peoples and expand throughout all the earth. Compassionate and Caring Reign (Psalm 72:12-14) The psalmist asks that the King’s reign be caring, helpful, compassionate, and protecting. Prosperous Reign (Psalm 72:15-17) The psalmist prays that the King would receive tributes, prayers of gratitude and blessing, abundant prosperity, and have an honored name. Doxology: Praise God (Psalm 72:18-20) The psalmist praises God for the wonderful things He has done and prays that the whole earth will be filled with His glory. ---- ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life's biggest questions and helps us find God's solutions to life's struggles. Learn the power of living by God's grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

Psalm 71: God's Help in Old Age Message Exposition Looking Around: The psalmist offers a prayer for God’s help in his difficulties (Psalm 71:1-4) 1. He trusts that God is his refuge and prays that he will never be put to shame (Psalm 71:1) 2. He calls for God to rescue him, hear him, and deliver him (Psalm 71:2) 3. He sees God as his only security (Psalm 71:3) 4. He prays that God would rescue him from his enemies (Psalm 71:4) Looking Back: The psalmist expresses his faith because of God’s lifelong care for him (Psalm 71:5-13) 1. He states that he has trusted in God from his youth (Psalm 71:5-6) a. God providentially watched over him even in his mother’s womb 2. He praises God despite the difficulties (Psalm 71:7-8) 3. He prays that God would sustain him in the trials of old age (Psalm 71:9-13) a. He prays that God would not set him aside (Psalm 71:9) b. He cries out for God to rescue him (Psalm 71:10-11) * His enemies plot against him (Psalm 71:10) * His enemies assume that God has rejected him and that he can be easily captured (Psalm 71:11) c. He requests that God be not far from him and hurry to help him (Psalm 71:12-13) Looking Ahead: The psalmist will praise God and place in his confidence in God’s deliverance to come (Psalm 71:14-24) 1. He commits to place his hope in God and praise him passionately and persistently (Psalm 71:14-16) a. He praises God for His righteous acts (Psalm 71:15) b. He praises God for His mighty deeds (Psalm 71:16) 2. He vows to testify to God’s wondrous deeds to the next generation (Psalm 71:17-18) 3. He proclaims there is no one like God (Psalm 71:19-21) a. God has done great and wonderful things; no one compares to God (Psalm 71:19) b. God has rescued him from many times of suffering and hardship, and he believes God will do it again (Psalm 71:20) c. God will restore him to even greater honor (Psalm 71:21) 4. He will sing praises and shout for joy because he is confident that God will deliver him (Psalm 71:22-24) The Gospel Proclaimed Psalm 71 Bringing It Home: Practical Helps for Today ----- ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life's biggest questions and helps us find God's solutions to life's struggles. Learn the power of living by God's grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

Counseling through the Psalms: Psalms 70 - Lord, I Need You Urgently Message Exposition: Psalm 70:1-5 1. David’s Cry: The psalmist prays that God make haste to deliver and help him (Psalm 70:1) David’s desperation David’s directness David pleads with God not to delay 2. David’s Challengers: The psalmist prays that his enemies be put to shame and confusion (Psalm 70:2-3) Three prayers: 1. Let them be put to shame 2. Let them be put to confusion 3. Let them turn back because of their shame 3. David’s Concern: The psalmist is concerned for and prays for other believers (Psalm 70:4) 4. David’s Confession: The psalmist declares his confidence in God’s help and deliverance (Psalm 70:5) Summary of Faith: Preaching the Gospel to Himself Confession of spiritual bankruptcy - “I am poor and needy” Calling on God as his only Savior - You are my help and my deliverer” The Gospel Proclaimed in Psalm 70 ---- ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life's biggest questions and helps us find God's solutions to life's struggles. Learn the power of living by God's grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

Do you struggle with a restless heart? We live in such a broken world where there is pain, misery, and suffering. How often is it that you find rest in this restless world? Apart from God, Augustine of Hippo found that he sought after disordered loves that left his heart hungry, lonely, and enslaved. Perhaps you have found the same in your life. Augustine is known for this quote, “Thou hast made us for thyself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it finds its rest in thee.” He found that true rest is only secured in God alone. Our true happiness depends on us living consistently for the purpose for which we were created, chiefly to glorify God and to enjoy Him forever. If you want to find deep, real, and satisfying happiness in this life, it can be found in no other person than God Himself. In this brief video, learn about finding rest in God’s presence. https://jameslongjr.org/ Table of Contents: 00:00 - Do you struggle with restlessness? 01:00 - Welcome to the channel 01:53 - Restless until we rest in God 03:10 - Without God, we will be hungry 03:50 - Without God, we will be lonely 04:38 - Without God, we will be enslaved 05:27 - The Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ is our only answer 07:13 - Conclusion ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life's biggest questions and helps us find God's solutions to life's struggles. Learn the power of living by God's grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

Do you struggle with fear, anxiety, worry? Do you find yourself overwhelmed with circumstances? In this training, learn a Christian view of anxiety and biblical remedies to defeat it. https://jameslongjr.org/ Table of Contents: 00:00 - Intro 02:18 - Step 1: ISSUES: Understand the Problem 02:23 - What are Fear, Anxiety, and Worry? 03:41 - Medical/Psychiatric Definitions of Anxiety Disorders 04:29 - Fear, Control, Anger, Depression 05:28 - The Stronghold of Fear – What or who is to blame? 09:36 - Characteristics that Exacerbate Fear, Anxiety, and Worry 14:02 - Step 2: AIM: Biblical Hope 20:38 - Step 3: ADAPT: Biblical Change 22:46 - Breaking a Bondage of Fear: A Comprehensive Approach 25:29 - Step 4: APPLY: Biblical Practice - Lifetime Principles for growth (PRACTICE) 27:56 - Conclusion ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life's biggest questions and helps us find God's solutions to life's struggles. Learn the power of living by God's grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

https://jameslongjr.org/ Do you struggle with lacking peace in your life? Do you find yourself on what feels like an "up and down" rollercoaster of emotions? Do your relationships seem unstable and chaotic far too often? There is hope. In this short video, learn 7 fundamental principles for finding stability in life from Philippians 4. Table of Contents: 00:00 Intro 00:47 Learn about Lessons for Life 01:36 Be firm in the Lord 02:47 Be reconciled 04:49 Be rejoicing 05:57 Be gentle 06:59 Be prayerful 08:23 Be mindful 09:37 Be obedient 11:07 Review of the 7 principles 11:38 Learn more about Lessons for Life _______________ ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life's biggest questions and helps us find God's solutions to life's struggles. Learn the power of living by God's grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

https://jameslongjr.org/ Message Outline 00:00 Introduction 03:30 Ephesians 3:1-13 07:39 Paul’s Ministry of Suffering (Ephesians 3:1-2) 15:50 God’s Mystery (Ephesians 3:3-7) 30:19 Christ’s Majesty and the Church’s Unity (Ephesians 3:8-11) 40:59 Our Security (Ephesians 3:12-13) _______________ ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life's biggest questions and helps us find God's solutions to life's struggles. Learn the power of living by God's grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

https://jameslongjr.org/ Sundays in the Psalms / Psalm 69 Prayer for protection In the psalm, we will hear of a man who is hated without reason and is being falsely accused. But rather than thinking of his own reputation, he is more concerned about how other believers are being affected. We also hear of a misunderstood man, yet a man who continues to pray. He was begging God to listen to him not because of his own goodness but because of God's mercy and kindness. David's sorrow will encourage us to look at Jesus Christ and what He suffered for all of those who would trust in Him as the Savior and Lord. Psalm 69 ends by focusing on the future and ends with a burst of praise. How was the psalmist able to praise? Because he was able to look towards God's promised salvation as he dealt with the present pain. There will be much for us to learn from this great psalm. Message Outline 00:00 Introduction 05:09 • A Sea of Trouble 10:19 o The psalmist’s first prayer: He cries out for rescue. He is crying out in desperation (Psalm 69:1-4) 15:08 • The Concern for a Faithful Testimony 15:23 o The psalmist’s second prayer: He confesses his folly (Psalm 69:5) 19:32. o The psalmist’s second prayer: He expresses his concern for the protection of God’s people and the promotion of God’s name (Psalm 69:6) 21:32 • The Description of the Unfair Treatment 21:44 o The psalmist clarifies why he is in trouble (Psalm 69:7-12) 27:39 • The Deep Desire for Vindication 27:52 o The psalmist prays passionately for God’s help (Psalm 69:13-21) 34:45 • A Passionate Plea for God to Judge 35:07. o The psalmist’s prayer of imprecation (Psalm 69:22-29) 40:40 • Praise to God who Hears and Saves 40:57. o The psalmist expresses his confidence in God and gratitude for God’s saving work (Psalm 69:30-36) 43:31 • The Gospel Proclaimed in Psalm 69 _______________ ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life’s biggest questions and helps us find God’s solutions to life’s struggles. Learn the power of living by God’s grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast

Ephesians 6:1-4 - How to have a Godly Family? James Long, Jr. - https://jameslongjr.org/ Aim: We desperately need godly families in a post-Christian world? Message Exposition 1. The children's responsibilities: How to be a godly child (Ephesians 6:1-3) BE OBEDIENT: Children are called to obey their parents (Ephesians 6:1) God promises to bless obedient children (Ephesians 6:3) 2. The father’s responsibilities: How to be a godly father (Ephesians 6:4) BE SELF-CONTROLLED (Ephesians 6:4a) 3. The Gospel Proclaimed in Ephesians 6:1-4 _______________ ABOUT JAMES AND LESSONS FOR LIFE Are you longing to find answers to the deeper issues of life? Join Dr. James Long, Jr., a pastor, counselor, and university professor with over 25 years of experience. Hear James as he tackles some of life’s biggest questions and helps us find God’s solutions to life’s struggles. Learn the power of living by God’s grace and for His glory. Experience the joy of forgiveness and freedom found in Jesus Christ alone. If you are on a search for freedom, you will love being part of this conversation. Subscribe, and enjoy the show! Links Website – https://jameslongjr.org/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/drjameslongjr Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjameslongjr/ Apple Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/applepodcast Google Podcast – https://jameslongjr.org/googlepodcast