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#362: Heal Your Wounds & Reclaim Your Life Through Shadow Work w/ Violet Benson In this episode, I welcome Violet Benson back to the podcast. We dive into the transformative process of shadow work and the impact of confronting grief. In order to help understand how past experiences have shaped our present behaviors, Violet speaks about the significance of understanding our personal experiences of childhood trauma and the coping mechanisms we’ve developed. She also discusses the power of self-expression, boundaries, and the channeling of emotions into constructive actions. Violet encourages us to embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth – sharing the tool of shadow work as a means of healing past wounds, enhancing emotional intelligence, and cultivating fulfilling relationships with oneself and others. Join us for this enlightening conversation that invites honesty forward and deepens our connections within. Violet Benson, comedian, motivational speaker, creator of Daddy Issues and podcast host of the largest self love podcast and movement for women. Known for her solo episodes and amazing guests, You can catch new episodes of Almost Adulting, every Tuesday and Thursday on Apple, Spotify, and YouTube. —Violet’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/ —Violet’s Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/ —Violet’s Meme Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/ —Violet’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues —Violet’s Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7IY1Gjc1uktmDCmNLA0HXo —Violet’s Previous Episodes: Breaking Free from Toxic Friendships with Violet Benson (https://markgroves.com/episode/breaking-free-from-toxic-friendships-with-violet-benson/) // Hug Your Inner Child with Violet Benson (https://markgroves.com/episode/hug-your-inner-child-with-violet-benson/) If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Shadow Work, Grief, Trauma, Self-Expression, Emotional Health, Healing, Personal Growth, Boundaries, Coping Mechanisms 0:00:00 Intro 0:02:11 Finding Community Online 0:03:12 The Importance of Community 0:04:52 Embracing Self-Reflection 0:07:47 Writing a Memoir 0:12:01 Coping Mechanisms Revealed 0:14:36 Processing Traumatic Experiences 0:19:14 Understanding Hurt and Anger 0:22:48 Setting Boundaries in Conflict 0:24:34 Fierce Love and Boundaries 0:29:04 Embracing the Journey 0:30:20 Harnessing Wounds as Superpowers 0:35:41 Defining Shadow Work 0:41:31 Embracing Shadow Work 0:43:07 Signs You Need Shadow Work 0:47:01 Importance of Emotional Intelligence in Shadow Work 0:49:17 Facing Your Shadows 0:52:11 Steps to Begin Shadow Work 1:03:19 Value of Emotions in Self-Discovery 1:05:25 Balancing Work and Enjoyment 1:09:13 Changing Perspectives for a Brighter Life This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com Contact us at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!

#363: Relationship Repair: Navigating Through Conflict In this episode, I discuss the vital role of repairing ruptures in relationships – diving into the significance of mutual understanding, empathy, and consistent repair as foundational elements for building trust and deep emotional connections. I talk about the importance of addressing unresolved issues early on to prevent lingering negativity and nurture intimacy. I also explore the challenges in modeling repair, the barriers to genuine apologies, and the valuable insights gained through reflecting on past experiences. Join me in this conversation as we prioritize repair over ego, embrace love in our lives more deeply, and co-create a culture of grace for stronger, healthier relationships. —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Come Join Our April 14th Event! Liberated Life - Learn How to Live and Love on (Y)our Terms: http://createthelove.com/liberated For updates and more info on The Big Delete (up until June 1st): —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Otherwise, follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Relationships, Breakups, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Infidelity, Dating, Transformation, Conflict, Emotional Health, Grief, Repairing Ruptures, Empathy, Intimacy, Grace, Apology, Healing, Relational Repair 0:00:00 Intro 0:01:28 Creating Healthy Relationship Dynamics 0:03:03 Unpacking Relationship Patterns and Triggers 0:03:15 Understanding Ruptures in Relationships 0:03:36 Facing Issues in Relationships 0:04:00 Importance of Addressing Negativity in Relationships 0:04:40 Overcoming Shame for Relationship Repair 0:05:14 Reflecting on Ability to Repair Relationships 0:05:38 Courage and Vulnerability in Repairing Relationships 0:06:05 The Art of Listening and Understanding 0:06:41 Building Trust Through Consistent Repair 0:07:21 Constantly Learning and Growing in Repairing Relationships Drop us a note at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!

#361: The Deeper Meaning Behind Your Anxiety In this episode, I discuss anxiety as a signal for self-exploration, not an internal flaw. I offer a sentence stem practice for us to walk through together – a tool to further embrace self-expression and use anxiety as a guide for personal growth. By reframing anxiety as a tool for empowerment we can begin to navigate challenges with strength and authenticity – fostering deeper connections and self-assurance. —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Come Join Our April 14th Event! Liberated Life - Learn How to Live and Love on (Y)our Terms: http://createthelove.com/liberated For updates and more info on The Big Delete (up until June 1st): —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Otherwise, follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Transformation, Mental Health, Self-Exploration Practices, Anxiety, Self-Exploration, Self-Expression, Personal Growth, Self-Assurance 0:00:00 Intro + Exploring Anxiety 00:02:30 Sentence Stem Practice 00:07:06 Embracing The Brilliance Within Drop us a note at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!

#360: Nurturing the Sensitive Soul & Grounding Through Grief w/ Dr. Laura Berman In this episode, I welcome Dr. Laura Berman to the podcast, a world-renowned sex, love & relationship therapist and author. Dr. Berman and I dive deep about quantum love & sex, as well as parenting in the age of social media, the energetics of sensitive beings, and lessons learned from navigating grief. We also explore the topic of vibrational frequencies, the evolving dynamics of parenting, and how relationships can surface unhealed wounds. Join us for an eye-opening conversation that shares the profound transformational power of quantum love in every aspect of our lives. Dr. Laura Berman earned two Masters Degrees and a PhD from New York University, and has spent the past 30 years devoting her career to helping others learn to love and be loved better from a mind, body and spiritual perspective. Dr. Berman is also a columnist for USA Today and a New York Times best selling author who has written nine books. She is an award-winning syndicated radio host and currently hosts the popular love, sex & relationship advice podcast, The Language of Love. In addition to her regular appearances in daytime and news media, Dr Berman was also the sex, love and relationship expert on The Oprah Winfrey Show and has starred in four television series, including two on the OWN Network and one on Showtime. —Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlauraberman/ —Website: www.drlauraberman.com —Love Mama Grief Retreat: https://www.1440.org/events/scotts-valley/love-mama-grief-retreat If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Sensitivity, Belonging, Relationships, Spirituality, Health, Transformation, Conflict, Parenting, Purpose, Grief, Death, Quantum Love, Vibrational Frequencies, Energy, Alignment, Social Media, Quantum Sex 00:00:00 Intro 00:02:11 Logistical and Quantum Realms 00:10:49 Metaphysical Science in Relationship 00:20:31 Partnership Energetics 00:34:06 Transformative Relationships 00:42:36 Parenting Trajectory and Parenting Wounds 00:56:38 Social Media and Community Creation 01:01:52 Embracing Grief and Quantum Love 01:08:19 Healing Through Grief with Other Parents 01:12:13 Two-Way Relationship with Departed Child 01:15:53 Elevating Intimacy with Quantum Sex 01:22:48 Shifting to Access Frequencies 01:25:15 Mind-Blowing Orgasmic Energy Contact us at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!

#359: Break Up With Who You’ve Been In this episode, I share about the powerful role responsibility and accountability play in our lives. I talk about the discomfort of realizing our choices shape our reality and discuss the importance of facing uncomfortable truths for personal growth. Additionally, I share an excerpt from Liberated Love, the book I co-authored with my wife, Kylie, to emphasize the transformative power of radical responsibility and making empowered choices aligned with our values. Tune in to learn how to wholeheartedly embody your full self-expression and live a life of deep self-love and integrity. —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove —Come Join Our April 14th Event! Liberated Life - Learn How to Live and Love on (Y)our Terms: http://createthelove.com/liberated For updates and more info on The Big Delete (up until June 1st): —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove Otherwise, follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Transformation, Conflict, Accountability, Personal Growth, Radical Responsibility 0:00:00 Intro 0:00:51 Embracing Reality and Relationships 0:02:50 Liberated Love Excerpt 0:04:11 Shifting Into Empowered Choices 0:05:00 Courage to Embrace Fullness 0:07:22 Changing Generational Relationship Patterns 0:08:40 Ownership and Radical Responsibility This episode is sponsored by BON CHARGE: Use code MARKGROVES to save 15% at http://boncharge.com/MARKGROVES Drop us a note at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!

On my show this week I shared a BIG announcement that’s been brewing for a long time. Discussing how my relationship with social media has impacted my well-being – including the pressures of constant content creation and changing algorithms. I also talked about the importance of self-discovery, authenticity, and relationships based in mutual regard. This episode marks a shift towards aligning my life with core values and embracing a fully liberated life. If you haven't watched the FULL episode - check it out on my YouTube, Apple Pod or Spotify. #357: Deleting Social Media and Trusting The Unknown. Thanks for all your support always!! Let me know how this ep aligns with you.

#357: Deleting Social Media and Trusting The Unknown In this special episode, I share a BIG announcement that’s been brewing for a long time. I discuss how my relationship with social media has impacted my well-being – including the pressures of constant content creation and changing algorithms. I also talk about the importance of self-discovery, authenticity, and relationships based in mutual regard. This episode marks a shift towards aligning my life with core values and embracing a fully liberated life. —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://createthelove.com/liberatedlove If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Relationships, Boundaries, Codependency, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Social Media, Purpose, Liberation, Self-Expression, Self-Discovery, Alignment 0:00:00 Intro 0:00:57 Reflecting on Business and Relationship to Social Media 0:05:12 Overriding Alarms and Sensations 0:06:31 The Psychological Strain of Social Media Management 0:08:21 Getting Curious About The Relationship I’m In 0:12:14 A Truth Revealed 0:14:30 An Invitation to You 0:16:18 Building a Different Business Strategy 0:18:58 Sparked with Aliveness 0:20:20 Creating a Liberated Life This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com Drop us a note at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!

#356: Deepening Love: Navigating Relationships with Wisdom This espresso shot solo episode is an excerpt from Ky’s + my recent Valentine's Day Liberated Love Workshop. In this episode, I discuss the nuances of navigating relationships and breakups – emphasizing the crucial role of clear communication and intentional boundaries. Drawing from my personal journey of reconnecting with Kylie, I share the significance of well-defined guidelines post-breakup, explicit communication of needs, and mutual respect. I also explore topics such as infidelity, regret, and confronting uncomfortable truths for personal growth and transformation in relationships. The episode dives into the importance of embracing grief as a pathway to self-discovery and emphasizes the profound growth achieved by acknowledging our inner darkness. Get the full recording at https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/vday-event-replay —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/join-my-newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://www.createthelove.com/liberatedlove If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Liberated Love, Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Grief, Trauma, Set-Trust, Self-Discovery, Communication, Infidelity, Personal Growth, Regret, Acceptance 0:00:00 Intro 0:00:33 Establishing a Dating Container 0:00:59 Addressing Infidelity and Communication 0:01:44 Reflections on Past Regrets 0:02:41 Embracing Grief and Accepting Reality 0:03:03 Aligning Life with Values in Relationships 0:03:48 Liberation and Finding Mutual Excitement This episode is sponsored by BON CHARGE: Use code MARKGROVES to save 15% at http://boncharge.com/MARKGROVES Drop us a note at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!

#354: Boundaries are HOT! This episode is an excerpt from Ky’s + my recent Valentine's Day Liberated Love Workshop. In this episode, Kylie and I explore the concept of liberated love and advocate for diversified relationships to fulfill various needs. We discuss the importance of establishing healthy boundaries and practicing self-care to achieve authentic connections. Kylie and I share our personal experience and perspectives on reconciling after a breakup, emphasizing mutual growth and trust-building. We also explore the importance of self-trust, clean anger expression, and the transformative power of self-discovery. Tune in to this episode to learn how to navigate relationships and personal evolution with wisdom and openness. Get the full recording at https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/v... Kylie McBeath is a Certified Health Coach, Author, Co-Founder of Zura Health, Podcast Host, Ceremonialist, and Writer. Her mission is to offer work in this world that invites us all to return to our hearts, slow down, soften, and remember the beautiful world that lives within and around us. —Instagram: / beingisbeautiful —Website: https://www.kyliemcbeath.com/ —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: / createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/news... —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: / createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: http://www.createthelove.com/liberate... If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Liberated Love, Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Grief, Trauma, Set-Trust, Self-Discovery 0:00:00 Intro 0:00:27 Embracing Multiple Channels of Connection 0:01:37 Working Through Codependence 0:02:11 Centering Yourself in Relationships 0:03:17 The Hot Topic of Boundaries 0:04:08 Safety and Trust in Relationships 0:05:23 Reflecting on Personal Growth 0:06:19 Navigating Power Dynamics in Relationships 0:07:36 Restoring Trust in Relationships 0:09:42 The Quest for Liberating Love 0:10:03 Transforming Relationships Through Self-Understanding 0:11:37 The Heart's Call for Transformation 0:14:03 The Gift of Becoming Your Best Self 0:14:41 Restoring Self-Trust Through Integrity 0:16:27 Rediscovering Anger 0:18:33 Understanding the Origin of Behavior 0:20:15 Wisdom in Embracing Feelings This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com Drop us a note at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!

#353: How to Optimize Your Life with Neuroscience Professor & Elite Performance Coach In this episode, I welcome Dr. Mark Guadagnoli, Teacher, Author, Elite Performer Coach, and Neuroscience Professor. Dr. Guadagnoli shares his expertise in optimizing performance, discusses leveraging situations for growth, and emphasizes taking control of your life in order to thrive. He shares the wisdom of the Challenge Point Framework and finding the right stress level for learning and growth. We explore how adverse childhood experiences' impact resilience and what trauma's role is in growth. Dr. Guadagnoli emphasizes the importance of taking control of our experiences, reframing traumas, recognizing the significance of arousal states in learning, and prioritizing growth over ego in relationships. Tune in to this episode to discover how personal development through challenge can be a pivotal factor for both individual and collective advancement. Dr. Mark Guadagnoli has worked in industry and academia for three decades. He has taught at several universities including Harvard University, MIT, UCLA, and USC. Media appearances include New York Times, Time Magazine, USA Today, Wall Street Journal, the London Times, the History Channel, and CBS Sports. Dr. Guadagnoli was one of the original faculty members of the Kirk Kerkorian School of Medicine at UNLV and serves as a Professor of Neuroscience and Neurology and the Dean of Faculty where he runs professional development and feedback programs for the School. Mark’s love is working with the best to help them become even better. —Instagram: / markguadagnoli —Website: https://www.unlv.edu/medicine/faculty... —YouTube: / @academy.unlvmed If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Purpose, Optimizing Performance, Personal Growth, Personal Development, Challenge, Trauma 0:00:00 Intro 0:01:21 Dr. Guadagnoli's Background 0:02:28 Practicality in Optimization 0:03:29 Creating Systems and Rituals 0:04:35 Choosing Long-term Goals 0:08:07 Importance of Self-Relationships 0:09:06 Applicability Across Relationships 0:10:14 Discipline as an Act of Self-Love 0:11:33 A Willingness to Improve 0:12:40 Accepting Different Desires 0:13:58 Challenge Point Framework 0:16:14 Increasing Struggle for Growth 0:16:43 Navigating Nervous System Dysregulation 0:18:00 Accelerated Learning through Challenge Point 0:20:12 Personal Tolerance for Failure 0:20:48 Balancing Science and Art of Coaching 0:23:29 Optimal State of Trauma 0:26:00 Challenges as Opportunities 0:28:32 Importance of Control in Trauma 0:30:58 Creating a Resilient Culture 0:32:50 Decision-Making towards Goals 0:36:59 Mission: Wowing Customers 0:38:18 Honesty in Financial Goals 0:39:09 Optimize Learning in Zone of Genius 0:41:02 Flow Triggers for Optimal Learning 0:44:23 Science Behind Optimal Learning 0:46:27 Physiology & Arousal in Learning 0:51:28 Pursuing What Brings You Alive 0:53:18 Excitement for Learning & Growth 0:55:37 Learning in Relationships 0:57:33 Override Human Nature for Greatness 1:00:03 Relational Direction & Goals 1:02:14 Implementing Challenge in Life 1:05:48 Knowing When to Challenge More 1:09:27 Seeking Challenge for Growth 1:11:16 Choosing a Growth Organization This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp: This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp! Get 10% off your first month at http://betterhelp.com/GROVES Contact us at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!

#352: Stepping Into Your Personal Power to Deepen Your Relationships This episode is an excerpt from Ky’s + my recent Valentine's Day Liberated Love Workshop. In this episode, Kylie and I explore the specifics of what liberated love means in action and discuss the need to break free from repeated relational patterns. We share our definition of codependency and emphasize the importance of both individual growth and mutual responsibility in relationships. Our conversation highlights the significance of personal maturation, self-awareness, self-trust, and setting boundaries to create genuine connections. Tune into this episode to learn how to embrace and liberate your full expression in every relationship in your life. Get the full recording at https://createthelove.myflodesk.com/v... About Kylie: Kylie McBeath is a Certified Health Coach, Author, Co-Founder of Zura Health, Podcast Host, Ceremonialist, and Writer. Her mission is to offer work in this world that invites us all to return to our hearts, slow down, soften, and remember the beautiful world that lives within and around us. —Kylie’s Instagram: / beingisbeautiful —Kylie’s Website: https://www.kyliemcbeath.com/ —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: / createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/news... —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: / createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://liberated-love.com If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Patterns, Liberated Love, Personal Growth, Responsibility 0:00:00 Intro 0:00:27 Recognizing Patterns and Making New Choices 0:01:38 Redefining Codependency in Relationships 0:02:58 The Exhaustion of Codependent Dynamics 0:03:17 Unmet Core Needs in Codependent Relationships 0:03:57 Maturation Process and Healing Codependency 0:04:34 Being Fully Present in Relationships 0:05:07 Shifting Power Dynamics in Relationships 0:06:24 Using Relationships for Liberation 0:07:19 The Importance of Truth in Relationships 0:09:06 Individual Growth and Relationship Dynamics 0:10:30 Taking Responsibility in Relationships 0:11:11 Healing Family Systems for Relationship Liberation 0:12:34 The Connection Between Self-Truth and Relationship Truth 0:14:43 Fear of Change and Loss in Relationships 0:15:47 Moving Away from Martyrdom in Relationships 0:17:45 Creating Space for Authentic Growth in Relationships 0:19:37 Building Emotional Resilience in Relationships 0:21:06 Healing Self-Belief and Relationship Dynamics 0:21:34 Accessing Voice and Authentic Commitment 0:22:32 Recognizing Completeness in Relationships 0:23:44 The Importance of Safety and Authenticity Drop us a note at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!

#351: Nutrition, Lifestyle, and Longevity: A Heart Surgeon's Perspective with Dr. Philip Ovadia In this episode, I welcome Dr. Philip Ovadia, a heart surgeon, author and founder of Ovadia Heart Health. In our conversation, Dr. Ovadia challenges the traditional view of heart disease – clarifying what cholesterol does for the body and emphasizing the need for more awareness around inflammation and insulin resistance. He discusses the drawbacks of weight loss medications, promotes the benefits of whole foods and animal protein, and shares the importance of early detection when it comes to issues of blood vessels and the heart. Dr. Ovadia also speaks on the misconceptions about statins, the importance of cholesterol quality, and shares actionable steps for optimizing metabolic health. Tune in to this perspective widening conversation about heart health and the ways we can not only live healthier, but prevent heart disease in the process. Dr. Philip Ovadia is a heart surgeon who has done over 3,000 heart surgeries. He is also the founder of Ovadia Heart Health, offering a virtual clinic to people all over the world that focuses on the prevention and treatment of heart disease by modifying diet and lifestyle. His book, Stay off My Operating Table: A Heart Surgeon’s Metabolic Health Guide to Lose Weight, Prevent Disease, and Feel Your Best Every Day teaches you the 7 principles of metabolic health and shows you how to eat metabolically healthy with just about any popular diet. Facebook: / ovadiahearthealth Instagram: / ovadia_heart_health Twitter: / ifixhearts YouTube: / @ifixhearts LinkedIn: Linkedin.com/in/philip-ovadia-heart-health Book: https://www.amazon.com/Stay-off-Opera... Appearances: https://ifixhearts.com/podcasts-and-v... If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Self-Love, Health, Transformation, Heart Health, Ketogenic Diet, Cholesterol, Metabolic Health, Inflammation, Heart Disease Prevention, Insulin Resistance, Whole Food, Self-Care 0:00:00 Intro 0:01:03 Heart Health and Misunderstandings About Heart Disease 0:03:53 The Historical Shift in Heart Disease Causes 0:10:20 Reflecting on Surgical Procedures and Medications 0:31:23 The Perfect Storm: Food, Pharma, and Health Care 0:35:47 The Importance of Real Food and Animal Proteins 0:38:03 Managing Insulin Resistance Through Diet 0:41:17 Reversing Type 2 Diabetes: A Controversial Concept 0:44:08 Weight Loss Medication Concerns and the Long-Term Effects 0:46:45 The Difference Between Obesity and Insulin Resistance 1:01:06 Transitioning to an Animal-Based Approach 1:02:57 Effects of Carnivore Diet on Inflammation 1:04:20 Carnivore Diet and Autoimmune Disorders 1:05:47 Plant-Based Diets vs. Meat-Based Approaches 1:12:28 Concerns about Seed Oils in Foods 1:18:31 Empowering Individuals to Take Control of Health 1:24:54 Actionable Steps to Improve Heart Health This episode is sponsored by Factor: Use code MARKGROVES50 to save 50% at http://factormeals.com/markgroves50 Contact us at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!

#349: Psychedelics & Microdosing to Boost Your Mental Health with Matt Zemon In this episode, I chat with Matt Zemon, educator, author, and leader in psychedelic wellness. Matt shares the transformative power of psychedelics in fostering personal growth beyond conventional treatments. He discusses the evolving research landscape around this topic and the positive impact psychedelics have on mental health. From medical applications to spiritual practices, Matt talks about the diverse avenues of psychedelic use, the importance of responsible engagement, and the potential of psychedelics to be used with intention for individual and societal well-being. Tune in to this eye-opening dialogue that invites us to both widen our perspective and expand our consciousness. Matt Zemon, MSc, is a dedicated explorer of the inner world and a passionate advocate for the responsible use of psychedelics. With a Master of Science in Psychology and Neuroscience of Mental Health from King’s College London, Matt explores the transformative potential of psychedelics, aiming to guide individuals through their experiences toward purpose, connection, and understanding. As the author of the Amazon Best-Seller, Psychedelics for Everyone: A Beginner’s Guide to these Powerful Medicines for Anxiety, Depression, Addiction, PTSD, and Expanding Consciousness, Matt shares insights on using these powerful medicines for anxiety, depression, addiction, PTSD, and expanding consciousness. Additionally, he co-founded companies like HAPPŸŸ, specializing in psychedelic-assisted ketamine therapy, PSYCHABLE, an online community connecting seekers with practitioners, and TAKE2MINUTES, a nonprofit dedicated to improving mental health and wellbeing. Website: http://www.mattzemon.com/ LinkedIn Page: / mattzemon Facebook: / matt.zemon Instagram: / matt.zemon If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Spirituality, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Codependency, Transformation, Mental Health, Grief, Psychedelics, Personal Growth 0:00:00 Intro 0:01:29 The Rising Interest in Psychedelics 0:02:22 The Influence of Michael Pollan and MAPS 0:03:12 Three Ways People Approach Psychedelics 0:04:02 Psychedelic Churches and Ceremonies 0:07:27 The Process of Healing and Growth 0:11:46 Accessing Suppressed Emotions with Psychedelics 0:29:06 Navigating the World of Psychedelics Safely 0:33:40 Asking the Right Questions Before a Psychedelic Experience 0:36:17 Integrating Medical and Spiritual Knowledge 0:37:10 Unlocking Emotions and Connection Through Psychedelics 0:40:42 Embracing Accountability and Emotional Exploration 0:47:06 Medicinal Use Across Generations and Relationships 0:57:55 Raising Children in a Changing Educational System 1:02:12 Reflecting on Cultural Differences and Educational Systems 1:06:44 Radical Responsibility and Emotional Awareness 1:09:27 Music and Playlists in Psychedelic Journeys 1:13:24 Navigating Angst and Respect for Psychedelic Journeys This episode is sponsored by Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Drop us a note at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!

#348: Free Yourself from Codependency to Experience Liberated Love with Kylie McBeath In this special Valentine's episode, I welcome back my wonderful wife, Kylie McBeath. Together we dive into the conversation of codependency and the role shame plays in relationships. We discuss our own journey and share insights on healing, integrating, and growing both in- and outside of relationship. We also introduce our new book, Liberated Love, which explores breaking free from codependent patterns and creating relational environments that celebrate mutual strength and liberation. Tune in to learn how to understand and heal codependent patterns and invitation to pre-order our book to dive even deeper in this transformative journey. Kylie McBeath is a Certified Health Coach, Author, Co-Founder of Zura Health, Podcast Host, Ceremonialist, and Writer. Her mission is to offer work in this world that invites us all to return to our hearts, slow down, soften, and remember the beautiful world that lives within and around us. —Instagram: / beingisbeautiful —Website: https://www.kyliemcbeath.com/ —Get Our New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Breakups, Relationships, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Codependency, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Parenting, Mental Health, Grief, Liberated Love 0:00:00 Introducing Kylie as the Special Guest 0:02:44 Reflecting on our Unconventional Wedding Ceremony 0:05:40 Marriage as a Step Towards Sacred Union 0:08:08 Exploring the Possibilities of Commitment and Sacredness 0:08:24 Reflecting on the Journey and Breakup 0:09:46 Sacred Pause: The Space Between Relationships 0:12:45 Embracing the Journey of Relationships 0:13:16 Honoring the Tough Experiences and Integrating the Lessons 0:15:27 Returning to Openness and Resensitizing What Was Desensitized 0:18:42 The Power of Creating Together 0:20:29 Ending Old Patterns and Finding a New Path 0:21:21 The Journey of Love and Letting Go 0:23:08 The Canary in the Coal Mine: Recognizing the Wisdom to Leave 0:25:10 Sacred Work: Healing Generational Patterns of Codependency 0:32:31 The Concept of Taking Up Space in Relationships 0:32:53 The Invisible Barriers and Relational Ruptures 0:35:11 Belonging and Finding Support Even in Rupture and Ending 0:38:23 The Journey of Writing a Book and Preparing for Parenthood This episode is sponsored by Open: Get 30 days free with code CREATETHELOVE AT https://withopen.com/createthelove Drop us a note at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!

#345: Nurturing Babies’ Brains to Revolutionize Mental Health with Greer Kirshenbaum In this episode, I chat with Greer Kirshenbaum, an Author, Mother, Neuroscientist, Doula, and Infant and Family Sleep Specialist. We discuss the power of nurture and how understanding early nurturing experiences can shape our adult lives and parenting styles. Greer talks about the importance of gentleness and modeling foundational pillars like nervous system regulation and setting healthy boundaries with children. We also explore the history and long-term effects of sleep training methods. Join us on this thought-provoking journey into the transformative effects of nurturing and neuroscience. Greer Kirshenbaum PhD has combined her academic training with her experience as a doula and mother to lead The Nurture Revolution - A movement to nurture our babies’ brains to revolutionize mental health and impact larger systems in our world. Greer wants families, professionals, and workplaces to understand how early caregiving experience can boost mental wellness and diminish depression, anxiety, and addiction in adulthood by shaping babies’ brains through simple intuitive enriching experiences in pregnancy, birth, and infancy. —Instagram @nurture_neuroscience_parenting: / nurture_neuroscience_parenting —Website: www.nurture-neuroscience.com —Book: https://www.nurture-neuroscience.com/... If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Nurturing, Boundaries, Nervous System, Emotional Health, Belonging, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Parenting, Mental Health 0:00:00 Intro 0:05:30 The Cultural Conversation Around Parenting and Shame 0:08:39 Notable Differences in the Amygdala, Hippocampus, and Prefrontal Cortex 0:12:03 The Key Years for Emotional Brain Development 0:22:42 Epigenetics and the Legacy of Nurturing 0:27:14 The Dose-dependent Relationship of Time Spent with Babies 0:30:10 Breastfeeding and its Benefits for Brain Development 0:37:00 Allowing Toddlers to Explore Boundaries and Teach Healthy Boundaries 0:42:39 The Origins of Sleep Training: A Controversial Topic 0:46:50 Babies' Fight or Flight Response: Distress and Fear 0:47:25 The Intense Experience of Parenting and its Toll. 0:51:33 The Controversy of Sleep Training 0:54:57 The Effects of Chronic Cortisol on Children's Sleep 0:55:25 The Impact of Inconsistent Sleep Training 0:58:39 Exploring Different Therapeutic Tools for Stress Regulation 1:03:05 Reviewing and Teaching Emotional Regulation to Children 1:04:51 Four Questions 1:06:28 Showing Care and Love for Our Children This episode is sponsored by Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!

685 views Jan 29, 2024 The Mark Groves Podcast #343: From Scarcity to Intentionality with Michael Easter In this episode, I welcome back Michael Easter, a bestselling author and esteemed professor. Michael shares what the Scarcity Loop is and how to move towards more intentional thinking and decision making. We discuss the detrimental effects comfort can have on our health, the mechanics behind addictive behaviors, and strategies for self-regulation in an increasingly addictive digital landscape. This is a great episode to heighten awareness around our everyday habits and what ways we could be more intentional moving forward. Michael Easter is the author of The Comfort Crisis and Scarcity Brain, to be released in September 2023, and a professor at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas. When he's not writing and traveling for his books, he writes the weekly 2% Newsletter. —Newsletter: https://unique-painter-9003.ck.page/4... —Website: http://eastermichael.com If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Dating, Transformation, Conflict, Mental Health, Purpose, Scarcity, Addiction, Addictive Behavior, Self-Regulation 0:00:00 Intro 0:03:11 Observing Human Behavior and Overconsumption in Las Vegas 0:09:24 The Scarcity Loop: Unpredictable Rewards and Repeatability 0:12:53 Pigeon Studies and the Attraction to the Scarcity Loop 0:16:31 Wired for Unpredictable Reward Games 0:19:42 Society's Acceptance of Harmful Behaviors and Minimizing their Impact 0:23:24 The Lack of Immediate Consequences for Excessive Social Media Use 0:26:57 Embracing the Discomfort of Interrupting the Loop 0:27:16 Changing Behaviors: The Challenge of Consciousness 0:29:32 The Impact of Time Spent on Digital Media 0:33:04 Lack of Exposure to Diverse Thought and Experience 0:36:04 The Art of Capturing Attention 0:40:01 Negativity bias in media and its impact on worldview 0:46:36 Monetizing Opportunity and Rewards in Dating Apps 0:49:56 Cravings and the Evolutionary Drive of Scarcity 0:53:08 Pigeons and their Surprising Gambling Choices 0:54:44 The Need for Stimulation and Optimal Stimulation Theory 1:03:31 Anthropologists and Human Behavior 1:07:24 Realizing the Short-Term Benefits and Long-Term Consequences This episode is sponsored by Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!

#341: How to Re-Wire from Survival to Greatness with James Silvas In this episode, I welcome back James Silvas, an International Mindset Specialist and Peak Performance Coach. James encourages listeners to embrace both their individuality and the interconnectedness of all things to live a meaningful life aligned with their values and purpose. We explore the importance of living our values to be in true alignment with ourselves. James dismantles presence and discusses the concept of unselfing and facing our sh*t head on. Tune in for an eye-opening conversation that invites us to reflect on and widen our perspective. James Silvas teaches athletes, leaders, and high-performing teams how to clear their minds, break through fear, optimize their performance, and enhance the quality of their personal and professional lives. James is also the founder of Be That 1% – a movement, brand, and podcast that inspires others to live on their terms, overcome obstacles, and do what 99% of people won’t. — Instagram @james_silvas: https://www.instagram.com/james_silvas — TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@james_silvas — Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/jamessilvas — LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/james-silvas — Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/be-that-1-podcast/id1330345445 If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Purpose, Accountability, Individuality, Performance, Presence, Values 0:00:00 Intro + Understanding our minds, performance, and presence 0:08:34 The Wall of Avoidance 0:24:20 Personal Fulfillment 0:25:33 Establishing Boundaries and Preserving Wholeness 0:28:44 Emotions are constructed in the moment, not pre-determined 0:31:52 Letting go of attachment allows for a relaxed and evolving conversation 0:35:33 Creating Certainty to Avoid Uncertainty 0:37:52 Observing and Selecting Thoughts 0:42:01 Constructed Lives: Society's Influence and Identifiable Labels 0:42:42 The Masks We Wear and the People We Attract 0:45:26 Triggers as Opportunities for Personal Growth 0:49:45 Becoming a Trailblazer in Your Own Life 0:55:12 Honoring Self and Others through Alignment 0:58:43 Unleashing Your Unique Superpower 1:02:59 Shifting from Victim to Victor Mentality This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com Contact us at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!

#338: When Things Get Tough, Do You Quit? In this episode, I share about my transformative journey with plant medicine in Peru. I explain the physical sensations, the discomfort I felt and how I worked through it, the visions I saw, the reflections I had, and the profound lessons I learned throughout the experience. I share this with you in hopes that some of my reflections will resonate with you. Sending you so much love. —Matt Zemon - Beyond the Trip: A Journal for Psychedelic Preparation and Integration: https://a.co/d/akIQfVE —Branden Collinsworth’s Warrior Retreats: https://www.warriorretreats.com —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: / createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/news... —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: / createthelove If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Psychedelics, Ayahuasca, Shamanism, Spirituality, Presence, Introspection, Codependency, Martyrdom, Transformation, Fear, Grief, Truth, Plant Medicine, Reverent Relationship to Plant Medicine 0:00:00 Intro 0:09:44 Preparing and participating in the jungle plant rituals 0:18:59 Physical Sensations and Reflections 0:20:51 Connection to Ayahuasca through Reciprocal Relationship with Land 0:22:46 Feeling the Discomfort 0:24:40 Navigating Dark Entities and Protecting Your Energy 0:25:51 Embracing the Present and the Importance of Integrity 0:27:52 Having Patience with Unresolved Matters in the Heart 0:28:06 Embracing the Mystery of Unanswered Questions 0:30:05 The Importance of Self-Leadership 0:32:14 Stepping into Personal Leadership 0:32:44 Gathering Wisdom 0:34:06 A Commitment Driven by Love for Family 0:34:52 Trusting the Spiritual Realms and Letting Go 0:36:58 Embracing the Unknown and Finding Community This episode is sponsored by: —Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com Drop us a note at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!

#337: F the (Dating) Fairy Tale with Damona Hoffman Today I’m welcoming back renowned dating coach Damona Hoffman! Damona shares the top common dating challenges & hiccups that most people encounter, her top four dating myths to watch out for, and many more dating & relationship tips. We explore the concept of soulmates, fear of commitment, and the transformative power of taking it SLOW, and SO much more. Tune in to hear Damona’s top dating tips including what you can do to call in a relationship that aligns with your truth and your values. Damona Hoffman has created content and collaborated with most major dating apps including Bumble and Match and she was named the Official U.S. Dating Coach of OkCupid in 2021. Her podcast, Dates & Mates, was named Best Podcast of the Year by The Black Podcasting Awards. Damona’s first book F the Fairy Tale will be released January 2, 2024 and is endorsed by Dr. Drew Pinsky, Drew Barrymore, Lori Gottlieb and more. —Instagram @DamonaHoffman: / damonahoffman —Website: http://damonahoffman.com —Book - F The Fairy Tale: Rewrite the Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story: http://fthefairytalebook.com If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, dating, dating advice, dating coach, Transformation, Conflict, Parenting 0:00:00 Intro 0:03:14 The Four Dating Myths 0:14:45 The Importance of Kindness and Generosity in Relationships 0:25:00 The Importance of Self-Value in Dating 0:28:08 Carving Out Time for Self-Love and Personal Growth 0:31:07 Authenticity and Creating Your Own Love Story 0:35:01 The Evolution of Online Dating 0:38:57 The Soulmate Myth 0:45:12 Relationships and Growth 0:48:47 Parenthood and Relationship: Opportunities for Discovery and Growth 0:52:06 Cultivating Trust in Relationships: The Role of Surrender 0:56:22 Embracing the Journey of Love and Connection This episode is sponsored by Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!

#334: How to Show Up, Even if You’re Afraid In this episode, I’m talking about the importance of TRULY showing up to create the life we really want. We can be very ambivalent when it comes to relationships with others, but that same ambivalence exists within us when our NO’s and YES’s don’t come from an embodied place, and leaks into other areas of our lives. Stop delaying what you’re becoming, create the abundance you seek, give birth to your purpose and passion, and step fully into the opportunity that 2024 can be. Let it be the moment that everything changed. Show up. You can do this. You’ve got this. —Follow me on Instagram - @createthelove: / createthelove —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://mark-groves.mykajabi.com/news... —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com —Follow me on Facebook - @createthelove: / createthelove —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://a.co/d/91ElXvN If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions, go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Relationships, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Money, Purpose, Behavioral Patterns, Personal Growth, Integrity 0:00:00 Intro 0:00:06 The Importance of Cultivating Trust in Yourself 0:01:04 Shifting from Outcome-Oriented to Process-Oriented Thinking 0:02:11 Respect for Boundaries and Self-Worth 0:07:22 The Desire for More Answers and Abundance 0:08:20 Shifting from Seeking Certainty to Embracing Possibility 0:09:21 Taking Action and Building Foundations for Success 0:11:33 Choosing with Intuition 0:13:18 Overcoming Ambivalence 0:16:25 Trusting Choices in All Areas of Life 0:18:57 Telling Yourself the Truth Drop us a note at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!

#335: From “Work” to “Worth” with Allyson Byrd In this episode, Allyson Byrd teaches us how to reframe our mindsets to create the abundance we all deserve. We explore the power of negative emotions versus the power of conscious identity choices for overcoming obstacles. Allyson teaches us how to reframe our perspectives on suffering and embrace our stories, and how our perception of reality makes an impact on our abundance and what we create in our lives. Allyson’s passion, story, and determination will motivate you to be and create more, and live a life you love. Allyson Byrd is more than just a mentor to business owners in the digital marketing space; she is an agent of transformation and grace. A celebrated leader in sales through energetics, Allyson has enabled her students to come together and create astounding results – $330 million in sales revenue using her methodologies of Spotlight Energetics™. Her unique approach of bold guidance, disruptive challenges, and empowering encouragement have enabled thousands of people in over 20 industries from 47+ countries to exceed their own expectations. Allyson invites us to join her on a mission to push boundaries, make an impact, and share our own stories. To invite Allyson to speak to your organization, mastermind, retreat or virtual experience, please email redcarpet@allysonbyrd.com for consideration. —Instagram @iamallysonbyrd: / iamallysonbyrd —Website: https://www.allysonbyrd.com —Want to discover how to effortlessly attract your dream clients online with ease and joy? Download Allyson's private podcast series, The Magnetism Code for NO-Cost here: https://allysonbyrd.ac-page.com/magne... —Are you new to learning how to integrate spiritual technologies with successful visibility as an entrepreneur who desires supernatural prosperity? Take a look at Allyson's 1-year MasterHeart here: https://bit.ly/meltwithallyson If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/markgroves Themes: Authenticity, Belonging, Spirituality, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Transformation, Conflict, Career, Mental Health, Money, Purpose, prayer, negative emotions, conscious identity choices, reframing perspectives, suffering, embracing stories, understanding and supporting Blackness, challenging societal beliefs, perception of reality, making a living, overcoming obstacles, passion 0:00:00 Intro 0:00:46 Reconnecting and Reflecting on Growth 0:04:10 Dissolving Patriarchal Lens and Embracing Worth 0:07:18 The Power of External Governance 0:10:38 The Desire to Belong and Tell a Fair Story 0:14:21 The Imaginary Troll and External Validation 0:17:45 Embracing Truth and Overcoming Fear 0:21:39 The Belief in Deserving a Better Childhood 0:24:51 Transitioning from Pleasure to Purpose 0:28:00 Finding Joy in Chaos and Grief 0:33:55 Martyrdom and Abundance 0:40:01 Power and Control 0:45:07 Recognizing the Power of Psychological Manipulation 0:51:09 Breaking Bread and Embracing Aging 1:01:14 Using Attention for Personal Transformation 1:04:29 Digital Marketing and Representation of Blackness Online 1:09:08 Shifting from Judgment to Curiosity and Support 1:12:12 Shape-shifting for Protection: A 200-pound Body as Armor 1:18:30 Challenging societal norms and body image 1:25:18 Embracing personal stories and creating extraordinary lives 1:28:54 Spreading liberation and justice through conversation 1:32:30 Wrapping up with gratitude and invitation acceptance This episode is sponsored by: —Open: Get 30 days free with code CREATETHELOVE AT https://withopen.com/createthelove —Hatch Restore 2: Go to https://www.hatch.co/markgroves to get $20 off and free shipping! Contact us at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!

#333: Liberating the Conversation around Sex and Pleasure with Dr. Emily Morse Today I welcome Dr. Emily Morse to the show, doctor of human sexuality and the host of the award-winning #1 sexuality podcast, “Sex With Emily,” which has been on air for nearly two decades. Dr. Emily Morse normalizes sex in way that rewires your brain to see sexuality through a liberating, new lens. She teaches us the importance of removing shame, addressing all the factors that affect our sexuality like our trauma and getting out of our heads during the act, and focusing on our sexual health. This is an episode you won’t want to miss! Dr. Morse is a MasterClass instructor on sex and communication and was previously a radio host and executive producer on SiriusXM. She has been profiled in The New York Times, Forbes, and Men’s Health and has been featured by The Today Show, Conan, Entertainment Tonight, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Bustle, and elsewhere. Her mission is to liberate the conversation about sex and pleasure. Her candid conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation, and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. —Instagram: / sexwithemily —Book: https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Sex-Boos... —Website: https://sexwithemily.com Themes: Sex, Sexuality, Authenticity, Relationships, Self-Love, Sexual Health, Communication, Pleasure, Shame, Imago Theory, Psychology 0:00:00 Intro 0:08:45 Starting the Journey to Smart Sex Education 0:13:00 The Importance of Self-Knowledge and Masturbation 0:16:31 Overcoming Shame and Making Peace with Your Body 0:23:46 The Three T's of Effective Communication in Relationships 0:31:24 Giving Feedback in the Bedroom: Communication is Key 0:35:42 Mindfulness and Embodiment in Great Sex 0:37:41 Connecting intimately but lacking desire in a relationship 0:40:33 Rebuilding sexual connection takes time and open communication 0:43:25 The brain as the biggest sex organ and its role in arousal 0:47:50 Mindful masturbation and the importance of your breath for arousal 0:53:31 The importance of self-care and self-love in sexuality 1:00:45 Normalizing Fantasies and Differentiating Between Healthy and Unhealthy Ones 1:06:08 The Need for Openness and Honesty in Dating Apps About Sexual Desires 1:09:13 The Vulnerability and Freedom of Sexual Expression This episode is brought to you by: —Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at http://www.cozyearth.com —IIN: Use code MARKGROVES20 for 20% off ALL courses from IIN & Chopra at http://bit.ly/MARKIIN Contact us at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!

#332: Why Couples Really Fight with Figs O’Sullivan In this episode, I have the pleasure of interviewing LMFT Figs O’Sullivan. In his practice, Figs focuses on three pillars for relationship work: Attachment Theory, Systems Theory, and Transformational Experiences. Figs teaches us that understanding that people's actions are driven by their own insecurities and fears is fundamental. Instead of fixating on the flaws of our partner/ex-partner, it's more beneficial to study one's own emotional responses and vulnerabilities and how to feel our feelings better. By becoming an expert on oneself and the system, one can be and attract a more emotionally evolved partner. So many gems in this episode - dive in! Fiachra "Figs'' O'Sullivan is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, certified in Emotionally-Focused Therapy, and the founder of Empathi. He strives to interact with his clients as fellow travelers on life’s journey, allowing them to easily dive deeper into their “stuff” with his down-to-earth philosophy. Figs has spent years working with frustrated couples at a crossroads in their relationship—they want to make things work but are stuck in what Figs calls their “Waltz of Pain”—which is what led him to create Empathi! Inspired by attachment theory, improvisational dance and theater, experiential psychotherapy, and EFT, Empathi provides fun, effective, and simple solutions to help couples stop fighting and snuggle more. —Website: https://empathi.com —Empathi Quiz for Couples: https://empathi.com/quiz/ —Empathi Courses: https://get.empathi.com/ —YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Empathinow —Media Page: https://empathi.com/figs-osullivan Themes: Relationships, Boundaries, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency, Dating, Attachment Theory, Transformation, Conflict, Grief, Communication, Psychology 0:00:00 Intro 0:04:11 Who’s the problem in the relationship? 0:08:10 How communication can be threatening 0:11:30 Three Pillars for Relationship Work: Attachment Theory, Systems Theory, and Transformational Experiences 0:18:46 The reason people get together 0:28:21 Confronted with grief - now what? 0:28:55 Changing perspective 0:37:12 Importance of using attachment theory responsibly 0:40:14 Tips for a successful relationship 0:43:37 Counterintuitive concepts in self-development and attachment theory 0:48:12 The line between personal boundaries and relationship deal-breakers 0:54:21 Opening up about feelings and concerns 1:03:08 The Complexity of Attachment and Relationships 1:06:47 The Pain of Disappointing a Loved One 1:10:16 Helping People Feel Their Feelings Better 1:13:16 Becoming an Expert for Future Relationships This episode is sponsored by: —Open: Get 30 days free by visiting https://withopen.com/CREATETHELOVE —Organifi: Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off sitewide at http://www.organifi.com/createthelove Contact us at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!

#331: Tell Yourself a Better Lie with Marisa Peer In today’s episode, I welcome world-renowned therapist Marisa Peer to the show. Marisa is an expert in hypnosis and shares how it wakes people up to their potential by tapping into the subconscious mind as a powerful inner resource. She explains that everything we do can be categorized into punishing, protecting, or prioritizing ourselves, and its impact on our behaviors and relationships. So many gems in here… don't miss this fascinating episode on a different and refreshing view of the way the human mind works! For over 30 years, Marisa Peer, has helped thousands of clients reframe their issues and turn their lives around thanks to her unique approach - Rapid Transformational Therapy® (RTT®). Last year saw the publication of her sixth best-selling book - Tell Yourself A Better Lie - and she also launched Dietless Life, a unique weight management program. —Website: https://marisapeer.com/ —Speaking: https://marisapeer.com/speaker/ —Rapid Transformational Therapy: https://rtt.com/ —Facebook: / themarisapeer —Instagram: / marisapeertherapy —YouTube: / @marisapeer —LinkedIn: / marisa-peer —Twitter: / marisapeer —TikTok: / themarisapeer 0:00:00 Intro 0:03:03 The importance of repetition and affirmations in hypnotherapy 0:04:29 The power of hypnosis in tapping into subconscious potential 0:05:55 Tapping into the purpose behind behaviors and patterns 0:07:12 Repeating patterns in relationships and fear of rejection 0:09:07 Subtle ways low self-worth is created in children 0:16:29 Rewiring the mind through neuroplasticity 0:17:42 Telling yourself a better lie 0:18:30 Messy kids & nostalgia 0:20:02 Upgrading our thoughts: shifting from external to internal growth 0:23:00 Unconditional love and the pursuit of happiness 0:27:00 Embracing our power and the power of the mind This episode is sponsored by: —Cozy Earth: Use code GROVES for 40% off sitewide at https://www.cozyearth.com —BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month at https://betterhelp.com/GROVES Contact us at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, or just to say hello!

#330: A Relationship Survival Guide for New Parents with Dr. Stan Tatkin In this episode, I welcome back the brilliant Dr. Stan Tatkin to the show. This time, we’re talking about parenting, especially from the lens of being new parents. Dr. Tatkin co-authored the book Baby Bomb, which dives deep into the nuances of new parenting and the effects it has on the couple’s relationship dynamic. Couples are often unprepared for the challenges of parenthood and lack a solid foundation in their relationship. Dr. Tatkin covers topics like disagreements in parenting style, embracing the change in sexual dynamics, and how to master communication and connection. Whether you’ve got a babe on the way, are a new parent, or are interested in learning how to parent better - this episode is a MUST listen! Dr. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT is a clinician, researcher, and developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy® (PACT). He is the best-selling author of In Each Other’s Care (4/25), along with the relationship must-have book, Wired for Love. Dr. Tatkin speaks and teaches around the world on how to understand, create and sustain secure-functioning relationships. He helps couples create healthy attachments and secure-functioning relationships based on fairness, justice, and sensitivity. In addition to his robust clinical practice in Calabasas, California, Dr. Tatkin and Tracey lead couples through Wired For Love Couple Retreats -- both online and in person across the United States and Europe. Links: —Instagram: / drstantatkin —Website: https://www.thepactinstitute.com/ 0:00:00 Intro 0:03:30 Transitioning from a Two-Person System to a Three-Person System 0:06:53 Importance of Spending Time Together and Lack of Support Networks 0:09:33 Distracted Parents and Potential Problems with Technology 0:12:08 The Importance of Stimulation and Contact in Early Development 0:15:32 The Impact of Distractions and Lack of Support on Couples 0:22:24 Solving the mismanagement of thirds problem 0:25:52 Crises and challenges that can strain the relationship 0:33:11 Improving Communication through Co-regulation 0:37:02 Importance of Co-regulation in Relationships 0:41:17 Impact of a Baby on the Co-regulatory System 0:48:02 Fighting for two winners in parenting styles and collaboration 0:53:38 Addressing the decline of sex after childbirth and ways to rekindle it 0:55:52 Negative Body Image and Self-Esteem Issues 1:00:02 Rediscovering Teamwork and Growth in a Relationship This episode is sponsored by: —BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month at https://betterhelp.com/GROVES —SafeSleeve: Use code GROVES10 for 10% off sitewide at https://safesleevecases.com Drop us a note at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello!