Case Study: Using Curiosity for Conflict Resolution in Divorce
When couples fight and argue, reaching an amicable agreement beneficial to both parties can be difficult. This case study examines applying the Curiosity Theory as a conflict resolution strategy in divorce.
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𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐏𝐄𝐀𝐂𝐄 with 𝐌𝐄
When I read this post, I knew I wanted to interview Lynn.
It’s her story… and unfortunately so many other women’s stories.
𝐀𝐭 𝟐𝟖, 𝐈 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐦𝐲 𝐚𝐛𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐞𝐱-𝐡𝐮𝐬𝐛𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝. I had no idea 𝐇𝐎𝗪 I was going to survive. All I knew in my heart was I could figure it out as I went. I had to trust in God and take one step at a time.
The best decision I ever made was to 𝐓𝐑𝐔𝐒𝐓 the process.
𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐆𝐈𝐕𝐄 my past.
𝐈𝐍𝐕𝐄𝐒𝐓 in my coaches and mentors.
But most importantly, once and for all, 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐏𝐄𝐀𝐂𝐄 with 𝐌𝐄
and genuinely love myself Unapologetically!
Tune in tomorrow morning as we unpack Melissa’s inspiring path.
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Heal the Boy and the Man will Appear
This week we discuss the main motive of people pursuing greater:
... Personal Freedom
... Time Freedom
... Emotional Freedom
... Social Freedom
... Financial Freedom
... Spiritual Freedom
After Divorce... and how we must first heal the child or we will keep repeating our past mistakes and traumas.
Today's guest is Raul Lopez Jr.
https://www.facebook.com/RaulLopezJr101
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The reason for Men's BREAKTHROUGH HANGOUT Podcast is to address the real topic men have on their minds! We dive deep and tear apart men and divorce, divorce rules, divorce lawyers and men and so many more topics.
We address divorce and marriage from the man's perspective.
Join us every week as we journey into the work of healing, pain, and suffering, in order to rebuild the man!
Whether you are recently separated… divorced for a while... or even married, still. What we’re going to talk about in this video... Will make a difference in your life.
Follow on Social or Contact Me:
https://www.mensbreakthrough.com/
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#Divorce #MensBreakthroiugh #lovemyths #selflovepodcast #selfimprovement #lawofattraction #divorceattorney #divorceadvice
Future Topics include:
How does divorce affect a man?
How does Divorce change a man?
How to stay married after an affair?
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Heal The Boy &... The Man Will Appear - Podcast
This week we discuss the main motive of people pursuing greater:
... Personal Freedom
... Time Freedom
... Emotional Freedom
... Social Freedom
... Financial Freedom
... Spiritual Freedom
After Divorce... and how we must first heal the child or we will keep repeating our past mistakes and traumas.
Today's guest is Raul Lopez Jr.
https://www.facebook.com/RaulLopezJr101
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The reason for Men's BREAKTHROUGH HANGOUT Podcast is to address the real topic men have on their minds! We dive deep and tear apart men and divorce, divorce rules, divorce lawyers and men and so many more topics.
We address divorce and marriage from the man's perspective.
Join us every week as we journey into the work of healing, pain, and suffering, in order to rebuild the man!
Whether you are recently separated… divorced for a while... or even married, still. What we’re going to talk about in this video... Will make a difference in your life.
Follow on Social or Contact Me:
https://www.mensbreakthrough.com/
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#Divorce #MensBreakthroiugh #lovemyths #selflovepodcast #selfimprovement #lawofattraction #divorceattorney #divorceadvice
Future Topics include:
How does divorce affect a man?
How does Divorce change a man?
How to stay married after an affair?
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LOVE... What is it good for?
After my separation, I had time to reflect on my journey and how I contributed to the marriage... Growing or Failing!
This journey took me to the topic of Love and what is it good for???
... Pain
... Happiness
... Conflict
... Failure
This ultimately took me to the conversation of Self-Love.
I wondered…
What is it good for?
What is the Value of Self-Love?
Does Self-Love Exist?
Where do I start… with Self Love?
Today on Men’s BREAKTHROUGH we are going to dive deep into Relationships, Love, and Pain…
Let’s see where we go this week.
I’m Curious!
Today's guests are Barry Selby & Charles Prinzen
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The reason for Men's BREAKTHROUGH HANGOUT Podcast is to address the real topic men have on their minds! We dive deep and tear apart men and divorce, divorce rules, divorce lawyers and men and so many more topics.
We address divorce and marriage from the man's perspective.
Join us every week as we journey into the work of healing, pain, and suffering, in order to rebuild the man!
Whether you are recently separated… divorced for a while... or even married, still. What we’re going to talk about in this video... Will make a difference in your life.
Follow on Social or Contact Me:
https://www.mensbreakthrough.com/
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#Divorce #MensBreakthroiugh #lovemyths #selflovepodcast #selfimprovement #lawofattraction #divorceattorney #divorceadvice
Future Topics include:
How does divorce affect a man?
How does Divorce change a man?
How to stay married after an affair?
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Inner Shadow Work Explained - The Foundation to MINDSET!
What is the shadow: Inner Critic, Inner Child, Part-X, Evil Shadow❓
👉🏽 Many people trace the concept of the inner critic to psychiatrist Carl Jung. He linked the inner child to our past. Our experiences and memories. The unconscious choices we made to defend ourselves to create safety. To keep us alive. To survive!
🔥 This is the FOUNDATION of our MINDSET.🗝
✓ How we fundamentally react and respond to everything.
✓ How we feel about ourselves.
✓ Why we do the things we do.
✓ Why we make the choices we make.
My experience with this... My automatic emotional responses!
The way I acted as a husband, father, friend...
It's a constant place to work and it's where I get to Deep Dive Today, to my “SELF.” Where we can Breakdown and Rebuild and become the Greatest Versions of Ourselves!
Shadow work and inner healing go hand in hand. Shadow work prompts for healing the inner child.
Joe Dispenza's morning meditation works on this and builds confidence and self-esteem.
Breaking Through and rebuilding our life through this work is what we are going to talk about today on Men’s BREAKTHROUGH HANGOUT!
Today's guest is Frank Chang who has a lot of amazing wisdom...
please follow Frank at: https://www.facebook.com/frankchang826
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The reason for Men's BREAKTHROUGH HANGOUT Podcast is to address the real topic men have on their minds! We dive deep and tear apart men and divorce, divorce rules, divorce lawyers and men and so many more topics.
We address divorce from the men's perspective.
Join us every week as we work to heal pain and suffering, and rebuild the man!
Whether you are recently separated… divorced for a while... or even married, still. What we’re going to talk about in this video... Will make a difference in your life.
Follow on Social or Contact Me:
https://www.mensbreakthrough.com/
https://www.happilydivorced.life/
If you want to try out coaching to take you to the next level, please reach out for a Free 30 Breakthrough Coaching Call:
http://talkwithmartin.com/
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How Do I Re-Program My Mind?
I was having a conversation with my friend Bill Lopez and he suggested I have some negative language in my speaking... I have to do something about that!!!
So, on this Podcast-HANGOUT, we are going to take a look at how to reprogram your mind... Starting with ME🤦🏽♂️
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Rebuild Your Life... After Divorce
How do you use the pain and darkness of divorce to rebuild your life... after divorce?
This is what were are going to explore on this week's Men's BREAKTHROUGH Hangout!
Guests are Bryan Tarr, Barry Selby & Richard Barrett.
Men's BREAKTHROUGH Hangout!
Tuesday 4:00 PM PST (7:00 PM EST)
https://happilydivorced.life
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Courage is… Asking for HELP👍🏾
Short video from my podcast.
Check out my next workshop
… For MEN ONLY!
MensBREAKTHROUGH.com
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Men's BREAKTHROUGH Hangout!
I'm RIGHT!!! You're WRONG!!!
Multiple Perspectives… About the same thing, At the same time.
Why is this important?
During marriage... we agree and disagree. Who’s right and who’s wrong, often if not always depends on perspective.
One of the hardest things for people to do is, look at an opposing perspective openly and neutrally.
This week on Men’s BREAKTHROUGH HANGOUT, we are going to jump into this topic.
This week’s guests are Bryan Tarr and Jeff Brown.
Men’s BREAKTHROUGH HANGOUT is a weekly podcast by Human Performance and Mindest Coach - Martin Lopez.
If you struggle with a challenge from your divorce, separation, or marriage, please Request a Free BREAKTHROUGH Call.
http://mensbreakthroughcall.com/
Watch Martin's 20-Minute Webinar:
The Super Simple 5-Step Process Divorced Men Use To Boost Self-Confidence, Recover Their Mojo, Unleash Their Power, And Take Their Life Back!
(Without spending years in therapy!)
at: http://mensbreakthrough.com/
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I'm Right, Your Wrong!
Multiple Perspectives… About the same thing, At the same time.
Why is this important?
During marriage... we agree and disagree. Who’s right and who’s wrong, often if not always depends on perspective.
One of the hardest things for people to do is, look at an opposing perspective openly and neutrally.
This week on Men’s BREAKTHROUGH HANGOUT, we are going to jump into this topic.
This week’s guests are Bryan Tarr and Jeff Brown. If you want to be part of the call DM me and we will get you on.
Details:
Tuesday'S at 4:00 PM PST
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Attack Your Triggers
This video is for …
Divorced men who are feeling Frustrated, Confused, and Overwhelmed by the Destruction and Havoc, They experienced as a result of a Disappointing, Challenging, or Toxic Marriage.
Whether you are recently separated… divorced for a while... or even married, still.
What we’re going to talk about in this video...
Will make a difference in your life.
Find out more
Go to MensBREAKTHROUGH.com
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The Power of Curiosity
How to Have Real Conversations That Create Collaboration, Innovation, and Understanding.
On this week's show, we are HANGING OUT with Kirsten Siggins, she is who you want to call if you need Help Having Hard Conversations. Kristen uses the power of curiosity to transform challenging conversations into productive, meaningful, relationship-building experiences at work, home, or school.
I'm excited to hear what she has to say.
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Opportunity For Healing - Johnny Depp v Amber Heard Trial
Life gives us so many opportunities to enjoy and experience. It also presents us with challenges. Sometimes we fall short and need support. I have some reflections I would like to share with you about the Johnny Depp - Amber Heard Trial. I hope it will positively impact your life or someone you know. Please join me as I go LIVE on The Curiosity Theory HANGOUT.
#JohnnyDepp #AmberHeard #JusticeForJohnnyDepp #Court
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Crying is a release of energy
Most people say that crying is a release of energy and it happens because you get sad or hurt. It’s how people cope with their emotions.
Why Do Men Cry?
Over the last 10 years, I had experienced many emotions. I was willing to do what I needed to grow and heal. I found myself unhappy in my marriage. So, I sought out therapy and then medication.
As I became stronger in therapy I no longer wanted or felt the need for medication. I was convinced that I could work through the energy myself and heal what I needed to heal in order to live a life of happiness.
I relied heavily on my USM training in Spiritual Psychology. In Spiritual Psychology, they say, “You have earned the right to deal with this challenge.” I really liked that idea and I do my best to use it as often as I can.
So, here’s what happened:
15 years ago - I was experiencing depression. it was caused by the pressures of work, home, and raising children.
3 years ago (after I was separated): I worked through the depression and then FEAR showed up. And then recently I saw it was all anchored in Stress. The years of business, winning and losing, making money, and then having none. The ups and downs of life and relationships: personal, romantic, professional, and social.
It was during those times I had created what Gay Hendricks call “Your Upper Limit”
Jennie Antolak in an article titled The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks explains:
We all have a tendency to limit our own happiness because we don't think we deserve for things to go well all the time. These are our “upper limits”. That in order to get over these we have to let ourselves feel positive feelings.
My journey was to feel Positive Feelings. And eventually, with some deep work, soul searching, healing and self-love, I now experience more positive loving feelings than ever before.
I used my Spartan training at MROC Obstacle Course Gym in Oceanside California to work through the body memories that we blocking me and discharge them with some of the hardest workouts I have ever experienced.
I learned that by pushing myself to “My Personal Upper Limits” I would shake up the old energy and emotions that I had learned in the past. From that position I could separate myself from the emotions as the observer, I could look them in the eye and do what I needed to do in order to heal them. What Dr. Joe Dispenza calls – Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself.
During these releases, I would anchor in new ideas. I would mentally and emotionally redirect my mind to create a new familiar state that would become a habit, and then a new personality and ultimately a new reality.
I moved up the Emotional Ladder from The Law of Attraction.
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Why Do Men Lie?
On the surface, this seems like an easy question to answer.
But! The way we are going to look at these topics will be fun and transformational.
Please join me and my Guests
Thursday, Feb 24
7:00 PM PST
#lies #truth #love #wakeup #liar #covid #freedom #betrayal #life #earth #narcissist #nasa #flatearth #trump #fakenews #relationships #cheater #instagram #quotes #cheating #facts #media #cheaters #research #narcissisticabuse #deception #lie #fake #sad #bhfyp
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Celebrate Your Wins!
Next Level Results and Motivation is all about your ability to celebrate in the recovery process.
Celebration is Motivation 2.0
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It’s All – Your Choice
You’re always on a journey
Sometimes you lead and sometimes you follow
Sometimes you know and other times your lost
When you find yourself happy, thank the universe!
When you find yourself sad, thank the universe!
As you progress in your journey at times it might seem like you’re going backward
And maybe you are.
Maybe you need to step back and look.
Maybe you are going down the wrong path.
when the experience is not what you wish for
It doesn’t mean something is wrong.
There are lessons to be learned from all paths.
The truth is you are going to keep going forward.
You are going to wake up tomorrow
And you will have another opportunity
What you do with it is – Your Choice!
How you affect others is – Your Choice
It’s All – Your Choice
Especially your experience.
Especially your interpretation of life
Especially Your Interpretation of Life!
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