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“It’s in their nature” There was a scorpion 🦂 about to be destroyed on a river bed and a frog 🐸 was swimming in the river nearby. The scorpion quickly shouted out to the frog to save him as the fire 🔥 engulfed most of the bushes. Saying, “Please save me”. I’m about to die. However, the frog said “absolutely not, your going to kill me. You crazy”, but still the scorpion pleaded constantly. Somehow the frog finally gave in. Then decided to allow the scorpion to climb on its back and help it across the river. But as soon as the scorpion reached safely across the river bed. It’s tail went into the air, and came down swiftly, stinging the frog, and poisoned him. The frog in its dying breath looked up and said, but why, “I just saved you. The scorpion replied, “Because it’s in MY NATURE Be careful of the people who you call friends whether man or woman. So for the woman who you court, be mindful of the desires of her heart for that will determine if she supports you or not. Proverbs 3:31 “Don’t be jealous of those who use violence, and don’t choose to be like them”

As the leader of your home, you must understand your role as the man and the head of the household and it is your duty and your job to reassure your woman through careful investment of time, energy and resources. A husband practices husbandry or cultivation. Like a master gardener, his job is to nurture and tend to his wife that she brings forth flowers. You can’t expect an Angel to exist in hell and not change. Whatever you give a woman she multiplies, you give her food, she will make you a meal, you give her a house to live in, she will give you a home, you give her love, she will give you a baby, you give her hell, and she will give you nightmares. Proverbs 31:10 “It is hard to find a good wife, because babe is worth more than rubies”

A katana is a Japanese sword ⚔️ that has to go through constant heat and pressure and pounding by a hammer in order to be forged into an incredible weapon. This is needed to remove all impurities from the blade. Life in and of itself has times when it can be daunting and horrible. However all those harsh and bad experiences believe it or not is needed for you to get stronger and wiser. For in order to get to the glory land you can’t bring all your past and baggage. You have to focus on your mission and remove all those unfortunate times from your mind. Those times will shape you to become strong 💪🏿 just thank God it didn’t destroy you. Psalm 28:9 “Save your people and bless those who are your own. Be their shepherd and carry them forever.”

In this social media age, where attention is the new form of currency. People are willing to do anything to gain popularity, we see many people on social media trying to get our attention daily. Our Lord and savior Jesus Christ is the only one ☝️ who should be getting our attention more than the things and people of this world. The enemy/adversary wants to fool people to believe that being an idiot is the best way to get the right attention in order to be relevant and valid. It’s all a lie, trickery at its finest. From rappers to entertainers to sports stars. They will do the necessary things in order to get the worst attention. Proverbs 13:5 “Good people hate what is false, but the wicked do shameful and disgraceful things” #degeneracy #respect #focus #honor

Not every action requires an equal reaction. Sometimes you should absorb the pain, absorbs the hurt, and disrespect and use it as fuel to create a plan or strategy to win in life. Take your time with your life and learn to read and write with understanding and become a scholar. You will take note of how polished you will become if you take the time to educate yourself. Learn to pay attention to detail. Your mind will only expand if you develop that awareness and focus if you practice. Stew do your mind, soul, and spirit and create a solid plan. Then become hungry and fearless. Proverbs 3:14 “Wisdom is worth more than silver, it brings more profit and gold.”

In this world especially in countries like America, everything you say can and will be used against you like a court of law. So observe more and speak less. Have a learning spirit and be aware of how to use information, always learn what is new and incoming and assess that information very carefully. Ask that girl as many stupid questions as you like to not stay ignorant and to make informed decisions, it you want to pursue a real relationship. As men we need to get smarter and wiser because the society that we live in will destroy us for being unaware and foolish Hosea 4:6 “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children.”

The need to have money is very important, so unless your going to become a lawyer, doctor, or Indian chief. Your need to learn how to make money is of paramount importance. Always seek out mentors in the field or fields that you aspire to be apart of. Get into volunteering at places where you would want to work at. Take your time to understand cash flow and how to make it rain. Avoid people who don’t want to see you win and the losers who hate to see your progress. Your not a tree 🌲, so solve your issues by moving to another place or country in order to win. Proverbs 13:11 “Money that comes easily disappears quickly, but money that is gathered little by little will grow”

We have to understand as men the importance of taking calculated risks, no one is coming to save you except God. From there you will understand the need to pay attention. In order to win you must appreciate the opportunities to become uncomfortable and still keep moving forward Old ways don’t open new opportunities and at times you have to try different things to free yourself from the shackles of ignorance. People will think your crazy, but God gave you the vision. You have to execute this in order to remove the curses that may be attacking your bloodline. Isaiah 62:2 “Jerusalem, the nations will see your goodness, and all Kings will see your glory. Then you will have a new name, which the Lord himself will give you.”

We have to understand as men the importance of taking calculated risks, no one is coming to save you except God. From there you will understand the need to pay attention. In order to win you must appreciate the opportunities to become uncomfortable and still keep moving forward Old ways don’t open new opportunities and at times you have to try different things to free yourself from the shackles of ignorance. People will think your crazy, but God gave you the vision. You have to execute this in order to remove the curses that may be attacking your bloodline. Isaiah 62:2 “Jerusalem, the nations will see your goodness, and all Kings will see your glory. Then you will have a new name, which the Lord himself will give you.”

We have to understand as men the importance of taking calculated risks, no one is coming to save you except God. From there you will understand the need to pay attention. In order to win you must appreciate the opportunities to become uncomfortable and still keep moving forward Old ways don’t open new opportunities and at times you have to try different things to free yourself from the shackles of ignorance. People will think your crazy, but God gave you the vision. You have to execute this in order to remove the curses that may be attacking your bloodline. Isaiah 62:2 “Jerusalem, the nations will see your goodness, and all Kings will see your glory. Then you will have a new name, which the Lord himself will give you.”

Growing as a young man requires you to be in a position of focus to get to the next level. As a man you must learn to get better in order to become more valuable. Self improvement is going to become your best friend as it will enable you to become smarter, stronger, and a better leader. A man gains value after passing each stage and allowing himself to grow strong 💪🏿 through each stage. It would be good if you have a mentor or someone who can enable you to self improve in a positive way to achieve your goals. Proverbs 16:16 “It is better to get wisdom than gold, and to choose understanding rather than gold.”

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Kings are unique men who are positioned to change the course of history and enable nations to either flourish or decay. Kings are icons who can even give hope depending on the type of crisis that is going on in that region. Many see Kings as men who leads, conquers, rules and protects and provides. However a true King is both a loyal servant and a leader. A King has great imagination and doesn’t need to imitate another Kingdom but focus on their own. As men we must learn to manage our lives and own affairs so that we can be respected and trusted with leadership. So when we officially have our own Kingdom we can manage it in a way that will turn out beautiful. Proverbs 21:1 “The Lord can control a Kings mind as he controls a river, he can directs it as he pleases”

Love ❤️ comes in various types of ways, and it’s not just about getting to know the person. It’s about the interaction between the two, and to decide if there is actually attraction. So for me, a person can develop the connection between each other through the screen 📺 however, they need to ask the right questions, to get the other person to want to meet up in person one ☝️ day. So check out the video and take note 📝, I’ll be working on a series of videos to help give tips on online dating and how to really make it work. #onlinedating #relationships #datingtips #love #marraige #couple

You can’t save your family if you can’t save yourself while your fat and overweight. Take your diet seriously and find a way how to get into tip top shape. There should be moderation in everything and food is one of them. Learn how to manage your own urges. As men we need to wake up and be prepared for all things that might affect us. Rise up warriors. Proverbs 23: 1-3 “If you sit down to eat with a ruler, notice the food that is in front of you. Control yourself if you have a big appetite. Don’t be greedy for his fine foods, because that food might be a trick.”

Some men are born great, Some men achieve greatness, Some have greatness thrust upon them. - William Shakespeare There are many men who would love to live he life of a King 👑 . However heavy is the crown who chooses to wear it. Eventually some men will beg to live a simplier life after they realize the burden that comes with becoming a King. There are many types of Kings, some are good and some are evil 👿. Who you choose to become, depends on your grievances. Do you want to serve people or serve yourself. The choice is yours. Men are ordinary, Kings are legendary. The ultimate Ming is our Lord and savior Jesus Christ. Our soon coming King 👑. Revelation 19:16 “On his robe and on his upper leg was written this name: King of Kings and Lord of Lord.” He is the ruler of the white horse

In Christianity gluttony is a sin that though some people may laugh about, and accept that it’s not harmful. Unlike other sins like fornication, alcoholism, adultery, murder among others which are more prevalent and known, gluttony is a huge problem on the effects of the body. We understand that the sun of gluttony is greed, and a form of idolatry, it is a choice, to self love ❤️, comfort and control through food. Bible passage for reference: Ezekiel 16:49 “Now this was the sun of your sister Sodom. She and her daughters were arrogant, overfed, and unconcerned they did not help the poor and needy.”

Most masculine men don’t trust women. They see what women are capable of and don’t want women who will easily compromise their position in life. Women are supposed to reflect their men. Men tend to have low self esteem and low confidence when they don’t get much support in life and can easily become resentful and bitter. And if they didn’t have a strong role model or a positive father figure they can suffer as well. To break the cycle and cure your insecurities with women, men need to find their purpose in life. Your purpose is what is going to keep you focused. You can compete with women and their beauty. Why would you? Stay on your grind and watch things grow. So be careful of the type of woman you choose to be with. Not all are bad but in this modern era most are dangerous. Women are not going to change most of their ways. We as men have to self improve and change. That means getting in shape in the gym, going back to school for a better profession or trade. Or some program to gain skills. But always seek to invest in yourself as a man. Proverbs 7:27 “Her house is a highway to the grave, leading down to the chambers of death”

Men work very hard and some work demanding physical jobs. Due to the stress of working, some men need to eat, and some men eat a lot. Which leads to them being overweight and obese. We term obesity as when your body weight is greater than what is considered normal or healthy. Being overweight or obese greatly increases the risk of developing a chronic disease 🦠, such as musculoskeletal disorders, like arthritis, tendinitis, low back, neck, foot or knee pains. Also forms of chronic diseases are diabetes, hypertension (high blood pressure), high cholesterol, and heart disease (GBD 2015 Obesity Collaborations, 2017, World Health Organization, 2018 )

Having a son is a blessing, and it’s a shame that it didn’t work out with the father of the of your child. Whether it was for good reasons or for bad reasons. Your son is going to always wonder why his father didn’t try to physically or emotionally be here for him. For children don’t take advice, they follow examples. As his mother you will now need to surround your son with positive role models him. Whether they come from the church, the schools, the construction industry, the community as leaders, it’s now your job to find ways in which your son can get an opportunity to see how a real man operates. What you don’t want is for him to go and find the gangsters, the drug dealers and the rappers. He will need street smarts but there are less dangerous ways to get them. Like for example from the street hustlers because he will at least learn a skill which is how to sell. This is a very good and learnable skill. Proverbs 17: 21 “It is sad to have a foolish child; there is no joy in being the parent of a fool”

Skills and knowledge will get you to places that only you can get to when you become curious. Once you believe, trust me anything is possible. You just have to understand how money and the world works. Take time to appreciate all the great things in life and watch your life grow.

Meet disciplined Rahim Abdur-Rahim from the African Cultural Arts Forum (ACAF) based in Philadelphia. I had an awesome privilege to speak with this young man about how he puts in the work regardless of how he feels. This from being a Calisthenics athlete, an entrepreneur for his Seamoss products and a businessman. Rashaun is willing to take the necessary steps towards becoming a well rounded man. Check out his tips within this interview. Find him on Instagram @rashaunabdurrahim See full interview on my YouTube channel “Mr Big Ova Night” #athlete #entrepreneur #businessman #leader #africa #lion #muslim #discipline #ceo #ceolife #ceomindset