SHAWN JAY OF FIELD MOB TALKS ABOUT HIS FIGHT WITH STAGE 4 CANCER & TOXIC FAMILY PROBLEMS, MOTHER & FATHER NOT BEING THERE FOR HIM…THE CURSES!!🕎 Matthew 10:31-42 “And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.”
BLACK MOTHER-DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP: MOTHERS HAVE TO GO INWARD & DO THE WORK TO HEAL THAT INNER GIRL THAT HAS BEEN TRAUMATIZED. NARCISSISM CAN NOT BE FIXED IN THERAPY, PEOPLE OVER USING THE WORD, EVERYBODY IS NOT NARCISSISTIC. 🕎Deuteronomy 28;45-50
BLACK PARENTING ACCORDING TO THE BIBLE COMMANDS SONS & DAUGHTERS TO OBEY THEIR FATHER & MOTHER & PARENTS TO BRING THEM UP TEACHING THEM ACCORDING TO THE HOLY COMMANDMENTS!🕎 Ephesians 6:4 ye fathers & mothers, provoke not your children
TOXIC RELATIONSHIP WITH MY MOTHER, BLACK MOTHER CHILDHOOD TRAUMA: IN ORDER TO SEE POSITIVE CHANGES IN MY LIFE I MUSTN’T ALLOW THE TRAUMA THAT SHE BROUGHT UPON ME TO CONTINUE TO LEAD ME DOWN MY OWN SELF DESTRUCTION…THE CURSES!!🕎Deuteronomy 28:56 KJV
SUPERHEAD HER TOXIC BLACK MOM WAS HER FIRST BULLY: MOTHERS ABUSIVE & HOSTILE TOWARDS THEIR DAUGHTERS, CAUSING THEM TO GROW UP BECOMING PROMISCUOUS, HARLOTS & JEZEBELS…THE CURSES!!🕎Deuteronomy 28:56 “her eye shall be evil toward her children
BLACK MOTHER VS. BLACK DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP COMPETITION : WHEN WE EXPERIENCE TRAUMA WE CAN LOSE CONNECTION, UNDERSTANDING & AWARENESS OF TRAUMA EXPERIENCED. 🕎Deuteronomy 28;45-50 “And they shall be upon thee for a sign
TOXIC ABUSIVE BLACK MOTHERS IN WEST AFRICA: THE ASHANTI TRIBE(GHANA), & IGBO TRIBE (NIGERIA)…ISRAELITES SCATTERED GOING THROUGH THE SAME HOUSEHOLD TRAUMAS…THE CURSES!!🕎Deuteronomy 28:56 her eye shall be evil toward the husband & children
EX-WIFE TOLD HIM HE WOULD NEVER MAKE IT & CALLED HIM FAT: THE DAUGHTERS OF ZION & SONS OF ISRAEL, BLACK MEN & BLACK WOMEN EYE ARE EVIL TOWARDS ONE ANOTHER…THE CURSES!🕎DEUTERONOMY 28;15-68 KJV
ATTACHMENT NEEDS REMAIN SIGNIFICANT THROUGHOUT THE LIFESPAN, ANY UNPROCESSED ATTACHMENT RELATIONSHIP TRAUMAS CAN SERVE TO PERPETUATE NEW TRAUMAS….ITS NO LONGER ABOUT YOU & YOUR MOTHER, ITS ABOUT YOU, YOUR SPOUSE & CHILD.🕎Matthew 27;21-26 KJV
HEALING DIFFICULT BLACK MOTHER-DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP: GAINING AUTONOMY OF YOURSELF, WHAT YOU DONT HAVE WHEN YOU HAVE A BLACK MOTHER WOUND IS “AUTONOMY”… EMOTIONAL AUTONOMY, MENTAL AUTONOMY & OFTEN TIMES PHYSICAL AUTONOMY.🕎Deuteronomy 28;45-50
TRAITS OF A TOXIC BLACK MOTHER: OUR MOTHERS BEHAVIORS ARE ALMOST ALWAYS DEFENDED WHILE OUR CRYS & PLEADS FOR HELP GO UNANSWERED….THE CURSES!!🕎 Deuteronomy 28;45-50 “And they shall be upon thee for a sign & for a wonder”