nappyheadedjojoba

Think of this as a continuation (part 2 of 3) of our conversation on the #softlife LIE perpetuated by influencers, which we first talked about in this video 👉🏾 https://rumble.com/v3ril3k-lets-talk-about-yall-faves-turning-soft-life-into-another-grift.-ti-talks-u.html Here go my Patreon - http://bit.ly/nhjpatreon Here go my Locals - https://bit.ly/communiTi Here go my IG - http://bit.ly/nhjonig Here go my bookstagram IG - https://bit.ly/3a0WBML ------------------------- References: “Friend or Faux: Are Parasocial #relationships Healthy?” - https://health.clevelandclinic.org/parasocial-relationships Signs of an Ab*sive Relationship Medically Reviewed fro WebMD by Sabrina Felson, MD - https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/signs-abusive-relationship ------------------------- Top (issa set, actually) - https://rstyle.me/+v3xpM5yxYbISQ3VhxNwqnw Earrings - https://rstyle.me/+-KOWdRiqiCT-s3cGXP_rWw Nose ring - https://rstyle.me/+ZPx5wZRF0xsKiYLkLo7i2Q Dripping midi ring - https://rstyle.me/+mBk-KTtaL4uMZ4BUtQtsFg Fingertip ring by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79 Two finger ring - http://bit.ly/3spY8CW Amethyst ring - https://rstyle.me/+u6UYsYuqjAPVXHMCrZePjg ------------------------- Makeup tings: e.l.f. Halo Glow Liquid Filter direct from e.l.f. - https://rstyle.me/+q9Ejkq_0H2Wtm_ZJEeBqpA Target - https://rstyle.me/+DGnKqjsgtXzD0KXvorTAig Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+p05fbKiiLqOiXr9yQ_oJpA Beauty Bay - https://rstyle.me/+zztP8wWeRAehfcRQsgnylw Surratt Artistique Blush, Cantaloup Revolve - https://rstyle.me/+j2VFnZ-CW5D1KjC_EnfB-Q Liberty London - https://rstyle.me/+LNlUxji5HM6i2agvH-kQag Victoria Beckham Beauty Smoky Eye Brick, Tweed - https://rstyle.me/+MQEMivhBv1piCK-Qz54qPA Lashes - https://rstyle.me/+9eawsEE-I1IQ8rBBhDSb-A Lip is Fenty Beauty Stunna Lip Paint Longwear Fluid Lip Color, “Underdawg” from Fenty - https://rstyle.me/+oHwaMqMtnlZPYWWOgePIOw Sephora - https://rstyle.me/+x1L0cImUjzQQrwA5MBoQmw Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+GW6v9G7UwPTAP2BZRJWE0w ------------------------- Camera - https://go.magik.ly/ml/13c7d/ Editing software is Adobe Premiere. ------------------------- ***Please note that some links above are affiliate/referral links. If you purchase through them, it will not cost you anything more, but I may earn up to many cents commission.***

Here go my Patreon - http://bit.ly/nhjpatreon Here go my Locals - https://bit.ly/communiTi Here go my IG - http://bit.ly/nhjonig Here go my bookstagram IG - https://bit.ly/3a0WBML ------------------------- References: “Black women started living the soft life. Then came quiet quitting.” by Jennimai Nguyen for Mashable - https://mashable.com/article/soft-life-quiet-quitting-trend “'Soft Girl': The radical trend millennials love” by Evie Muir for BBC’s The Collection - https://www.bbc.com/culture/article/20221202-soft-girl-what-it-really-means-to-lead-a-soft-life Real Self-Care: A Transformative Program for Redefining Wellness (Crystals, Cleanses, and Bubble Baths Not Included) by Pooja Lakshmin at Bookshop - https://bookshop.org/a/21601/9780593489727 at Target - https://rstyle.me/+WPqerXUneW9puROBtT2j6w at Alibris - https://go.magik.ly/ml/1xiv1/ and at *that place* (which I boycott, but most of y’all still shop there so it’s above me now) - https://amzn.to/3FyIOvP ------------------------- Top - https://rstyle.me/+TyEAjtvgJB_7oskznbMLAA or if you’re in the UK - https://rstyle.me/+gu1xgGjWEdbtWOwbhsToUA Nose ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bdw24 Smoke quartz ring is from Wicked Heathens (sold out) Fingertip and midi rings are by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79 Other ring is from a brand I can’t recommend. Bad customer service. ------------------------- Makeup tings (reminder: buying makeup is fun, but it is *not* self care) Cheek color is Rituel de Fille Color Nectar Pigment Balm, “Wasp” Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+YNVvaEZizlaWfssVfyYwyg Free People - https://rstyle.me/+js9VhNzjbxxjXVMGeFyoeQ Saks - https://rstyle.me/+pgnsO7LndXLCc4fnTd6WpA e.l.f. Halo Glow Liquid Filter direct from e.l.f. - https://rstyle.me/+q9Ejkq_0H2Wtm_ZJEeBqpA Target - https://rstyle.me/+DGnKqjsgtXzD0KXvorTAig Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+p05fbKiiLqOiXr9yQ_oJpA Beauty Bay - https://rstyle.me/+zztP8wWeRAehfcRQsgnylw Surratt Surreal Skin - https://rstyle.me/+An-T21-w8oA6SmgLgzdYqg Eye is Surratt Smokey Eye Baton - https://rstyle.me/+L3pQCUIUZhxVSNtj3pk3Ig Lashes are by Kiss - https://rstyle.me/+xA9r88nReFq-xGKC9LjXsg Lip is Fenty Beauty Stunna Lip Paint Longwear Fluid Lip Color, “Unveil” from Fenty - https://rstyle.me/+oHwaMqMtnlZPYWWOgePIOw Sephora - https://rstyle.me/+x1L0cImUjzQQrwA5MBoQmw Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+GW6v9G7UwPTAP2BZRJWE0w *with* Tarte Maracuja Juicy Lip Plump, Tulip Sephora - https://rstyle.me/+5s62r4c1M25RYH2PTI6JEQ Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+5N-V1JpkuvAg3fgw4zwdsg ------------------------- Camera - https://go.magik.ly/ml/13c7d/ Editing software is Adobe Premiere. ------------------------- ***Please note that some links above are affiliate/referral links. If you purchase through them, it will not cost you anything more, but I may earn up to many cents commission.***

Here go my Patreon - http://bit.ly/nhjpatreon Here go my Locals - https://bit.ly/communiTi Here go my IG - http://bit.ly/nhjonig Here go my bookstagram IG - https://bit.ly/3a0WBML ------------------------- Men Who Hate Women: From Incels to Pickup Artists: The Truth about Extreme Misogyny and How It Affects Us All by Laura Bates - https://bookshop.org/a/21601/9781728290904 The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love by bell hooks - https://bookshop.org/a/21601/9780743456081 Sula by Toni Morrison - https://bookshop.org/a/21601/9781400033430 Pullover - https://rstyle.me/+YWROP9HyVOr4XopRueksug Or, if you is in the UK - https://rstyle.me/+b-4fehqBKxHrQufWonCbBA Nose ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bdw24 718 ring - https://bit.ly/3Hjn2e8 Other midi rings are by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79 Pleather headband is from my local hair store. ------------------------- Base is Surratt Surreal Skin - https://rstyle.me/+An-T21-w8oA6SmgLgzdYqg Eye is Surratt Smokey Eye Baton - https://rstyle.me/+L3pQCUIUZhxVSNtj3pk3Ig Lashes are by Kiss - https://rstyle.me/+x6_bi_RAU8L7lYQ7YVux_w Lip is MAC “Creme in Your Coffee” with clear Lipglass Direct - https://rstyle.me/+4vmp6LDe-dCgRyWUz5VVVQ Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+UEPL4yDeOBoHQIGFRXqFJw Nordstrom - https://rstyle.me/+ii4fY8Tm7NXQ29yCbn6UMQ ------------------------- Camera - https://go.magik.ly/ml/13c7d/ Editing software is Adobe Premiere. ------------------------- ***Please note that some links above are affiliate/referral links. If you purchase through them, it will not cost you anything more, but I may earn up to many cents for putting you on game to whatever item(s) you purchase. If you use ‘em, thank you for supporting me in trying to find ways to fund the content that I create.***

Here go my Patreon - http://bit.ly/nhjpatreon Here go my Locals - https://bit.ly/communiTi Here go my IG - http://bit.ly/nhjonig Here go my bookstagram IG - https://bit.ly/3a0WBML Studies mentioned: "No Longer Invisible: Understanding the Psychosocial Impact of Skin Color Stratification in the Lives of African American Women" by J. Camille Hall - https://bit.ly/47E1qr4 "When an “Educated” Black Man Becomes Lighter in the Mind’s Eye: Evidence for a Skin Tone Memory Bias" by Avi Ben-Zeev, Tara C. Dennehy, Robin I. Goodrich, Branden S. Kolarik, and Mark W. Geisler - https://bit.ly/3OO4yb8 "Is facial recognition technology worse at identifying darker-skinned faces than lighter ones?" - https://ab.co/3KPDh7g Ready for Revolution: The Life and Struggles of Stokely Carmichael (Kwame Ture) - https://bookshop.org/a/21601/9780684850047 Reparations Club, Black women-owned book store in Los Angeles - https://rep.club/ Black August primer - https://bit.ly/45Dk8ND ------------------------- Nose ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bdw24 Midi heart ring - http://bit.ly/2NY4UgZ Index finger ring is by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79 718 ring - https://bit.ly/3Hjn2e8 Top - https://shopstyle.it/l/b0fF8 Overalls - https://shopstyle.it/l/b0fG9 Bandana is old. ------------------------- Makeup 411: Lashes - https://shopstyle.it/l/bJuR6 Lip - https://shopstyle.it/l/b0fGc ------------------------- Camera - https://go.magik.ly/ml/13c7d/ Editing software is Adobe Premiere. ------------------------- ***Please note that some links above are affiliate/referral links. If you purchase through them, it will not cost you anything more, but I may earn up to many cents for putting you on game to whatever item(s) you purchase. If you use ‘em, thank you for supporting me in trying to find ways to fund the content that I create.***

Here go my Patreon - http://bit.ly/nhjpatreon Here go my Locals - https://bit.ly/communiTi Here go my IG - http://bit.ly/nhjonig Here go my bookstagram IG - https://bit.ly/3a0WBML @withjustnolu's YouTube video "Being Ugly in South Korea 🇰🇷" - https://youtu.be/21Nn3uLPRmA ------------------------- Nose ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bdw24 Midi drip ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bCn8B Skull ring is sold out. Other rings by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79 ------------------------- Lashes - https://shopstyle.it/l/88BW Lip is a discontinued Sephora brand one, but I think "Sweet Raspberry" is the replacement shade - https://shopstyle.it/l/bWaqD ------------------------- Camera - https://go.magik.ly/ml/13c7d/ Editing software is Adobe Premiere. ------------------------- ***Please note that some links above are affiliate/referral links. If you purchase through them, it will not cost you anything more, but I may earn up to many cents for putting you on game to whatever item(s) you purchase. If you use ‘em, thank you for supporting me in trying to find ways to fund the content that I create.***

Here go my Patreon - http://bit.ly/nhjpatreon Here go my Locals - https://bit.ly/communiTi Here go my IG - http://bit.ly/nhjonig Here go my bookstagram IG - https://bit.ly/3a0WBML ------------------------- Hoodie is old. Nose ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bdw24 Midi drip ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bCn8B Other midi rings are by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79 Two-finger ring is custom. Amethyst ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bh30E ------------------------- Lashes - https://shopstyle.it/l/88BW Lip is Pat McGrath Labs LUST Gloss “Secret Lover” Direct - https://go.magik.ly/ml/1s3pi/ Bergdorf Goodman - https://shopstyle.it/l/bUhQO Selfridges - https://shopstyle.it/l/bUhQS ------------------------- Camera - https://go.magik.ly/ml/13c7d/ Editing software is Adobe Premiere. ------------------------- ***Please note that some links above are affiliate/referral links. If you purchase through them, it will not cost you anything more, but I may earn up to many cents for putting you on game to whatever item(s) you purchase. If you use ‘em, thank you for supporting me in trying to find ways to fund the content that I create.***

Early and uncensored on here, before the YouTube world sees it! My Locals page is still loading but you can find it here: https://nappyheadedjojoba.locals.com/ Here go my Patreon - http://bit.ly/nhjpatreon Here go my Locals (not launched yet, but fyi) - https://nappyheadedjojoba.locals.com/ Here go my IG - http://bit.ly/nhjonig Here go my bookstagram IG - https://bit.ly/3a0WBML ------------------------- Sweater is old. Beanie is old. Nose ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bdw24 Necklaces where gifts. Two-finger ring is custom. Amethyst ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bh30E Index finger and midi ring are by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79 Not linking the pinky ring because my purchase experience was a nightmare. Save yourself. ------------------------- Lashes - https://shopstyle.it/l/bJuR6 Lipstick is NARS “Dragon Girl” Sephora - https://shopstyle.it/l/bS2UQ Ulta - https://shopstyle.it/l/bS2UR Nordstrom - https://shopstyle.it/l/bS2Wo Bloomingdale’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bS2UO Macy’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bS2UT Neiman Marcus - https://shopstyle.it/l/bS2US Space NK - https://shopstyle.it/l/bS2Wn Selfridges - https://shopstyle.it/l/bS2Wl ------------------------- ***Please note that some links above are affiliate/referral links. If you purchase through them, it will not cost you anything more, but I may earn up to many cents for putting you on game to whatever item(s) you purchase. If you use ‘em, thank you for supporting me in trying to find ways to fund the content that I create.***

Here go my Patreon - http://bit.ly/nhjpatreon Here go my IG - http://bit.ly/nhjonig Here go my bookstagram IG - https://bit.ly/3a0WBML 2015 L.A. Times #blackgirlmagic interview with CaShawn Thompson: “Why everyone’s saying ‘Black Girls are Magic’” - http://bit.ly/3RaMGrV Wayward Lives, Beautiful Experiments: Intimate Histories of Riotous Black Girls, Troublesome Women, and Queer Radicals by Saidiya Hartman - https://bookshop.org/a/21601/9780393357622 https://www.youtube.com/@DanielleYoungTV 👈🏾 on YouTube (since I briefly mention her 😅), and Danielle is on IG here 👉🏾 https://www.instagram.com/thedanielleyoung/ My Top 10 Faves of 2022, since on-screen cards are not a thing on Rumble 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/ChVr1nqFE9I ------------------------- Shirt - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWTw Knife earring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bCb1i Safety pin earring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bbVLt Or here - https://shopstyle.it/l/bbVKD Nose ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bdw24 Goddess Crystal Aquamarine and Midi Heart rings are by James Michelle - http://bit.ly/2NY4UgZ Other midi ring is by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79 Not linking the other rings because the company was a nightmare the last time I ordered from them. Trust me on this. ------------------------- Makeup 411 Base: Tarte Timeless Smoothing Primer Sephora - https://shopstyle.it/l/1DMI Ulta - https://shopstyle.it/l/1DKc e.l.f. Halo Glow Liquid Filter, shade 5 Target - https://shopstyle.it/l/bKJqY Direct - https://shopstyle.it/l/bKJpB Boots - https://go.magik.ly/ml/1l07f/ @CharlotteTilbury Beautiful Skin Sun-Kissed Glow Cream Bronzer, 3 Tan Sephora - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWUu Nordstrom - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWVJ Bloomingdale’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWUy Saks - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWVM Farfetch - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWUA Direct - https://go.magik.ly/ml/1klcz/ #charlottetilbury Beautiful Skin Radiant Concealer, shade 12 Sephora - https://shopstyle.it/l/bOcP4 Nordstrom - https://shopstyle.it/l/bOcQc Bloomingdale’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bOcQi Saks - https://shopstyle.it/l/bOcQ9 Farfetch - https://shopstyle.it/l/bOcRe Direct - https://go.magik.ly/ml/1nu60/ #roseinc Skin Enhance Luminous Skin Tint, shade 90 - https://shopstyle.it/l/bGgNS @refy8199 Universal Collection: Gloss Highlighter - https://shopstyle.it/l/bN6EE @tower28beautyofficial Beach Please Lip + Cheek Cream Blush, Golden Hour - https://shopstyle.it/l/bKIkn @freckbeauty97 Original Freckle in “Freck Noir” - https://shopstyle.it/l/bOdmd @Sephora Collection Microsmooth Multi-Tasking Baked Face Powder in “35 Bronze” - https://shopstyle.it/l/bN6EX @guerlain Météorites Sephora - https://shopstyle.it/l/0Qot Nordstrom - https://shopstyle.it/l/5sow Bloomingdale's - https://shopstyle.it/l/5sp4 Charlotte Tilbury Airbrush Flawless Setting Spray Sephora - https://shopstyle.it/l/bzW49 Nordstrom - https://shopstyle.it/l/bKcia Bloomingdale’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bKcgI Saks - https://shopstyle.it/l/bKcgO Direct - https://go.magik.ly/ml/1klcy/ Eyes: #patmcgrath Mothership VI: Midnight Sun - https://go.magik.ly/ml/1qnlw/ Lashes - https://shopstyle.it/l/bP8Rk MAC Extended Play Gigablack Lash Mascara Direct - https://go.magik.ly/ml/msl9/ Ulta - https://shopstyle.it/l/0Qn2 Nordstrom - https://shopstyle.it/l/2NSF Bloomingdale’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bedLB Macy’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bedLx Saks - https://shopstyle.it/l/bedLC Brows are just my face tatts with @AnastasiaBeverlyHills Brow Freeze Styling Wax Sephora - https://shopstyle.it/l/bCn93 Ulta - https://shopstyle.it/l/bCn9Z Nordstrom - https://shopstyle.it/l/bCn92 Bloomingdale’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bCn9z Macy’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bCobg Lip is CT “Pillow Talk Medium” Sephora - https://shopstyle.it/l/bfxPD Nordstrom - https://shopstyle.it/l/bfxPy Bloomingdale’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWV4 Saks - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWV1 Farfetch - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWVZ Direct - https://go.magik.ly/ml/vk9r/ Cult Beauty - https://go.magik.ly/ml/vk9t/ ------------------------- Camera - https://go.magik.ly/ml/13c7d/ Editing software is Adobe Premiere. ------------------------- ***Please note that some links above are affiliate/referral links. If you purchase through them, it will not cost you anything more, but I may earn up to many cents for putting you on game to whatever item(s) you purchase. If you use ‘em, thank you for supporting me in trying to find ways to fund the content that I create.***