StopDevaluation Movement

Dr. Melodye Hilton is a certified master trainer of the Core Values Index™ (CVI™) She has helped both emerging and established leaders through coaching as well as corporate leadership training and consulting. As a leader in your organization you can provide the power of opportunity for your team to discover their highest and best contribution. This is one of the greatest tools to reveal the value that each person innately holds. Want more info? www.DrMelodye.com/cvi

Our propensity as a human being is to bury our pain. Can pain be a catalyst for our freedom and purpose? Powerful interview with David Brooks, counselor.

Each person holds the power of influence for good or harm. Intentionally guarding our influence will empower us to be a part of the solution. This compelling interview with Desiree Fox will bring courage to your heart as you use your power for the good of others.

This was a defining moment in my life. The time when I knew I needed to start my Consulting company. When I learn how the King's and Queen's coronation set them on a course of destiny fulfillment, I was forever changed.

If we reject all pre-judgment from the very core of being, silence every internal voice of bigotry, and choose to value all of humanity then we will be an instrument of justice! My definition of justice is "power used for the good of others." If we choose the dirty banks of prejudice we will become a part of the problem rather than the solution. We must choose today what type of person we want to become.

Most of my life I was overwhelmed by the prejudice I witnesses in our world, which led to my writing Unmasking Prejudice: Silencing the Internal Voice of Bigotry book. My mind could not wrap itself around pre-judgment, stereotyping, and biases that devalued another human being. Then and now I am motivated to see all of humanity valued. I may never see it in my lifetime, but I can plant seeds to show everyone I meet, who is 99.9 identical to me, that they hold great value!

Just because something is culturally tolerated does not make it right, because it is the loudest doesn't make it true, or because it's all we've every know doesn't make it beneficial. Injustice, abuse of power, prejudice, and the thought that a human being can be "owned" by another is inherently wrong. Either we will conform to the majority or courageously take a stand and herald a voice for what is right, just, and pure. We may not be able to change the world but we can decide who we want to be in our world and contribute unreservedly in valuing ways. Please subscribe, follow, like, and share!

Dr. Melodye's heart is to see every leader raise their leadership influence through higher thinking, higher responsibility, and serving a higher cause. One way is understanding that great leaders are instruments of justice who use their power for the good of others. Share these quotes with others, especially those in leadership roles.

Life would feel like a prison if we could not respond to our ability and develop our potential. Dr. Melodye Hilton shares the power of assuming higher responsibility. The principles shared can shift the way you view yourself, your leadership, and provide the pathway to greater levels of increase-personally and professionally.

What are the factors that determine if our emotions are a friend or a foe? Can feel good emotions ever take us off-course? How do we protect ourselves from being emotionally hijacked? Is it possible to change the way we feel? Dr. Melodye simply and strategically answers these and other questions helping us to chart an emotionally healthy life journey.

Imagine a world where we know that no matter what we've experienced nothing takes away our value.

Understand the pathways of empathy and the type of empathy a leader should function in. Learn how authentic words of empathy can impact the neural networking of the brain. Slide source references: Slide 1 (1) Source: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1-T2GsG0l1E Dr. Thomas Lewis Slide 2 (1) Source: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1-T2GsG0l1E Dr. Thomas Lewis Slide 3 (1) Source: (1) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1-T2GsG0l1E Dr. Thomas Lewis Slide 4 Source: (1) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neurons Author: user:Looie496 created file, US National Institutes of Health, National Institute on Aging created original. Licensing Terms: http://creativecommons.org/publicdomain/mark/1.0/deed.en (2) Source: Dr. Caroline leaf, “Who Switched Off My Brain” DVD series #4 Learn more? Part One: The Power of Empathy

Our human propensity is to be critical of what we do not understand, but when we make a focused effort to connect and relate with what another feels and how they perceive a particular situation they will know they are valued by us. When we can see from another's perspective it will reveal our compassion, understanding, and our desire to identify with them. Slide source references: Slide 1: old/young woman http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:My_Wife_and_My_Mother-in-Law.jpg Slide 2: Goblet/Face Illusion by Edgar Rubin http://brainden.com/face-illusions.htm#prettyPhoto Slide 3: rabbit/duck http://brainden.com/animal-ambiguities.htm Illusion by Joseph Jastrow Slide 4: Spinning Dancer http://brainden.com/multistable-objects.htm Spinning Dancer by Nobuyuki Kayahara Slide 5: When children are shown video clips with situations where they see people suffering pain by coincidence, neural circuits related to pain are being activated in their brain. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Empathy_Children.jpg Look for PART TWO: The Directions of Empathy

The words we speak to others whether positive or negative, valuing or devaluing, destructive or building feedback into our own mind-brain effecting us emotionally and physically.

Science tells us that if we continue down the path of divisiveness and devaluation of one group or another ultimately it leads to the complete and utter destruction of all of us. The scientific fact reveals when we allow every form of prejudice, hatred and devaluation unchecked, it becomes self-destructive. This episode will discuss the topic of politics through the science of values-generation. Without the ability to intrinsically love there can be no healing.

Is it possible to see a person’s intrinsic worth when their actions are bad, evil, or unjust. Prejudice and subconscious biases influence our emotions, decisions and behaviors, is there a way for a person to transcend these biases and minimize their effect?

Devaluation always has negative impact while validation always brings health . Today’s podcast we will learn about how our biases ‘run the show.’ We’ll learn the antidote to stopping something is to start something. We’ll learn the power of asking the right question, “What choice can I make and action can I take in this moment to create the greatest net value?”

Dr. King once said that "as long as the mind is enslaved, the body can never be free." All of us are on our own journey of freedom from the experiences of life that have discolored our true selves. In Freedom Time, licensed psychotherapist and social worker, Rhonda Dickens walks readers through processes of identifying, navigating, and healing from trauma so that they can embrace a life of freedom, purpose, hope, and joy. Download this powerful free eBook at: https://mailchi.mp/0ec64fd18d84/gntzablztd or: www.StopDevaluation.com

A discussion with a Great Grandma from the Silent Generation who cannot understand "Why can't we all just get along?" Is there a solution? Can we be agents of change? Can we enjoy emotional health? Societies disease and its potential cure is provided on today's episode.

Every person on the planet knows what it is like to be offended. How does offense affect us? How are we freed from its emotional trap of victimization, powerlessness, and its negative impact on all relationships. Rhonda Dickens has also partnered with #StopDevaluation movement to write a free eBook download, "Freedom Time: A Guide to Finding Freedom and Validation after Trauma." Copy link here to get your free copy: https://mailchi.mp/0ec64fd18d84/gntzablztd

The first step to #StopDevaluation is to value yourself! Negative self-devaluing thoughts appear as thorns on your neural memory. This shapes what you believe about yourself and how you respond to your world. You can rewrite the instructions of your brain by changing the way you think. Download to receive your FREE eBook : https://mailchi.mp/d49670d881d7/stopselfdevaluation

You were designed to be powerful! What does that look like? How do our personal choices, internal dialogue, and interpersonal relationships demonstrate how powerful we are? Dr. Melodye Hilton shares aspects of her personal life's journey from powerless to powerful - an ongoing work in progress.

Do you realize that society needs the treasured contribution you carry? Dr. Melodye Hilton is a Master Trainer/Executive Coach in the Core Value Index. You will hear why this has make a huge impact in her life as well as see a brief overview of the four core values. With her passion to generate value in lives and culture, she has discovered and utilizes the CVI as one of the most value-generating tools as individuals discover how they can generate value in their family and organizations. The Core Values Index™ (CVI) is the only human assessment using strategic and tactical values in a word-choice format. It reveals the innate nature of a person and their core motivational drivers. As a coaching tool, The CVI™ delivers a values-based human nature profile. With it, we see how a person views the world from their unique perspective and how they will respond to life’s challenges with predictable strategies and tactics. Working with core values nature provides a springboard for understanding motivation for action, sense of personal mission, and the interpretation of individual work and life activity as meaningful. You can take a FREE CVI at: DrMelodye.com/CVI

Dr. Melodye shares on the power of identity, the importance and development of your personal purpose. This will empower you to see the value you hold and your ability to make a greater impact in your world. Learn the dynamics of discovering your personal purpose and how you can put language and expression to the distinct uniqueness within you!

Part One of a two-part series on personal purpose which is foundational to take you from a life of success to a life of significance and helps you position yourself to release your greatest self.