Get It Together-Together

Do YOU struggle with apologizing in your relationship? Learn the transformative power of "I'm sorry" and relationship etiquette to take your marriage from mundane to magical! 💑 Steven and Kori, relationship coaches married 40 years, break down the common courtesies that reveal if your "I love you's" are lies. Discover; * what sincerely drives apologies * 4 emotional processing types * actionable steps for more effective communication. This hard-truth, but hope-filled episode explores real relationship stories and stats so you can master the make-or-break keys 🔑 to honor your spouse. Say bye-bye to relationship boredom and uncover the secret sauce 💥 that helped Steven and Kori last four decades and counting! What you can learn from this episode: “I don’t wanna say I’m sorry!” Does that sound like you? Whatever happened to “excuse me,” “pardon me,” “please,” and “thank you”? Being in a short supply of “I’m sorry’s” How do you process emotions? How does your partner process emotions? Knowing these can significantly help you deal with arguments. The value of relationship etiquette. Is your partner developing a sharp language towards you? “Investing” common courtesies. And much more! Connect with us! iHeart podcast - Get It Together-Together Rumble Channel-Get It Together-Together Apple podcast- Get It Together-Together Spotify podcast- Get It Together-Together Website: https://stevenandkori.com/podcast/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@stevenandkori #getittogethertogther #relationshippodcast #marriageadvice

Think your spouse parents way differently than you? 😳 The "Get It Together-Together" podcast shares their biggest parenting mistakes and disagreements. Learn their hilarious stories of chaos, from letting the kids stay up too late to giving them too much freedom. Hear how they learned to compromise and present a united front despite their conflicting styles. Get tips on setting reasonable rules and boundaries so your kids feel secure. Find out why constantly disagreeing in front of children only confuses them more. Follow this couple's funny journey to better parenting skills and a stronger marriage! #parentingfails #disagreements #compromise #boundaries #getittogethertogther

"Having children come into a marriage is a blessing and a trial." - Kori "The first child, believe it or not, is your marriage, because the two of you are coming together and you're producing." - Steven

Key Takeaways and Lessons Learned from upcoming show; *Come to a compromise when you and your spouse have very different parenting styles. Finding common ground is essential even if you land on completely opposite sides of parenting approaches. *Never undermine or contradict your partner's rules/consequences in front of the kids. It teaches manipulation tactics and confuses them when mom and dad don't present a united front. *Appreciate and acknowledge your spouse's parenting strengths. In this case, Steven admired how Kori devoted herself fully to raising the kids, while Kori was thankful Steven insisted their daughters would never fight. *Prioritize open and honest communication with your partner about disagreements in private first, before responding in front of the kids. *As children grow older, grant them increased responsibilities and privileges. This shows them you notice their maturity while setting reasonable expectations. *The emotional parent-child connection can grow with kids into adulthood without breaking. Kids will always lean on engaged parents who make them feel secure.

"The first child, believe it or not, is your marriage, because the two of you are coming together and you're producing." Profound insight from Steven on #getittogethertogther! 💡 Steven and Kori explain why new parents must nourish their own relationship first, before taking on the monumental responsibility of raising kids. Even after 4 decades together, they still prioritize their marriage as the foundation. " Steven gets real on #getittogethertogther about the critical importance of modeling good behavior and boundaries for our kids.

The end goal was preserving their emotional connection with their daughters, even as the parenting relationship matured. As Kori explains, kids will always lean into engaged parents when they feel secure.

Get tips on setting reasonable rules and boundaries so your kids feel secure. Find out why constantly disagreeing in front of children only confuses them more.

Think your spouse parents way differently than you? 😳 The "Get It Together-Together" podcast shares their biggest parenting mistakes and disagreements. Learn their hilarious stories of chaos, from letting the kids stay up too late to giving them too much freedom.

Dr. Joel and Dr. Crystal share their journey from friends to soulmates to business partners. Learn how this power couple balances marriage, parenting, entrepreneurship, and faith using effective communication tools like the "Importance Scale." Gain insight into navigating key relationships transitions like having your first child and opening a joint practice. Discover how they create work-life harmony while living out their purpose. Topics covered: Turning friendship into lasting love Blending backgrounds, beliefs, and dreams Resolving conflict with understanding Committing to personal growth together Making marriage a priority amidst parenting Launching a meaningful business as partners Creating health in mind, body and spirit

"The body is such a mirror of how we are communicating with ourselves, how we're listening to ourselves and therefore, if we're numbed out and we're not even healing our pain points." - Dr. Crystal

Their diverse skills set under one roof provides their patients with comprehensive support. And it gives Joel and Crystal great joy and fulfillment to transform lives through whole-person healing.

Their thriving business actualizes their shared passion for empowering patients to take charge of their health. They love awakening people to nurture mind, body, and spirit through chiropractic care, nutrition, stress reduction, and more.

“When you have spiritual attraction, that is the deepest form of attraction in romance.” - Dr. Crystal "This is not even about our relationship with each other. This is about our relationship with God first and then if He's our focal point and hopefully that means we're gonna end there together." - Dr. Crystal

Gain insight into navigating key relationships transitions like having your first child and opening a joint practice. Discover how they create work-life harmony while living out their purpose

Dr. Joel and Dr. Crystal share their journey from friends to soulmates to business partners. Learn how this power couple balances marriage, parenting, entrepreneurship, and faith using effective communication tools like the "Importance Scale."

Many couples reach a point when sleeping in separate beds becomes necessary. Snoring, illness, different schedules - there are various valid reasons why "sleep divorces" happen. What if sleeping apart could actually bring you closer together? Steven and Kori have been married 40 years and never thought they'd be having this conversation. They share statistics revealing how more common solo sleeping is than you'd think. Discover the emotional and health benefits of co-sleeping as well as situations where giving each other space leads to better rest and intimacy. Get tips for compromise if one spouse feels neglected. This honest talk brings hope for every couple dealing with conflicting sleep needs.

As the saying goes, "Sometimes space brings spouses closer together." With compromises like these, periodic sleep separation doesn't have to spell doom. The key is honestly communicating your feelings and not allowing bitterness or a roommate mentality to set in. Increase cuddle time in bed on nights spent together. Fall asleep spooning to release that magical oxytocin!

Over 1 in 5 couples sleep apart due to conflicting habits or needs A "sleep divorce" doesn't necessarily mean marital trouble—it can help

Many longtime couples face a breaking point when one spouse's sleep habits make it impossible for the other to get the rest they desperately need. Illness, work schedules, even harmless midnight "sleep talking" sessions can drive the sanest half out of the marital bed.

Discover the emotional and health benefits of co-sleeping as well as situations where giving each other space leads to better rest and intimacy. This honest talk brings hope for every couple dealing with conflicting sleep needs.

Many couples reach a point when sleeping in separate beds becomes necessary. Snoring, illness, different schedules - there are various valid reasons why "sleep divorces" happen. #marriage #relationships

Compliment your spouse regarding the things that your enjoy in them. It helps when your marriage goes through difficult times.

Navigating Menopause & Andropause Has your bedroom gone cold thanks to menopause or andropause? You're not alone! Steven and Kori share their personal struggles and how they overcame plummeting hormones and libidos. Get insight into the frustration, depression and loss of self that happens during this transitional life stage. Learn actionable tips to improve intimacy, support your partner, and come out stronger. This candid conversation covers: Defining menopause and andropause medically Global stats on average onset ages How hormones affect emotions, weight gain, energy Steven's erectile dysfunction at 58 Kori’s denial and mood swings Supplements that helped rebalance and regenerate Why couples therapy is key even if only 1 is affected No matter what physical or emotional hurdles these natural changes throw your way, your relationship can thrive by understanding the process and supporting one another with grace.

No matter which partner’s biology betrays them first, know that patience, grace and understanding will lead couples to overcome together. Menopause and Andropause are REAL people

The Rollercoaster of Menopause & Andropause "For better or worse, in sickness and in health"—those familiar wedding vows never mentioned anything about plummeting hormones!