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This is contemplation of the belief that we see the true person when times are tough. Is this true? I've thought this all of my life and it certainly seems true. But I've never questioned it. So, I decided to go into it and see if it is true. 00:00 Introduction 01:22 Do we see the true person when times are tough? 02:26 Questioning the belief 03:08 People who are acting hypocritically 04:11 People who say the same thing in good and bad times 04:35 Heroes 05:07 People who act differently 05:43 Making sense of the different parts of the belief 07:16 Not the true self, just a trait 08:04 Clarifying and seeing the belief clearly

What is it about negativity that is so attractive? Why do we think that negativity is the answer to all of our problems? What is actually going on? 00:00 Introduction 00:41 Powerful 02:18 Effective 02:53 Easy to do 03:08 It is believed to be normal 04:18 The positive parts protect the negative 05:09 It is something to do 06:02 Is negativity wrong? 07:45 What can be done? 08:24 What would the devil do? 09:46 Going over negativity before sleep 11:44 Misunderstandings of not being negative

Is a mood just that feeling in the background, or does it even exist? 00:00 Introduction 01:00 The regular idea of mood 01:53 How does one experience a mood? 02:34 Physical feelings 06:13 Mental feelings 07:17 Thought 10:11 A different definition of mood 14:47 We are doing a mood 15:36 The true meaning of a thought 16:32 What you can do 16:53 Stopping the pattern of negativity 17:44 Gratitude

00:00 Introduction 00:30 Start with something you want to change 01:42 Define words 03:22 Start with a question and break down the answers 05:11 Work on the answer by changing variables 07:56 How do you know when you are finished? 09:37 The benefits of doing this kind of contemplation

In this video, I go into beliefs about disinterests ("I don't like..."). We can see what happens when the belief is examined and then let go of. (This video was made much differently than my usual videos. I had no idea what I wanted to talk about in the video. I just started talking. After about 30 minutes, this video came up. I had thought about this topic before, but not in years.) 00:00 Introduction 01:29 Belief that I don't care about fashion 01:44 The belief matched my experience 02:14 Questioning the belief 03:19 Something is not right about the belief 05:25 The belief is about the image of myself 06:04 The real belief 06:41 Letting go of the incorrect belief 07:27 Beliefs attached to an image of myself 08:30 The freedom of letting go of beliefs 08:57 Interests not attached to an image of myself 10:08 Small sense of not "being myself" 10:30 Give it a try

In this video, I look into what worry is, why we have it, and what is its purpose. 00:00 Introduction 00:48 Recording your contemplations 01:32 Worry and falling asleep 04:36 Positive reason for doing something 06:19 What is the purpose of worry? 09:48 Worry is the least amount of doing something 10:35 Worry is amazing at what it does 11:36 The fear of wasting time 12:33 Just seeing the trick of worry 14:17 If possible, do something about it 14:47 Do something positive 15:24 Flood worry with love and gratitude

00:00 The feel of reality 01:21 Nostalgic experiences 04:21 What makes nostalgic experiences pleasurable? 06:47 "Bad" memories also feel good 11:39 The feel of here and now 12:02 The ability to manipulate the feel of reality 13:12 How achieved desires affect the feel of reality 14:30 This is heaven and hell 16:36 When you get what you desire 17:40 How to get nostalgic feelings

In this video I delve into free will and choice. Is free will actually what we think it is? 00:00 Introduction 00:31 Definitions of free will and choice 02:16 The common story of how we make a choice 02:44 Example of a choice 03:41 The I and the chooser 05:26 The actual experience of making a choice 06:29 Why do we want choice? 06:50 Example of a clear choice 07:30 Does God make a choice? 08:09 The answer to the question of free will 09:31 What we actually want

Many people say that the waking world is real and that the dream world isn't. "It's just a dream." Is this true? Let's go into it and see if the unreality of dreams is proven. 00:00 Introduction (definitions of real) 02:11 List of reasons dreams are considered not real 04:28 Time goes faster or slower 05:39 Things change quickly 06:25 Characters can be multiple people 07:29 Multiple locations at once 08:18 Nostalgic experiences (timeless and locationless) 11:40 Lack of consequences 13:13 Dreams are personal 13:36 Natural laws seem different 14:28 Judgment from one reality 15:03 None of these reasons point to unreality 15:38 What can we learn from dreams?

Both science and spirituality say that "true" reality is hidden from us. Let's delve into this and see if this is true.

00:00 Introduction 00:37 Two groups: one helps each other, one doesn't 01:22 Problems increase, the group that shares is better off 01:48 Times become very difficult, group that shares has problems 02:24 Group that doesn't share 02:44 Where evil can arise 03:03 Separate by making a judgment 04:12 Anger arises 04:51 Separate more into jealousy 05:47 The desire for punishment 06:25 The world is a zero sum game 06:53 Power 07:14 Wanting punishment leads to evil 07:38 Evil starts with those who don't have a lot 08:21 Judgment of the world is arrogant and leads to evil 08:58 How those who have a lot contribute to evil 10:26 Societies that share have less evil 10:51 Adam & Eve and the tree of knowledge 11:56 Cain and Abel

What are regrets? Are we trapped by our past? Let's look into regret together and see what they are and how we can let them go. 00:00 Introduction and definition of regret 00:58 What is a regret that you used to have, but don't anymore? 01:23 What is a regret that started much later than the regretful event? 02:01 Regrets can start and end at different times 02:17 If you had a perfect life, would you have any regrets? 02:34 Problems 03:11 Does regret show that there is a problem? 04:52 Regrets that have faded with time 05:18 Is a regret just a problem that hasn't be solved yet? 05:39 Think about a regret that you have now 06:00 Looking at an example regret to find the problem 06:38 What is the problem? 06:55 Three things that can be done when there is a problem 07:47 Look into the problem to see what can be done 09:14 The problem of conflicting beliefs and what can be done 11:57 Does regret work as motivation? 14:04 Having two conflicting beliefs that won't budge 16:16 Closing

What can you do to make every conversation interesting for you? I break down what it means to have a great conversation. And like everything that I do, it becomes spiritual/philosophical. Feel free to use the timestamps to go to chapters that you are particularly interested in. 00:00 Introduction 02:19 What do I mean by "conversation"? 03:02 To commune 03:53 Listening 07:36 Where do thoughts come from? 08:40 Being comfortable with yourself 09:38 Speaking 11:29 The visual aspect of conversations 14:36 Every topic becomes philosophical 15:12 What does it mean to be interested in something? 16:02 How to have interest in every conversation? 16:17 Become interested in every topic 17:15 Passion 18:02 Being comfortable with someone 18:35 The problem of steering the conversation 19:42 Noticing what the feeling of "being interested" is 20:47 Being interested in thinking 22:17 Don't "try" to be open, instead "feel" open

If you were to create the devil, what would he be like? How would that match up to what religions say about the devil? Is the devil then real? 00:00 Introduction 00:38 How does the goodness of God show up? 01:21 What do people want? 02:02 Connection 02:34 The devil is separation 02:50 The personality of the devil 08:05 Other forms of separation 09:32 Explanation of God 10:30 The universe of knowledge added to the devil 12:09 The devil is a point in a process 13:42 Matter and materialism 16:03 The devil and society 16:49 Final thoughts

In this video, I talk about the phrase, "most people..." and what that means. 00:00 Introduction 00:31 Examples where it is possible to say this 01:10 Why are started thinking about this phrase 02:17 Asking someone their belief in God 04:34 Thinking about my idea of love 05:41 Paying attention to what we are saying

In this video, I talk about some common misunderstandings of what it means to not know. 00:00 Introduction / Two types of claims 00:26 First type of claim is easily verified 00:50 The definitions and boundaries are clearly defined 01:13 Boundaries of a claim 01:43 Sports as an example / The rules must be agreed upon 02:52 Second type of claim in not clear (opinions and value judgments) 03:51 1st misunderstanding -- confusing the two types of claims 04:19 Story to explain this misunderstanding 05:26 2nd misunderstanding -- the image of not knowing is bad 06:02 Skeptics (scientific materialists) 07:39 Atheists and agnostics 09:16 3rd misunderstanding -- not knowing leaves the person vulnerable 10:25 4th misunderstanding -- having one position covers every mention connected to a topic 11:28 Story of a samurai

There are different ways to see the world around us. Sometimes it looks like something is either right or wrong. But, is it instead, just a matter of the level of magnification? Can seemingly contradictory things both be true? 00:00 Introduction 02:09 Three scales of magnification 02:24 Space 03:07 Time 03:59 Concept 06:22 Combinations of scales 08:09 Problems of not understanding the levels of magnification 08:54 Using level as a tactic 10:00 Illness 10:44 Wrong time and place 11:13 Spirituality 11:33 Non-duality talk 12:43 Spiritual leaders 13:57 Today's society - post modernism 14:44 An example of understanding that words really don't have a true meaning 15:38 What can we do?

Being open-minded is important. It is especially necessary for working on the self. But what happens when you identify as open-minded? What problems arise? 00:00 Introduction and explanation 00:41 List of words 01:09 Problems with identifying oneself with these words 02:59 Intelligent people 03:21 Intelligent people can be fooled by themselves 03:42 These words are used to protects one's beliefs 04:03 Can diminish other's beliefs 05:02 Someone actually saying they are these words 05:25 They feel their position is a little weak 05:41 The image of their position is bad

This is a video to let you know where I am at in my spiritual inquiry, what I have learned from making videos, what I am working on myself right now, and how I plan to do videos in the future. 00:00 Introduction 00:30 How and why I made the videos so far 02:15 Letting go 05:25 Insight 06:26 Effects of being a parent 09:14 Why am I so critical? 14:42 The process of finding out bad things about myself 17:20 Two paths of improvement 18:45 Videos connected to the process of inquiry 20:10 The need to tell the truth

Is suffering worse than evil? Does evil even exist? Or does evil have power well beyond that of suffering? 00:00 Introduction 00:28 Worst possible world 01:02 Is one person suffering, evil? 02:15 Two people suffering the maximum amount 03:07 Enjoying suffering is evil 04:01 Is suffering worse than evil? 04:45 Time is necessary for evil 06:44 Evil's effect on the person doing the evil action 07:50 Problem these days 08:09 Maximum amount of evil 08:48 The importance of understanding evil

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