Marisa Rudder Author

I am thankful that so many couples are joining the Love & Obey Female Led Life Movement. I am now receiving regular messages from Scandinavia, The United Kingdom, France, Germany, The United States, Australia, Canada and more. Couples are sharing the creative changes they are making in their female led lives. Here's what's trending, I am hearing about the introduction of secondary Queens to a relationship. More dominant Queens are socializing together and sharing their submissive men with each other privately and at femdom parties. https://www.loveandobey.com/

Welcome to the Love & Obey movement...A New Vision of Life that Celebrates Women. It has been five years since Marisa Rudder released her groundbreaking relationship book Love & Obey: The World's Best Female Led Relationship Guide and now, she is proud to offer her followers the World's Bestselling Female Led Relationship Book Series with 14 books. As an author and social media influencer, hundreds of thousands people from the United States of America, England, France, Germany, Netherlands, Australia, Canada, Norway, Sweden, Brazil, Mexico and more have been turning to Marisa Rudder for her relationship and sex life advice. https://www.loveandobey.com/

Do you have a spanking fetish? Do you like spanking or being spanked with a hand, belt, or paddle? Does it sexually gratify you? Do you have submissive or dominant fantasies? For many people, their kink is their sexual orientation. When your Queen consensually spanks you in a punishment for being disrespectful, or disobedient what is the point of your punishment? It focuses both of you on each other, it connects the both of you with your secret fetish, it creates intimacy as you share the experience, emotions and feelings. In other words, it benefits you and your relationship. https://www.loveandobey.com/

People often ask me what is the difference between Hotwifing and Cuckolding. Practically speaking the wife is doing the same thing; having sex with men other than her husband. The difference is really more in what the man is doing. A Hotwife is a woman who has sex with men outside of her marriage with her husband's encouragement and consent. She loves her husband and usually has passionate sex with him on a regular basis because he is usually a well endowed lover in his own right and has great sex with his wife. In Cuckolding, the man is often NOT well endowed and is typically in Chastity and limited to oral sex worship. Both a Hotwife husband and a cuckold have transformed jealousy into a compersion so both are happy for their wives happiness. https://www.loveandobey.com/

Many women who are just starting a female led relationship are writing to me and asking what is the best way to train a man? The ultimate way to train a man is with Male Chastity and Orgasm Control. Once you gain control of his manhood, he will learn to love, obey and serve you as his Queen. In Chastity you'll become his keyholder and you'll decide when he is allowed to have sex and when he is allowed to have sex and orgasm. Male Chastity places the female in control of the relationship or marriage. https://www.loveandobey.com/

Men ask, "How can I meet a Queen, so I can live in a female led relationship?" It is important to understand that dominant women are not walking around like Hollywood Dominatrixes. Many alpha women, successful in their careers, physically fit or dominant in one way or another are not going to the grocery store or starbucks wearing a black latex outfit. So the first step is you need to be able recognize an alpha, dominant female. Next, you need to be able to approach her and know what she is about. Finally, you need to be able to have a good conversation with her to get her interested. It's a tall order and you must start with getting educated about alpha, dominant women. https://www.loveandobey.com/

In a female led lifestyle, the focus is on the Queen. How can her submissive love, obey and serve her better? How can he bring her sexual pleasure? How can he provide fabulous oral sex to her? Even cuckold submissives should understand female sexual stimulation and how to provide arousal and oral sexual pleasure for their Queen. For couple's who want monogamy, this is a high priority because once you enter an FLR, your Queen will demand sexual satisfaction. An FLR Queen will either get it from you or a bull, and more often than not, she will get pleasure and satisfaction from both of you. https://www.loveandobey.com/

Now through New Year's Eve is one of the busiest times of the year to celebrate life and party. So are you going to explore some of the wilder lifestyles like cuckolding, hotwifing or swinging during this festive season? Many couples are already living in a relationship and practicing consensual non monogamy. This means both partners agree that it's okay to have sex with outside partners. In Female Led Life, this often means it's okay for the Queen to have a bull and for the male partner to be supportive of her desires and needs. So what is the secret to a successful open relationship whether it's cuckolding, hotwifing or swinging? https://www.loveandobey.com/

So you wanna be a Queen and you are making him your submissive. You have placed him in Male Chastity. You are spanking and disciplining him regularly. You have given him daily chores in addition to his normal work day. And you make him provide you with oral worship virtually every night. But are you using my powerful Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) techniques? Are you training your sub to recite daily affirmations to secure his proper obedience, service and worship of you as his Queen, goddess and Female Master? https://www.loveandobey.com/

Wow, 2022 is ending and 2023 is beginning. HAPPY NEW YEAR! So why not make your New Year's Resolution; more kinky fantasies? It's a whole new year to try FEMDOM. It's a time for men to find their Female Masters and Queens to find their "slave-mates". This year you can take it to a whole new level of satisfaction and blow your mind. Let her indulge all of her fantasies and be her supportive gentleman. 2023 will be what you make it, so make it fun and exciting for you and put an end to relationship boredom. https://www.loveandobey.com/