Description

Unpredictable behaviors, especially in children, are actions that do not follow social norms. They surprise others and make them have uncomfortable ideas about us. It is important to note that these are not necessarily bad thoughts, not thinking we are weird, but rather uncomfortable feelings or thoughts. It is then the unexpected behaviors that cause the child to be seen as 'weird' by their peers and may cause frustration to those who try to support them. The concept of expected and unexpected behaviors is important for helping children develop an understanding that their behavior affects those around them, and therefore how others treat them. People generally like to hang out with those they feel comfortable around. This understanding can help and motivate them to be able to regulate their behavior due to the feelings of others.