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Folks are out here in abusive relationships with influencers... | #TiTalks UNCENSORED
Think of this as a continuation (part 2 of 3) of our conversation on the #softlife LIE perpetuated by influencers, which we first talked about in this video 👉🏾 https://rumble.com/v3ril3k-lets-talk-about-yall-faves-turning-soft-life-into-another-grift.-ti-talks-u.html
Here go my Patreon - http://bit.ly/nhjpatreon
Here go my Locals - https://bit.ly/communiTi
Here go my IG - http://bit.ly/nhjonig
Here go my bookstagram IG - https://bit.ly/3a0WBML
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References:
“Friend or Faux: Are Parasocial #relationships Healthy?” - https://health.clevelandclinic.org/parasocial-relationships
Signs of an Ab*sive Relationship Medically Reviewed fro WebMD by Sabrina Felson, MD - https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/signs-abusive-relationship
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Top (issa set, actually) - https://rstyle.me/+v3xpM5yxYbISQ3VhxNwqnw
Earrings - https://rstyle.me/+-KOWdRiqiCT-s3cGXP_rWw
Nose ring - https://rstyle.me/+ZPx5wZRF0xsKiYLkLo7i2Q
Dripping midi ring - https://rstyle.me/+mBk-KTtaL4uMZ4BUtQtsFg
Fingertip ring by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79
Two finger ring - http://bit.ly/3spY8CW
Amethyst ring - https://rstyle.me/+u6UYsYuqjAPVXHMCrZePjg
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Makeup tings:
e.l.f. Halo Glow Liquid Filter
direct from e.l.f. - https://rstyle.me/+q9Ejkq_0H2Wtm_ZJEeBqpA
Target - https://rstyle.me/+DGnKqjsgtXzD0KXvorTAig
Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+p05fbKiiLqOiXr9yQ_oJpA
Beauty Bay - https://rstyle.me/+zztP8wWeRAehfcRQsgnylw
Surratt Artistique Blush, Cantaloup
Revolve - https://rstyle.me/+j2VFnZ-CW5D1KjC_EnfB-Q
Liberty London - https://rstyle.me/+LNlUxji5HM6i2agvH-kQag
Victoria Beckham Beauty Smoky Eye Brick, Tweed - https://rstyle.me/+MQEMivhBv1piCK-Qz54qPA
Lashes - https://rstyle.me/+9eawsEE-I1IQ8rBBhDSb-A
Lip is Fenty Beauty Stunna Lip Paint Longwear Fluid Lip Color, “Underdawg”
from Fenty - https://rstyle.me/+oHwaMqMtnlZPYWWOgePIOw
Sephora - https://rstyle.me/+x1L0cImUjzQQrwA5MBoQmw
Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+GW6v9G7UwPTAP2BZRJWE0w
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Camera - https://go.magik.ly/ml/13c7d/
Editing software is Adobe Premiere.
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***Please note that some links above are affiliate/referral links. If you purchase through them, it will not cost you anything more, but I may earn up to many cents commission.***
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Folks are out here in abusive relationships with influencers... | #TiTalks UNCENSORED
Think of this as a continuation (part 2 of 3) of our conversation on the #softlife LIE perpetuated by influencers, which we first talked about in this video 👉🏾 https://rumble.com/v3ril3k-lets-talk-about-yall-faves-turning-soft-life-into-another-grift.-ti-talks-u.html
Here go my Patreon - http://bit.ly/nhjpatreon
Here go my Locals - https://bit.ly/communiTi
Here go my IG - http://bit.ly/nhjonig
Here go my bookstagram IG - https://bit.ly/3a0WBML
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References:
“Friend or Faux: Are Parasocial #relationships Healthy?” - https://health.clevelandclinic.org/parasocial-relationships
Signs of an Ab*sive Relationship Medically Reviewed fro WebMD by Sabrina Felson, MD - https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/signs-abusive-relationship
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Top (issa set, actually) - https://rstyle.me/+v3xpM5yxYbISQ3VhxNwqnw
Earrings - https://rstyle.me/+-KOWdRiqiCT-s3cGXP_rWw
Nose ring - https://rstyle.me/+ZPx5wZRF0xsKiYLkLo7i2Q
Dripping midi ring - https://rstyle.me/+mBk-KTtaL4uMZ4BUtQtsFg
Fingertip ring by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79
Two finger ring - http://bit.ly/3spY8CW
Amethyst ring - https://rstyle.me/+u6UYsYuqjAPVXHMCrZePjg
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Makeup tings:
e.l.f. Halo Glow Liquid Filter
direct from e.l.f. - https://rstyle.me/+q9Ejkq_0H2Wtm_ZJEeBqpA
Target - https://rstyle.me/+DGnKqjsgtXzD0KXvorTAig
Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+p05fbKiiLqOiXr9yQ_oJpA
Beauty Bay - https://rstyle.me/+zztP8wWeRAehfcRQsgnylw
Surratt Artistique Blush, Cantaloup
Revolve - https://rstyle.me/+j2VFnZ-CW5D1KjC_EnfB-Q
Liberty London - https://rstyle.me/+LNlUxji5HM6i2agvH-kQag
Victoria Beckham Beauty Smoky Eye Brick, Tweed - https://rstyle.me/+MQEMivhBv1piCK-Qz54qPA
Lashes - https://rstyle.me/+9eawsEE-I1IQ8rBBhDSb-A
Lip is Fenty Beauty Stunna Lip Paint Longwear Fluid Lip Color, “Underdawg”
from Fenty - https://rstyle.me/+oHwaMqMtnlZPYWWOgePIOw
Sephora - https://rstyle.me/+x1L0cImUjzQQrwA5MBoQmw
Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+GW6v9G7UwPTAP2BZRJWE0w
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Camera - https://go.magik.ly/ml/13c7d/
Editing software is Adobe Premiere.
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***Please note that some links above are affiliate/referral links. If you purchase through them, it will not cost you anything more, but I may earn up to many cents commission.***
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Let’s talk about y’all faves turning “soft life” into another grift. | #TiTalks UNCENSORED
Here go my Patreon - http://bit.ly/nhjpatreon
Here go my Locals - https://bit.ly/communiTi
Here go my IG - http://bit.ly/nhjonig
Here go my bookstagram IG - https://bit.ly/3a0WBML
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References:
“Black women started living the soft life. Then came quiet quitting.” by Jennimai Nguyen for Mashable - https://mashable.com/article/soft-life-quiet-quitting-trend
“'Soft Girl': The radical trend millennials love” by Evie Muir for BBC’s The Collection - https://www.bbc.com/culture/article/20221202-soft-girl-what-it-really-means-to-lead-a-soft-life
Real Self-Care: A Transformative Program for Redefining Wellness (Crystals, Cleanses, and Bubble Baths Not Included) by Pooja Lakshmin
at Bookshop - https://bookshop.org/a/21601/9780593489727
at Target - https://rstyle.me/+WPqerXUneW9puROBtT2j6w
at Alibris - https://go.magik.ly/ml/1xiv1/
and at *that place* (which I boycott, but most of y’all still shop there so it’s above me now) - https://amzn.to/3FyIOvP
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Top - https://rstyle.me/+TyEAjtvgJB_7oskznbMLAA
or if you’re in the UK - https://rstyle.me/+gu1xgGjWEdbtWOwbhsToUA
Nose ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bdw24
Smoke quartz ring is from Wicked Heathens (sold out)
Fingertip and midi rings are by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79
Other ring is from a brand I can’t recommend. Bad customer service.
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Makeup tings (reminder: buying makeup is fun, but it is *not* self care)
Cheek color is Rituel de Fille Color Nectar Pigment Balm, “Wasp”
Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+YNVvaEZizlaWfssVfyYwyg
Free People - https://rstyle.me/+js9VhNzjbxxjXVMGeFyoeQ
Saks - https://rstyle.me/+pgnsO7LndXLCc4fnTd6WpA
e.l.f. Halo Glow Liquid Filter
direct from e.l.f. - https://rstyle.me/+q9Ejkq_0H2Wtm_ZJEeBqpA
Target - https://rstyle.me/+DGnKqjsgtXzD0KXvorTAig
Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+p05fbKiiLqOiXr9yQ_oJpA
Beauty Bay - https://rstyle.me/+zztP8wWeRAehfcRQsgnylw
Surratt Surreal Skin - https://rstyle.me/+An-T21-w8oA6SmgLgzdYqg
Eye is Surratt Smokey Eye Baton - https://rstyle.me/+L3pQCUIUZhxVSNtj3pk3Ig
Lashes are by Kiss - https://rstyle.me/+xA9r88nReFq-xGKC9LjXsg
Lip is Fenty Beauty Stunna Lip Paint Longwear Fluid Lip Color, “Unveil”
from Fenty - https://rstyle.me/+oHwaMqMtnlZPYWWOgePIOw
Sephora - https://rstyle.me/+x1L0cImUjzQQrwA5MBoQmw
Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+GW6v9G7UwPTAP2BZRJWE0w
*with* Tarte Maracuja Juicy Lip Plump, Tulip
Sephora - https://rstyle.me/+5s62r4c1M25RYH2PTI6JEQ
Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+5N-V1JpkuvAg3fgw4zwdsg
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Camera - https://go.magik.ly/ml/13c7d/
Editing software is Adobe Premiere.
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***Please note that some links above are affiliate/referral links. If you purchase through them, it will not cost you anything more, but I may earn up to many cents commission.***
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Men are SO EMOTIONAL. 🥺 | #TiTalks UNCENSORED
Here go my Patreon - http://bit.ly/nhjpatreon
Here go my Locals - https://bit.ly/communiTi
Here go my IG - http://bit.ly/nhjonig
Here go my bookstagram IG - https://bit.ly/3a0WBML
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Men Who Hate Women: From Incels to Pickup Artists: The Truth about Extreme Misogyny and How It Affects Us All by Laura Bates - https://bookshop.org/a/21601/9781728290904
The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love by bell hooks - https://bookshop.org/a/21601/9780743456081
Sula by Toni Morrison - https://bookshop.org/a/21601/9781400033430
Pullover - https://rstyle.me/+YWROP9HyVOr4XopRueksug
Or, if you is in the UK - https://rstyle.me/+b-4fehqBKxHrQufWonCbBA
Nose ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bdw24
718 ring - https://bit.ly/3Hjn2e8
Other midi rings are by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79
Pleather headband is from my local hair store.
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Base is Surratt Surreal Skin - https://rstyle.me/+An-T21-w8oA6SmgLgzdYqg
Eye is Surratt Smokey Eye Baton - https://rstyle.me/+L3pQCUIUZhxVSNtj3pk3Ig
Lashes are by Kiss - https://rstyle.me/+x6_bi_RAU8L7lYQ7YVux_w
Lip is MAC “Creme in Your Coffee” with clear Lipglass
Direct - https://rstyle.me/+4vmp6LDe-dCgRyWUz5VVVQ
Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+UEPL4yDeOBoHQIGFRXqFJw
Nordstrom - https://rstyle.me/+ii4fY8Tm7NXQ29yCbn6UMQ
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Camera - https://go.magik.ly/ml/13c7d/
Editing software is Adobe Premiere.
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***Please note that some links above are affiliate/referral links. If you purchase through them, it will not cost you anything more, but I may earn up to many cents for putting you on game to whatever item(s) you purchase. If you use ‘em, thank you for supporting me in trying to find ways to fund the content that I create.***
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Can we PLEASE change how we talk about colorism??? | #TiTalks UNCENSORED
Here go my Patreon - http://bit.ly/nhjpatreon
Here go my Locals - https://bit.ly/communiTi
Here go my IG - http://bit.ly/nhjonig
Here go my bookstagram IG - https://bit.ly/3a0WBML
Studies mentioned:
"No Longer Invisible: Understanding the Psychosocial Impact of Skin Color Stratification in the Lives of African American Women" by J. Camille Hall - https://bit.ly/47E1qr4
"When an “Educated” Black Man Becomes Lighter in the Mind’s Eye: Evidence for a Skin Tone Memory Bias" by Avi Ben-Zeev, Tara C. Dennehy, Robin I. Goodrich, Branden S. Kolarik, and Mark W. Geisler - https://bit.ly/3OO4yb8
"Is facial recognition technology worse at identifying darker-skinned faces than lighter ones?" - https://ab.co/3KPDh7g
Ready for Revolution: The Life and Struggles of Stokely Carmichael (Kwame Ture) - https://bookshop.org/a/21601/9780684850047
Reparations Club, Black women-owned book store in Los Angeles - https://rep.club/
Black August primer - https://bit.ly/45Dk8ND
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Nose ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bdw24
Midi heart ring - http://bit.ly/2NY4UgZ
Index finger ring is by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79
718 ring - https://bit.ly/3Hjn2e8
Top - https://shopstyle.it/l/b0fF8
Overalls - https://shopstyle.it/l/b0fG9
Bandana is old.
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Makeup 411:
Lashes - https://shopstyle.it/l/bJuR6
Lip - https://shopstyle.it/l/b0fGc
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Camera - https://go.magik.ly/ml/13c7d/
Editing software is Adobe Premiere.
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***Please note that some links above are affiliate/referral links. If you purchase through them, it will not cost you anything more, but I may earn up to many cents for putting you on game to whatever item(s) you purchase. If you use ‘em, thank you for supporting me in trying to find ways to fund the content that I create.***
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Normalizing plastic surgery was a SCAM. | #TiTalks UNCENSORED
Here go my Patreon - http://bit.ly/nhjpatreon
Here go my Locals - https://bit.ly/communiTi
Here go my IG - http://bit.ly/nhjonig
Here go my bookstagram IG - https://bit.ly/3a0WBML
@withjustnolu's YouTube video "Being Ugly in South Korea 🇰🇷" - https://youtu.be/21Nn3uLPRmA
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Nose ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bdw24
Midi drip ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bCn8B
Skull ring is sold out.
Other rings by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79
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Lashes - https://shopstyle.it/l/88BW
Lip is a discontinued Sephora brand one, but I think "Sweet Raspberry" is the replacement shade - https://shopstyle.it/l/bWaqD
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Camera - https://go.magik.ly/ml/13c7d/
Editing software is Adobe Premiere.
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***Please note that some links above are affiliate/referral links. If you purchase through them, it will not cost you anything more, but I may earn up to many cents for putting you on game to whatever item(s) you purchase. If you use ‘em, thank you for supporting me in trying to find ways to fund the content that I create.***
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I know, another video about Ozempic... 🤦🏾♀️ | #QuickSip UNCENSORED
Here go my Patreon - http://bit.ly/nhjpatreon
Here go my Locals - https://bit.ly/communiTi
Here go my IG - http://bit.ly/nhjonig
Here go my bookstagram IG - https://bit.ly/3a0WBML
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Hoodie is old.
Nose ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bdw24
Midi drip ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bCn8B
Other midi rings are by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79
Two-finger ring is custom.
Amethyst ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bh30E
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Lashes - https://shopstyle.it/l/88BW
Lip is Pat McGrath Labs LUST Gloss “Secret Lover”
Direct - https://go.magik.ly/ml/1s3pi/
Bergdorf Goodman - https://shopstyle.it/l/bUhQO
Selfridges - https://shopstyle.it/l/bUhQS
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Camera - https://go.magik.ly/ml/13c7d/
Editing software is Adobe Premiere.
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***Please note that some links above are affiliate/referral links. If you purchase through them, it will not cost you anything more, but I may earn up to many cents for putting you on game to whatever item(s) you purchase. If you use ‘em, thank you for supporting me in trying to find ways to fund the content that I create.***
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Is Rihanna a HYPOCRITE (and also a WEIRDO) + Everybody Hates Chris (Brown)? | #LukewarmTi
Early and uncensored on here, before the YouTube world sees it! My Locals page is still loading but you can find it here: https://nappyheadedjojoba.locals.com/
Here go my Patreon - http://bit.ly/nhjpatreon
Here go my Locals (not launched yet, but fyi) - https://nappyheadedjojoba.locals.com/
Here go my IG - http://bit.ly/nhjonig
Here go my bookstagram IG - https://bit.ly/3a0WBML
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Sweater is old.
Beanie is old.
Nose ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bdw24
Necklaces where gifts.
Two-finger ring is custom.
Amethyst ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bh30E
Index finger and midi ring are by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79
Not linking the pinky ring because my purchase experience was a nightmare. Save yourself.
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Lashes - https://shopstyle.it/l/bJuR6
Lipstick is NARS “Dragon Girl”
Sephora - https://shopstyle.it/l/bS2UQ
Ulta - https://shopstyle.it/l/bS2UR
Nordstrom - https://shopstyle.it/l/bS2Wo
Bloomingdale’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bS2UO
Macy’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bS2UT
Neiman Marcus - https://shopstyle.it/l/bS2US
Space NK - https://shopstyle.it/l/bS2Wn
Selfridges - https://shopstyle.it/l/bS2Wl
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***Please note that some links above are affiliate/referral links. If you purchase through them, it will not cost you anything more, but I may earn up to many cents for putting you on game to whatever item(s) you purchase. If you use ‘em, thank you for supporting me in trying to find ways to fund the content that I create.***
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"Black Girl Magic" is over...and I’m glad. | #TiTalks
Here go my Patreon - http://bit.ly/nhjpatreon
Here go my IG - http://bit.ly/nhjonig
Here go my bookstagram IG - https://bit.ly/3a0WBML
2015 L.A. Times #blackgirlmagic interview with CaShawn Thompson: “Why everyone’s saying ‘Black Girls are Magic’” - http://bit.ly/3RaMGrV
Wayward Lives, Beautiful Experiments: Intimate Histories of Riotous Black Girls, Troublesome Women, and Queer Radicals by Saidiya Hartman - https://bookshop.org/a/21601/9780393357622
https://www.youtube.com/@DanielleYoungTV 👈🏾 on YouTube (since I briefly mention her 😅), and Danielle is on IG here 👉🏾 https://www.instagram.com/thedanielleyoung/
My Top 10 Faves of 2022, since on-screen cards are not a thing on Rumble 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/ChVr1nqFE9I
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Shirt - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWTw
Knife earring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bCb1i
Safety pin earring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bbVLt
Or here - https://shopstyle.it/l/bbVKD
Nose ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bdw24
Goddess Crystal Aquamarine and Midi Heart rings are by James Michelle - http://bit.ly/2NY4UgZ
Other midi ring is by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79
Not linking the other rings because the company was a nightmare the last time I ordered from them. Trust me on this.
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Makeup 411
Base:
Tarte Timeless Smoothing Primer
Sephora - https://shopstyle.it/l/1DMI
Ulta - https://shopstyle.it/l/1DKc
e.l.f. Halo Glow Liquid Filter, shade 5
Target - https://shopstyle.it/l/bKJqY
Direct - https://shopstyle.it/l/bKJpB
Boots - https://go.magik.ly/ml/1l07f/
@CharlotteTilbury Beautiful Skin Sun-Kissed Glow Cream Bronzer, 3 Tan
Sephora - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWUu
Nordstrom - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWVJ
Bloomingdale’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWUy
Saks - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWVM
Farfetch - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWUA
Direct - https://go.magik.ly/ml/1klcz/
#charlottetilbury Beautiful Skin Radiant Concealer, shade 12
Sephora - https://shopstyle.it/l/bOcP4
Nordstrom - https://shopstyle.it/l/bOcQc
Bloomingdale’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bOcQi
Saks - https://shopstyle.it/l/bOcQ9
Farfetch - https://shopstyle.it/l/bOcRe
Direct - https://go.magik.ly/ml/1nu60/
#roseinc Skin Enhance Luminous Skin Tint, shade 90 - https://shopstyle.it/l/bGgNS
@refy8199 Universal Collection: Gloss Highlighter - https://shopstyle.it/l/bN6EE
@tower28beautyofficial Beach Please Lip + Cheek Cream Blush, Golden Hour - https://shopstyle.it/l/bKIkn
@freckbeauty97 Original Freckle in “Freck Noir” - https://shopstyle.it/l/bOdmd
@Sephora Collection Microsmooth Multi-Tasking Baked Face Powder in “35 Bronze” - https://shopstyle.it/l/bN6EX
@guerlain Météorites
Sephora - https://shopstyle.it/l/0Qot
Nordstrom - https://shopstyle.it/l/5sow
Bloomingdale's - https://shopstyle.it/l/5sp4
Charlotte Tilbury Airbrush Flawless Setting Spray
Sephora - https://shopstyle.it/l/bzW49
Nordstrom - https://shopstyle.it/l/bKcia
Bloomingdale’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bKcgI
Saks - https://shopstyle.it/l/bKcgO
Direct - https://go.magik.ly/ml/1klcy/
Eyes:
#patmcgrath Mothership VI: Midnight Sun - https://go.magik.ly/ml/1qnlw/
Lashes - https://shopstyle.it/l/bP8Rk
MAC Extended Play Gigablack Lash Mascara
Direct - https://go.magik.ly/ml/msl9/
Ulta - https://shopstyle.it/l/0Qn2
Nordstrom - https://shopstyle.it/l/2NSF
Bloomingdale’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bedLB
Macy’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bedLx
Saks - https://shopstyle.it/l/bedLC
Brows are just my face tatts with @AnastasiaBeverlyHills Brow Freeze Styling Wax
Sephora - https://shopstyle.it/l/bCn93
Ulta - https://shopstyle.it/l/bCn9Z
Nordstrom - https://shopstyle.it/l/bCn92
Bloomingdale’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bCn9z
Macy’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bCobg
Lip is CT “Pillow Talk Medium”
Sephora - https://shopstyle.it/l/bfxPD
Nordstrom - https://shopstyle.it/l/bfxPy
Bloomingdale’s - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWV4
Saks - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWV1
Farfetch - https://shopstyle.it/l/bRWVZ
Direct - https://go.magik.ly/ml/vk9r/
Cult Beauty - https://go.magik.ly/ml/vk9t/
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Camera - https://go.magik.ly/ml/13c7d/
Editing software is Adobe Premiere.
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***Please note that some links above are affiliate/referral links. If you purchase through them, it will not cost you anything more, but I may earn up to many cents for putting you on game to whatever item(s) you purchase. If you use ‘em, thank you for supporting me in trying to find ways to fund the content that I create.***
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