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When it comes to your availability and time to do things with others, as a high value male you should convey that you are available but on your own time, respectfully. You're not the eager guy who just jumps through everyones hoops. You value your time and you take a moment to choose whether to be available or not. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialskills #datingcoachformen #socialdynamics #women

Consider opening the car door for your woman. It isn't something that is done often in modern day society, therefore will set you apart from any other couple. It's an opportunity to engage and enrich the experience with your woman. As well as, being a man who is willing to put effort into his relationship as opposed to being the average couple who just takes one another for granted. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #relationshipadvice #datingcoachformen #socialdynamics #women

Intermittent Rewarding is where you "pepper in" compliments, affirmations, and validation sparingly. Balanced with "peppering in" disapproval, challenges, and boundaries. A man who rewards everything is a man who is impressed by her. Why is he impressed by her, he just met her 5 minutes ago, how in the world can you be impressed by someone you know nothing about ... unless ... you are impressed by her looks, which only says that you have not dated a girl who looks like her, don't fuck yourself like that. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #compliments #datingcoachformen #women #boundaries

Developing sexual intimacy with a woman is all about mentally stimulating her and getting her in the mood. For men, it's usually just the things she's willing to do in the bedroom for us. Reciprocate her efforts with effort of your own, to be more romantic, to do a bit more foreplay, to sexualize with certain actions throughout the week, leading up to sex. These are the areas where we can put effort in for women. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialskills #datingcoachformen #women #relationshipadvice

A line that you could say to a woman you just met after she touches you is, "hands off the merchandise, that's $5 every time you touch". Playful lines like these where you paint yourself in a light of "I am the prize", are refreshing for her, because most men are supplicating, putting her on a pedestal, and chasing her for everything. Not men of The Dating Arts. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #havefun #becool #women

Men always say that they want women to be submissive. What you "want" is irrelevant. Both men and women "want" things and are always single. What matters is what are you going to offer. If you want a woman to submit, then the question is, what is she submitting to? Are you offering what's needed for her to be able to relax and not try to control everything. If you don't have you shit together, you better expect that she is going to take charge, but if you can "offer" the stability and worry free life because you have everything under control, then letting you take lead, makes sense. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #highvaluemale #socialdynamics #women #betheman

In order for a woman to be attracted to you, you need 2 ingredients. The first one is interest. Without her being curious or intrigued by you, nothing moves forward. You have to be able to peak her interest in how you choose to display and conduct yourself. The other one is tension. With tension, you demonstrate that you can handle any shit she throws at you, you can increase the buying temperature with a gaze or physical touch, and you show that you are willing to be disagreeable at times, to establish boundaries that are important to you. All things that will take that initial interest and move things forward into building a relationship. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #seduction #socialskills #highvaluemale #women

The only guy that matters is the one she wants and not the other way around. Many guys want her and are throwing this, that, and the third at her to get her attention, but none of that matters unless she wants you. So focus your energy on becoming the type of guy women crave. If you are "that guy" for her, who is there for her, keeps it real with her, and has her back at all times, you will be the one that she wants, not the guy who has all this material stuff to offer her, but can't be trusted to stick by her side. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingadviceformen #socialskills #highvaluemale #women

When meeting a beautiful woman and you escalate things sexually, be mindful of the social stigmas and perception that is created. Socially, quality women will not want to be perceived as "sluts" to their friends and family, due to the consequences of how people would treat her with that perception. Not showing awareness to this just makes you look oblivious and incompetent socially. Be mindful as you escalate things sexually, to preserve her comfort levels and not put her in a situation to be embarrassed in front of her friends. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #highvaluemale #socialdynamics #women #socialskills

Can you make your woman feel desired? Many guys will throw their money and status at women, and give them all these experiences. Of course, you should build up your wealth and become a powerful man as well, but their is always someone who has more, so how can you compete and set yourself apart from the average high status male. Learn to make your woman feel desired, become a seductive man who stimulates her mind and body, show her that you have genuine value for her. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #seduction #datingadviceformen #highvaluemale #socialdynamics

The traditional dating advice is to go on a date to get to "know each other". Which leads to these "interview style" dates, where you are sitting across from one another, and screening on the date. Men of The Dating Arts do things differently, we go on dates with women that we already confirmed "we like" and "they like us". We don't go on dates to figure that out, when that can easily be figured out in the first interaction. The date is simply a follow through that we have already confirmed that we like each other, and now we are choosing to spend time together. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen #women

The average guy believes in order to get a woman he must find commonalities and be agreeable, so that it is perceived as "we have a lot in common", therefore we should move forward into a relationship. The problem here is in the sub-communication, it is clear that you are being agreeable, that you are trying to "get her", and that you are fishing for commonalities, which all communicates that this interaction is very important to you, which also communicates that you aren't accustomed to having these situations happening based on your behavior, which signals scarcity in women, and is not attractive. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #women #dating #datingadviceformen #socialdynamics

While developing your game with women, prioritize your efforts into becoming impactful in winning her over with your mind. Set the foundation of the relationship to revolve around valuing one another for the way you think and the people that you are. Becoming effective in communicating this effectively makes you irreplaceable. If you aren't "selling yourself" and instead are "selling" all the external and material things that you can provide, then the value isn't placed on you, it's on what you can deliver on to give her an appealing "material reality". Instead, have her value you as an individual, before any of the material things. Those are just bonuses that enrich the experience even further. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #highvaluemale #datingcoachformen #women #betheman

Does your woman desire you? Does she get turned on by you easily? If not you need to learn to become a man who is desired and sexy. If the desire is high, the least amount of effort will get her turned on, as opposed to the average loser who isn't desirable and has to jump through so many hoops just to get her in "the mood". Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #relationshiptips #desire #socialdynamics #datingcoachformen

As a man in a relationship you want to bring security and safety to your woman. Whether it be in the "material" sense or "emotional". It's about creating an overall trend of uplifting each other and life getting better together. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #relationshipadvice #women #datingtips #socialdynamics

While out in a social venue where people are letting loose and having fun, it doesn't service you to walk around looking serious. Get good at smiling throughout your night. As you move through the room, it should be conveyed that you are a guy in a fun & carefree headspace. Smiling will do way better in starting conversations with people as opposed to initiating conversations with a serious facial expression. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #smiling #socialskills #highvaluemale #havingfun

While practicing your social skills, it's about becoming "that guy" as a way of being, as opposed to being a loser all week and pretending to be cool on Saturday nights. The way you should practice is being able to "turn it on", at any given moment. Any social interaction you find yourself in, do something you are working on, build momentum one interaction at a time, and become "that guy". Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #socialskills #datingcoachformen #communication

If you are diligent in preparation for the social interactions you intend on having, you will have an advantage over the guy who just "wings it". Sure you can still get it done "winging it", but at what cost? Can you have the same impact "winging it" as opposed to being prepared and knowing you're going to bring the heat! Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingcoachformen #relationshipadvice #women #socialskills

By not breaking rapport, you're leaving a lot of your power on the table. A good way to use breaking rapport is to redirect a conversation. If someone says something that you don't like, or the conversation begins moving in a direction that you don't want it to go, you can break rapport and start a new conversation thread. Having this ability sets the tone of a man who values and respects his own boundaries. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #boundaries #socialskills #datingformen #women

In a relationship with a beautiful woman, being able to share a wide range of thoughts, feelings, and experiences will deepen the bond and connection, due to the familiarity and vulnerability that the both of you are willing to communicate with one another. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingcoachformen #relationshipadvice #women #relationships

As a man of The Dating Arts, the women that we spend time with have a genuine desire for us. That said, a woman may not be accustomed to going there emotionally due to the men she has dated in the past. If her experiences with men is that all she has to do is simply exist and the man will go above and beyond to do anything for her, well why would she need to "go there" emotionally, not to mention if the guys behavior isn't doing anything to elicit those feelings. As a men of The Dating Arts, we take the responsibility upon ourselves to be the type of man that elicits those feelings, to "cue her" to engage in those feelings, and to ultimately set the standard of "this is the type of relationship we are going to have". Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #relationshipadvice #datingformen #women #highvaluemale

Learning to speak descriptively by adding imagery will enhance your effectiveness as a communicator. One way is to describe the visual aspects in your stories. If you take the time to paint a picture and personify something that you saw, it will convey the experience of said thing in the listeners mind, as opposed to just stating what you saw as a matter of fact, and leaving it at that. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #speakingskills #communication #conversation #datingformen

Being "sold" just by her beauty is the ultimate simp move, and what it communicates to women is scarcity in dating options. If you have dated 20 other girls with a similar aesthetic to her, would you be so impressed by her looks? No, you would be accustomed to beauty. Begin operating from that frame now, screen to learn who she is as a person, before you decide whether to move forward or not. Don't be "sold" by looks, have her "sell" herself beyond her looks, what kind of person is she? Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingcoachformen #women #dating #screening

Being a guy who is willing to break rapport with women already sets you apart most men who are "agreeable", because they are trying to "get something", and lack the personal boundaries and willingness to walk away that a man of The Dating Arts has. One thing that you can do with this is test her level of attractiveness for you. If you disagree and she doesn't really care, well that tells you she isn't really that invested in you. On the other hand if you disagree and she corrects herself so that things can continue moving forward, well now you know she is interested. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingcoachformen #women #dating #socialdynamics

To become an eloquent speaker of The Dating Arts, you can enrich your communication by incorporating more imagery in how you speak. One way is to describe how something feels on the body. If you can elaborate and specifically describe how something felt, you can take the listener to that place emotionally. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialskills #datingtipsformen #communication #speaking