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When it comes to setting up a date with a gorgeous woman you have been talking to ... The mentality is "Now!". Meaning, let's hang out now, today, tomorrow, 4 days from now tops! Not that you are needy or afraid to lose her, so you need hang out with her ASAP because you're afraid that she is going to change her mind, like a lot of modern day dating instructors and their students do. It's more ... I'm a man of action, I operate with a sense of urgency in every aspect of my life, I don't pussy-fart around, I make moves, I'm living in the present, I got to keep my focus on execution. I'm not concerned with 3 weeks from now ... I don't think that far ahead. So it's bringing that frame into your dating life and interaction with beautiful women. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingadvice #women #datingtipsformen #socialdynamics #selfhelp #alphamale

Interest from others can be created and isn't some random thing that is unpredictable. By doing the work to "be more interesting" in how you behave and communicate, people will be interested. Now the tools and tactics to accomplish this are far too extensive to go over here, and inside of TDA you are taught on how to do this precisely. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #savvy #datingcoachformen #socialskills #women #datingtips #socialdynamics

The average couple brings value to one another during the "honeymoon" phase, and then down the road into the relationship they take each other for granted. Keyword = Average Not men of The Dating Arts, we hold ourselves to a higher standard and will continue building our personal value as well as the value we bring to our loved ones. I suggest you do the same. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #selfhelp #diligence #datingtipsformen #highvaluemale #relationshipadvice #levelup

Meeting beautiful women at their work place, does come with some restrictions in how she can behave. She may have to keep up a front of professionalism, she may not be able to give her number out because her boss is watching, she may not have time because she is busy ... These are all problems for the average guy. These are not problems for exceptional men. Despite the "work restrictions", she isn't going to miss an opportunity to meet a great guy, if the opportunity presents itself. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingformen #socialskills #levelup #women #datingadvice #highvaluemale

If you are going to commit to becoming a social man of The Dating Arts, a really simple habit and skill you need to have down is, being able to strike up a conversation at any point, at any venue that you walk into. Nothing complicated, a simple comment and sharing moments with people will suffice. But can you do it? Or are you filled with anxiety to the point where you freeze to start an interaction. If so, you got to work past that. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #psychology #socialskills #women #datingcoachformen #networkingskills

When meeting a beautiful woman, you will eventually have to learn her logistics, to be able to determine what moves you can make, in terms of, whether or not she is available to go home with you that night, or whether or not you have the option to set up a date for another day, etc. One of those logistics is figuring out where she lives. Now, you can't just say "where do you live?". That's going to make her say "why do you ask?", because it's clear you have a reason to why you are asking. Rather you could make an assumption, and say "You look like you're from out of town?". That will give you the information that you need. She will respond with "Yes" or "No", and you can have her elaborate a bit from that point on, to gather better insight to what moves are available to you. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #psychology #datingadvice #women #highvaluemale #datingcoachformen

After you and a beautiful woman have established mutual value for one another. In other words "you like each other". You can now use tools like Future Projections, which is to paint a picture in her mind of a future where the two of you are spending time together. This allows you to get her in the headspace of thinking about spending time with you. It also allows you to simulate behaviors that you and her would do in those scenarios, so that you can begin the process of either rewarding behaviors that you like, and setting boundaries with the behaviors that you don't like. Allowing you to start sorting these things out early as you move into the relationship. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialskills #women #datingformen #communication #flirting #alphamale

When a woman says "I have a boyfriend", you can ask ... "What does he do for a living?". At this point she will likely throw out his title at his job. "He's a Chief Executive Officer". At this point you can say "Well that's his title ... what does he actually do, day to day?". You will find that a lot of the time the women won't have a clue what their man actually does. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #datingformen #highvaluemale #datingtips #highvaluemale #socialskills

While out in a social gathering, working on all of what you learned with The Dating Arts. It is important to remember that the focus while out is to DO and execute on the lessons. You would think that it goes without saying, but too often guys will stand in the corner too anxious to take action, and talk theory to make themselves feel like they are doing something. If you're out and you're just nerding out about your theory, whether with your wing, or worse, the women you are approaching. Then start practicing, keeping your mouth shut despite the urge to talk about it, and making yourself focus on the execution and actually DOING IT! Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingformen #socialdynamics #selfhelp #highvaluemale #psychology #women

Once you are at the point in interaction with a beautiful woman, where it has already been established that you guys like each other. You will need to find out her logistics to better understand your next move, in terms of whether you are going home together that night or setting up a date to see each other at a later time, or anything else in between. One of the things to figure out is "who is she hear with?", because depending on the relationships of the people with her, will impact her decision making process on whether or not she can just go home, the same night, with a guy she had just met, or perhaps she doesn't want that perception of her to be left with the people that she is with. These are all factors to consider when deciding your next move. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #leveluplife #socialdynamics #datingcoachformen #women #highvaluemale #seduction

When using fun games or tricks socially to wow people, or just in communication in general, make sure not to miss opportunities to make a moment out of it and make it memorable. It's not enough to simply do the thing, that's not where the magic is at. The magic is in your presentation, animation, and theatrics. This is how you get to add humor elements, create suspense, peak curiosity, and much more. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialskills #diligence #datingtipsformen #highvaluemale #levelup #women

The majority of people in social interactions are reactive. They have nothing planned, nothing thought out, and when people speak to them they just blurt out the first reaction that comes to mind. Calibration is to be more methodical and what appears as a reaction, is actually a well crafted and well thought out response to handle these moments. To take your social skills to the next level, you have to cultivate this habit of "thinking before you speak", otherwise you are at the mercy of whatever emotional outburst occurs in reaction to someone. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #datingcoachformen #women #socialskills #highvaluemale #datingadviceformen

As you move through your social interactions and level up your social savvy with the TDA tools provided to you. Naturally, you will run into someone who is a bit wittier than the average clown world individual. When these "battle of the wits" occur, the question will be "are you prepared?" Do you have tools like "The 5 Question Game" provided to you by TDA. Do you have some one-liner soundbites prepared for these moments. Do you have concepts like "Yes ... and" down so that you can use it at will. How well you do in "battle of the wits" moments, will largely depend on how well you prepared for it. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #datingcoachformen #betheman #socialskills #levelup #witty #socialdynamics

Microcalibration is to be able to respond appropriately to the various indicators of interest or disinterest a woman gives which lay beneath the surface. In others words, certain communication will be "said and done" in a way that is apparent and obvious. It's literal communication. What we are referring to with Microcalibration, is taking the scope and zooming it in on things that are "said and done" and reading deeper into it, to determine if it's interest or disinterest happening, to be able to maneuver forward. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #psychology #socialskills #women #datingcoachformen #selfhelp

When talking about your friends, it services both them and you to speak highly about them. Talking crap about your friends makes you look bad because it's distasteful and it opens up the door for assumptions to why do you spend time with them? What does that say about you? Edify your friends by talking them up, and conveying that for one, "you're the type of guy that won't talk bad about someone". Which is an attractive quality to have. On another level it looks good on your because "you have cool friends", and positive assumptions get to be made about you as to why "cool people, would want to hang out with you". Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #alphamale #datingformen #socialskills #women #highvaluemale #socialskills

In comfort building, dial down indicators of disinterest to a minimum. See, during attraction you are conveying that you are a cool high value guy teasing her and challenging her with your indicators of disinterest, because that's the kind of guy she is attracted to. She is not looking for "cool guy dickhead", which is why the initial signals of disinterest need to be dialed down to a minimum in comfort. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #savvy #datingformen #socialskills #socialdynamics #selfhelp #psychology

When building comfort with someone, whether it is a beautiful woman that you are spending time with or a new friend you are getting to know. A lot of it boils down to establishing familiarity. By choosing behaviors and language that you would do with close friends and family, you get to bridge the gap from stranger to building familiarity a lot quicker. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialskills #socialdynamics #datingcoachformen #relationshipadvice #datingformen #levelup

When deciding when to make the move on a woman. The correct answer is after she wants it. Don't be one of those guys who just pulls move out of nowhere and has no clue if it's going to be received well. You're setting yourself up for a lot of awkward moments with women. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #highvaluemale #women #datingformen #levelup #selfhelp #seduction

Developing a habit of releasing at the end of your touch, is going to aid in preserving and building her comfort levels. See, most guys will touch a woman and linger until she gets uncomfortable and has to push you away. To avoid making her uncomfortable, build this habit of having a dismissive touch. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #datingformen #highvaluemale #datingtips #datingcoachformen #psychology

When escalating things with a woman of interest, it is important to test for compliance along the way. You can't just ignore where she is at and steam roll to sex. Now when I say testing for compliance, I don't mean she is a little bit receptive. That's not ideal, she should be smiling ear to ear, enjoying herself, desiring for you to make the next move. That's how it's done correctly Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #preperation #diligence #datingtipsformen #highvaluemale #selfhelp #psychology

When interacting with a beautiful woman, and you have gone past the point of establishing value and creating attraction. There will be moments where she is giving you the indicators of attraction and wants you to make a move. Become the guy that makes the move without hesitation. The second you start hesitating, it becomes a bit more of an uphill battle. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #women #alphamale #highvaluemale #datingtips #datingadviceformen #confidence

One simple thing that you could do to improve your social skills is to change up the way you ask questions. Questions are plentiful in day to day interactions with others, and now when someone comes along they get to experience questions a bit differently coming from you. See the video for examples. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #boundaries #highvaluemale #women #datingtipsformen #socialskills #communication

Due to societal standards and pressure from peers, women often get judged and criticized for being "sluts". Due to this, women tend to avoid this perception socially. When you are seeing a beautiful woman and are inviting her to have sex. Saying it so explicitly will likely trigger her "I'm not a slut" social perception that she is looking to uphold. Which is why its a more comfortable experience for her, when you give her the plausible deniability of, "we're not having sex, we're just watching a movie", or whatever other activity you are doing. Both you and her know what "watching a movie" means. So it becomes this thing where you are more so sub-communicating toward sex, which is a much better experience for her. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #socialdynamics #datingcoachformen #women #socialskills #datingtips #selfhelp

After meeting a gorgeous woman of interest and value for one another has already been established, you will need to set up another day to continue spending time together. To do this effectively you have to figure out the logistics that you are dealing with before you propose something. If you don't find out details like what part of town does she live in, did she drive herself or with a group of friends, does she live here or is she traveling, etc. Then you won't have any intel to propose something that she would agree to based on her circumstances. You'd just be throwing out proposals blindly without gathering logistical data, and your effectiveness would be worse off. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #savvy #datingformen #socialskills #socialdynamics #selfhelp #psychology

Always "trying to get along" and having that be your "only move" is not a good position to be in. It's a weakness because you don't know how to be disagreeable. Now if you start introducing more disagreement, challenging her, and break rapport in conversations, you can now get the experience to get good at this. Only then is your "agreeableness" more valuable, because now you have a choice, and you won't agree unless you genuinely value whatever it is that is being presented. Follow us on IG: ▶️ https://instagram.com/officialwem?igshid=Y2IzZGU1MTFhOQ #preperation #diligence #datingtipsformen #highvaluemale #socialdynamics #women