POLARITY SQUARE: DIVISION AND UNITY
Process Group #11 - 2020 Shifts (June 14, 2020 - Visual Coaching).
We are in the midst of intense times. Our planetary collective is wrestling with hugely important topics of power, privilege, race, restructuring, etc. As a small group sprinkled across North America, we processed the Division/Unity polarity via a Polarity Square. Triggers galore with illuminating bits. Thanks all for doing the work!
Maps: https://flic.kr/p/2jcyaKp
Additional Links:
Free Process Groups and Visual Tools during the 2020 shifts:
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/communitysupport/
Free Recorded Visual Coaching Sessions with Christina Merkley:
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/free-visual-coaching/
Private 1:1 Sessions with Christina Merkley:
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/services/private-coaching/
Courses and Training:
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/courses/
Home Study Kits:
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/home-study-kits/
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POLARITY WORK: VICTIM & VICTIMIZERS
Process PopUp#6 - Pandemic Support (April 30, 2020 - Visual Coaching).
Our online Process Group is back! Still open for all (spread the word) however registration now required to keep container safe. What a powerful return we had ... doing mature examination and owning of the Victim/Victimizer polarity within us. So we can more skillfully and compassionately understand the victimizers outside of us too. Really important Inner Work for these triggering times. Get the map and do yours too!
Map: https://go.aws/2KSHTtG
Additional Links:
Free Emotional Processing Support During COVIC Pandemic - includes eBooks and 10 Visual Maps to do your own Inner Work:
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/communitysupport/
How to Be a Free Visual Coaching Volunteer with Christina Merkley:
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/free-coaching-covid/
How to Work Privately with Christina Merkley:
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/services/private-coaching/
Public Courses and Training:
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/courses/
Home Study Kits:
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/home-study-kits/
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LABORING of a NEW CIVILIZATION
Public Visual Satsang #49 on Thursday, September 1, 2022.
SUMMARY:
Satsangs are different every time. Lots of sweet support in this one, with back-to-back Self Inquires. Using the immediate feeling that is arising, to find the deeper treasure within it all.
1. Self Inquiry [Laboring of a New Civilization]: Karina, a forward Thinker and Do-er, is on the forefront of new energy and healthcare. At first, it looked like a lot of Anger was coming to Satsang to sit. However, after meeting that powerful emotion, it quickly shifted. To owning her power. As one member of a global, committed team. And to clean up the mess that being a usual but unusual Mom brings.
2. Self Inquiry [Speak Up Now Girl]: Jazz is back with another layer of Inner Child / Outer Woman work. Using Humble as a starting place, she found the positive flip of that polarity. A mass Orphan Rescue ensued, of many younger child parts who lacked voices while growing up. The beginnings of a new Inner Family structure of Inner Mother, Inner Father and Inner Brother, deep within her supportive AlphaMind.
3. Self Inquiry [Trust in the Universe, That I Am Guided, For My Highest Good]: Teresa was terminated from her multi-decade health support career last year, due to the Canadian mandates. She's now fully dismantling her home and belongings, including finding homes for her beloved cats. To set forth on a new, undefined chapter, possibly in Mexico. Watch as we hold space for her to feel her feelings, particularly Anxiety. And how the Light Beings show up, to accompany and radiate her way.
VISUAL MAPS:
A: Karina's Inquiry: https://flic.kr/p/2nLY61f
B: Jazz's Inquiry: https://flic.kr/p/2nM5vkC
C: Teresa's Inquiry: https://flic.kr/p/2nM3UQu
NEXT PUBLIC VISUAL SATSANG:
Monday, September 26, 2022, 12-2 pm Pacific Time
convert to your zone. https://bit.ly/3KVqnn1
To get ongoing logistics and reminders, one-time registration is here.
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/commun...
VISUAL COACHING WITH CHRISTINA:
Public and private options here.
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/servic...
LEARN TO WORK VISUALLY:
Of course you can! See SHIFT-IT School for upcoming events and trainings here.
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/courses/
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She’s Not Gonna Take It
I continue to offer Recorded Individual Sessions during these shifting times.
Sometimes I know these beautiful beings, sometimes I don’t. It’s always my honor, and education, to meet Consciousness through their unique forms.
Here’s another from my queue. Hosted on either YouTube or Rumble, depending on the nature of the content.
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SUMMARY:
Summary:
This Self Inquiry is with my dear friend Nancy (we were in grad school together at CIIS in San Francisco). I have a long queue in getting these videos out, so it’s at least a year old.
I like that some time has gone by as it helps with perspective – as we now have hindsight that we didn’t back then (or at least some).
Given the nature of this one, it’s hosted on my new Rumble channel (need just 2 more subscribers to get my official channel name, so do subscribe if you feel so inclined).
Nancy, a long-time American Democrat, lives in a seniors complex and is skeptical about the V. In short, she’s decided she’s not gonna take it, even though pretty much her whole family has (either voluntarily or in order to stay employed).
This video is a gift to be able to witness (wherever you personally stand on this loaded topic). Watch as we meet ‘going down the rabbit hole’, anxiety and historical trauma. Plus deep longing for enhanced awareness, activism and civilized discourse.
Another example of heroically meeting what is, through the lens of a fellow human being. As we witness this kind of deep processing, it ideally opens our Minds and Hearts to the oneness of us all. Or at least that’s my intent in holding space during these tumultuous times!
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VISUAL MAP:
Self Inquiry: She's Not Gonna Take It - https://flic.kr/p/2nHq9U7
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NEXT PUBLIC VISUAL SATSANG:
Register to get the Zoom link and reminders each month.
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/communitysupport/
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VISUAL COACHING SESSIONS:
Public and private options here. https://www.shift-it-coach.com/services/private-coaching/
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LEARN TO WORK VISUALLY TOO:
Of course you can! See SHIFT-IT School for trainings and study kits.
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/courses/
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Dark Night Of The Soul
SUMMARY:
00:00 MEET AND GREET: Holly Mae is a dear client and Starseed colleague. She comes with two big presenting issues, which we meet through the processing modality of Self Inquiry.
The first is a lot of understandable anxiety, fear and worry connected to the ‘planetary awakening’ and ‘ascension process’ we are all in the midst of.
06:07 SELF INQUIRY: DARK NIGHT OF THE SOUL: The second is how to function effectively in the 3D Matrix, and appear somewhat ‘normal’, lol.
Watch as we compassionately process her Dark Night of the Soul.
How Consciousness shows all of us an example of uncoupling from the chains of the past. Whether the chains are from our early life, the lives of our ancestors or the human race at large, or our multi-dimensional remembrances.
01:06:33 NEXT STEPS AND CLOSE: Namaste Holly Mae, thank you so much for your open and vulnerable processing. May all beings everywhere release chains, and step into joyful play!
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NEXT PUBLIC VISUAL SATSANG:
Thursday, September 1, 2022. 2 - 4pm Pacific Time.
Convert to your zone: https://bit.ly/pvs9122
For logistics and reminders, one-time registration is here:
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VISUAL COACHING SESSIONS:
Public and private options here.
https://bit.ly/sicpvtcoaching
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LEARN TO WORK VISUALLY TOO:
Of course you can! See SHIFT-IT School for trainings and study kits.
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/courses/
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Yikes, My Awakening Is Accelerating
Like many, Ingrid's awakening is accelerating. It's emotional and confusing for her Left Brain. Yet chock full of gifts and grace too. We discuss kundalini and recommendations (given I know that shakti). Then a gorgeous conscious inquiry with her innate wisdom. Deep survival guilt bubbles up to be met. Due to the tragic fate of her people. What an honour Ingrid. Keep flowing. All my relations. xo
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Polarity Squares: Vulnerability vs Security
Process PopUp#9 - Pandemic Support (May 24, 2020 - Visual Coaching).
As North America ventures out from lockdown the theme of this week was 'vulnerability' in its many guises. From a retired social worker grappling with being labeled elderly. To a biz professor wary of the actions of some in her state. To a teacher and administrator with a specialty in inclusion. I opted to use the Polarity Square technique to help us explore the full spectrum of the Vulnerability/Security polarity and its many riches. Fruitful inner work - thank you all for our insights!
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VISUAL MAP:
Polarity Squares: Vulnerability vs Security https://flic.kr/p/2j6Mmus
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PUBLIC VISUAL SATSANGS:
To get ongoing logistics and reminders, one-time registration is here: https://www.shift-it-coach.com/communitysupport/
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VISUAL COACHING WITH CHRISTINA:
Process one-to-one:
https://bit.ly/sicpvtcoaching
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Polarity Work: Victim and Victimizers
Process PopUp#6 - Pandemic Support (April 30, 2020 - Visual Coaching).
Our online Process Group is back! Still open for all (spread the word) however registration now required to keep container safe. What a powerful return we had ... doing mature examination and owning of the Victim/Victimizer polarity within us. So we can more skillfully and compassionately understand the victimizers outside of us too. Really important Inner Work for these triggering times. Get the map and do yours too!
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VISUAL MAP:
Polarity Work: Victim and Victimizers
https://flic.kr/p/2nFWxSG
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VISUAL COACHING WITH CHRISTINA:
Process one-to-one:
https://bit.ly/sicpvtcoaching
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Spirit Family Guides Lola's Elder Years
[Visual Coaching with Christina Merkley - 2020 #17].
Lola is a retired Canadian social worker. The pandemic honed her awareness about vulnerability, loneliness, sibling jealousy, and her role as an elder. What started as a Future Self journey morphed into a mediumistic dialogue with deceased parents and grandparents. Who offered perspective on repetitive generational patterns and the shadow work required to shift them. Thanks, Lola for showing how our deceased family can be wise allies if we are willing to engage them!
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VISUAL MAP:
Future Self Vision: Spirit Family Guides Lola's Elder Years
https://flic.kr/p/2jb3KLH
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VISUAL COACHING WITH CHRISTINA:
Process one-to-one:
https://bit.ly/sicpvtcoaching
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Painter Shifts From Doom to Liberation
Process Group #16B - 2020 Shifts (August 1, 2020 - Visual Coaching).
A usually upbeat American Visual Practitioner feels impending doom. Covid, BLM, mail-in ballots, social media, fake news, vaccines, misinfo ... boiling point. Watch her step-by-step inquiry, meeting all as it is ... including allies from below and above. Impending doom? Or could it actually be impending liberation?! Earth and Gut Microbes say "Thank the Lord someone is giving voice to that possibility". Just F'ing Paint!
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Sacred Marriage With The High Vibe Guy [Visual Coaching]
During these challenging times, my Seva is to help folks think and feel on their most pressing topics.
Pro bono, recorded, and shared. I offer Public Visual Satsangs (every few weeks) and Individual Visual Coaching Sessions (as my schedule allows).
Here is a Visual Coaching Session including summary, video, and visual map.
SUMMARY:
L.B. is frustrated and intense. She wants to show up in the world as the BEING she is. However, something inside is preventing her from doing so.
I pull out my Inner Alignment map. It's a good one for situations like this. Where one part of my client wants something to happen and another part doesn't. Split energy. An internal conflict.
She embodies the part that is interfering. It's her masculine "Inner Kick-Ass". A micro-managing part of her that analyzes and compares. In a cruel, cutthroat yet clear way.
Turns out underneath all that judgment is a soul who wants to change the world.
It's hard slogging for a while but we eventually mediate a truce.
Recognizing that this masculine part is actually a protector of sorts. Working hard to keep her authentic to quiet, tiny, cute, and weeny ways.
It got set up long ago at 8 with a mother who couldn't be counted on and too much responsibility at a young age.
We devise a new partnership of good vibes. A hieros gamos - the inner sacred marriage.
With praise, nurturing, levity, support, gentle encouragement, and baby steps. A whole new way of being together in the world, inspired by a remarkable Esalen couple who truly beamed love.
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VISUAL MAP:
Inner Alignment: Sacred Marriage with the High Vibe Guy
https://flic.kr/p/2kVj63N
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PUBLIC VISUAL SATSANGS:
To get ongoing logistics and reminders, one-time registration is here: https://www.shift-it-coach.com/communitysupport/
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VISUAL COACHING WITH CHRISTINA:
Process one-to-one:
https://bit.ly/sicpvtcoaching
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Polarity Square: Division and Unity
We are in the midst of intense times. Our planetary collective is wrestling with hugely important topics of power, privilege, race, restructuring, etc. As a small group sprinkled across North America, we processed the Division/Unity polarity via a Polarity Square. Triggers galore with illuminating bits. Thanks all for doing the work!
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VISUAL MAP:
Polarity Square: Polarity Square: Division and Unity
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PUBLIC VISUAL SATSANGS:
To get ongoing logistics and reminders, one-time registration is here: https://www.shift-it-coach.com/communitysupport/
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VISUAL COACHING WITH CHRISTINA:
Process one-to-one:
https://bit.ly/sicpvtcoaching
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Real News vs Fake News
Process PopUp#7 - Pandemic Support (May 7, 2020 - Visual Coaching).
Our examination of polarities continues ... this time the juicy territory of real vs fake news. Follow along as these courageous processors tackle controversial territory. Discovering many motivations are not only the same but honorable. The results - increased understanding and humility.
Well done and thank you crew.
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VISUAL MAP:
Polarity Squares: Real News vs Fake News
https://flic.kr/p/2iZeuzq
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PUBLIC VISUAL SATSANGS:
To get ongoing logistics and reminders, one-time registration is here: https://www.shift-it-coach.com/communitysupport/
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VISUAL COACHING WITH CHRISTINA:
Process one-to-one:
https://bit.ly/sicpvtcoaching
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Gen Y Starseed Doesn't Fit In
[Visual Coaching with Christina Merkley - 2020 #28].
So love working with young sensitives - 22 Year Old Miriam found me through Bridget Nielsen. Wanted help with her resistance to completing Yoga Certification. We packed A LOT into this session including Orphan Rescue, Future Self, Inner Alignment and Action Plan ... whew! Keep going sweetheart, the world needs more Medicine Women. xo
VISUAL MAP:
Inner Alignment: Gen Y Starseed Doesn't Fit In
https://flic.kr/p/2jD3avW
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VISUAL COACHING WITH CHRISTINA:
Process one-to-one:
https://bit.ly/sicpvtcoaching
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Pacts and Heads, Hearts and Galactic Family
We begin with ten minutes of Meditation to settle into Stillness. Next are Reports. Then our agenda organically emerges from the shares.
SUMMARY:
1. First up is Kathryn a busy university academic. Two recent evaluations have deposited her at 'not done enough' and 'pride of accomplishments'. We enter the polarity as a portal, to find the treasure within. We meet self-doubt, productivity, shine, make a mark, choice, privilege, honor and humility. Her heart and lungs hold the key of ease. More achievement to now be coupled with an easiness of sense of self. Yes, please!
2. JC had a breakthrough with her Future Self at last weekend's SHIFT-IT Retreat. Lots of naps, wild dreams and painting since. A new constellation is forming but it doesn't belong at work. Her Inner Toddler and Teen object, they want it tattooed on their arm for all to see .... visibility! No to loss of work and dubious success. A pact between the heart and head. Trust. Hush. We've got you!
3. Next is Jill (no notes). Since the Retreat, a Green Man has emerged. We do a quick journey to her AlphaMind for clarification. Her Star Woman Galactic Mind is there to greet us. Green Man becomes Galactic Dad. Star Woman becomes Galactic Mom. The other Guides recalibrate accordingly. Yes please to leaving the trauma behind and stepping into fun, play and visibility.
4. Laurie stays for Bonus Time. The injustices that she has witnessed as an indigenous student in law school have left her angry. She meets her understandable anger. Inviting it to enlarge and stretch into a lava leaking volcano. After it cools, from her mountain vantage point, she finds neutrality at those human foibles below. And asks this perspective to accompany her into her third year.
5. Ginette processed deeply at the Retreat too and comes for her next round. The CEO of a Foundation she's awaits her Board's decision about her role and the overall fate of the organization. Waiting is not her forte. Her Future Selves help with a stuck trauma. Which starts a vibrational cascade in her subtle energy field. Multiple griefs, that she stuffed in order to keep going, come up for processing. We begin the process of meeting them - a timely private session is already booked for next week too.
Thank you to everyone who came. To those that processed and to those that witnessed and held space. Good first co-creation of the year!
VISUAL MAPS:
41A: https://flic.kr/p/2n1ENAh
41B: https://flic.kr/p/2n1wx5k
NEXT PROCESS POPUP:
Wednesday, February 23, 10-Noon Pacific Time
Convert to your zone: https://bit.ly/ppu22322
All welcome, register here: https://www.shift-it-coach.com/
ONE-TO-ONE VISUAL COACHING SESSIONS:
Public and private options here:
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/servic...
LEARN TO WORK VISUALLY TOO:
Of course, you can! See SHIFT-IT School for live online trainings and our 8 Home Study Kits.
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/courses/
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From Stirred Up to Kundalini's Got it! [Self Inquiry - Christina Merkley]
New Rumble and Telegram channels to help folks do non dual Self Inquiry to deal with the censored topics of our time.
This Rumble Channel operates as a companion to my Telegram Channel. https://t.me/shiftitcoach
00:00 - WHY I HAD TO CREATE RUMBLE AND TELEGRAM CHANNELS: Topics are rising in my coaching practice that are not welcome on mainstream platforms. So I'm forced to create new channels where these controversial topics can be shared and processed. Hear what's happening and how I'm feeling about it. And how my Telegram and Rumble channels work together, on things I can't post elsewhere.
0:13:16 SELF INQUIRY: FROM STIRRED UP TO KUNDALINI'S GOT IT: I've been processing folks since the Pandemic started. Here I share one of my own Self Inquiries, from the British Columbia woods during Lion's Gate. I meet my feelings of being stirred up, aggravated and over stimulated. And out flows a reminder that Kundalini Process is at work. Not only within me but all of us. Grace is indeed on the case!
VISUAL MAP:
Christina's Self Inquiry: Stirred Up to Kundalini's Got It
https://flic.kr/p/2nDY8gm
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NEXT PUBLIC VISUAL SATSANG:
Process in a Group:
Thursday, September 1, 2022, 2-4pm Pacific Time
For logistics and reminders, one-time registration is here:
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/communitysupportt/
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VISUAL COACHING WITH CHRISTINA:
Process one-to-one:
https://bit.ly/sicpvtcoaching
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RECOMMENDED KUNDALINI RESOURCES:
Joan Harrigan - Kundalini Vidya and Stories of Transformation
https://www.amazon.com/Kundalini-Vidya-Science-Spiritual-Transformation/dp/0971012881
https://www.amazon.com/Stories-Spiritual-Transformation-Fulfillment-Kundalini/dp/0998467693
Two autobiographies of folks who were lucky enough to have their Kundalini Processes attended by Swami C:
Dani Antman - Wired by God (from Jewish lineage perspective)
https://www.amazon.com/Wired-God-Adventures-Jewish-Yogi-ebook/dp/B073XBRDZL
Kiu Eckstein - The Master and the Disciple
https://www.amazon.com/Kundalini-Master-Disciple-Report-Search/dp/1490340084
Bonnie Greenwald with Adyashanti
https://www.amazon.com/When-Spirit-Leaps-Navigating-Spiritual/dp/1684030765
And friend Ruth Angela's story - The Guru's Gift
https://www.amazon.com/Gurus-Gift-Kundalini-Awakening/dp/0984660410
My blog post - Kundalini: What It Is and Why It Matters
https://www.shift-it-coach.com/2015/09/what-kundalini-is-and-why-it-matters/
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