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Have you tried monk mode before? If so, let me know your experience, if you haven't, let me know if you plan to go into one. Do you think you could do it for a year straight? 😎 what is monk mode how to take back control over your life monk mode how to take back control of your life monk mode monk mode mania keep it simple monk mode monk mode when to go monk mode when to go monk mode the power of going monk mode monk mode challenge monk mode motivation Balance app with year free trial - https://www.balanceapp.com/ Unhook - https://unhook.app/ Forrest stay focused - https://www.forestapp.cc/ Strong app for recording your weight training - https://www.strong.app/ Have you tried monk mode before? If so, let me know your experience, if you haven't, let me know if you plan to go into one. Do you think you could do it for a year straight? I'm currently working on part 2 as the video just got too long I have a few other things to explain 😎 Monk mode is a period of enhanced focus, discipline, and productivity where you commit yourself to completing a goal. In monk mode, you take it upon yourself to adopt the isolation and self-discipline practices of monks. In modern times, being in a monk-like state has been made famous for self-improvement. What is ‘monk mode’? Monk mode is a term that was made popular by the online self-improvement community. Monk mode is basically a time of increased discipline, focus, productivity, living with intent, and committing yourself to a goal. Depending on your actual goals it can mean lots of things. A lot of people who do monk mode challenges choose to abstain from something they consider a distraction or vice, like smoking, eating out, drinking alcohol, or watching TV. Some people choose physical goals like being able to reach a new personal record on their squat or bench press, running a marathon, or finishing a challenging hike. Other people choose intellectual goals such as reading a certain number of books or doing a certain amount of studying. Language challenges are another type of intellectual goal people choose to pursue. Financial and business goals are also very popular for monk mode. Getting a new job, saving a certain amount of money, landing new clients, hitting a new sales goal, etc. Spiritual goals such as sticking to a certain regimen of meditation or prayer. Completing a fast or reading more scripture are other spiritual goals people do. Who invented monk mode? The late 2000s idea of monk mode Some say David Cain invented monk mode. He swears he didn't, but who cares. Monk mode is where you focus on a big goal for a sustained period of time with unusual intensity. The idea comes from monks The state of being completely focused on and only on the training. In monk mode, there are no women, no alcohol, no fun, ONLY training. The animal was going monk mode and therefore refused to be distracted, in any way, from his training. A mental state that allows the individual to assume control over his or her mental well-being and eventually augment his value in an attempt to revamp his living conditions. Every first week of every month I go into monk mode to elevate my consciousness. by WhiteMustang03 February 2, 2020 Flag Get the Monk Mode mug. Timecodes: 00:00 What Is Monk Mode 00:30 Rule Number 1 05:37 Rule Number 2 09:33 Rule Number 3 17:32 Rule Number 4 21:00 Good Luck With Your Monk Mode #monkmode #selfimprovement #redpill

Sneako banned. Should Sneako have been banned? Should Sneako have been banned from YouTube? What happened to Sneako? Why was Sneako banned from YouTube? Has cancel culture gone too far or was this a perfectly rational decision? Has cancel culture gone too far? or was this a perfectly rational decision? I would like it noted that I do not know if Sneako had been given any formal warning or not and if he had, it would completely change the situation for him and he would be at fault, if vice versa, and he didn't receive a warning, it would then be as if you were fired from a job suddenly and without warning which again would shift it in favor of him not being banned, if anyone knows this information please let me know. You may be wondering why this video is relevant to my channel, despite our differing opinions me and Sneako both want to help men in our own different ways, so it affects me and my niche to see that he has been banned as I need to know myself in the future what I can and cannot say. It also sheds a light on the male self-improvement industry which is always good for you guys to keep up to date with what is acceptable and not acceptable in this space and how you should view the opposite sex, not with anger or resentment, it just is the way it is, no one is really to blame aside for the changing of technology and the times. I personally thought and still do think that YouTube was initially created to give a voice to people without one and that it didn't matter what that voice wanted to say, that was the point of Youtube, but I do still understand that YouTube is a private company and obviously some of Sneakos ideas, not all of them, but a lot of them were, well, y'know, Sneako and potentially dangerous... and this will have had a negative effect on their YouTube's business and with their shareholders, and this obviously can't be negotiated, you have to keep shareholders happy. The main point though is this, if he is to be banned for spreading a certain message then other creators spreading the same messages from both sides of the gender argument should meet the same fate, there can be no cherry-picking due to them being larger creators or because of their gender and there needs to be a concrete set of rules within this relatively new space of the "manosphere" because, without one, people are just stumbling around in the dark not knowing what they can and cannot say. There should be no hypocrisy and very very clear guidelines that smarter people than me will have to come up with and YouTube needs to make up its mind on whether it truly is the platform to give a voice to the masses, that isn't censored like television or whether it is going to end up as just another streaming platform like Netflix which would be such a shame as what they have built is truly amazing, what are your thoughts? YouTube has joined Twitter and TikTok by banning streamer Sneako after he broke community guidelines. The streamer had 1.2 million subscribers before his channels were removed. 24-year-old Niko Kenn De Balinthazy, better known as Sneako, has been banned from YouTube for continually breaking community guidelines. Lately, the streamer had become infamous for his friendship with Andrew Tate and controversial comments on topics such as mental health. Sneako posted the email he received from YouTube on his Instagram to his 381k followers which confirmed his ban. The email read: “We have reviewed your content and found severe or repeated violations of our Community Guidelines. Because of this, we have removed your channel from YouTube.” At the end of the email, YouTube added “if you believe we’ve made the wrong call, you can appeal this decision.” However, it is not known whether Sneako plans to appeal the decision. Sneako’s response to YouTube ban Since his ban, Sneako has posted a link to a newly set up Twitch account, which already has 7.5k followers, on his Instagram. Today, (October 4) he followed up with another post captioned “I’m not going anywhere.” Nico Kenn De Balinthazy (born September 8, 1998 [age 24]) better known as SNEAKO, is an American YouTuber who is known for his commentary and motivational videos On September 15 2020 he uploaded the video "I have a confession... Cuties is my new favorite film"[8] where he professed his love for the French film Cuties directed by Maimouna Doucure, which repeatedly featured young girls twerking throughout the movie. He denied that the movie was sexualizing children. The video was mass disliked. Feud with Dangelowallace He visited Romania with FreshandFit and other youtubers, and also made an appearance on Emergency Meeting, a podcast that Tristan and his brother host. Andrew allegedly kicked Sneako out of the podcast due to him being 'a risk'. #sneako #sneakbanned #cancelculture

Practical advice. How To Stop Caring What People Think About You - using a logical method that will work if you put it into practice. A foolproof system to stop caring what people think of you, with some epic music to boot. Who in your life do you wish you could just say "f*ck off" to but haven't done yet, do it and get back to me it's great 😂😎 Social anxiety is more than shyness. It's a fear that does not go away and affects everyday activities, self confidence, relationships and work or school life. Many people occasionally worry about social situations, but someone with social anxiety feels overly worried before, during and after them. Comparing yourself to others and focusing on what other people think about you is bad for mental health. The happiest people don’t even think about others, they focus on themselves and being better than they were previously. If you find yourself spending mental energy on what other people are doing and thinking, make a plan to distract yourself, like watching a funny video or snapping a rubber band on your wrist. Redirect your thoughts Worrying what other people think about you can cause anxious thoughts, but it is possible to detach from them and treat them as just one possible source of information about what is going to happen next. Taking an experimental approach with your thoughts can be helpful. For example, if someone has a project deadline coming up, and they think to themselves, “My boss is going to think this is horrible. It is going to be humiliating,” but after analyzing this thought it can be redirected to, “Okay, that’s one possibility. Another possibility is that my boss will love it. Another is that my boss will have some feedback, but in the end, it will be a good project. Let’s submit it to my boss and see which one is the truth.” Keep a journal When good things happen to you, write them down. Every night, write down at least three good things that happened that day. Every couple of weeks, you will be able to go back and see all of the good things that happened to you while you were focusing on yourself and not worrying about how other people feel about you. Focus on yourself Take time to invest in yourself. Pick up a new hobby or skill that will make you happy. Consider where you want to be in five years and focus on taking steps towards that goal rather than being preoccupied with what others think about you. One of our more enduring social fallacies is the idea that what others think of us actually matters. While this notion clearly has primal evolutionary roots, its shift from survival instinct to social imperative has become one of our greatest obstacles to self-acceptance. Timecodes 00:00 Intro 00:10 Everyone is worried 00:58 Are people thinking about you? 01:58 Rational vs Irrational thought 03:10 Are people thinking the same thing? 03:55 The 0.1% don't matter 04:50 The Holy Grail 05:40 Use the knowledge 06:04 Outro #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalillness #mentalillnesssupport #StopCaring #WhatPeople #Think

Can you learn Chinese in 7 days? What's the difference between someone who can speak Chinese and someone who can't? The guy that can studied for longer than 7 days. Big shout out to me boy Zee for assessing me ! You can find the link to his fiverr page in the description. I'll meet you back here in six months 😂 Hope you enjoyed the video let me know how well you think I did and if you want to see more 7 day challenges, Xièxiè! https://www.fiverr.com/zeshanzahidd - Offers a range of high quality services from language learning to editing ! I highly recommend him i'll be staying on with him for six months learning more Chinese! Mandarin China / Official language Standard Chinese, in linguistics known as Standard Northern Mandarin, Standard Beijing Mandarin or simply Mandarin, is a dialect of Mandarin that emerged as the lingua franca among the speakers of various Mandarin and other varieties of Chinese. Timecodes 00:00 Intro 00:34 Duo Lesson 1 01:38 Skillshare 02:39 Reflection 03:08 Day 2 Reddit 03:24 Reddit Wars 05:28 The Reddit Comments 06:07 The Fake Post 07:18 Day 4 - 7 07:31 The Assessment 11:43 Reflection on the challenge #Chinese #Language #7Days

A hilariously/anxious journey through meditation to try and find some peace in this world of pandemics, war and social media. Honestly, meditiation WILL change your life i'm not joking despite the look of my face at every single point in life 😂. I hope this helps anyone who feels like they need it. If you don't hear from me I ran off to a monastery and became a monk and they're probably not allowed YouTube so sorry about that 🐒 Meditation is a practice in which an individual uses a technique – such as mindfulness, or focusing the mind on a particular object, thought, or activity – to train attention and awareness, and achieve a mentally clear and emotionally calm and stable state. Meditation is considered a type of mind-body complementary medicine. Meditation can produce a deep state of relaxation and a tranquil mind. During meditation, you focus your attention and eliminate the stream of jumbled thoughts that may be crowding your mind and causing stress. #mensmentalhealthawareness #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalillness #mentalillnesssupport

Alcohol Addiction - Overcoming addiction motivational video. For years I was an alcoholic numbing myself with poison so I didn't have to face the reality that is life, but... things change. What would you say to yourself if you could travel back to your younger self? What is alcoholism? Alcoholism is the most serious form of problem drinking at a level that causes harm to your health. It describes a strong, often uncontrollable, desire to drink. Alcoholism is also known as alcohol addiction or alcohol dependence. Medically, it’s recognised as a type of ‘alcohol-use disorder’ which can be treated. It’s different to ‘harmful drinking’ (another type of alcohol-use disorder) which is a pattern of heavy drinking which causes damage to your health but without actual dependence. Someone who has alcohol dependence will often place drinking above all other obligations, including work and family, and builds up a physical tolerance, meaning they drink more and more for a similar effect, and they experience withdrawal symptoms if they stop. What is alcoholism? Alcoholism is the most serious form of problem drinking at a level that causes harm to your health. It describes a strong, often uncontrollable, desire to drink. Alcoholism is also known as alcohol addiction or alcohol dependence. Medically, it’s recognised as a type of ‘alcohol-use disorder’ which can be treated. It’s different to ‘harmful drinking’ (another type of alcohol-use disorder) which is a pattern of heavy drinking which causes damage to your health but without actual dependence. Someone who has alcohol dependence will often place drinking above all other obligations, including work and family, and builds up a physical tolerance, meaning they drink more and more for a similar effect, and they experience withdrawal symptoms if they stop. Timecodes 00:00 Intro 00:21 1000 Days Ago 01:20 552 Days Ago 02:10 663 Days Ago 03:40 200 Days Ago 04:10 The Present Day 04:40 Alcohols A Bitch 05:59 Outro #Addiction #Change #YourLife

Tiktok will destroy our minds and our childrens minds if we don't do something. The social media platform is capable of decreasing your attention span, then serving content that capitalizes on that lack of attention control resulting in psychological damage, and dangerous circumstances. TikTok was named after the sound the clocks make as you waste your life scrolling through it. Delete Tik Tok before it deletes you. If you watched till the end give your answer to the question here 😎 What Is TikTok? TikTok is a popular social media app that allows users to create, watch, and share 15-second videos shot on cellphones. With its personalized feeds of quirky short videos set to music and sound effects, the app is notable for its addictive quality and high levels of engagement. Amateur and professional creators alike can add effects like filters, background music, and stickers to their videos, and can collaborate on content and create split-screen duet videos even if they're in different locations. Understanding TikTok Launched in its present form in 2018, TikTok joined the ranks of social media giants in record time. It had about one billion active monthly users worldwide by the start of 2021 and had been downloaded in the U.S. at least 200 million times, according to Wallaroo Media.1 Like all social media companies, TikTok has been the target of persistent if vague concerns about the potential use or misuse of the private information it gathers about its users. The difference is that a majority of TikTok is Chinese-owned. Viral challenges that contain harmful activities, and even movement disorders born of the destructive content format are becoming more and more common as over 4 billion social media users engage with these platforms for more than 2 hours every day. Tiktok is, by far, the worst one. Timecodes 00:00 Intro 00:38 TikTok Is Evil 01:25 Why is TikTok so addictive 03:19 Memory test 1 04:18 TikTok Is As Addictive As Gambling 05:01 TikTok Binge Of Hell 06:26 Memory test 2 07:50 Checking views 10:30 Why I Should Delete TIkTok #TikTok #DeleteIt #Now

"The Male Advantage" 1stman Book Review - In this video I discuss/review/delve into 1stman/Kris Sturmey's book "The Male Advantage", I give you a breakdown of each section, what this book has done for me personally, and give my recommendations on whether this book is for you, enjoy. Society likes men and women to believe that they are living on the same timeline. In reality, a man and a woman born in the same year will encounter completely different lives. Women will experience a meteoric rise to social hierarchy fame in their teens/early 20’s with little effort, whilst men of the same age will likely have to gear up for a decade of hardship. At the end of this decade, the man finally builds traction, only to be interrupted by marriage, fatherhood, and becoming a homeowner. All of which he runs towards with wide eyes and a bushy tail. Years later he comes to realise that he’s been living on the female timeline and chasing after feminine life goals due to society and the media’s narrative. He realises men peak later than women, but it’s too late to take advantage of. The end result…He misses out on the male peak; he’s married during the years he’s most attractive to women and every penny he’s ever saved has been spent on building a family rather than chasing his own dreams. In The Male Advantage, author and 1STMAN Founder Kris Sturmey, breaks down how to position yourself to live on a male timeline, how to navigate the roadblocks to a successful male life, and how to improve in various areas of life in order to align with the male advantage years. Men's lifestyle brand and streaming platform providing video content for the male market. Our YouTube channel looks at a broad range of subjects including podcasts with various experts, video features with influencers, men's lifestyles, men's health, testosterone, fitness, style, grooming, success advice, attraction advice, body language analysis videos, documentaries, live streams, and more. Our aim is to be the bridge between who men currently are and who they want to become. Have you read the book? Will you be reading it after this review? Does it sound like something you would enjoy? You may think from the title it is about something else, dont judge a book by its cover haha (anyone who did my vote on the community tab will understand this). I implore you to read it before you make any judgments, it's not what you think, it's brilliant and very well thought out. Enjoy! “A truly educational gem that all men should definitely read” “This was one of the most insightful and actionable guides to help young men navigate life to reach their full potentials” “Must read for young men ages 18-30” “I’m barely through the first couple of pages but the wisdom and gold nuggets are insane. It’s quite eye-opening. A must-read for every man” “One of the most important books I’ve read in my life” I'm not affiliated with 1stman but if you would like to buy the book here are the links: The Male Advantage Paperback Book: https://1st-man.com/product/the-male-... The Male Advantage Ebook & Audiobook: https://1stman.podia.com/ Timecode 00:00 Who Is 1stman? 00:30 Why Did I Need The Book? 01:25 What Is The Male Advantage? 02:08 Key Area 1 Mentality 04:43 Key Area 2 Execution 09:15 Key Area 3 Navigation 12:03 The Results/What Did The Book Do For Me 13:03 Do Yourself A Favour #redpill #1stman #manosphere

5 days of minimalism and Marie Kondo's life-changing magic of tidying up. The things you own end up owning you. It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything. A minimalist lifestyle involves living with fewer resources whether in terms of a house or possession. It is a part of the thought process how a person chooses to live with all the minimal things in life and yet be satisfied. A minimalist lifestyle is by no means a radical lifestyle but rather an optimal one. The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo | Book Summary | (With Bonus) Get the kindle version for Free when you purchase the paperback version Today! Do you find it hard to keep your house organized after numerous attempts? Marie Kondo is a Japanese organizing consultant and author. Her most famous work, "The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up" has sold millions of copies in over 30 countries. Marie Kondo's famous tidying up secret is the KonMari method. It is a method which is to simply discard everything first before organizing. Sounds simple? Yes, it is very simple but definitely not easy. "Rebound occurs because people mistakenly believe they have tidied thoroughly, when in fact they have only sorted and stored things halfway." - Marie Kondo This book is far more than just another book about tidying up. This book is about life habits, mindset and success. According to Marie Kondo, when your house is in order, your life will be much more in place. You'll be less stressed, less frustrated and much happier. Here is a preview of what you'll discover: The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up at a glance Why can't I keep my house in order? Finish discarding first Tidying up by category works like Magic Storing your things to make your Life Shine The Magic of tidying up Dramatically Transforms your Life Conclusion Final thoughts Bonus Scroll Up Now and Click on the "Buy now with 1-Click" Button to Download your Copy Right Away P.S. If you truly want your house and life in order, this book is definitely the right one! The Time for Thinking is Over! Time for Action! Scroll Up Now and Click on the "Buy now with 1-Click" Button to Have this Book Delivered to Your Doorstep Right Away!! What is the minimalist lifestyle? When you live as a minimalist, you strive to only use things that serve a purpose. It's about living simply and having only what you need to go about your daily life. For instance, some people may start a no-spend challenge or only fill their home with items they absolutely need. Timecodes 00:00 Intro 00:05 The KonMarie Method 00:40 Why Minimalize? 01:57 Day 1 Goblin Mode & Regret 03:17 Sparking Joy 04:00 Benefits To Mental Health 04:50 Is Minimalism Anti-Capitalist? 05:32 Day 2 - Tame The Beast & Books 07:44 What Are The Negatives of Minimalism? 08:36 Day 3 - A Win For Minimalism 09:40 Komono & Clothing 11:26 Being Strange 12:10 Fix Your Mental State 13:10 Kon Marie's Papers System 16:30 Breaking Free From Capitalism 18:06 Day 4 Am I Now Free From Minimalism? 19:39 Privileged 21:40 Outro 05:40 Use the knowledge 06:04 Outro #minimalism #slowliving #freedom

Wheat Waffles analysed, rated, and looksmaxxed my face, he went through my good and bad features and I looked into the evolution behind it which is very interesting, and discussed it all, enjoy. Black Pill Youtuber This is my experience/view of life being a "4/10", I would love to hear about other people's experiences, whether they are similar, different, etc. I also know that dating is significantly different for a man than it is for a woman. There is so much more I wanted to say but if I went into every variable the video would have wound up being 2 hours long so I'll cover what was missed/overlooked in future videos but the main thing I want you to take away is, yeah sure look your best, looks do matter, OF COURSE they do, but NOWHERE NEAR as much as black pill believes and do not think because you look a certain way you won't get the partner you want and just give up hope, I'm telling you it's nonsense, but also that's not to say you can put in zero effort in life and expect things,. Obviously, try and look your best but don't worry about things you CAN NOT change and never give up, work towards the BEST version of yourself, as that is all you can do, play the cards you were dealt, like a pro. P.s. The scale system doesn't exist, not as you think, it's just used to demonstrate a few things don't get hung up on some essentially arbitrary number. Hope you enjoyed it and remember, I've got large eye orbits, I'm watching you. Always. 😂👀 A video discussing the different dating pill ideologies, looksmaxxing from Wheat Waffles a black pill YouTuber and a discussion of the red, black, and blue pill. Timecodes: 00:00 Intro 00:25 A summary of the pills 04:08 Best Facial Features 09:00 Worst Facial Features 23:12 Looksmaxxing Advice 25:00 Should We Get Ourselves Rated 27:00 Outro #redpill #blackpill #faceanalysis

Redpilled meaning. Blackpilled meaning. What is the red and black pill dating ideologies? I will guide you through each of the pill's main belief systems and actions that it will have you take in your life and give my recommendation on which one you should take. I will be using the knowledge I've gained through my extensive research into each one and give you advice about which one you should take, and then ultimately give my opinion as to which pills dating ideology you should follow What is the red pill dating ideology? What is the black pill ideology? Should you take the red pill? Should you take the black pill? Which pill should you take? Should you take the red or black pill? Should you swallow the red or black pill? I will also discuss the different ways the pills could be perceived/interpreted by yourself and the world and how best to apply their ideologies to your life. Why you should take the red pill Why you should take the black pill Which pill should you take? The Red Pill is a collection of ideas encompassed by what its subscribers refer to as the "manosphere," a number of loosely-associated blogs that focus on masculinity and personal philosophy for men. Game is an adaptive set of social skills and best practices in navigating intersexual dynamics in a modern sexual marketplace. From the accomplishments of feminism to the dynamics of the modern dating market, Red Pill and the larger Manosphere claim that everything we have been taught about women, society, and seduction is a lie. Within Red Pill, the concepts of Alpha-Seed, Beta-Need, and the Feminine Imperative are accepted as gospel. Red Pill men are shown how masculinity is under attack, and are instructed to always maintain their Frame to avoid becoming the dreaded blue-pilled beta. Taking on the truths of Red Pill head-on to see if they can stand up to the tests of scientific investigation, rationality, and logic, Red Pill Ideology seeks to understand the underlying foundational beliefs and motivations of Red Pill men with the same thoroughness that Red Pill claims to understand women. Game is a craft that sets players apart from average men. Average men are everywhere. The average guy is overweight, underemployed, low-or-no education, rudderless and purposeless in life and love. Today's statistics show that women find only 4.5 percent of men attractive…attractive enough to initiate a dialogue with them. That 4.5 percent are the players. Their Game may suck, but they are the high-value men who women want to play with, and play with. The manosphere has its own distinct jargon. The idea of misandry (hatred of or prejudice against men) is commonly invoked, both as an equivalent to misogyny and as a way to deny the existence of institutionalized sexism. A central tenet is the concept of the red pill, a metaphor borrowed from the film The Matrix. It concerns awakening men to the supposed reality that society is dominated by feminism and biased against men. Manospherians believe that feminists and political correctness obscure this reality, and that man are victims who must fight to protect themselves.[26] Accepting the manosphere's ideology is equated with "taking the red pill", and those who do not are seen as "blue pilled" or as having "taken the blue pill"."The Red Pill represents a new phase in online misogyny. Its members not only mock and belittle women; they also believe that in our society, men are oppressed by women." In this final master-work of The Rational Male series, Rollo Tomassi breaks down the fundamental mechanics of Game, intersexual social skills, and the nuts and bolts psychology that makes it work. Timecodes 00:00 What are the red pill & black pill dating ideologies 00:30 What if the pills really existed? 01:37 The redpills dating belief system 02:36 The redpills main self-improvement pillars 04:58 The blackpills dating belief system 06:25 The blackpills self-improvement pillars 08:10 The dark side of the pills, smoking the redpill 09:00 Mainlining the redpill 09:40 The dark side of the pills, the blackpill 10:00 Smoking the blackpill 10:40 Mainlining the blackpill 11:30 Your greatest asset 12:05 Should you take the red pill or the blackpill? 13:20 My final recommendation 13:40 Anything worth doing takes time 14:40 Is self-improvement cope? 15:15 Outro, I got my face rated Blackpill The Blackpill is basically the ultimate and hardest-to-swallow Redpill. It is about realizing nothing matters and there is nothing you can do that will change anything, it deprives you of all positive thought and makes you want to get some sort of meaning out of this limited time we have. Basically extreme nihilism. That's why it's not called a red pill, since it's beyond that. The Blackpill ideology claims that physical attractiveness is the primary determining factor in dating and relationship success. #redpill #blackpill #dating