Asperger's Syndrome

Watch on youtube ► https://youtu.be/RwZ5uii6wiw While you're thinking of it, please share this video on Facebook :-) Be sure to smash the THUMBS UP button!! Subscribe and CLICK THE BELL to receive upload reminders More on Asperger's Syndrome: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYo2kVtNgdJCjMKatl3Hg_g I don't give advice, explicitly or implicitly. Rather, I share opinions and ideas from life experience and autodidactic learning. If you need advice, it is my opinion that you consult a qualified professional. #autism #aspergerssyndrome #highfunctioningautism Show notes: 1 difficulty fitting in with others 2 difficulty finding or keeping employment 3 obsessed with topic 4 repetitive 5 more common in boys camo 6 unknown cause 7 not totally withdrawn 8 body language is different

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View on YouTube ► https://youtu.be/feRn6kZpWNE While you're thinking of it, please share this video on Facebook :-) Be sure to smash the THUMBS UP button!! Subscribe and CLICK THE BELL to receive upload reminders More on Asperger's Syndrome: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYo2kVtNgdJCjMKatl3Hg_g I don't give advice, explicitly or implicitly. Rather, I share opinions and ideas from life experience and autodidactic learning. If you need advice, it is my opinion that you consult a qualified professional. #autism #aspergerssyndrome #highfunctioningautism Show notes: 1 Stay in your lane 2 Let the other person make the mistakes 3 Record yourself

View on YouTube ► https://youtu.be/mBdWVw7dYCg While you're thinking of it, please share this video on Facebook :-) Be sure to smash the THUMBS UP button!! Subscribe and CLICK THE BELL to receive upload reminders More on Asperger's Syndrome: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYo2kVtNgdJCjMKatl3Hg_g I don't give advice, explicitly or implicitly. Rather, I share opinions and ideas from life experience and autodidactic learning. If you need advice, it is my opinion that you consult a qualified professional. #autism #aspergerssyndrome #highfunctioningautism Show notes: 1. Prioritize assertiveness rather than submission Lean into it 2. Prioritize your interest over their selfishness 3. Prioritize composure over chaos Look for theatrics 4. Prioritize reality over NT illusions Look for traits 5. Prioritize the spotlight over negligence Exposure destroys narcissism 6 Prioritize control over manipulation 7 Prioritize security over sensitivity Confidence 8 Prioritize victory over victimhood Purpose to win Lean into it; don't shy away

Watch on YouTube ► https://youtu.be/V-Xbo4stHHI 1. Alternatives are worse 2. Risk of rejection - who cares? 3. Control 4. Mood enhancement of others 5. Words on a screen can be misleading Words you say can be misleading 6. Practice talking Become a voice actor

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View on YouTube ► https://youtu.be/nNAM9Lhve6g While you're thinking of it, please share this video on Facebook :-) Be sure to smash the THUMBS UP button!! Subscribe and CLICK THE BELL to receive upload reminders More on Asperger's Syndrome: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYo2kVtNgdJCjMKatl3Hg_g I don't give advice, explicitly or implicitly. Rather, I share opinions and ideas from life experience and autodidactic learning. If you need advice, it is my opinion that you consult a qualified professional. #autism #aspergerssyndrome #highfunctioningautism Show notes: 1 you're wrong 2 what if alternate plan; idea 3 none of your business "That's private," "I'd rather not discuss that," or "That's personal information." 4 why? Why do you ask Why do you want to do that 5 are you a narcissist? (or being a narcissist) 6 no Money, favors, rides 7 nothing short phrases that empower you, disempower narcissist marketing strategy

Watch on YouTube ► https://youtu.be/kvf-FpLU7co While you're thinking of it, please share this video on Facebook :-) Be sure to smash the THUMBS UP button!! Subscribe and CLICK THE BELL to receive upload reminders More on Asperger's Syndrome: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYo2kVtNgdJCjMKatl3Hg_g I don't give advice, explicitly or implicitly. Rather, I share opinions and ideas from life experience and autodidactic learning. If you need advice, it is my opinion that you consult a qualified professional. #autism #aspergerssyndrome #highfunctioningautism Show notes: 1 Call out their behavior But don't copy (aside from sarcasm) 2 Disengage no "combacks" 3 Don't go back They exploit vulnerability 4 Agree using sarcasm 5 Question yourself 6 Don't sweat (keep calm)

YouTube link ► https://youtu.be/d61m7t9rfmw https://www.businessinsider.com/infographic-the-odds-of-being-alive-2012-6 While you're thinking of it, please share this video on Facebook :-) Be sure to smash the THUMBS UP button!! Subscribe and CLICK THE BELL to receive upload reminders More on Asperger's Syndrome: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYo2kVtNgdJCjMKatl3Hg_g I don't give advice, explicitly or implicitly. Rather, I share opinions and ideas from life experience and autodidactic learning. If you need advice, it is my opinion that you consult a qualified professional. #autism #aspergerssyndrome #highfunctioningautism Show notes: 1 Belittlement: remind you of your flaws Exaggeration; salad-bar thinking Make you feel unimportant Invalidation vs affirmation one in 400 quadrillion 1/20,000 odds of parents meeting add your grandparents all the way back to Adam and Eve 1 in 10 / 45,000 1 in 10 / 2,685,000 power (universe 10 / 80th power) 2 Accuse others (specific failures) I am not the cause of your ineptitude 3 Blame shifting (culmination of failures) I didn't do it 4 Uncooperative Passive aggressive 5 Live in a self-made reality King or queen of the universe 6 Dominated by emotions problems will never solve because they never address the cause Create truth God complex Temperment explosion

Watch on YouTube ► https://youtu.be/fOLzrc8D-rY 6 questions Aspies need to answer Mindfulness 1 Are you reasonable as opposed to reactive 2 Are you self-constructive or self destructive 3 Are you confident or apprehensive Competence follows confidence 4 Are you consistent in relationships or invalidate others 5 Do you need validation or can you self-validate 6 Do you communicate or disassociate Take care of yourself

While you're thinking of it, please share this video on Facebook :-) Be sure to smash the THUMBS UP button!! Subscribe and CLICK THE BELL to receive upload reminders More on Asperger's Syndrome: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYo2kVtNgdJCjMKatl3Hg_g I don't give advice, explicitly or implicitly. Rather, I share opinions and ideas from life experience and autodidactic learning. If you need advice, it is my opinion that you consult a qualified professional. #autism #aspergerssyndrome #highfunctioningautism Show notes: The power of loneliness Be alone sympathetic nervous system: fight or flight parasympathetic nervous system: rest and digest 1. Alone time increases empathy. groups are us vs them 2. Solitude increases productivity. count money / turn off the car radio Home schools 3. Solitude sparks creativity. artist like to be alone Ian Fleming James Bond, 007 Jamaica no windows 4. Less depressed people avoid rejection 5. Avoid destructive social skills 6. Find your voice Discover self-reliance

YouTube link https://youtu.be/YOlFQGTfUFE While you're thinking of it, please share this video on Facebook :-) Be sure to smash the THUMBS UP button!! Subscribe and CLICK THE BELL to receive upload reminders More on Asperger's Syndrome: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYo2kVtNgdJCjMKatl3Hg_g I don't give advice, explicitly or implicitly. Rather, I share opinions and ideas from life experience and autodidactic learning. If you need advice, it is my opinion that you consult a qualified professional. #autism #aspergerssyndrome #highfunctioningautism Show notes: 1 Can't outperform your thoughts stop thinking 2 Above all else, guard your mind your thoughts, for everything you do flows from it. 3 turn around weak thoughts 4 land of Giants / their weaknesses are my strengths What are your strengths What are your weaknesses 5 go against the hiveMIND bad thoughts are contagious 6 Replace fears with thoughts defeated by weak thinking Acting out (meltdowns) intimacy vs vulnerability independence vs security conflicts create solutions What I eat today, I wear tomorrow What I do today, I feel tomorrow 7 Don't fret, where are you Not what you had, but what you have Not where you were, but where you are

The first thing a narcissist typically does is engage in love bombing, showering you with excessive affection to establish a bond. To avoid being love-bombed, it's crucial to take control of the situation from the start. When encountering someone new, seize the initiative to maintain control, as narcissists thrive on having control. By asserting yourself early on, you reduce the narcissist's chance of gaining control over you. While this approach isn't foolproof, it often deters narcissists who prefer easier targets. Finding your tribe or group is another effective strategy. Human nature inclines us to gravitate towards those similar to us, forming tribes based on shared interests or affiliations. However, be cautious as vulnerable groups, particularly those emphasizing altruism or empathy like religious organizations, may attract narcissists who mimic group members' behaviors to blend in. Joining such groups enables you to discern genuine members from potential narcissists. Additionally, don't expect narcissists to openly dislike you, as they maintain a facade to uphold their image. Instead, they may subtly manipulate situations to their advantage. Stay vigilant and genuine, as narcissists despise authenticity and prefer easy targets. By being honest and assertive, you deter narcissists and maintain control over your interactions, making you less susceptible to manipulation. Remember, narcissists seek effortless ego boosts, so refusing to engage in their manipulative tactics prevents them from targeting you effectively.

Watch on YouTube ► https://youtu.be/AIjMni_rZf0 While you're thinking of it, please share this video on Facebook :-) Be sure to smash the THUMBS UP button!! Subscribe and CLICK THE BELL to receive upload reminders More on Asperger's Syndrome: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYo2kVtNgdJCjMKatl3Hg_g I don't give advice, explicitly or implicitly. Rather, I share opinions and ideas from life experience and autodidactic learning. If you need advice, it is my opinion that you consult a qualified professional. #autism #aspergerssyndrome #highfunctioningautism Show notes: Five indications you are REALLY hurting The sisuphean cycle si suh fuhs 1 Push others away: • Remove the source of pain: others. • Need for control. • Onslaught of incursion on personal boundaries from others. • Signals a need for mindfulness. 2 Pull away from others: • Avoid triggers. • No problem with a hot iron; just don't to touch it. • Represents a protective measure to prevent further hurt. • Signals a need for understanding. 3 Apologetic: • View self as the source of the pain. • Guilt, fear of criticism, and self-doubt. • Begging for acceptance • Signals a lack of self-confidence. 4 People-Pleasing: • Attempt to undermine or avoid rejection. • Stemming from past experiences of disrespect. • Expecting reciprocation. • Singals a need for respect in the face of rejection 5 Vigilant to a fault: • State of full alert. • Seeing a lion behind ever bush • Result of perpetual, real life abuse • Stress hormone called cortisol Anxiety. Depression. Digestive problems. Headaches. Muscle tension and pain. Heart disease, heart attack, high blood pressure and stroke. Sleep problems. Weight gain. Problems with memory and focus. • Singals a need for acceptance

YouTube ► https://youtu.be/wDVbU1oBBlA While you're thinking of it, please share this video on Facebook :-) Be sure to smash the THUMBS UP button!! Subscribe and CLICK THE BELL to receive upload reminders More on Asperger's Syndrome: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYo2kVtNgdJCjMKatl3Hg_g I don't give advice, explicitly or implicitly. Rather, I share opinions and ideas from life experience and autodidactic learning. If you need advice, it is my opinion that you consult a qualified professional. #autism #aspergerssyndrome #highfunctioningautism Show notes: Reasons Aspies are so strong 1 Detachment perspective Eagle vs crow 2 Expanded comfort zone 3 Self-awareness 4 Learn from mistakes 5 Materialism follows morality 6 Copability: ability to cope with negative emotions 7 Reason from reality tie together healed wounds grow stronger

Watch on YouTube ► https://youtu.be/-6yaXp9Dn6s While you're thinking of it, please share this video on Facebook :-) Be sure to smash the THUMBS UP button!! Subscribe and CLICK THE BELL to receive upload reminders More on Asperger's Syndrome: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYo2kVtNgdJCjMKatl3Hg_g I don't give advice, explicitly or implicitly. Rather, I share opinions and ideas from life experience and autodidactic learning. If you need advice, it is my opinion that you consult a qualified professional. #autism #aspergerssyndrome #highfunctioningautism Show notes: 1 Silence allows us to notice what others miss 2 Silence allows us to listen It allows you to listen You are the artist. What are drawing? 3 Silence allows us to focus Drive with the radio on 4 Silence allows us to form a sense of direction 5 Silence allows us to see opportunity 6 Silence allows us to see danger 7 Silence allows us to hear our inner dialogue 8 Silence allows us to show others how to listen

Here's a sample of what you are about to enjoy... Ultimately, who wields authority over your cognition? Who reigns supreme over your thoughts? One might argue that we, as individuals, hold dominion over our thoughts. Yet, consider this: someone utters a remark, implanting a notion within our minds, or we witness something, unable to erase it from our memory. These external stimuli mold our thoughts, beyond our control. Perhaps our extensive life experiences, spanning decades, further shape our cognitive landscape, each encounter leaving an indelible mark. These thoughts, akin to a hive mind, possess a life of their own. They belong to a collective consciousness, akin to ants returning to their hive. Yet, we need not permit them to linger. Like an unwelcome ant intruding upon our sanctuary, we must dispatch these thoughts, lest they attract more of their kind, overwhelming us. Some individuals, knowingly or unknowingly, deposit thoughts into our minds, intentionally or unintentionally inflicting harm. However, our power lies in our response. We need not dwell upon these intruding thoughts. Instead, we possess the ability to brush them aside, maintaining a pristine mental landscape. Principle one: once heard or seen, thoughts cannot be erased. However, we can redirect our focus, refusing to dwell on them. Principle two: dwelling on thoughts leads to internalization. Principle three: internalized thoughts shape our being. Therefore, by controlling our thoughts, we shape our destiny. Consider the influence of external sources on our thinking. Whether deliberate or inadvertent, they wield power over our minds. Yet, we need not succumb to their influence. Instead, we must reclaim control over our thoughts, guiding them towards positive trajectories. We must acknowledge the reality of external influences while refusing to allow them to dictate our self-perception. Each negative thought harbors the potential to burgeon into a mental monster, distorting our reality. By confronting and displacing these thoughts, we regain mastery over our minds. So, I implore you: reflect upon the thoughts occupying your mind. Are they empowering or debilitating? By subscribing to a mindset of empowerment, we chart a course towards self-actualization.

https://youtu.be/6xveTj-S3hQ?si=aABYets5MKDvXgBa Individuals with autism may be targeted by manipulative individuals, referred to as "Sportsmen" or "Hunters," who seek to exploit their vulnerabilities for personal gain and ego boost. It's crucial not to take such attacks personally, understanding that the predator's actions are not specifically targeted at the individual but rather at exploiting any vulnerable target. Reactive responses to provocation only serve to feed the predator's ego and validate their behavior. Instead, a tactical retreat is advised, refusing to engage in the expected response. By regulating self-talk and maintaining a sense of self-worth, individuals can establish boundaries and prevent predators from encroaching upon their territory. Tactics such as documenting offenses and remaining silent in the face of provocation can be effective in exposing the predator's true intentions and undermining their smear campaigns. Ultimately, the key is to stay in one's lane, allowing the predator to make mistakes and revealing their true nature without reacting impulsively or emotionally.

Out class How to and probably already do 1 You look like you Nothing superficial 2 You're a straight talker shoot from the hip 3 You know when to be quiet 4 You're strong and resillient (by life) 5 You are independent 6 You dont't confuse confidence with pride 7 You are considerate 8 You're seldom lazy 9 You control yourself Tie together: You think

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While you're thinking of it, please share this video on Facebook :-) Be sure to smash the THUMBS UP button!! Subscribe and CLICK THE BELL to receive upload reminders More on Asperger's Syndrome: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYo2kVtNgdJCjMKatl3Hg_g I don't give advice, explicitly or implicitly. Rather, I share opinions and ideas from life experience and autodidactic learning. If you need advice, it is my opinion that you consult a qualified professional. #autism #aspergerssyndrome #highfunctioningautism Show notes: Boost brainpower and IQ Consider the Flynn effect: global IQ decline despite technological advances Correlation between obesity and decreased intelligence Focus on consuming real, nourishing food to enhance mental acuity Study successful individuals' behaviors Combat manipulation by practicing positive self-talk Exercise mental resilience by letting go of past doubts and regrets Use game theory to anticipate and counter adverse behavior Prioritize physical health through exercise and a balanced diet Embrace knowledge, understanding, and wisdom to navigate interactions with narcissists Reflect on life's true priorities to leave a meaningful legacy

Watch on youtube ► https://youtu.be/feyANDgIdns The pressure to justify every personal decision can be exhausting. The pressure to obsess over minor irritations can build up over time. The pressure to cling to outdated self-perceptions can be constraining. The pressure to always agree/disagree is disingenuous. The pressure to seek quick solutions can lead to impulsive decisions and regrets. The pressure to maintain flawless appearances can create feelings of inadequacy. The pressure to engage in smear campaigns can harm relationships and reputations. The pressure to constantly working can be overwhelming. The pressure to accept unsolicited opinions can feel invasive and frustrating. The pressure to respond impulsively can escalate tensions unnecessarily. The pressure to desire unanimous approval can lead to self-doubt and insecurity. The pressure to keep up with other people's agendas can cause stress and anxiety. The pressure to constantly watch the news can be wasteful. The pressure to meticulously overstrategize every aspect of life can be stifling. The pressure to remain in a ditch can seem counterproductive. While you're thinking of it, please share this video on Facebook :-) Be sure to smash the THUMBS UP button!! Subscribe and CLICK THE BELL to receive upload reminders More on Asperger's Syndrome: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYo2kVtNgdJCjMKatl3Hg_g I don't give advice, explicitly or implicitly. Rather, I share opinions and ideas from life experience and autodidactic learning. If you need advice, it is my opinion that you consult a qualified professional. #autism #aspergerssyndrome #highfunctioningautism Show notes:

https://youtu.be/jZ5y6JSR7tw While you're thinking of it, please share this video on Facebook :-) Be sure to smash the THUMBS UP button!! Subscribe and CLICK THE BELL to receive upload reminders More on Asperger's Syndrome: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYo2kVtNgdJCjMKatl3Hg_g I don't give advice, explicitly or implicitly. Rather, I share opinions and ideas from life experience and autodidactic learning. If you need advice, it is my opinion that you consult a qualified professional. #autism #aspergerssyndrome #highfunctioningautism Show notes: • Negative self-assessment often stems from internalized assessments from others rather than being self-generated. • Potential follows perception; negative self-perception can limit one's potential. • Having direction and control is essential for personal growth and success. • Immersing oneself in a positive social environment can influence self-perception and behavior positively. • Learning to program oneself is crucial; otherwise, others will influence and shape one's beliefs and actions. • Resisting the gravitational pull of negative influences requires creating and maintaining positive habits. • Self-belief and self-perception significantly impact behavior and outcomes in life. • It's essential to recognize that others' opinions of us are relative and not necessarily reflective of reality. • Continuous self-awareness and effort are needed to overcome negative self-perception and thrive. 1 Negative self-assessment not worthy, not deserving, not likable is it really "self" (VICARIOUS) alone in the jungle 2 Potential follows perception 3 You need to have direction and control Drive a car without the steering wheel 4 Immerse yourself in the environment Hang out with; birds of a feather vs wrong crowd 5 Program yourself, not others change yourself; not others back to the driving analogy: you steer your car 6 Default is others (gravity) If you're not flying, you're crashing Driven by their program 7 Create habits

In just a moment, I'm going to tell you how I get around shaking people's hands. We'll tie all these things together. We've got six of them and that will bring it all together. But what we're talking about are non-verbal cues. Why? Well, because people with autism were non-verbal cue challenged. Those who live in the neurotypical hive mind, they're really good at these things and they don't even know it. They're communicating one with another subtly, subliminally, and they don't even know they're communicating. But we see them communicating and we can't communicate, so it becomes very obvious to us because we don't understand it. We're left out of the cold, so to speak. So let's talk about these six things and see if it can't help us a little bit understand what they are saying and how they are communicating. The first thing has to do with eye contact. I don't like to make eye contact. I don't even like to look at a photograph in the eye, which seems kind of silly, but I don't. But what if instead of looking at a person's eye, what you're doing is you're checking to see the size of their pupil, the pupil of their eye. Is it big or is it small? And if it's big or if it's small, that tells us something. Now, that's kind of a little trick, a hack, to look somebody in the eye without actually the discomfort of looking them in the eye, because in a sense you're not. I mean, you're looking at their eye, not in their eye. So you're looking at their eyes so you can tell what they're thinking, how big their pupil is, not how light or dark it is.

1. Social Introverts “a preference for socializing with small groups instead of large ones. Or sometimes, it’s a preference for no group at all—solitude.” Outgoing, yet private. Prefer a few close friends. 2. Introspective Introverts (thinking) “I generally pay attention to my inner feelings.” Daydreamers; may socialize a bit 3. Anxious/shy I like to slow down and take things easy.” crave solitude, not comfortable in groups 4. Restrained Introverts / shy or anxious I like to slow down and take things easy.” 5. Introverts Who Like to Think Things Through “I don’t take risks unless I’ve done some careful research or evaluation first.” 6. Introverts Who Do Not Want Too Much Stimulation https://youtu.be/fRQx9w49L6A While you're thinking of it, please share this video on Facebook :-) Be sure to smash the THUMBS UP button!! Subscribe and CLICK THE BELL to receive upload reminders More on Asperger's Syndrome: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYo2kVtNgdJCjMKatl3Hg_g I don't give advice, explicitly or implicitly. Rather, I share opinions and ideas from life experience and autodidactic learning. If you need advice, it is my opinion that you consult a qualified professional. #autism #aspergerssyndrome #highfunctioningautism Show notes: