Childhood traumas affects for Life

Traumas that we experienced during a early years in this realm affect us for life. We have to be constantly acknowledging that our feelings and behavior towards others are rooted in our childhood's experiences.
I used the Stoic philosophy to analyze how we can manage those feelings that surface when we encouter situations or people who reminded us of traumas that we experienced. Sometimes it is very subtle and we don't know why we are feeling that way we do. We attribute it to the current situation. At times these situations might be similar but they are not the same. How we handle them indicates our spiritual growth.