I Keep Comparing Guys to my Ex!

2 years ago

Question:

After calling off my wedding and breaking off a six-year relationship, it took a lot of time to heal. A full year later I have felt ready and excited to start dating. I downloaded some apps and have started talking to men but I am finding myself comparing all of them to my ex. They either don’t remind me enough of him so it makes me scared to go further or they remind me to much of him and I can’t decide if that’s a red flag.

Also, I’m finding the process of dating and talking to other men makes me miss him more than before.

Is this normal when you first start to date after a long time of being with the same man?

And also, how can I better ease into knowing what type of guy is right for me?

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