He Didn’t Tell Me He Had Kids Is That a Red Flag?

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Recently, I met a guy online. He chose not to disclose that he has children.

We talked twice on the phone and then went on a 90 minute coffee date.

I messaged him after the date and asked if he had kids. He didn’t reply straight away, so I found my answer on Facebook

He has 2 kids. He did eventually reply with the truth.

I’m angry that he did not share this with me on our date. I think he should have shared this—if not in his profile, then on the phone calls or at least on our first date!

It makes me question if i should go on a second date. We had agreed to meet again.

My friend thinks he owes me nothing—I didn’t ask him, so no harm done. I’m not so sure. He’s away this week but messaged me and asked if I want to talk. I didn’t want to talk when I’m mad at 11:30 at night!

Am I blowing things out of proportion? I know why he didn’t mention it, but I think it’s unfair of him.

Is this a red flag?