Do you want a divorce, a separation, or to repair the relationship?

I am a housewife and have been married for 40 years.
I am 60 years old and afraid to live on my own.

I am so unhappy in my marriage. My husband is a very negative person in every aspect of his life. Soon to be retired, he has been even more unpleasant as of late.
I love him, but I just can’t live with his anger and negativity anymore.